<!doctype html>
<html lang="en">
<head>
  <meta charset="utf-8">
  <meta name="viewport" content="width=device-width, initial-scale=1">

  
  <link rel="icon" href="/favicon.ico" sizes="any">
  <link rel="icon" type="image/svg+xml" href="/favicon.svg">
  <link rel="icon" type="image/png" sizes="32x32" href="/favicon-32x32.png">
  <link rel="icon" type="image/png" sizes="16x16" href="/favicon-16x16.png">
  <link rel="apple-touch-icon" href="/apple-touch-icon.png">

  
  
  <script async src="https://www.googletagmanager.com/gtag/js?id=G-0MXRP209F4"></script>
  <script>
    window.dataLayer = window.dataLayer || [];
    function gtag(){dataLayer.push(arguments);}
    gtag('js', new Date());
    gtag('config', 'G-0MXRP209F4');
  </script>
  

  
  <title>Jeff Wiener | The Kickass Entrepreneur</title>
  <meta name="description" content="I spent 27 years building a company, sold it, and found out nobody warns you about what comes next.">
  
  <link rel="canonical" href="https://thekickassentrepreneur.com/">

  <meta property="og:title" content="Jeff Wiener | The Kickass Entrepreneur">
  <meta property="og:description" content="I spent 27 years building a company, sold it, and found out nobody warns you about what comes next.">
  <meta property="og:type" content="website">
  <meta property="og:url" content="https://thekickassentrepreneur.com/">
  <meta property="og:image" content="https://thekickassentrepreneur.com/static/img/jeff-portrait.webp">

  <meta name="twitter:card" content="summary_large_image">
  <meta name="twitter:title" content="Jeff Wiener | The Kickass Entrepreneur">
  <meta name="twitter:description" content="I spent 27 years building a company, sold it, and found out nobody warns you about what comes next.">
  <meta name="twitter:image" content="https://thekickassentrepreneur.com/static/img/jeff-portrait.webp">

  
  <script type="application/ld+json">{"@context":"https://schema.org","@graph":[{"@id":"https://thekickassentrepreneur.com/#jeff-wiener","@type":"Person","name":"Jeff Wiener","alternateName":"Jeffrey Wiener","url":"https://thekickassentrepreneur.com/about/","jobTitle":"Founder","description":"Founded a Toronto telecommunications company in 1991 and ran it for 27 years before selling to a private equity firm in 2017. Writes about building, running, and selling companies, and about what comes after.","sameAs":["https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffwiener1/","https://www.amazon.ca/stores/author/B07DCX7QGD","https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B07DCX7QGD","https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/18067804.Jeff_Wiener"],"subjectOf":[{"@type":"Article","url":"https://flippa.com/blog/jeff-wiener-profile-story-entrepreneurial-success-post-retirement/","publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Flippa"}},{"@type":"Article","url":"https://www.newswire.ca/news-releases/digitcom-announces-release-of-hosted-pbx-platform-511793471.html","publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"CNW Group"}}],"founder":{"@id":"https://thekickassentrepreneur.com/#ice-network"}},{"@id":"https://thekickassentrepreneur.com/#ice-network","@type":"Organization","name":"The ICE Network","url":"https://www.theicenetwork.net/","description":"A private community for entrepreneurs who have sold or are selling their companies, founded in 2020.","founder":{"@id":"https://thekickassentrepreneur.com/#jeff-wiener"}},{"@id":"https://thekickassentrepreneur.com/#organization","@type":"Organization","name":"The Kickass Entrepreneur","url":"https://thekickassentrepreneur.com/","founder":{"@id":"https://thekickassentrepreneur.com/#jeff-wiener"},"logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","url":"https://thekickassentrepreneur.com/static/img/logo_horizontal.svg"}},{"@id":"https://thekickassentrepreneur.com/#website","@type":"WebSite","name":"The Kickass Entrepreneur","url":"https://thekickassentrepreneur.com/","publisher":{"@id":"https://thekickassentrepreneur.com/#organization"},"inLanguage":"en"}]}</script>
  

