This year is supposed to be another normal year for me but since I’m partnering with some awesome partners. And all if not all my partners are going to have great luck this coming dragon year. So I’ll be riding some of their luck too. I hope this will in a sense even out and bring more luck to me and my business.

There has been many incidents during the past year that gives me quite a number of headache to solve. But i just find them all to be trials and tribulations given to me by the higher powers and gods to test my resolve. I know I will still be having some during the course of my life. But I hope I have proven myself for the small initial part to get some rewards for myself. Gods have indeed gave me some light and direction to my life. For this, I’m really grateful of it.

So I have no regrets about what I did in the past. All I need is actually learn from any mistakes and not to do it again.

Well, I wish you will also have a prosperous and great dragon year ahead.

Well, I hope 2011 is a good year for you. For 2011, it is a rather eventful year for me. A lot of things happened during the past year in many aspects of my life. I must say that I’ve learned a lot of lessons in 2011, both in personal and work.

Personally, I’ve saw some really horrible situations with my loved ones. I’ve loved, being loved, hurt and being hurt by my loved ones. Though sometimes it’s very painful but I’m always at dilemma. Even though it’s very painful but I always give in to them. Well, sometimes I just tell myself that it’s life. Not all things are perfect in life. As I’ve just recently discovered from my friend’s experience. A girl said to him, “I hate you but I love you”. When the love deepens, if it turns out the other way round due to any uneventful experience, the deep love might just become deep hatred. This can sometimes turn into a tricky situation that is quite difficult to solve. To me, people problems are the hardest to solve. That’s what I learned in business too. Like what Chinese said ?????????

Well, anyway I feel 2012 is and will be a better year for me. I will be using what I’ve learned over the years to create a better 2012 for myself.

At that time, I was still very puzzled and clueless about what trading and investment is all about. Neither did I find myself that after 1 and half years later which is now, I’ve already traded Forex and came to love it.

It is a rather great market where great riches are born. But there are also some people who might lose it all… That was me when I first started trading. Emotions particularly Greed came over me and made me lose a lot of money. At this time, I stop and think and plan for my next step in life.

What should you do when you first lose money in trading? Well, I must say this is also a period whereby some of my friends also lost money. Sometimes I just wondered if all these are coincidence or not or it is just the market doing a correction to eliminate the weaker players in the market. The market just forces everyone to learn from its mistakes.

We humans love to make mistakes, make some more mistakes until it is unbearable before we start to learn from them. This is just what we call as we only learn through pain. If the pain level is very high, we will learn from these mistakes forever and never ever make them again.

Forex is almost like the Fast and Furious movie. Sometimes, it can be so adrenaline rushing when you entered and your profits increase in just minutes. Or the other way round though.

So that my kind of view on Forex, maybe it will change in the future.

Ever since leaving to handle full-time on my own business, I had new breakthroughs in terms of personal as well as business and career aspects. I had started to know more people and also new network of people who are genuine in person and they also want to help me.

However, I am still handling and learning my lesson from my financial decisions. It was really a hard lesson to learn and there’s no one to lament to. Well, actually I don’t really like to lament but to some degree I had to because of the pent up stress in me.

Yesterday, when I was taking a bus back to my office and I saw one uncle and his grandson taking the bus together. His grandson sat beside me initially then moved to sit beside his grandfather. He looks so innocent and when he called out to his grandfather as “Gong Gong”, I just felt a tinge of sadness in my heart. I’m not exactly sure about what exactly triggers this but immediately tears welled up in my eyes. Till now I’m still not sure about what’s the trigger point for me. Maybe they are just too innocent to know how exactly this world is like. For children, everything is so much fun for them.

We adults sometimes think a little too much on what we actually have to do and we care too much on what the others think and look at us. All these things actually doesn’t matter much for anyone. I’ve slowly started to let go of all these but it’s an arduous process. These things will make a person happy but more often than not, it will make the person sad because we tend to look at the negative part of our life and make comparisons.

Well, I’m not exactly sure if all these make sense to even you but right now, I’m writing this on a Saturday afternoon in my office. Sometimes, I just think that whether should I still stay on this journey to success, happiness, wealth and health. Because sometimes when all the obstacles come all at once, I will be overwhelmed and the thought of giving up will float behind my mind. As this was a long journey since I started out during when I’m 19 years old. But I still haven’t achieve a certain level of success.

