Cheritera Hikayati

MamyPoko!

2012-01-30T07:00:00.000+08:00

Yeah we'll be using MamyPoko for the baby. Sebab aritu ada discount so dh borong la jugakkan..tp xde la byk mana risau baby cpt besa so nnti x muat plak.

NB - 3 packs
S - 6-8 packs
M - banyak packs tak ingat tp amek yg easy fit pants tu sbb ada jual murah masa Jom Heboh

Tapi kalo dah xdek budget nnti kene la gune brand yang murah yerkkk...:D

Source: MamyPoko

The Final Weeks

2012-01-27T09:37:00.002+08:00

Baby still syok dok dlm mommy's tummy lagi as for now. Anytime soon!!! :D

Ok, i'm entering 38 weeks today. Dah nampak and rasa baby dah turun ke bawah. Even jalan pon dah sakit bawah ni. Baby as usual super active. Suke la nak tendang mommy nye sampai terkejut aku jadinye...haha.

Ohhh...last week check up baby dah 3.5kg!!!! i could not expect anything...Just go with the flow saja. Yang pasti hidung nya follow daddy nya :D

Your baby is now ready to greet the world. At this point, the average full-term newborn is still building a layer of fat to help control body temperature after birth. Most babies are between 2.7 and 4.3kg / 6 and 9 1/2lb at birth, and boys tend to be slightly heavier than girls. All your baby's organs are developed and in place though his lungs will be the last to reach full maturity.

Ye ye daddy nya yang x sesabo soh anakanda kuar cecepat....aduhaiii sabar ye bapak nye...Baby nk tunggu Dragon Year la daddy.

Ni mommy nye yang dok bawak ke hulu ke hilir ni....apa dah jadi this week?

You may be feeling huge and uncomfortable during these final weeks. Try to take it easy - this may be your last opportunity to do so for quite a while. See a film, read a book that has nothing to do with pregnancy or babies, have your hair or nails done, or just spend time with your husband. Neither of you will have much time for cooking in the few weeks after your baby's born, but you could prepare some home-made frozen meals to enjoy when you need them. What else can you do? Make sure the car's filled up with petrol, and read our fun baby star signs.

Your husband should try to relax, too, and enjoy some activities there won't be time for after the baby arrives. Suggest some inspirational reading - he may need it when you go into labour.

Don't panic if you feel electric buzzes down your legs and inside your vagina. Baby has simply stumbled on yet another way to grab your attention -- this time, he's bumping against nerves in your pelvis.

So far, mommy nye go with flow saja. Dah malas nk pk apa dah. BH contractions dh start ada byk kali but Alhamdulillah i managed to handle these contractions. Just have to relax and go with the flow.

Preparation plak almost everything dh ok just a few things nak kene beli especially on BF thingy. Tu i byk pk sikit lagi2 kes budak mati tersedak tu...aduhaiiii nak kene cari method to solve it. At least, kite dah buat yang terbaik untuk anak...Selebih nya kite saman saja la nursery tu nanti. :D

Hospital bag pon dah ready letak dalam keta since i still keje till today. Next week cuti 3 hari then after that not sure what will happen. So, pape barang dah ada dlm keta just nk tmbh2 kan saja.

My nesting instinct so far cam xnmpk lg so kite tgk la nnti bile yerkkk :D

Dok opis pon today x ramai yang keje so relax la jugak ni...ok la yer...have fun!

Enjoice~~

Source: Baby Center, The Bump

Milk Aspiration Case

2012-01-25T12:10:00.000+08:00

I've been so worried about this case. How to send to nursery if there's no responsibility of the staff to take care of our child? Still thinking where to send my baby later...

And still searching for the method to avoid this milk aspiration.

Source: The Star

Full Term Babeh!

2012-01-21T07:00:00.000+08:00

Salam to all. Sorry for being hiatus recently.

Alhamdulillah I'm full term now. So, waiting for the baby to come out anytime! hehe.

Let's see the progress...

Your baby weighs close to 6.5 pounds / 2.8 kilograms and may be about 20 inches / 50 centimetres long from head to toe. Your baby's head is now cradled in your pelvic cavity - surrounded and protected by your pelvic bones. This position clears some much-needed space for her growing legs and buttocks.

Many babies now have a full head of hair, with locks maybe around one inch / 2.5 centimetres long. Of course, some babies don't have any hair at all.

Speaking of hair, most of the downy coat of lanugo that covered your baby from 26 weeks has disappeared, and so has most of the vernix caseosa, the whitish substance that also covers her. Your baby will swallow her lanugo and exterior coating, along with other secretions, and store them in her bowels. These will become your infant's first bowel movement, a blackish waste called meconium.

Around now many women start worrying about whether they will know if they are in labour. Look no further than our labour and birth section.

Hmmm....how about me??

The next couple of weeks are a waiting game. Try to enjoy this time before the baby arrives - eat well and get plenty of rest. If you need help to conquer the late pregnancy blues, you can always look ahead and find out what your newborn will be like.

I feel super HUGE!!!! And HEAVY!!!!

Can you imagine inside my tummy is the watermelon size?? Like this

I'll be meeting my OB today. Wait & see how much my baby gains. Hope not too much. Baby is already overweight too..:D

I'll update my latest picture later k.

Ok la, continue later.

