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<h2><a href="http://civiello.com/blog/uhmcan-we-talk">Uhm...Can We Talk...</a></h2><p class="smalltext"><b>August 4, 2015</b></p><p>&nbsp;


Written by Jane Hanson, CCG Trainer 
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Every client asks about CRUTCH words--- Uhms and Ahs &hellip; like &hellip; so .. you know &hellip;..&nbsp;which take away from our credibility.&nbsp;&nbsp; They are really the result of our m...</p><p><a href="http://civiello.com/blog/uhmcan-we-talk">Read More...</a></p><p>Share this on:<br><a href="http://www.linkedin.com/shareArticle?mini=true&url=http://civiello.com/blog/uhmcan-we-talk&title=Uhm...Can We Talk...&source=Civiello Communications" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/linkedin2.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="LinkedIn"></a><a href="http://www.facebook.com/sharer.php?u=http://civiello.com/blog/uhmcan-we-talk&t=Uhm...Can We Talk..." target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/facebook.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="facebook"></a><a href="http://twitter.com/home?status=Currently reading http://civiello.com/blog/uhmcan-we-talk" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/twitter.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="twitter"></a><a href="http://www.addthis.com/bookmark.php?url=http://civiello.com/blog/uhmcan-we-talk" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/email.jpg" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="AddThis"></a><h2><a href="http://civiello.com/blog/xerox-ceo-says-copy-this-for-promotions">Xerox CEO says Copy This for Promotions</a></h2><p class="smalltext"><b>June 18, 2013</b></p><p>Last night I was at a small Park Avenue cocktail party for WOMEN&nbsp;IN&nbsp;AMERICA,&nbsp;women in the C Suite who mentor high potential women. Ursula Burns got up and gave advice. Her top tip:&nbsp;&quot;It's not about you.&quot; She said too ofte...</p><p><a href="http://civiello.com/blog/xerox-ceo-says-copy-this-for-promotions">Read More...</a></p><p>Share this on:<br><a href="http://www.linkedin.com/shareArticle?mini=true&url=http://civiello.com/blog/xerox-ceo-says-copy-this-for-promotions&title=Xerox CEO says Copy This for Promotions&source=Civiello Communications" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/linkedin2.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="LinkedIn"></a><a href="http://www.facebook.com/sharer.php?u=http://civiello.com/blog/xerox-ceo-says-copy-this-for-promotions&t=Xerox CEO says Copy This for Promotions" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/facebook.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="facebook"></a><a href="http://twitter.com/home?status=Currently reading http://civiello.com/blog/xerox-ceo-says-copy-this-for-promotions" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/twitter.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="twitter"></a><a href="http://www.addthis.com/bookmark.php?url=http://civiello.com/blog/xerox-ceo-says-copy-this-for-promotions" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/email.jpg" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="AddThis"></a><h2><a href="http://civiello.com/blog/rx-for-medical-emergencies-while-speaking">Rx for Medical Emergencies while Speaking</a></h2><p class="smalltext"><b>June 13, 2013</b></p><p>
When talking to a large audience, most good speakers prepare for challenging questions, and even technical failure, but few have a game plan for a medical emergencies. They thankfully don't happen that often, but that doesn't mean never, and you ne...</p><p><a href="http://civiello.com/blog/rx-for-medical-emergencies-while-speaking">Read More...</a></p><p>Share this on:<br><a href="http://www.linkedin.com/shareArticle?mini=true&url=http://civiello.com/blog/rx-for-medical-emergencies-while-speaking&title=Rx for Medical Emergencies while Speaking&source=Civiello Communications" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/linkedin2.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="LinkedIn"></a><a href="http://www.facebook.com/sharer.php?u=http://civiello.com/blog/rx-for-medical-emergencies-while-speaking&t=Rx for Medical Emergencies while Speaking" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/facebook.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="facebook"></a><a href="http://twitter.com/home?status=Currently reading http://civiello.com/blog/rx-for-medical-emergencies-while-speaking" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/twitter.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="twitter"></a><a href="http://www.addthis.com/bookmark.php?url=http://civiello.com/blog/rx-for-medical-emergencies-while-speaking" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/email.jpg" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="AddThis"></a><h2><a href="http://civiello.com/blog/commencement-lesson-focus-on-what-you-care-about">Commencement lesson: Focus on what YOU care about!</a></h2><p class="smalltext"><b>May 19, 2013</b></p><p>Lester Holt, the wonderful NBC anchor I knew from my days as a New York street reporter, got me going. He showed a clip of President Obama delivering a commencement speech this weekend&nbsp;to Morehouse College, the only private, all male, historical...</p><p><a href="http://civiello.com/blog/commencement-lesson-focus-on-what-you-care-about">Read More...</a></p><p>Share this on:<br><a href="http://www.linkedin.com/shareArticle?mini=true&url=http://civiello.com/blog/commencement-lesson-focus-on-what-you-care-about&title=Commencement lesson: Focus on what YOU care about!