Sometimes I just need a short break for myself. Heard that looking at the sea has a calming effect. Maybe I should head down to the east coast tomorrow.

You take care too, my readers! :)

Cya again!

It’s been quite some time after Chinese New Year that I’m back into writing my blog post.

Sickness have been plaguing me ever since before CNY then after CNY, I recovered. Then now, I’m sick again… It’s such an awful feeling that I’m wondering if I’m really stressed out over work recently.

Well, stress is everywhere. It’s not just whether you can take it or not. Your mental state and physical body will also have to take it too. Else your body will break down and fall sick.

Recently, I’ve been working in a different area. Yes, I found that life is full of ups and downs but still I find life quite interesting for the time being. Because I’m still discovering what I love. There was many considerations in the first place but as time goes by, it seems clearer and clearer to me.

I really want to thank my friend, partner – Jack Lan (http://www.lanzijun.com) for opening up such a great opportunity for me. Thank you Jack! =)

Now I know why in the last 5 years, what I was preparing for. It’s really such an interesting thought that everything seems to fall into place.

If you have no clue about what I’m talking about. It’s okay.

All I can say now is that my life is progressing to a different stage and I want to thank whoever is up there who’s watching over me. Thank you!

Sometimes, life’s miracles are created over time with hard, enduring effort and not just pure luck as most people will see it.

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It’s already the new year. Where and what did you do for the past 2009? Has it been a fruitful year for you?

Well, for some of you who would like to view their own life as it is. Whether you have done any accomplishments or not, it doesn’t really matter because you just want to enjoy life to the fullest. That’s me in 2009. But I just can’t take it anymore because whenever I think back to my past years, it’s been disappointing for me. I’m not sure if it’s me who always want to nitpick my own life. Damn..sometimes it is just so frustrating but then sometimes I’m just being so anal about it.. haha.. so contradicting..

When I think about this, I would like bang my head against the wall. I’m not too sure if you will also feel like this sometimes. Well, that’s for 2009. Hmph! 2010 will be a different one for me altogether. I realized that there’s ain’t much time left. I’m reaching my 30s soon.. that’s not good… :(

So I commit to myself and you (whoever you are who’s reading my blog THANK YOU FOR READING :D) that I will be striving hard for my goals in 2010. No more distractions, there’s only my career and business to think about. As for other aspects of life such as relationship, family, social, mental and spiritual, they will still be improved but they are not my main focus. My main focus is still to make my first pot of gold.

Now that I’ve stated my own goals. What I’ll be doing next is I will be stating them in specifics so that I can be reminded of them whenever I blogged. Plus, you can also put in words of encouragement for me too. :)

Thank you to you and all those who had read my blog in 2009. I really appreciate your readership. Please comment more so that I will know what to improve on.

Thank you once again.

So here are some of the archaeologist’s photos.

But then I went for a networking session at Liang Court, Tampopo restaurant. Though the food was so so even though it was famous for its black pork ramen, we were served the normal teriyaki chicken. But I get brush up my networking skills as we’re supposed to mix around given the limited time. I got to know quite a number of people there. As I find it fun to interact with new people, I really find that most of the professions are accountants though. So after the event ended, me and some new found friends went to TCC for some light drinks.

After that, I went over to St Regis to join Zoe and the rest of the guys. Almost more than half of them are already drunk.. then they started to ask me to drink but I din really drink a lot as was previous year.

So my Xmas ended when Luis send me back home.

Cognitive psychologists believe that it is our thoughts, and not external events, that determine our moods – it is how we respond to what happens, rather than what happens itself, that determines how we feel. If something can be changed, change it. If it cannot be changed, then change the way you look at it. And we can learn to do this first by noticing our negative thoughts and substituting them with more useful and positive ones. By looking on the bright side of life we can create success, happiness and a healthier mind and body.

Ok, i know it sounds damn common sense but hey, i have friends everyday complaining about this, complaining about that, its either money not enough, boy friend not good enough, life not happening enough, it can be anything…

So people, if you have these kind of people around you, tell them to stop complaining and start to do something about it at this very moment.

My favorite tag of the day ” Life Is Too Short to be Ordinary”. I am on my way to experience life in my own way, are you?