CAVE MAN TECHNOLOGIES

“CAVEMAN TAKES WHAT HE WANTS AND VERBALLY STANDS UP FOR WHAT HE WANTS!"

2011-12-03T02:21:00.000-08:00

Dec

I have been talking with this girl online and many in depth, over 1.5 hour plus
conversations for over 2 months now. And still haven’t met her. And yet she kept complaining
about how she can never meet a guy, etc. etc. etc. She has asked me for advice, etc. etc.

So tonight, she said it again about how she couldn’t meet any guys. So I ripped into her! And was blunt! I said, “I have asked you out over 1/2 a dozen times..”

Again, I am half yelling and berating her and ripping into her.

And said, “This is what’s wrong with women when it comes to dating and relationships, they meet a great guy they like and are attracted to and he asks you out, and yet you say you don’t know him, ie me well enough… So we talk on the phone for weeks and months and email back and forth and you still say you don’t know me well enough!”

I said, “You are an oxymoron but don’t take it to personal, because a lot of women are oxymorons when it comes to dating and meeting a guy they like. They say they want to meet a guy, and when they can, they don’t!” “And then say they can’t meet any good guys!”

She said, “but I don’t know you.” SO I said, “Well, what’s it going to take, we have been talking on the phone for over 2 months or so and some times over an hour, like tonight, we have been on the phone for 46 minutes and yet, you still say you don’t know me well enough?” She said, “No, not enough to have sex with you.” SO I said, “WHo said anything about sex.” “I have asked you to meet me for coffee in Novato, down town San Rafael, up your way in Santa Rosa, go for a walk, talk, whatever.” “If you don’t’ feel you know me well enough to at least meet me in a public place for coffee or tea, then I am done talking with you, I have better things to do!” “Because I am not getting anything out of this.” Which she then replied with, “Well, you have had amazing conversations with me!” Which I responded with, I don’t want amazing conversations with you, I can get that with anybody!” “I’m not getting what I want out of this!” “You don’t cook for me, you don’t massage me and you don’t’ have sex with me and you are not paying me a dime for what I am teaching you about relationships.” “So what the hell am I getting out of this?” “Nothing!”

She then said, “So, do you find me attractive?” I said, “I don’t really know, I have never met you in person yet!” “But I’ll tell you this, I am done wasting my time on you, waiting for you to meet with me.” “Do you really think I have nothing better to do on a Friday night than to talk to you all night long?” “How many times have I told you that I am super busy getting a ton of things done and going out having fun, etc. etc. etc.?” “And how many times have I asked you out?”

She again said, “Do you find me attractive?” I said, “Well, maybe not enough to get into a relationship with you, because that takes time and I haven’t even met you yet!” “But, do I want to fuck your brains out and give you a good pounding?” “Yes, I have wanted to fuck your brains out since day 1!!!” “But I am done wasting my time waiting for you!” “When you are ready to meet and have sex with me, you let me know!”

She then said, “Well, I have to take my accountant test in 2 to 3 weeks.” “I have to study every day for the next 2 to 3 weeks until I take that test.” “But I can come down to your place after that.”

I said, “Fine, When you are done with the test and when you know you are coming down, call me 1 or 2 days before and let me know, because I am done having these hour plus conversations with you on the phone until we have sex!”

She said, “Ok, I will.” I said, “Have a good night, good bye!” And I hung up!

See, that’s how it’s done! The minute you Caveman her ass and go “RAAAAAAAAA” “ME Caveman!”
Suddenly women are all over you! hahahaha…

So basically, I just got fed up with her and yelled at her and said, “I’m done!” Lo and behold, suddenly she wants to come down and have sex with me, cook for me and massage me! You watch, she will do all 3…

Now, one of the things is, I never once lied to her or made up wild stories. In fact, I was blunt, in her face and let her know I was angry and fed up and that was it!

Most guys would lie to her and kiss her ass and act happy and tell her what he thinks she wants to here, when deep down inside they are mad and want sex with her.

So, I told her! She knew, I was done and was ready to move on, which means, I am not hooked on her and desperate.. oh, earlier in the conversation she said, “Have you dated anyone lately?” SO I was honest and said, “no, not in the last 2 weeks, but I do have a date with a 27 year old girl tomorrow..” which by the way, is true! She’s adorable too… Which triggers her, He’s got other women after him, which means he must be wanted thus, not desperate, which means he must be of value!

Well, overall, if you are nice, women are not turned on. But when you are honest, express when you are angry, suddenly they want you! Did I lie? Nope, not once… Was I really angry? Yes, absolutely. I had, had it with this girl calling me. I wrote her off 2 weeks ago or so… I was done, no more waste of time, period..

Also, over the last 2 months or so, I have been super blunt when she was talking too quiet and would yell at her and say she’s way to quiet.. I would get mad when she would talk to fast and tell her to take a deep breath and freaking talk out loud and slowly so i can understand her, with a couple of cuss words peppered in…

Now here’s the deal.. none of this was planned. It was just pure honestly, because at this point, I am sick and tired of dealing with people who waste my time, talk so quietly and or mumble to the point I can’t freaking hear them, so I speak up and bark at them genuinely! Because I am done kissing anyone’s ass! Period!

Funny thing is, this actually attracts women, because you are not kissing their ass and are confident enough to yell and express your upset to get what you want! And that’s what it’s all about!

All of these things trigger her mating system because her mating system knows it’s not about muscles or looks, but about a caveman who can speak up for himself and bark at people when they test him or try to take from him. P.s. by the way, a lot of this stuff is her playing games, or testing you, to see if you stand up for yourself and can speak out.

So verbal, social communication and standing up for yourself tells her mating system that you can and will stand up for yourself and get what you want and deserve! And not let people walk all over you and or take advantage of you, at least without a loud, public, verbal exchange. ( In other words, a Caveman who isn’t worried about what she thinks, and will not submit himself or give up what he wants at least without a fight is a Caveman who isn’t worried about what other people think in public life and work, thus he can stand up for himself publicly and socially in a loud way and not be mentally or verbally bullied, because he doesn’t give a rats ass what other people think about him personally!” And thus gets what he wants. Get it!)

So have some boundaries and stand up for yourself, don’t let her or anyone push you around or take advantage of you! Shows you have a spine and women like that!

Me Caveman! “I know what I want! I take what I want!”

P.s. Raaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

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"I JUST MET THE CUTEST JAPANESE GIRL!!!"

2011-11-24T16:23:00.000-08:00

She's super cute!

She's here studying for English!

Now, here's the deal... the way we met was easy enough...

She was in the Coffee shop with her cute friend. And all the guys were staring at her/them. But, nobody was approaching them. So, what did I do different?

Well, #1, First of all I wasn't intimidated by the fact that they were super cute and adorable. All these guys were sitting around, looking, staring at them, but didn't approach...

#2 I didn't let social rules stop me. See, this is the number #1 thing that stops most men dead in their tracks. They are so concerned or worried about what other people would think. Or if they are too old or whatever!

Now, here's one of the Secrets to the female mating system. She will only mate and or date a male who doesn't follow stupid societal rules. And here's why. If it's not a law or it will mean death, then why would you let other people stop you from getting what you want. Now, that's a very, very smart instinct the female mating system has. Her system is looking for a man who goes after what he wants and takes it! Yes, I am dead serious. Now here's why. If you are too afraid to meet a girl in public because some idiot or person or whatever made up some B.S. rule that isn't a law, then her mating system won't mate with you, because you are to easy to push off of your goals.

Now, think about it! If you are too much of a wimp to actually go after what you want, then you are not man enough to make it in the real world and be able to feed her and the family... In all sincerity, do you see how this works?

There are so many intricate and basic things going on, on the instinctual level, that when it all comes down to it, our mating systems actually are smarter than us when it comes to dating and relationships... all you have to do is get out of your own way and literally follow your heart, because that will unconsciously lead you to the promised land! Yes, I mean that!

So, #1 if you want it, go for it! Just do what I did... I saw 2 cute girls and was like "Oh yeah!" "I'm in!" These are not the 2 girls I met at the coffee shop. I will upload their pictures or the girl who's number I got as soon as I go on the first date.

#2 I didn't care what the other people in the room thought about me. In fact, one guy who was sitting about 8 feet away, was totally turned and staring at them and actually freaking them out. So first of all, don't ever do that. IF you stare at a girl and wait, it will freak her out. Just go up and talk to her. Otherwise, turn away and ignore her. Yes, I am serious.

Now, what I did was, I saw 3 tables were open in their area. And, I broke another unspoken social rule you can find in any good/basic body language book. The normal, polite thing to do would be to sit at the far table or the middle table... Nope! I sat right next to them...

But, what I did next is a little secret or a part of a series of secrets that I do on a regular basis. I pulled the table away from them, only about 6 inches to a foot max, and turned my body away and leaned away from them. And then I took my back pack and then my jacket and put it in between us and literally built it up like I was building a barrier in between us! hahaha... I'm teasing them and confusing them for fun!

And then guess what I did next? I completely ignored them as I was turned away, reading a book with my legs crossed, which means another barrier is up saying, I don't want to be bothered.

Now, why do I do this? Why do I do all of these things that tells her/them that I am not interested, I just want to be left alone, etc.?

I do it, becasue the female mating system is hard wired to detect desperation. A man who is desperate and practically begging for Love or Attention or a girl is a total turn off, because if this man is desperate, then he must not have social value. And it's all about your social value and how to express this in a way that attracts and turns women on. Yes, Social power, Social communication, Body language literlly turn women on!

