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		<description><![CDATA[This post contains a short drill to destroy Preconceiveds (a coined word, short for preconceived thoughts/ideas/notions). It is based on the newest stuff that will be discussed in Force21. But, first I want to reply to a few comments from the last post&#8230;
A comment from &#8220;Hammer&#8221; of hammer86blog.com on my post &#8220;Getting Women to Approach [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This post contains a short drill to destroy Preconceiveds (a coined word, short for preconceived thoughts/ideas/notions). It is based on the newest stuff that will be discussed in <a href="http://www.betheseducer.com/2010/03/force21/">Force21</a>. But, first I want to reply to a few comments from the last post&#8230;</p>
<p>A comment from &#8220;Hammer&#8221; of hammer86blog.com on my post<a href="http://www.betheseducer.com/2010/03/getting-women-to-approach-you-and-the-recognition-of-non-verbal-communication-on-a-gradient-scale/"> &#8220;Getting Women to Approach You&#8221;:</a></p>
<blockquote><p>Interesting stuff man. What you are talking about here is actually  exactly what Cory Skyy has been talking about for years. Of course, he  can’t break things down the way that you can, and his stuff is less  scientific and more touchy feely, thus not conducive to learning, but  either way, it’s definitely interesting to see somewhat of a convergence  between PUA and naturals. All of the best guys in the community  essentially admit that naturals are pretty much across the board better  than all PUAs, but it seems like you’re approaching being able to teach  what naturals do.</p></blockquote>
<p>Thanks for the props. I do have to disagree with the thing about naturals. Every one of them I&#8217;ve seen has disappointed me. The few I befriended and tried to learn from were better than the average PUA but have severe weak spots. They are also less consistent. Take them out of their element and they are usually pretty bad.</p>
<p>On the same post, Matt said:</p>
<blockquote><p>If you are a good looking guy or “stand out” then they will approach  you. If you are not then what? This is all nice and good but what if you  go thru those steps and she does not open you? What if she is too shy?  What if she just is giving you the eye out of curiousity and then does  not open you?</p>
<p>There are too many variables here.</p>
<p>Please fill us in on that.</p></blockquote>
<p>I don&#8217;t see a lot of approaching by females out of social circle or &#8220;club social circle.&#8221; There are plenty of guys on PUA bootcamps considered &#8220;good looking guys&#8221; who were essentially invisible. You&#8217;ll see older cougars hitting on younger &#8220;good looking guys&#8221; but cougars are chemically imbalanced and not what we are going for so they hardly count.</p>
<p>All of your questions are beside the point&#8230; do the drills so you can reproduce. Worry about that other shit when/if it comes up. Besides, no one said you should stop approaching. It IS something that will change how you look at things. I noticed a body position shift from 60 feet away earlier today.</p>
<p>Phil said:</p>
<blockquote><p>Great stuff as always, CJ! The only thing I’d like to point out is that  too many guys seem to try to circumvent approaching by relying on this  “let her approach me” attitude and that generally turns out to no  success at all.<br />
In my opinion, you can only use that kind of non-verbal stuff once you  got the basics (being able to approach) properly down.</p></blockquote>
<p>I agree with getting the basics down. But, there&#8217;s another aspect to this&#8230; what if you build your basics on bad observations? You&#8217;ll have a ceiling on pick-up skill that no amount of practice will cure. The only way to break to another level would be the removal of the bad data, casting off the &#8220;observations&#8221; as &#8220;the way things are&#8221; and getting Begginer&#8217;s Mind in. The earlier you start on this stuff the better.</p>
<p>The very first drill I&#8217;d teach any newbie coming under my wing would be simple but powerful. Here would the whole drill for hours on end:</p>
<p>&#8220;Notice that girl noticing that guy.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Notice that girl noticing that guy.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Notice that girl noticing that guy.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8216;that guy&#8217; might be the student or might never be that student.</p>
<p>The end result would be a blowout of preconceiveds (coined, short for preconceived thoughts/ideas/notions) and we&#8217;d have a PUA who would rely much less on his internal (bad) data on interactions between males and females.</p>
<p>There are 4 of these in total:</p>
<p>Girl to Guy</p>
<p>Guy to Girl</p>
<p>Student to Girl (&#8220;Notice that girl.&#8221;)</p>
<p>Girl to Student (&#8220;Notice that girl noticing you.&#8221;)</p>
<p>Captain Jack</p>
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<em><strong>Here’s the plan… </strong></em>I am going to do a monthly<br> conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be<br> me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this<br> whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no<br> one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
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<p>Force*21 Is not a bunch  of theory. It is not a  bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game  with  me as a guide.</p>
<p>It will crack the back of your most persistent   sticking points and spring you to the next level.</p>
<p>I want  you to  have my new technology. Pick-up for me is so easy now, I seriously doubt  very many have reached this level in history.</p>
<p>I don’t say this lightly… or,  to brag. I have  studied the works of the famed Casanova and others so I  know what I am measuring up against.</p>
<p>Again, not bragging here… I  just want to get this  across to you… there is no reason for you to  suffer. The strides I have made in  these last few months, starting with  the Game Dynamics and the discovery of  the true definition of Alpha  will turn out a new batch of world-class PUAs.</p>
<p>You have to  remember, no one was talking about Same  Night Lays and Sexual Framing  with any real reproducible tech behind it  before me.</p>
<p>Most  thought it was impossible and when it did  happen they thought it was  fool’s mate… until we started teaching men to get them on  a regular  basis.</p>
<p>The Force21 program is a  concentrated 21-day push to get  you to the next level.</p>
<p>For background material, we&#8217;ll be using the principles of the  new  definition of Alpha (msm audio), Sticking Point Analysis, Game  Dynamics (msm audio)  and, of course, Sexual Framing (Framing Mastery  audio). If you don&#8217;t already  have all of those, I&#8217;ll include them with  the program.</p>
<p>It is an all-out assault for 21-days.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll  be sending an email every other day and we&#8217;ll have 3 live  conference  calls, every Thursday starting March 18th. (With a bonus pre kick-off call starting the 11th).</p>
<p>The goal is to have  you crack the next level (for you) of Pick-up, to  focus on Pick-up  mentally and physically for 21-days.</p>
<p>The newer insights are  coming faster than I can document them and I want  you to have them as  soon as possible.</p>
<p>There is no reason to be stuck anymore.</p>
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<p><strong>Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences </strong>- Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is<br> only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to<br> really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with<br> an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.<br>
<br>

