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Work At Home? It's Not A “Real” Job...

Wed, 07 Sep 2011 10:07:00 +0100

By Maia Dealan-de I used to scoff at people who work at home. Years ago, when I worked as an accountant, I was of the opinion that people who work at home didn't have “real” jobs. Having a job title and an office to go to every morning seemed a much more legitimate way to earn a living. After all, people who work at home couldn't claim any of the “real job” attributes that I had: Every morning I had to wake up with an alarm clock in order to get to work on...

Intuition Blueprint Reading

Mon, 03 Jan 2011 19:09:00 +0100

I recently connected with Joanna Garzilli, America's Intuition Coach. She did an Intuition Blueprint Reading for me and it was amazing! It's not like your typical life coaching session. You don't tell her anything about your life. She taps in using her intuition and tells you about your ancestral lineage, family ties, soul purpose, major life lessons and the patterns that are holding them back from accessing your untapped talents and gifts. You'll also discover whether you are on...

Decisions, Decisions

Tue, 28 Dec 2010 19:01:00 +0100

Everyday we have to make many decisions. They can be as simple as deciding what you're going to eat for lunch or as complicated as where you should invest your money. It's interesting to watch your style of decision-making. Many times I'll make a decision with absolutely minimal thought. I'll see or think of something I want and then do it. Other times I will go 'round and 'round in my mind about something that isn't even really important in relation to the big picture of my life. What's...

Intuition, Impulse, Magic

Tue, 28 Dec 2010 19:00:00 +0100

Earlier today I was lying on back at my chiropractor's office. I had my eyes closed while he was doing some muscle testing and adjustments. A thought entered my mind, "I wonder if my zipper is down on my shorts." About 3 seconds later he says, "Did you know your zipper is down?" Whoa! What a trip. My intuition had given me the information, but I didn't do anything about it. Now you have to know, I was busting up laughing that I had such a strong intuitive hit about this zipper. I was a bit...

Embracing Meltdowns

Tue, 28 Dec 2010 19:00:00 +0100

Have you ever had a meltdown? I say I've had a meltdown when I feel like issues that have been eating me all come to the surface. It was recently suggested to me that "meltdown" is a gender specific term. Another dear male friend told me recently he went "redline" in front of his entire staff. Redline meant he let all his frustration hang out. It actually came raging out. Whatever you call the experience, it unfolds something like this: Some things have been on your mind lately. You've...

Choosing Truth

Tue, 28 Dec 2010 18:59:00 +0100

Last month's article focused on the childhood game of Truth or Dare. I spoke directly to choosing dares and how you can dare yourself to take action on something that seemed far out of reach. I want to note that since that article was written, my friends and I came up with a new way to play the game. When it's your turn, you can choose "Dare" or "Extreme Dare" There was no choice of "Truth." Well, of course, the "dare's" were much more outrageous and entertaining to watch as an observer, but...

Express the Negative

Tue, 28 Dec 2010 18:58:00 +0100

All you personal growth junkies may throw snowballs at me, but I have to say it. Negative emotions aren’t bad. Stating what’s wrong with your life isn’t terrible either. Even if you shout your complaints to God and the Universeat the top of your lungs, it’s still okay. The truth is that we are feeling whatever we are feeling. It’s all just feelings. Your emotional guidance system is giving you feedback through its receptors. The feedback tells you if you are focusing your...

Should We Be Concerned?

Tue, 28 Dec 2010 18:57:00 +0100

The Friday before last, I was out with some friends and somebody did something that I potentially could have been upset over. In the past, if this same incident would've happened, I might have had an intense emotional reaction ... and I noticed that I thought I should have a reaction now. I questioned my non-reaction. Should I be mad? Maybe I should have a chat with my friend telling them how "uncool" their action was. But the truth was, I wasn't upset. The questions to myself were from an old...

When Is It Time to Call It Quits?

Tue, 28 Dec 2010 18:56:00 +0100

Have you ever stayed at a job, relationship, or house for too long? I mean, you knew it was not your ideal situation and you just stayed because you thought you could either make it work or you were too lazy or scared to move on. I’ve been there and I’ve seen most of my friends, family, clients, and class participants go through the same thing. Is that a bad thing? Not really. But you experience unnecessary pain, suffering, and frustration when you tolerate staying in a situation past the point...

Inquires that Lead to Solution

Tue, 28 Dec 2010 18:55:00 +0100

Have you ever wanted a cheat sheet that lists the steps you should take to get you to solution regarding any issue? Below I have provided some questions to ask yourself that will help you take the steps to support your desired outcome. If you are in a very anxious emotional state about what you think is the problem, try to calm yourself first, before going through the inquiries. It is hard to see any solution when you are focused on the problem. It is also easier to access your intuition when...