  
  <link rel="preload" href="/static/fonts/oswald.woff2" as="font" type="font/woff2" crossorigin>
  <link rel="stylesheet" href="/static/css/site.css?v=17">
  <style>
    :root {
      --navy: #1A2438;
      --red: #E23B34;
    }
  </style>
</head>
<body>
  <header class="site-header">
    <div class="wrap header-inner">
      <a class="brand" href="/" aria-label="The Kickass Entrepreneur">
        <img class="brand-logo" src="/static/img/logo_horizontal.svg" width="1362" height="100"
             alt="The Kickass Entrepreneur">
      </a>
      <nav class="main-nav">
        <a href="/writing/">Writing</a>
        <a href="/book/">Book</a>
        <a href="/podcast/">Podcast</a>
        <a href="/calculators/">Calculators</a>
        <a href="/about/">About</a>
      </nav>
      <button class="nav-toggle" aria-label="Menu" onclick="document.body.classList.toggle('nav-open')">☰</button>
    </div>
  </header>

  <main>
    
<div class="home">

  
  <section class="hero">
    <div>
      <p class="kicker">Yes, the blog is still called that. I named it before I knew better.</p>
      <h1>Getting what you want <span class="hl">doesn't</span> <span class="hl">stop the wanting.</span></h1>
      <p class="lede">I spent 27 years building a company, sold it, and found out nobody warns you about what comes next. Since then, I've watched peers who caught much bigger fish than I did go right back to chasing, most of them worse for it. A heart attack didn't end the chase. It just changed the questions. I'm writing it down, in case you're chasing something too.</p>
      <div class="sig">Jeff Wiener<span class="dot">.</span></div>
      <div class="hero-cta">
        <a class="hero-cta-btn" href="/life-after-selling-your-business/">Start the story &rarr;</a>
        <p class="hero-cta-note">Twelve chapters. Read in order. About an hour.</p>
      </div>
    </div>
    <div class="portrait-col">
      
      <img class="portrait" src="/static/img/jeff-portrait.webp" alt="Jeff Wiener" width="300" height="336" loading="eager">
      
      <p class="portrait-cap">Toronto · est. 1991, still figuring it out</p>
    </div>
  </section>

  <hr class="divider">

  
  <section class="start-here">
    <p class="eyebrow">Start here</p>
    <p class="intro-line arc-intro">It's one story. Read it in order.</p>
    <div class="filters" id="era-filters">
      <button type="button" class="era-btn active" data-era="all" style="--era:#1A2032">All</button>
      
      <button type="button" class="era-btn" data-era="build" style="--era:#8FB09A">The building years</button>
      
      <button type="button" class="era-btn" data-era="sale" style="--era:#8A8494">The sale</button>
      
      <button type="button" class="era-btn" data-era="back" style="--era:#C9A15E">Looking back</button>
      
      <button type="button" class="era-btn" data-era="now" style="--era:#E8836F">Now</button>
      
    </div>

    <div class="arc-home" id="sh-list">
      
        
        
        <article class="arc-lead item" data-era="sale" data-sh="1">
          <div class="meta">
            <span class="era" style="color:#615c6d"><span class="era-dot" style="background:#8A8494"></span>The sale</span>
            <span class="year">2017</span>
            <span class="arc-lead-ch">Chapter 1</span>
          </div>
          <h2 class="arc-lead-title"><a href="/life-after-selling-your-business/">The Day After Selling Your Business</a></h2>
          <p class="arc-lead-dek">Checking email every fifteen minutes for problems that no longer came. I wasn&#39;t waiting for a message. I was waiting for the feeling I&#39;d mistaken for purpose.</p>
        </article>
        
      
        
      
        
      
        
      
        
      
        
      
        
      
        
      
        
      
        
      
        
      
        
      

      <div class="arc-seq">
        
          
        