GONG XI FA CAI to my Chinese frens!!!

Enjoice!

Source: Baby Center, The Bump

33 Weeks of Pregnancy

2011-12-24T11:00:00.000+08:00

Salam and good day to all.

Lately i have problem sleeping on my bed. Now, i sleep on the recliner sofa because i totally cannot lay back or lay on my side on the bed. I'll have the pelvic pain if i sleep or resting on the bed and caused me cannot sit, stand and walk. Even i can't sleep well on the bed anymore. That's why we have to buy a recliner sofa for me. And now Alhamdulillah I can sleep soundly though sometimes i need to wake up for pee pee and so on. But so far so good. No more pelvic pain.

However, these few days I started to get the Braxton Hicks. Cuak jugak la kan. One time masa on the way to office. Luckily after i walked out from the car it disappeared. But still feel the uncomfortable feelings. And it happened again on Thursday night when i was sleeping. I felt the pain and the urge to pee pee and poo poo. But then, after i sat straight the pain went away. So, i decided to continue sleeping instead of going to toilet. Alhamdulillah of all Braxton Hicks i faced, no bleeding or discharge. So i'm sure this is only a practice for me for the real labor!

I'm not sure when it'll be happened again because these weekends my cousins' wedding and i have to attend! Dilema jadinyerrrrrrr.

Now, i'm entering 33 weeks of my pregnancy. Time flies so fast! Hope the progress of my baby is very good since he's super active as usually and kinda helpful when i asked him something to help from inside. Haha.

Let's see what's the progress should be in this week.

Your Baby in Week 33 of Pregnancy
Your baby is still gaining weight (about half a pound a week), and she could grow up to another full inch this week. With that much baby inside your uterus, your amniotic-fluid level has maxed out, which explains why some of her pokes and kicks feel pretty sharp these days. (There's less fluid to cushion the blows.) Antibodies are being passed from you to your little one as she continues to develop her own fetal immune system, which will come in handy once she's outside the womb and fending off all sorts of germs.

Your Body in Week 33 of Pregnancy
With midnight bathroom runs, leg cramps, heartburn, and your basketball-sized belly, it's no wonder sleep is elusive. Third-trimester insomnia strikes about three-quarters of pregnant women (who may also be coping with a mind that races all night long thinking about your to-do-before-the-baby-comes list). But your body needs rest, so do your best to get comfy — before bed and when you get in it. Grab a pile of pillows, wedge them where you need to, and look on the bright side: Pregnancy insomnia is great training for those sleepless nights to come!

Ok, such a good progress. I'm now also feel heavier. It's like a honeydew is put inside me and you have to bring everywhere without holding it! Haha

Hmm, how about the symptoms for this week eh? Let's see...

Week 33 Pregnancy Symptoms
Stronger fetal activity: You can test for fetal movement twice a day — in the morning and evening. Check the clock and start counting every wiggle, roll, kick, or flutter until you reach ten. If by the end of the hour you haven’t felt at least ten, have a snack or some juice, lie down, and resume counting. (Your baby just may have needed an energy-boost, too!) - my baby is super active! no doubt about him.

Occasional headaches: Third-trimester fatigue can sometimes trigger headaches now, so make sure you’re getting plenty of rest. But try not to make up for loss of sleep by napping too much during the weekends — oversleeping can lead to headaches, too. - so far Alhamdulillah i'm ok no headaches. :)

Varicose veins: Sure they’re ugly (and sometimes painful), but if you’re worried that your varicose veins can be harmful too, you can relax. The good news? If you didn’t have them before you got pregnant, they’ll disappear soon after you give birth. - yeah!! my new BFF for now :|

Lower abdominal achiness: If your belly is aching when you change positions or get up suddenly, you could be suffering from round ligament pain (or growing pains). As long as it’s occasional and you don’t have fever, chills, or bleeding along with it, there’s nothing to worry about. Getting off your feet (and getting comfy) helps. - Yup. Always happened especially if lay down on the bed but without any bleeding and so on just the pain and burning sensation only.

Nail changes: Pregnancy hormones can make nails grow faster but can also cause them to become brittle. If your nails are brittle, try getting lots of biotin in your diet (stock up on bananas, avocados, nuts, and whole grains) and try gelatin capsules, which are safe in pregnancy. - this happened since i was in 5 months pregnancy. Have to cut twice a week.

Protruding navel: Your belly button may have popped by. Is there anything you can do about it? Not really — but it will pop back in a few months after you deliver. - Alhamdulillah my naval did not popped out. Touch wood!

Shortness of breath: That burgeoning belly is pushing anything out of its way — including your lungs, which can’t fully expand. It’s more uncomfortable for you than it is for your baby, who is getting the oxygen she needs from the placenta. What helps? Standing as straight as you can so that your lungs have a little more room. - Of course! I even cannot sleep at night because of this when i sleep on my bed but when on the recliner sofa i'm ok.

Increasing clumsiness: A bigger belly means a shift in your center of gravity and that can spell clumsiness. What to do about it? Slow down and take it easy — rushing will only make you clumsier. - Sometimes

Forgetfulness: That foggy brain could be caused by your baby’s gender. Strange but true: Women pregnant with girls tend to be more forgetful than those moms-to-be who are carrying boys. - Haha yup it's true! I forgot lotsa things.

