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2014-11-05T21:21:00.002-08:00

Importance of READING to your child:

Hello all,

I have been telling most of the parents to read stories to your child. Some of them parents just convey the lesson from the story, some read from the book without clearing the meaning of the words. Please read this article completely to know what exactly you need to convey and how it will benefit your children.

One of the best ways to help your child become readers is to read to them when they are young. When you read to your very young child you are stimulating electrical signals in the brain that the child will use later when learning to read. Reading to your child also plays an important role in language development.

Let us understand the difference in story telling and story reading. Only a few people can tell a story well or think they can. But almost any person can read to a tiny tot.

When your child hears a story being read, the language he hears is better as a rule, than when the story is told. Besides your child will hear exactly the same words, phrases and sentences repeatedly, when the story is read. This sameness is better for speech development and your little child likes it.

It also calms and quiets your child, fires your child's imagination and stimulates his creativity. Story reading not only broadens your child's knowledge but also given him much to talk and think about enriching his vocabulary. The child also learns to use the right words at the right place and context.

Reading regularly to your child sets new patterns of speech and lead to your child being good at spoken English later.

The pictures in the book attract your child's attention and it also helps the child connect what he hears, with the book.

This also cultivates tenderness towards a book in your child. Eventually your child who has been read stories to, will wish to read books himself. It has been observed that the child who has been read to very early, understands the meaning of words.

By reading stories to your child you cultivate a good habit of listening intently. This ability will be very useful to your child when he goes to school. Perhaps no other training will prove useful to your child as much as being read to constantly from very young age.

Reading to your young child not only gives your child happiness but it is very good for you as parent.

As a parents you need to remember that literacy is created by the emotional bond between a child a book and the person reading. It isn't achieved by the book alone or by the child alone, or by the adult who is reading to the child, it's a relationship between all three, which brings them together in harmony.

2014-11-04T01:34:00.001-08:00

Tips to Help Your Children Enjoy Sports

Although after-school sports are a fixture at most schools, recently collected data suggests that the number of children participating in sports is decreasing every year. Below are possible reasons for the downward trend and how you can inspire your children to enjoy sports.

The Verdict Is In

Many kids are moving away from organized sports. What are some reasons that you child might not be interested in playing a sport this season?

Too Much Pressure

Kids like to play with other kids and have fun. But the emphasis on the importance of winning is often paramount to any enjoyment they may get from participating in the sport itself. For parents who live vicariously through their kids, the weight can be crushing.
Negative Feedback

Every game played is something that your child can be proud of, regardless of whether or not their team wins. Constant negative feedback is not an incentive to keep playing your best – it’s a quick way to inspire stress, shame, and anxiety in your child’s approach to playing sports and staying active.
Exhaustion

Practices and games can be long and exhausting for children, especially after a long day at school. Running kids into the ground is detrimental to both their minds and their bodies. While it’s important to instill the practice of an active lifestyle in your kids, it’s also important to make sure that your kids live a balanced life.
Lack of Interest

Not all kids are cricket players or skaters or artists. Get to know your child and what sincerely interests them. Figuring out what sports and activities are truly enjoyable for them will help them to become more individualized and happy beings.

How To Help Your Kids Enjoy an Active Lifestyle

Here are some ways to gently coax your kids into lifelong enjoyment of group activities.

Pep Talk

Kids put a lot of pressure on themselves to perform. Ease their anxiety by encouraging them to always do their best but reminding them that winning isn’t the only thing that matters. Stress that they’re there to have fun and not to take themselves too seriously.
Positive Feedback

Support your kid whether they win or lose. Cheer for them and be positive about their game performance.
Practice Is Not Bootcamp

Talk to your child’s coach if you think they’re going overboard. While learning discipline and dedication through playing organized sports is perfectly acceptable, your kids are playing sports to be active and have fun. Your child should not be too tired to function regularly in school, do homework, spend time with family and friends, and do other fun activities. Nor should your child’s coach treat his players like they’re recruits.
Encourage Time Away

Sports take up a lot of time. Find ways throughout the week for your kids to do other things that they enjoy. The summertime is a particularly opportune time to introduce your kids to new activities that aren’t available during the school year.

