Colette's Love Bytes

Fuck Yo' Resolutions and Grab Change by the Balls

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Thu, 09 Jan 2014 19:37:00 +0000

New Year's resolutions are useless and they're designed to fail, because people set the goals too high too quickly. If you're going to make changes in your life, you don't need to do it at a specific time of year: Change can happen at any time. Don't create restrictions for yourself. Let the change take over naturally.

Instead of creating a huge list of goals at the beginning of the year, set a small goal weekly. If you want to join a gym at the beginning of the year, by all means do it, but don't punish yourself by telling yourself you're going to work out religiously and by February, going once a week and feeling bad about it. Set attainable goals that you know you can achieve and build from there.

You can always sign up for a new gym and start going twice a week. Maybe some weeks, you'll go more frequently, and maybe some weeks you'll only go once. Set the goal for going once a week. Give yourself some wiggle room. If you start your goal at "I'm going to go 5 times a week", you're going to burn out by February or March and end up not going at all. You'll find yourself on the sofa eating Cheetos, feeling like shit, because you failed at your New Year's resolution to become a gym rat.

Instead of setting a goal stipulating that you will go on a diet, make a list of your guilty pleasure foods and which days you indulge the most. Do you eat big meals, or just graze all day with snacks? Which time of day do you binge? By analyzing your routine, you can pinpoint when you are eating the most and what you are eating the most and worst of. For example, if I eat ice cream Monday through Friday night, I could set a small goal for myself to not eat ice cream one night during those five days every week. If by the end of that month, I feel that I should increase it to not eating two nights Monday through Friday, then I would set another goal. Small goals over time create the most change.

Instead of focusing on resolutions, take a look at the unhealthy, ineffective patterns in your life. Then ask yourself "How can I make this better? What do I need to change? How can I switch up my routine? And how can I do so without failing?" You have to always keep in mind that you are a work in progress.

Some weeks you are going to fail, and that's okay. Just focus on the next week. There is no need to be self-critical. You may fail one week, but you are far from a failure. Keep it movin'. A week is just a week. Move on to the next week and do better. At the three month mark, you're going to look at your progress. Ask yourself "How do I feel compared to when I started? How is my progress coming? What do I need to improve? Do I need to make changes to the goal itself?"

You may decide that since your progress is going so well, you want to increase the goal. For example, I might be going to yoga twice a week, and I'm feeling so positive about my weekly routine that I wish to increase my goal to three times a week. Or I may have set a goal to go to yoga twice a week, but I'm only making it in once a week. Decrease the goal, but look at what's holding you back from not hitting it. The key is to recognize your patterns in your routines and make changes.

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Be easy on yourself. Love yourself. Focus on your happiness first. Believe in change and how it can work for you and know that it's more simple than it seems. Don't take on more than you can chew. A small goal can easily gain incredible results in the end.

Yoncé All on His Mouth Like Liquor: Beyonce's Album

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Thu, 19 Dec 2013 18:36:00 +0000

Beyonce's album dropped last Thursday at midnight, and I have not stopped listening to it. I am completely obsessed with its 14 songs and 17 videos.

In my opinion, the best songs on the album are "Pretty Hurts", "Partition", "Drunk in Love", and "Mine." Beyonce shows her sexy side on this album. She's a grown woman who enjoys sex with her husband, works hard, goes through emotions and has insecurities like any woman, and loves her child. The album features the many facets of Beyonce: the woman, wife, and mother. She is a queen, a superstar, a singing goddess, but she's also a flesh-and-blood woman.

Let's talk about how insane this album is: Justin Timberlake is on the writing credits for "Yoncé/Partition" and "Blow." Sia Furler, who is an incredible musical artist herself most famous for "Breathe Me" and "Wild Ones", wrote "Pretty Hurts." "Rocket" was written by Miguel. Pharrell wrote and co-produced "Blow" with Timbaland. "Mine" features Drake, and "Superpower" has Frank Ocean. Check out the credits here. My head almost exploded in excitement after I read them.

Beyonce explains some of her songs here.

"Yonce' is an incredible song. I love it because it's really organic and the drum beat was actually done in the studio by Justin Timberlake. He just started beating on these buckets and The-Dream started coming up with this little chant, 'Yonce all up in his mouth like liquor.' It's so exciting when something naturally happens that way."

Best album of 2013 hands down. Well worth the $15.99.