Braxton Hicks contractions: These practice contractions are most often felt by moms who’ve already gone through a pregnancy. How do you know they’re not the real thing? Even at their most intense, changing your position (from sitting to lying down, from lying down to walking around) will usually make them disappear. - This is happening recently! Cuak jadinye..hahaha

Hmm, my next check up should be next Saturday but I insisted to meet doctor today.

Ok, have to attend my cousins' wedding. Daa~~

Enjoice!

Breastfeeding for Dummies / Beginner - Part 4

2011-12-23T07:00:00.000+08:00

Ok, now i already know on the breastfeeding technique. Hopefully all the information gained i could fully use for my breastfeeding later on. The most important thing is to make sure your baby and you are comfortable during the breastfeeding. Now, i would like to share the position that you can use during breastfeeding based on your comfortability.

All of the information is from

I love Babycenter so much! :D. Ok back to the position of breastfeeding, you can practise a few psotions below:

Ok mommies enjoice breastfeeding!

Source: Babycenter

Breastfeeding for Dummies / Beginner - Part 3

2011-12-16T07:00:00.000+08:00

Salam to all.

This time I have read on the breastfeeding technique and i would like to share with all of you. It's very useful!

All informations are from:

http://www.babycenter.com.my/

Monsoon Season is here..

2011-12-14T10:00:00.000+08:00

There has been quite a few flood cases in the country recently... We are now right in the middle of the Monsoon Season. Personally, experiencing heavy rains around my area, we never know when flash floods can occur. The recent Kajang Flash Flood is somewhat scary to think knowing that you're not able to save valuables or even save yourself..

The video clips below shows how unpredictable and dangerous flash floods could be..

Anyway, when you experience heavy rain at your place, you may log on to Public Info Banjir's website where you can get updates on the weather conditions. There are warnings of floods, heavy rains and even high increase of water level.

I really like the page as you may also see live footage of certain rivers. They have placed 6 cameras to observe rivers at potentially flood-risk areas. Since i'm using the NKVE heading to Shah Alam, i'll always take a peek at Batu 3 river.. As of the time this post being written, this is the condition of Batu 3 river.. Nice and calm..

Those who live in low and flood prone areas, always be prepared. I hope this post is informative to you guys..

Part 1: BabyMoon Retreat at Gold Coast..

2011-12-12T16:32:00.001+08:00

After 30 weeks cruising on our first pregnancy, we (Mommy & Daddy) decided to go for a 'BabyMoon Retreat'.. Mommy really needs some comfort and relaxing time for herself after endless backache and sleepless nights.

source: goldenpalmtree

We decided to head to the Golden Palm Tree Resort in Gold Coast, Sepang.. a 90 minutes drive from home. How i wish it was Gold Coast, Australia. This is our first time there, prior to the stay, we managed to read some reviews on the resort, despite some negative comments, we decided to proceed. We did an early purchase online where we were given discounted rates for the room.

This particular resort is a bit different from the rest. You're not allowed to park your car in the resort compound, except check-in and check-out. They've allocated a big parking space across the resort, about 200 metres away. Don't worry, they'll pick you up by van to the lobby. Some of us might not like the idea of hopping onto a van, but for me, I can deal with it as you'll be rewarded with a nice clean resort area.

The walkway to our room.. above the sea..

Riding the buggy to our room

Initially, we booked their Premier Travellers Palm Villa. During check-in, we requested a sea view room but was told that they were fully booked. Seeing my dissapointment, the helpful staff later upgraded us to a sea view Canary Palm Villa. The unit has two rooms and bathrooms. It also has a living hall and two balconies. The roof was made from alang-alang thatch, stepping in to the room, you can already notice it's unique soothing smell. The room was pretty big for two of us, nonetheless, we enjoyed it!

source: goldenpalmtree

Mommy checking out her baby bump..

The weather was nice, not too hot and it didn't rain... the trip would have been perfect 'if' the sea water was crystal clear.. What to do.. Teh ais pun boleh laa...

Mommy enjoying the view

Stay tune..!

I'll update more in Part 2...

C yaa...!

Changing of the Yang di-Pertuan Agong

2011-12-12T14:44:00.001+08:00

Daulat Tuanku!

Today, Tuanku Mizan Zainal Abidin and Tuanku Nur Zahirah return to Terengganu at the end of His Majesty's reign as the 13th Yang di-Pertuan Agong. The 14th Yang di-Pertuan Agong will be Tuanku Abdul Halim Mu’adzam Shah of Kedah.

Tuanku Mizan has shown his capability as the power of the king. Baginda banyak menyumbang kepada kedaulatan Islam. Semoga Tuanku Abdul Halim dapat meneruskan perjuangan dalam mempertahankan Islam di mata dunia ini.

Source: The Star; Mstar

Breastfeeding for Dummies / Beginner - Part 2

2011-12-09T07:00:00.000+08:00

Ok this time I would like to share with you on the process of breast milk production. This information is very good to us to know how breast milk starts produce. I'm so excited to breastfeed my baby makes me eager to know more on breastfeeding information / knowledge.

During pregnancy, we should know inside out about our breast. So, choosing the right bra and size also important during this duration.

As there's a demand, there'll be a supply. When baby is breastfed, the brain will stimulate to produce more milk.