<em><strong>Here’s the plan… </strong></em>I am going to do a monthly<br> conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be<br> me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this<br> whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no<br> one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
<br>
<p>The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
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I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve<br> settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.<br>
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But, before I tell you the story, I need to give you a bit of background: One of the tenets of the scientific method is that if you have a theory that explains a piece of data you should be able to PREDICT something you [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, last Saturday night I get the urge to go out.</p>
<p>But, before I tell you the story, I need to give you a bit of background: One of the tenets of the scientific method is that if you have a theory that explains a piece of data you should be able to PREDICT something you haven&#8217;t previously noticed. If the thing you predicted can be verified in the real world then you gain more confidence in your theory and may even come upon new sources of data that will further expand your research, yielding better theories, yielding better principles, yielding more vagina. (I added that last part).</p>
<p>One of the theories that I derived is that women consider the opening of courtship to occur LONG before what we consider to be the opening of courtship. How many women COMPLAIN that men just don&#8217;t get it&#8230; that the WRONG men approach them, that men approach them in the WRONG way.</p>
<p>Well, shit, pretty much ALL of them.</p>
<p>We know that women don&#8217;t really have &#8216;physical&#8217; types that have any real meaning in a one-on-one seduction like men do.</p>
<p>So, what (the fuck) are they talking about?</p>
<p>If the WRONG men approach them then there must be RIGHT men. Who are these RIGHT men?</p>
<p>Remember how before the community you were pretty damn invisible to all women except maybe some random encounter you chalked up to an accident or, perhaps, a few girls in your social circle.</p>
<p>You didn&#8217;t know about Approach Invitations (AIs) and never even noticed them&#8230; and, if a girl did look your way you wondered if there was toilet paper stuck to your shoe or there was something wrong with your hair&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230; well, what I&#8217;m talking about happens EVEN earlier than an AI.</p>
<p>There is a scale of Non-Verbal Awareness that women engage in much, much earlier than men do. (Probably, because we are staring at tits as they float by, or asses as they bob along).</p>
<p>The earlier you become aware of the steps on this scale, the sooner you can begin working it to your advantage. I consistently get opened (and pursued) by women.</p>
<p>This is new technology that I&#8217;ve been working on since July of last year and have used successfully in my last 10 or so lays&#8230; I want to get it out there so you guys can start experimenting with it. I am going to be talking MUCH more about it in the upcoming FORCE*21 Teleseminar program, including how to use it in ANY environment. I&#8217;ve used it at bookstores, gas stations, bars even shopping malls and restaurants. It gets you opened about as much or more as peacocking.</p>
<p>The Gradient Scale of Non-Verbal Communication</p>
<p>1. Extroversion to others and the environment</p>
<p>2. Intention to enter awareness of others (number 1 and 2 are interlocked)</p>
<p>3. Visual scans for awareness of others (you&#8217;ve seen this before&#8230; a girl is with a group of friends or a guy and as she talks she is looking around the room at others).</p>
<p>4. Exaggerated (or sexual) gestures and/or movement of body position to attract awareness of others</p>
<p>5.Visual focus on other(s)</p>
<p>&#8212;&#8211;&gt; (could he be a Player in a Game I want to play? (Dynamic 1))</p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-&gt;If so, give AI.</p>
<p>6. Acknowledgment of the other person’s visual contact</p>
<p>7. A signal of Appreciation for the other person’s contact</p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212;-&gt; (both girls and guys are often not successful with their AIs because they mess these two up)</p>
<p>8. Modification of Body Position in Space towards the person while keeping appreciation signals in</p>
<p>If all you did was noticed number 3 occurring , then locked eyes, acknowledge her eye contact with a smile and reorient your body towards her you&#8217;d be so far ahead of every chump in there she&#8217;d probably open you.Or, if you simply noticed number 3 occurring and then went and opened your success rate would sky rocket.</p>
<p>Using this simple awareness has gotten me opened more times than I can count now.</p>
<p><em><strong>If you did this AND opened many sets, you would steal the entire venue. </strong></em></p>
<p>I did this very thing last Saturday night. There were a few girls having a blast because one the birthday girl was drunk and acting crazy. I noticed one of the girls kept on doing #3.</p>
<p>The second time I noticed she had done it I made sure to be looking her way&#8230; she saw me looking&#8230; she looked back at her group for another minute or two. By this time I had tilted slightly to see her out of my peripheral. The next time she did #3 she limited her range. I caught her eyes exactly, I locked and gave a slight nod (#6), I smiled (#7), I turned ever so slightly (#8). She smiled back.</p>
<p>About 1 minute later she was standing next to me. But she didn&#8217;t say anything.</p>
<p>I smiled real big next time she looked at me&#8230; she opened with something lame. We talked. She told me about this game called &#8220;words with friend&#8221; for the iPhone. I told her my nerd-o-meter was going off big time.</p>
<p>Long story short, it was her way of getting my number.</p>
<p>We have a Day2 set up. (She&#8217;s ridiculously hot so I don&#8217;t mind doing a Day2).</p>
<p>So, watch for #3 *AND* follow the steps exactly. If THEY are using this formula it is because it matches their reality&#8230; if you match it to you are head and shoulders above every other guy in the place.</p>
<p>Captain Jack</p>
<p>P.P.S. FORCE*21 starts on March 11th. It is limited to 30 guys. 10 have already signed up. If you are the least bit interested simply email me captainjackpua@gmail.com with FORCE 21 in the subject line.</p>
<p>P.P.S. I&#8217;m also going to be releasing an Extroversion Calibration Drill that you can use to become more extroverted and aware in the next couple of days. Introversion is one of the REAL enemies of every PUA.</p>
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<p><strong>Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences </strong>- Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is<br> only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to<br> really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with<br> an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.<br>
<br>