O Christmas Tree

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Mon, 16 Dec 2013 21:46:00 +0000

"The main reason Santa is so jolly is because he knows where all the bad girls live." ~ George Carlin

I have a cozy apartment with little space, so I needed a tree to fit it. It's sparkly and colorful, just the way I like my Christmas trees.

Real Housewives of Beverly Hills: The Show to Love and Hate

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Thu, 12 Dec 2013 21:27:00 +0000

I have been trying to watch this season of Bravo's The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, but it's boring. I watch 15 minutes of it and turn the channel. Kyle is a mean girl. Yeah, we get it. There is nothing interesting about her schtick. I've been around enough bitches in real life, to know how they are shallow and vapid. She is no different. She needs to be the center of attention at all times. She gossips about the other women, and treats the new housewives poorly. Snore.

Brandi is the wild child who says whatever she wants because she has no filter. She's basically an asshole, but we're supposed to think of her as a "free spirit." She's always raving about how she's so sexual. She's drilled that into everybody's heads and then gets upset when somebody calls her a "slut." Nobody should ever be slut shamed, but don't be shocked when it happens in a group of catty women, especially these Botoxed beasts. You can like sex without having to talk about it all the time. She's made sex her identity. I acted like that in my 20s, then I grew up. She's in her 40s. Brandi always seems as if she switched personalities with a 17 year-old girl like they do in those Freaky Friday-type movies. She loves getting drunk, wooooo-hoooooo! There is a small window in your 20s when it's acceptable to be the drunken mess at parties: That window closed for her 2 decades ago.

Carlton is my favorite because she seems like a strong woman with an authentic personality. I could watch her all day, side-eyeing the women when they say something she doesn't like. She's a witch, loves animals, can appreciate a full moon and pagan holidays, lives in a Gothic castle, and has a banging body. She also thinks Joyce is awful and says stupid shit, and I adore her for that. Whenever Joyce comes on, I say "Who?" Joyce has the personality of a walnut. I roll my eyes every time she speaks as well. Carlton, I got you, boo.

Lisa is British, and lovely, and reminds me of Meryl Streep's character in the movie, She Devil. Lisa lives in world filled with soft lighting and pink and white roses. I'm always curious how long it takes her to get ready in the morning. I can't imagine she ever steps out of the house with no make-up and sweats. Just watching how made up she is exhausts me. Some days, I leave the house without showering. She makes me feel like less of a woman. I would guess her nighttime skin regimen consists of lotions and creams made from real exotic pearls. I'm sure she takes candlelit bubble baths as Vivaldi's The Four Seasons softly plays in the background.

Yolanda is one of my favorites, because she has a huge framed photo of herself when she was younger, sprawled naked on the beach, in the living room. They entertain family and guests where her tanned, cocoa-buttered, nude body is on full display. I love that. I'm all for being slightly narcissistic and vain when it comes to loving yourself and your physical appearance. I see nothing wrong with it. If you are that gorgeous and have a fantastic body, you might as well flaunt it. Take a picture now and hang that shit on the wall, because you only have that face and body for so long before age catches up. Yolanda is often seen working out in all white spandex, picking lemons from the orchard surrounding her mansion, or decorating with candles and fresh flowers. All the housewives go ape-shit for flowers. If you don't have fresh, cut flowers in your house on a daily basis, you are a heathen, end of story.

Kim is Kyle's older sister, but Kyle acts more like a mom, which is incredibly obnoxious. If I had a sister who perpetually nagged me, I would drink and do drugs, too. Kim is sober, but she's still a lovable, discombobulated mess. On my worst days, Kim is my spirit animal. And my best days, unfortunately. Everybody likes Kim, because she's kooky, but an incredibly good-hearted person. Everybody treats Kim like she's slow. With the exception of Kyle, I can't remember the last housewife who was mean to her.

What does everybody think of this season? Who are the housewives you love? Who are the ones you hate? Which one bores you?

My Cat, Bosco

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Wed, 11 Dec 2013 21:59:00 +0000

My cat, Bosco, was named after a Seinfeld reference. George Costanza's ATM code was Bosco. Bosco was a chocolate syrup popular in the 1950s. My cat is black, so I figured the name was fitting. Bosco is almost 2 years old, but he's really big for his age. It's like living with a black panther in a tiny studio apartment.

This picture was so funny to me that I made it into a meme. He looks like he's having a spiritual epiphany. I obviously have too much time on my hands.

