I have great help from my mom in law who gave up her job at KL and take care of Blair in Singapore. Besides taking care of Blair, she also take care of everyone in the house.

I will take over mom in law’s job whenever I can, ie: after work, weekends and public holiday. I don’t really have much time to be with Blair after work because she sleep pretty early. She also need to divide her attention to other family members like her aunt and uncle who come back from work to play with her.

Good thing about it is Blair grew happily under good care and lotsa love from many people.

Blair brought bundle of joy to the whole family. Especially HongKiat. Another soft side of him in front of Blair. She always put a smile on HongKiat’s face. It’s heart melted moment when she always call him ‘Papa’. Even I will jealous of him sometimes (actually most of the time).  Not to say she doesn’t call me, but not everytime she sees me.

Besides being a mom after I go back home, I still go outings with my friends whenever possible, play iPad games. Many times, I still went drinking and movies with HongKiat (after I put Blair to sleep). Well, I heard voices saying I live like no kids and always so free to do own things, I don’t really take this statement as compliment. It sounds like I did not do my job as a mom. Like I leave everything to my mom in law. Maybe I think too much, but sorry I don’t like that statement.

I do have a lot things and thoughts to share in my blog (I have my trips in draft), but I need to learn to talk less and not to share all my happiness in public. People do not enjoy and actually hate my good life. Even this is my own blog. I have enough nasty comments from everywhere.

Don’t tell me “friends and enemies don’t need explanation”, sometimes friends don’t think the way we thought they are thinking, you will need to explain yourself if you care. It’s tiring but you still need to explain if you care. Does not matter who you explain to. It breaks my heart to have know about friends who actually hate me for my good life. I thought I am sharing my happiness, but they think I am just showing off. I learnt from past experience.

I am still a happy person, I know. That’s all that matters.

Anyway, Blair has been growing well. She achieved a few milestones as expected. She can now waves bye bye, nod her head, starting to crawl on four, eating more solid food, grow some teeth, sitting unsupported for more than 30 mins.

Her social skill is great too, she smile to strangers, wave goodbye also. She expressed that she is excited to see me home by a big smile and running fast with her walker to the door. She always smile to her daddy whenever she sees him.

Tried 3 times feeding her potato and she will have red spots on her face. We conclude that she is allergy with potato. Will try again when she is older.

Regarding her fussiness, I guess it was because she is ready for solid food. I’ve read somewhere about how to tell baby is ready for solid food. One of signs is baby will be curious bout what we are eating, she will eye on our rice bowl. Very cute!

She has been drinking lesser since 2 weeks ago. Sometimes she was not drinking milk for at least 3-4hours, and drink as little as 3oz after that. My mom ask me to introduce solid food to her.

So I decided to let her start with the rice cereal. She seems happy eating the cereal! Was worry that she will reject at first.

Besides drinking less during day, she is now kinda rejecting any feed during midnight. I m kinda worry that she did not have enough milk. I must ask doc about this during next check up.

Should I be worry when she drink less and still happy?

We do not buy anything for each other anymore even during occasion like this. But yet I felt very warm that you still put the effort to cook me super big breakfast!

Thanks dear for everything. I hope next year we will be able to spend a short holiday during anniversary.

She swim for more than 20 mins. Breaking her own record for stay this long. She also smile a lot this time. Never see her smile when swimming. I guess she loves the big pool!

After swimming session, she sleep for almost 1.5 hours. She normally take 30 mins nap each time. I hope she can continue to love swimming :)

But that did not last for more than 30 minutes.

Took a picture of her with the new toy. Just for fun. Thought it was cute :D

Miss her so much! I’ve been working overtime in office for 1 day and will have more ot soon. Din manage to see her and play with her when she awake. She is still sleeping the time I go out to work and sleep when I got back home.

Can only get her updates from hongkiat and mom in law.

Training is conducted by ang moh but he din sound interesting.

I can foresee a lot of people fishing later! Haha!

It’s not a soft toy. It’s not in pink but light purple. I think Blair will love it as she started to hold things with her little hands.