Challenge Yourself to Dream

Today Is A New Day -- Anything Is Possible

2012-05-04T12:44:00.001-05:00

You wake up; it's a new dawn, a new day, and yet somehow it doesn't feel much different than the day before. It's like today has yesterday written all over it.

Not only is it the same routine as the day before with perhaps a few variances here and there, but the feelings of yesterday may have also carried forward into this pristine day.

It's tough sometimes not to get caught up in mindsets of "woe is me", or worrying, or feeling stressed, or stuck in the mundanes or busyness of the prior day(s) and transfer those feelings into the next.

Echoes of yesterday(s) may not sound too exciting or inviting when you look to tomorrow.

So; how do you leave yesterday behind and start fresh today?

How do you break the negative thinking and feelings?

How do you look forward to each new day as if anything is possible?

You can start before you go to bed by setting your intention of what, or how, you would like things to be tomorrow and then putting them into action.

Either at night or in the morning take out a blank piece of paper and let your imagination soar and show you how your day could be.

Write about it, or jot down some inspirational word or draw or put pictures on your paper of what you can focus on. Look at it throughout the day and remind yourself of how you would like things to be and make steps towards making it so.

When you rise, you can ask God, (whatever you believe this to be) to lead the way today and to show you how you can be of the greatest service and to see the possibilities, not the problems at hand.

Become aware of when you are slipping into the pessimism and remember there is another option, enthusiasm. The more enthusiastic and resourceful you are, the likelihood for better outcomes increases.

Try different things during the day - a new way to work, listening to music or going for a walk to clear the cob-webs in your thinking, changing the way you do and view things, etc.

Be more conscious of "how" you are doing things throughout the day. Notice what your thoughts are and how you are handling what you want to accomplish.

Tackle one thing at a time the best you can rather than a whole lot of things done in a mediocre way.

Slow down and don't rush through your day; enjoy it as much as possible. Take a break now and then and re-group, re-organize, and re-new.

Be grateful for the day - the people in it, your job, your home, your car, your clothes, the food you eat, the money you have, the beauty surrounding you, and the fact that you have this day.

Be hopeful. If you don't like today as it is, see if there are ways you can change it. Take a look at your thoughts as they are usually a good indicator of why your day is continuing the way it is.

You have to catch those discouraging and downbeat thoughts as soon as you can and re-write them, literally or in your minds-eye.

It's good to allow your feelings to surface but then it's up to you how you are going to turn things around and become positive and pro-active again.

What are your options? How can you improve things?

The greatest gift you can receive from a new day is that you have one, even as bleak as it may seem some days.

Let yesterday be yesterday and tomorrow be tomorrow. Embrace today in every way you can.

Look to what's bothering about today and make use of it by inspiring you to be and do things in a better way.

Remember, today is a new day and anything is possible! It's up to you.

If you use these techniques with insight, you will be assisted in not transferring yesterdays to today.

Make Money Teaching What You Love

2012-04-29T10:01:00.004-05:00

Almost everyone would welcome the opportunity to supplement their incomes. Whether you have additional bills, unexpected expenses, or if you would just like to treat yourself to a vacation, you could probably use an extra way to earn money on the side. One way to make money and do what you enjoy at the same time is to teach your favorite hobby or skill to others. Choosing a Hobby or Skill to Teach Your hobby or skill doesn't have to be unusual or difficult to be marketable. For example, even hobbies that many people know, like sewing or cooking, can be transformed into profitable classes. Think of a unique spin on your hobby or skill that will capture the interest of potential students. For example, if you like to cook, start a Mediterranean cooking class.

Alternatively, teach basic cooking skills for young adults who are just starting out. Once you have a hook, you can create a curriculum to teach over the course of several lessons.
Creating Lessons Do not start teaching without first planning the number of lessons and the content for each lesson. Lesson plans not only keep you on track, but they provide a concrete plan that you can give students who would like to learn more about the content of your courses. Brainstorm a list of topics for lessons and write them all down. Then, decide on the number of lessons you will teach. Arrange the best topics into lessons. Some related topics can be combined into one lesson, whereas other topics may be more complicated and may need to span more than one session. Make a list of the specific concepts that you will teach during each session. As you plan the sessions, keep the amount of time each topic will take into consideration. Yo need to cover just enough information to engage the students without rushing them through a concept.

Determining a Price The next step in creating a class is to determine how much to charge the students. First, find out how much instructors for similar topics are charging in your area. If cooking lessons cost approximately $20 per lesson, you will not want to go much above that price unless you are providing more value for the student per lesson. Consider the cost of materials as well. Some instructors roll the cost of materials into the cost of the course, whereas others charge a materials fee when the student first signs up for the course. Alternatively, the students can provide their own materials.

Advertising Once you have planned your lessons and know how much to charge, you need to advertise your course. There are several options for advertising. One option is to place an ad in the local classifieds. Alternatively, you can create fliers and hang them up at a local community center or bulletin board at a grocery store. Another option is to offer your services to a community center or local community college and let them handles the advertising and finances for you. Whatever you decide, when you make money doing what you love, it isn't work. You will earn the extra cash you need while connecting with people with similar interests. In addition, you will be passing along your passion for a hobby to a new group of people, which is rewarding all by itself.

Start The New Year Off Right By Improving Your Life With The Help Of Therapy

2012-01-23T06:33:00.002-05:00

At this time of year, it's a common mental exercise to look back at the last twelve months and evaluate our actions, decisions and results. Many of us will find disappointments and regrets, wishing we had done better and wondering how we can improve our lives in the coming year. The clear answer is to seek the help of a mental health professional.

Your issues don't have to be monumental or life threatening to ask for a therapist's counsel. If your problems are interfering with your daily life at home, work or school; you feel you need help in managing your difficulties; or you are distressed to the point of needing assistance; either individual or group counseling might be in order.

If the past year was filled with the bumps and ruts of a rocky relationship, couples counseling may be the answer. A licensed therapist can guide you through the maze of a troubled marriage or other committed relationship to find the answers to a happy life together. Conversely, you might discover that your relationship might be doing more harm than good, in which case relationship counseling can ease the hurdles of a dissolution with as little pain to both parties as possible.

Troubled families, particularly those with teenagers, can also benefit from consultation with a mental health specialist. Your therapist will see you individually and as a group to enable him to evaluate the family dynamic with an objectively trained eye.

Whether you suffer from depression and anxiety, anger, stress, grief, career problems or any other emotion that is preventing a happy and full life, a recognized psychiatrist can be of inestimable assistance. Finding the right one for you might take a bit of time and research, but the effort will be well worth it. Start by asking your primary physician for a referral and follow his recommendations with an Internet check. Most professionals are listed and rated, giving you the opportunity to select the one who appears most suited to your needs. A session or two will help you decide if you made the proper choice; if he or she isn't a good fit, an honest discussion can help make your change to another therapist a smooth transition.

Whatever your final decision, spending some time with a licensed professional mental health practitioner in the coming year is guaranteed to make 2012 a better year and to help you realize your dreams and ambitions, making for a really happy New Year.