Looking

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Sat, 07 Dec 2013 04:36:00 +0000

We spend our lives looking for connections. We seek friends, lovers, husbands, wives to fill our lives with warmth, love and affection. Our goal is to bond with these people; to feel as if somebody understands us, listens to our stories, comforts us, and cares what happens to us. There is something so wonderful about meeting somebody for the first time and experiencing that.

The fascinating part is it always happen when you least expect it. You could meet twenty people in one night and not bond with any of them; but you walk into a cafe one morning and meet the person who will become one of your closest friends. Connections occur effortlessly. They can never be forced. In fact, the moment we try to force these relationships, they disintegrate. Further proof that nothing needs to be pushed. It either is, or it isn't. We could push ourselves on to somebody, and desperately try to be in their lives, but they would most likely run the other way.

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If these relationships are going to form, they will do so naturally. There is no reason to push or force them. The connection is either there, or it's not. We must have faith that these special connections will find us. These people will flow into our lives easily with no worry, no fear, and no anxiety. Relationships will manifest. And we have no control over when and how they do. It can be a hard lesson for us. It is difficult to relinquish control, to surrender to destiny. But what choice do we have?

We have to learn to accept not knowing what will happen next in the tapestry of our lives. We need to enjoy our lives regardless of whether or not significant people walk into them. And we must fill those times that are void of intimate strings to our beloveds with our own inner happiness and contentment.

Think of the last connection you made with somebody. How did that person affect your life? What made the connection so special?

Halloween on Acid: Why I Love American Horror Story

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Fri, 06 Dec 2013 16:13:00 +0000

American Horror Story (FX) This is Ryan Murphy's twisted show that feeds off classic horror movie themes. It's campy, revolting, creepy, but lots of fun to watch. It's the type of show where you will scream "WHAT!!", because you can't even believe what you're seeing. He goes THERE. Murphy always crosses over that line of decency. If you are easily offended, this is not the show for you. He loves anything taboo.

This is the third season of the series: Each season has featured a completely different plot and characters. Although, the majority of the actors appear in every season. Jessica Lange is the queen: That's all you need to know and don't forget it. She always portrays an evil bitch and does it flawlessly. She is your classic Shakespearean, morally bankrupt woman.

Murphy obviously has an appreciation for the art of acting, because most of his actors are well-known from Broadway and television: Denis O'Hare, Lily Rabe, Frances Conroy, Dylan McDermott, Patti LuPone, Kathy Bates, and Angela Bassett, just to name a few. The acting is always superb. The show vacillates between scary and bizarre. Sometimes you are legitimately freaked out, and other times it feels like you're watching a parody.

The first season takes place in a haunted house. Your typical white family moves into a new house, and everything goes haywire. There's also a creeptastic entity wearing a rubber S&M suit roaming around, which makes life in that house uncomfortably WEIRD. If you are going to watch any of the seasons, this is the one. It's my favorite, and the ending pulls the entire season together. It's a real M. Night Shyamalan moment. It's worth watching this season for the ending alone.

The second season's depravities occur in an insane asylum in the 1950s where Jessica Lange is a NUN. And she's nasty. Big surprise there. If you are scared of the dark, do not watch this season by yourself. Some of the featured actors are: James Cromwell, Chloe Sevigny, Joseph Fiennes, Ian McShane as a demented Santa that will haunt your dreams for life. This season has demonic possession, aliens, a serial killer, and Nazis. It has one of the most surreal, over-the-top campy musical sequences you will ever see.

This third season involves a coven of witches, headed by Jessica Lange. She is known as "The Supreme." You don't want to mess with this witch. She's a bad person. However, she is not as horrific a human being as Delphine LaLaurie, played brilliantly by Kathy Bates, who tortures and keeps her black slaves in a dungeon, doing unspeakable things to their bodies. When these scenes play, do not attempt to eat anything. Put the snacks down and wait until the show is over. Apparently she is based on a real person in the 1800s. Angela Bassett plays a voodoo queen. Angela Bassett DOES NOT AGE. She needs to put out an anti-aging skin care line. She's in her 50s, and she looks better than most 30 year-olds. This season is my least favorite. Don't get me wrong, I still watch it every week religiously, but it's not as solid as the other two.