Hope this will help us on breastfeeding knowledge. Enjoice reading!

Source: Babycenter

Wordless Wednesday - Me @ 30weeks

2011-12-07T07:00:00.000+08:00

10 More Weeks To Go!

2011-12-05T10:16:00.001+08:00

Salam & Good Day to all...

How's your life now? I'm counting my weeks now. Dub dab dub dab! haha. 10 more weeks to see my lil prince!!! Can't wait but my heart thumping too coz can't imagine how's it going to be.

Anyway, my baby progress so far for this week:

Your baby's lungs and digestive tract are almost fully developed. While your baby may soon slow up growing in length (he measures about 15.7 inches / 40 centimetres from crown to toe by now), he will continue to gain weight until he's born.

This week your baby continues to open and shut his eyes. He can probably see what's going on in utero, distinguish light from dark and even track a light source. If you shine a light on your stomach, your baby may move his head to follow the light or even reach out to touch the moving glow. Some researchers think baring your stomach to light stimulates visual development. But don't expect 20/20 vision when your baby is born - newborns can see a distance of only about 8 to 12 inches / 20 to 30 centimetres. (Children with normal vision don't reach 20/20 vision until about age 7 to 9.) To complete the picture, your baby now has eyebrows and eyelashes.

A pint and a half / around a litre of amniotic fluid now surrounds your baby but that volume decreases as he gets bigger and has less room in your uterus. As you and the baby continue to grow, don't be alarmed if you feel breathless, as if you can't get enough air; it's just your uterus pressing against your diaphragm. There is a light at the end of the tunnel though. At about 34 weeks (or just before birth, if this is your second or third pregnancy), your baby's head will move down into your pelvis as the baby gets into the right position for birth. That will make breathing and eating a lot easier.

Note: Experts say every baby develops differently - even in utero. These fetal development pages are designed to give a general idea of how a fetus grows in the womb.

About me? Hurmmm....

You've probably gained quite a bit this month - typically 1.4-1.8 kg/3-4 lb. Gaining 450 g/1 lb a week is quite normal during the last three months. Your baby's demands for nutrients are at their greatest in the final pre-birth growth spurt. You may love or loathe your increasing size - either way, remind yourself of 50 reasons why it's great to be pregnant.

Getting a good night's sleep can become more difficult again in the third trimester. As your bump grows, getting and staying comfortable is harder and you may find pressure on your bladder means midnight trips to the loo make an unwelcome but necessary return. Vivid dreams can also affect the quality of your sleep leaving you feeling disturbed or inspired! Don't forget to ask your husband about his dreams, too.

Yeah, recently i had a few weird dreams. Other than that, i had varicose veins also but not at my leg but but inside...at the rectal area...it's called Haemorrhoids. Redha je la kan. Nanti hilang la tu. Maybe pressure from my baby caused it la. Apa lagi, i had swollen feet which i already coped to it. Sleepless night started already because when i wanted to turn my side, it was so painful. i think i need more exercise! Hubby help!!!!

Other than that, i shud be happy! coz my baby is super active. He likes to push his head outwards so that we can belai2 and usap2 his head. hahaha. Super cute!

Oh, btw last weekend we had our Babymoon! We'll story it later. Till then, Enjoice!!!

Source: BabyCenter

Breastfeeding for Dummies / Beginner - Part 1

2011-12-01T07:00:00.000+08:00

Yes, I'm a new mom who is still confuse about breastfeeding especially the technique. Last month, I went to Antenatal Class with hubby and there were a session about breastfeeding. But, because of time was not enough, the session was too express and no details on the technique. I keep on searching and found at Babycenter all about breastfeeding. I LOVE Babycenter so much!

I know there are lotsa benefits of breastmilk. But, i'm worried about the my milk supply whether enough or not for my baby. Ok ok be positive! When there's a demand there'll be a supply. Hope that I can fully breastfeed my baby.

Ok, I read this information from Babycenter. This information is very good and useful for beginners like me.

Is it true that breast is best?Yes, breastmilk is the best food for your baby. Ask any health professional, and they will say that the healthiest way to feed your baby is to breastfeed her. Babies who are breastfed from birth are much less likely to be ill in their first year of life. Being breastfed may help your baby fend off illnesses such as:

gastroenteritis;
pneumonia and bronchiolitis;
urinary tract infections;
eczema;
ear infections.

It's possible that breastfeeding helps your baby stay healthy in the long term, too. One review showed that people who were breastfed as babies had lower blood pressure, lower cholesterol levels and were less likely to develop type two diabetes in adulthood than those who had been formula-fed.

But it's not just your baby who benefits from breastfeeding. It's good for you, too. It helps to lower your risk of getting breast cancer before you reach your menopause. It can also help protect you against ovarian cancer and weak bones (osteoporosis) later in life.

The World Health Organisation and the Health Ministry recommend that babies are given only breastmilk for their first six months. They also say that women should carry on breastfeeding after their babies have started on solids, until the end of the first year and beyond if they wish.

Breastmilk is a complete food. It contains at least 400 nutrients as well as hormones and disease-fighting compounds, which are not in formula milk. Its nutritional make-up even adjusts to your baby's needs as she grows. Find out more about how your body makes breastmilk.

And apart from the brain-building, infection-fighting benefits of your milk, which no formula can offer, breastfeeding helps to build a special bond between you and your baby.