A Guide to Simplifying Your Life

2012-01-22T18:39:00.000-05:00

When you're chatting with your Aunt on the phone, texting your friend in Texas, writing a research paper that's due in two days while simultaneously tweeting every moment of it…you may become a little stressed out. Lucky for you, I've figured out how to stop all of this …I've always been someone who seeks out peace and simplicity and throughout my quest I've learned a thing or two. Here is my guide on how to declutter your life…

Just breathe - So my biggest discovery in my so called "quest for peace" was how powerful simple breathing could be. If you feel overwhelmed with the world…just breathe…it will release all of your stress and tensions. If you have forgotten why you wake up every morning and why you try so hard…just breathe…it will get your mind focused once again. If you feel like you can't stop worrying…just breathe… it will calm you and stop the worrying entirely. Breathing calms the body and brings you back to equilibrium;so next time any sort of negative feeling(s) overcome you…just breathe…

Purge all of the clutter- Look around you right now… how much clutter is there? Clutter gives your mind the feeling of oppression… Going a little deeper. where does clutter come from?? clutter is basically from our inability to let go of the past. It comes from emotional attachments to objects that have significance to us. Living in the past is unhealthy...Start off by putting a lot of them away and work from there… An open workspace with limited clutter does wonders for your creativity and peace of mind.

Find time for yourself- Artist's masterpieces are usually done in solitude…philosophers were often known to venture alone into the woods for extended periods of time… although time with loved ones is a precious gift of life…I believe time alone is almost as precious. Alone time allows you to organize and unwind your thoughts… it allows you to find yourself and to become at peace with the self you found.

Find time to disconnect- I love technology… but it's undeniable that it does a toll to your peace of mind. So when you're feeling a little stressed out;turn off the TV and read a book… shut off the TV and go for a jog; or as I mentioned earlier…just Breathe…

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Know For Yourself-Career And Lifepath Development Strategies

2011-09-14T16:04:00.000-05:00

Knowledge is power. Development starts with intellect, intellect that when well harnessed definitely takes anyone to anywhere desired. Life is definitely all about achievement and accomplishments. It is open secret in our contemporary world that special skills are required aside the conventional schooling system to succeed in any field. Employers look out for people with extra ordinary talents, skills, character that produce real results in 'real world' terms rather than relying (too) heavily on certificates. This also holds true for individuals and entrepreneurs. Success just doesn't pop up. There are secrets and strategies to it which lie in adequately utilizing universal principles that really work. To high flyers with much experience, they aren't considered much of a secret but rather all about approach and application of certain codes in the correct formats. These same principles can be customized to suit your peculiar needs and aspirations.

The way we think as humans serves as the main foundation of reaching envisaged goals. True, our thoughts leads the way we act, our actions transmutes to habits and habits into character that defines personalities and ultimately linking to results. Consequently, our characters determine our destinies. So success is ultimately an evolutionary process that brings out the personality essential in reaching end points- The personality of simplicity, broadmindedness, ethics, and good conduct among many other essential attributes that guarantee sweeping positive advancement. With a well-planned series of strategies, the sky is definitely the limit for all who desire success from personal to business life and inter dependent relationships.

It is apparent that there is a lot of information out there especially in this information age. It is therefore the responsibility of individuals and groups as the case may be to source out, discover and effectively utilize information and knowledge that is unbiased, practical that will eventually heighten their horizons and broaden scope for excellence. Academic excellence, career path development, peace of mind among many other desires require specialised as well as general knowledge and how best to apply positively for prosperity.

There is a famous saying that goes: 'you are what you know''.Those that are well acquainted and those who aren't cannot be paralleled in any way. Man's advancement overtime has always been on the basis of seeking better ways-a passionate inward desire for change of present circumstances for better ones which can only be accomplished by gaining new knowledge and styles, insight thereby making new innovations. Given practical education and training, every individual has the ability to realise their inherent potential and live a life of personal fulfilment, self-confidence and improved competence. As everyone has the free will to make the right choices in life, the yearning and commitment propels one to goal reaching. You have the power in you to be like or even surpass your idol figure, hero in any calling or even transmute those imaginations that criss cross your mind every now and then into what the world has never seen before. History is full of evidence of such-from captains of industry to artists, to statesmen. It is your duty to know for yourself and make intelligent decisions on how to unlock those latent qualities and soar like an eagle. Business plan success, skillful strategies for emancipation, how to communicate effectively, codes to attaining enviable self-esteem are some of the things you should know for yourself in an active way-to find out exclusively! Everything needs and requires a catalyst to optimally operate. Most certainly, the end justifies the means but the process should be regarded as a journey rather than a destination for optimal results. Explore and harness knowledge for your personal benefit, business or career and of course those things or loved ones you cherish and don't wait for anything or anybody-your time and your mind are the best resources to use in achieving elegance and excellence in all endeavours! Excel

How To Live Life To The Fullest

2011-09-05T02:23:00.000-05:00

Are you living life to the fullest? This is a difficult question to answer because what is a fulfilling for you might not be the same for someone else. People have varied perspective regarding their views on living life to the fullest. Every person has a different mindset, perception, expectations and experience. Hence, generalizing this concept is a near impossible task. Yet, there are barometers by which you can gauge the extent to which you are enjoying life. It is better to make hay while the sun shines rather than sit and regret later on in life. Here are 5 ways to live your life to the fullest.

Stay Healthy and Fit

You may not realize the extent to which maintaining a healthy lifestyle influences your life. It is not just about preventing disease and looking good. Feeling good about yourself is important to being content in life. You don't have to stick to a rigorous routine. Just a few light exercises, aided by some healthy food are enough!

Reduce Stress Accumulation of stress hurts you mentally and physically. The pressure can break you down and throw you off track. It is important to reduce the stress. Try working out or meditating to release tension. Eliminate stress building activities and heavy workload.

Have Some Leisure Time

Too much working will take its toll on you. Set aside some time for doing a recreational activity like watching a movie or sports. It can be anything as long as you don't have to spend mental and physical energy doing it. This is a great way to recharge your batteries and rejuvenate yourself.

Try Something New

Try something which you have never done before. An adventure can have an extremely positive effect. You will gain a new experience as well as broaden your horizon and your worldview. It also helps in overcoming fears and inhibitions and enjoying life.

Develop Organic Relationships

Avoid toxic relationships with people who are only with you because of their vested interests. Organic relationships last long, maybe even for life. Having a healthy social circle and a strong family life is important for peace of mind and avoiding stress. You need to have someone who will support you in all your endeavours and keep your back. Loneliness can make the best of use go kaput.

These are 5 ways through which you can gain more from your life. Keep in mind that these are not the only things that you can do.

Spiritually Empower Yourself To Attain Success

2011-06-28T00:56:00.001-05:00

Spiritual empowerment can greatly affect your life and well being in a positive manner. It is an integral part of personal improvement that helps you achieve success and a feeling of freedom in every single aspect of your life. That is why when it comes to adverse conditions in your life, you need to be prepared to conquer all these negative vibes and be happy and contented ultimately.

Significance of Spiritual Empowerment

Nowadays, most people are usually dissatisfied as a result of the problems that is part and package of modern life. In worst cases, they think of committing suicide because they can't deal with the current situation anymore.

That is why spiritual empowerment can guide people in looking for the right path. Moreover, they can see who they are and what the true meaning of life is. Positive actions can be taken due to attaining spiritual enlightenment.

Well, you don't have to be part of a religion in order to attain spiritual empowerment. The only thing you need to do is to be consciously awake and figure out the things that would make you happy. You also need to be sensitive enough towards other's feelings to balance every aspect in your life.

Enrich Your Spirit

Enriching ones spirit is to know one's self. Determine your capabilities, limitations and your role in life. In this way, you can actually get to know yourself and do the things that will enhance your well being. This is a success secret that will ultimately lead you to achieve success.

You also need to recognize the things that surround you. Know the things that you can actually do within your community to enhance your capabilities and spiritual enlightenment too. This means that you also have to share the things that you have learned with others. This makes life easier because you know you have shared the wonderful things that are happening to you.