          
          <a class="arc-row item" data-era="build" data-sh="1" href="/full-story/">
            <span class="arc-row-num">02</span>
            <span class="arc-row-body">
              <span class="meta">
                <span class="era" style="color:#5f7d6a"><span class="era-dot" style="background:#8FB09A"></span>The building years</span>
                <span class="year">1991</span>
              </span>
              <span class="arc-row-title">Down to My Last Five Hundred Dollars</span>
              <span class="arc-row-dek">Six months in, five hundred dollars left, grad school applications open. Then, on a drive to the bus station, my girlfriend said: you know what you could try?</span>
            </span>
          </a>
          
        
          
          <a class="arc-row item" data-era="build" data-sh="1" href="/the-year-i-lost-sixty-percent/">
            <span class="arc-row-num">03</span>
            <span class="arc-row-body">
              <span class="meta">
                <span class="era" style="color:#5f7d6a"><span class="era-dot" style="background:#8FB09A"></span>The building years</span>
                <span class="year">2000</span>
              </span>
              <span class="arc-row-title">The Year I Lost Sixty Percent</span>
              <span class="arc-row-dek">A bull market I mistook for skill. The crash took sixty percent and a company I loved, in the same year.</span>
            </span>
          </a>
          
        
          
          <a class="arc-row item" data-era="build" data-sh="1" href="/the-week-the-bank-pulled-my-loan/">
            <span class="arc-row-num">04</span>
            <span class="arc-row-body">
              <span class="meta">
                <span class="era" style="color:#5f7d6a"><span class="era-dot" style="background:#8FB09A"></span>The building years</span>
                <span class="year">2008</span>
              </span>
              <span class="arc-row-title">The Week the Bank Pulled My Loan</span>
              <span class="arc-row-dek">Lehman fell on a Monday. My financing vanished the same day. I bought the building anyway.</span>
            </span>
          </a>
          
        
          
          <a class="arc-row item" data-era="build" data-sh="1" href="/the-things-i-never-told-anyone/">
            <span class="arc-row-num">05</span>
            <span class="arc-row-body">
              <span class="meta">
                <span class="era" style="color:#5f7d6a"><span class="era-dot" style="background:#8FB09A"></span>The building years</span>
                <span class="year">2004</span>
              </span>
              <span class="arc-row-title">The Things I Never Told Anyone</span>
              <span class="arc-row-dek">A letter read to me over the phone in Greece ended our Nortel dealership. They were one hundred percent of our new business revenue. There was almost nobody I could tell.</span>
            </span>
          </a>
          
        
          
          <a class="arc-row item" data-era="build" data-sh="1" href="/the-day-my-best-employee-quit/">
            <span class="arc-row-num">06</span>
            <span class="arc-row-body">
              <span class="meta">
                <span class="era" style="color:#5f7d6a"><span class="era-dot" style="background:#8FB09A"></span>The building years</span>
                <span class="year">2013</span>
              </span>
              <span class="arc-row-title">The Day My Best Employee Quit</span>
              <span class="arc-row-dek">My best employee quit and told me the truth on his way out: the ceiling on the company was me.</span>
            </span>
          </a>
          
        
          
          <a class="arc-row item" data-era="sale" data-sh="1" href="/the-six-hour-walk/">
            <span class="arc-row-num">07</span>
            <span class="arc-row-body">
              <span class="meta">
                <span class="era" style="color:#615c6d"><span class="era-dot" style="background:#8A8494"></span>The sale</span>
                <span class="year">2017</span>
              </span>
              <span class="arc-row-title">The Six-Hour Walk</span>
              <span class="arc-row-dek">I went to the beach to plan how to double revenue. I came back six hours later having decided to sell.</span>
            </span>
          </a>
          
        
          
