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Gone but where?

2009-10-12T10:17:00.000+11:00

http://mrsemmakelly.blogspot.com/

where did they go?
Any one got the link?

How to meet a Dominant woman

2009-10-10T10:18:00.001+11:00

I love this blog posting, it is well written and offers some valuable advise and comments from readers

in reference to: how to meet a dominant woman « Devastating Yet Inconsequential (view on Google Sidewiki)

Cooking with cum

2009-09-08T12:31:00.009+10:00

For the Femdom who has every thing!

I thought I'd post some thing a little different this week with a Sexy Food idea that had recently been posted on CollarNcuffs.com forum blogs on the Natural Harvest Cook book~ cooking with cum cookbook.

I wanted to know more so I did a little research!

In March this year Vice Magazine had An Interview with the Jizz Cook Fotie Photenhauer, author of Natural Harvest: A collection of semen-based recipes, the Lulu-published cookbook that made the rounds of all the blogs and comedy clubs last Fall and is now available in a revised 2nd edition

From the Vice interview:

Vice: After it occurred to you that using your semen as a cooking ingredient was the next logical step, what did you do?

Fotie Photenhauer: I thought, "Let’s try it out." Semen is identical to egg whites. And egg whites are a very common ingredient in a lot of foods.

What did you make?

I made crepes. Normally you use a lot of eggs, four or five eggs in a batch of crepes. I substituted one egg with about four or five tablespoons of semen. They turned out beautiful.

I'm guessing he's not winning over a lot of new connoisseurs in the vanilla 'mainstream' world but used in Femdom or Maledom [cooking with cum] has some interesting possibilities, he does have somewhat of a point when he says,

I mean, people eat all kinds of weird things. Eggs are menstruation from chickens. And that’s pretty disgusting, if you think about it. I mean, eating a chicken menstruation? What’s the difference between eating another animal’s menstruation or eating someone you love’s semen. You have to think of it with perspective."

And, from the book's introduction:

"Semen is not only nutritious, but it also has a wonderful texture and amazing cooking properties. Like fine wine and cheeses, the taste of semen is complex and dynamic. Semen is inexpensive to produce and is commonly available in many, if not most, homes and restaurants. Despite all of these positive qualities, semen remains neglected as a food. This book hopes to change that. Once you overcome any initial hesitation, you will be surprised to learn how wonderful semen is in the kitchen. Semen is an exciting ingredient that can give every dish you make an interesting twist. If you are a passionate cook and are not afraid to experiment with new ingredients--you will love this cook book!"

So what does experimenting Femdom do?

high protein smoothie

Unlike other high protein drinks this one doesn't not use animal proteins such as eggs or whey for nutrition

1 cup diced kiwi
1 ripe banana
1 cup of soy milk
1-3 tablespoons of fresh semen
Ice cubes

Throw every thing into a blender and liquefy.

Chef's Note: This is a great to experiment with.
Try substituting peaches or strawberries for the kiwi.

Test Run of course !

After reading the chefs note how could I resist

So you never what on the menu at my place now *grins* for being such a good boy he got cake too!

Final result: good enough to drink

This cook book can purchased at Lulu or alternitely through the Author at semenbook@gmail.com

Busy busy

2009-09-03T13:16:00.000+10:00

Wow such a busy month. So this is going to be one of those..Hey I am alive posts.

So much is happening on CollarNcuffs.com we have the taste of cyber programs back in full swing and are now training two groups at once for single and partnered males seeking a taste of Femdom cyber online domination. Our New to Femdom Domination programs for the ladies have also been a great success, with many of them commenting we (MissBitch and I) have made the process easy and simple to follow with the hundreds of personal images and video footage, and one on one interaction. A third group is currently starting on our sister site studyBDSM where we have added as additional feature cam play which we post about shortly...all cams are returned and free as is every thing on CNC

The forum also has a lot of interesting topics regarding Femdom and BDSM topics: This week my personal favorite would the topic of user names by Fetish Educators and just how 'out' they are within the community. It's wonderful to see the replies. The diversity of the members on CollarNcuffs never ceases to amaze me.

Well I'm off to finish writing, after the publishing contract for two Femdom 'how too' books (availible Febuary) we are currently writing a third..ohh that reminds me I need some 'test' subjects *evil grin* but I'll post about later...this was supposed to be a flyby visits.

Save our Adult sites

2009-02-20T11:10:00.003+11:00

No Clean Feed

Help needed from all Kinky

Australians

Protect your rights to access

Adult sites!

Help stop them from banning sites like CollarNuffs.com and Adult bloggers

Please sign this petition or 'Save the Net' on your own site
With the new petition widget you can collect signatures for GetUp’s ‘Save the Net’ petition from your own social-networking profile, blog or webpage without visitors ever leaving your site.
It’s easy and secure –simply copy the HTML code found HERE and paste it into your webpage or blog post; it works the same way as embedding a YouTube video. Visitors to your page will be able to enter their details to sign the ‘Save the Net’ petition securely, email their friends about the campaign, and embed the tool on their on site.

Ultimate Kinky Show girl-Awards

2008-12-16T22:13:00.009+11:00

Crossposted from Mistress160's Abode, if you wish to leave comment,
could you please do so on the orginal post so all comments can be kept together.
Many thanks to Ms160 for another fantastic contest

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

ULTIMATE KINKY SHOWGIRL
CONTEST JUDGES REPORT

"Honestly ...
the things you guys do for a corset ..."
(MistressAmor)

The Ultimate Kinky Showgirl Contest judging is over and it's time to start the awards. But first a few words from our judging panel:

We welcomed MistressAmor to our judging panel this contest ... and Ms160would like to thank both MistressAmor and the always amazing Miss Bonnie for their time and judging efforts. Thanks too to Miss Bonnie and Collarncuffs.com for their sponsorship of the contest, donating a wonderful corset to the winner.

We ended up with three contestants, two owned by judges and one without an owner, entering Ms160's contests for the first time. We salute the courage of all subs who do this. Alas no one tried to bribe the judges this contest. Hopefully next time....

"As always the standard was extremely high" writes Ms160, "And - as always - these pixs were very interesting to judge because they were so DIFFERENT. I almost wish we had made videos compulsory because I would love to have seen everyone perform :). From the totally over the top style of burlesque to the exquisitely elegant, the contest had a entry for everyone. Most of all we judges wanted to be entertained. And boy, were we ever!"

"We wanted a great show and we haven’t been disappointed", MistressAmor concluded her final judging notes: "I would like to thank Mistress160 for inviting me to be a judge. It’s been great to be part of it and it was real fun ... you guys were all fantastic. You’ve been creative and fun ... you have definitely exceeded our expectations. So sorry Ditta but you are so last year..."

"I had great time judging ... I always do!", wrote Miss Bonnie: "I wish I could have donated more prizes on behalf on CollarNcuffs, as all entrants deserved to win first place. The images produced were of a very high caliber. Thank you for the entertainment and the smiles. I look forward to judging and sponsoring many more"

As for a winner, it was a very hard choice! "I can’t choose just one entrant or one image", said a frustrated Miss Bonnie during the judging process, "I personally think we need to fly them all to Las Vegas (judges included of course) and have them all perform live on stage …lights … camera ... cue music ... dance… nope no winner they have to do it all again *wink*... from the top boys...".

We hope contestants will keep in mind what Ms160 wrote during the Serving Mistress Contest: "For us the challenge is to create awards that reflect the interests and personalities of the contestants. And this is a real joy to do. Contestants put so much thought into their photos, it's an honor to have the opportunity to put equal thought into the awards we present. While we may or may not select a "winner" quite honestly every award we create is equal, and we hope they provide enjoyment to the receiver"

Contestants ... all together now ... take a well deserved curtsy ...

BEST ASS IN THE CONTEST

Miss Scarlet / solipsist - Photo 3

"I had to lean in really close to read the writing ...
I swear he did that on purpose to see how many
monitors he could cause to fog up"
(Miss Bonnie)

The Best Ass prize in Ms160's contests are a judging favorite, and this contest was no exception. We only had one and a half asses on display, lol: solipsist's Photo 3 and the rather nice side view of Quietlisten's bottom on Photos 1 and 2. "It's a tantalizing glimpse ... but alas nothing more", commented Ms160 sadly. "I agree that quietlisten shows quite a curve!", agreed MistressAmor, "But sol’s the only one who has dared to show it properly..."