Spiritual Empowerment - alternative methods

Besides these empowering techniques, you can also include methods that involve your body and mind. Some of these are:

Reiki - Reiki is a Japanese method that will help minimize your stress. It can also help relax your mind and body through mind concentration. A few of its principles are:

*Do not worry

*Do not be angry

*Be grateful

*Be kind to others

* Work with integrity

Yoga - Originated from India, this kind of spiritual empowerment involves physical and mental disciplines. Yoga practices state that you must meditate using postures which will illuminate your well being and to reach the state of Moksha.

Moksha is a stage in Yoga where you gain freedom from your worldly sufferings. Doing this will give you peace and calmness.

Using these methods, it is possible to attain spiritual empowerment.

However, the ideal way to gain empowerment is to get it done on your own. Although other methods could help you, it is better to do spiritual coaching on your own. Ignore the negative aspects in your life and focus on the things that could make you happy and satisfied.

Life is inevitable. However, you should commit yourself to making your life more useful instead of always making mistakes. Learn these and you will surely gain spiritual empowerment.

Personal Development And The Commitment Required

2011-05-19T10:47:00.002-05:00

Personal development is a choice that you have to make – again and again. Unlike the clothes you buy, the car you drive, the latest faddy diet or accessory, personal development is for life – literally and figuratively. Personal development is not something that you should dip in and out of – nor is it something that is a once of choice. Not too many people will tell you that personal development requires a daily, lifetime commitment. But it does. And personal development is not a choice to be made lightly – because, once on the road, there are enormous dangers in trying to turn back, Pandora’s Box will have been opened! And it can be scary for people to realize that there life is how it is because of their own choices and decisions. Bizarrely, it can be even scarier for people when they realize that they can change everything, start over and live the life that they want.

Unfortunately, much of the conventional wisdom out there would have you believe that personal development is easy, quick and painless and something about which you make a once in a lifetime choice - as in 'I've read a book and now I understand' or 'I've done a course that has changed my life'. Life is not that simple. In particular, life is complicated by the fact that the way we're hard-wired will always leave the subconscious mind yearning for a return to the simple, mundane, ordinary, not-too-bad life. This is a psychological fact. On top of that, those who have actually experienced a life changing moment of truth are very thin on the ground. However, all the evidence suggests that those who actually do find themselves at this cross-roads have arrived there by virtue of the fact that they've actually run out of road - they've hit rock bottom. I know very few people who have descended all the way down to rock bottom. Maybe if more of us did we might have a big enough reason to wake up from our not-so-bad existence and realize the potential and possibilities of life. For most ordinary people life is ordinary, with its challenges, worries, ups and downs. We don't become desperate enough to take a once and for all leap into the unknown because our known is not so bad. Consequently, we trudge along from day to day in the fog created by our subconscious mind's obsession with our formative years. If you want to transform this routine half-life, you're going to have to get used to taking action - real action - every single day. In fact, it's more like moment-to-moment action that's called for. Of course, you trudge through life out of choice and each thing you do or don't do moment-to-moment is the result of choice also. But it's your subconscious that makes these choices. And it makes them out of a preoccupation with the past and a longing for the future to be as dull and boring as the present. And, as a result, we short-change ourselves, going through life without realizing that we're missing it.

But, if you've arrived at the point of restlessness or mild dissatisfaction that you simply cannot shake, then you will have browsed personal development websites, you might have read a couple of books, you will have arrived at reading this article. And you will have come across all kinds of advice from all kinds of people, from those that would have you believe that if you get that new car, condo or yacht, your life will be different, to those that will tell you that, to get what you want out of life, all you have to do is believe and leave the rest to universal energy. Sure enough, universal energy is responsive to our input - quantum physics has proven the communicative and responsive nature of the energy that you, I and the universe are made of. But this responsive universe exists moment to moment, in the same way that life must be lived moment to moment. And that presents most of us with a big challenge - you have to choose to be present and engaged, moment to moment.

The point that I'm making is that personal development is a moment-to-moment thing. If you do really and truly want to change your life the changes are derived from the small changes that you make moment to moment. That means commitment, vigilance and the perseverance to pick yourself up and start over each and every time that you falter. A client once asked my 'Does that mean that if I falter forty times today, I have to pick myself up and start over forty one times?' The simple answer is yes. And that is why the steps that you take need to become part and parcel of who you are and what you do moment to moment.

This means that you need to find ways of choosing to be focused throughout the day, rather than allowing your subconscious mind to focus on the conditioning that inevitably results in a mundane life. This means that, for example, even those who meditate to focus their mind first thing in the morning but don't take steps to maintain their focus during the day will inevitably falter and, perhaps, never realize that it's during the cut and thrust of the normal day that you need your focus most. And that will only lead to frustration, disillusionment and the conclusion that this personal development thing was of no benefit in the first place.

But it is. It is life-changing. It is transformative. And the amazing thing is that it is all these things as a result of tiny, apparently insignificant, steps that you take moment-to-moment. Like, for example, choosing to brush your teeth in a non-routine way, choosing to break with routine and have something completely different for dinner or, indeed, something as ridiculously simple as choosing to sit in a non-routine place to eat that dinner. You see, by breaking down the small routine in our lives, our minds become attuned to the ease with which routine can be broken. Once you break up your small routine by doing little things differently, you begin to dismantle the very fabric of your repetitive life. When you do this everything changes - you open yourself up to a world of unlimited possibilities - the real world. Remember, however, if you're not the kind of person who can commit, if perseverance if too much of an effort for you - then this is not an option.

Your Pearl Of Opportunity

2011-05-15T11:13:00.002-05:00

Years ago three men learned that there is a pearl of opportunity hidden in difficult situations. Their objective was to get jobs on fishing boats in Alaska during the rough winter season. They had no previous experience, no contacts, and after purchasing their plane tickets to Anchorage had next to nothing in the way of money. What they did have was a goal, desire and persistence.

Stepping from the airport into the bitter cold with no place to stay would have discouraged most people with a weak or ordinary desire. But these three men did not have any ordinary desire, they were determined to get what they wanted and refused to compromise with the situation. Instead, they forced the situation to compromise with them.

On the outskirts of Anchorage they pitched a tent and rolled out the sleeping bags. Every morning they awoke with a burning desire to get jobs on fishing boats. Each day they walked the docks in search of Captains who needed help. They offered to work for a few days on probation without pay, they checked the newspapers, talked to people they met about current job openings, visited bars where fishermen hang-out to inquire about employment and to make contacts. In the evenings they retired to their cold tent for rest and a meal of raw potatoes, unable to afford anything else.

After a couple of weeks one of the three men scrounged up enough money for a ride by ferry to Kodiak Island. He left his two companions in Anchorage to pursue his dream independently.

The two men in Anchorage continued to search for fishing jobs with an attitude that things could only get better. Soon they received a message from their friend in Kodiak. He had a job on a fishing boat. He had done it!

Inspired by the news the two continued to persevere until they forced circumstances to bend to their wills. They got the jobs.

Now these three men are valuable assets to fishing boat Captains. Hopping from boat to boat they learn tricks of the trade that only comes through direct experience. They had persevered towards their goal until circumstances were forced to swing over to their favor - and it pays them more than $10,000 a month.

They turned a negative into a positive and found their pearl of opportunity in the midst of defeat.

"Every adversity, every failure and every heartache carries with it the Seed of an equivalent or a greater Benefit." - Napoleon Hill

You CAN Achieve Your Dreams - Go from Information to Action Now!

