Change Ur Dating Life Forever

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.

2008-12-30T06:26:00.000-08:00

Funny Romantic Story

2008-12-16T06:40:00.000-08:00

Once upon a time, there was a prince who, through no fault of his own, was cast under a spell by an evil witch. The curse was that the prince could speak only one word each year. However, he could save up the words so that if he did not speak for a whole year, the following year he was allowed to speak two words. (This was before the time of letter writing or sign language.)
One day, he met a beautiful princess (ruby lips, golden hair, sapphire eyes) and fell madly in love with her. With the greatest difficulty, he refrained from speaking for 2 whole years so that he could look at her and say, 'My darling.' But at the end of these 2 years, he wished to tell her that he loved her. So he waited 3 more years without speaking, bringing the total number of silent years to 5.
At the end of these 5 years, he realized that he had to ask her to marry him. So he waited another 4 years without speaking.
Finally, as the 9th year of silence ended, his joy knew no bounds. Leading the lovely princess to the most secluded and romantic place in that beautiful royal garden, the prince heaped a hundred red roses on her lap, knelt before her, and taking her hand in his, said, 'My darling, I love you! Will you marry me?'
And the princess tucked a strand of golden hair behind her dainty ear, opened her sapphire eyes in wonder, and parting her ruby lips, said, 'Pardon?'

Joke about Marriage

2008-12-02T05:39:00.000-08:00

A young man finds the woman of his dreams and asks her to marry him. He tells his mother he wants her to meet his fiance, but he wants to make a bit of a game out of it. He says he'll bring the girl over with two other women and see if his mother can guess which is the one he wants to marry. His mother agrees to the game.
That night, he shows up at his mother's house with three beautiful young ladies. They all sit down on the couch, and everyone has a wonderful evening talking and getting to know each other.
At the end of the evening, the young man asks his mother, 'OK, Mom, which one is the woman I want to marry?'
Without any hesitation at all, his mother replies, 'The one in the middle.'
The young man is astounded. 'How in the world did you figure it out?'
'Easy,' she says. 'I don't like her.'

Man of Her Dreams

2008-11-21T06:37:00.000-08:00

She was walking along the river holding an enormous bunch of red and golden leaves in her hand. It was autumn. The eighteenth autumn she met alone in this old park. The sky was so dark that she could feel the air trembling with fear for the approaching thunderstorm. She sat on the old shaky bench where not long ago she wrote some words - “Hi, I’m Helen”. Now she was not in the mood to inspect the surface of the bench. She was just sitting and tearing off the red and golden leaves and pushing them into the cold water. She felt the deepest loneliness inside her heart…

The first heavy drops began falling on the ground the wind grew colder and stronger…and she was the part of this tragedy. Suddenly her thin fingers felt some new scratches on the surface of the bench. She looked closer and saw a new word just under her own – “Hi”! Oh, she was so surprised…”Who could he be?”, – she thought (and she was sure that it was “he”). She was sitting in the rain getting wet and dreaming about this stranger who wrote her so little and gave her so much. Of course he was tall and handsome with blue eyes and dark hair, wearing a black overcoat and black jeans. Naturally he was the best man in the world – they loved each other, they never argued, they had the same interests… That was the man of her dreams, who wrote only one word and received the whole heart of the young lady in the cold autumn evening.

How to approach Russian women?

2008-11-05T01:44:00.000-08:00

How to approach Russian women?
Russian women differ a lot from women of other nationalities. First of all they consider themselves to be self-confident, intelligent and caring. Sometimes it’s really a challenge to approach a Russian woman, but of course there exist some basic “rules” that can help you to get acquainted and start relations with them. Russian women pay a lot of attention to the appearance of a man – e.g. clothes, hair and mannerisms. So,
1) Be neat, smile and don’t use many gestures during conversation.
The next thing is conversation.
2) The best place initially is a restaurant. Russian women generally like to be treated equally with men and they can talk about politics, the economy, sport and many other serious topics. They are very well versed and they always have their own point of view. At all times they are ready to discuss topics for hours just to highlight their intelligence.
As with other women, Russians like compliments and attention.
3) However the volume of compliments should not be too large. A Russian woman is like a little girl – if she receives flowers from somebody or hears a compliment, she blushes because of natural shyness, although she knows that she is worthy of it. That’s why a small bunch of nice flowers will often do much more than other actions.
What about caring?
4) A Russian woman is a kind of woman who combines many people in one – she is a sister, a wife, a mother and a friend all at the same time. She likes to give pieces of advice – connecting with food, clothes, health and so on. Let her demonstrate this side of her nature, yet on the other hand, she wishes to be taken care of. If it’s cold, for instance, you should always offer your jacket. Chivalry is alive and well with Russian women and you should not forget this.
Russian women are very kind and they love pets – mainly cats.
5) It’s not important to buy her a cat though. You can tell her about your pet or ask what kind of animals she likes. The fact that a man likes animals will emphasize his kindness.
And the last but most important thing!
6) When the meeting comes to an end and you exchange your phone numbers, be aware that Russian woman will never be the first ones who will call.

