Comments on: Blog https://www.bullyfreeatwork.com Helping You Cope With and Stop Workplace Bullying Tue, 26 Feb 2019 13:14:36 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.0.3 By: Counseling Corner: 50 Best Blogs on Bullying » https://www.bullyfreeatwork.com/blog/comment-page-1/#comment-14212 Tue, 14 Aug 2018 18:52:13 +0000 http://nycdesignstudios.com/clients/wp/bullyfreeatwork/?page_id=2124#comment-14212 […] Bully Free at Work Valerie Cade’s desire is to give you the very best tools and strategies to regain the confidence and respect that you deserve. An expert on workplace bullying, she has a book of the same name and tons of wisdom and advice to be found on her blog. One of the most recent entries was on setting bully boundaries. […]

]]> By: Rene https://www.bullyfreeatwork.com/blog/comment-page-1/#comment-4026 Tue, 17 May 2016 11:45:54 +0000 http://nycdesignstudios.com/clients/wp/bullyfreeatwork/?page_id=2124#comment-4026 I think often times people bully me because of all the wonderful things and talents that I have I have a very aggressive mean girl adult bully she has attacked me made me lose my job interfered with my relationships she has took my car she has just went to great links to torture and torment and pick on me I get so depressed I don’t even want to get out of bed I often seek God pray to him ask him to help me and fill that void and that hurt take it away I am praying for you I am hoping that you will look in the mirror and see how much of a wonderful beautiful person you are and that those things will help you to understand why so many are jealous of you have a wonderful day and continue to be you that’s what’s in committing others

]]> By: Christina https://www.bullyfreeatwork.com/blog/comment-page-1/#comment-4008 Sun, 27 Mar 2016 23:57:08 +0000 http://nycdesignstudios.com/clients/wp/bullyfreeatwork/?page_id=2124#comment-4008 Focus on your self. Keep your work life separate from your professional. Just do it. What happens sucks but it is good you found out before you disclose too much personal information. I continue to trust people at work as well and unfortunately it’s best to just keep it business and develop friends outside of work. Sometimes you can make a few exceptions but even then the last you say about your personal life the better. Keep in mind that when someone throw someone under the bus that person doesn’t really look good to other people and their actions kind of speak for themselves. Best of luck take the high road and hold your head high.

]]> By: Bully Free at Work: Valerie Cade https://www.bullyfreeatwork.com/blog/comment-page-1/#comment-3986 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 17:14:46 +0000 http://nycdesignstudios.com/clients/wp/bullyfreeatwork/?page_id=2124#comment-3986 Oh wow, I am so sorry – these things can sure paint the day in a different color. As I become more aware, my mantra has now become: it says a lot more about them than me. Of course, one can still feel hurt by being ignored but you can maybe look back and truly ask yourself if you did anything wrong. Is there a reason she might have been angry? I’m not justifying the behaviour in any way – people tend to choose awful behaviours in order to express their frustrations, needs and un-met expectations don’t they. My advice is to be friendly, firm but not familiar with these folks on an emotional level (for now) and to press in with some folks where you do have a connection – maybe outside of work for now. It doesn’t take away all the pain, but knowing “someone” is in your corner can help one get through the day.

]]> By: Haley https://www.bullyfreeatwork.com/blog/comment-page-1/#comment-3984 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 02:37:36 +0000 http://nycdesignstudios.com/clients/wp/bullyfreeatwork/?page_id=2124#comment-3984 I had a horrible experience today that someone I trusted and looked up to belittled me in front of my coworkers. I needed to go to the doctors on short notice and she was angry. My boss wasn’t there so I needed to tell her. And she went on to talk about me to others behind my back and snickered with other coworkers. I feel so worthless and alone. My only friend at work won’t even associate with me. I hope this all blows over. But I’m documenting this situation. Also I have the flu, which is making the situation so much worse. I wish I could tell my boss but they are great friends and I doubt anything would happen. Need some advice…. Maybe some encouraging words… -unhappy girl

]]> By: isabelld https://www.bullyfreeatwork.com/blog/comment-page-1/#comment-3912 Sun, 04 Oct 2015 06:08:23 +0000 http://nycdesignstudios.com/clients/wp/bullyfreeatwork/?page_id=2124#comment-3912 I have been a victim for 5 years. Now I am mentally and physically ill. These types of people should be arrested. This should be a crime

]]> By: Why is the Bully Bullying at Work? Debunking Some Myths About Why People Bully | iChange https://www.bullyfreeatwork.com/blog/comment-page-1/#comment-3859 Wed, 15 Jul 2015 11:42:56 +0000 http://nycdesignstudios.com/clients/wp/bullyfreeatwork/?page_id=2124#comment-3859 […] Valerie Cade is a workplace bullying expert and author of Bully Free At Work. For more tips, articles, how-to’s, and podcasts, visit THE resource to stop workplace bullying […]

]]> By: A Subtle Form of Workplace Bullying – What is Passive Control? | TSK Blog https://www.bullyfreeatwork.com/blog/comment-page-1/#comment-3855 Tue, 07 Jul 2015 00:40:30 +0000 http://nycdesignstudios.com/clients/wp/bullyfreeatwork/?page_id=2124#comment-3855 […] Note: A single incident of any of the above examples is not considered workplace bullying. However, if the aforementioned actions are repeated and deliberate and specifically targeted towards you by one person or by a group of people, then you are experiencing workplace bullying […]

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]]> By: Bully At Work | Uniquesurveys.tk https://www.bullyfreeatwork.com/blog/comment-page-1/#comment-3742 Fri, 03 Apr 2015 05:55:03 +0000 http://nycdesignstudios.com/clients/wp/bullyfreeatwork/?page_id=2124#comment-3742 The bully is often not aware of the irony of their behavior. They perceive the target as a threat to themselves.

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