<em><strong>Here’s the plan… </strong></em>I am going to do a monthly<br> conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be<br> me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this<br> whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no<br> one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
<br>
<p>The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
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I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve<br> settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.<br>
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		<description><![CDATA[Based on the new definition of Alpha, combined with the principle of Force and Magnification&#8230;
Step 1: Find hot girl.
Step 2: Look hot girl up and down.
Step 3: Imagine her smiling and introducing herself to you.
Step 4: Ask yourself, &#8220;If she liked me, how would she want me to approach her?&#8221;
Step 5: Smile and do it.
Captain [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Based on the new definition of Alpha, combined with the principle of Force and Magnification&#8230;</p>
<p>Step 1: Find hot girl.</p>
<p>Step 2: Look hot girl up and down.</p>
<p>Step 3: Imagine her smiling and introducing herself to you.</p>
<p>Step 4: Ask yourself, &#8220;If she liked me, how would she want me to approach her?&#8221;</p>
<p>Step 5: Smile and do it.</p>
<p>Captain Jack</p>
<p>P.S. Do it and let me know how it goes in the comments!</p>
<p>P.P.S. Master Strategies Monthly guys, can you see how this technique was derived from the material in the audios? Can you see why it works?</p>
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<p><strong>Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences </strong>- Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is<br> only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to<br> really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with<br> an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.<br>
<br>

