BlackMan Time http://www.blackmantime.com Cultural thoughts, opinions, views, issues Mon, 30 Aug 2010 16:23:33 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc Notting Hill Carnival Crime Wave? http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/BmtBlog/~3/UkgtuPTzQsI/notting-hill-carnival-crime-wave.htm http://www.blackmantime.com/notting-hill-carnival-crime-wave.htm#comments Mon, 30 Aug 2010 16:22:51 +0000 BlackMan http://www.blackmantime.com/?p=2858 It is bank Holiday Monday, August 30, 2010. It is the last of the major Bank Holidays before Christmas. It is also the traditional time for UK carnivals. Therefore, the question is simple…

The Notting Hill Carnival is Europe’s biggest festival and generates nearly £100 million pounds a year (nearly US$180 million). Yet, all the police authorities ever focus on when they think of it is the level of crime during the event. Why is this?

Generally, you never hear about the level of crime at other large British festivals such as Glastonbury, V2, Reading or even Isle of Wight. What is the deal here, really? Are they trying to tell us these events always go down without incident? Alternatively, are they really saying the Notting Hill Carnival is always full of incidents?

Maybe there is another explanation. Why do the police always release crime figures when referring to the event? Is it to create the impression in people’s minds that this particular event is prone to crime for some reason?

Of course, the difference between the Notting Hill Carnival and the others mentioned above is that the Notting Hill Carnival is organised by the west London’s Caribbean (read black) community.

Could this be the real reason why they also seem to focus on the crime figures?

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]]> http://www.blackmantime.com/notting-hill-carnival-crime-wave.htm/feed 0 http://www.blackmantime.com/notting-hill-carnival-crime-wave.htm Are You Black Conscious? http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/BmtBlog/~3/Hlwos6N8kZg/are-you-black-conscious.htm http://www.blackmantime.com/are-you-black-conscious.htm#comments Fri, 27 Aug 2010 15:58:50 +0000 BlackMan http://www.blackmantime.com/?p=2856 Someone asked me the other day if I was “black conscious”. My response to this question would normally be “yes”. On this occasion, however, I found myself pausing before giving my response…

On another day my answer would have been “yes, I am” to this question. However, this time, I stopped and thought deeper. I concluded that consciousness was more concerned with what is going on in the mind and, as such, was unconnected to one’s colour.

Now, since the mind did not itself carry a colour, except for what you pour into it culturally, naturally and logistically through your life experiences, my eventual answer made sense. “I’m not black conscious,” I answered. “I’m just…conscious.”

The response surprised even me. I knew that the purpose of the question was to find out whether I was aware of the particular set of issues facing people of African descent in society, which I was. Nevertheless, rather than be led by someone else’s definition of black consciousness, I opted to play it cool.

My reason, I guess, was that being generally conscious spans a wider space than just being “black conscious”. In any case, as an African descended man living in an inherently racist environment means I am already aware of the issues as a black person.

It was academic, really…

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]]> http://www.blackmantime.com/are-you-black-conscious.htm/feed 0 http://www.blackmantime.com/are-you-black-conscious.htm Hitler’s DNA Nonsense http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/BmtBlog/~3/25rvvyx3giQ/hitlers-dna-nonsense.htm http://www.blackmantime.com/hitlers-dna-nonsense.htm#comments Thu, 26 Aug 2010 09:52:29 +0000 BlackMan http://www.blackmantime.com/?p=2853 Very often a story grabs you by the throat with the veracity of its own crassness, that you simply cannot ignore it no matter how hard you try. The Daily Mail’s “Hitler Likely Had Jewish and/or African Roots” is one such bete noire.

I studied 20th century history…actually, let me rephrase that. I had 20th century foistered onto me as a curriculum during my secondary school years. And that was a miseducation in looking at the lives and works of European people like Hitler. I never learnt then that he was of Jewish/African roots. In fact he was awfully white to me. I never learnt any West Indian/ Caribbean history, but that is a different story I’ll take a another time…

So, why is this information suddenly being peddled as “new” after journalist Jean-Paul Mulders and historian Marc Vermeeren used DNA to trace 39 of the Nazi leader’s relatives and made the conclusion they did? Why, indeed, has this happened in the Barack Obama, black man as presidential years?