How can I prepare for breastfeeding?
As long as you're healthy, there's not much more you can do to prepare your body for breastfeeding. But you can prepare your mind. Learn as much about breastfeeding as you can before your baby is born. Encourage your husband to learn about breastfeeding, too, so he can support and encourage you.

How do I start breastfeeding?
Since feeds can take anything from seven to 40 minutes, pick a comfortable place for breastfeeding. Atmosphere is very important, especially in the early days of breastfeeding when you're still trying to get the hang of it. If you are easily distracted and disrupted by noise, find somewhere quiet. If you are easily bored, you may want to feed in front of the television, but only if breastfeeding is going well for you and your baby. Try different spots until you find what works for you.

Hold your baby in a position that won't leave your arms and back sore. Add support around you with plenty of cushions. Many women find the cradle position works well, although it really depends on what is most comfortable for you. Get yourself and your baby in a relaxed position before you start feeding. Pay attention to how your breasts feel when your baby latches on. She should take in a big mouthful of breast tissue. If latching on hurts, break the suction - by inserting your little finger between your baby's gums and your nipple - and try again. Once your baby latches on properly, she will be able to do the rest.

I've heard of other mums having problems breastfeeding
Although women have breastfed their babies for centuries, it isn't always easy. Many women face difficulties in the early days. In the first six weeks, as your milk supply adjusts and your baby learns how to breastfeed, you may suffer from:

engorgement: overfull breasts;
mastitis: an inflammation of the breast;
sore nipples.

So how easy is breastfeeding really?
Some women adjust to breastfeeding easily, encountering no major hurdles. But many new mothers find it hard to learn - so if you're feeling discouraged, remember that you're not the only one. If you feel like giving up (or just want professional advice), contact a breastfeeding counsellor (most hospitals have them). Our Breastfeeding A-Z directory also offers more resources.

Also, talk to your doctor about any health concerns that may impede successful breastfeeding.

Breastfeeding takes practice. Give yourself as much time as you need to get it down to a fine art. Take it a day, a week or even just a feed at a time. If you're having a bad feeding day, tell yourself that tomorrow will be better. And keep in mind that any problems you are having are likely to be temporary. By the time of your six-week check, you'll probably be breastfeeding without giving it a second thought. If not, don't hesitate to ask for support.

Can I breastfeed in public?
Although you may feel shy about breastfeeding in front of other people, it is becoming an increasingly common sight in urban Malaysia. Besides, you can't be expected to run home every time your baby needs to eat. Some tops are designed to allow you to breastfeed discreetly. Avoid shirts that you have to unbutton as they will make you feel very exposed - stretchy tops you can pull up work well. Draping a scarf, selendang or thin cloth blanket over your shoulder and chest as your baby feeds also helps you feed more discreetly in public (make sure your child is still able to breathe easily).

Most of the larger shopping centres built or renovated within the last five years have mother and baby rooms where you can sit comfortably and feed alongside others. Even if you don't have access to such facilities, most establishments will accommodate a nursing mother and hungry baby. Go ahead and ask for a discreet room or corner when you want to feed your baby. Soon, when breastfeeding becomes more familiar, you won't think twice about feeding your baby in public.

On the other hand, you may want to consider the fact that the Malaysian lifestyle can present some unique challenges to breastfeeding in public. For instance, if you are out at the hawker squares or 24-hour mamak stalls (never mind facilities, where can I find a clean toilet?!), it may be better to give your hungry baby a quick feed in your car (doors locked and engine running so you can run the air-con). Complete the feed once you are home.

Can I breastfeed after I go back to work?
Yes. Going back to work doesn't have to mean the end of breastfeeding. In fact, mothers who work outside the home are often able to feed their babies for as long as they want. You may want to express milk at work or breastfeed only when you are with your baby. Both are possible.

If your employer is well informed, they may know that mums who carry on breastfeeding after they return to work take less time off. This is because breastfed babies are less likely to be ill.

Ok, I'll search more on the breastfeeding techniques so that we can learn together. Enjoice reading!

Source: Babycenter

Breaking Dawn Part 1

2011-11-18T07:30:00.000+08:00

Whoaaaa next week!!!!!!! I MUST GO & WATCH IT BEFORE MY BABY COMES OUT!

Dear hubby, please please please :D

Source: YouTube

INA vs MAS (Epic Battle) - Must Watch!

2011-11-17T12:00:00.000+08:00

photo's source: Sinar Harian

For Malaysian Football Fanatics, this match can be considered epic and a must-watch game..

Our current scenario..

photo's source: The Star

It doesn't matter how tonight's match ended, Indonesia will definitely move on to the semi-finals with at least 9 points.. As for our team, we only need to draw (total of 8 points) to comfortably advanced and join Indonesia. Yes, there are chances that we might not make it to the semi's, but to our advantage, we will know...should we need to GEAR-UP Habis-habisan.. for the match against Indonesia, since Thailand will play against Singapore first at 5pm today, three hours before our game. Coach Ong Kim Swee has +-1 hour to plan his team's strategies. He might end up playing it safe if we automatically qualified to next round. A move to prevent unnecessary injuries. We have way more important matches to think off.