<em><strong>Here’s the plan… </strong></em>I am going to do a monthly<br> conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be<br> me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this<br> whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no<br> one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
<br>
<p>The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
<p>
I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve<br> settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.<br>
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		<description><![CDATA[In light of my recent work in laying down a workable, meaningful definition of Alpha a few more things have come to light that have excited me greatly.
Number 1: The Magnification Principle has always been a fantastic principle to follow, but it makes even more sense now in light of the Alpha and Game Dynamics.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In light of my recent work in laying down a workable, meaningful definition of Alpha a few more things have come to light that have excited me greatly.</p>
<p><strong>Number 1: </strong>The Magnification Principle has always been a fantastic principle to follow, but it makes even more sense now in light of the Alpha and Game Dynamics.</p>
<p>For those of you new to my blog (and those of you who need a refresher), the Magnification Principle is simply to take anything she says or does that helps your goal and draw attention to it. On the other hand, you&#8217;d IGNORE anything that didn&#8217;t help you.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a quote from the original blog post about this on August 29, 2007:</p>
<blockquote><p>Because what you give attention to (either positive or negative) gets  magnified.</p>
<p>There’s a metaphysical belief that says: “Energy flows where  attention goes.” Put your words/attention on her bad behavior and you  give it energy.</p>
<p>My #1 rule says to IGNORE stuff that doesn’t serve you and MAGNIFY  what advances the seduction. When she does something good for you or  something you appreciate, praise it. I often praise a woman for her  sexual freedom and appetite. This magnifies it.</p>
<p>I’m calling it The Magnification Principle and it’s a core principle  of Zen Ninja seduction.</p></blockquote>
<p>Now, let&#8217;s look at this in terms of Game Dynamics.</p>
<p>In Game Dynamics the driving principle is Agreement. Magnification increases Agreement. (Thus, you need to be extremely careful WHAT you Magnify.) Another driving principle is Clarity. You must KNOW what Game is being played before you can really understand and agree to it. Magnification clarifies.</p>
<p>Now, let&#8217;s think in terms of Games. We know that Games have teammates, obstacles, goals and rules. What I want to draw your attention most to is how you win games.</p>
<p>The way to win most games (I mean real/competitive games, not synchronized swimming or whatever) is to score the most points in the allotted time.</p>
<p>This is nothing more than being able to deliver more directed force over the allotted time than the others. The hockey player who dribbles the puck down the ice and flings it toward the goalie with the most directed force has the best chance of scoring for his team.</p>
<p>Thus, we have the idea of Force (or perhaps Velocity) in the Game Dynamics. The amount of directed Force you can apply to each Dynamic in the quickest manner possible the better your chances of success.</p>
<p>Using this idea we can streamline all seductions to take an even shorter amount of time. By examining each dynamic in light of the Game you are playing and then creating a Baiting statement to get on the subject along with ready made statement(s) to gain quick and complete agreement, you could blast through all 4 Dynamics with ease and very, very quickly.</p>
<p>This is what I spent the one weekend I was able to go out in January . It yielded 3 cold approach same night lays in a row, fri, sat and sunday.</p>
<p>Directed Force is the domain of the Alpha, combined with Game Dynamics we reach another level of pick-up sophistication. It has made me at least 2-3 times better in the month I&#8217;ve been applying it.</p>
<p>Captain Jack</p>
<p>P.S. Sit down and think about how to apply this! It will be well worth it.</p>
<p>P.P.S. I&#8217;m thinking of doing a 3 week coaching and teleconference program that incorporates Game Dynamics, the Alpha principle and some of my newer works. If you are the least bit interested email me ASAP captainjackpua@gmail.com with &#8220;Force Program&#8221; in the subject line.</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">Here's a new way:</p>