Solipsist's photos were greatly enjoyed by the Judges. "I love sol’s picture 1" observes MistressAmor, "that pose is terrific, kind of shy but cheeky at the same time. That picture tells me he will be giving a great show … and he does! [In Photo 2] he cheekily sits and removes his cincher while looking at the camera like wanting to say: the best is still to come… And it does when in picture 3 we get see him wiggling his ass!"

"I absolutely adored (in Photo 3) the flirty ass wiggle towards the end, with the fishnet stockings around his ankles, and the "I love you" written on the back of the knickers! What a tart!" wrote Ms160. "I wanted to slap that sweet little butt of yours, I have a thing for cheeky boys (no pun intended)", said Miss Bonnie: " I had to lean in really close to read the writing…I swear he did that on purpose to see how many monitors he could cause to fog up LOL".

The Judges are Very Pleased to award solipsist Best Ass in the Ultimate Kinky Showgirl Contest :)

When acknowledging his prize sol wrote:

"Thanks to all the Judges - it was fun :) I'm glad you all enjoyed the pics"

THE MOST ELEGANT
SHOWGIRL AWARD

Mystere / Quietlisten (all three photos)

"For this contest Quietlisten did more than
be quiet and listen, he roared from
behind those feathers ‘come take me’"
(Miss Bonnie)

This was a unanimous decision, with Quietlisten's combination of imagery and words bringing Mystere alive for the judges. "I thought the name Mystere very fitting as he did create ‘mystery‘ with his images" said Miss Bonnie. MistressAmor agreed: "The name he has chosen, Mystere, is totally appropriate because he has created that sense of mystery and anticipation not only with his pose and outfit but also with his words: “Mystere is about to go on stage for another performance. I can’t reveal where it takes place”. He continues: “I won’t even tell you what Mystere does with those shoes, either. You will have to get tickets to find out.” The thing is … I really want to know! I would certainly kill for one of those tickets!".

All judges were in agreement regarding the high quality of Mystere's clothing and presentation. While we enjoyed sol and poppet's "cheekier and sluttier" (MistressAmor) looks, we also admired Mystere's "cool style" (Ms160) and "classy sophistication" (MistressAmor). "Quietlisten [possesses more] style and grace that most of the female gender ... he personified elegance" concluded Miss Bonnie.

The judges also admired the fact that Quietlisten took these photos himself. Each photo was technically excellent as well as stylishly posed. "He really works that corner, and the camera" noted Ms160, "each pose is different and very nicely done". "For timer activated [pix] they are amazing, great lighting and shadows, good prop use", agrees Miss Bonnie.

Then there was Mystere's outfit. "Oh fantastically well done ... I love the use of black and white, and of the black sequined pasties and panties. Very very stylish! Mystere can perform for me any day :)", writes Ms160. MistressAmor agrees: "I was very impressed ... I love the contrast between the black outfit – mysterious, sexy, elegant - with the ‘virginal’ white feathers". "Once again well done Mystere on your elegant, sensual, sassy pictures that could rival the great dita von Teese", concluded Miss Bonnie, "For this contest Quietlisten did more than be quiet and listen, he roared from behind those feathers ‘come take me’".

The Judges are Truly Delighted to award Mystere The Most Elegant Showgirl Award.

Accepting his awards for the contest, Quietlisten wrote:

"Thanks to the wonderful ladies for this really fun contest! Congratulations to Poppet and Sol for fantastic entries. Is it considered "topping from the bottom" if you intentionally make the job of choosing difficult on the lady judges?

"I have the sneaking suspicion that this is not the end of the evil contest ideas.

"Quietlisten
Taps "refresh" repeatedly, waiting for a new contest :)"

THE SLUTTIEST SHOWGIRL AWARD

Kinky Bella / poppet (all three photos)

"he hasn’t called himself Kinky Bella just
because he was out of choice …
and he has acted accordingly …"
(MistressAmor)

This award was easy. The judging went like this:

Miss Bonnie: "HAS to be poppet! Hands down!"
Ms 160: "HAS to be poppet!"
MistressAmor: "I have to agree it has to be poppet!"

The Judges greatly enjoy awarding Kinky Bella with The Sluttiest Showgirl Award!

SEXIEST LOOK AWARD

Miss Scarlet / solipsist - Photo 2

"Well Miss Scarlet I do declare! You're in high
fire danger area I hope your Mistress has the fire
extinguisher handy *fans herself*"
(Miss Bonnie)

Again this was a difficult choice for the judges, comparing poppet's wantonness with quietlisten's sultry teasing and sol's cheeky sexiness...

We came down in favor of sol's Photo 2. "His whole performance was very sexy and this shows, especially in Photo 2, where he maintains eye contact ... such a tart!", laughs Ms160. "[sol's pictures] tell me he will be giving a great show … and he does! [In Photo 2] he cheekily sits and removes his cincher while looking at the camera like wanting to say: the best is still to com", observes MistressAmor, while Miss Bonnie sums up: " the look in the eyes is hot! The attention to his Mistress never wavering!".

The Judges happily present solipsist with The Sexiest Look Award!

BIGGEST TEASE OF THE CONTEST

Mystere / Quietlisten (all three photos)

"sooooo sexy! "
(Miss Bonnie)

"Amazing pictures Mystere!
You've made my breakfast! "
(MistressAmor)

"So let me get this straight", Quietlisten wrote to the judges in the leadup to the competition:

"You think that a group of well-adjusted guys is going to voluntarily subsume their manhood by shaving all over, dressing in sexually-charged little nothings festooned with ostrich feathers, and flounce around shamelessly to be oogled and judged by a group of women like so many objectified sexual favors?"

Oh yes, we replied! ("I can't wait" responded Miss Bonnie). And that's exactly what Quietlisten did: Mystere appeared shaved, sleek and gleaming, in black sequined "little nothings festooned with ostrich feathers". And boy, did the judges enjoy shamelessly oogling her :). The "end result was splendiferous objectification", sighed Ms160.

Sol and poppet's sultry, cheeky, sexy eye contact in their photos certainly "did things" (Ms160) to the judging panel. But Mystere was the definitive award winner here. Ms160 pointed out how "Mystere peaks out from behind her fan" ... "the gleam in his eyes is so sexy and wanton! The way he holds the fan ... just enough to tease and make you want more", agreed Miss Bonnie.

"He maintains that sexy show girl allure "you can look, but don't touch'", Miss Bonnie continued at a later stage of the judging, before noting that at the launch of the contest:

"I commented ... that I had a weakness for the ‘screen goddess of the 1940s with there sexy glamorous styling, with nothing more than a few pieces Quietlisten (Mystere) managed to recreate a look which stirs some wonderful feelings within me *evil grins*. [to paraphrase Dita Von Teese] Mystere put the tease into strip tease in this contest!"

The Judges are Really Really Pleased to Award Biggest Tease of the Contest to Quietlisten :)

WINNER

Kinky Bella / poppet - Photo 1

"poppet is a total performance trollop.
His Photo 1 is flawless"
Ms160

"MistressAmor and poppet's creativity and imagination never fail to impress me. Their joint collaborations are a joy to anticipate and a delight to behold", writes Ms160, "and this contest has proved another triumph ... Photo 1 is flawless, it wins all around!"

"Poppet lives and breathes the role of kinky Bella the show girl", says Miss Bonnie "where to start?! The outfit ... (MissB secretly wonders did poppet try twirling the TASSELS on his pasties ... you can’t be a ‘sexy’ burlesque star without tassels *huge grin!) ... the accessories ... the makeup/hair (is there any thing he forgot! He even had on matching nail polish in red!) the set, all splendidly spectacular ... I loved the attention to detail, nothing left to chance, he has covered all aspects that we could of possibly expect in a ‘show girl’ ... from the tip of his red shiny shoes to his elaborate head piece, pearls and make up. Such a tasty tart"

"Oh look at his expression!", continues Ms160 "look at that pose ... such an exquisite outfit this time, and poppet strips out of it with such flare! [He's] a total performance trollop! And so exquisitely photographed!". "The photography was great, kudos to Mistress Amor", notes Miss Bonnie. To which MistressAmor replies: "I didn’t allow poppet to buy anything for the contest apart from the cheap plastic pearls and fan so he mixed and matched what was available".

