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/><author><name>Ottayan</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="16" height="16" src="http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif" /></author><generator version="7.00" uri="http://www.blogger.com">Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>359</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/CareerAndPersonalDevelopmentBlog" /><feedburner:info uri="careerandpersonaldevelopmentblog" /><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="hub" href="http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/" /><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUYESHY5fip7ImA9WhRSEE0.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19500823.post-8396388264677305522</id><published>2011-11-11T14:48:00.001+05:30</published><updated>2011-11-11T14:48:29.826+05:30</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2011-11-11T14:48:29.826+05:30</app:edited><title>Job Search Tips for Experienced Individuals</title><content type="html">This article is for those who acquired additional educational or technical qualifications in order to advance in their chosen career.  &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;If you are one of the above-mentioned experienced individual, with recently acquired qualifications you can start by talking to your boss or your line HR and find out whether there are any suitable job opportunities for you within your organization.  You can also simultaneously, start scanning the internal job openings postings for positions that suit your current qualifications.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;There are also other alternatives if you are seeking to enhance your career growth outside your present organization. Among the job search alternatives open to you, the following are very effective:&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;ul&gt; &lt;li&gt;Internet and newspapers job postings &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Networking &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Executive recruiters&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Internet and newspapers job postings:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;The most popular Internet job boards are Monster.com, CareerBuilder.com, and Dice.com etc., In addition to these job boards, there are other job boards specifically catering to specific skill sets or professional qualifications.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; In order to carry out a successful job search you also need to know how to use these job portals effectively. So before you start your job search, ensure that you list:&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;ul&gt; &lt;li&gt;Job responsibilities&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Job title&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Software, hardware programming skills&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;Do not limit your job search to your current designation-use these as your search terms in the key word search field. You should also use synonyms of the terminologies in order to cull the best jobs on offer.&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Networking:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;Networking is an effective way to advance in your career and for widening your job search. As an experienced professional, you would have established relationships with other professionals. You can use this network and judiciously mix it with the contacts you established in social networking web sites to enlarge the scope of your job search. By dropping subtle hints and sometimes-outright request, you use your network to do the job search for you.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt;  &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Executive recruiters:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;For experienced individuals, Executive recruiters/Headhunters are an attractive job search option. Organizations contract these Executive recruiters in order to fill in senior level vacancies. In fact, some companies rely entirely on Executive recruiters to fill their critical positions. Some of these recruiters have openings that are never advertised openly on job boards. Executive recruiters also provide the sort of anonymity that a senior individual crave for during the job search.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;Therefore, senior individuals looking for career growth opportunities either within the organization or outside their current employment can conduct a &lt;a href="http://jobman2u.blogspot.com/2011/11/job-search-reduce-your-dependence-on.html"&gt;successful job search&lt;/a&gt; by judiciously leveraging the power of the Internet, the strength of their professional network and the anonymity of Executive recruiters.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;  &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/19500823-8396388264677305522?l=jobman2u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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To&amp;nbsp;establish a communication strategy that filters out the white noise and broadcasts a unified voice that is understood across different media and enhances employee engagement. &lt;br /&gt;
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The&amp;nbsp;message should be conveyed at a level by which employees can form opinions and conclusions.&lt;br /&gt;
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Typically, the communication strategy task force must spend time researching and discussing what employees like, what motivates them, and how to use this information and connect with them.&lt;br /&gt;
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Importantly, the task force should understand the employee’s perception and conduct dip stick surveys to monitor the effectiveness of the communication strategy.&lt;br /&gt;
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1. Awareness about organization goals and vision and engagement principles.&lt;br /&gt;
2. The appropriateness of the message, method and tools used.&lt;br /&gt;
3. Measuring and monitoring the quality of behavior changes.&lt;br /&gt;
4. Ascertain and ask for suggestions on how to ensure the behavior change strategy is integrated and sustained into the existing DNA of the organization.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/19500823-1356111308988130707?l=jobman2u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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These tips will provide you with the framework to inspire others with your communication.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;Be honest when communicating&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;: It will establish the fact that you are person who values integrity.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;em&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Be consistent when communicating&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/em&gt;: It will establish you as person who has a clear vision and a well-defined path to achieve it.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;em&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Be aspirational when communicating&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/em&gt;: It will bring home the fact that you know how benefits of achievement will positively affect every one.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/19500823-534895836015778272?l=jobman2u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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If you attend meetings as a participant, here are some tips to make effective contributions to the meeting.&lt;br /&gt;