The thing which has convinced the historians they’re onto a good thing is the rare finding of a chromosome called “Haplogroup E1b1b,” or Y-DNA, in Hitler’s relatives’ saliva samples. This, apparently, is very rare in Germany, as well as Western Europe. But is this sufficient evidence to make the bold statement that Hitler was black?

Someone is making mischief here and the right wing newsprint the Daily Mail is carrying their message. It used to be that no white person would openly acknowledge they too descended from Africa, the place where all humans descended. Now, it seems to me, this knowledge is being used to make whatever negative assertion and that suits the interest of the powers-that-be.

Who knows perhaps they’re working up to Musolini was black with the names of other prominent European dictators thrown in for good measure.

PHOTO: DNA shows Adolf Hitler likely to have had Jewish or African roots, reports Daily Mail. Photographer: Keystone/Getty Images.

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]]> http://www.blackmantime.com/hitlers-dna-nonsense.htm/feed 0 http://www.blackmantime.com/hitlers-dna-nonsense.htm My Cheating Partner! http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/BmtBlog/~3/6JJ35vf2Qrs/my-cheating-partner.htm http://www.blackmantime.com/my-cheating-partner.htm#comments Sat, 05 Dec 2009 19:22:26 +0000 BlackMan http://www.blackmantime.com/?p=2848 The Tiger Woods story has spawned a huge number of discussions about infidelity and the reason why people in relationships cheat. The topic has basically split the sexes with men saying women cheat just as men and women saying men are serial cheaters. It is a veritable battle! Maybe this is why they call relationships between man and woman “battle of the sexes”.

Some people do not need a reason to cheat: they will cheat any time the opportunity arise. The temptations are always going to come and the weak, most humans, will succumb if not be tempted by it.

Relationships that aren’t strong enough or where the foundations are already shaky, are most vulnerable to crumble. It is irrelevant whose fault it is, man or woman because when one unite in marriage or such like it’s no longer two people anymore: it is just a oneness. Thus if one person in this union has strayed then the entire relationship is failing.

It is commonly assumed that love can sustain a relationship and prevent people from straying or looking outside for extra-curricular pleasure.

But human beings come with built-in failings like lust, gluttony, greed, sloth, wrath, envy, pride and vanity which makes them forever susceptible to temptation. Is it any wonder many people remain rather than risk a cheating partner in marriage?

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]]> http://www.blackmantime.com/my-cheating-partner.htm/feed 0 http://www.blackmantime.com/my-cheating-partner.htm Tanking The Tiger! http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/BmtBlog/~3/RJPnlkVEV-Y/tanking-the-tiger.htm http://www.blackmantime.com/tanking-the-tiger.htm#comments Fri, 04 Dec 2009 12:44:32 +0000 BlackMan http://www.blackmantime.com/?p=2846 Everybody’s got an opinion on the Tiger Woods story. Women are angry that yet another proof that men are no good has been uncovered and are pouring over evidence that the world’s greatest golfer has apparently been caught cheating on his wife. What you expect from a man called ‘Tiger Wood’, they say…

Men are surprised that Tiger, whose real name is actually Eldrick Tont Woods, has been caught out like that. He was nicknamed “Tiger” after Vuong Dang Phong, a Vietnamese soldier who was a good friend of his father. They’re sad for him (that he got caught) but shoot him an admiring “way to go Tiger!” from the other side of their face. But, is this really the way to go?

The controversy has split the sexes. Among the big debates I’ve heard within the media and happening in the corridors and restaurants of some work places my friends work at, are discussions about why men cheat on their wives or girlfriends. A couple friends have been more forthright and say all men cheat.

Women naturally siding with Tiger’s wife Elin who has remained silent but as an increasing number of women keep popping up to reveal details of their alleged affairs with the world’s most successful athlete, you wonder if their marriage will be strong enough to cope.

Why do you think men cheat on their wives and/or vice versa?