2011-04-27T19:55:00.002-05:00

No matter what season you are reading this, it's a great time for reflection and a time to think about what changes we'd like to make in the next season. What have we accomplished so far this year, or this quarter, or this month? What areas seemed to give us the most trouble when it comes to moving ahead and pressing forward? Where did we find ourselves "stuck?"

If you are associating yourself with "movers and shakers," you'll be hearing a lot about what really is possible, and what it takes to achieve all we want, and to be all we can be. So, what are the important changes you must make to move forward, both personally and in your business? Will this season be the best of your life? It CAN be!

I have been thinking about this long and hard for the last few weeks and I have narrowed it down to one big change that will help anyone to have their biggest breakthrough ever! I am afraid that if I share it with you, you'll overlook it due to its simplicity. Please don't be fooled, this one idea can transform who you are and can unleash the floodgates of what you are capable of.

It is not an easy change, if it were then it would be common and everyone would have the life and success they desire. The late Jim Rohn, one of the greatest motivational speakers of my lifetime once said, "What's easy to do is also easy not to do." Success takes work, not necessarily hard work, but consistent work. Do you agree with this? The one big change you'll want to make to reach your dreams and the level of success that you know you are capable of is this: You have to commit to implementing what you are learning and what you know. Action will move you forward! Talk may motivate you, but it's action that makes it happen.

Most of us (myself included) are continuously over-stimulated with ideas and information and do nothing substantial with any of them! This is the time to break that bad habit. The theme for me this year is to close the gap between information and action. Write down any new idea that come across your mind, I believe seeing it helps to develop it. Do your research on the one idea that you are really passionate about and take action on accomplishing one task daily moving yourself closer to accomplishing the idea.

Each new month will be yet another opportunity for you to play by a higher standard that you've previously experienced. Each moment that you devote in accomplishing something you have been desiring eventually you will have accomplished it. With persistences, perservance, patient, and continuous

What Words Will Empower You to Reach Goals and Be All You Can Be

2011-04-02T21:48:00.000-05:00

Today (now!) is a good time to think about reinventing yourself and your business. I'm not suggesting that you shouldn't be true to who you already are, but it's in our human nature to always want to improve. Try to imagine if you could have the qualities of anyone in the world whom you admire. Who would it be and what qualities would you most like to emulate? Maybe several people come to mind, each with a different set of characteristics that you admire. To grow and change, we can choose to put our focus on some positive qualities that we admire in others.

What if you had a word or a few words that represented who you want to be in this new season? Think and consider what those few words would look like? Here are some ideas and you can add your own:

Bold, Creative, Outstanding, Confident, Outgoing, Savvy,

Kind, Flexible, Authentic, Organized, Friendly, Successful,

Star, Amazing, Powerful, Energetic, Healthy, Wealthy,

Rich, Strong, Productive, Positive, Balanced, Popular

If you had a theme word to motivate and inspire you, what word would you choose? Often we get what we think about most. You have heard that you will create what you focus on so why not use this time of reinvention to choose a powerful and supportive theme to help you stay on track. You actions, day in and day out, would be from a person who completely embodies this word (or words). Reminds me a bit about theater class back in high school. Choose a word and behave in a way that lets others know what your word is, without ever having to tell them what it is.

I have 3 words myself for the year: Gracious, Innovative, Unstoppable. How about you -- what words will keep you centered on the you that you know you are capable of being? Remember, now is the perfect time for reinvention... you really can achieve all you want to and become exactly who you want to be!

If you like the idea of pushing forward and being all you can be, then you'll love the idea of reinventing yourself or your business to reach your biggest goals. It will take some intentional work on your part. Being all you can be doesn't happen by accident!

2011-03-20T09:00:00.000-05:00

6 Ways To Face Problems

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Most people don't talk about problems because of the 'negativity' associated with it. You can't avoid having problems in your life unless you don't have one. Don't look at problems as something that needs to be removed in order to solve them. Think of them as an opportunity for you to improve. Simply because, by defeating your problems, you will learn useful lessons.

Here are 6 ways how to treat your problems positively:

1. Never Feel Misfortune With Your Problems

Always remember that the existence of a problem doesn't mean you ought to feel misfortunate or ashamed. True, the problem might be the consequence of your poor judgment in decisions but regretting that won't help you to deal with the problem in front of you. Everything happens for a reason and the reason ALWAYS for your own good.

2. A Problem Means An Opportunity

It's hard to accept this fact - our mind has a game of its own. If you can see the 'opportunity' in things, you will be able to anticipate the problems because it's an opportunity for you to learn something new and overcome your weaknesses. Certainly, nobody will ask for more problems in their life but if it's unavoidable, then let's make the best of the situation. When you get lemons, make lemonade.

3. Be "Professional"

If the problem arises from others (which is very common), you must stay strong not to be affected emotionally by it and don't let it enter you. You have to build a mental barrier to block the negativity from entering your mind. This is not easy because when others are emotionally down, you subconsciously feel it too. Be strong or you'll get sucked into it too. Step away from the problem and look at it as an 'issue' rather than a personal thing.

4. Look Beyond The Problem To See The Solution

You can't solve your problem if you don't know what you're trying to solve and so see the problem already solved. Secondly, it helps in terms of motivation because it's always more motivating when you're in a celebrative mood. Have you watched the Lord Of The Rings movies? If yes... remember how challenging it is for Frodo Baggins to destroy the Ring? His journey has so many obstacles and the only thing that gets him to continue is seeing how wonderful it'll be once the Ring is destroyed.

5. Stop Attracting Problems With Your Mind Power

If you continue to get a new problem after a problem is solved, you might want to check how your mind is working. Believe it or not, these problems are the result of your inside and outer mental attitude. You can call it "Law of Attraction" if you want. Have you heard of 'streak of bad luck'? This is caused by your own mindset. Many people don't realize what their minds are capable of doing.

6. Laugh At Your Problems

Humor may be an effective counter poison to a lot of problems of the mind. Next time when you have problems, smile or laugh. Your problems will still be there but who knows, you'll find you have more ideas to solve them and feel less stressed out. You'll never know - it might just turn out to be the most effective "problem solver" tool.

Last of all, think of other people - others who are facing bigger problems than you. You'll be grateful that your "problem" of unable to buy a new car is actually nothing compared to someone in your city who doesn't even have a car to drive. Be gratitude with what you have because even if you can't solve your problems, you still have so many more things and intangible wonders in your life.

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Secret To Success

2011-02-28T11:33:00.000-05:00

How to Achieve Success

2011-02-04T10:44:00.002-05:00

A self-made billionaire by the name of HL Hunt was once asked to explain the secrets of his business success. His reply was quite simple yet powerful, because it provided a formula that anyone could follow to achieve lofty goals in life.

He simply stated that the very first thing you need to do is decide exactly what you want. This may sound simplistic, but when you think about it it is extremely unimportant. Most people do not take the time to identify the most important goals in life. They may have vague conceptions about what they want to achieve in the next few years such as "getting healthier" or "making more money" or "having a nice house."

Most people simply do not identify specific goals that are measurable and can be broken down into a step-by-step plan. Part of the reason for this is that most people do not believe that setting goals is important, or they don't believe that those goals can really be achieved. The interesting thing is that this reluctance to identify important goals can end up being the very reason why the goals are never achieved. It can end up being a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Another reason why you must decide exactly what you want to achieve is that there are simply too many possibilities in today's world. This reveals some of the wisdom behind Mr. Hunt's statement. You cannot try to achieve everything you want to accomplish at once, and in fact you cannot try to achieve everything in a lifetime either. You have to decide what is most important and focus on those goals until they are achieved.