Poppet also scored extra marks for linking his performance to a musical number, which itself had a kinky edge to it. As his Owner noted:

"I think he did very well at adapting it a specific period of time and music ... what I like best in his pictures is the mixture of classic and kinky not only in the oufit but also the stage … a bed! A little kinky thing inviting sinners to sing from a bed? How could I resist him?"

Indeed, who could? Not us! The judges - including his very proud owner - are Honored to award Kinky Bella and poppet Winners of The Ultimate Kinky Showgirl Contest :)

Accepting his prize poppet wrote:

"What can i say? i am deeply honoured and delighted to have been awarded the Ultimate Kinky Showgirl prize but if truth be told i think that both Sol and Quietlisten produced outstanding routines with fabulous outfits and i would like to congratulate them for their wonderful pictures and awards. We are all winners and all had great fun entering and i would like to encourage anyone else reading this to enter next time...assuming of course there will be future contests? (gets down and begs!!)

"i also have a suggestion, how about a femme a trois? with the three kinky showgirls putting on a show together...oh i can see it now, the glamour, the tassels...what fun we could have! The three kinketeers!

"Finally, i would like to thank my wonderful Owner Mistress Amor for permitting me to enter the competition and for Her assistance with my make-up and hair and taking the photos. Darling, you make a wonderful assistant! - Uh, oh now i'm in trouble!!!"

However MistressAmor had a final surprise for poppet:

"Thanks Mistress160 and MisssBonnie, you were both fantastic and enjoyed judging with you. QuietListen, sol, poppet ... you cerntainly entertained us! You 3 are wonderful.

"To the little rascal who is getting a corset: Congratulations, what a nice corset you are getting …I am not jealous at all of course, you have it and enjoy it. However, I think, that since you have been so lucky you should show your gratitude to the judges, those out-of-this world women which have been so kind to you.

"I have decided that once you receive your prize you will have to do the following:

Upload 3 sexy pictures of yourself wearing the corset (I volunteer to be the photographer, my kindness is unlimited)

The photos must be taken in 3 sexy London landmarks

Each photo must be dedicated to one of the judges

"I think it’s only fair, 3 sexy judges deserve 3 sexy pictures in 3 sexy locations. And, you know, winners need a lesson in humility...Mistress160/Bonnie, watch this space!"

We will indeed, and I'll bring you further updates on those special photos!

Thank you again to all our contestants and Judging panel, and to CollarNcuffs for the corset that is now going to cause poppet such fun!

Photos:
MistressAmor
Ms160
Quietlisten
Contest banner:
Miss Bonnie

Cross posted from Mistress160's Abode

Femdom online training course for male submissives

2008-12-09T13:37:00.007+11:00

"your life will change forever" MissBonnie

"a tantalizing taste ... of possible futures..."MissBitch

MissBitch and I have spent a great deal of time thinking and talking about this option to add to CollarNcuffs.com. What we have come up with is rare on the Internet: a free online training program for new submissives

WHY HAVE MissBitch AND I DONE THIS?:

Both MissBitch and I are regularly approached by many men new to Femdom wanting help. Some wondering if submission is for them, others sure of their submissive drive for years but without opportunity to express this side of their nature. The next logical step in their submissive journey is to gain experience and find a Mistress to serve. But alas finding a real time Dominant is no easy task, so many turn to online submission as a way to manage their aching desires to fulfill a Mistress’s needs and wants. Yet even online, finding a cyber Domme can be a daunting task. The world of cyber kink is filled with predators and untrained Dominants just waiting to take advantage of lonely submissives. While
miss
Bitch and I have our own lives and our own stables of submissives, both online and real time, for a long time we have both tried to help as many submissives as we can experience the thrill of serving online, providing subs with a taste of ‘online domination’ cyber play via chat rooms, IMs and emails. We are aware that for some this taste is all they ever receive. Some may decide submission is not for them. But many remain. MissBitch and I often used to say to each other ‘so many subs, so little time’. We wondered what else we could do, how we could help more submissives find their way to understanding their kinks and fulfilling their desires to serve. So we decided to design a simple training course to give newbie submissives a tantalizing taste of what they desired - in fact even more than what they have desired, because this is a chance to serve not one but two Mistresses online for a set period!

THE COURSE ITSELF:

Despite the amount of time and effort that went into designed the course and delivering it, we made the decision the course should be free to attend, because BDSM education is a priority for us both. Collarncuffs contains major educational resources listed on - including MissBitches popular pages - and this training course will add to those resources. In fact it will be the first of several training courses, each modified to appeal to different levels of experience and various fetishes and kinks. This inaugural course - an online training program hosted on CollarNcuffs.com for Forum MPS (MyPersonalSpace) and open to members only - will be totally interactive, incorporating on site blogs, email and chat interaction.

The course will include:

Introduction to behavior modification

Introduction to light bondage and restraint

Introduction to light pain

Introduction to humiliation training

Introduction to cross dressing and forced feminization

Introduction to dildo training (oral)

Introduction to light anal

Introduction to tease and denial / light chastity

Introduction to service submission Educational components will explore topics such as how to find and contact a dominant, personal presentation in cyber space, and understanding your fetishes and kinks.

The course will also include daily ritual tasks to undertake at home, compulsory homework, shopping trips, plus additional tasks for extra points for a chance to win the special prizes for this inaugural class. A list of toys will be provided to successful applicants, which must be acquired / purchased prior the course's commencement. This will not be an expensive list, but will include basics such as a dildo, feminization and crossdressing items, a small piece of bondage rope etc. A digital camera is also a prerequisite (phone camera is fine).

INTERESTED IN APPLYING?:

Obviously there will be a great many applicants for this, and future CNC training courses. There is nowhere else online that regularly offers such a course, gratis. Keep in mind too that a great deal of care has gone into the construction of this course, and similar care will be shown regarding the selection of applicants.

DO apply to enroll for this program if:

You are a serious submissive who seeks a creative, exciting and unpredictable outlet for your submissive desires.

You want to add a little edge and excitement to your life by exploring a variety of Femdom practices.

You are an interested, new submissive who wants to experience being trained online in a safe, anonymous way

You have reliable access to private, secure email and web browsing several times a week

You have the privacy to perform tasks and rituals as requested

You are a member of Collarncuffs' MPS Forum (you can join by clicking HERE)

DO NOT apply to enroll for this program if:

You do not have access to email/web at least 4-5 times per week, every day preferably

You are married and cannot obtain your wife's permission. (later courses will be offered to those with non involved partners)

You cannot perform written and verbal lessons on time and accurately

You do not live alone or have the privacy to undertake rituals and tasks as specified

You plan to travel and will have sporadic email access

"If you are demanding, whining and selfish and think this program should be about getting YOU off" (a personal note from Miss Bonnie!)

If you would like to be considered for inclusion in this inaugural program, please list your name on the forum thread by 30 December 2008.You will then receive an application form and a questionnaire similar to those sent out by Dommes considering a sub for service. This will provide us with information regarding your experience, desires, kinks and general health. Our aim is to provide you an opportunity for the best experience possible. Without answers to the questionnaire we cannot do so in a safe manner and you will not be accepted for the course.You will be advised shortly after whether your application has been successful. "At which point", say your two future Mistresses "your life changes forever!"

It's that time again on CollarNcuffs.com

2008-12-07T12:59:00.004+11:00

…..Its competition time again on again at CollarNcuffs.com,

I was researching where the Christmas tree ritual stemmed from, why cut down the tree, why put the tree on a stand, decorate it with shinny traditionally red colored balls (Baubles)

…..During my research I did find some surprises that it stems back to PAGAN Rome and Egypt, and how the tree is believed to be tied in with Nimrod.

…..Who was Nimrod?
Nimrod was a Mesopotamian monarch mentioned in Genesis, and who figures in many legends and folktales. Basically Nimrod was in fact a Biblical figure -- the great-grandson of Noah. He was a haughty king who declared himself a "mighty one in the earth," founded the great city of Babylon, and presided over the construction of the mythical Tower of Babel. Nimrod was also a renowned hunter, though at least one source we found claimed his game of choice was not animals but men, whom he would enslave upon capture. Whatever his prey, his name became synonymous with a skilled hunter and the woods. Nimrod meets with an untimely death.

…..But I digress;
Now back to the tree and where MissBonnie evil thoughts are leading. I won't go into the semantics as they are religious and I don't wish to offend any ones views or religious beliefs.