Now why is this? It's because, her mating system is looking for a man who is valued by society by his very presence in a room full of total and complete strangers! Yep, that's right! Now, why is this? Because, if a man can gain social power and respect in a room full of people, then he will have a better chance at survival and feeding his children, because he can gain more social connections with people and can get favors and help from all the social connections he creates.

So yes, when you see some guys just walk into a room and they just seem to own the room and people just seem to gravitate towards them and give them what they want, there is an actual science to this madness. And the great thing is, you can learn how to do this. It's not that hard once you start to see it!

#3 The next thing that happened, was I casually asked them if they were here from Japan studying English. Because there is a University here and a really good program that helps Japanese students to come here and live with host families for up to 1 years to learn English better as a part of their studies as part of their studies in Japanese Universities.

So, when they said yes, they are here to study English, they said it with a wide eyed look as to say, "How do you know?" So then I responded with, I have met many Japanese girls from Japan who have came here to study at that same college for the same program.

Now, what did I just do here? It shows familiarity. Now I am not just some total stranger. I am a guy who has met other Japanese girls and obviously made friends with them in the past, because I mentioned a few things about their program and why they were here. And to them it is obvious that it's true because how else could I know? (Now, this is only a light level of familiarity, but it does count.)

And then I dropped the big one. I actually dated a girl from Japan who happened to be in a very similar program, and was also staying with a host family in San Francisco, just like them. So then I pulled out my cell phone and showed her the pictures of her and I hugging and her kissing my cheek, etc. So, the girls smiled in approval and lit up. (This scores big on the familiarity level with girls and also shows that women like you and go out with you and kiss you! Thus it makes you more valuable.)

They asked about her and how long she stayed, etc. etc. and this sparked up a short conversation for a few minutes. And we laughed, smiled etc. I then realized that I was liked by these girls and that 1 of the girls had chosen me. So once I realized this, I played hard to get and simply said, nice to talk to you and have a good day, enjoy, etc. etc. and then I turned away, crossed my legs and went back to reading... hahaha... (Which raises my Value to them.) I ignore them. hehe...

Now, why am I doing this? Why am I ignoring them? Because it drives women crazy when a guy isn't completely and totally focused on them. hahahaha... it all because women/girls have this think I call "The Cat and Mouse" function, which is hard wired, literally into her nervous system and mating system. And when you play hard to get, it triggers her to want to chase you! See! There is a way to get women to chase you instead of you chasing them. In fact, if she is not chasing you, paying for all the dinners and expensive gifts in the world won't do a damn thing!

She literally must be so interested in you that she chases you! And basically, how you do that, is by ignoring her at the right times. This is the other Japanese girl I dated and whose picture I used to show these 2 girls in this blog. She's a cutie huh!

So after a few minutes, maybe 5 or so, I then asked them if they are having fun here in the U.S. and if they are going out to clubs. And they giggled and responded and said, "Yes" and that they mostly enjoy shopping here and have a lot of fun shopping.

Now, what did I do here? I steered or directed the conversations into a fun place simply by asking them if they are having fun here. So their brain has to focus on fun just to understand the conversation.

See, steering a conversations to a positive place is as easy as asking a fun question about fun things or simply talking about interesting, fascinating and or fun things. It's literally that easy and makes you a great conversationalist, which is the #1 thing that turns women on sexually! Yes, conversations, effective communication literally turns women on. The better you get at it, the easier it becomes.

That's why I say, "Meeting girls and turning women on is easy once you know how!" Oh, and it's fun too!

#4 Now, as I was talking to these girls back and forth, I noticed the men in the room were giving me the disapproval look and the almost angry, your a bad guy look... hahahahaha...

Now here's the deal, this can and will work in your favor if you do 1 thing. Laugh at them, ignore them. This one guy who like I said before was about 8 feet away was really trying to give me the evil eye and disapproval look and the girls saw it. So, I literally starting smiling inside and almost laughed out loud. I just simply had this shitty grin and inside was laughing, because I knew that his guy didn't have the balls to approach these girls and was mad that I did.

Now, here's the deal. It was very clear that the reason this guy didn't approach, or rather his excuse, was because these girls were in college and he was about 45 and in his mind, he was too old. Now, I am almost as old as this guy and I didn't let any excuse stop me let alone my freaking age.

Hey, it's a free country and I don't let other people tell me what I can or can't do, especially when it comes to social rules or personal values or personal morals, etc. etc. Because, that's their B.S., not yours or mine!

And, And, hahahaha... I know something that these guys don't know. Younger girls love, love to date older guys! I am serious. It's hard wired into their mating systems to mate with older guys. There are too many reasons to go over them all right here; such as mother nature knows what she is doing and purposely hard wired younger women/girls to chase older guys and hard wires guys to be highly attracted to younger women.

So I am sitting there and I laugh at this guy, rather grin at him and sit back and look around the room confidently, because in my head, I can see all the excuses the guys in this room are using to not approach these 2 beautiful, hot and cute/sexy girls. They were too old or not tall enough or not rich enough, good looking enough, or whatever their B.S. says. And the worst part, is none of it is true! None of these things are what attracts girls to guys at all...

So, when I looked around and grinned, these girls knew exactly what I was thinking. I don't give a damn what you guys think. You guys didn't approach these girls because you let fear tell you what to do, and I didn't! Thus, the spoils go to the guy who takes it! Period end of sentence.

Now, it doesn't end here.

I then go back to ignoring the girls and even say, "Nice to meet you, have a great day, etc. etc.." And they are slightly shocked and then get up to leave as I go back to turning away and ignoring them.

They slowly walk out and I noticed, they stayed right next to the door, just on the outside as they glanced at me. And again, I ignore them...

And then I noticed the guy in the chair 8 feet away gives me this look like some how he accomplished something because the girls left. I looked up at him and just giggled and shook my head, because, I'm not done yet. Everything is set in play, perfectly!

So, then the girls start to walk to the corner, and then I grab my back pack, go out, grab my bike and then went across the street to meet them and said "Hello!" We chatted for about 5 minutes and the one girl acted like her phone rang, which, it didn't... hahaha.. it was in her purse and there is no way she could have felt it if it was vibrating, and I would have heard that too...

So, I realized that the girl next to me who had then stepped close to me within breaths distance, had probably told the other girl that she liked me and wanted me. So at this point, it's a complete wrap and I chit chat for about 3 minutes and ask her if she wants my number and she hesitated. And then I said, "Do you want to give me your number so I can call you?" And then she lit up and said, "Yes!" hahahaha...

So now, watch this. I purposely asked her to hold onto my hot chocolate, even though she had a cell phone in 1 hand and her drink in the other... hahahaha.. this shows that she is willing to do for you which is a strong sign that she really likes you!

*** Note, Guys, girls do not want to be the one to call you. That's your job!

So then I got her number, saved it. And then was about to leave when she said, "Can you call my phone so I can have your?" So I again asked her to hold my drink, and again, she complied. Then pulled my phone back out and called her. Then gave her a big hug and took off!

Oh, and yes, the guy in the Chair was outside at this point watching us, and I purposely rode my bike back across the street towards him and raised my Hot chocolate drink towards him as if to say, "That's how you do it!" hahahahaha...

And Off I rode into the sunset knowing I am going to have a great winter playing with this deliciously hot girl through the cold winter nights at my place! hahahahaha...

Now seriously, if you want to get off your ass and start to learn how to do all of these things in a step by step manner, then give me a call right now and show up to my next workshop or sign up for my 1 on 1 coaching sessions.

Now, this is not easy for the male brain to learn at first, but once you start to catch on, it literally becomes addictive and very fun! And your entire life will change!

You will become that confident guy in the coffee shop picking up on the cute girls while all the other guys stair in amazement and jealously helplessly wishing they could be you!

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WHAT'S THIS PICKUP ARTIST STUFF REALLY ALL ABOUT?

2011-10-21T03:27:00.000-07:00

Well, a lot of guys think they are learning how to pick up on girls because they are horny or because they want to be cool or impress their buddies and or all of the above!

But, but, what is this all really about?

Well most of these guys, you, who read books on pickup, seduction, pickup artist, romance and dating tips for men are shocked when you get far down the path to learning how to meet the girl of your dreams. And its' actually a really cool thing!

At first you learn all the lines in the world. Pickup lines, tricks, games and all kinds of cool and or trick and even quite manipulative things to do and or say, which I don't really like...

So you learn how to open a conversation, you learn what to say, what to do, how to turn your body and all of that...

Then over time you learn there is actually a game and it's called, "THE GAME!" And then you start to see a part of what's really going on. And you find out, you don't really like this. And you realize that it was never your game or guys game. You start to realize, learn and see that "The Game" is the females game, not the guys game. In fact, it's you who have to learn her game...

So you start to get pissed off because this entire time, you always thought it was the guys playing or spittin game on the girls and how society makes single men look bad for doing this. Yet, you know as well as all the girls know, that if you are nice and polite and open doors and pay for dinners, you don't get a girlfriend. Or if you do get a girlfriend, she cheats on you with the guy whom everyone calls the jerk.

Or, it's the jerks who get all the girls. And that my friends is a fact. And you know it... And then you start getting mad at the Jerks, at the girls and at society... I mean, here you are a good guy. Paying for dinners, even though she makes almost double what you make. And you open doors even though she has 10 times more social power than you! And after a while, you feel like a sucker because she eats dinner, gives you a kiss on the cheek and then goes out with her girlfriends to meet all the jerks.

And after a few years or more than a few years of this... you realize it's you who are the good guy and it's her and her and her who are all doing drugs, partying, having unprotected sex and sleeping around, cheating on you and a lot more...