<p><strong>Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences </strong>- Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is<br> only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to<br> really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with<br> an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.<br>
<br>

<em><strong>Here’s the plan… </strong></em>I am going to do a monthly<br> conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be<br> me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this<br> whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no<br> one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
<br>
<p>The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
<p>
I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve<br> settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.<br>
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<blockquote><p>Sup CJ,</p>
<p>I really liked this audio and have been trying to implement it.  Instead<br />
of trying to make all these calculations, I just try to think &#8220;How do I<br />
turn this current situation into my ideal situation?&#8221; I notice that my<br />
<em><strong>actions flow a lot quicker without hesitation and more creatively using<br />
this mindset in field.</strong></em> The more complicated you make things, the harder to<br />
implement in field.</p>
<p>Once again, you continue to blow my mind.</p>
<p>I have always had this gut feeling that your stuff is on another level than other<br />
PUAs.  I am really curious as to how you come up with all this stuff?? How<br />
do you generate all these new concepts and how come no one else is saying<br />
anything similar?</p>
<p>-Derrick<br />
Berkeley, California</p></blockquote>
<p>Thanks for the testimonial!</p>
<p>The answer to your question is actually in the First MSM audio AND this one. I use the &#8220;widening the responsibility circle&#8221; concept I discussed in the Alpha audio. I start with something small, think of the Ideal scene, get it right and then widen the area of responsibility. All while focusing on what&#8217;s REALLY happening instead of making calculations on past data.</p>
<p>For almost all of us, the past is being projected into the future because of our reliance on conclusions based on the past for false safety. We mistake thoughts for things and get stuck.</p>
<p>A thought has no mass, location or time&#8230; neither does a decision, neither does a belief.</p>
<p>Captain Jack</p>
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<p>Would you like new possibilities in your life with women?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">It doesn't start with new tactics or techniques... it starts with new Viewpoints and new Strategies.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I can help you with that...</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Here's a new way:</p>

<p><strong>Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences </strong>- Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is<br> only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to<br> really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with<br> an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.<br>
<br>

<em><strong>Here’s the plan… </strong></em>I am going to do a monthly<br> conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be<br> me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this<br> whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no<br> one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
<br>
<p>The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
<p>
I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve<br> settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.<br>
<p>The calls will be recorded in case you miss them, or you’re in Europe, Asia or Africa where the calls will likely be at an inconvenient time.

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		<description><![CDATA[For the Master Strategies Monthly guys&#8230; (if you didn&#8217;t receive an email about it then email me now with your email receipt because you were somehow left off the list!)
This audio covers the DEFINITION of alpha male and how to BE one starting right now! Why is it important? Simple. It will help you get [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For the Master Strategies Monthly guys&#8230; (if you didn&#8217;t receive an email about it then email me now with your email receipt because you were somehow left off the list!)</p>
<p>This audio covers the DEFINITION of alpha male and how to BE one starting right now! Why is it important? Simple. It will help you get MORE, accomplish more and be more happy. Resources, people and hot women FLOW towards alpha males.</p>
<p>But, the community does not have a real definition of Alpha. It has nothing to do with being a domineering brute. It is much simpler and much, much more workable than that. Even the Evolutionary Psychology boneheads got it all wrong by looking at the EFFECTS of the Apes/Gorillas instead of the REAL internal cause.</p>
<p>This audio blows away the false ideas, gives you the correct definition and shows you how to become one NOW.</p>
<p>Do it and many of your life problems will vanish!</p>
<p>Captain Jack</p>
<p>P.S. If you aren&#8217;t a member of Master Strategies Monthly sign up. </p>
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Announcing Captain Jack's New eCoaching Bootcamp...
</i></b> 
<p>
<h3>
Architect a Game Plan that Fits You, Crush Your Sticking Points, Sexualize Your Converstations and Get Near-Instant Feedback:
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<i>
NOT For Wanna-be's or The Faint-Hearted
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<p>Would you like new possibilities in your life with women?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">It doesn't start with new tactics or techniques... it starts with new Viewpoints and new Strategies.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I can help you with that...</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Here's a new way:</p>