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Go prepared:&lt;br /&gt;
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Understand the agenda of the meeting and plan your responses or the observations to the group. This will help you make valuable contributions to the topic under consideration. &lt;br /&gt;
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Speak when you have something to say:&lt;br /&gt;
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Speak up when you have something worthwhile to say .This will reveal you as a person who can contribute to the organizations cause. &lt;br /&gt;
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Express dissenting views:&lt;br /&gt;
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Never, hesitate to share diverse opinion or express dissent. Disagreement is fine, as long as it makes everyone realize the importance of doing due diligence. However, take care to express it in a non-aggressive manner. &lt;br /&gt;
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Show interest:&lt;br /&gt;
Even if you find the ideas unoriginal; be attentive and always maintain a professional demeanor. &lt;br /&gt;
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Follow-up:&lt;br /&gt;
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Not following up on the work done in the meeting is a waste of an organizations time. Start thinking about how you can implement the strategies in your department or your team. This will help you to make suggestions that are valuable during the follow up meeting.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/19500823-3254247855378328273?l=jobman2u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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However, leadership has other dimensions, like the ability to transform a vision, conducting effective organizational changes, and commitment to values.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;Leadership: Ability to transform vision into reality&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;
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A leader’s ability to engage various stakeholders and make them believe and commit themselves to transforming his vision into reality in an organization is one dimension of his leadership quality.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;Leadership: Ability to build organizations&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;
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The ability to build organizations is another dimension of leadership. A leader has to analyze and find solutions to the simmering problems. He has to prioritize the challenges and take on the one that will create a positive impact and at the same time ensure that he binds the organization together. &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;Leadership: Ability to be a role model&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Yet another dimension to leadership is the ability to embody values and professional ethics. This is the most critical dimension as it inspires trust, implies accountability and demonstrates dedication to the vision or to an organization.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/19500823-663656237583957763?l=jobman2u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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Beyond that, organizations expect executives to create a challenging environment and an atmosphere of trust by providing a positive feedback.   &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
This is often an intimidating task for a new executive as they are also on a learning curve. However, it is not as daunting a task if done correctly and with a right attitude. Here are some basic steps you can follow and develop others.   &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;Invest some time and help others plan to improve on their weaknesses or develop their strengths. &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Offer accurate and fair assessment based on dispassionate assessment of their strengths and weaknesses. &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Provide prompt feedback when they execute challenging tasks. &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Suggest training and developing activities that helped you develop yourself. &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Provide them with a new perspective on the tasks they routinely execute.   &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;The steps mentioned above are simplistic, but executives’ particular of developing others can gain traction either by expanding on these 5 steps or even adapting them to their business environment.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/19500823-7538814149852274123?l=jobman2u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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So how can one change our mindset to making a career instead of working a job?   &lt;br /&gt;
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Michael Santarcangelo shares 3 concepts from his experience adapted to the focus of making a career instead of working a life.   &lt;br /&gt;
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1.) Strive for integration over balance. &lt;br /&gt;
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2.) Simple trumps complex.   &lt;br /&gt;
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3.) Enjoy the journey.&lt;br /&gt;
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So what do you think? Can you change your life from mere scratching around to finally taking charge and having a fulfilling career? &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/19500823-3882333032341346635?l=jobman2u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;This cusp, the New Year eve, brings with it the familiar dilemma of trying to understand whether this is the time to &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Introspection-Vindicated-Perceptual-Knowledge-Philosophy/dp/0754650782?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=thecodicil-20&amp;amp;link_code=btl&amp;amp;camp=213689&amp;amp;creative=392969" target="_blank"&gt;introspect&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img alt="" border="0" height="1" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=thecodicil-20&amp;amp;l=btl&amp;amp;camp=213689&amp;amp;creative=392969&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;a=0754650782" style="border: medium none ! important; margin: 0px ! important;" width="1" /&gt; or is this the time to plan.   &lt;br /&gt;