Then you get pissed off! You've had it... and that's where it all starts! Your get some balls... yes, you finally say fuck it! I am done being the nice guy! I am done paying for dinner... She can pay for dinner you say... And then when she calls you up and says, "are we going to dinner?" You say, "NO! I am done paying for diner, I've had it!" And then she is stunned.. what is happening to her little boy? Is he finally going to put his foot down and tell me where to shove it? Is he finally getting some balls?

And then you say, "I am sick and tired of paying for dinners and paying for flowers only for you to run off with your friends and have fun without me!"

And then it happens... She apologizes... and now you are shocked... I mean, this is the last thing you would ever think would happen... And then, she asks you if she can buy you dinner... She says, "I'll pay!"

Now you are thinking, what the hell is going on? Wait? You mean by yelling at her and saying "NO!" She actually is being nice to me...

So you go out and she adores you, kisses you, clasp your hands, intertwining her fingers with yours, in public... and she doesn't even notice the waiter who is 6'3", in perfect shape, athletic/muscular... she is totally focused on you!

She then pays for the entire dinner and insists... and inside, you are looking at her, like, am I in the twilight zone? What the hell is going on here? Why is she being so damn nice to me... Why is she working so hard to please me?

So then she comes home with you and insists on giving you a full body massage... and you are like, "wait, whenever I ask her for a massage, she blows me off or gets mad or whines, or leaves with her friends..." "SO what's going on here?"

And then it happens... she gives you a blow job and it all gets hot and heavy from there... She never gives you a blow job!!! She starts making wild passionate love to you... She does things that she's never done before... you are shocked, stunned... And then she curls up with you and clings to you and falls asleep in your arms...

And you are like what the hell is going on?

So you wake up and she has breakfast cooked, your favorite chocolate pancake with pink stripes... And then you think... hmmm... I think I need to let go of the pink stripes.... and then you think, what the hell am I thinking... where did that thought come from? And then you hear a voice from down below say, "Your balls!!!"

So then she runs off and cleans the kitchen, starts to vacuum and more....

So you realize, "Hey, wait a minute, this is a freaking dream"; until you get out of bed and stub your toe and are screaming from the pain only to find her run in to see if you are ok...

And then you ask her, "Is everything ok?" "Did someone die?" And then she giggles and says, "No silly!" "Why would you say that?" And then you say, "Because you are actually being nice to me!" "What's going on?" "Did someone put you up to this?" "Did you lose a bet?" And then she giggles again and says, "What are you talking about?" "I always treat you like this, you are my hunny bear?"

And inside you are saying, "You have never treated me like this?"

So then you lay back down and you start to day dream and ponder the amazing night and morning you just had with your girlfriend who has never been like that with you...

And then it pops into your head and you think, "wait a minute!" "Is she being nice to me because I got mad and yelled at her and said "No!"??? And then you hear a muted scream from down below and your balls say, "Yes, you freaking idiot!" "That's what I have been trying to tell you!" "She wants you to be the man and put your damn foot down already!" "Damn Fool!"

So then you sit back and you are all on fire thinking, "No way, is this the secret to getting hot girls?" "Is this the secret to getting what you want from a relationship?" "Really?" "Holy shit!" "I've got to test this out!"

So you figure, you have been the nice guy your entire life... and it never worked... to the point, you have spent every dime, opened every door, said "Excuse me, pardon, etc. etc." and you never got laid or only once in a while and then she would run off or turn away...

So you say, "Screw it!!!!" "I'm done being Mr. Nice guy!" And off you go into a world of saying, "NO!" "NO!" "NO!" And you find your magical power. You stopped letting people use you or make fun of you! You stopped putting up with rude people. You stopped letting people step on your toes and screw you over! You've had it and you are not putting up with peoples bullshit anymore!

You start to get up and walk out on dinners, lunches and friends parties... And then suddenly people start to respect you and treat you better! And the girls are all over you and want to be with you and win your heart... Now they treat you better and want you to marry them!

Now you are the guy all the other guys envy!

And then one day it hits you! You've become the jerk... except, wait a minute! You are not a jerk at all... you just have boundaries and self respect and don't let women take advantage of you! You make her carry her weight in the relationship now or you walk! And she knows it now and respects you for that!

Wow! What a revelation.. who would have thought that having self respect is what it's all about!

Yes, my friends, this is all about Self Respect and having Firm Boundaries!

If you truly want to learn how to develop Self Respect and boundaries, then give me a call and let's put this into action so you can start Living Life to the Fullest!

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Understanding Women Is Key to Sex!

2011-10-16T00:02:00.000-07:00

The Key to Success with women from Dating, Relationships, Marriage and pickup and Seduction is "Understanding!" So, if the greater your understanding of women, the greater your chances of making love, being loved and a lot more fun! If you are a single guy and want to make love to that new girl you just met, then this article is for you! If you are married and you want to save your marriage and learn how to massively turn on your wife and bring her closer to you mentally, emotionally and physically, then this article is for you too!

Well, as I was talking with a client of mine yesterday, and what I was hearing was that he could meet women and was very good at starting conversations, getting numbers, going on dates and having a lot of fun with women. And was even really good at using the language patterns to turn women on, but... He just couldn't close the deal.

Now this is what we call a sticking point!

So, he said, "Well, I'm afraid of rejection!" "Every time I get a girl alone and in the zone for sex, they always pull away or hesitate..." And I said, "What does that mean to you?" (I'll explain what this means in a little bit!)

And my client said, "It means they don't want sex!" "And they aren't like that!" etc.. etc.. And I said, "How do you know?" And then my client let it all out! He said, "Well, because I realize they are probably thinking, or saying in their head, that they are not like this!" And I said, "Well, how well does that thought work for you?" And they said, "What do you mean?" I said, "Well, first, how could you possibly know that's what they are thinking?" And my client said, "Well, that's what I think they are thinking!" And again I said, "How well is that thought working for you?" And my client said, "it's not!" So I said, "Would you be willing to explore the possibilities of what's really going on?" And my clients said, "Yeah, of course!"

And over an hour or so of conversation, I realized my client had all this nonsense and chatter going on in his head! But, I do realize that this person was really close to what was needed. See, my client was compassionate and didn't want the girl to feel bad, but was off thinking and creating the wrong thoughts and experience for himself and her...

Now, the first thing you have to know, is it's all about the energy or atmosphere that you create first with your thoughts, secondly with your body language and tonality.

So I said, "Well, you are creating thoughts of worry by asking these questions and thinking these thoughts." "So stop doing that!" "What you need to do is realize a few things!" "First of all, you need to start creating thoughts and feelings of what you want her to feel and connect with you in these intimate moments!" "Like warm, loving, sensual, pleasurable and comforting thoughts of romance, love and intimacy!"

Now this is what you need to do.

#1 Stop listening to your head...I am dead seriously, stop this nonsense, because it will get you no where!

Instead, listen to your body. I'm serious... Have you ever heard of that TV commercial for Fruit Loops cereal? Where the Bird is in a jungle and it's nose is all full of different brightly vibrant colors? Where it says, "Follow your nose, it always knows!" Well, I am telling you the same thing but in a slightly different light, "Follow your cock, it always knows!"

So start listening to your sexual feelings, urges and follow them, because they will lead you to the Motherland! And that's a great place to be, trust me! hehe...

Now you might think that's funny, but it is more true than you realize. Your sexual drive and body know exactly what to do! So just follow it! And for crying out loud, stop listening to your damn mind...

#2 Create an environment of trust where she can trust you will take care of things!

This is the most important section in this article. This is what the article was really written for!

She needs for you to reassure her and let her know that you are taking care of her and it's your responsibility! Because then she can relax and surrender to you sexually... Now this is a huge thing that men have a hard time understanding, because you are the male, the penetrater, not the female who has to literally open up her legs and let you inside of her and possibly get her pregnant. If you are a stranger or this is your first time, she absolutely must feel safe and trust you! It is absolutely your job to make her feel safe, emotionally bonded with you and comfortable to completely surrender, open up and make love with you!

She takes on the worry of what if I get pregnant? Is he going to stick around and help me? Is he going to make me feel safe? So you have to let her know with your body language, the way you take charge, lead and talk that you've got it, that you have it all taken care of. That everything is fine. That together you and her can do this... and everything is going to be wonderful, this is going to be a wonderful experience with you...

It's your job to create an emotionally safe and emotionally fulfilling experience for her! So talk smooth, relax, slow down, touch her gently and make her melt by your very touch and with the magic of your words!

And from this point on, simply focus on the amazing pleasure the 2 of you are about to experience together! That's what you should be focusing on! Period! So stop being so serious and just loosen up, have some fun. Be playful and fun! Ok!

* Tip, watch a funny movie. Or anything that gets you laughing. Laughter will get you sex easier than anything else, even more than Romantic movies or a Romantic Dinner or flowers! Get a massage or give her a massage. Just relax and let go... A little wine is ok too.

#3 Create an open, accepting and non-judgmental environment for her! So she feels safe emotionally.

She needs to know she is not going to be thought of as a slut or whore or anything like that the next day. Because women do enjoy sex and want sex and pleasure just as bad as men do. So if you want to have an amazingly sexual and erotic experience with her, then you must let her know that it's ok to let go and enjoy to the fullest and you won't think any different of her or judge her. You must create a completely non-judgmental environment for her. Just accept her for the beautiful girl that she is and she is sharing herself with you.

#4 You must also create a completely free environment where she can feel free to come back to you, be with you and connect sexually with you, because she wants to, not because you put some kind of guilt trip on her or worse, because you are trying to control her or change her in any way!

This must be an experience where the 2 of you can freely come together and enjoy each others pleasure.

Again, learning how to completely let go of the outcome and her is your secret key to the power of Love and Pleasure!

#5 When a woman hesitates, she is actually saying, "I surrender, take me."