…..So how does this entire history lesson tie into the tree?
pagans believe it had become customary to use an erect evergreen tree that has a pointed end decorate it with big red balls you will soon realize the extent of the perversion in this holiday. THis erect tree during pagan times was used to symbolize Nimrod's erect masculinity. The tree was evergreen because evergreen trees are full of life year round, just like Nimrod's penis. The tree was pointed at the end just like Nimrod's pecker. The big red balls that dangle off the tree... well you get the picture. This holiday is perversion at its best to good to pass up *evil grin*.

…..This idea got my mind racing.
Why not have a penis decorating competition. What better way is there is to have a truly perverted Femdom Christmas? This is your chance to shine and show us all how clever, and creative you are.

The limits are only your imagination.
Imaginative entries attract attention, attention gets you prizes.
What are you wanting for?

…..Go on get creative!!!

Deck the dick with boughs of holly
Fa-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la
'Tis the season for Femdom jolly
Fa-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la
Don we now our colored tinsel
Fa-la-la, la-la-la, la-la-la.
Pretty bows and balls that glisten
Fa-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la.

See the blazing dick before us.
Fa-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la
Dress the dick and join the chorus.
Fa-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la
Follow me in Femdom pleasure.
Fa-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la
While I tell of Yule-tide treasure.
Fa-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la

Submit your photo entry to the forum thread (you can find it here)and you will be registered for a chance to win.

Each entry needs to be added as a new topic in the contest section (start a new thread) you may enter as many entries as you wish.
Dead line for entries is 23rd December 2008

All pictures to entry/s must be your own original content and added as an attachment (If you are unsure on how to do this contact admin)

JUDGING:

Once all the entries are in, the contest threads will be closed. Admin will set up a poll on the top of each thread submission and registered forum members can all vote for the favorite entry.
Dead line for entries is 23rd December 2008
Polls for voting will be listed on (or around) the 24th and run till the 3 rd January 2009
Admin will announce the winner with the most votes on or after 3rd January 2009
prize will be mailed soon after.
(If a tie occurs outside judges will be consulted)

PRIZE:

the winner with the highest vote count chosen by forum members will receive one fully adjustable Chastity belt (please note NOT leather, we can’t send leather through customs) This CB is suitable for short time wear and has a very pleasing visual appeal. The CB has three padlocked adjustment areas, a double cock ring cup, creating a snug fit. The CB also has a has an anal ring if added attachment are required creating a very versatile unit.

See photos bellow for greater detail.

CONDITIONS:

You must be a member of CollarNcuffs.com forum to enter. And at least of made one Forum post (saying hello is a great way to start) and filled out your profile (MPS My Personal Space). For example for profiles you can follow this link to my profile HERE please note some images may not show unless your a member of CollarNcuffs.com

Profiles that display a blank user pic will be disqualified from entry. Avatars/Images are fine, stock forum images are also fine 'no image selected' is NOT fine.

All members can vote, but vote only once on each thread submission. Contestants are encouraged to cajole, bribe, entice, and beg members to vote for them, and even refer new members to sign up on the site to vote - but those caught creating false profiles just to stuff the ballot box, will be disqualified. And yes, we DO have WAYS.

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The Ultimate Kinky showgirl contest

2008-10-30T11:40:00.003+11:00

reposted with permission from Ms 160's Abode
(if you wish to leave a comment could you please do so
on Ms 160 origal post so all contest comments can be kept togehter)

NOTE: Because the HTML Guide is not working
for group posts at MyDungeonSpace, the entire
contest post has been posted here on my blog.
You will find info on the theme of the contest below
plus details on how to enter, prizes, rules etc.
Then return to the FF group's contest thread

THE JUDGES DISCUSS....

“I advocate glamour. Every day. Every minute”
Dita Von Teese

The ultimate kinky showgirl ... what will our submissive contestants from Ms160's Forced Feminization group make of this theme?

The judges adore it. Like Dita Von Teese, the judges of this latest contest extravaganza - Mistress160, Miss Bonnie and Mistress Amor - love the glamor of burlesque, of the striptease: "There’s sparkle", mused Miss Bonnie from our sponsor CollarNCuffs, when the judges discussed the proposed theme of this contest:

There’s glitter ...wicked idea ... ‘Burlesque‘ I love it, so sexy and ultra Femme ... I think burlesque, my mind drifts immediately conjuring up the sirens of the past like the Ziegfeld follies and Gypsy Rose Lee, my childhood idols ... Gypsy was best known for her ‘intelligent sexy alluring strip tease’ style of performance ... [she] was the legendary woman who told the police during a raid at the famous Minsky's burlesque house, "I wasn't naked. I was completely covered by a blue spotlight"

"what a wonderful idea Mistress 160 I don't think you could have found a more ultra Femme and sexy contest idea ''

Mistress Amor agreed:

"I am dying to see pasties, feathers, pretty clothes, jewels (plastic ones will do) … and for those of you who dare, and we know that you all are shameless, this is what Dita Von Teese says on wearing lingerie: “It puts the tease in strip tease”

"Do I need to say more? Any glamorous strippers out there?"

Are there, boys? But as Mistress Amor observed:

"But burlesque is not only about glamour and strip tease it is also about drama, comedy … acting. Whatever pose you choose for your pictures bring your character alive. The judges want to be entertained! Give us a great burlesque show"

And that's what this contest is all about ... "give us a show boys", demands Mistress160:

"this will be a cross dresser's dream of an event ... entertain us ...entrance us ... dance for us ... dress for us ... undress for us ... make us desire you ... make us laugh with you ... show us your hidden talents ... your pretty can-can stockings, with pasties over your nipples .... show us your desires to be the ultimate showgirl ... and add your own kink or fetish (high heels, perhaps, lol) into it somewhere if you like!"

A BIT ABOUT BURLESQUE

So what exactly is a showgirl?

"A dancer or performer in a stage entertainment show", says Wiki. Which is a totally useless description if ever I heard one. Thank God we have all seen photos of the amazing dancers at venues like Folies Bergère and Moulin Rouge in Paris, the latter famous for it's Can Can, captured here by artist Toulouse Lautrec:

These venues pioneered semi-nude dancing - at the Moulin Rouge in 1907 an actress called Germaine Aymos entered dressed only in three very small shells - and tableaux vivants. These days we are used to more production line shows. In Las Vegas there are so many these days (such as Jubilee! ) but who could forget the showgirls of The Fabulous Palm Springs Follies in Palm Springs who's chorus line is of showgirls well over their fiftieth year:

If they can still look amazing, just imagine how the contestants of this contest will look!

We could have called this the Ultimate Ecdysiast Contest. "Ecdysiast" is the dictionary term for a "striptease artist", a performer who provides erotic entertainment by undressing to music. But it just didn't have the right ring as a title, LOL. Traditionally, the "striptease artists" of burlesque created elaborate themes and costumes to add fantasy to their shows and find new ways to undress to music.

Today this survives as "new burlesque", says Wiki:

"a revival and updating of the traditional burlesque performance. Though based on the traditional Burlesque art, the new form encompasses a wider range of performance styles; Neo-burlesque acts can be anything from classic striptease to modern dance to theatrical mini-dramas to comedic mayhem"

What's important perhaps for our contestants to remember - or not, lol - is that this contemporary form is focused more on the "tease" in "striptease" than the "strip". This is a famous quote mentioned by Mistress Amor by the queen of modern burlesque, Dita Von Teese, who's style as Miss Bonnie says, "has put a modern edge to classic burlesque".

A BIT ABOUT DITA VON TEASE

Wiki writes:

"Von Teese is well known for her fascination with 1940s cinema and classic retro style. This began at a young age and was fostered by her mother ... a fan of old, Golden-era Hollywood films... [she] began her career in a local strip club when she was eighteen. Disappointed with the lack of originality in all the other strippers' acts ... she began glamour modeling before she eventually became a fetish model. Her retro pin-up look, frequently emulating Bettie Page in photo shoots, set her apart from most other fetish models.
"Von Teese ... is frequently dubbed "the Queen of Burlesque" in the press ... In her own words, she "puts the tease back into striptease" with long, elaborate dance shows with props and characters, often inspired by 1930s and 1940s musicals and films.
"Some of her more famous dances have involved a carousel horse, a giant powder compact, a filigree heart and a clawfoot bathtub with a working shower head. Her feather fan dance, inspired by burlesque dancer Sally Rand, featured the world's largest feather fans, now on display in Hollywood's Museum Of Sex. Her signature show features a giant martini glass.
Photo Courtesy:
Daily Mail UK April 2008
Dita Performing In Martini Glass

Dita is not just a showgirl, many of her projects have a kinky, fetish edge, which of course relates to the theme of our contest:

"Von Teese achieved some level of recognition in the fetish world as a tightlacer ... [she] appeared on a number of fetish magazine covers, including Bizarre and Marquis [and] appeared, bound and partially suspended, on the cover of Midori's book, The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage...