If we still loose to Indonesia, and Singapore wins, we have to hope that goal difference will be in our favor. In a way, Singapore needs to score as many goals they can (at least 5-0, provided we don't score any goals against INA) if they ever dream to be in the semi's. Which i don't think gonna happen since we all know that Thailand is a strong team. They have lost to us and Indonesia, definitely they would want to fight and preserve some dignity.

My prediction for Semi-Final matches, analyzing the table above, provided if Vietnam wins over Laos even with 1-0, they will be the top team in Group B. Having said that, for Semi's:

Semi-final 1:
Indonesia (1st in Group A) vs Myanmar (2nd in Group B)

Semi-final 2:
Malaysia (2nd in Group A) vs Vietnam (1st in Group B)

Let's not go too far, first we have to beat Indonesia tonight.. Do cheer for our team..

Note: Images uploaded are only illustration of my sporting spirit .. No Politiking Please...

MALAYSIA BOLEH!!!..

Update: 10:30pm - Match day

Results: Vietnam vs Laos : 3 - 1
Singapore vs Thailand : 2 - 0

My prediction was wrong. Singapore won and Malaysia beat Indonesia, 1-0. It means that we are the winner of Group A!. So, for Semi-Finals:

Semi-final 1: 19 November 2011, 5:00pm
Malaysia (1st in Group A) vs Myanmar (2nd in Group B)

Semi-final 2: 19 November 2011, 8:30pm
Indonesia (2nd in Group A) vs Vietnam (1st in Group B)

Congratulations Malaysia!!

Huggies Song?.. Daddy kena nyanyi?

2011-11-17T07:45:00.000+08:00

The +tive sides of traffic jams.. It forces you to occupy yourself with something, most common things to do except picking your nose and stare the car next to you.... tuning to the RADIO..!! As I believed most Malaysian and the rest of the world did that, we did the same thing.. It somehow educate and update you on what's happening around the world.. not to forget the latest songs..

I heard this segment "Lindungi Baby-B Anda Dengan Huggies" in Hot FM, a local Malaysian radio station. They are giving away RM100 cash together with huggies products worth the same amount. You only need to call and say the secret code, on top of that .............. jeng jeng jeng, you have to finish the song that was played for you.. Yup, singing Huggies song...

My dear wife, Mommy asked Daddy to participate in this 'challenge'. errkk.. me? singing on live Radio?.. Hadoih.. The hard part was when she said, "Demi Mr. Baby".. Yerla.. well........................... So, in order to satisfy Mommy and Mr. Baby, Daddy will do it!..

To prepare.. (ceh.. macam nak exam jer..) Daddy has to memorize the lyrics la.. It goes like this..

Huggies Lyrics

Oh si manja ku, yang ku cinta
Dengan Huggies mu kulit terjaga
Kering selesa, ruam pun tiada
Tidur juga sentiasa lena

Kau adalah...

Huggies Baby Baby's B, Huggies Baby Baby's B
Huggies Baby Baby's B, Huggies Baby Baby's B
Ku beri mu segala-galanya

Senyum manis mu, yang ku cinta
Lampin Huggies mu, yang kau suka
Rasa riang, rasa girang
Ku suka lihatmu sihat dan selesa

Kau adalah...

Huggies Baby Baby's B, Huggies Baby Baby's B
Huggies Baby Baby's B, Huggies Baby Baby's B

Ku beri mu segala-galanya

Ku inginmu sihat dan ceria

Huggies Song

Huggies Song with Video

Catchy tune jugak la.. What i can't stand the song was adapted from Justin Bieber 'baby' song.. Alamak..!

Be the lucky ones to hear me in radio.. If i managed to get thru la.. It should be somewhere between 5:00pm - 6:30pm on weekdays..

Daddy The BEST Laa..!!!!

Wordless Wednesday: Air??

2011-11-16T10:00:00.000+08:00

Wedding Kiki & My 27 Weeks Pregnancy

2011-11-15T20:58:00.001+08:00

Congratulations Datin Kiki!

We went to her wedding last Saturday and met my ex-classmates and ex-schoolmates. It was fun! But we cannot stay there for too long as there were lotsa guests attended the ceremony and we need to give the seats to them.

Anyway, we managed to take some pictures before we go off.

Ok, on my pregnancy plak....Now i'm entering THIRD Trimester! There are lotsa challenges now i've had to face.

This is it — you're two-thirds to the finish line at 28 weeks pregnant, as you enter the third trimester! And what a difference a trimester makes. Gone, most likely, are the days when you could call pregnancy "comfortable" (that is, if you ever did). These days, your baby's kicking (or lack of) is keeping you up at night and worried during the day, your feet are swollen, you're getting tired all over again, and your backache is a pain that just won't quit. And even though he or she hasn't started crying yet, it may seem that your baby's getting on your nerves already — literally. As your baby gets settled into a proper (you hope) position for birth, his or her head (and your enlarging uterus) may rest on the sciatic nerve in the lower part of your spine. And if that happens, you may feel sharp, shooting pain, tingling, or numbness that starts in your buttocks and radiates down the back of your legs — otherwise known as sciatica. The pain of sciatica can be quite intense at times, and though it may pass if your baby shifts positions, it can also linger until you've delivered.

A heating pad, a warm tub, stretches, or just some self-imposed bed rest can help with the discomfort. So can some complementary and alternative therapies.