<p><strong>Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences </strong>- Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is<br> only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to<br> really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with<br> an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.<br>
<br>

<em><strong>Here’s the plan… </strong></em>I am going to do a monthly<br> conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be<br> me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this<br> whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no<br> one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
<br>
<p>The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
<p>
I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve<br> settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.<br>
<p>The calls will be recorded in case you miss them, or you’re in Europe, Asia or Africa where the calls will likely be at an inconvenient time.

<p>You can sign up by pushing the button below.

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		<description><![CDATA[A couple of quick points for now (and more in the coming days):
1. I&#8217;m not dead.
But, I HAVE been doing a little bit of gaming. Got 3 in a row last weekend and it was EASY beyond belief. Game Dynamics makes it so damn easy it is scary. The very idea that you can focus [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A couple of quick points for now (and more in the coming days):</p>
<p><strong>1. I&#8217;m not dead.</strong></p>
<p>But, I HAVE been doing a little bit of gaming. Got 3 in a row last weekend and it was EASY beyond belief. Game Dynamics makes it so damn easy it is scary. The very idea that you can focus on NOT broadcasting the wrong Game and it puts you 80% of the way there is mind-boggling. However, I suspect most Gurus would NEVER pick up on it or tout it for the simple fact that it would be damn hard to make a complicated, convoluted, tactic-packed product out of it, much less a whole system. The better you understand things, the more down to the basics you get, the SIMPLER things are&#8230; not the more complex. Over time your PU should get easier, quicker and smoother with less techniques. Boggles, huh?</p>
<p><strong>2. Master Strategies Monthly:</strong> For you guys who purchased it the last was audio #4 &#8220;Similarities and Differences.&#8221; I have a few testimonials that I&#8217;ll be publishing soon about the exercise that helps you break apart the &#8220;Mental Mass&#8221; that causes you almost every problem when it comes to makin&#8217; sweet luuuuuv to women. If you haven&#8217;t received that audio then you probably weren&#8217;t correctly added to the notification list (it happened to one guy). I am finishing up two new audios right now and will have one out in the very near future.</p>
<p><strong>3. The survey in my last post:</strong> I haven&#8217;t finished going through all the responses but let me say that the ones I have read (about the first 70) were both eye-opening and heartbreaking (as much breaking as a pirate heart can break). I&#8217;m going to use the responses to drive future blog posts to help you guys out.</p>
<p><strong>4. Sherlock Holmes!</strong> I might&#8217;ve taken this as my &#8220;PUA&#8221; name had I thought of it first. I want to make another point on the points I mentioned in #1. Stuff only gets complex because you can&#8217;t see things (at all) or you can&#8217;t see things clearly. The main reason you can&#8217;t see things is because you decided NOT to look or you FEAR something about looking, often both. Take that away and then you&#8217;ve got the ability to see what is happening and the ability to change it.</p>
<p>The actual mechanics of pick-up aren&#8217;t that complicated at all. There really aren&#8217;t a lot of tactics or techniques. Most of the tactics floating around in the various systems are corrections of shit you did wrong earlier in the interaction or buffers against common future fuck-ups. Remove the core problems and the need for most of the tactics disappear.</p>
<p>A full and final system of pick-up would:<br />
1. diagnose what the PUA could not see (i.e. was unable to look at) and correcting it.<br />
2. Remove all the false shit from his head.<br />
3. Extrovert him socially<br />
4. Teach him something like Game Dynamics.</p>
<p>Captain Jack (a.k.a. The Sherlock Holmes of Pick-up!)</p>
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</i></b> 
<p>
<h3>
Architect a Game Plan that Fits You, Crush Your Sticking Points, Sexualize Your Converstations and Get Near-Instant Feedback:
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<i>
NOT For Wanna-be's or The Faint-Hearted
</i><p>
</h3>

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<p>Would you like new possibilities in your life with women?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">It doesn't start with new tactics or techniques... it starts with new Viewpoints and new Strategies.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I can help you with that...</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Here's a new way:</p>