You can see why Dita makes such a perfect example of a kinky showgirl. We are sure she will equally inspire you! And because Dita loves corsets so much - indeed, is a serious tightlacer - our sponsor CollarNCuffs has kindly donated a corset as a prize for the ultimate winner:

Now that is a prize worth pursuing...

So how do our contestants become kinky showgirls? There's a wealth of ideas in the information above. And many other sites will provide inspiration. You will find more about Dita and photographs of her fabulous style on her official website here. It's a pay site, but there are plenty of free pages you can explore. You can also watch Dita on YouTube here and here. And, because I cannot resist - and because this is why they call it the art of the striptease, guys, lol:

You can find lots of wonderful sites featuring showgirl costumes, like this one. And of course plenty of places online sell them. However we hope our contestants will only look at those sites for ideas and assemble at least part of their final costume themselves. Because you don't need to spend much money to create something pretty amazing from your local crafts store. And there are plenty of places online with idea to help (how to create a showgirl costume / how to make a big showgirl headdress / etc). After all, a stunning showgirl may only wear her panties and pasties ... it's all in the presentation, how you make the judges believe that YOU are the Ultimate Kinky Showgirl!

Want to take part? Here's the info you need:

"ULTIMATE KINKY SHOWGIRL
CONTEST"

1) RULES:

You must be a member of MyDungeonSpace's Forced Feminization group (it's free to join - click on MDS to join, then click here for the Forced Fem group ). The contest thread is here

Contest is open to all genders

Subs of judges may enter

Each member may submit up to three photos of themselves wearing an "Ultimate Kinky Showgirl" themed outfit / pose (your Mistress does not need to be visible)

Photos are to be uploaded in the Forced Fem group's gallery by 30 November 2008

2) JUDGES:

three absolutely stunning Mistresses who can striptease with the best of them, lol: Mistress160 and Miss Bonnie, and please welcome as a judge for the first time: Mistress Amor!

3) WHAT THE JUDGES ARE LOOKING FOR:

Well lit, in focus photos. Your face does not have to appear

You may submit three photos of the same outfit (perhaps: front, back and a detail) or you can wear a different outfit in each pic. Please make sure the outfit can clearly be seen in your photos

For the first time we may accept short videos. Discuss issues of format / length / place to submit them etc with Mistress160 prior to submission

There are several parts to this competition:

all contestants must select a special stage name to reflect their ‘burlesque / showgirl personality’ for the contest. Don't create a new ID at MDS. Just include the name in your post on the contest thread to confirm you have submitted your photos, and explain why you have chosen that name.
contestants' outfits must reflect the theme ""Ultimate Kinky Showgirl"" and /or
must include actions or a pose (or series of poses) that expand on that theme

Contestants who address both parts 2 and 3 in their photos will score higher. For example, a photo showing the contestant standing in a showgirl costume addresses the first part; a photo of the contestant in a showgirl outfit dancing for his Mistress, or posing provocatively with his eyes on the judges (ie, facing the camera) addresses both.

Judges may also award prizes for various categories, such as:

Best Burlesque / Showgirl Stage Name
Best Headdress
Sexiest Diva
Best Acting
Sluttiest Showgirl
Best Pasties
Best Striptease
Best Makeup
Kinkiest Showgirl
Best Ass (previous holders of this title will have to submit for further judgement :))

Additional marks will be given for extra effort for personal presentation (such as perfectly painted nails, professionally arranged hair or make up, etc) or thoughtful additions (for example, if the contestant would like the judges to listen to a specific piece of music while judging their entries). Please bring these details to the attention of judges via the message you post on the contest thread to confirm you have uploaded photos

Judges will award higher marks for any contestant who uses Dita Von Teese as their inspiration source

4) PRIZES:

Winner will be presented with "Ultimate Kinky Showgirl Contest" Photo Award and have this title added to your winning photo in the Forced Fem group gallery. Highly commended prizes will also be awarded.

CollarNCuffs will also present the winner with a corset of the style shown, in the size of their choice. Many thanks to Miss Bonnie and CollarNCuffs (for all your Femdom needs, resources and chatrooms)

All prize winning photos will also be published in a post about the contest on Mistress160's personal blog, and on the blogs of other judges

6) Contestants: PLEASE READ THIS SECTION CAREFULLY!!!:

Open to members of the Forced Fem group only. Please join if you wish to enter

If you have a Mistress / Owner please make sure you obtain their permission

Mistresses / Owners: you are of course most welcome to assist your sub behind the scenes and post messages on the contest thread (which we definitely encourage!) but please remember your sub MUST register and post photos / messages themselves

Contestants without owners: if you have anyone (such as another member of MDS) giving you a hand, please acknowledge this so that other contestants know not to take advice from the same person

Subs, please lodge a post in the contest thread to register to compete

Please lodge a post at the time you upload your entry photos in the Forced Gem Gallery (providing the judges with information about why / how you selected your stage name and outfit, the photo shoot, and any other details you would like to include, will result in a higher mark)

Each photo you submit must be clearly titled "Contest4" then give the name of the member and the number of the photo if you enter more than one image (ie: "Contest4_solipsist_pic2")

Photos should be specifically photographed for the contest and not previously be seen in the gallery (you can wear an outfit we have seen before but the photo must be new)

The contest will close midnight 30 November 2008, and the winner / other prizes will be announced later that week.

Contestants, register here (or join MyDungeonSpace first).

Good Luck from Ms160 and the Judges!

NEVER ENTERED ONE OF MS160'S CONTESTS
(BUT WOULD LIKE TO?)

"the whole competition was a blast!..

"i really encourage anybody who is even a little bit curious to enter the next one. they're very fun, very low pressure, and a great way to be part of the community and meet new people. thanks again to Mistress 160, the mastermind of the whole operation"

(veritas - Winner of Best Ass in Babydoll Contest)

"what a fun time to be expressive and creative and have fun at the same time. I certainly would like to encourage all the tarty sluts out there to participate in the next one ... Good luck to everyone and come on and have some fun!"
(mont202 - Winner of Princess Contest)

"you could feel the joy emanating from the other contestants as they described their shopping / picture taking experiences. Very positive feelings ...

"i felt all kinds of emotions during this contest and i embraced them and watched others go through similar feelings on the topic. No answers, no coming down on one side or the other ... It was bizarre and different and provocative. A rich experience. i couldn't ask for more".
(Destiny's chance - winner of Special Artistic Award)

Ms160 writes:

We'd love you to join this contest. Truly.

As you can see from what other contestants have written above, everyone has a really great time. There are no "losers" in my contests. You get to meet - and interact with - some great people, including the Domme Judges and other members of MDS' Forced Fem group. You also get to challenge yourself a little - purchasing your outfit, taking the photos, posting them etc...

You don't need to have an owner or a Mistress, its possible to take your pix yourself and if you are stuck for ideas you can discuss what you want to wear / how you plan to look in your photos with other members.

Past contests include the Princess Contest (won by mont202 as Xena, on the left) and Best Babydoll Outfit (won by quall from Turkey). The current contest, featuring a burlesque / striptease theme, promises to be especially fun.

Any questions?

You can contact me via the cbox on this page or via my profile at MyDungeonSpace. Or drop any of the boys who entered previous contests a line. You can also read about contestant Destiny's chance's experiences in the following links:

Photos
of mont202: jade tiger
Princess contest montage: Miss Bonnie
Ultimate Kinky Showgirl contest montage: Miss Bonnie
Silver Slipper Photo from VegasRetro
Dita Von Teese in Martini Glass - Daily Mail UK

sequined showgirl outfit from Abfabulous

can can oufit from zoogstercostumes

Many thanks:
to CollarNCuffs for the prize
to Miss Bonnie of CNC for the contest banner
and to the always amazing Dita, who we hope will
forgive our associating her with this noble cause!