About my baby, he's actively inside me! Super duper active! Alhamdulillah...

Are you dreaming about your baby? At 28 weeks pregnant, your baby may be dreaming about you, too. Brain wave activity measured in a developing fetus shows different sleep cycles, including the rapid eye movement phase, the stage when dreaming occurs.
By now, your baby, who weighs in at about two and a half pounds and stands — or rather lies — at almost 16 inches (measured head to toe) has added blinking to his or her growing bag of tricks. (Outside in the real world, blinking is necessary to help keep foreign objects out of the eyes.) Other impressive new talents being added to your baby's roster in the womb include coughing, more intense sucking, and, perhaps most important, better breathing. Of course, it's still best if a baby doesn't check out of that uterine hotel just yet — there's still a lot of growing and maturing to do over the next 12 weeks.

I hope i could cope with all of the challenges. Ya Allah, please help me....

Source: Whattoexpect

My Pregnancy Changes

2011-11-10T07:00:00.000+08:00

Look at me! i feel super huge! But still can fit normal baju kurung;) super like! Me at 25 weeks btw. Last few weeks picture.

Anyway, thanks to Nadia for bringing the camera. So lazy to take picture :D.

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Malay Confinement

2011-11-09T10:43:00.000+08:00

I'm not sure how my confinement will become to be. I can't imagine those pantang larang that i need to follow very closely in order to make sure i got fully healthy and in shape back. I read this article from Babycenter about Malay Pantang.

New mums in the Malay community generally consider the 44-day confinement period a test of patience. At the same time, a great number of Malay women readily and willingly observe the restrictions and taboos that are part and parcel of this postnatal tradition. It is said that women who diligently follow the traditional Malay confinement practices or pantang will regain their pre-baby figure, their health and energy levels, as well as their looks.

Malay confinement is essentially an all-encompassing process that aims to preserve the health and femininity of Malay women. According to Datin Sharifah Anisah, founder of Nona Roguy (now NR) and author of Ensiklopedia Perbidanan Melayu (Encyclopaedia of Malay Midwifery), confinement practices stem from the belief that the womb is a woman's life force and affects her overall health. Thus, a healthy womb ensures that a woman stay radiant and alluring.

Modern research support the role played by the village midwife (bidan kampung) in the postnatal period and confirm the benefits of some postnatal practices, including massage and avoiding excessive physical activity. Anthropologists explain that Malay postnatal practices are based on centuries-old understanding of four "elements":

soil, which is dry;
fire, which is hot;
air, cold;
water, wet.

These elements must be balanced in the body for a person to enjoy good health.

Midwifery knowledge is also said to be a gift from God to privileged individuals and families, with the intent that they help women from all walks of life. Thus the village midwife is viewed as a gift to the women in the village.

Today, many urban new mothers in the Malay community find themselves unable to fully observe the practices of the traditional confinement, mainly because they lack the family and community support that were taken for granted in village life. Traditionally, a new mum in confinement is helped by:

a bidan (traditional midwife);
a specialised nanny or carer;
her own mother or mother-in-law.

It is widely acknowledged that without someone to help, it would be difficult to fully observe the confinement taboos and practices for all 44 days.

I'm still confuse on Jamu thingy because I'm planning to breastfeed my baby. Ahhh on another thing is about breastfeeding too!!! Help mommies out there! I hope i could fully breastfeed my baby! I need fully support.

Source: BabyCenter

Mothercare Year End Sale!

2011-11-04T11:20:00.000+08:00

We planned to go back to our hometown tonite. Suddenly, I saw something in Mothercare FPage.

It's Mothercare Year End Sale!!!! The worst is the VIP member's special is from 4th - 6th Nov 2011. Then I postponed our journey to tomorrow morning and depends on tonite haul whether enough or not. haha!

So, mommies out there! Let's go shopping!

Source: MotherCare FB

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Babysitter or Child Care?

2011-10-25T14:23:00.000+08:00

Now I have one problem when I start working back after confinement. Where to put my baby? Finding a babysitter is very difficult even child care also difficult at my house area. By the way, which one is better? Babysitter or Child care? I read in Babycenter about these.

Babysitter
A babysitter's work is based in her home - so you need to satisfy yourself completely that the person you choose is worthy of your trust.

There are a number of signs that indicate your babysitter is perfectly capable of caring for your child safely, but first of all you will need to find somebody that you can build a rapport with. Some working parents find that they make good friends with their babysitters because they have views and values in common and, of course, a shared priority of looking after your child.

Look for someone that you can trust and respect. If you harbour doubts, your child will pick up on them and may either become anxious, or try to trade the carer off against you.

How do I find out if the babysitter I like has a good reputation?
An experienced, good babysitter will be able to draw upon many parents, both past and present, who will be happy to give references. Ask for a few telephone numbers and ring them up for an informal chat. You will soon pick up a feeling from them. Take your own first impressions into account, too. Are you comfortable with this person? If you have a toddler or older child, what is your child's reaction? Use your judgement to weigh up your own instincts and get views from previous and existing clients.

I'm worried my child will get a worse deal than my babysitter's children. Is this likely?
It is important to satisfy yourself that your own children will not be treated significantly differently to your babysitter's children. You should talk about this when you meet up, as it is bound to be something that any competent babysitter will have thought about.