&source=Civiello Communications" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/linkedin2.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="LinkedIn"></a><a href="http://www.facebook.com/sharer.php?u=http://civiello.com/blog/commencement-lesson-focus-on-what-you-care-about&t=Commencement lesson: Focus on what YOU care about!" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/facebook.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="facebook"></a><a href="http://twitter.com/home?status=Currently reading http://civiello.com/blog/commencement-lesson-focus-on-what-you-care-about" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/twitter.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="twitter"></a><a href="http://www.addthis.com/bookmark.php?url=http://civiello.com/blog/commencement-lesson-focus-on-what-you-care-about" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/email.jpg" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="AddThis"></a><h2><a href="http://civiello.com/blog/focus-to-finish-well-3-common-mistakes-and-lessons-learned">Focus to Finish Well - 3 Common Mistakes and Lessons Learned</a></h2><p class="smalltext"><b>April 18, 2013</b></p><p>Most athletic coaches have been up to bat, swung and missed. A coach's personal experience is important in the game of communication as well. So here is my miss and lessons learned: I was asked to give a presenation on having better conversations to ...</p><p><a href="http://civiello.com/blog/focus-to-finish-well-3-common-mistakes-and-lessons-learned">Read More...</a></p><p>Share this on:<br><a href="http://www.linkedin.com/shareArticle?mini=true&url=http://civiello.com/blog/focus-to-finish-well-3-common-mistakes-and-lessons-learned&title=Focus to Finish Well - 3 Common Mistakes and Lessons Learned&source=Civiello Communications" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/linkedin2.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="LinkedIn"></a><a href="http://www.facebook.com/sharer.php?u=http://civiello.com/blog/focus-to-finish-well-3-common-mistakes-and-lessons-learned&t=Focus to Finish Well - 3 Common Mistakes and Lessons Learned" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/facebook.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="facebook"></a><a href="http://twitter.com/home?status=Currently reading http://civiello.com/blog/focus-to-finish-well-3-common-mistakes-and-lessons-learned" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/twitter.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="twitter"></a><a href="http://www.addthis.com/bookmark.php?url=http://civiello.com/blog/focus-to-finish-well-3-common-mistakes-and-lessons-learned" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/email.jpg" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="AddThis"></a><h2><a href="http://civiello.com/blog/the-devil-is-the-detailso-is-the-impact">The Devil is the Detail...So is the Impact</a></h2><p class="smalltext"><b>February 13, 2013</b></p><p>President Obama is a good speaker whether or not you like what he speaks. Here are top take aways from his speech last night for business leaders today:
&middot;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Develop 3 main points
&middot;&nbsp;&n...</p><p><a href="http://civiello.com/blog/the-devil-is-the-detailso-is-the-impact">Read More...</a></p><p>Share this on:<br><a href="http://www.linkedin.com/shareArticle?mini=true&url=http://civiello.com/blog/the-devil-is-the-detailso-is-the-impact&title=The Devil is the Detail...So is the Impact&source=Civiello Communications" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/linkedin2.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="LinkedIn"></a><a href="http://www.facebook.com/sharer.php?u=http://civiello.com/blog/the-devil-is-the-detailso-is-the-impact&t=The Devil is the Detail...So is the Impact" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/facebook.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="facebook"></a><a href="http://twitter.com/home?status=Currently reading http://civiello.com/blog/the-devil-is-the-detailso-is-the-impact" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/twitter.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="twitter"></a><a href="http://www.addthis.com/bookmark.php?url=http://civiello.com/blog/the-devil-is-the-detailso-is-the-impact" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/email.jpg" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="AddThis"></a><h2><a href="http://civiello.com/blog/49ers-coach-plays-offense-with-the-press">49ers Coach Plays Offense with the Press</a></h2><p class="smalltext"><b>February 4, 2013</b></p><p>49ers' Coach Jim Harbaugh is no doubt getting a lot of reporter questions about the Super Bowl loss, but he'll handle them. A few days ago the WSJ wrote a big story&nbsp;about how the coach successfully DODGES media questions and I've interpreted 3 o...</p><p><a href="http://civiello.com/blog/49ers-coach-plays-offense-with-the-press">Read More...</a></p><p>Share this on:<br><a href="http://www.linkedin.com/shareArticle?mini=true&url=http://civiello.com/blog/49ers-coach-plays-offense-with-the-press&title=49ers Coach Plays Offense with the Press&source=Civiello Communications" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/linkedin2.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="LinkedIn"></a><a href="http://www.facebook.com/sharer.php?u=http://civiello.com/blog/49ers-coach-plays-offense-with-the-press&t=49ers Coach Plays Offense with the Press" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/facebook.