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This twilight, make one wonder if it is a time to start afresh or to continue.   &lt;br /&gt;
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More fittingly, is this time to sigh or is this the time to welcome a new year and the opportunities in its fold. &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;The simplest way to make a person uncomfortable is to invade his &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Personal-Space-meditations-David-Pearce/dp/B002EAYG40?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=thecodicil-20&amp;amp;link_code=btl&amp;amp;camp=213689&amp;amp;creative=392969" target="_blank"&gt;personal space&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;img alt="" border="0" height="1" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=thecodicil-20&amp;amp;l=btl&amp;amp;camp=213689&amp;amp;creative=392969&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;a=B002EAYG40" style="border: medium none ! important; margin: 0px ! important;" width="1" /&gt;. The simple acts of getting too close either face-to-face or even when standing side by side will make a person retreat either physically or mentally.   &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;iframe align="left" frameborder="0" marginheight="0" marginwidth="0" scrolling="no" src="http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=thecodicil-20&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;p=8&amp;amp;l=bpl&amp;amp;asins=0807594733&amp;amp;fc1=000000&amp;amp;IS2=1&amp;amp;lt1=_blank&amp;amp;m=amazon&amp;amp;lc1=0000FF&amp;amp;bc1=000000&amp;amp;bg1=FFFFFF&amp;amp;f=ifr" style="height: 245px; padding-right: 10px; padding-top: 5px; width: 131px;"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;Therefore, it behooves on us to understand what personal space is and how to respect it. For if you are too close or too far away during a conversation with your client or customer you will lose their attention quickly and you will fail to achieve your objectives.   &lt;br /&gt;
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According to Rinda West, "We garden in fairly small plots where we seek to create sanctuaries that will shelter us from the pressures of our crazy lives. If the lake and the parks give us our big expanses, our personal gardens offer us enclosed spaces, retreats, where we can relax, meditate and feel safe." &lt;br /&gt;
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Therefore, when someone stands too close it makes one uncomfortable. This may be because one becomes self-conscious or feels threatened by the other person taking (invading) your personal space. &lt;br /&gt;
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This invasion of personal space elicits either fight or flight response. The person might get irritated and become aggressive or he may move away either physically or tune out mentally. &lt;br /&gt;
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This is not the ideal response when we are trying to persuade a person. When we are convincing others, we need them to be receptive and responsive and hence learning to respect personal space is important for personal success. &lt;br /&gt;
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So here is a video that illustrates how close is too close when it comes to personal space. &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;Why &lt;a href="http://www.boston.com/bostonglobe/ideas/articles/2009/12/27/the_loneliness_network/%20"&gt;do&lt;/a&gt; behavioral scientists believe that &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Positive-Solitude-Practical-Loneliness-Self-Fulfillment/dp/0595154891?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=thecodicil-20&amp;amp;link_code=btl&amp;amp;camp=213689&amp;amp;creative=392969" target="_blank"&gt;loneliness&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img alt="" border="0" height="1" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=thecodicil-20&amp;amp;l=btl&amp;amp;camp=213689&amp;amp;creative=392969&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;a=0595154891" style="border: medium none ! important; margin: 0px ! important;" width="1" /&gt; is catching? &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;iframe align="left" frameborder="0" marginheight="0" marginwidth="0" scrolling="no" src="http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=thecodicil-20&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;p=8&amp;amp;l=bpl&amp;amp;asins=0595154891&amp;amp;fc1=000000&amp;amp;IS2=1&amp;amp;lt1=_blank&amp;amp;m=amazon&amp;amp;lc1=0000FF&amp;amp;bc1=000000&amp;amp;bg1=FFFFFF&amp;amp;f=ifr" style="height: 245px; padding-right: 10px; padding-top: 5px; width: 131px;"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;What this drives home is that loneliness can be surprisingly unrelated to one’s actual social situation. The psychological definition of loneliness is “perceived social isolation.” As Cacioppo emphasizes, this means that loneliness and solitude are not the same thing. “Loneliness isn’t being alone, it’s feeling alone,” he says. A person surrounded by others can be lonely if he doesn’t feel like he has a meaningful connection with any of them. &lt;br /&gt;
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It is imperative to understand when two individuals are involved conflict in one form or the other is inevitable. Hence there is no need to take make it a life and death issue. &lt;br /&gt;
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To put it simply, do not bring emotional baggage, slights and insults into the already charged up atmosphere. Address the issue dispassionately even if the other person speaks disparagingly about you, because resolving the conflict is more important than scoring points or causing emotional scars.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/19500823-4689563368705228883?l=jobman2u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;Relationship brings intimacy but also develops enmity. What starts of as a charming quirk or an unwitting behavioral error, soon gathers mass and tends to solidify into a major interpersonal conflict.   &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;iframe align="left" frameborder="0" marginheight="0" marginwidth="0" scrolling="no" src="http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=thecodicil-20&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;p=8&amp;amp;l=bpl&amp;amp;asins=0736923519&amp;amp;fc1=000000&amp;amp;IS2=1&amp;amp;lt1=_blank&amp;amp;m=amazon&amp;amp;lc1=0000FF&amp;amp;bc1=000000&amp;amp;bg1=FFFFFF&amp;amp;f=ifr" style="height: 245px; padding-right: 10px; padding-top: 5px; width: 131px;"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;Individuals react to conflicts in different ways. Some may use physical strength, other may use a loud voice to drown out the opposing voice, and some just have the habit of withdrawing into their own self-leaving the conflict to exacerbate.   &lt;br /&gt;