I bet you didn't know that one huh?

And she's also saying, "but I can't be a whore and let you have it." "I have to act like I am innocent and pure and i am not having sex because I want sex, but because you took it from me or you led me here!" So when she gently hesitates and gets quiet, that is a definite signal saying, "You have the green light, go for it!" "Take it!" "Oh GAWD Man Take it already, just go for it!" hahaha...

At this point, with most women all you will have to do is simply keep moving forward and just start kissing her, touching her and begin to take her clothes off. If she says, "No, or not yet, she doesn't necessarily mean that, she's really saying, "I need to more time to get more and more turned on to the point of "NO RETURN!". So back off a little bit and maybe just hold her for a second and assure her by saying, "It's Ok, I've got you!" And say that while you are holding her firmly and comfortably. And then start all over and keep moving forward. You may have to do this more than a few times. But whatever you do, don't completely stop. Imagine it's like a sport where you need to take a breather and catch your breath!

Now in contrast, if she is yelling in an angry tone, "NO!" "Stop, and is pushing you away very hard, and saying, "I do not want this, etc.", then that is a definite no sign. But if she is doing it playfully and having fun saying no, then it's on! The main point or core understanding, is you have to know that women want you to be the responsible one and that they can't socially/publicly say, "I want sex!" because in our society and most societies, that would mean that she's a whore and will be disrespected! This is really her way of making you show that you are the man and it's you who is leading her to sex, not her! So she may back off a few times, so that's ok. Just keep plowing! Yes, at this point, you have to use this technique I call "PLOWING!" But you will have to do it with finesse.

Now, that being said, every girl is different. So you will have to simply pay attention to her. What does she need right now? What does she want to lead her forward into having sex. Basically, just look at her, is she smiling, grinning, does she have that devilish grin? Does she have that "Omg", I am so freaking horny look? What does she look like, breath like, move like? Is she holding you, turned away, what? Start to notice her and where she is at in the moment! That is probably the biggest most important thing I can tell you!

Another technique you can do is simply get up, out of bed, and go watch some TV or make some ice cream or pop corn or throw in a movie and invite her, from the other room or at the end of the bed, "Nonchalantly" without looking at her, over your shoulder or from the other room, to join you are ask her if she wants some ice cream. And do it in a nonchalant, buddy, nonsexual kind of way! Now that will really throw her for a loop. hehe... Trust me, she is not used to guys like this!

Another thing you can do is pull out a board game and play. Now a video game might really piss her off, so I would avoid that, unless you absolutely know she loves to play video games. Too many guys get addicted to their video games and it really pissed women off, so I really wouldn't do this. Besides, a board game invites her to interact with you!

I once dated this cute Asian girl and we ended up at my place, and we ended up in the bedroom. We were on the couch cuddling, kissing and she kept saying in a playful girly voice, "no", "no", "no", but kept kissing me and holding me and pulling me back every time I leaned away and started watching T.V.. (This is a playing hard to get technique. Women love it when you play that cat and mouse game. So be a challenge to the very end! hehe...)

CAVEMAN TECHNIQUE:

So when she pulled me to her, I stood up and she grabbed my shirt and tried to pull me back down, so I did my Trademark move that is literally named after my business's name, Caveman Technologies! hehe... I pulled a Caveman on her! hahaha... I literally grabbed her and threw her over my shoulder and smacked her on the ass and then Roared like a Caveman! RAAAAAAAAAAAAAA... And then I carried her to my bed with her laughing the entire way.

Now, you must know that this technique actually turns women on massively in a big, big way! I am serious. It is hard-wired into her DNA from almost 100,000 years of Cavemen doing this to cave girls. If you want to learn this technique on how to Roar like a Caveman, I will teach you... hahahaha..

So, when we got into bed and I started acting like a Caveman Roaring and while taking off her clothes, she was laughing and at the same time was saying "no", "no", "no", but was also laughing and giggling and she never tried to get out of bed and was being playful the entire time. In fact, when I stopped and pulled back, she would grab me and start kissing me and never made any attempt of pulling her shirt back on or her pants, etc. This was her way of saying, "Yes, take it!" So guess what I did? I took it! hahaha...

So, I just kept going acting like a Caveman and we had the best time ever! It really was an amazingly intensely sexual experience for us both!

So learning how to read women's indirect signals is vital...

Oh, I almost forgot!

#6 Women Love to Role Play!

Yes! Women love to role-play different roles. Personally, I like to be the Caveman because it really resonates with my personality! And women love to be taken by a Caveman! Other roles are Doctor role, etc.

Now the thing to understand, is that this role-playing gives her plausibility of deniability to her friends or anyone. Because it wasn't sex, it was role-playing. It wasn't her, it was a game, etc. So this will actually allow her to open up and experience the greatest sex of her life!

The female brain is hard-wired to her imagination big time! So the more you can engage her imagination the more pleasurable and erotic her experiences will be with you! And if you are married, this technique will definitely light the fire in your relationship again.

Have fun and enjoy life together! That's what we are here for!

#7 You want to know what the goal is!

This one is huge! You have to know what your target is, so you can aim at it! Actually, this is a very powerful secret in sports and in hypnosis. See, if you don't know where you are going, your unconscious mind can't take you there, because it's your unconscious mind that actually does all the work of your body language, tonality, and other unconscious processes.

So, start imagining what you want! Like maybe you want to imagine making wild, passionate love with her! Imagine holding you, kissing you passionately. Imagine feeling the heat coming from her body. Imagine her completely melting into you and making love to you, holding you, clinging to you firmly with passion and lust in her eyes, arms and entire body, making her legs quiver!

Now that' s a Goal and a clear target!

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The Biggest Mistakes Guys Make When Meeting Girls!

2011-08-09T10:25:00.000-07:00

Hello and Welcome Back!

I'm Mike Kollin, also know as The Love Doctor!

And I have made some really powerful discoveries in Female Psychology and communication. Now I am absolutely going to give you one the most important understandings to have when it comes to meeting women and also when in a relationship. If you don't understand this, you will lose every time! (That's me and my girl! She's a cutie!)

#1 Women will test you a lot and all the time!

#2 Women associate your behavior with her out to society! (I'll explain in a minute.)

#3 You need to stand your ground, period!

#1 Now, what's going on? The absolute biggest mistake men make when meeting girls is they try to be freaking nice!!! OMG! Stop doing this for crying out loud. Now, I have been teaching men how to communicate with women, to seduce women, pickup on women professionally for over 14 years now, maybe more. And I have got to tell you, the #1 Biggest most massive, huge mistake guys make when going to clubs or lounges or whatever is they think that by being soft and quiet and nice will attract a girl... It won't!

I can tell you, beyond a shadow of a doubt, the guys who get the girls and get the girls a lot all have this one thing in common! They are aggressive and make no apologies about it. And they will put a girl in her place if she tests him. And trust me, she will test you! They are literally neurologically hard-wired to test you in public for one reason and one reason only!

They are trying to see if you care what other people think and if you are a good boy who follows rules! Why? The reason, is because if you are more worried about what other people think of you than what you want, then you are not a good Caveman. And a Caveman who is so freaking mentally wimpy that he is worried about what girls or other people think of him in public to the point where he doesn't stand up for himself and call her on her B.S. then he is not a good mate to mate with. She needs a strong Caveman who takes what he wants and doesn't even notice what other people thing! Period! That's it!

A caveman who follows rules is a weak caveman and he gets the scraps of society, which means her children with him will also get the scraps of society and will not have the best possible opportunities in life! And that is everything to her Reptilian/Cave girls mating system. Yes, I am dead serious and it has everything to do with her choosing you for sex or not!

What you have to understand, is that for women, when she is at a club or lounge or any place meeting strange men, her smaller reptilian brain takes over and she goes on auto pilot and is under her mating systems control. Yes, I am serious. It's hard-wired into her. So, if you think women are logical and make sense when choosing mates, then you need to wake up and open up your eyes and take a look around. Girls date gangsters, thugs, drug dealers and guys who are not good for her at all; they don't have jobs, ever went to college or worse. Yet, who do you see these girls with?

Now let me rewind just a little bit! Just a minute ago I mentioned mentally wimpy guys do not attract girls, in fact, mentally wimpy guys are a major, major turn off no matter how big and strong you are! How do I know? Because at one point, I use to bench press 365 lbs. for 2 solid reps. And at one point, I was ranked #1 in the United States as a Muay Thai / Kick boxer, a State Champion in Boxing, ranked in wrestling, street fighter, trained in martial arts my entire life and a lot more. Yet, socially and publicly I was a total and complete wimp, especially with girls!

And because of that, I couldn't pick up women for the life of me! Or when I did have a girlfriend, she treated me like crap. And it was the most miserable experience of my life. I did that twice and learned the hard way! Now here's the funny thing. Every now and then I would here a girl say, "Why can't I find a real man, a man who knows how to put me in my place." Or they would say, "Why can't I find a guy who calls me on my B.S.." And I remember inside thinking, "Wow, this girl has problems if she thinks a guy is going to go out of his way to put her in her place or call her on her B.S.!" Yet, I was totally and completely wrong. I heard this for years, read it on dating sites on girls profiles, and on and on. And then one day it dawned on me to ask.

So I started asking older women in their 50's or older about girls and these subjects. And without hesitation, each and every one of them said the same damn thing. They told me, yes, when that girl tests you and tries to make you angry or tests your boundaries, you have to be firm and put her back in her place.