Mr. Hunt went on to say that you have to identify what you need to do in order to reach your goals. Stated another way, you will have to discover and truly understand the price you'll have to pay in order to achieve success. You have to be firmly determined to pay that necessary price in order to achieve the goal.

Willingness is so important and yet so understated. If you want to be successful, you have to be willing to do what it takes to achieve this-- that is, you have to pay the price that is necessary. Instead of thinking of excuses or explanations why you can't get something done, focus on the solution and start taking action now. Everyone wants to have some sort of major achievement in life, but very few people are willing to pay the necessary price in order to realize their full potential.

Beat The System Build Credit Fast

2011-01-31T04:21:00.001-05:00

Three loans, three banks, three months! For fast track credit building, you will need to spend a little money. First, find three local banks or any size that report their accounts to a credit agency. Go ahead and tell the banker that you are looking to build credit for yourself or your business.

Take some amount of money—as little as $1,000 will suffice. Deposit that money into a three month CD at Bank #1 and take out a line of credit protected by the CD. Banks will regularly make this transaction, since they have a totally secured loan at this point. T

Take the $1000 you borrowed and go to Bank #2 and do the same thing. Repeat the procedure at Bank #3.

You can do this for as many banks as you can afford the interest payment on for those three months, in addition to any loan fees you are required to pay. Make certain that none of these loans has a prepayment penalty. Lastly, deposit the money into a savings account and don't touch it. Spend three months paying the bill on these loans. Some say that making triple the monthly payment will develop your credit faster, but a single payment is adequate.

At the end of the three months, withdraw your $1,000 from the savings account and use it to pay off the first loan, and then cash out the CD. Take that money to the second bank and repeat the process. You now have three satisfactory positive credit accounts on your credit report. While this is a powerful and proven method for rapidly growing credit, there are a small number of drawbacks.

First, it will cost you money. Your secured loans will have an interest rate between 5-10% and you'll be paying that three times, or 15-30% annual interest. Since you are using this strategy for at least three months, you could be paying $300 to develop your credit.

The second drawback is in using the CD to secure the loan. Although the bank will like this better than a passbook savings, a CD does have a mechanical auto rollover provision. If you don't liquidate one of the CDs along the chain in time, you may not have the funds to pay off the loan and incur the interest for a lot longer period of time. With accurately timing the accounts, you will completely mitigate this risk.

What Are Your Excuses For Debts, Stress, Or Lack Of Success With Food Or Money?

2011-01-30T04:21:00.000-05:00

Who Can Destroy Your Life's Purpose? The Solution May Surprise You.

Outside perspectives can become chains that enslave in the dungeon of mediocrity...Greg Fullerton

One of the most popular current best sellers is a book by Geneen Roth called Women, Food and God. It is described as a revolutionary look at the connection between food, weight control and life style.

It was relatively simple to make a comparison between Women, Poverty and Self-Beliefs. The theory is compulsive eating and overweight problems are not about food, but rather filling up or satisfying an unhappy self-image or deficiency. The inner dialogue goes like this: "I approve my choices and my state of fatness and blame it on lack of will power to make me fatter and unhappier...so eating more is like a drug to keep me numb and justified why I need to eat more calories I know are fattening."

Now think how this theory can apply to being poor. Similar words may sound like this: "I accept my state of poverty, not because I'm not able to make money but rather it helps to justify my unhappy self-image. I'm nobody special and I don't deserve to be rich. I'll just find more excuses to justify my job, my debts, stress and lack of success."

The PROBLEM is not lack of money but your acceptance of it. "It's about the reality and excuse that you have given up without saying so..."

"Accepting problems and limitations creates a small focus, a narrow life, of hiding and shame 'like dying without ever living'" Roth

Do you ever feel overwhelmed, misunderstood, circumscribed, and victimized by an ever-changing economy and society? And there is only CORE SOLUTION. You see it every day when you look in the mirror. You just need to look deeper.

First, let's compare being poor to being overweight. Both are undesirable. Both are by-products of controllable actions. You learn to live with self-misery and make up stories about lack of money. You worry about bills, job security, a dead-end job, or not affording the special extras for your family. You scour sales, discounts, food stamps, drive into junk-food restaurants, abide an unreliable old car, live in an insecure neighborhood, work for a tiresome boss, face congested long commutes, retract from educational opportunities.

"You assume that it's not possible to live any other way...and you're using 'lack of money' to act that out without ever having to admit it."

This is described as a flat life.

Whether you try to control overweight or eliminate poverty, there are at least 3 choices:

One, keep doing what you're doing...easiest.

Two, find a better routine...This is a little harder. But motivation comes from understanding the reasons to be better…better than a plate of fatty French fries or a minimum wage job and high interest bills.

Three, find those powerful feelings that nothing will destroy your life's purpose. Know your true spirit that nurtures fidelity, gratitude, justice, physical vitality, self-development and potential. This is your true self-belief or value you must also see when you look at yourself.

Note that there is no duty to be wealthy other than the single value of money in your bank account is not for its own glory but for all the generosities it allows for you and those you care about.

What do you really see when you look at your self-worth? Would a strong, positive self image put up with a greasy hamburger or graceless lifestyle?

The ONE SOLUTION is up to you and your core values…

If the main problem is lack of self-belief then write out this statement on a card and repeat it as many times a day as you can:

"I want to be the best that I can be. I want to do and have and live in a way that is in harmony with my idea of the greatest goodness of life."

Can you see it is about who you believe you are? It is your self-dialogue that will imprison you. It is you habits that will enslave you to missing out on everything in life that is not related to poverty.

It will take new experiences to set new destinations for you.

So it may be easier to see how a plate of food can create a burden to what your body is meant to be. That glossy creamy donut, that cheese saturated burger will manifest itself as extra poundage. That excuse "I can't do a simple 3-steps home business plan" will prolong a paycheck to paycheck existence.

It takes more practice to see how an innovative revolutionary home business concept can help you become financially secure. You already have everything you need. You are Someone Special versus No One in Particular. What you need is right in front of you and you may not realize it unless you take the first steps and check out a webinar and video.

Shortage of time is not your problem. Let top professionals tell the story for you.

Shortage of money is not your problem. You can start with a free shopping application and save money on everything you buy.

Shortage of Self-Belief should not be the problem. You have ENERGY...with body, heart, brain, nerves, and muscles. You have INSPIRATION, if neccessary, with the previous statement repeated daily. "I want to be the best that I can be. I want to do and have and live in a way that is in harmony with my idea of the greatest goodness of life."

In fact, let's accept the theory that the real issue about any fear, suffering or lack of self-image may have NOTHING to do with a bad economy, a bad childhood or bad eating habits. It ALL has to do with you. And, specifically, with your connection to your Highest Self, Source, God, or Whatever-You-Want-To-Call-It.

Greg Fullerton's speech about Who Set the Rules sums your freedom and core values the best:

"The power of self-talk is incontrovertible. Whether you think you can or you think you can't, you're right. Don't let others impose their negative outlook and rules on you. Break free from the chains of popular opinion. Learn to take counsel from your innermost self, your self that knows you can succeed regardless of circumstance. Guard vigilantly against negative self-talk. When you hear the voices inside telling you you're not good enough, realize that these are the voices of failure in society — not your own voice. Make your own rules. Live them fiercely and consistently. "

I sincerely hope a great life for you.

Financial Success - Can Your Dreams Become A Reality?

2011-01-16T11:17:00.000-05:00

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Do You Want Financial Success? Stupid question really, because I think we all do.