Source: Childdevelopmentinfo

2014-11-03T21:27:00.000-08:00

Play is the work of the child:

Play activities are essential to healthy development for children and adolescents. Research shows that 75% of brain development occurs after birth. The activities engaged in by children both stimulate and influence the pattern of the connections made between the nerve cells. This process influences the development of fine and gross motor skills, language, socialization, personal awareness, emotional well-being, creativity, problem solving and learning ability.

The most important role that play can have is to help children to be active, make choices and practice actions to mastery. They should have experience with a wide variety of content (art, music, language, science, math, social relations) because each is important for the development of a complex and integrated brain. Play that links sensori-motor, cognitive, and social-emotional experiences provides an ideal setting from brain development.

According to Montessori, the essential dimensions of play are:

Voluntary, enjoyable, purposeful and spontaneous
Creativity expanded using problem solving skills, social skills, language skills and physical skills
Helps expand on new ideas
Helps the child to adapt socially
Helps to thwart emotional problems

If play is the work of the child, toys are the tools. Through toys, children learn about their world, themselves, and others. Toys teach children to:

Figure out how things work
Pick up new ideas
Build muscle control and strength
Use their imagination
Solve problems
Learn to cooperate with others

Play content should come from the child’s own imagination and experiences.

Unfortunately, the play experience for today’s child is often quite different from that of their parents.

With the ever expanding influence of electronic media including TV, videos, video games and the internet, child are spending much of their time being passively entertained by or minimally interacting by way of a keyboard or control pad with an electronic device.

Even today’s toys are more often structured by onboard computers that dictate the play experience. This robs children of unstructured play with other kids as well as individual playtime spent in creative play. Parents need to understand the play needs of their child and provide an environment to meet those needs.

Source: childdevelopmentinfo

2014-07-24T01:38:00.000-07:00

Encouraging Phrases to motivate your kids:

Do you ever feel like the only words that come out of your mouth are direct orders? “Empty the trash, be nice to your sister, quit jumping on the couch!!!” A big part of preventing bad behavior, however, is to provide encouraging words to reinforce good behavior when you see it.

And a quick “good job” doesn’t cut it—in fact, phrases like “good boy,” “you’re so smart!” and “you’re the best on your team!” are not considered encouraging words. Instead of focusing on positive internal qualities, they put the emphasis on outward praise, which does nothing to promote good behavior in the future.

True encouraging words focus on the deed, not the doer. It motivates a child from the inside to demonstrate similar positive behavior in the future, and to value things like hard work, improvement, teamwork and perseverance.

List of Encouraging Words and Phrases

Encouraging words can be as simple as, “Thanks for your help!” or “You really worked hard!” Here are a few more examples to try around your house:

Thank you for your help!
You should be proud of yourself!
Look at your improvement!
That “A” reflects a lot of hard work!
You worked really hard to get this room clean!
Thanks for helping set the table, that made a big difference.
I noticed you were really patient with your little brother.
What do you think about it?
You seem to really enjoy science.
Your hard work paid off!
That’s a tough one, but you’ll figure it out.
Look how far you’ve come!
I trust your judgment.
The time you’re putting into your homework is really paying off.
I love being with you.
You really put a smile on her face with your kind words!
That’s coming along nicely!
You really worked it out!
That’s a very good observation.
Thank you for your cooperation.
I see a very thorough job!
That’s what we call perseverance!
I can tell you really care.
You make it look easy!
You’ve really got the hang of it!
I can tell you spent a lot of time thinking this through.
I really feel like a team when we work like this!