Now this shocked me to no end! I was tripping out inside my head for about a year on this subject. So, I finally started going to clubs and cafe's and book stores where I didn't know anyone. hahaha... I would drive over an hour to find places where I have never been and never will go again. I would approach girls, except this time I would do it with more of a Masculine, manly and with a bit of an aggressive edge to me. I would start a conversation and talk to her. And the minute a girl called me a name or smarted off to me or whatever, I would literally call her on her B.S. and I would do it loudly, in her face, in public and without a care in the world. See, I wasn't there to actually get her number or sex, although that would be a major plus. I was there to see if this actually worked!

And lo and behold, BAMM! These girls would actually smile and get real quite. And another thing I noticed is they would sway their bodies, get coy and their eyes would dilate big time! And they would swoon and melt right before my eyes. hahahahaha... I couldn't believe it.

I was totally and completely shocked because my entire life, I thought I was supposed to be Mr. Polite, nice and be a good boy! Yet, after frustrating years and years of being single or with women who disrespected me, I finally had it and had to try something new. Turns out that it actually turns women on and attracts them mentally, emotionally and sexually when they find a man who raises his voice, speaks up for himself and puts her in her place! Yes, it's a sexual turn on for women!

Now, Testing. This is sooooooooo important for you to understand!

Mother nature hard-wired women to test you a lot, especially when they first meet you and on the first couple of dates, maybe more. See, she is trying to see if you are man enough to call her on her B.S. of being rude or making jokes on you or calling you names. And yes, women will call you names. I had a friend of mine who was at a club with me and he was being Mr. Nice guy. hahahahahah... Big, Big, Big mistake!

So what does she do to him in front of her girlfriends and me? Hahahahahahaha... She says, "Oh, You're Gay!" hahahahahaha... And my friend just froze about died and was so freaking embarrassed! (By the way, women will do this a lot, especially at clubs in big cities. It's a test, so let er rip and rip into her and watch her melt and smile.)

So stepped in and called her a Bitxx. And started attacking her verbally and next thing you know, she smiled, became a little girl and became very sensual with me. And yes, I got a kiss and her number a little while later. So later on, my friend asked me, "Why do girls always ask me if I'm gay!" I start laughing and say, because you are nice!" "I'm serious!" "You've got to hold your ground and speak up!" "And when she says something rude to you, tell her she's fat and desperate or her dress doesn't look good or whatever!" "It's a test for crying out loud."

Ok, look, the other thing, is that if you are Mr. Nice, she will call you on it. By calling you a name or testing you in some way. Now here's the thing. It's a Golden opportunity! She is literally saying inside, "Please, please be a man!" "Don't let little ole me scare you away, I'm a little girl for crying out loud!" She is purposely giving you an opportunity!!! Now take advantage of it, she has practically surrendered to you. Now Take it! She wants you too! Yes, I am serious.

#2 Women associate. That's what women do because they are largely in their right, emotional and associative brain. Well, what does that mean? It means, that whatever you are like with her, is what she will associate to you and then her brain will literally generalize that to what she imagines you are like in the real world!

So, if you are Mr. Nice guy with her, she thinks you are Mr. Nice guy out at the work force and out in the world and in her mind, how can he survive out there if he's this nice! And this is a major, major turn off! So you have to be gruff and aggressive and tough. Now what do I mean?

Don't be so damn agreeable with her. Let her know in a strong way if you don't like something or if you want to go somewhere and she says no, or whatever. Don't give up so easily, freaking make your voice be heard. And inside she will like it and respect you for it. But if you are Mr. Nice, she will lose all respect for you! Period!

I mean, don't be such a freaking wimp, get angry when you are angry. Don't apologize all the time, in fact, rarely apologize. Ok, what I really mean, is when you are grumpy, then act and be grumpy. If she does something you don't like, then tell her in a firm and strong way. Women like this. Seriously watch her smile, then hug you then make love to you and even cook and clean. I'm serious.

And don't always be Mr. Kid gloves with her or kitten gloves, however you say that. Be a Caveman once in a while. I'm serious. Show her you are the boss, it's a huge turn on for her. Even if you just growl like a Caveman as a joke, do it once in a while, there is a system in her reptilian brain that likes this and is assures her and calms her down when you act manly and growl once in a while. And, this is a big one. Literally pick her up and throw her over your shoulder and smack her on the ass and then take her to your bed and make love to her! This is my biggest secret to getting a girl to have sex with me. Works every single time.

And yes, if you are married for crying out loud, do this, she will appreciate it. I am serious!

Ok, so to wrap this section up, you have to understand one important thing. Her body and right emotional brain are literally feeling the feelings you are giving off. So if you are nervous, scared or anxious, she's going to feel that too and it makes her feel nervous and scared and that will make her want to run. Now, if you are coming across as strong, powerful and grounded, calm and confident, guess what she feels? Yep, you guessed it, strong, powerful, grounded and confident and that's a great feeling for a girl to have. So if she feels this when she meets you, then she's going to want to be with you because those feelings turn her on sexually and make her horny, with you. This is what I mean when I say, women associate into you!

#3 Stand your ground, be firm, grounded, and speak up!

Now women can't stand men who are wishy-washy or wimpy and especially do not talk in a low volume. Turn that volume up! The more the better for most guys because most guys are way, way, way to quite and it's irritating because it causes your listener to strain to hear you and that's freaking frustrating in a big, big way!

Oh yes, when you are at a club do not, do not, do not lean in close to talk into her ear because the music is too loud! Hell no! Don't do it! What you must do is raise your volume up and speak loud enough so she can clearly hear you! If you are truly speaking loud and I mean really loud, she can lean into you and listen. That's the way it's done! I am serious!

So be solid and don't let a girl push you around at all. And you lead, not her! So you grab her hand and pull her, not the other way around.

Take these 3 tips into account and watch women smile and move towards you!

Good luck guys! Have fun, laugh loudly and help her have a good time by you being a man!

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HAVING FUN WITH WOMEN IS EASY ONCE YOU KNOW HOW!

2011-06-17T15:44:00.000-07:00

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2011-05-21T16:56:00.000-07:00

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2011-04-23T19:54:00.000-07:00

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2011-04-14T10:34:00.000-07:00

ALL OF US TOGETHER CAN CHANGE THE WORLD AS WE KNOW IT.

I BELIEVE OUR GENERATION CAN CREATE THE MOST AMAZING WORLD IN THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WAY THAT WE HAVE ALWAYS DREAMED OF.

WE CAN CREATE WORLD PEACE.

WE CAN CREATE LOVE AND UNITY!

WE CAN LIVE AMAZING AND POWERFUL LIVES!

AND WE CAN ALL DO IT WITH OUT THOUGHTS!

WATCH THIS VIDEO AND WATCH YOUR LIFE CHANGE. THIS VIDEO IS AMAZING, POWERFUL, EXCITING BEYOND ANYTHING I HAVE EVER SEEN OR HEARD IN MY ENTIRE LIFE...

NOW IS THE TIME! NOW IT WILL HAPPEN IN OUR LIFE TIME!

GO LOVE SOMEONE! GO HUG SOMEONE! GO SPREAD THE CHEER!

YOU ARE LOVE!
YOU ARE POWER!
NOW GO TAKE ACTION AND LOVE THE WORLD!

I am Mike Kollin your Love and Communication Expert!

For Dating and Relationships.

We can change the world! WE can save the world. We can save each other! Just simply use your thoughts. See it, feel it, believe it! We are all powerful! WE can do this! We can make the world a better place... Simply visualize Love-Peace-Harmony-Prosperity.

You and your thoughts are amazing beyond belief!!! AMAZING VIDEO:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r_YOG3jMlV4&feature=player_embedded

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YES!!! WE ARE NOW RANKED #1 IN DATING AND RELATIONSHIPS!!!

2011-04-10T08:06:00.000-07:00

YES, CAVEMAN TECHNOLOGIES IS NOW OFFICIALLY RANKED #1 ON THUMBTACK
For Dating and Relationship and singles coaching!

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NEW WEBSITE RELEASED Dating and Relationship Coaching

2011-04-05T01:19:00.001-07:00

Hello there everyone!

My New Website is finally released under http://mikekollin.com

Please feel free to check it out! Click on link now!!!

Mike Kollin

Your Love and Relationship Coach
Dating and Relationship coaching

2011-03-28T05:41:00.000-07:00

Hey Guys...

How are you all doing?
Well, For the last few days I have been reading a very interesting, to the point type of book...
And I highly, highly recommend it to each and everyone of you...
This book is called

MODE ONE
Let the women really know what you are thinking
by Allan Currie

You can find it on Amazon

Now, First of all, I have to give a preframe.
Alan is not aware of the Indirect Romantic, Sexually erotic langauge.
So keep that in mind.

Alan does however have a really good focus and understanding on what I consider the #1 or at least top #2 or #3 reasons men come to me or other coaches in the area of Love and Relationships, especially but not only within dating and meeting women; because a lot of married men have this same problem and it's a powerful reason why women leave their husbands. They simply get sick and tired of it...

Alan breaks men down into 4 modes

Mode 1 being the strongest and most direct about your wants and Sexual needs.
And Alan's main point, is that most men don't let their sexuality and sexual needs be known! And or men don't express to women their sexual interests towards them.

And, I have to agree. Most men are raised by our society, family, parents, churches, religions, etc. to repress and hide their sexuality and their sexual wants and needs and the use of your sexual power.

And yes, Sexual energy is your Power. That's why I constantly have you go internal and open up wide through peripheral vision, because that's how you open wide to your sexual power. If this exercise feels uncomfortable to you, it's because you are afraid to openly express your sexual energy...

Remember the exercise where you can go into the small triangle #1, business mode, the triangle that is only on her eyes? Then medium small, Triangle #2 where you open up to your eyes and smile, friendly triangle? Then open up to Medium #3 Triangle to your heart, a much bigger Triangle, which is open emotionally? Then open up to your largest triangle #4 to your sexual genitals/groin area and or your entire body?