A lot of people dream of having money and freedom and it can definitely happen with hard work and determination. It's important to look at all the goals you want to accomplish and try hard to attain them. Starting your own home business is an excellent goal but it's a lot of hard work.

Money is pretty much what rules our lives. I know a lot of people don't like admitting this but it's true. However if you can manage to earn a decent amount you get to enjoy other aspects of life that most will never experience because they're not in control. If you can make money from your own business you get control of the one thing that everyone want... time

And the best way I know to stay in control of my time and have financial success is through online business. The beauty of working from your laptop is the fact that you can work from anywhere. At home with your kids around or if you're young like me, while you're travelling the world, seeing all the things I've always dreamed about, but without the worry of coming home to nothing.

Don't get me wrong, this is by no means easy. It'll take time and effort but it is possible. Just don't get into this if you're desperate for financial success as quick as possible because it will not work like that. That's one of the reasons so many people fail at online business. They think that because you can earn money from you're computer there must be some kind of secret program that does it all for you. The fact is, this is just like any other business out there. You need to contribute time and money if you want success.

One of the things that will help with your success is self-motivation. There will be days when you feel as though nothings happening and you will feel like giving up. Just trust me when I say don't give up on it. Let your business grow and flourish. It'll be slow at first, but when things start to pick up a bit of pace you really reap the rewards.

Wanting to be your own boss is a great thing and could change your life, especially with the enormity of the internet. One third of the planet is now online. This is the future. Don't miss out. Checkout these online opportunities. Click here

Budget Planning Is The First Step To Personal Investment

2010-12-27T16:52:00.000-05:00

To build our wealth through personal investment we have to find the money to invest. The only way we can do this is through proper budget planning. This will help us find discretionary money - money we will not need to cover our day-to-day living expenses. Many investment plans fall down because the money has to be used for unforseen emergencies or unplanned-for contingencies. If we want to grow our wealth, personal investment money has to be set aside specifically for that purpose.

Hate The Idea Of Budgeting?

So many people hate the idea of budgeting. The idea of living on a budget is not appealing. So many negative pictures come to mind: having to restrict ourselves; having to go without some pleasures; having to discipline ourselves. For some people it means facing reality, because they know they are living beyond their means and they do not like the idea of having to change. Yet, if they don't, they will get deeper and deeper into debt and will never be free. Unfortunately, this is the story of a great many people.

Budget Planning Makes Us Free

Budget planning puts us in control. Because we control our money, we control our lifestyle. More than that, we control our future. There are so many things in our lives that virtually control us, often through no fault of our own, this is one area we can control and it is one of the most important. Even if money is not the most important thing in life, it is one of life's essentials. Money worries are one of the most, if not the most common worries. We can reduce these worries, if not eliminate them, by taking control of our money.

Get What We Want

Budget planning is the first step to peace of mind and then to financial freedom. I mean being in a position where the smallest financial glitch does not become an emergency - things like your pay being delayed; the car breaking down; an unexpected dental or medical bill. For many people events like these mean they will simply go into more debt with their credit card or they make a panic call to friends or family or, if they have no one to call, just getting through the best way they can. This constant feeling of insecurity can be very wearing. Budget planning is a positive step towards freeing up money to build personal investment, which leads to personal financial freedom.

Attitude is Everything

2010-12-19T09:17:00.002-05:00

Attitude can be defined as the way an individual looks at life. It is the outward reflection of what is taking place on the inside. It becomes his/her personality...it pervades their feelings and becomes their actions. Attitude is one of the most important aspects of life and a key to interpersonal relationships. There are two types of relationships in animal (or human) life, symbiotic and parasitic. Symbiotic relationships are mutually beneficial. Both of the animals (or organisms) involved receive a benefit from the other living with them.

Parasitic, on the other hand, is a destructive relationship where one benefits to the detriment of the other. When trying to accomplish something new, or break old habits in life, we need to associate ourselves with others who bring us up, those that help us become more than we were without them. Creating symbiotic relationships will only accelerate our progress. Attitude is key in tough situations; the better your attitude is in tough times, the better those opportunities become.

An oft-quoted cliché illustrates this point: "Most people are as happy as they want to be". There are very few, if any, easy roads to take on the road to success. Bumps and potholes, construction and traffic jams will constantly confront the typical person. The difference comes in how well the person can handle these difficulties. Shakespeare wrote: "There is nothing good or bad, but thinking makes it so". Attitude leans heavily on thoughts, and the harder things seem in the mind, the more difficult they will be in reality. It is imperative that everyone makes themselves as happy as they can be, and forsake the negative thinking disposition, and become forward thinking individuals.

Attitude, like the common cold, is contagious. The more negative people that there are in a room, the more negative the conversation will become. The inverse is also true. Think about Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. in the face of hatred, death threats, trials, and persecution he pronounced, "I have a dream". His dream was for the future. It was positive. Many people looked at his attitude and proclaimed that he was a dreamer, and that he was crazy. However, to the masses who followed him, his dream became one that penetrated skin color and pierced the hearts of thousands. About half a century later, no one can look back and say that he was not effective.

He sold millions in the future generations on his "dream"...what he really sold was a contagious positive attitude. It has been said by a well-known motivator, "It's your Attitude rather than you're your Aptitude that ultimately determines your Altitude". Very simple, you can become what you put your mind to. In all the studies done there is no evidence to say your knowledge or ability will give you the upper hand. The key to success is positive attitudes. There are many people with minimal abilities achieving greater heights than people with far greater knowledge or learning. Attitude has been called the spiraling effect.

This is the effect "like minded" people have on each other. It's been said; "Birds of a feather flock together". It can work both in the positive and the negative directions. If you have ever been in an environment where people hated their jobs and talked bad about their employer then you know how that can affect attitude. It can feel like a thousand pound weight weighing you down. On the flip side, groups of very successful people create more wealth for each other, as their positive attitudes create a form of synergy. In contrast the other group creates a negative synergy and the group becomes much less effective. It's the old saying the poor get poorer and the rich get richer. I believe they do it because of their own attitudes.

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Improve Your Self Confidence Easily Using These Effective Ways

2010-12-19T08:39:00.001-05:00

Are you looking for ways that will help you improve your self confidence? Then you need to be aware of the best ways that anyone can use to help you achieve this important goal easily.

Before learning about the ways that can be used, you need to be aware that time will be needed to increase your self confidence. You can't expect miracles to happen. It took time to break down your confidence and time will definitely be needed to build it back up.

Now that you know this important information, below are the ways that anyone can use to increase your confidence.

1. Start believing in you - This is going to be a very hard thing for any woman to do that has low self confidence. You have to find a way to start believing in you and the good person you are.

Just because someone has broken down your self confidence, doesn't mean that you are not a great person. You most definitely are an important and great person just because you are you.

When you start finding yourself thinking negative thoughts or having negative feelings about yourself, stop them right away. Instead, take time to look at yourself in the mirror so you can see the strong, beautiful, smart woman that you really are.

The more you begin to believe in yourself, the faster you will notice an improvement in your confidence.

2. Positive affirmations - Positive thinking and affirmations will go a long way towards helping you heal. You want to use this on a daily basis and any negative thoughts you have, turn them around immediately to positive thoughts.

Powerful tools for building self confidence are positive thinking and affirmations, if you are smart and use them.

3. Embrace your individual greatness - You have to realize that there are a lot of things about you that make you a great person. One thing that will help is to make a list of all of the great things about you.

If you can't come up with any, then ask a friend or loved one tell you what they find great about you. This will help you get your mind working and will help you find out that you really are a great person that is definitely worth knowing.