<p><strong>Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences </strong>- Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is<br> only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to<br> really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with<br> an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.<br>
<br>

<em><strong>Here’s the plan… </strong></em>I am going to do a monthly<br> conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be<br> me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this<br> whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no<br> one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
<br>
<p>The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
<p>
I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve<br> settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.<br>
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		<description><![CDATA[Your goal in pick-up is to efficiently meet, attract and seduce women! 
As many as you want! 
The TYPE that you want. 
The RELATIONSHIPS that you want.
This little survey will help me help you get that goal, please take it and give me as much information as you can. I&#8217;m looking more for your TRUE [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your goal in pick-up is to efficiently meet, attract and seduce women! </p>
<p>As many as you want! </p>
<p>The TYPE that you want. </p>
<p>The RELATIONSHIPS that you want.</p>
<p>This little survey will help me help you get that goal, please take it and give me as much information as you can. I&#8217;m looking more for your TRUE feelings, not the &#8216;right&#8217; answer.</p>
<p><script src="http://app.sgizmo.com/s/survey_js2.php?id=W315EOCT4230X5LZD9JH26ZNGJ535N-183144" type="text/javascript" ></script></p>
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</i></b> 
<p>
<h3>
Architect a Game Plan that Fits You, Crush Your Sticking Points, Sexualize Your Converstations and Get Near-Instant Feedback:
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<i>
NOT For Wanna-be's or The Faint-Hearted
</i><p>
</h3>

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<p>Would you like new possibilities in your life with women?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">It doesn't start with new tactics or techniques... it starts with new Viewpoints and new Strategies.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I can help you with that...</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Here's a new way:</p>

<p><strong>Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences </strong>- Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is<br> only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to<br> really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with<br> an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.<br>
<br>

<em><strong>Here’s the plan… </strong></em>I am going to do a monthly<br> conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be<br> me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this<br> whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no<br> one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
<br>
<p>The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
<p>
I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve<br> settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.<br>
<p>The calls will be recorded in case you miss them, or you’re in Europe, Asia or Africa where the calls will likely be at an inconvenient time.

<p>You can sign up by pushing the button below.