          <a class="arc-row item" data-era="sale" data-sh="1" href="/the-year-i-was-gone-but-not-gone/">
            <span class="arc-row-num">08</span>
            <span class="arc-row-body">
              <span class="meta">
                <span class="era" style="color:#615c6d"><span class="era-dot" style="background:#8A8494"></span>The sale</span>
                <span class="year">2017</span>
              </span>
              <span class="arc-row-title">The Year I Was Gone But Not Gone</span>
              <span class="arc-row-dek">Everyone was in the room. I made the announcement. And I knew that face, because I&#39;d worn it as a kid.</span>
            </span>
          </a>
          
        
          
          <a class="arc-row item" data-era="back" data-sh="1" href="/a-letter-to-my-daughter-about-money/">
            <span class="arc-row-num">09</span>
            <span class="arc-row-body">
              <span class="meta">
                <span class="era" style="color:#9a7738"><span class="era-dot" style="background:#C9A15E"></span>Looking back</span>
                <span class="year">2018</span>
              </span>
              <span class="arc-row-title">A Letter to My Daughter About Money</span>
              <span class="arc-row-dek">The money talk I flew across the country to give, and the lesson my daughter gave back.</span>
            </span>
          </a>
          
        
          
          <a class="arc-row item" data-era="now" data-sh="1" href="/the-day-the-list-reordered/">
            <span class="arc-row-num">10</span>
            <span class="arc-row-body">
              <span class="meta">
                <span class="era" style="color:#c25f4a"><span class="era-dot" style="background:#E8836F"></span>Now</span>
                <span class="year">2023</span>
              </span>
              <span class="arc-row-title">The Day the List Reordered</span>
              <span class="arc-row-dek">Training for a championship at 55 when a blocked artery called time. Five minutes, two wakings, and a list that finally flipped.</span>
            </span>
          </a>
          
        
          
          <a class="arc-row item" data-era="now" data-sh="1" href="/the-room-after-the-exit/">
            <span class="arc-row-num">11</span>
            <span class="arc-row-body">
              <span class="meta">
                <span class="era" style="color:#c25f4a"><span class="era-dot" style="background:#E8836F"></span>Now</span>
                <span class="year">2020</span>
              </span>
              <span class="arc-row-title">The Room After the Exit</span>
              <span class="arc-row-dek">Ten of us who had sold our companies, and the questions that don&#39;t appear on a balance sheet.</span>
            </span>
          </a>
          
        
          
          <a class="arc-row item" data-era="now" data-sh="1" href="/nine-years-after-selling/">
            <span class="arc-row-num">12</span>
            <span class="arc-row-body">
              <span class="meta">
                <span class="era" style="color:#c25f4a"><span class="era-dot" style="background:#E8836F"></span>Now</span>
                <span class="year">2026</span>
              </span>
              <span class="arc-row-title">Success Solved Everything Except the Important Questions</span>
              <span class="arc-row-dek">Two more companies, one heart attack, and a reordered list. The honest accounting, nine years out.</span>
            </span>
          </a>
          
        

        
        
        <a class="arc-row item arc-row-extra" data-era="sale" data-sh="0" style="display:none" href="/how-much-does-it-cost-to-sell-your-business/">
          <span class="arc-row-num"></span>
          <span class="arc-row-body">
            <span class="meta">
              <span class="era" style="color:#615c6d"><span class="era-dot" style="background:#8A8494"></span>The sale</span>
              <span class="year">2017</span>
            </span>
            <span class="arc-row-title">What It Actually Cost to Sell My Company</span>
            <span class="arc-row-dek">Advisors, lawyers, taxes, and one negotiation that saved six figures. What selling actually costs before the wire clears.</span>
          </span>
        </a>
        
        <a class="arc-row item arc-row-extra" data-era="sale" data-sh="0" style="display:none" href="/entrepreneurs-life-post-business-sale/">
          <span class="arc-row-num"></span>
          <span class="arc-row-body">
            <span class="meta">
              <span class="era" style="color:#615c6d"><span class="era-dot" style="background:#8A8494"></span>The sale</span>
              
            </span>
            <span class="arc-row-title">An Entrepreneur&#39;s Life Post Business Sale</span>
            <span class="arc-row-dek">What the second Monday feels like.</span>
          </span>
        </a>
        