To help you easily improve your self confidence, these are the best ways that can be used. Don't delay, get started today using these ways and before you know it, you will have your self confidence back and no one will ever be able to break it down again because you won't let them.

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What is Your Dream of Success?

2010-12-12T00:31:00.000-05:00

What does success mean to you?

If you are reading this, I assume you want to be successful in some way, shape or form. But maybe you feel constrained by all the things you'd have to do, all the plans you'd have to stick to, all the goals that are worthy but, let's face it, a bit dull.

If you feel like this, it doesn't mean that you need to bumble along in pleasing mediocrity (though you can do that too if you want, this world is about choice). You can be more successful than you are now, you can make better choices you can have more ways of achieving your dream. Even if that dream doesn't fit in with the rest of the world's idea of success.

There are two things I want to say to you here, and if you detect a finger-wagging tone, I apologise in advance. I don't mean to lecture. It's just that so often I see people not living up to their potential and getting frustrated by their lack of progress. And this happens because they are saying to themselves, there is a success model out there, but I don't want to be a multimillionaire so it wouldn't work for me. They are saying, there is success coaching out there, but I'm not sure how far I want to take things, maybe it's only for the super ambitious. They are saying I know I could change but I don't want to...yet.

And the two things I have to say to you are:

1. You get to choose your future. You can be as successful as you want and in any way you want. If your idea of success is living off the land, recycling everything and making your own shoes then go for it. If you want to be a millionaire, go for it. If your idea of success is running your own business and still having time to recognise family members, that's fine too.

There does seem to be an idea prevalent in the success coaching field that every client wants to be super-successful, earn millions while they sleep and have the yacht/mansion/labradoodle. Coaches market their products and services on this basis. But that can be off-putting for many people who, while they know they could do more, don't feel up to being a multi-millionaire, get seasick at the thought of a yacht, and really don't know what they want to do. They have the frustration of feeling they are not quite 'there' yet but don't know what 'there' means to them.

If you don't know what successful means to you, it doesn't mean that the success coaching is of no use to you. But you may have to spend some time finding a coach who will value the real you, who isn't totally tied in to the millionaire success model and who will give you time and space to discover what your dreams are.

2. You CAN use all the success coaching that is out there, just adapt it for your needs. Your success goal might be building a business, getting more clients, having better relationships, developing more muscles and less fat... and so on.

It is likely that you already know a lot about the outer steps you need to take. For example, building a better body usually means better food and more exercise; you know that already. Building a business means getting out there and finding potential clients. You know what you have to do; the thing that's holding you back is some internal block, something that may be fear or hesitation or a reluctance to change. And it is this internal stuff that the coaching can be really good at addressing. It is this that will move you forward.

So whatever your idea of success is, or even if you don't know what success is but you don't want to stay stuck, find a coach who will understand where you are now, help you develop a plan for where you want to be and show you how to get there.

Liz Copeland is the True Courage Coach. If you are on the brink of something big and want to move forward or if you are being forced to take a big step True Courage Coaching will support you. So if you've lost the job, your partner or your waistline and you want to get to step up and into your ideal future get started right away with your free True Courage Creation Kit at http://www.truecouragecoaching.com/

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7 Self Improvement Quotes - Self Improvement Tips

2010-11-28T10:02:00.000-05:00

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Imagine a life where you managed your anger, behaved assertively with others, communicated clearly and effectively, appreciated your life and was grateful for those people you shared it with; a life where you understood the power of positive thinking, loved yourself more than anybody in the whole wide world, and never let fear become your master...

Are you imagining, yet, how great your life would be?

Well I'm a big believer in the power of inspirational quotations to get the message across as quickly and directly as possible. And that's why I've decided to list seven self improvement quotes that cover these key self-help areas of life. And I discuss how you can embrace these inspirational quotes - these self improvement ideas - so that you can make a difference in your life today.

Let's begin.

Self-Improvement Quote #1: Anger

"How much more grievous are the consequences of anger than the causes of it." -- Marcus Aurelius.

What this quotations means, I think, is that there is nothing wrong with getting angry - things are always going to happen that take us unawares, and make us cross. The important issue is HOW we express that anger.

So make sure, starting today, that you take a look at what's still making you angry years after the event. And let go of this anger, if you can, as this anger is hurting you much more than it's hurting anyone else.

And try and deal with new angry situations in a way where you express yourself clearly and assertively. Express it and forget it.

Self-Improvement Quote #2: Assertiveness

"Assertiveness is not what you do, it's who you are!" -- Shakti Gawain

When you express yourself clearly, and use words like "I" (rather than "you") then you are giving life to your true self - whether the other person agrees with you or not.

How much better is it to do this than to squash your thoughts and feelings so as not to 'cause a problem' to somebody else.

No problem is caused when you are being your true self.

Self-Improvement Quote #3: Communication Skills

"When I am at Milan, I do as they do at Milan; but when I go to Rome, I do as Rome does" -- St. Augustine

Of course, 'tailoring your message to the audience' will always be of assistance in assertive communication. It will always help the other person understand what you are saying and why you are saying it.

This level of insight into each other's position will always be of benefit to both parties, no matter whether you agree or disagree. The reason? At least you will both know you have been truly heard.

Self-Improvement Quote #4: Gratitude

"Remember that not to be happy is not to be grateful." -- Elizabeth Carter

This quote is another way of saying that having gratitude for what's going on in your life is a sure way of finding happiness. Even if you're disagreeing with people, or you don't like the way people do things, it should still be possible to be grateful for that person in your life, for the differences that they reveal.

After all, imagine how dull it would be to take a walk in the woods only to find all of the trees the same, and all of the flowers the same, and all of the bird song to be the same.

Gratitude is simply finding a good reason to appreciate, rather than a good reason to criticise.

Self-Improvement Quote #5: Positive Attitude

"Positive thinking won't let you do anything but it will let you do everything better than negative thinking will." -- Zig Ziglar

If ever there was an inspirational quote that explained the power of positive thinking in anybody's life it is this one. Why would anybody want to do something badly when they can do it well instead, simply via adopting a positive thinking attitude.

I know that it's not always possible to feel good about things, and to not allow ourselves to wallow in our (apparent) repeated short-comings. This is understood. The idea, though, is to remind ourselves of how much more we can do in life by not allowing ourselves to wallow, but by getting back in the game and having another "I can" go...

Self-Improvement Quote #6: Self Love

"To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance." --Oscar Wilde

As ever ol' Oscar Wilde takes a short sentence to sum up a lifelong strategy for a successful, happy and fulfilled life. Self-love is absolutely vital to embrace, if we are to enjoy ourselves and our relationships. And everyone benefits when we do so.

What a fantastic self-improvement idea - to love ourselves more!

Self-Improvement Quote #7: Fear

"How very little can be done under the spirit of fear." -- Florence Nightingale

And when we love ourselves more, guess what we automatically do less of? We fear less. And when we fear less, we do more. And when we do more, we live more? And when live more, we are more.

Understanding how fear has a grip on our lives, and how it's possible for us to look at this fear and to make it 'disappear' is almost as important a self improvement idea as loving ourselves more.

That's what I say, anyway.

Okay, there we have it. There you have some self improvement tips and ideas by way of 7 self improvement quotes. The quotes covered anger, assertiveness, fear, communication, appreciation, positive thinking and self-love. And they clearly show you what to start doing to achieve greatness in your life.