You should accept that there will be different levels of familiarity in the household, at least for a little while, until your child becomes part of the family. But you should be able to feel that your child is treated equally from day one when it comes to issues such as discipline, conflict, resolution or attention.

What sort of questions should I ask when I meet her?
Most babysitters begin babysitting when they are mothers with young children of their own. Many of their skills as carers will come from their own experience. It is useful to spend some time talking to any potential babysitter about their approach to certain areas, so that you know that you share common views about important childcare issues.
Here are some questions you could ask:

• What is your approach to discipline? How would you discipline a child? Would the age of the child make any difference? What do you think of as bad behaviour?

• What are your favourite foods for children? What is a typical meal for the children? How often do you allow them to snack, or have sweets and sugary kuih?

• Can you describe a typical day to me?

• What sort of activities do you do with the children? Can I see some examples?

Don't be shy about asking these questions. It may seem impertinent to ask, but you are within your rights to find out how your child will be treated. There are no right or wrong answers, but the best babysitter for you will be the one whose answers closely correspond with your views. A babysitter has a huge influence on the children in their care and you should visit as often as you need, and ask questions until you are satisfied.

What will my child be doing all day?
You will be able to gauge what your child is likely to be doing if you visit a babysitter during the day. You should see signs of plenty of toys and activities. Once your child has started there, she should have lots to talk about and you will soon learn from her what is going on.

Whilst it is important to remember that your babysitter may have young children, as well as household tasks to do, you should feel confident that the children have plenty of opportunities for both indoor and outdoor play.

What is the main quality that a babysitter needs?
Babysitters need to take genuine pleasure in the company of children. Ask your babysitter what brought them to this role and what they most enjoy.

As we all know, caring for children all day is a demanding and tiring job, which should only be done by those who are committed to all aspects of children's emotional, social and intellectual development.

Summing up
You should make sure that your babysitter has the following:

• A good reputation
• An ability to treat their own and other children equally
• A firm but fair attitude
• Plenty of activities on hand for the children
• A clear enjoyment of children
• A clean, safe home

Child Care / Nurseries
A childcare centre (also commonly known as daycare or nursery) is where children are cared for in safe and stimulating surroundings. The number of children attending a childcare centre may vary from small (about 10 to 20 babies and toddlers) to large (about 50 or even more, although this is unusual). The number of qualified staff and the space required to accommodate the children in comfort are variable, depending on your area.

There are several different types of childcare centres:
the workplace daycare (available in some multi-national corporations);
the state-run or charity-run centre;
the privately-run childcare centre;
the centre attached to an independent playschool or preschool.
Standards are variable and it will very much be up to you to do your own research about important factors such as staff qualification, carer-to-child ratio, food safety and hygiene.

When are childcare centres open?
Most centres cater for the children of parents with full-time jobs, and normally stay open from 8am (or earlier) until 6pm. Some will stay open for longer than that. Most centres will close for certain periods during the year. For example, they may close for a number of weeks over the school holidays, and perhaps a week for Chinese New Year or Hari Raya. This means that you will have to take the same holiday, or make alternative arrangements during that time.

How much does a childcare place cost?
Costs depend very much on where you live. Some fees may be subsidised by employers (depending on your employment contract or company policy). If you have more than one child, you will have to pay for both of them, although there are some daycares that offer a second place at a slightly reduced rate.

What will my child do at daycare?
Daycare is all about creating a place where babies and children can play, learn, enjoy meals and rest. There should be opportunities to paint, listen to stories, play music, be creative and enjoy freeplay, where the children can choose what they would like to do.
They will also be able to play with other children, and often there will be outside activity areas. There may be separate rooms for different age groups, partly so that the babies are not disturbed by active toddlers, and also because there are different staffing ratios according to the age of the children.

By necessity, childcare centres all have their own routines, and children (but not babies) are encouraged to conform to it. For example, most centres encourage children to have a sleep after their lunch. However, good daycares will always want to know about a child's routine before starting at the centre, and try to ease the transition.

What can childcare centres offer babies?
Not all centres will take in a young infant. Daycare centres attached to private schools, for example, may not take a child younger than 18 months, or may only take in a child who is steadily toddling or toddler who is already potty trained.

By looking round different local daycare centres, you will get a feel for the one that you think is right for your child.

So, what's your suggestions mommies out there? I need some inputs. Which nursery is good? Is it preferable near house or near office? Or find a maid?

Waaaa!!!! So many questions in my head! I need helpppppppp.....

Source: Babycenter

Confinement lady

2011-10-23T15:10:00.000+08:00

I read from Babycenter "Guides in finding and hiring a Confinement Lady". In chinese, they called her Pui Yuet. You can read below for your guidelines.

I have found one for me already. Actually my mom helped me to find because I'll be on confinement at Melaka. Hope the lady is very good. *finger cross*.

Happy searching!

Source: Babycenter

Mothercare October Promotion

2011-10-21T13:43:00.001+08:00

Hello Mummies & Daddies out there!!

Mothercare is having promo this October. Not so massive but at least there's a sale.

1) Discounts @ 1 Utama Outlet

2) Membership Recruitment

Hurry! Dont be late. I've been a member too. Lucky me! No need to spend till RM800. Only RM400 :)

Enjoice!!

Source: Mothercare