Habits Women Hate

2008-10-30T03:13:00.000-07:00

It’s worth remembering that no human being is perfect and every person has bad habits that they indulge in, that’s what makes us the diverse and wonderful set of people that we all are…
Imagine you have met a lovely girl. However, sooner or later she will definitely start making attempts to rebuild you according to her idea of a perfect man. In this case two scenarios are possible:
1) If you are deeply in love with her you have to find out which of your habits irritate her and try to get rid of them.
2) Another way is to stand your ground and to persuade her that you are a fantastic person with your own habits. Remember that when you want to correct a problem or smooth a situation in a relationship, you should get the facts straight so that you can present your case accurately.

Anyway, lets go back to the worst habits which drive women crazy. Do you remember where you left your socks yesterday before going to bed. Perhaps you put them under the chair or somewhere in a dark corner? The problem of dirty socks as well as that of unclosed packs of toothpaste in the bathroom is very common among men. These two problems are rated as the top men’s habits most hated by women.
Now let’s have a look at the following story. You are walking down the street together with your girlfriend and suddenly a beautiful girl passes by and you can’t help looking back at her. Women often cannot understand that it is men’s nature to admire beauty, so as a man you have to be very wary.
There are many more habits that may be either good or bad from a woman’s point of view. For instance, some women prefer their partners to smoke because they consider this habit adds masculinity. Conversely some women hate the habit and the scent of tobacco.
The same thing is true about alcohol. The majority of women hate their partners drinking but most also do not mind men who drink to moderation.
Each of your habits (from the way you dress to the way you speak or move) can be seen by a woman as bad. If you’re not careful these bad habits can indicate a lack of commitment on your part and a lacking of care from yourself in making her feel happy about the relationship. As such, they’re all on your woman’s most hated habits list!

Why some things are more important for women than for men?

2008-10-19T23:14:00.000-07:00

Every person has a lot of habits and many of them appear in the early years of life. Some people like milk and others prefer water, some like ironed clothes and others hate them. We live with these habits and even don’t imagine that other people can’t stand the things which are common for us. This matter becomes a real problem when a couple gets married as different things which you are used to doing seem ridiculous to your partner.

If we ask women what things irritate them in their husbands most of all, we will hear relatively the same: dirty socks somewhere on the floor, dirty dishes in the living room, clothes spread over the flat and so on. It’s almost impossible to stop men doing things like that. But why is it so?

As a matter of fact men do not care much about the house chores, because it doesn’t seem important for them. When a man is at home after a hard working day, the only thing he wants is to watch TV, listen to music or read a newspaper. He is tired and he cannot think about such silly things as where he should put his socks. On the other hand women cannot close their eyes at such disorder in the house.

How can husbands change this situation? The first thing they should understand is that their wives are not their mothers or babysitters, but sometimes they have to take care of men as if they are children. The house for a woman is her castle and everything should be in order, that’s why she does her best to make it look tidy. Men have a nasty habit of spoiling this!

In regard to man’s nature he cannot force himself to make such matters important for himself but he can understand why they are important for a woman. If there is a desire to live in peace with your wife, the best way is to understand and to consider everything from her perspective at all times.