        <a class="arc-row item arc-row-extra" data-era="back" data-sh="0" style="display:none" href="/build-a-sales-team-from-the-ground-up/">
          <span class="arc-row-num"></span>
          <span class="arc-row-body">
            <span class="meta">
              <span class="era" style="color:#9a7738"><span class="era-dot" style="background:#C9A15E"></span>Looking back</span>
              
            </span>
            <span class="arc-row-title">Build a Sales Team From the Ground Up</span>
            <span class="arc-row-dek">Hire, comp, and coach your first reps.</span>
          </span>
        </a>
        
        <a class="arc-row item arc-row-extra" data-era="back" data-sh="0" style="display:none" href="/how-to-answer-an-office-phone/">
          <span class="arc-row-num"></span>
          <span class="arc-row-body">
            <span class="meta">
              <span class="era" style="color:#9a7738"><span class="era-dot" style="background:#C9A15E"></span>Looking back</span>
              
            </span>
            <span class="arc-row-title">How to Answer an Office Phone</span>
            <span class="arc-row-dek">The five seconds that set the whole call.</span>
          </span>
        </a>
        
        <a class="arc-row item arc-row-extra" data-era="back" data-sh="0" style="display:none" href="/interview-with-dartanyon-a-williams/">
          <span class="arc-row-num"></span>
          <span class="arc-row-body">
            <span class="meta">
              <span class="era" style="color:#9a7738"><span class="era-dot" style="background:#C9A15E"></span>Looking back</span>
              
            </span>
            <span class="arc-row-title">Interview with Dartanyon A. Williams</span>
            <span class="arc-row-dek">A conversation on resilience and reinvention.</span>
          </span>
        </a>
        
        <a class="arc-row item arc-row-extra" data-era="back" data-sh="0" style="display:none" href="/mirror-mirror-on-the-wall-whos-the-fairest-of-them-all-shut-up-and-listen-to-the-response/">
          <span class="arc-row-num"></span>
          <span class="arc-row-body">
            <span class="meta">
              <span class="era" style="color:#9a7738"><span class="era-dot" style="background:#C9A15E"></span>Looking back</span>
              
            </span>
            <span class="arc-row-title">Mirror, Mirror — Shut Up and Listen to the Response</span>
            <span class="arc-row-dek">The feedback you&#39;re avoiding is the feedback you need.</span>
          </span>
        </a>
        
        <a class="arc-row item arc-row-extra" data-era="now" data-sh="0" style="display:none" href="/family-wealth-distribution-in-canada/">
          <span class="arc-row-num"></span>
          <span class="arc-row-body">
            <span class="meta">
              <span class="era" style="color:#c25f4a"><span class="era-dot" style="background:#E8836F"></span>Now</span>
              
            </span>
            <span class="arc-row-title">Family Wealth Distribution in Canada</span>
            <span class="arc-row-dek">Where your household actually sits.</span>
          </span>
        </a>
        
        <a class="arc-row item arc-row-extra" data-era="now" data-sh="0" style="display:none" href="/millionaires-in-america/">
          <span class="arc-row-num"></span>
          <span class="arc-row-body">
            <span class="meta">
              <span class="era" style="color:#c25f4a"><span class="era-dot" style="background:#E8836F"></span>Now</span>
              
            </span>
            <span class="arc-row-title">Millionaires in America</span>
            <span class="arc-row-dek">How many, and how they got there.</span>
          </span>
        </a>
        
      </div>

    </div>
  </section>

</div>
<script src="/static/js/era-filter.js?v=17" defer></script>

  </main>

  <footer class="site-footer">
    
    <section class="foot-start" aria-labelledby="foot-start-h">
      <div class="wrap foot-start-inner">
        <div class="foot-start-head">
          <p class="foot-eyebrow" id="foot-start-h">Start Here</p>
          <p class="foot-lede">Twelve chapters on selling the company and what came after. <em>Read them in order.</em></p>
        </div>
        <div class="foot-start-list">
          <ol class="foot-arc">
            