Well, the more you do this exercise, the more comfortable you will become in being wide open to the world in a really comfortable way to women, life and society. And the more you do this, the more comfortable you will be with your own sexual power or personal power as some call it. And the more you will actually get what you truly want out of life and your efforts.

See, the one thing I may not have told you, is that this is a very, very honest way of dealing with life and people and especially women. You are expressing openly about being sexual and being sexually attracted to women... And this is what makes women feel very comfortable with you sexually and socially! This is what I am doing to attract, meet and go out with lots of women.

See, when you hide or lie or camouflage about your true intentions, women can feel that and it scares them away. And, when you hide it, you get mad at yourself and feel bad. And some men then take this out on women. Hey, it's not her fault at all that you are a programmed man to hide from his own desires.

See, this is why you can't care what society, mom, dad, church, whomever tells you what to do or think or be. If you notice, there is a theme throughout my newsletters, almost in 70% of them.

It's those men who are most comfortable with their sexuality and sexual needs, that get most of the women sexually. Have you ever heard a girl or woman say she is comfortable in her own skin or in her own body? I hear it in movies, books and in person a lot. In fact, a lot of women say, that they can tell I am comfortable in my own body. And I am. Now, what that literally means, is that I am comfortable with my body, my sexual needs and desires and who I am as a person. The more comfortable you get expressing your sexual needs, the more comfortable you become with meeting, attracting and connecting with the opposite sex! Because a comfortable man makes a woman feel comfortable and at ease!

Another theme you will notice is to actually create friction... Don't be so nice. If a girl pisses you off, let her know she is standing on your toes and gently but firmly put her back in her place. See, your toes, feet and body are your place and her place is her place. And, that's a good thing. So next time a girl, lady is rude to you or takes advantage of you, stop her, let her know that's not cool. Believe it or not, but she will actually appreciate you letting her know!

For now, I simply want to highly, highly recommend Alan's book. It will do wonders for your entire life. The good news is, it's actually a very small book, only 152 medium small pages with big lettering and big spacing. So you can read it within a few days to a week.

At this point, I can't recommend a better book for what's holding most men back from everything they want in life, especially with women!

Best wishes. I hope you are all moving forward in your personal development one day at a time!

Mike Kollin

415 456 8558

http://mikekollin.com

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HOW TO DEAL WITH OBJECTIONS

2011-02-05T15:02:00.000-08:00

Well, first of all, realize, they are not objections at all.

I am reading a great sales book, highly recommended by Tony Robbins and many
other personal development and sales training coaches, called Spin Selling by Neil Rackham.

I am on chapter 6 Preventing Objections

Well, first of all, throw that word out of your vocabulary when dealing with women or sales
or anything. Because, as the author says in this book, the same thing I teach in my course.

You are the creator of your experience by what you say and what you think.

So I have one question, one thought for you. "If you could create any experience at all with a woman, what would that experience be?"

"Would it be Romantic, Loving, Powerful, Sweet, endearing, fun, relaxing, etc.?"

See, you are the creator of your experience, simply by what you think, do and say!

All you have to is "Imagine the outcome you want." And then go with it....

That my friends is the Master Key to Life!

Bless you all...

Now just "Imagine creating all the amazing experiences you desire into the world with you."

It's literally that easy.

"FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT BECAUSE YOU GET WHAT YOU FOCUS ON"

THAT'S THE SECRET!

I'm Mike Kollin - Your Dating and Relationship coach. Teaching right here in San Rafael and the San Francisco Bay Area.

You Deserve the best, so take my courses now! You want a coach who knows what he is doing
and has the newest, top of the line technology for your advancement, then give me a call:

415 456 8558

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"DESPERATE"

2011-01-14T06:06:00.000-08:00

GUYS, IT'S TIME TO WAKE UP!!!

There is an intensely desperate need women have from men in relationships!
Yet, all men are completley blind to this until they take my course and learn;
"THE ANSWER"

This course will save your heart and her heart.
Learn how to love her in the way she needs from you!!!!
She needs you to!

"Mom!"
"Dad just wants to love you!"
"He just doesn't know how."

He's desperately trying to love you with all his heart and soul...
He just doesn't know how...
And, you misunderstand his expressions of love as him trying to hurt you...
He's desperately trying to love you...
He just doesn't know how...

"There is an Answer"

Please come to my course and learn what it is that no one has ever taught you.
Learn what it is that has been missing your entire answer.

This is a Journey of love!
"Step into the Light"

Call now 415-456-8558

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Listen to this song to understand the energy, the passionate power behind what
women want from you: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TTJ3WVcf5is&feature=BF&list=PLCFD0C01D856E8B17&index=32

"CRACK THE FEMALE CODE"

2011-01-12T20:05:00.000-08:00

"The Master Key to Dating and Relationships"

Have you ever wondered why women were so hard to understand? I did, until I found the key! I call it, "The Master Key".

"WARNING"

Your life will change as a result of receiving and using these techniques effectively!

Mike Kollin FINALLY REVEALS The #1 Practical, Step by step Blueprint for attracting "All the Women You Desire into your life!"

There is nothing on the planet that even comes close to my New, Powerful Discovery! And I have created very realistic and reasonable prices for teaching you the Holy Grail of understanding and picking up on women, fast, easily and respectfully for her and you!

I am so certain, that I am offering you a Rock Solid, Money Back Guarantee...
I challenge you to take my course and see how fast you transform into being a Pickup Artist, Dating Master and Babe Magnet!

I put my 100% Ethical, Full Reputation on the line If you want to learn how to understand women, get along with women, feel comfortable with women and turn women on in a way that women beg and pray for you to do, then take this course Now and you will Absolutely Achieve the Real Life Results that you Desire Now!

"What are you waiting for?

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Becoming One, Whole and Complete with her Heart and Soul...

2011-01-12T18:00:00.000-08:00

Exactly, "become one, whole and complete!"

Here's what I teach men to say and do with women, it's just a sample.

So ladies, send your men and he will learn how to touch your heart with love

and true emotional fulfillment.

Now say that to a girl...

.............................................................................................................................

I'm looking to become one, whole and complete!

I am looking for that truly special connection, to connect on a much deeper level within... ... ... I mean emotionally...

In a way that truly opens you up to a deeper, more fulfilling level of contentment that

just allows us to truly connect in that special, more meaningful way...

I don't know, just a thought.. it would be nice to feel so much more that life truly has to offer...

Not just some surface level experience, but something that truly opens you up on the deepest, deepest level with who you truly are... on the inside... you know, the real... you... With me... that's how I feel...

I mean a deeply powerfully fulfilling sense of completeness... that opens you up to an even more explosive level of connect... it's like... Well, it's like when a massively powerful volcano over time builds and builds and builds the anticipation... to a level of biblical proportions... that you simply can't wait anymore... to where you have to finally, completely and totally surrender, let go and open up letting it all in on the deepest level, until this massively powerful volcano explodes its Powerfully steaming hot and explosive molten lava, deep, deep, deep into the Heavens and earth, filling you up completley to the rim of true enlightenment, pleasure and love deep within the universe... inside you... That's how I truly feel... within... ... you... know what I mean... ??? Powerfully fulfilling in that special way that truly allows you to become one, whole and complete... I mean, it's a nice feeling to truly feel this level of contentment... which most women never feel...

........................................................................................................................................

hehe.. see, it's hot and simple... just the way we she likes it...

Now get on it soldier... pump it up!!! hahahaha....

Please feel free to give us a call 415 456 8558 for a FREE 30 minute consultation so you can ask questions and get to know me and my "New Discovery" better!

I'm The Master! And now so will you!!!

http://mikekollin.com

Please take the Oprah No Phone Zone Pledge!

2011-01-08T04:44:00.000-08:00

Over the years, I have had over 30 of my friend die in unnecessary car accidents...

Please take the NO PHONE ZONE PLEDGE!!!

Thank you!

Take the No Phone Zone Pledge

2011-01-08T04:43:00.001-08:00

"BREATH" MY MESSAGE TO YOU:

2010-12-16T15:48:00.001-08:00

YOU CAN WIN!!!

My message to you, is you can win in love and relationships! There is a newly discovered understanding in communication. This works for Dating, Love, Relationships, Marriage and simply dealing with the opposite sex in every way... We now have "The Answer" for you to have and hold forever more... This course is so much more than dating tips for men and goes far, far, far beyond pickup artists courses... This my friends, is the real deal.... Come inside, and find out for yourself!

And it's all being taught right here in Marin County in the city of San Rafael, 15 minutes from the great San Francisco, the city by the bay right here in the bay area.

Again I am listening to this song, called "Breath", a very, very powerful rock ballad...
It's emotional, inspirational and truthful...

Relationships are unbelievably tough, actually impossible if you do not have the teachings
in my course....

Once you take my course and learn even the basics, you will clearly see why I keep saying this.
And you will actually know what all the other so called love and relationship courses are missing!!!

Yes, there is something missing between men and women... it has been completley lost and never found again...

But now! Yes, now we actually have these teachings right here in my course. And you don't have to be another one of those couples who rip each others hearts out because you simply don't' understand each other!

Now, at least you have a real chance to live a life filled with love and emotional fulfillment and bonding... Because, that's what you have been looking for all along anyways!

Another point... after years of waiting, many women simply give up on ever
hoping you will learn this.... so they stay in boring marriages where you 2 eventually grow apart. Rather she isn't getting what she wants and slowly neither do you....

