What to do with his belongings?

Sat, 27 Jun 2009 01:15:39 -0500

I had posted this in a reply it was in a 2008 thread hopefully this is the correct place to post.

we seperated august 2008(he lived there we have a child together were never married)

he was taken out of the rental aggreement same time. his stuff is still in my storage which is included in my rent. last contact I had with him was june 3rd he wanted to arrange a time to pick up his belongings and I havent heard back from him. I called and his cellphone was disconnected.last known address is at the homeless shelter, he does not have a job I do not know where nor how to contact him. are there any forms that can help me out I reside in California and would like his stuff out of my storage space. the landlord had said it is between me and him and I was told by the police to contact a civil lawyer which I can not afford. if I were to send a registered letter stating he has 21 days to remove his property from the storage units would that stand in court?

the last known address is at the homeless shelter.

Thanks!

Fri, 26 Jun 2009 09:03:45 -0500

I just received my stbx's proposed marital settlement proposal.

support received and his second income

Wed, 24 Jun 2009 20:00:52 -0500

My stbx has a FT job and he does consulting on the side, has been for years. Since he filed for divorce he claimes he will no longer be putting in much time, if at all, as a consultant. He refuses to provide discovery documentation, only states partial information. I have subpoena'd financial information which shows he has continued to earn income from consulting (in roughly same amounts).

Temporary spousal and child support was based on his FT salary only. After much pursuit of proof of income/debt, my lawyer now says that income above and beyond FT is not usually considered in matters of support. However, if I work overtime I risk losing some support.

Can someone offer a second opinion? My lawyer is tired of me asking for discovery of stbx and won't persue asking the court to impose deadline.

Also, he has successfully petitioned the court to bifurcate the marriage. If he hadn't been forthcoming before, he certainly loses that incentive now. His lawyer has a financial background ...

Thanks a bunch!

Abandonment divorce, How to proceed

Mon, 29 Jun 2009 10:03:08 -0500

Does anyone in California have experience with divorce based on abandonment and if so how was it resolved and in what type of time frame? Are there any legal loop holes that you encountered?

I WANT HIM OUT OF MY LIFE!!!

Tue, 16 Jun 2009 21:12:48 -0500

He's evading service of the divorce papers, what is my next step. I need him out of my life and he is making it as hard as possible. I'm working with ver little money for this.

Help me escape....he won't stop

Mon, 29 Jun 2009 12:04:56 -0500

I am wife #4 and I can't escape. As a widower with small children my hubsand targeted me and my late hubands life insurance monies. The courts have failed terribly. its four years of legal battles. I have offtered him everything. I have lost everything financially. I said I would walk with his debt give him the equity and our daughter. I just want out. he won't settle. He wants more. He has his extremely wealthy girl friend #5 suing me. He is starting another suit claiming fraud. He is a sociopath and won't let go. I have been dropped by lawyers ...he comes across so smooth and "such a nice guy". I can't find legal aid. I just want to escape. Help.

16 year old doesn't want to go to dads house for summer

Tue, 07 Jul 2009 23:56:38 -0500

I have a 16 year old daughter and she is in AZ for summer vacation right now. She is coming home in a few days for only a 2 day visit. That's all dad will let her stay for. She is telling me that she is REFUSING to go back to his house. He says mean things about me and she is very uncomfortable at his house. I live in CA and he is in AZ. I do think she should go to see him, but not for as long. Anything I can do?