The Village is Missing Its Idiot

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Wed, 27 Jun 2012 03:31:00 +0000

The Real Housewives of Orange County season finale was cray cray! I thought the whole season has been incredibly boring. I would try watching an episode, and 20 minutes in, I would zone out. There were episodes I would try watching again, and still couldn't make it through all the way. This season was TV Ambien.

This episode was drama-filled, ridiculous, full of unnecessary fighting, and some idiot got kicked out of a party for eating a bow off the hosts' (Terry and Heather Dubrow) cake and then being a total asshole about it (Who does that?!). As Tamra commented in reference to "bowgate", the village is missing its idiot. And in this case, the idiot is a mentally unhinged lush.

The best parts of this episode were:
Gretchen giving Tamra one of the cheesiest friendship gifts I've ever seen in my life. "Here is a tacky charm bracelet.You are unbreakable." Super ghey! They've only been friends for 5 months! I can't wait to tell my best friend, Tara, that she's unbreakable, so she can laugh in my face.

Sarah getting kicked out. I'm shocked that Heather put up with her shit as long as she did. I'm sorry, but if you eat the bow off my cake, you need to get the fuck out of my house. It's my party, and I'll kick you out if I want to. The fact that Slade, who was channeling the legendary Hollywood producer, Robert Evans, clad in black from head-to-toe, had to play the bouncer and tell Sarah and Alexis they needed to go was even more hilarious.

The previous episode where Sara brazenly eats the BOW.

Jim Bellino showing up, looking like he had busted out of a wedding party. I couldn't tell if he looked like a banquet waiter or a groomsman. Jim, WTF were you wearing? Nice shiny vest with a tacky print. Somewhere a Vegas blackjack dealer is missing a vest. I love that he came to the party just so he could stand up for his wife, dumb-dumb Alexis', honor. You know it killed him to see how somebody with real money lives. Unlike Jim's cheesy home that was bought under his business, The Dubrows' house is a mansion, not your standard Real Housewives large home either, it's a frigging palatial mansion overlooking the water. RIDICULOUS. Go Terry!

Vicky screaming at Tamra at the top of her lungs "YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO BE MY FRIEND. YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO BE MY SOULMATE, MY FRIEND, MY SISTER." Vicky is insane. I think she legitimately needs medication. Xanax is YOUR friend, Vicky.

According to Watch What Happens Live, "EVIL EYE" was uttered 29 times. Brooks, with a set of new teeth bankrolled by Vicky, called out Tamra for rolling her eyes at Vicky. Rolling your eyes is not the same as "the evil eye", but Brooks is a moron. And according to Briana, he has no car (whhhhhaaaaaaaaaat), no home, and no checking account of his own. If you open up the dictionary, you will see his picture under the word: MOOCH. There is no way he bought her a mink. This did not happen, regardless of what Vicky wants people to believe.

What did everybody think of tonight's finale?

A Drug Affair

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Fri, 22 Jun 2012 03:40:00 +0000

After a long hiatus, I'm back. Things sucked for what seemed like an eternity (fuck!), but I'm back and feeling stronger than ever, blah, blah blah. But enough about me let's talk about something more interesting, shall we!

What does everybody think of Cat Marnell? If you're not familiar with her, she was the beauty editor for xoJane, who recently left because she is a drug addict. She's candid about her addiction. Her articles for xoJane were beauty product reviews interspersed with druggie anecdotes. She has a love affair with drugs (as all addicts do), and she writes about that lust in a stream of consciousness, throwing up her words onto her computer screen as quickly as she can type. Her writing is frenetic, honest, and raw.

I personally like her writing: She's a solid writer with a strong, albeit, controversial voice. She's interesting. She's polarizing. And she never pretends to be anybody she's not. Love her or hate her, she is an enigmatic personality.

Read her latest Vice article.

"It’s 2012 in Manhattan, the island of cell phones and no clocks. Of dead Blackberry batteries, New Museums, old money—trust funds, angel dust funds, acid rains, and dead brains. Ritalin kids are generic adults living on vampire schedules. The Lost Boys soundtrack is always playing at the Dream Hotel and everyone’s forgotten their iPhone chargers: Yo, what time is it?"

My favorite movie, Boogie Nights, has a quote that makes me think of Cat's writing persona.

"When I close my eyes, I see this thing, a sign, I see this name in bright blue neon lights with a purple outline. And this name is so bright and so sharp that the sign - it just blows up because the name is so powerful..."

So, how does everybody feel about her? Do you love or hate her writing?