So I am looking at one of America's Sweet hearts a country singer who just got engaged... Yeah, she's happy now, but in a few years they will get married, then a few years later, it will be the same story. The will end up in Divorce sad, hurt, shocked and more... Not knowing that they never had a chance at true, real love and emotional bonding for life. Simply because no one is aware of why couples fall apart... What's the Missing Key??? I have it, it's taught clearly in my course!

And here's the sad part. There is nothing wrong with either one of them.

But, there is something missing! There is such a huge gap between the way men and women express and receive love that you simply don't have a chance without actually taking my course.

The Missing Key, the Master Key is taught in my course!

So sign up now and change your life forever and make her heart happy!
And give her everything she has always dreamed of... This is so much more than
you have ever thought... but, you will love it and be glad you did!

Whether you are single, dating and especially if you are married, this course is a must!

Welcome to CaveMan Technologies

I'm Mike Kollin

Your Male to Female Communication Expert!

http://caveman@mikekollin.com

http://mikekollin.com

415 456 8558

Again, the song that inspired these last few writings.

Listen to it and you will understand why....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mCYfw2CyUdA

You can win! I promise you! I will show you how!!!

"YOU EITHER GO ALL THE WAY OR YOU DON'T GO AT ALL"

2010-12-15T18:01:00.000-08:00

PART I.

Like Donald Trump says, "Either go Big, or go home!"

I can't say it better myself.

Either you go all the way and give it your all, giving it all you've got or you don't go at all...
Because this is not a journey for the meek or the mild.

This is a journey for the Beast within you! Yes, there is a Beast within you that she is desperately trying to reach and connect with... "OPEN UP" Remember who you truly are within...

SO BE THE MAN SHE NEEDS YOU TO BE AND STEP UP TO THE PLATE AND TAKE THIS COURSE AND SAVE HER HEART!!!

YOU WANT HER TO LOVE YOU?
TAKE MY COURSE AND SHE WILL!!!

This is a course a journey, a decision where you either go all the way, or you
don't go at all...

You either make an agreement with your wife or girlfriend to stay in the dark ages where she trades sex for food, shelter and protection leaving her feeling empty inside emotionally.

Or, you make the decision to go all the way into the modern, human/spiritual world and finally learn what it is that she needs from you in order to connect on a deeper, more human, more spiritual level that makes it all worth while. All the hurt, all the pain, everything you have been through in life will have a greater purpose and be worth every bit of suffering you have endured.

Or, you can go back to that meaningless day to day existence, eating, working, sleeping, not knowing what this is all about. It's up to you!

I hope you make the right choice. I know she will be very, very, very happy when you do.

Understanding and I mean truly understanding women is the greatest Journey you will ever take in your entire lifetime... this is an inward journey of love and understanding into something much deeper, more fulfilling and finally complete!
Yet, at the same time, your horizons will be completely ripped wide open and expanded beyond the universe and even time itself.

When you see what this is all about and I mean really, really open up to this level of thinking, being and connecting, there will literally be an explosion in the Universe. It will be so much more powerful than 100 nuclear weapons blowing up at the same time. It will be, a

"SUPER NOVA" into the universe!

You will be opened up to an amazing new world of intertwining meaning and deeper purpose that leaves you with a clarity of understanding, constant learning, deeply opening and completely surrendering your very heart and soul, leaving it wide open for her to see... That is the greatest experience in the world to have and live...
For this is life itself.... Love Deeply within her heart and soul and you will finally find the greatest purpose you can ever imagine

There is nothing greater than to have completely opened yourself up to someone who knows your all and everything to share the secrets with who you have never even spoken to another...

For that is what we most miss when we truly lose a loved one... That one person whom we have bared our entire soul to... our goodness, our sins, our hidden internal beliefs that no one knows about...

I have talked to hundreds, no, thousands and thousands of women about this...
And each and every one of them say the same thing... "Men just don't get it." "They just don't get it!" No matter what women do, it just goes right over your head... So, eventually she gives up, she leaves you, divorces you and moves on... Empty, completely lost and all alone...

I have met older women who have waited up to 25 years for their husbands to learn this, to understand what this is. Yet, to no avail... He doesn't even hear or see what she is saying to him... he just doesn't get it...

Now, I have 2 things to say...

#1 The modern women will not wait 25 years, more like 5 to 7 years. She literally follows her instincts and heart and simply moves on.... she's not getting what she wants, so you will not get what you want...

* And , this is the Miracle of my course. I have finally found a very fast, efficient and powerfully effective way to teach men what this is and how to learn it, understand it and put it effectively into use to fill her heart with all the love and all the richness of what a loving relationship is supposed to be all about...

#2 Men! There is absolutely nothing and I mean nothing wrong with you! And this is what I teach women... (But. there is something for you to learn that is the most important thing to learn in your entire life!)

See men, we are wired so differently and we literally speak 2 completely different sub languages within our own spoken language, that we literally can't hear what she is saying let alone understand her. So, we as men usually think, that women are just crazy. They are not. And women over time begin to think that there literally is something wrong with you! Again, there is not. And in my course and in my book I will begin to slowly unravel this to you and you will at the very least begin to see what's missing and how we are so different and how without this course, it's literally impossible to understand the opposite sex at all let alone fill her heart and soul with what she truly needs to feel whole and complete within....

But, that is what my course is here for... To give you the pieces of the puzzle and to show you how to effectively put them together so you can see the bigger picture. So you and her can now become one and fall deeply, madly, head over heals in love again and find that bliss you have been searching for your entire lives...

PART II.

Married???

There is an answer! A real answer!

The pain and absolute suffering between men and women is absolutely unnecessary. And you don't have to blindly suffer any more...
There is an "Answer". And all you have to do is learn what it is with an open mind
and learn how to use it effectively enough to fill her heart with your love.

The only question is, are you smart enough to take this course and discover the Holy Grail to Love and Relationships.

She wants your heart, she wants your soul, she wants your everything...
She wants more than sex! She wants more than love! She wants your everything.
She wants you! She wants all of you!

She wants you to fill her mind, body, heart and soul with everything you've got!

* She wants, she needs for you to overwhelm her with a tidal wave of emotions and feelings and love!

She wants you to fill her up completely! She wants you to love her in every way
on every level... But, there is a Secret, a lost art to this!

She's been empty, faithfully waiting for a life time for you to connect with her mentally, emotionally and even deeper than that, in this special way...
And yet, still she waits...

The depths of her emotional love goes far, far, far beyond words into...
Into the very depths of her soul intertwining with your soul, completely bare, open and deeply penetrating her heart and soul with your very source, soul, everything you are... That's what she needs, that's what she wants... She scared, she's alone, she needs you, the real you, all of you and everything you are within her... To be completely and totally present with her in the moment forever more!!!

She needs your heart, she needs your love, she needs your patience, she needs your everything... She needs for you to be The Man! Her Loving, caring, compassionate and every still, Strong CaveMan who fills her, satisfies her heart and soul who is her everything!

And that is what my course is all about! I will teach you how to give your all. I will
teach you how to be your all. I will teach you how to understand what that means to her and what she needs from you!

* There is something taught in my course that is not being taught any where else nor has never, ever been taught any where else in the modern age.

You will walk away from my course, clearly understanding women for the first time in your entire life.

There's a war going on between men and women that is absolutely unnecessary.

Today I was talking with my Hair cutter. And I could tell she was sad... So I began to question her, began to pull it out of her... She was sad... Very sad... and deeply hurting... Beyond hurting... She was empty, she felt lost, scared, and the worst thing of all... she felt that emptiness that all women dread worse than anything in the world.
Something men can't even fathom or understand. Because we are not physically wired in the way that women are. And we literally can't experience the level of internal

Inside, she is dying, she is screaming from her very soul, begging you, pleading with you to understand... To help her. To Love her, to fill her up with your all to complete her with your love... She's left feeling empty for years and years and years... and she faithfully stands by you waiting, yearning, hoping, praying, pleading with god, pleading with the universe for you to open up to her and connect with her in the way that she needs... Please, please understand me, there is something she so desperately needs from you...

I see this every day... Literally... the entire world is littered with lost relationships and couples. With usually one 1/2 of the relationship absolutely dying inside, while the other side thinks everything is going fine, until she finally leaves him!!!

One of my best friends came to me 4 years ago and I told him he needs to take my course before his relationship falls apart. He looked at me like I was insane, like I didn't hear a word he said to me. I said, "yes, for you, the relationship is going great." "But for her, she is waiting and waiting for something that men just simply don't do ever." 3 years later he called me and acted like I was a fortune teller and said, "How did you know?" She separated from him and kicked him out of the house and kept the kids. ANOTHER BROKEN FAMILY!

* And none of this is necessary! If men would just take my course and learn what it is that's missing between the sexes and what she needs.

To you, whoever is reading this, "I literally feel your pain and see your hurt." What's worse, is I am highly aware of an answer that will change your entire world." "And at the same time also highly aware that you don't even know this exists, yet it's right in front of you every day!"

I see this all the time. I am not a fortune teller. I just know something and see something that all women see and know... and I am desperately trying to save your heart and soul and hers and your relationship.

It finally gets to the point where she lashes out, she screams at you, yells at you, breaks dishes, cries, even fights with you and does everything she can in her power to awaken within you, the man that lies deep, deep within you... Yes, there is a fire, a power that lies deep within you. To take her, to sweep her off her feet again... You have to wake up to your very soul to save her soul... because she is dying inside...

She has turned her need for love into war because she doesn't know what else to do. She's literally fighting for your love!!! Fighting, yelling, screaming!!! If only you could hear her love once again... Take my course, and you will!