The Role of Music In Romance

2008-10-03T07:17:00.000-07:00

Music… Have you ever thought of the role music plays in your life and what is it about music that melts hearts and brings people together in celebration?
You can ask anyone what their favorite songs are and regardless of age, gender, cultural background or social status you’ll always get an answer. Indeed, music plays a large part in both courtship and activities that promote social unity across multiple cultures and geographies.
Even the scientists have given attention to such a topic as “The Role of Music in Romance”. The conclusion is the following: skills like musical ability are an attraction mechanism.
But what about musical taste and compatibility? He prefers Billie Joe Armstrong to Billie Holiday whereas she’d rather laugh with Jack Black than rock with Jack White! Can these two people stay tuned to the same station, or will their different musical interests introduce too much tension?
Psychologists say: ”Sharing a similar approach to processing new information will likely prove much more important to long-term satisfaction than whether the specific foci of interests are similar”. In other words if your Beatles-loving girlfriend doesn’t like the new Coldplay album then as long as you share the same general interest in music and the desire to learn, in this case both your relationship and music collection will be enriched.
No one will deny that music is just another language and is used to communicate interest during courtship, equal to verbal and nonverbal communication. It is a powerful tool to put words and sounds to our own emotions and allows us to understand how each other is thinking or feeling.

Long distance relationships - can they work?

2008-09-26T00:43:00.000-07:00

Do you think that long distance relationships can work out?? Keeping a relationship alive across the miles is no easy task. You can get to know someone over the phone and Internet, but there are too many gaps that can only be filled by face to face interaction; and over an extended period. We are very attracted to each other and feel we are compatible, but how do you relocate across the country for a "maybe”. Long distance relationships are becoming more common as people travel far away for work, study, or reasons beyond their control.

Men and women have an equally hard time dealing with the separation that’s involved in a long-distance relationship.

COMMUNICATION is the key. Successful long distance relationships require daily interaction and sharing (the 'relating' to each other bit). Phones, email, texting, postal mail, and web cams... you must use them all. . Let them know about what you've been doing and thinking because in that way they will feel like they are there with you. But remember : missing a day does not indicate relationships’ jeopardy. Discuss your communication needs and limits. It's likely that one partner will need more communication more than the other. Get ready to be flexible.

Be honest. The best way to true intimacy and connection especially in a long distance relationship is through "total honesty" to each other in the fullest sense of the words. It goes without say that telling your whole truth can be difficult and even scary, but it will result in the kind of relationship that you really want-- a relationship where all the cards are laid in the table. Learn to trust your partner unconditionally. Trust is a very fundamental aspect in any relationship. That is because having trust in a relationship takes away doubt. All romantic relationships can experience jealousy and fears about cheating, but generally long distance relationships take longer to resolve those feelings. Maintain your own high self-esteem and high self-worth. Keep doing the things that you enjoy doing. You are a valuable, attractive, interesting person.

Show your soul through your eyes

2008-09-19T00:47:00.000-07:00

Wise people say eyes are the mirror to the soul. Our eyes reflect our fears and our hopes. It is always easier to communicate with people who keep good eye contact during the conversation, primarily because when they look at you they show you that they are listening to what you have to say. From your point for view, you can easily judge whether what you say excites the person you are talking to, upsets them or makes them bored. This quick judgment allows you to adjust the conversation accordingly.

Women like to make this judgment quickly, as it is important to them to know what you think while they are talking to you. Therefore, eye contact is a very important part of the communication package that you offer them. Furthermore, you should bear in mind that women have an extraordinary ability to see things while they are not looking directly at you. Therefore, if she looks away or puts her eyes down, do not think that a quick check of your watch will not be noticed. It will be, so don’t do anything that you do not wish to be seen (this especially includes looking at other women).

Before I explain how to use eye contact to your advantage, it is important to outline what eye contact actually means. Looking directly at a person and into their eyes, without checking out immediate surroundings is keeping eye contact. Looking at a person without blinking is staring (which most women find too weird to cope with). Looking into a woman’s eyes without hearing a word that she has to say is considered staring as well as is generally not approved of.

How to impress a lady?

2008-09-09T03:48:00.000-07:00

You won’t get a pretty girls true attention until she sees how important you could be for her. Allow her to get to the heart of your mystery-self: be polite, show her that you are a good listener and always have a more to you than meets the eye. Furthermore, stay in a good mood, be self-confident and quick-witted. The above is the key to ensure that she thinks that she has met the man of her dreams.