This is especially true when you remember what a great life is all about... "There is nothing noble about being superior to some other man. The true nobility is in being superior to your previous self." -- Hindu Proverb

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How to Ensure You Achieve Something Every Day

2010-11-27T12:05:00.000-05:00

Possibly your most valuable resource in achieving all you set out to do in life is time. Without an effective and reliable means of managing your time and making the best use of it you will struggle to get what you want. There are many techniques for effective time management and so knowing what will work for you is important.

I'm a great believer in using "to do" lists each day. That way I know precisely what I have to do. The lists include the routine tasks that must be done, action points towards the key projects I am working on, and other activities I am to do including those relating to my leisure time. The lists are also broken down into time segments throughout the day. Then as I complete each task I can mark it off and so at the end of the day I get the great sense of achievement of having a list of what I have done and the motivation to move forward.

Now this technique may well work for you too, but there is another way. There are those who argue that using "to do" lists can actually be counter-productive. They say that reading the items on the list can have the effect of nagging away at you and causing you stress and worry that you might not get them done. Then if there are uncompleted items at the end of the day you will feel a sense of disappointment or failure and so the list becomes something that is de-motivating.

So their alternative method is to use "Did It" lists by simply entering items, stating concisely what you have done, into your diary or journal when you have completed them. The basis of this system is:

1. You know your goals and they are clear and meaningful and you have written them down.

2. You break your goals down into projects and then into smaller manageable chunks.

3. You have time allocated each day to carry out these tasks.

4. Therefore you know exactly what you have to do each day.

5. Once you have completed a task you then enter it into your diary or journal. You write precisely what you did and what was accomplished.

6. So at the end of the day you have a list of all that you have got done and hence a real sense of achievement.

So if you are struggling to manage your time and your "To Do" lists are becoming a hindrance rather than a help, why not give it a try. It may be just what you need to finally achieve your goals.

My main worry about this alternative method is that knowing in your mind what you have to do is one thing, but actually doing it can be something completely different! So I shall stick to the way that works for me. I need to have my tasks written down and I know that by managing them efficiently they will truly be helpful.

But whichever you choose, if you want to make real progress with your goals you must manage your time.

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The Mind of an Entrepreneur

2010-11-21T14:05:00.001-05:00

The way a person thinks can be the difference between being a successful entrepreneur or a defeated wannabe.

Studies have shown that a person who has an entrepreneurial mindset thinks differently than those who are satisfied with just being mere employees.

Although an entrepreneur entertains both types of thinking, they focus more on effectual thinking as opposed to causal thinking. Effectual thinking is very important especially in the starting a new business venture.

The Difference Between Causal Thinking and Effectual Thinking:

Entrepreneur wannabes often indulge in causal thinking. Causal thinking deals with having a goal in mind and having a definite plan to achieve the said goal. It also encourages a person to find better ways to implement the plan and achieve their goal.

Of course, the person has all the flexibility in the world to find several alternatives to achieve the goal he has first set and this goal stays the same all through out.

Effectual thinking, on the other hand, is a fairly different idea. And yes, it starts the same way as a causal thinker would have it.

There are set means, yes, but the goals develop over time and are molded by the imagination and interaction of the entrepreneur with the other people who contribute to his business.

With effectual thinking, there are no set goals in the beginning. The formation of goals by an effectual thinker is based on three factors:

Personality: (what he is as a person)

Knowledge: (his formal education and training)

Network: (who he knows socially and professionally).

How Entrepreneurs Think:

Elaborating the difference between causal thinking and effectual thinking does not mean that an entrepreneur only uses one type of thinking. In fact, the best entrepreneurs make use of both types at the right time.

For someone who is still starting out, effectual thinking should be put into action. Why? For two things.

First, being an effectual thinker means being creative. You are not limited by your means as well as your goals. You may think of alternate routes to get to your goal, but if it doesn't work, you can easily scrap those routes altogether.

And since effectual thinkers aren't limited to one grand goal, success may come from an unexpected direction and in the most unexpected time.

Secondly, when you become an effectual thinker, you develop all the characteristics required to make an entrepreneur successful.

These characteristics include persistence, creativity, resourcefulness, and gut feel or intuition..

Effectual entrepreneurs aren't fortune tellers and they do not try to be one. Instead, they will work to create the future that they want their businesses to be in.

Becoming Successful:

Success does not come overnight and effectual entrepreneurs know this. If the first plan doesn't work, then it's time to move on to the next one, and so on and so forth.

Being successful is just like playing hide and seek with you as the "it". Just because success doesn't come from the first place, as a true entrepreneur you continue moving forward looking for it.

As an effectual thinking entrepreneur, you are allowed to adapt to the moment and change goals on the fly.

Remember, the best entrepreneurs make use of both types of thinking. As a budding entrepreneur yourself, you would do well to follow their example.

Success Motivation: Its Role in the Achievement of Your Dreams

2010-11-19T22:52:00.002-05:00

The term motivation is not at all strange to all of us. In fact, in every endeavor that one ventures into, the idea of motivation always tags alongside it. Motivation is literally that thing known as the extreme desire to fulfill something. But before motivation must be exercised, it is important that there is a vivid plan regarding what is to be done, how it is to be done, and what kind of result is expected to turn out.

There may be a lot of things that you wish to accomplish. But then because of the most unexpected twists and turns of the events, your dream of fulfilling something may have suddenly become blurred and unreachable. But you would not let it happen and have it stay that way, right? There is always the chance to straighten things out.

Success motivation can be said as something that inspires us to pursue whatever it is that has been planned out. Life constantly provides everyone with a definite stream of opportunities and because of the many distractions, one always end up unable to pursue what he has planned beforehand. But with the idea of success motivation, the fulfillment of anything will not be out of reach.

The very main reason that hinders success motivation to materialize is the load of weaknesses that thrive in the human persona. This can be a very powerful tool that stops you from achieving your dream. If only you are aware of the most possible methods to stop these things from occurring, then you will likely be able to keep a focused mind. When these bad factors overwhelm you, you will find it hard to escape these obstacles and for success motivation to be kept in close track.

In order for you to maintain your focus on the dream that you have in mind, you must let success motivation enter your mainstream. There are obviously innumerable ways to have your dream bright, clear, and fresh. Here are a few of the important things that you may take note of:

Jot it down. Whatever it is that you dream of, scribble it on a piece of paper. This will be your constant reminder. If ever there are new occurrences in your life, your original goals will be relived as soon as you see what you have written.

Read it over and over. Posting the paper on the corners of your room will make it visible enough for you to be reminded of regarding your goal.

Revise your copy. As things change, the concerns you have also alters. But it is important that you stick to reachable and realistic goals.

Keep a log to yourself. You may list down the initial steps that you have taken in the achievement of your goal. You can also jot down other necessary things that you can attend to tomorrow or for the next days to come.

Take time to learn it. Always study and keep an eye on your designated project. It does not mean that you have to go back to school for another degree. It is only a matter of being decided on the matter. The more intense your success for motivation is, the clearer the pursuance of your dream would be to you.

Have someone to share your concerns with. It is important that you take note of other people's opinion. Their voices can truly help in the materialization of your dream.

Be inspired. It has been tried and tested. Having someone or something as an inspiration can contribute to the success motivation deals.

If you dare to take challenges, always be geared towards success motivation. You will lose nothing when you do so.

Last note, we are all born with the intelligence and desires to succeed, but it is our obligation to develop our intelligence and talent in whatever field we choose. It is our sporn duty to perfect the gifts that are bestowed upon us. The journey will be long and hard but through the ability to grow our intelligence, understanding the industry and through our desire to succeed achieving our dreams is possible.

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