And the sad part, is the modern Caveman has completely lost the art of loving a woman... He has been socialized to follow rules, to follow his logic and completely forget and lose his heart and soul literally... so she sits there, crying and screaming and you try to rationalize her desperation down into mere facts and reasoning and try to fix her.

But that's not what she needs or wants. What she needs is for you to take charge, to be the leader of her heart and soul... To reawaken from within. To reconnect to who you truly are within. The very person and soul and instinctual, aware you!

To be her Knight in Shining armor. To literally be her CaveMan and her Knight and Shining armor all at the same time, intermixing the 2, knowing when to shift and when to stay!

This is what my course is all about.

Saving her heart!
Fulfilling your Destiny!
And connecting on a much deeper level and creating a deeper, more emotionally fulfilling connection within and creating more meaningful experiences together through greater clarity and understanding!

Welcome to CaveMan Technologies!

I'm Mike Kollin

Give us a call 415 456 8558 and let's begin your journey!

http://caveman@mikekollin.com

mikekollin.com

P.s. here's the song I listened to while writing this. It's a Powerful and emotional Rock ballad
that inspired this writing because it's about the loss in Love and Relationships.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mCYfw2CyUdA

U2 - Where The Streets Have No Name

2010-12-01T12:26:00.000-08:00

Where the streets have no name... I'm watching the Youtube video where U2 did a
free concert in the middle of the day on top of a building in downtown, I think in
Los Angeles. It was amazing...

Right now, I am listening to U2's amazing song, Where the streets have no name...
and in this song, there is a phrase, "And when I go there, I go there with you!"

That phrase alone is more than what my course is all about... Because that's exactly what
I do for you and with you. This course will open your eyes to the mystery behind all the mysteries
to women. And it will do it in a way that will allow you to go there with her and be there with her all the way...

This course is about Happiness, Love, Understanding and Communication
and everything, everything, everything that is good between the sexes in love!
Including, amazing mental and emotional and physical pleasure... LOVE!

As this song plays, I just have to write to you from my heart and soul and tell you...
this business, this coaching, teaching that I do, is my absolute heart and soul...
I love my work with all my heart and soul and I Love to teach men what it is that's going on
for him/you to give her what she needs to open up to you, to surrender her heart and soul to you...
There is nothing more beautiful than these teaching's and watching men cross that line and suddenly, as if by magic the curtain is pulled back and suddenly the the light shines in, and another man suddenly opens up to his own truth, to her truth, to love, light and greater understanding for the purpose of greater happiness, joy and much, much more pleasure and sex between men and women....

To all my clients, to all my future clients and to my amazing web designer and social networking expert who is putting his heart and soul into this to help me reach more people, you to change you lives and get along with the opposite sex through this new understanding!

If you love everything about women as much as I do, then give us a call now and let's get your
love and relationship and dating back on track. This course will blow you away: 415 456 8558

Thank you all... here's the song and video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GzZWSrr5wFI

Mike Kollin - The Love Doctor - Dating tips for men!

2010-11-23T15:13:00.000-08:00

I am the author of the book "Crack the Female Code". The Master Key to Dating and Relationships. Yes, this course works for every area of relationships; single, dating and into relationships. It's a New Powerful Discovery!

"This course will change your life and how you view women for the rest of your life!"
"Your eyes will be opened!"

* Master the art of "Attracting & Seducing" Beautiful Women!

* Easily and Comfortably know what to say!

* Turn women on faster than you've ever imagined with the Master Key

* Have more Sex, more Pleasure and more fun!

* Learn the Secrets of the Pros

* Save your Marriage and fulfill her heart with your words alone

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Mike Kollin is a Dating and Relationship Expert with a Powerful set of New Discoveries and
unique understandings of the hidden keys to making a relationship work. These same keys make it easy for single men to learn how to effectively approach, meet and comfortably start up conversations with single women. And then he teaches men how to appropriately lead these interactions into a more romantic and intimate direction that lead women into naturally feeling comfortable, happy and relaxed connecting with you!

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San Francisco - Bay Area
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"CRACK THE FEMALE CODE" - Dating tips for men!

2010-11-08T20:01:00.000-08:00

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LOVE - CARING - GENUINENESS

2010-11-05T04:20:00.000-07:00

I had a conversation with a client the other day...

And it dawned on me what you missed in our last field training...

Love - Caring - Genuineness

The entire exercises purpose is to teach your nervous system, your

emotional system to be in the now, present with her... The real, genuine you in the moment!

See, most men don't realize it, but their entire focus is on her tits and ass

and cute face! And sex! And what's worse, they won't admit it...

My entire course is built and designed around the purpose of teaching men how to be in

the now, in the present and coming from their true self / emotions! Right brain.

Instead, most men the minute they see an attractive girl immediately go into their linear - lower, animal brain and are not coming from their heart.. in fact, they are completley disconnected from their heart and emotions... thus, they are "Not" connecting with who she really is on the inside, the real girl within...

The idea of the exercise is to teach you

A. to see women as people and over time develop the ability to

come from a place of your true genuine self when you talk to women.

B. And to get to know her for who she is, not her body or her face or eyes, etc. but the real person...

That's where the exercise leads to... See, it's about getting to know her, her personality, thoughts,

feelings and values, etc. Not her body, is she going to be a good lay... etc.

The reason I bring this up, is because of what you said to me after your approach or approaches...

You said, "It didn't feel comfortable to approach while being fake." Or something like that...

When I was with those girls in the Clothing store and also the Indian girls, I wasn't being fake at all...

I genuinely felt love and affection for them and created a beautiful experience for them... and us...

See, I still think you still see this as being fake or manipulative, etc.

When in reality, what you are really saying or rather misunderstanding, is the female way of doing things is very natural and normal to her... But foreign, odd and strange to you... talk to any woman... Walking up to a female and telling her you like her, want to date her, have sex with her, etc. will invariably freak her out and make her think you are a psycho... See, that's the male way of doing things... Taking the short cut... Straight to sex, who cares about who she is as a person...

That my friend is "The Secret". I mean, the Secret, rather the "Understanding that most men don't get, is that she just wants you to be there in that moment with her! Get to know her, make love to her, with her... Create a reason to talk to her... Yes, sure, find something you can genuinely talk to her about... That's what this all leads up to... and yes, it takes practice to get men to get to that point! In other words, find something genuine to talk about with her... Be curious, open up that part of your brain, look at her, what is it about her that you are attracted too... and communicate that with her.. maybe it's her style or personality or the way she moves, etc. Share your curiosity with her... Yes, be real, be genuine with her...

(The exercise simply teaches you how to come from your higher brain/emotions and be in the present with her instead of getting all excited and horny, and connecting with her from your animal brain, sex organ and pure sex... instead, taking a step back, literally and emotionally and checking her out, finding out what she's all about... Who are you, what are you all about... I don't even know if I like you... get to know her energy, hmmm... well, I will find out what you are all about...

"That's what she wants you to do" Not just get excited because you see a pretty face, but finding out who the girl is within... Next time we will really slow things down and go over this... You will see...

If you genuinely care about who she is within and get to know her for her, then making love is fine... In fact it's preferred and beautiful... Love!

And Love can only be for a moment... many, many women will tell you about that guy who loved her inside and out... all of her... For just that one night, for just that one moment... and then went off...

And they will tell you, "How Romantic it is!"

Because most men don't know this, they feel like they have to lie and tell her what she wants to hear in order to make love to her... Sadly, even married men do this... and that's why women get hurt...

Another reason, just as powerful is because men literally don't' know what to say, or rather, how to express themselves and their emotions/feelings in a way that she can open up to, connect with and relate to... Ie Internal language, double pictures, descriptive language, etc.. hehe... but, you do! Everything you have learned in my course...

If you pay close attention, when I am with a woman, "That I am truly interested in" I am completely in the now, with her, present in my right brain, wide open emotionally connecting, literally with her emotionally... completley surrendering my emotions, wide open to her... It's all about creating that wonderful moment from the time you meet her, to the time you leave her...

Sadly, men in general have no clue about this and what it means...

Remember it's not about saying the right thing at all... That's the either or mentality from the left brain or animal brain... In other words, what's the right thing to say, to get into her pants... And that is not what my course is about at all.. Because I know, that if I just open up and express my emotions and feelings in a way that she can understand, in the internal language that women can understand, then she will make love to me... and if she doesn't like what I feel or express, then she is free to go... "Boundless love" and I am ok with that...

No push, no pull.... just express and allow...

If there is one gift I could give you... "Let go"... just let go... and "Allow" just be there in her presence... Ie. Internal awareness and peripheral vision - Feel, really feel what you are feeling in that moment.. feel her energy... allow her energy to come to you... don't reach for it...

Here is an amazingly beautiful song that... well... created the most amazing experience in my life!

I was in Hawaii on a warm Friday night, in Waikiki... parked my car... and suddenly this song came on... I was in complete awe... it was truly a magical moment in my life... as the song began playing within seconds a beautiful black girl walked in front of my car and smiled... And I asked her.... who is this? She said, "That's Ne Yo"... it was the most amazing vacation ever... 2 weeks with a beautiful girl, spirit and soul...

A week after we got home, she emailed me from Texas and said, "thank you for creating the most amazing experience of my life" She will remember that for the rest of her life...

It's all about creating those special moments and allowing them to lead where they are supposed to lead, naturally... if you are meant to be married with her, then you will get married... if you are meant to create an amazing experience, then you were meant to create that experience and "Allow it to be" what it is meant to be...

Here's the song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IxszlJppRQI&feature=rec-LGOUT-real_rn-6r-8-HM

P.s. I have never called her since... if it's meant to be, it will be...

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Bless you!

Sincerely,

Mike Kollin - The Love Doctor

Your Love and Communication Expert

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