CALLING ALL AUSSIES

2008-10-22T14:22:00.003+11:00

Sorry to shout but I need your attention

I just read this on Ars Technica Ars Technica

To summarise:

"Australians may not be able to opt out of the government's Internet
filtering initative like they were originally led to believe...
Australia moved forward with its plans despite a widespread public
outcry and began testing the system in Tasmania in February of this
year. At the time, the Australian Communications and Media Authority
(ACMA) said that the filter would be enabled by default and that
consumers would have to request unfiltered connectivity if they
wished to opt-out of the program. Well, it turns out now that those
promises were only partially true. Internode network engineer Mark
Newton told Computerworld that users are able to opt out of
the "additional material" blacklist - which targets content
inappropriate for children - but not the main blacklist that filters
what the Australian government determines is illegal content. "This
is the way the testing was formulated, the way the upcoming live
trails will run, and the way the policy is framed; to believe
otherwise is to believe that a government department would go to the
lengths of declaring that some kind of Internet content is illegal,
then allow an opt-out", Newton said. "Illegal is illegal and if there
is infrastructure in place to block it, then it will be required to
be blocked - end of story." A spokesperson for the Australian
Communications Minister seemed to confirm this revation by saying
that the filters would be required for all Australian citizens." So
apart from the speed hit the internet would take, filters could mean
that content deemed illegal would be banned. This includes: " No
depiction of violence, sexual violence, sexualised violence or
coercion is allowed in the category. It does not allow sexually
assaultive language. Nor does it allow consensual depictions which
purposefully demean anyone involved in that activity for the
enjotment of viewers. Fetishes such as body piercing, application of
substances such as candle wax,"golden showers", bondage, spanking or
fisting are not permitted."

Would Blogger or my own personal site CollarNcuffs.com then become a banned site, for instance, as it has
photos of the above activities? the answer is YES

Electronic Frontiers have set up a site about this
http://nocleanfeed.com/index.html
which explains actions you can
take. Have a look...I urge you all to NOT stick your head in the sand

heres the link again
http://nocleanfeed.com/index.html

Aussie's please cross post this where ever you can, this effects more than
our 'porn' This plan will waste tens of millions of taxpayer dollars
and slow down Internet access.

Despite being almost universally condemned by the public, ISPs, State
Governments, Media and censorship experts, Communications Minister
Stephen Conroy is determined to force this filter into your home.
Don't let him!

Take action now, every little bit helps
heres what you can do
http://nocleanfeed.com/takeaction.html

source information for original 'summary' taken from various areas on the internet
http://arstechnica.com/news.ars/post/20081016-net-filters-required-for-all-australians-no-opt-out.html
http://news.theage.com.au/technology/australias-plans-to-filter-internet-under-fire-20080102-1jwl.html
http://www.computerworld.com.au/index.php/id;1399635276;fp;16;fpid;0
http://www.computerworld.com.au/index.php/id;420013177
http://arstechnica.com/news.ars/post/20081016-net-filters-required-for-all-australians-no-opt-out.html
http://arstechnica.com/news.ars/post/20070814-australia-to-spend-189-million-on-anti-porn-initiative.html
http://www.minister.dbcde.gov.au/media/media_releases/2008/060
http://blog.nocleanfeed.com/
http://www.somebodythinkofthechildren.com/
http://www.nocleanfeed.com/
http://libertus.net/
http://defendingscoundrels.com/
http://broadbannedrevolution.blogspot.com/
http://www.acma.gov.au/WEB/HOMEPAGE/PC=HOME
http://www.dbcde.gov.au/

Its contest time again

2008-07-24T12:40:00.004+10:00

Its competition time again, we have a new look to our community forum and members personal sections and pages with blogs, galleries, personal guestbooks and profiles on our Free site at CollarNcuffs.com, so we want to give you something new and free also to celebrate. We look smart so now its your turn.

HOW TO ENTER
To enter the competition all you have to is write either a Femdom story/poem or a ‘how to’ page that can used in the resource section…..Simple hey!.
I just want to give stuff away to celebrate So I‘m being very flexible with the format.

Your entry/s must your own original material and not published else where.
Entries may include photos and/or art work. use your imagination and have fun with your entry/s. Stories, poems and resource pages are great, but dressed up with some pics WOW now, that’s got to get our attention. This is your chance to shine and show us all how clever, and creative you are.

Submit your “entry” to the forum and you will be registered for a chance to win.
Each entry needs to be added as a new topic in the contest section (start a new thread)
You may enter as many entries as you wish.
Dead line for entries is 23rd August 2008
All pictures (if added) to entry/s must be your own original content (or Creative Commons copyright) and must be placed and linked from your personal album.
(if you are unsure on how to do this contact admin)

SOME IDEAS AND SUGGESTIONS:

Write a Femdom story it could be real or just a fantasy you have.

Write a Femdom ode or poem. Poems may even be dedicated to your partner.

Why not write a Femdom story and include some personal pictures or art works showing ‘just‘ what happened, or use pics to set the scene.

You could recreate that CBT scene you had, or dream off, maybe even give instructions if story writing is not your thing.

Or how mistress has you chastity, what CB’s are, how they work, the impact on the mind, body, relationship

Or how she likes you to dress. Do you have advise on clothing selections or ‘how too’ instructions for ‘forced Femme’ maybe corsets are you thing, how do you care for them, find the right sizing, correct lacing, what’s the history of corsets?

Maybe your good at giving a manicure, manicure or sensual massage...instructions and pics on the process could make for interesting resource page.

Recourse page entries need to be instructional , factual, or informative, or at the least ’food for thought’

have you made a toy or planning on making a toy. Why not include photos of your progress and finished item.
Good with rope? What about a step by step instruction page with pictures.
Got a Femdom game you play? Instructions would be a wonderful addition.

The limits are only your imagination.
Imaginative entries attract attention, attention gets you prizes.
What are you wanting for…go on get creative!!!

JUDGING:

Once all the entries are in, the contest threads will be closed. Admin will set up a poll on the top of each thread submission and registered forum members can all vote for the favourite entry.
Dead line for entries is 23rd August 2008
Polls for voting will be listed on the 24th and run till the 30th August 2008
Admin will announce the winner with the most votes after September 1st 2008
prize choice will be mailed soon after.
(If a tie occurs outside judges will be consulted)

PRIZES:

the winner with the highest vote count chosen by forum members will be able to select one pack from our prizes of their own personal choice.
20 Prizes packs with details will be listed under this thread.
The winner will be able to pick of their own personal choice.
Admin will also pick one more additional winner for most 'creative ad unusual entry' who will also be able to choose a price pack

CONDITIONS:

You must be a member of CollarNcuffs.com forum to enter. And at least of made one Forum post (saying hello is a great way to start) and filled out your profile (MPS My Personal Space).

Profiles that display a blank user pic will be disqualified from entry. Avatars/Images are fine, stock forum images are also fine 'no image selected' is NOT fine.

All members can vote, but vote only once on each thread submission. Contestants are encouraged to cajole, bribe, entice, and beg members to vote for them, and even refer new members to sign up on the site to vote - but those caught creating false profiles just to stuff the ballot box, will be disqualified. And yes, we DO have WAYS.

Any member, individual, couple, or business may enter. Your submissions should be creative, reflect who you are and have a Femdom theme. Don't pretend to be someone you're not just to make a more impressive entry.

Winners agree to provide a name and address to Admin in order for the prize to be sent via mail (if chosen). In the event a winner does not provide a name and mailing address, the winner forfeits any claims to their prize. Mailed parcels are sent as discreetly as possible in plain unmarked packaging. In the event prizes are mailed outside of Australia a customs declaration will be filled out to suit the relevant prizes nature and marked ‘household goods’ or ‘personal items’ or ‘clothing’ All parcels will be marked ‘gift/present‘.

Prizes can be transferable to another forum member, please note offering your prize to another member does not leave said member indebted to you in any way. IE this is not a ‘tribute’ or taken as ‘payment’ prize items transferred are seen as gifts and nothing more. Transferred prize recipients will contacted on the winners behalf by Admin.

prizes cannot be redeemed for cash.

Moderators of chatrooms and forums are eligible to enter as their position in this area does not give them access to voting counts or special privileges.

By submitting an entry you are verifying that the work is your own creation and that the submission may be published as we see fit in any medium on our website and/or blog

Topics that are off limits
(Anyone under the age of 18, SPAM of any kind, Advertising of any kind, Incest, Bestiality (sex with animals), Insults, or flames Libel, Age play, Snuff topics, or those involving death of yourself, or another)

Admin reserve the right to delete inappropriate submissions and refuse contest entries.