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However, an unresolved conflict is like a festering wound. The parties involved keep going back to it. The one who wants the conflict resolved will make snide remarks in order to provoke the other. In turn, the one who avoids conflict will either ignore it or choose to bring other unresolved issues into it.   &lt;br /&gt;
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Unfortunately, the longer the conflict is unresolved the costlier it becomes in terms of relationship. Therefore, resolving conflict is beneficial for the longevity of healthy relationship. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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This learning can be acquired on the job or if necessary by the way of online tutorials or even by taking part time courses. Continual learning is important because it not only develops self-awareness, which in itself is a key personal development skill, but it also increases your chance for career growth.   &lt;br /&gt;
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Dan Moran &lt;a href="http://www.saratogian.com/articles/2009/12/20/news/doc4b2daecee5dfe099172065.txt"&gt;&lt;i&gt;explains &lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;how continual learning help in developing your personal development skills and in career development. &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;iframe align="left" frameborder="0" marginheight="0" marginwidth="0" scrolling="no" src="http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=thecodicil-20&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;p=8&amp;amp;l=bpl&amp;amp;asins=1442101105&amp;amp;fc1=000000&amp;amp;IS2=1&amp;amp;lt1=_blank&amp;amp;m=amazon&amp;amp;lc1=0000FF&amp;amp;bc1=000000&amp;amp;bg1=FFFFFF&amp;amp;f=ifr" style="height: 245px; padding-right: 10px; padding-top: 5px; width: 131px;"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;Some young people choose to participate in diverse and challenging activities, remain motivated in the face of obstacles, and persist until they accomplish their goals. These youth are said to have initiative. Initiative is the motivation to direct effort toward achieving challenging goals and remain determined even when things get difficult (Larson, 2000). &lt;br /&gt;
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Developing this initiative requires three key things: intrinsic motivation; deliberate, goal-directed action in real-world situations and sustaining goal-directed efforts over time (Larson, 2000). What this means is that young people with initiative: &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Are personally invested in their activities;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Exert attention, effort, and concentration in complex and challenging real-world situations; and&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Continue working to achieve their goals, even if it involves re-evaluating and adjusting their strategies in the face of setbacks (Larson, 2000). &lt;/li&gt;
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Similar to initiative, the concepts of "self-efficacy" and "self-regulated learning" have also been used to describe young people that are motivated and persistent. Self-efficacy refers to a person's belief in their ability to achieve what they set out to do (Bandura, 1986; Bandura, 1997). Young people with a higher sense of self-efficacy set more challenging goals for themselves, try harder, persevere in difficult times, bounce back more quickly after failures, and are eventually more successful (Bandura, 1986; Bandura, 1993; Pajares, 2002; Schunk, 1994; Schunk &amp;amp; Zimmerman, 1997; Zimmerman, 1994; Zimmerman &amp;amp; Bandura, 1994). Such young people believe that their abilities are not inherent and unchangeable, but are, instead, a set of skills that can be learned and further developed (Bandura, 1993). These youth consider errors and mistakes part of the natural learning process, and they focus on the improvement of their personal abilities rather than comparing themselves to others (Bandura, 1993). They also believe that their environments and outcomes are controllable and changeable, and that they are capable of determining their own outcomes (Bandura, 1993). Finally, these youth are self-regulated learners who realize their strengths and limits, set their own goals, adopt their own strategies for achieving these goals, and monitor their own progress (Zimmerman, 1989; Zimmerman, 2002).&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;What are the benefits of mind-control?&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;It is difficult to answer such a question and one is forced to answer obliquely.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;Let us look at it this way, if one fails to control his mind; then even in favorable conditions he will fail.He will also leave everyone aghast at how he has failed to use his potential to maximum.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;It is given that a man with a uncontrolled mind will fail to make his way up on his career as he will be found wanting at crucial junctures.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;However, a man whose mind is under control will succeed even in adversity. You can find that the quality of his work is higher than those around him.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;He has immense faith in himself and also develops the confidence to take challenges in his stride for as Napoleon Hill said, " Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve. Thoughts are things! And powerful things at that, when mixed with definiteness of purpose, and burning desire, can be translated into riches".&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;The secret to achieving mind control is simply one of practice and persistence.&lt;br /&gt;
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However, one cannot just will one’s mind to concentrate without understanding the nature of the mind. &lt;br /&gt;
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In addition to it, one must also learn certain techniques and practice them assiduously to achieve a supremely concentrated mind.&lt;br /&gt;
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However, the first step to mind control is the realisation that it is not an act that reaps instant gratification and will definitely cause inner torment.&lt;br /&gt;
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It is also an endeavor that one will repeatedly fail. The antidote to it is persistence that one will have to have in abundance.&lt;br /&gt;
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For mind, control is not easy and as Lord Buddha points out:&lt;br /&gt;
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