The best part about using encouraging words with your kids is the glow of happiness you’ll see on their faces. After all, “Your hard work is really paying off!” says you noticed their work, while, “You’re so smart,” might be hard to live up to next time. Try a few of these encouraging words with your kids, and watch their behavior—and effort—improve.

Source: Positiveparenting.

2014-07-21T06:09:00.001-07:00

Hello Everyone,
Hope you all are doing great. Its quiet a long time I blogged. Recently so many parents are complaining me about their kids social interaction. Even I am observing so many of my students, who got very good academic skills are lacking social behavior. They don't want to mingle with other kids much, they don't want to play much. I am so concerned about them so here by I am giving some tips to all the parents from my research.

Tips to build Young child's Social Skills:

Source: wikihow.com

Some children behave just the way you want them to, some just the opposite. As a parent, you should understand that children are like a piece of clean and white cloth. It is your job and responsibility to give it some color. Another way of saying this, children are innocent and you are the ones who are responsible to shape, teach and guide them to become good people in the future. You should give them proper guidance when they are still young.
1. Give your child some light chores to do. Children can already understand some instructions, as early as when they are 2 or 3 years of age. Giving a little work to do will make him or her learn to obey and follow instructions. Remember, this is not to make your child feel tired or sad. It is good for your child when he or she starts learning to know that helping out is a good thing to do. Example of a chore: ask your child to help tidy up the mess he or she made while playing.

2. Reward your child with positive praises. Tell them that they have done a good job afterward. Say words like Good, or Brilliant after they have done what you ask them to do. This will make them feel appreciated and acknowledged after they have done something good. Always try to avoid negative words. If your child fails to do something, tell him or her that it is okay and that he can do better next time. Always remember to avoid negative remarks.

3. Encourage good habits of saying thank you and sorry. Always say “Please” and “Thank You” where necessary. Another phrase is "I’m sorry" when he or she does something wrong. If you always practice this yourself, your child will imitate these habits. They will learn to copy what we do to them and what we do among ourselves as adults. Establishing a connection between their apology and the reason they are apologizing also helps build empathy, which is vital in good communication and interaction. You can do this by bringing their attention to the subject of their apology. You can tell them: "Do you see how sad you made your friend feel?" instead of just "Say sorry."

4. Talk to them and get them to talk back. Get them to say what they feel about anything. Have them confide their feelings about anything, by observing their reactions to the world around them and letting them know that you are open to their thoughts and feelings on any subject. They will learn to express themselves better. This practice is very good because you do not want them to keep their frustrations to themselves. This way, as an adult, you can learn to understand and handle your children better.

5. Get your child to play with other children. This is a way to break their anxiety and nervousness around people. Start with small groups. Your child will also learn to share things among friends. He/she will learn to understand that sharing is a good value and children can only understand and appreciate it with other friends.

2013-07-18T02:00:00.000-07:00

3 Strategies To Help Kids Follow Spoken Directions

Kids frequently misunderstands oral directions. There are many children who have this issue. The underlying cause can be difficult to figure out. Consider what has to happen in his/her brain when he/she hears, “baby, would you please get the plates and silverware out, and put them on the table?” He has to first hear the words that are spoken, process the words in his brain, understand the meaning of the words, and then finally determine whether he needs to take an action.

Assume that your baby is paying attention and hears the words correctly (meaning his ears work fine and he does not have an ear infection preventing him from hearing). Does he know what you mean by “plates and silverware”? Does that mean the good china normally reserved for company? Could it mean paper plates left over from the picnic? Or maybe it’s the everyday dishes. Some children process this information within seconds, while others take much longer. He might never even get to the silverware options! If baby looks at you like he doesn’t understand your request, he may be processing all the options and trying to decide which makes the most sense. Often, we as parents see that he is not taking an action and immediately start giving him more directions which adds to his confusion.

If this scenario is familiar to you, here are some things you might try.