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]]> http://www.blackmantime.com/tanking-the-tiger.htm/feed 0 http://www.blackmantime.com/tanking-the-tiger.htm Your Guide To Loving Me! http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/BmtBlog/~3/RGOvc9s6SzU/your-guide-to-loving-me.htm http://www.blackmantime.com/your-guide-to-loving-me.htm#comments Mon, 16 Nov 2009 09:22:33 +0000 BlackMan http://www.blackmantime.com/?p=2842 I’ve been asked the question: “what do you like in a woman?” so many times that I thought I’d just put these thoughts down and see what happens. Unfortunately, I do not have a menu or list of requirements.

Things like big house, posh car, bags of money, fame, etc., are just material things. I tend to know more what could be a problem for me but if I like someone enough I’m willing to make the necessary sacrifice to make it work.

I like women who have the humility to understand that you don’t need to win every battle that it’s OK to hold your tongue or action if that’s required to make peace reign in a relationship.

I also love women who understand that a man will sometimes make mistakes or fail to interpret their actions and when he does he deserves another chance and/or respect for his ignorance. He should not to be castigated or thrown away with the bath water just because he didn’t “get you” at the first attempt.

Children

Women who already have children but yet find themselves single sometimes worry if they’ll find someone who will love both them and their offsprings. If a person truly love you then they’ll learn to love even your dog (and cat!) under the cellar or that relationship stands no chance of starting let alone surviving.

A woman who is brave enough to tell me exactly what she wants from me scores the biggest because many seem to think they should keep this piece of information in some darkened place where no man can see it. I once asked a woman to show me how to love her and she replied: “That’s not my place to tell you that. You should just know.”

Even if this was the case a little help would not hurt at all! Having grown up listening to music where the singer croons things like: “show me where to hold and touch you cos when it comes to loving I’m alright” I thought it was universally understood that we can and should teach each other about ourselves. After all we know ourselves better than anyone else.

But maybe some people see love as a kind of puzzle that you have to unravel piece by piece, clue by clue, until you finally stumble onto the solution. Why should it be this way? I just think we should learn to trust someone enough to be open with them or just leave them alone because it maybe that you’re just not ready to start a relationship with anyone. Or, at the very least, not with that person.

Emotional Slaughter

Some people fear or hate being alone and feel they’ve got to have a relationship by any means necessary yet have not moved on emotionally or sufficiently from their last one (or few!) relationships. This is so unfair on any new prospective partners because you are almost certainly tainting any new relationship with the negative chi of the past one(s).

A person who constantly talks about a past relationship in glowing terms or even tells you that “my ex was the best relationship I’ve ever had” just doesn’t realise what psychological damage they’re doing to a prospective relationship by putting pressure on a new one. If that ex was so great why is s/he an ex? I’m sure there’s more to be said on this topic but I’ll save it for another time. Or just click here to ask me directly.

In the end I dont have all the answers and I’m just a man willing to learn from my mistakes and the example of others. I don’t venture into relationships very easily and I try to be honest when I do.

I try not to play games with people’s emotions and tend to lay my cards out on the table once a relationship has reached a certain point where this will be respected. All anyone can ask or expect is the same courtesy to be shown and given.

Is this too much to ask?

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]]> http://www.blackmantime.com/your-guide-to-loving-me.htm/feed 0 http://www.blackmantime.com/your-guide-to-loving-me.htm Chasing A Moving Target http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/BmtBlog/~3/MH1TCsjDj4Q/chasing-a-moving-target.htm http://www.blackmantime.com/chasing-a-moving-target.htm#comments Wed, 28 Oct 2009 07:56:12 +0000 BlackMan http://www.blackmantime.com/?p=2840 Don’t you just love it in the movies when a couple splits up in a scene where the woman tearfully walks away from the man after saying dialogue such as: “I love you but…you’ve upset me. And now I must go. Goodbye and don’t try to stop me…”

He initially tries feably to stop her but seeing how determined she is to leave, he just sighs resignedly in a gesture that says: “aw, well…” Then he turns and goes about his previous business, thinking about what just happened there…

Some time later he runs into the woman again. They strike up a conversation which is initially awkward but after a while they fall back into a groove.

At a key point he says what’s really on his mind: “Why did you run off like that?” She replies something likeo: “I just wanted to see if you would run after me.”