            <li class="foot-arc-item"><a href="/life-after-selling-your-business/">The Day After Selling Your Business</a></li>
            
            <li class="foot-arc-item"><a href="/full-story/">Down to My Last Five Hundred Dollars</a></li>
            
            <li class="foot-arc-item"><a href="/the-year-i-lost-sixty-percent/">The Year I Lost Sixty Percent</a></li>
            
            <li class="foot-arc-item"><a href="/the-week-the-bank-pulled-my-loan/">The Week the Bank Pulled My Loan</a></li>
            
            <li class="foot-arc-item"><a href="/the-things-i-never-told-anyone/">The Things I Never Told Anyone</a></li>
            
            <li class="foot-arc-item"><a href="/the-day-my-best-employee-quit/">The Day My Best Employee Quit</a></li>
            
            <li class="foot-arc-item"><a href="/the-six-hour-walk/">The Six-Hour Walk</a></li>
            
            <li class="foot-arc-item"><a href="/the-year-i-was-gone-but-not-gone/">The Year I Was Gone But Not Gone</a></li>
            
            <li class="foot-arc-item"><a href="/a-letter-to-my-daughter-about-money/">A Letter to My Daughter About Money</a></li>
            
            <li class="foot-arc-item"><a href="/the-day-the-list-reordered/">The Day the List Reordered</a></li>
            
            <li class="foot-arc-item"><a href="/the-room-after-the-exit/">The Room After the Exit</a></li>
            
            <li class="foot-arc-item"><a href="/nine-years-after-selling/">Success Solved Everything Except the Important Questions</a></li>
            
          </ol>
          <p class="foot-arc-all"><a href="/writing/">All twelve chapters &rarr;</a></p>
        </div>
      </div>
    </section>

    
    <div class="wrap foot-cols">
      <div class="foot-brand-col">
        <p class="foot-brand">The <span>Kickass</span> Entrepreneur</p>
        <p class="foot-brand-blurb">The honest version of building wealth and the second act. Written by Jeff Wiener, who built a company for 27 years, sold it, and kept writing.</p>
      </div>
      <nav class="foot-col" aria-label="Site">
        <p class="foot-col-h">Site</p>
        <a href="/writing/">Writing</a>
        <a href="/book/">Book</a>
        <a href="/podcast/">Podcast</a>
        <a href="/calculators/">Calculators</a>
        <a href="/about/">About</a>
      </nav>
      <nav class="foot-col" aria-label="Calculators">
        <p class="foot-col-h">Calculators</p>
        
        <a href="/net-worth-percentile-calculator-usa/">Net Worth Percentile (USA)</a>
        
        <a href="/net-worth-by-age-percentile-calculator-for-usa/">Net Worth by Age (USA)</a>
        
        <a href="/net-worth-percentile-calculator-canada/">Net Worth Percentile (Canada)</a>
        
        <a href="/income-percentile-calculator-usa/">Household Income Percentile (USA)</a>
        
        <a href="/business-valuation-calculator/">Business Valuation</a>
        
        <a href="/calculators/fire-number/">FIRE Number</a>
        
        <a class="foot-col-all" href="/calculators/">All calculators &rarr;</a>
      </nav>
      <nav class="foot-col" aria-label="Elsewhere">
        <p class="foot-col-h">Elsewhere</p>
        <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffwiener1/" rel="me noopener" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a>
        <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-small-business-millionaire/id1517917351" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Apple Podcasts</a>
      </nav>
    </div>

    
    <div class="foot-bottom">
      <div class="wrap foot-bottom-inner">
        <span class="foot-copy">&copy; 2026 Jeff Wiener &middot; Toronto</span>
        <span class="foot-meta-links">
          <a href="/llms.txt">llms.txt</a>
          <a href="/sitemap.xml">sitemap.xml</a>
        </span>
      </div>
    </div>
  </footer>
</body>
</html>