Wondering what prizes are on offer ?

full photo packs of prizes can be seen on the sites

Masturbate-a-thon

2008-05-07T23:27:00.003+10:00

I know, I know I really should post some thing juicy. but you'll have to wait.
right now I want to share this

The Centre For Sex And Culture is set to hold its annual Masturbate-A-Thon in San Fransico at 1519 Mission Street on Sunday 25th of May as part of Masturbation Month which is held in various countries all over the globe. CSC is a non profit organisation which is dedicated to promoting sexual freedom and safety. It offers a variety of classes and workshops which promote a sex positive reality.

The doors will be open at 9am for those attempting to break the record or 3pm for other participants. There are designated areas where you can take part solo or in same sex groups and if you feel up to it you can go public in the webcast area http://www.masturbate-a-thon.com/liveFeeds.php The main area will be mixed sex (male and female).

Last year the longest time spent masturbating was presented to a man who spent 8 hours and 40 minutes entertaining himself. Wow! I bet he was more than a little sore and would make a great candidate for CBT. The women’s record was set in 2004 the participant managed a staggering 6 hours and 30 minutes. Now, if I was her subbie I‘d be taking suba lessons. The distance award which started last year is set at 36 inches.

If you wish to participate in the event there is a registration fee of $20 and the pledge sheet is available to download here. The great thing about this event is that you can take part at home if you wish to. Right, now I better go and get some practice in… :twisted:
But if you wish to read the official press release here you go http://www.masturbate-a-thon.com/PressRelease.php

The Center for Sex and Culture's National Masturbation Month plans once again include a Live Masturbate-a-Thon in San Francisco. the Center for Sex & Culture will hold the seventh annual fund-raising live Masturbate-a-Thon on May 25, 2008. Doors will open at 12:00 for those attempting to set this year's time record, and at 3:00 pm for regular participants who do not anticipate needing a full nine hours for their participation. The event is one of many National Masturbation Month events planned around the US, Canada, and Europe. Unlike most of the others, the CSC's Masturbate-a-Thon is a live group event at which participants will raise funds by getting others to sponsor them for the length of time they masturbate. CSC will hold the event at 1519 Mission Street in San Francisco. Founded by San Francisco's women-focused sex toy company Good Vibrations in the wake of then-Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders' firing for stating that masturbation "is perhaps something that should be taught" about when discussing youth sexual options, National Masturbation Month seeks to raise awareness and dispel shame about this most common and natural of sexual activities. Good Vibrations and its sister sex toy stores and sex-positive
nonprofits have been celebrating National Masturbation Month since 1995. The Masturbate-a-Thon became the centerpiece of National Masturbation Month when it
was added to Good Vibrations' slate of activities a few years later. GV has historically sponsored the Masturbate-a-Thon as a private event, as most masturbation is; the Center for Sex & Culture followed the lead of a private organization in Salt Lake City in celebrating it as a group activity.The Center for Sex & Culture Masturbate-a-Thons typically raise close to $5000.00 from participants and their sponsors, who pledge any amount they choose per minute
(or hour) to support their friends' efforts. At last year’s event the Longest Time Spent Masturbating award was presented to a man who spent 8 hours and 40 minutes engaged in self-pleasuring; the women’s record has been unbroken since 2004, when a female participant masturbated for 6 hours and 30 minutes. The event’s Most Orgasms Award is held by a woman who came 49 times during the Live London Masturbate-a-Thon in 2006 (filmed for British Channel 4). The distance record, begun last year, is currently 36 inches, held by a male, though in that competition a woman ejaculator came in at second place. The Most Funds Raised Award hovers near $1000.Who participates in a live Masturbate-a-Thon? Not surprisingly, representatives from various San Francisco sexual subcultures attend to "come for a cause"; the Center for Sex & Culture is arranging this year's co-sponsorships among gay men's clubs, erotica producers, and other sexual adventurers. Separate areas of the Masturbate-a-Thon site will be set aside for men who would prefer to masturbate together and women who want a single-sex space, with the rest of the room a mixed-gender venue. Only part of the room will be set aside for the webcast cameras, so less exhibitionistic attendees can participate somewhat more privately. Participants have also been drawn to past Masturbate-a-Thons to publicly acknowledge the importance of solo sexuality in their lives, so not everyone handing in a pledge sheet will be a committed erotic adventurer; many will never have done anything like this before. Tony, a 2004 first-time participant from Los Angeles, emailed CSC afterwards to thank them for setting up a space where he could feel comfortable and let go of the shame that had been instilled in him about masturbation. CSC director Queen comments: "People like Tony are everywhere; most of us engage in self-pleasure, but there is so little support for doing so that it can become a source of distress. This is exactly why National Masturbation Month is needed; people need to understand that self-stimulation is common, pleasurable, healthful, and nothing to worry about."Word of the Masturbate-a-Thon has spread around the globe. Online participants have come from as far away as Europe,Asia, and Australia; in past years press hits have come in from South Africa, France, Brazil, Ireland, India, New Zealand, and elsewhere. Pledge sheets and co-sponsorship links will be available soon at the Masturbate-a-Thon's website. Participants can download a pledge sheet and begin collecting pledges right away; after the Masturbate-a-Thon they will let their pledgers know how much to remit. Pledges can be paid by check and sent to CSC; they can also be remitted via the event website. All monies raised will be used to support the Center for Sex & Culture's educational and sex-positive cultural programming. People who wish to participate but who can't find pledgers may pledge themselves at any amount plus pay a $20.00 entry fee. Supporters who live too far away to attend can tune in to the webcast on May 25; interested parties who prefer a private Masturbate-a-Thon can download the pledge sheet, stay home and participate, and remit by mail.The Masturbate-a-Thon’s official website is www.masturbate-a-thon.com. Good
Vibrations's site is www.goodvibes.com.
Visitors to these sites and Masturbate-a-Thon participants should be 18 and over only.The Center for Sex & Culture (CSC) received its nonprofit status in late 2002 and was declared "Best Emerging Sex Nonprofit" in the San Francisco Bay Guardian's Best of the Bay issue in June 2004. It is open by appointment and for events. (It does not yet maintain regular drop-in hours.) The Center for Sex & Culture is a volunteer organization that subsists on donations from the public, including donations of books, art, videos, archival materials, etc. CSC's mailing address (where donations can be sent) is 2215-R Market Street, #455, San Francisco, CA 94114. Website donations can be made at www.sexandculture.org. Telephone: (415)
255-1155

I can't help myself, I have to put one more youtube :lol: It seems so fitting

Dominant Damsels Birthday

2008-04-21T10:55:00.005+10:00

Born on April 22, 1923, in Nashville, Tennessee

With locks as dark as midnight and a smile as bright as day, Bettie Page was much more than a beautiful pinup model, she was simply the best. A legend as much today as during her modeling days, every facet of Bettie's life and personality captures the interest and devotion of the thousands of fans that followed her career until the day of her mysterious disappearance.

Bettie's numerous contradictions undoubtedly added to her charismatic personality. Nice and naughty, shy and daring, simple and exotic, Bettie shone with a freshness never before seen in the modeling industry. Without elaborate props, costumes, or set-dressings, Bettie produced some of the most beautiful shots to ever grace the covers of hundreds of magazines. Bettie's smoothly tanned skin, deep blue eyes and coal-black hair with her trademark bangs, were enough inspiration to spark the imagination of even the least experienced photographers. Her "girl next door" look and innocent smile only complemented that explosive combination of features.

Through the 1980s and the 1990s, Bettie Page re-surged as a modeling icon. The media, intrigued by her mysterious disappearance launched a countrywide search for Bettie. Comic books soon featured characters that resembled Bettie, contemporary artists such as Olivia, Dave Stevens, and Robert Blue immortalized their idol with their powerful images. Today, Bettie is enjoying her private life with her family.

