CHILD CARE 23

2012-03-30T09:09:00.004-07:00

I Was Doing Self Insemination. It Kept On Not Working For 18 Months Or So. Finally I Went To My Doctor And Asked If Anything Was Wrong. I Knew My Friend And I Were Being Somewhat Unorthodox. My Gp Was So Nervous She Was Fiddling With Her Wedding Ring And At One Point She Flicked It Right Across The Room. I Felt Sorry For Her. She Referred Me To A Hospital, Where I Had Really Sweet Consultant, Very Pro Women. I Trailed Though The Usual Tests, Lap And Dye And All That Sort Of Business. Finally They Found I Had Blocked Tubes, So My Consultant Said. Well If You Want To Go Any Further With This. Your Will Have To Try Ivf, But We Do Not Do It Here. He Also Went Into Latin And Said Have Your Ever Tried It Per Via Nature ? I Said That Was Not An Option.

I Could Afford To Go Privately And Wanted To Go For It As I Felt 40 Creeping Up On Me. He Referred Me To A Couple Of Places And I Went To One Of Them. What Was Interesting Was That They Did Not Believe Me When I Told Them About My Relationship With My Partner And Were Mow Very Interested In It. At One Point They Gave Me Antibiotics For Him And For Me So That We Would Not Cross Infect Each Other And I Said We Would Not Do That Anyway. There Was No Recognition Of This Unusual Relationship. Possibly It Was Because Of The Production Live Mentality You Get In A Clinic. The Standard Pattern Is Of A Couple.

To Start With I Was Not Frightfully Interested In The Details. My Attitude Was That Ivf Was Unlikely To Work On The First Go But Would In The End. I Was Just Keen To Get Motoring. I Do Not Know Whether I Have Stopped Or Not. I Have Had Four Egg Collections And Three Frozen Goes, None Of Which Have Worked. It Was Fine For A Long Time. But It Takes Time And Is Stressful, And The Drugs Made Me Eat So I Put On So I Put On Weight Having Lost A Lot Before So I Could Be Fit And Healthy. The Thing That Completely Threw Me Was The Last But One Frozen Embryo Attempt. I Had Had Four Embryos Frozen And When I When In Only Two Has Thawed And One Was Only Two Cells Or Something. It Knocked Me Off My Perch And For The First Time I Thought This Might Never Work. I Remember After Having The Embryos Replaced I Just Lay And Cried For An Hour. I Have Had Another Go Since Then But It Has Not Worked. But Then It Also Got Harder.

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