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="facebook"></a><a href="http://twitter.com/home?status=Currently reading http://civiello.com/blog/49ers-coach-plays-offense-with-the-press" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/twitter.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="twitter"></a><a href="http://www.addthis.com/bookmark.php?url=http://civiello.com/blog/49ers-coach-plays-offense-with-the-press" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/email.jpg" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="AddThis"></a><h2><a href="http://civiello.com/blog/feed-the-animals-so-you-can-feast">Feed the Animals so You Can Feast</a></h2><p class="smalltext"><b>January 16, 2013</b></p><p>I've worked with musicians who don't want to talk about the music that made them famous, clothing designers who'd prefer to talk about the poetry they're writing, and comedians who refuse to say something funny on command.&nbsp;Each is understandable...</p><p><a href="http://civiello.com/blog/feed-the-animals-so-you-can-feast">Read More...</a></p><p>Share this on:<br><a href="http://www.linkedin.com/shareArticle?mini=true&url=http://civiello.com/blog/feed-the-animals-so-you-can-feast&title=Feed the Animals so You Can Feast&source=Civiello Communications" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/linkedin2.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="LinkedIn"></a><a href="http://www.facebook.com/sharer.php?u=http://civiello.com/blog/feed-the-animals-so-you-can-feast&t=Feed the Animals so You Can Feast" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/facebook.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="facebook"></a><a href="http://twitter.com/home?status=Currently reading http://civiello.com/blog/feed-the-animals-so-you-can-feast" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/twitter.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="twitter"></a><a href="http://www.addthis.com/bookmark.php?url=http://civiello.com/blog/feed-the-animals-so-you-can-feast" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/email.jpg" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="AddThis"></a><h2><a href="http://civiello.com/blog/repeat-but-not-verbatim">Repeat but not Verbatim</a></h2><p class="smalltext"><b>January 6, 2013</b></p><p>Mitch McConnell stayed on message, but he drove me off my rocker this morning on Meet the Press. Over and over the Senate Minority leader said we have to focus on &quot;..the biggest problem confronting our country and our future.&quot; There is no q...</p><p><a href="http://civiello.com/blog/repeat-but-not-verbatim">Read More...</a></p><p>Share this on:<br><a href="http://www.linkedin.com/shareArticle?mini=true&url=http://civiello.com/blog/repeat-but-not-verbatim&title=Repeat but not Verbatim&source=Civiello Communications" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/linkedin2.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="LinkedIn"></a><a href="http://www.facebook.com/sharer.php?u=http://civiello.com/blog/repeat-but-not-verbatim&t=Repeat but not Verbatim" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/facebook.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="facebook"></a><a href="http://twitter.com/home?status=Currently reading http://civiello.com/blog/repeat-but-not-verbatim" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/twitter.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="twitter"></a><a href="http://www.addthis.com/bookmark.php?url=http://civiello.com/blog/repeat-but-not-verbatim" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/email.jpg" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="AddThis"></a><h2><a href="http://civiello.com/blog/stories-for-a-happy-ending">Stories for a happy ending</a></h2><p class="smalltext"><b>December 21, 2012</b></p><p>A leader in the not for profit world came to me for tips on inspiring audiences. He cares deeply about the people his charity serves but he is a scientist and accustomed to delivering data. Facts can be persuasive but it is stories, emotions that ins...</p><p><a href="http://civiello.com/blog/stories-for-a-happy-ending">Read More...</a></p><p>Share this on:<br><a href="http://www.linkedin.com/shareArticle?mini=true&url=http://civiello.com/blog/stories-for-a-happy-ending&title=Stories for a happy ending&source=Civiello Communications" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/linkedin2.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="LinkedIn"></a><a href="http://www.facebook.com/sharer.php?u=http://civiello.com/blog/stories-for-a-happy-ending&t=Stories for a happy ending" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/facebook.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="facebook"></a><a href="http://twitter.com/home?status=Currently reading http://civiello.com/blog/stories-for-a-happy-ending" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/twitter.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="twitter"></a><a href="http://www.addthis.com/bookmark.php?url=http://civiello.com/blog/stories-for-a-happy-ending" target="_blank"><img src="images/icons/email.jpg" border=0 align="absmiddle" alt="AddThis"></a><br><br><hr><p class="paginationnav"><a href="/blog.php?page=11" title="Oldest"><img src="buttons/control_start_blue.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" hspace=2 alt="Oldest Page"></a><a href="/blog.php?page=2" title="Older"><img src="buttons/control_rewind_blue.png" border=0 align="absmiddle" hspace=2 alt="Older"></a> Page <b>1</b> of <b>11</b> &nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
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