The question I’m asking is why do women manipulate situations like that? Why is it so important to test a man this way? What does the “run after me” part mean to a woman?

It just seem so unnecessary and pointless from a man’s perspective…

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The programme, chaired by Sir David Dimbleby had the panellists Jack Straw, MP; Baroness Warsi, Conservative peer; Bonnie Greer, playwright and Chris Huhne, the Liberal Democrat home affairs spokesman.

Maybe it’s just me but I think a failure to even consider having a black male panellist is part of the overrall institutional racism that has befallen us over the years. The BBC by this omission is really saying they don’t feel there’s any black man in Britain capable of engaging an obnoxious racist fool like Griffin when the reality is quite different.

Even I would’ve been happy to appear. My focussed anger with the fact that I was opposed to him being given the opportunity in the first place, would’ve proven far more potent than Greer’s meandering, multi-syllable intellectual dead-ended responses, for instance.

In the end it was a freak show and the biggest freak had his day. Or is it just me, a black man freaking out…

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]]> http://www.blackmantime.com/freaking-nazi-salute.htm/feed 0 http://www.blackmantime.com/freaking-nazi-salute.htm Birthed By People, Raised By The State! http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/BmtBlog/~3/uxcb1GSXfpc/birthed-by-people-raised-by-the-state.htm http://www.blackmantime.com/birthed-by-people-raised-by-the-state.htm#comments Thu, 22 Oct 2009 09:11:47 +0000 BlackMan http://www.blackmantime.com/?p=2825 Child abuse is not discipline: it is cruel. Discipline should be fair.Of late the state has been making noises about the need to get more involved in the welfare of children to the point where they’re making suggestions to do this even before any problem occur.

This chilling prospect reminds me of the film AI (Artificial Intelligence) which depicts a world where criminals are arrested long before a crime is committed.

For now the most hoopla is around whether parents have the right to beat or smack their kids and how much punishment is actually abuse, etc. The debate is raging.

There’s a place for discipline in any situation where order is expected but the manner in which the discipline is implemented (notice I didn’t say ‘enforced’) is telling.

Environment

Usually discipline is influenced by environmental culture in that the punishment should always fit the crime and punishment or the tools used to administer it should also be appropriate.

If a child deserves a beating I see no problem with that but one should exercise restraint. Dropping a used car on a child is obviously inappropriate; neither is caning a six month old child.

If discipline can be established and maintained by gentle prodding only then this would be best but gentle prodding may not be appropriate if the environment is harsh and the only form of punishment the child will respond to is rough justice.

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]]> http://www.blackmantime.com/birthed-by-people-raised-by-the-state.htm/feed 0 http://www.blackmantime.com/birthed-by-people-raised-by-the-state.htm I Hope The BNP Fall On Its Face http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/BmtBlog/~3/3MjxT1HiJSg/i-hope-the-bnp-fall-on-its-face.htm http://www.blackmantime.com/i-hope-the-bnp-fall-on-its-face.htm#comments Wed, 21 Oct 2009 09:28:25 +0000 BlackMan http://www.blackmantime.com/?p=2816 Is the BBC two-faced?Do you think it is illegal for a political party to exclude you from joining based on your colour, race, class, gender or sexual preference? You probably answer no, right? If you did then your view coincide with the opinions of other decent, law-abiding citizens.

It comes as a little two faced surprise, therefore, that one so-called political party have been able to get one candidate elected to the European parliament and bagged itself an appearance on the BBC flagship Question Time political programme in the process. That guilty party is the British National Party, an ultra right wing, racist outfit that openly preaches race hate towards non-white members of the population.

How did they get elected? And why is the BBC giving about to give to give them airtime under the proviso of equality of opportunities to media interest on their channel?

Call me scenical but the BNP’s appearance on the BBC is happening because someone wants it to happen. Someone, maybe even a group, wants the BNP black race-hating filth and Enoch Powell-like scaremongering propaganda to reach a mass audience. Only the BBC alone knows why it would want that.

My only hope is that during the programme the BNP will fall down on its face and knock out all its stinking, rotten teeth. And gums.

That would make my day.

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