Many guys are sure that their presence is enough! This is a mistake. If you are very good looking and have a fantastic physique, a girl might feel in heaven when she is in your presence. She will be proud being the girlfriend of such a handsome and strong man. YES, in that case you can have a success, BUT…. if she finds out that your wonderful body and beautiful face are the only things that you have to offer, your relationship will not last very long …

What to wear and How to wear

2008-08-29T02:20:00.000-07:00

No one will deny that when a woman meets a man for the first time, the main thing that attracts us is his appearance. Even those with the kindest soul and greatest intellect unfortunately go unnoticed at first. If a man appears scruffy he will most likely not have a chance to prove to a woman all of his finest qualities. So what is the key to being attractive to a woman?

1) The main thing is that he should look neat and tidy. So don’t forget to shave and groom regularly. Look after your clothes and wardrobe, but don’t go overboard.

2) Remember that the “suit should fit”. You can have the right clothes but if they are too tight or too loose you project a poor image to the fairer sex.

3) If you wear a tie, try to blend the colors carefully with the shirt. Experiment with colors, but keep it tasteful.

4) All underwear should match!

5) Wear only a high-quality elegant watch. It looks as right with jeans as it does with your best suit. Remember that a watch is not a means to know the time but a style accessory.

6) Choose the appropriate color. Remember that light colors are better for summer and dark colors for winter. Chose colors that enhance your skin and eye color around the face in order not to look as if you haven’t slept the previous night.

7) One of the first things people notice when meeting you for the first time are your shoes. Would you like women to think you are sloppy and careless? Find the time to ensure your shoes look clean, stylish and properly shined at all times.

8) If you wear spectacles chose them according to your face. They can give you a stylish and intelligent appearance as well as spoil your whole image.

Remember that if you can add a charming smile to your elegant image, any woman will be impressed.

How to avoid the “emergency phone call” from her friends during your date?

2008-08-28T01:12:00.000-07:00

We all have been in this scenario. We meet a girl, take her out and at the end of the dinner she gets a phone call and runs off, claiming that her friend just had an emergency and she needs to go off and help. We also know what that means – we will never see the girl again. If we do, it will be by accident and the conversation will be very short and uncomfortable.

In order to avoid these scenarios, we need to break down the whole date and understand where the girl’s decision to dump you comes from.

Starting from the beginning, you could have met her by accident, either in a public place or on a blind date. On your first meeting she indicated that she likes you and naturally you want to show off and therefore you invite her somewhere special. But you do not choose somewhere down to earth, rather you take her to an expensive café or restaurant. You chat, you laugh and it seems like you are forming a bond so you take it further and order something even more expensive, present her with some kind of surprise etc. However, it is then when the phone call comes through and she runs off leaving you with a large bill and no hope of seeing her again. You feel disappointed and out of pocket Now, if you want to know why she did that, you should look at yourself first rather than try to justify her reasons. You feel disappointed because you were expecting something, but why would you expect something? You have just met and both of you have the right to change your minds about each other. You also feel disappointed because you spent a lot of money trying to prove that you are macho. Well, if you were going to buy someone, then why did not you just tell her that. Instead, you were buying someone who was not prepared to be sold, so as far as she was concerned she still had the right to change her mind. That’s why you feel disappointed and cheated.

The reason why she left is because sometime during the dinner (or even earlier) she changed her mind. If you were not so consumed in trying to impress you would have noticed that. However, you did not and she did not know how to tell you. In order to avoid an uncomfortable situation she goes along with your plan but then starts to think of ways out that will not hurt your feelings. The emergency phone call seems to be the best solution, so she activates it at the end of the night.
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How to become a master of seduction?

2008-08-14T00:48:00.000-07:00

Knowing how to seduce women doesn't come naturally for many men. In fact, it takes lots
of practice. So how do you get practice?
In many cultures, having an ability to seduce any woman is considered an art. When a man
has this ability this wakes emotions in women which if controlled carefully can lead to a
long term relationship.
Most men leave the powers of attraction to their natural abilities, hoping that what they
have to offer will be enough. However, as with any art form, practice makes the results
much more predictable and constant. In order to become a master of seduction, here are a
few hints and tips that you can use:
Make the woman emotionally excited. Friendly chit chat will not make any woman
emotionally excited enough to be seduced. Therefore, when the conversations start with
“You are so beautiful. What is your name? Can I buy you a drink?” this often leads to a
very fast conclusion to the conversation. Of course, you can still use the above
phrases, but the effectiveness of them is minimal. If you want to be effective, then make
her feel something emotionally. For example:
1. Share her emotions with her. Lead her to a conversation where she will tell you about
things that matter to her. Do not make the mistake of changing the subject to yourself or
asking lots of closed questions. Put yourself in her shoes, feel what she feels and carry
on the conversation on her wavelength. For example, if she starts mentioning her previous
relationship make the first step towards her emotions and say something along the
following lines: “So, you fell in love with him so deeply that you could look into his
eyes all day long. It’s a pity that this innocent feeling of first love stays so far in
the past. Do you think you can ever feel the same way again?”
2. Be seductive. A lot of “nice guys” are capable of being on the same emotional
wavelength as a woman. However, they also fall into the trap of being “just a friend”. In
order to avoid the “friends only” zone, you need to be seductive and the easiest way to
do this is to bring some sexiness into your conversations, while still projecting an
emotional connection to the woman. A correct balance of the two will allow you to attract
a woman, understand her and avoid the “friends only” zone.