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Darkest Before the Dawn

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Mon, 19 Dec 2011 03:02:00 +0000

Some moments in life are easier than others. I'm going through one of those really tough times. I'm trying to figure out what the next chapter of my life will bring. It's always darkest before the dawn. I know whatever will become of this will make me stronger in the end.

Very True

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Wed, 26 Oct 2011 03:24:00 +0000

Dating Advice

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Sat, 08 Oct 2011 00:23:00 +0000

I'm gaining a lot of new ideas lately about dating and relationships. I'm seeing things from different perspectives, and I'm analyzing all the forms of communication that men and women use during the dating phase. I'm observing how the courting process works in the 21st century and how men and women's roles have changed throughout the decades.

I have spent over 15 years dating, and I have a tremendous amount of experience: I've met many men, had many heartbreaks, and have had great loves. I have a lot of knowledge to share, and I hope to someday help as many women as I can. My goals are set high right now to reach a large scale audience. The funny thing about giving advice is it's easier to listen to other people's advice than know what is right in your personal situation.

Finding love can be one of the most difficult experiences: Because love can be elusive; love can tear your heart out; love can appear when you are the least ready for it; love can be terrifying and beautiful all at the same time.

My dating life in years past was a roller coaster. I never knew what would happen next. I always wanted to find the man who was right for me, and I never could. I cried my share of tears. I hope that my difficult experiences can help somebody out there.

I want to help broken-hearted women to heal. I want to let women who cry every night in loneliness that there is light through the darkness. I want to teach women how to date without tearing their hair out. I want to show women that they never have to settle. I want to help women see how amazing they are with or without a man.

Burnt Out from Dating?

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Sat, 24 Sep 2011 01:51:00 +0000

Take a break from it. Give yourself a few months to just enjoy your life guy-free without trying to meet somebody. It will be a liberating experience. Pamper yourself. Buy yourself some new clothes, sexy heels, or lingerie to feel good.

Buy some new music. Plan a brunch outing every month with some girlfriends. Take some time out for you. Get in touch with what makes you truly happy. Recharging the dating batteries is one of the best things you can do when you're sick of dating and can't meet anybody decent.

True Blood's Joe Manganiello

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Fri, 23 Sep 2011 05:11:00 +0000

Holy hotness.

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The Beauty in Appreciation

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Sun, 18 Sep 2011 02:31:00 +0000

I have a girlfriend. She's in her 30s, has had several tumultuous relationships, has been deeply hurt in the past, has dated her share of losers, alcoholics, moochers, narcissistic guys who didn't care about her feelings; and through it all, she believed that one day she would find a fantastic man. And, she did. When we discussed this new man in her life, I remember something in the conversation that really resonated with me: She said "If I had met him anytime earlier in my life than I did, I wouldn't have appreciated him as much as I do now.

I met somebody recently. I am constantly amazed by how wonderful he is and how well we click together. I know exactly what my girlfriend was talking about. I don't think I could possibly have appreciated him years ago than I do right now. It's as if I had to go through all the bullshit to get to where I am today, to feel what I do for him, to recognize how incredible he is. All I can be is grateful that I found somebody at the exact right time in my life. They say timing is everything, and it is.

When You Close a Door

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Thu, 18 Aug 2011 02:53:00 +0000

I let go of hoping for a future with somebody, and I closed the door once and for all. When I closed the door, a new door opened. I met somebody, and I can't even believe how wonderful he is. I'm the luckiest girl in the world. It's the best door I've opened in a while...

I just realized that I met him a couple weeks after I wrote this post about my painful experience last year...new beginnings indeed.

Savage Beauty

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Mon, 08 Aug 2011 01:44:00 +0000

Alexander McQueen was a tormented genius: Just look at this dress.

Music I'm Listening to...

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Mon, 01 Aug 2011 02:09:00 +0000

How Did I Get Back Here?

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Fri, 01 Jul 2011 01:35:00 +0000

I hate when you meet somebody who has a special hold over you, and no matter how much time passes, that feeling never seems to fade. It never weakens, and sometimes it seems as if it's stronger than before.

I fell for somebody hard 2 years ago. I loved everything about his personality, his sense of humor, and his big heart. He had just broken up with his girlfriend of 6 years. He was 23 at the time. There's a 10 year difference between us, so it's not the best situation. He's 25 now.