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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve had a little &#8217;secret&#8217; I&#8217;ve been using for a few years now that has given me a huge advantage in attracting and seducing women. It doesn&#8217;t have much at all to do with &#8216;female psychology&#8217; or &#8217;social blah, blah theorems of socialness&#8217; or any such dumb things.
It has to do with what I am [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve had a little &#8217;secret&#8217; I&#8217;ve been using for a few years now that has given me a huge advantage in attracting and seducing women. It doesn&#8217;t have much at all to do with &#8216;female psychology&#8217; or &#8217;social blah, blah theorems of socialness&#8217; or any such dumb things.</p>
<p>It has to do with what I am calling <em><strong>treacherous data.</strong></em> That&#8217;s any idea that supports, allows or creates behaviors that work COUNTER to your goals.</p>
<p>What most people don&#8217;t realize is that the data you have makes what you can DO possible and therefore puts boundaries on what you can HAVE.</p>
<p>The community is FILLED with <em><strong>treacherous data</strong></em>. In fact, 90% of it is so. Not only that, they have no idea of the relative importance of data, the proper sequence of events, the time component of data, differentiation of data and a WHOLE lot of other things that really matter in becoming a MASTER at something.</p>
<p>One of my secrets has been a method that I use to discover the treacherous data, blow it out and then show someone how to come to a new conclusion (their own conclusion, not mine).</p>
<p>Once this is done the PUA&#8217;s effectiveness increases markedly.</p>
<p>Why? Well, because even if they have the skill that&#8217;s only ONE part of it. You have to know WHEN to use it, when NOT to use it and WHO to use it on. Having a skill doesn&#8217;t mean you&#8217;ll use it at the right times and in the right way.</p>
<p>The actual skills of pick-up aren&#8217;t that complicated. There are only a few things you have to do. Learning them takes a few weeks max, then a few months of drilling and that&#8217;s it. The skill part of pick-up is really only a 4-6 month job.</p>
<p>Really, that&#8217;s it.</p>
<p>But, because of bad data, incorrect viewpoints, wrong sequences we&#8217;ve been busting our asses for years. Aren&#8217;t you tired of that yet?</p>
<p>Shit man, I got tired of it real quick.</p>
<p>Look, if you know all the skills but aren&#8217;t getting results you have <em><strong>treacherous data</strong></em> holding you hostage.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s something else sure to piss you off:</p>
<p>If you are out there banging your head in pick-up with NO or little success, you are getting more and more skilled at FAILURE! That&#8217;s right&#8230; You are actually drilling failure right into your body-mind. Going out night after night, doing the right things at the wrong time, doing the wrong things when you should be doing something else&#8230; Locking those wrong behaviors in deeper and deeper. Getting more and more disillusioned as time goes on&#8230;</p>
<p>Switching gurus isn&#8217;t going to help&#8230; learning a new system isn&#8217;t going to help&#8230; doing MORE sets isn&#8217;t going to help (in fact, it could make things worse)&#8230;</p>
<p>I know, it sucks.</p>
<p>Have the past months and years been a total waste then? No. Not at all. See, when the data is blown out and new realizations gained ALL of that experience is still in your head. It now gets viewed properly and becomes Calibration Points for the future! Blowing out the data re-syncs you with Reality and helps you to see things as they really are&#8230; not as your bad data skews them.</p>
<p>The result is a huge leap in effectiveness!</p>
<p>Have you ever thought about what you really want in your life in regards to women?</p>
<p>It&#8217;s important to think about this because it&#8217;s the only way to get clarity and to know if you are moving towards your goal or just stalled out.</p>
<p>Whatever you want in your life with regards to women you <em><strong>can have.</strong></em></p>
<p>The end result of a Be The Seducer trained PUA is:</p>
<p><strong>A PUA who can easily and happily create, maintain and end the exact KIND of relationships he wants with the type of women he chooses.</strong> (I&#8217;ll be talking much more about that in upcoming posts.)</p>
<p><em>That&#8217;s what I want for you. </em>That&#8217;s what I have been working these last few months like crazy on. By knowing what I want for you and knowing what YOU want, I can figure out what&#8217;s missing and give corrective actions for you to drill on to boost your success.</p>
<p>I have a way to question you, discover where the initial problems lie and a catalog of processes to bust you out of them. I can bust the treacherous data holding you back thus FREEING you up to get what you want!</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re stuck in pick-up and getting little to no results then I can help.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, this can&#8217;t be done over email. It can&#8217;t be done on a group call, either. It is too personalized. The only way to do it is one-one-one via phone, just you and me and the processes.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s how it works:</p>
<p>1. We get on the phone and I begin questioning you to get an idea of where you are and what the ROOT CAUSES. This is the diagnostic part of the call.</p>
<p>2. I begin making you aware of the ROOT CAUSES. Many times the awareness of them will blow them out completely. (Treacherous data is always hidden from view).</p>
<p>3. I give you processes to sync you back in line with reality. You&#8217;ll come to your OWN conclusions and they&#8217;ll WORK because your sexuality is INNATE!</p>
<p>4. We&#8217;ll talk about what you are going to do in-field over the next week or two and I&#8217;ll give you some assignments.</p>
<p>But, that&#8217;s just the first call. After your field experience we do this again! Layers and layers of false data BLOWN OUT and skills and abilities regained!</p>
<p>The minimum is 2 calls but 3 is recommended. There is no maximum time limit on the call, it takes as long as it takes so you&#8217;ll want to do it when you have a few hours free. (The last one I did for someone took about 2 hours).</p>
<p>I have Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday of next week available.</p>
<p>Are you ready to get unstuck and start <em><strong>(finally!) </strong></em>getting what you want?</p>
<p>If so, I hope you&#8217;ll let me help you.</p>
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<p>Captain Jack</p>
<p>P.S. There is a guarantee of sorts&#8230; Thirty minutes after the first call you are going to hear a timer go &#8220;ding!&#8221; At that point, I&#8217;m going to stop and ask you if you want to keep going. If you aren&#8217;t getting anything out of it, think I&#8217;m full of shit, or whatever then all you have to do is say &#8220;No.&#8221; We can stop right there and I&#8217;ll give you back your money. No hard feelings.</p>
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