Here is how you do that: do not break eye contact while talking to her; build up the
physical contact with her (it may start off with careful pat and develop into a touch of
the hands); use the speed of the conversation to let her know that you find her
attractive and flirt with her when appropriate. Try and develop a sexual tension between
the two of you – she will feel this as well. However, do not hurry the process, you need
to establish the emotional contact with her
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How to attract a hard to get woman

2008-08-06T02:04:00.000-07:00

How to attract a “hard-to-get lady”?

We live in a world containing a lot of different types of women. For now, let’s look at the “serious, professional and stylish” ladies, as they are often the hardest to get. Most of the time these ladies are very beautiful, well-dressed and very focused. When approached they are not very talkative, act distant, do not react to your smiling face and dislike short talk. If you ask them a question, in most cases you will get a short polite answer that will leave you very little room to carry on with the conversation.

Nothing is impossible in romance, even seducing the most “hard-to-get” ladies. It is important to remember that success is 90% attitude and 10% technique. Therefore, the first thing to build is your attitude, as with the correct attitude you can seduce any woman.

When you approach a “hard-to-get” woman, you need to bear in mind that she will not want to communicate with a stranger. Furthermore, she will judge people very quickly and decide whether she wants to talk to them. This judgement can be based on a large number of criteria: clothes, style, hair, approach, posture, shoe colour, good looks, physique etc. In order to approach such a woman in a public place you need to find an original approach, something that others have not thought of which will surprise her and break the icy barrier. If you use a general approach she will have her full defences up and she will not let you get past the first few sentences. Whatever you say to her, remember to stay calm and portray confidence in your voice. …more
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First Impression

2008-07-29T06:46:00.000-07:00

First impressions
A lot of men are happy to leave the responsibility of seduction to women. We all know why – women call the shots, so they might as well make the first move. However, delegating this responsibility to women is a very big mistake as the likelihood is you will not be chosen. Why? Well, the only thing that women can judge you on are your looks and unless you are the best looking male in the crowd you will lose the battle. However, if you show your personality, intelligence and sense of humor – you have a fighting chance.
So what does the seducing begin with? The first thing is the acquaintance, meaning that you will be judged on the first impression that you give. The stronger the first impression, the less effort you need to put in to seduce a lady and vice versa. Furthermore, you should also know that a good first impression will also allow you to hide a lot of your negative qualities afterwards.
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Becoming The Perfect Guy In Her Eyes.

2008-07-18T03:25:00.000-07:00

Becoming The Perfect Guy In Her Eyes.

One of the popular methods of attracting a woman is to become the “Perfect Guy”.

Ask her what the man of her dreams looks like. If she thinks that you will help her to find this perfect guy, then she will be willing to share her ideal guy with you. Ask her to describe his clothes, hair, voice, body and what he would say and do and importantly how she wants for him to make her feel.

Your job is to ask her questions which will get her to describe exactly what she wants and expects from her ideal man. Talking about this perfect man will make her feel comforted and happy....

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What is fear? And how do we overcome it?

2008-07-14T02:45:00.000-07:00

Fear…is one of the strongest human feelings. No one denies that mankind has survived due to this feeling as it is closely connected to instinct and self-preservation. Yet at the same time fear adds many unsurpassable barriers that are hard to overcome.
So the question is “Why are men afraid to approach the girl they like”? We aren’t afraid to communicate with the people we already know, generally because we know their reactions and shortcomings and vice versa. In other words we can control the situation as we know how to behave and what to say. When we communicate with someone new we lack this knowledge. We are out of control and its this that generates our fear. To read more