He's young, and he has a lot of living to do. I'm 35, and I've already done a lot of my living. I went through my 20s. I was foolish, irresponsible, and I made lots of mistakes. He needs to do the same. At the moment, he's stuck in sand, living in the past and not moving forward in any aspect of his life. Maybe he will, maybe he won't. But none of it is my problem. He needs to figure it out on his own.

I hadn't seen him in 2 years. I visited him at his family's country home in Vermont. I fell again even though I didn't think I would. It was like time had stood still. Nothing had changed between us. He was still pining over the ex whom had left him, and I was still wondering why he couldn't see how amazing I was through the haze of his last relationship.

Nothing had changed. I wondered "How did I get back here again?" I left him as I always do, with a pit in my stomach, and my heart hurting from how much I wanted to be with him. The feeling subsided in a couple of weeks, as I knew it would, but leaving him is so hard. It always has been. I'm guessing it always will be.

Adorable Flower Pot Cake

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Sat, 14 May 2011 03:06:00 +0000

Via Buzzfeed

Glee: Rolling in the Deep

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Thu, 12 May 2011 02:31:00 +0000

Amazeballs! I love Jonathan Groff. I also love Lea Michele's chemistry with Jonathan even though he's gay and they're best friends in real life. This rendition of Adele's "Rolling in the Deep" was fantastic.

Adele's Version

Super sexy picture from "Spring Awakening." Ooof, I love him.

The End of the Painful Chapter

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Wed, 11 May 2011 02:27:00 +0000

Last year I was involved with somebody. I considered him a friend before anything, but there was more too it as well. Our relationship was somewhat complicated and yet completely simple because there was a comfort level between us as if we had known each other for years. We were together all the time, and I felt a connection with him. We weren't completely together. We weren't in a committed relationship. He had told me that he was getting over a break-up, but little did I know, there was so much more.

He had a serious drug addiction. He was in his "I'm going to get clean and start a new life" phase. He had been in and out of treatment. He had a pattern of stealing from his girlfriends. Unfortunately, he repeated this pattern with me. There were so many lies, so much deception, and manipulation. He had me twisted around his little finger.

I loved him. I cared about the person I thought he was. I fell in love with the person he showed to me. I didn't know anything else. He had put a blindfold over my eyes. The only truth I knew was his truth, a twisted version of reality. It mirrored his dreams of how he wanted to be perceived. Nobody knew him here, so he could be anybody. He liked that he could tell me stories about the person deep down he wanted to be and I would believe every word. I was his perfect audience. He loved talking to me and now I know why.

I'm still dealing with the pain of it all. I know it's been several months. I'm trying as hard as I can to get over this, but he hurt me in ways unimaginable. I've never had anybody do what he did to me. It's as if he had broken a piece of my soul. I haven't dated anybody. I haven't even been interested in the opposite sex.

I was devastated when everything fell apart. My heart shattered. He left (ran actually, to go on a bender), met another drug addict and plastered her Facebook wall with how much he loved her; but before all that, he stole from me as he was whispering sweet nothings in my ear about how he was falling in love with me. The money he took from me he used to get hotel rooms, drugs, and food with his new "girlfriend."

The thought of opening myself up to somebody scares me. I want to fall in love. I want to find happiness, but I want true love. I don't want to settle for anything less. I want to trust somebody. I want to feel emotion again. I want to feel sexy again. Now, I just feel blank. I get sad sometimes. I cry when I talk about him. I cry when I think about him. How could somebody do that? I've asked that question so many times. I've haunted myself with the answers.

His trial is next week, May 17th. It has been postponed many times since he has been in an in-patient drug treatment program. They have been waiting for him to get out before they try him for grand larceny. I want everything to be over. I don't want to hear his name anymore. I don't want to get phone calls about the trial. I want him to disappear from my reality. I wish I could completely erase his name from my memory. But some things we are forced to remember. Some things will just always be there, whether we like it or not.

I want to be happy again, meet somebody wonderful, and move on with my life once and for all. Out of the darkness and into the light.

New beginnings...

Happy Thursday

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Fri, 06 May 2011 02:08:00 +0000

Cat in the Hat

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Fri, 29 Apr 2011 23:35:00 +0000

http://princessbeatriceandherhat.tumblr.com/

The Dress

noreply@blogger.com (Colette) — Fri, 29 Apr 2011 23:12:00 +0000

Princess Kate's dress was perfection.