Give fewer instructions at one time. “Baby, would you get the plates down?” Then wait long enough for him to figure out which plates you are talking about before making the next request.
Speak more slowly so that your kid does not have to process quite so quickly.
Teach your kid how to ask for help when he doesn’t understand you. Have him practice saying, “Mom, I am not sure what you are asking me to do. Can you help me?”

If children have a history of never understanding what others are telling them, they often give up. They quit trying. With these simple suggestions, they begin to regain confidence in their ability to understand what they are being asked to do.

Courtesy: schoolfamily.com

Let your kids be bored sometimes

2013-07-03T06:52:00.001-07:00

"Mommy"

"Yes, dear."

"I'm bo-ored"

"That's nice"

*Insert pout face here*

"Well why don't you do something about it.

I'm not going to fix it for you."

At this point they walk away... and 5 minutes later they are happily playing.

Quote from Slow Family Living: Boredom; the Gateway to New Ideas

I hear all the time of parents that are afraid to let their kids get bored. They're afraid they may cause trouble, become a couch potato, or any number of "bad" things. So, they fill their kids' days with lessons, enriching activities, or just flat out entertain them all day long. It sounds exhausting and it is exhausting. Truthfully, I can't really blame any of us parents for trying. Because that's what we're doing... we're trying. Trying to give our kids wonderful experiences. Trying to make sure we give our kids plenty of quality parent time. All of that is good. But, what we're forgetting is to let them be bored.

Let them be bored. You'll be amazed at what they will create. My girls have made an elaborate dinosaur nest complete with Barbie babysitter, and they played with it for hours. They've become superheroes, mermaids, and princesses. The stories they create are amazing. Sometimes they'll just work puzzles, color, or look at books. But, they came up with the idea on their own. I didn't tell them what to do. As I was writing this post, my girls took all their little Lego people on a camping trip, complete with lots of giggles and extreme Lego sports. We were happily coexisting that afternoon. I had pen to notebook and they had their imaginations.

The dinosaur nest with Barbie babysitter

Let them be bored. I'm not telling you to stop playing with your kids or to ignore them for hours at a time. I certainly don't do that. What I am telling you to do is to give them some down time. Don't constantly entertain them. Give them the opportunity to figure out what entertains them. Let them use their imagination. Let them make up stories or elaborate play scenes. Let them race their Matchbox cars down your banister and see what happens. Let them have fun and let them be bored. Let them figure it out for themselves. Do it while they're still children because teenagers who haven't learned to entertain themselves WILL become couch potatoes.

I want to hear from you. Do you let your children be bored? Do you feel it's important? Why or why not?

Courtesy: www.creativefamilyfun.net

PLAY

2013-07-02T03:43:00.000-07:00

"Through Play, Children learn about the world and

engage in activities that encourage their cognitive,

emotional and social development"

-Dr. David Elkind from his book, "The Power of Play: How Spontaneous, Imaginative Activities Lead to Happier and Healthier Children

Tips for teaching Left handed children to write

2013-07-02T03:16:00.002-07:00

courtesy: Mama OT
http://mamaot.com/2013/06/30/tips-for-teaching-lefties-to-write/

Don't give kids always what they want but ensure that your kids are getting what they need

2013-06-29T02:46:00.000-07:00

Today I read this wonderful article from @drdavewalsh...
Have a look at it for the parenting tips.
http://drdavewalsh.com/posts/ask/154

2013-06-26T09:27:00.000-07:00

Hello Everyone,

Here are the pics of Bunny Sunny School

2013-06-13T22:48:00.001-07:00

Bunny Sunny introduces Montessori preschool for
Play Group
Nursery/ Montessori 1
LKG/ Montessori 2
UKG/ Montessori 3
in Padmanabhpur, Durg.

2013-05-16T01:20:00.003-07:00

Hello Everyone,

BunnySunny is coming up with a preschool of International Standards in Durg, C.G. Introducing Montessori Education for the first time in Durg. Come join your kids and let them have lots of fun while learning and playing.