Bettie's undeniable influence is present still today in fashion, films, and magazines just to name a few. The dark-haired girl from Nashville has become a living legend, a modern icon, a symbol of beauty and femininity that transcends ordinary standards. In the heart of her adoring fans, Bettie will forever remain the queen of pinup.

for more Betty

Tag I'm it

2008-04-16T22:43:00.005+10:00

Ohhh crap I've been tagged

As Saratoga wrote in this post, the rules of the game are:

-Write your own six word memoir
-Post it on your blog and include a visual illustration if you’d like
-Link to the person that tagged you in your post
-Tag five more Blogs with links
-And don’t forget to leave a comment on the tagged Blogs with an invitation to play

Saratoga wrote the below

For quite some time, I suppose the salient characteristic of my approach to life
is to explore new intellectual, emotional and/or personal terrain while
leaving behind things which are no longer useful or necessary. A graduate
school friend once remarked on my ability to continually change and reshape
myself according to my current needs and planned explorations.
Thus, like Nina, describing what I consider to be a hallmark of my life is also pretty
easy. The concept was instantly clear- it just took a little effort to get the exact wording right.
My six-word memoir:

Pushing new frontiers without unnecessary baggage.

Now that I've had my fun, I
tag Lenora, Milliscent, Bonnie, MsSnS and MsCatwoman to play.

I hate being tagged but seeing it’s Saratoga I'll give it ago.

Ever Moving Forward Never Looking Back

Forever:
because I know I’ve meet my soul mate for forever.

Moving:
I never stop moving. Moving either as in movement sake or moving house is always ever present on my mind. Riding moving with the road.

Forward:
I love the direction my life has taken. When I was in my early 20’s I never imagined life could take me where it has. I still have many more years and wonderful adventures and travels planed. Standing still you forget to learn. Still to me means stagnating.

Never:
I have this list of ‘Never’
never do ‘this’ or ‘that‘, this year I decided I decided to increase moving, better the forward directions I’m taking and turn some of those never do’s into must conquer and do’s and add to my never have to conquer again list

Looking:
I’m always looking for new ways, new adventures, new toys, new skills. I always tell my boys you never know what you’ll find unless you looking around you. Stop looking and things pass you by.

Back:
a place from back there that’s gone. A person from back there that’s gone. A family from back there that’s gone. A past that shaped me into a person Forever Moving Forward Never Looking Back.

I’ve picked this picture because it’s my new toy, it sort of links my past to my present plus give me ‘movement’ I grew up on the right side of tracks but choose to hang out on the other side. My life was full of bikes, subbiebikers, and misadventures. I seek adrenaline and they gave it too me. As I’ve aged this part of me kept returning…the bikers are long gone now but that addiction remains. I guess no matter how much we change and grow over the years something’s of our past never do. Hey at least now I can wear more leathers ;-)

I’m choosing not tag five, as reading back through most of the bloggers have already been tagged LOL

Show some love..please :)

2008-04-02T15:11:00.004+11:00

We are in the final stretch now, only two more weeks of voting before this years winners are crowned! To vote in this stage, simply click on the link below and select from the drop down names available. Please remember that these names are the top contenders in their respective categories and achieved the minimum number of votes to advance.

please vote for CollarNcuffs.com we are free resource and community site which is a free site, totally advertisement free, and receives no funding or sponsorship from pay sites. Getting this far in the voting process (stage two making the short list) has been an honor, thank you to every one who helped get us this far..getting an award would be a major achievement

scroll down to 'best free site' and vote for 'CollarNcuffs'

http://www.bondageawards.com/stage_two_voting.asp

Violence & Discrimination Survey

2008-03-31T16:13:00.004+11:00

Please take a minute to fill out the anonymous Violence & Discrimination Survey, even if you have not been a victim of violence or discrimination. Thank you!
Click here to take the survey.

Why You Should Care

Because your sexual expression...

Can result in discrimination, prosecution, and even violence against you
Can cause you to lose your children
Can cause you to lose your job or your income
Can lead you into a maze of antiquated laws and regulations you never even knew existed
Is arbitrarily criminalized by state and local authorities
Is used by the radical right to marginalize minority groups
Can result in the invasion of your privacy by the government, both within your own home or in educational, social and group environments

Please help us by taking a moment to fill out this survey even if you have not been a victim of discrimination or violence. We are tracking demographics of our community and we also need to know the types of crimes, discrimination, harassment and abuses of authority that occur based on sexual expression or the perceived association with BDSM-Leather-Fetish groups. This is an anonymous survey being distributed to the BDSM-Leather-Fetish communities throughout the world. We do not ask for your name, address or any other identifying information and all responses made on this website are fully encrypted. Any questions that require a response are marked with an asterisk. You may contact the authors of this survey by emailing surveybdsm@gmail.com, or by writing to us at: Survey of Violence and Discrimination, 875 Sixth Avenue Suite 1705, New York, NY 10001.Thank you for helping us raise the level of awareness of this important issue to our community. By completing this survey you are not only helping us to better understand ourselves, but you are helping in the fight for sexual freedom and sexual equality for all sexual minorities.

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In honour of amore competition

2008-01-25T14:06:00.000+11:00

Valentine's Day, a holiday honouring love and lovers, is celebrated on February 14th.

In the spirit of the holiday, we invite you to enter a little celebration

You can have the chance to win:

Grrl toyz pink play heart shaped paddle Spank your playmate into submission, demand control with this 12” by 3” studded paddle with wrist cord. Triple heart raised pattern is guaranteed to leave an impression. Also included in this prize pack Pink beaded nipple clamps by Spartacus Slim sleek and lovely, decorative (pic does not do justice) nipple clamps to adorn the body while creating a pleasurable sensation with out the weight of heavier clamps ,it’s your choice-adjustable for light pressure, or full strength intensity, rubber tipped for comfort and confident grip. Total prize value: $50

In honour of ‘Amore’

Being your slave what should I do but tend Upon the hours,

and times of your desire?

I have no precious time at all to spend;

Nor services to do, till you require.

Nor dare I chide the world without end hour,

Whilst I, my sovereign,

watch the clock for you,

Nor think the bitterness of absence sour,

When you have bid your servant once adieu;

Nor dare I question with my jealous thought Where you may be,

or your affairs suppose,

But, like a sad slave,

stay and think of nought Save, where you are,

how happy you make those.

So true a fool is love,

that in your will,

Though you do anything,

he thinks no ill.

~William shakspeare~ Sonnet 57

To enter the competition all you have to is write a poem/ ode/ or love letter.

The letter/ode/poem can be to you significant other or the partner of dreams, or in the true spirit of Valentines “to your secret Valentine” Submit your “In honour of Amore” entry to our thread on Collarncuffs.com's forum and you will be registered for a chance to win.

rules and conditions posted at collar N cuffs Forum.

"Serving Mistress contest results"

2007-12-09T21:08:00.002+11:00

I was recently a judge in another of Mistress 160's brilliant competitions held at MyDungeonSpacein the forced femme group. Many thanks to Ms160 for allowing me to judge, and for all her hard work.

Here are the contest results taken from directly from Mistress160abode All permissions granted to republish)

"Serving Mistress Contest" - Results

poppet - winning photo

Here are the results of my Serving Mistress contest, open to all members of my Forced Fem group at MyDungeonSpace. Many thanks again to judges (Miss Bonnie, Mistress Tich and Just Miss) and contestants!

JUDGES' FINAL REPORT

Each contestant was very special for two reasons. Firstly, none of them had competed in a contest like this before. Ms160 and the judges are very aware of the courage required to go public in a contest like this - especially without a Mistress / partner, and all contestants are to be highly commended for taking such a giant leap outside their comfort zones. The judges hope this experience has been a positive one and that they will return for future events!

Secondly, the judges applaud the high quality of the photo entries. Contestants without owners had to juggle self timing cameras while holding poses, but still did a terrific job. As did Mistress Amor, who took poppet's stunning pix. MzTich summed up the views of all the judges re Mistress Amor when she wrote "Congrats also to [poppet's] Mistress, his pics were great!"

The judges were also very impressed with how the contest theme of service was interpreted. Mistress 160 had purposely introduced a more complex theme into the "Serving Mistress" contest as a challenge to contestants, who were advised in the contest announcement post that more than simply submitting photos of themselves standing in a pretty costume was required. The result, observed Ms160 during judging was "well above the standard I expected ...some really extraordinary statements on D/s service have been submitted, which is really wonderful because it truly brings alive the contest theme of service".

MizTich noted "there [were] hard decisions ... all the contestants did a great job ... I love how each had different thoughts on "serving his Mistress"... Some very multi-faceted subs!" while Miss Bonnie concluded "the contestants all did amazingly well, and should all be very proud of their efforts. One winner is never enough for Ms160’s contests".

True enough! So let's get to the results (in no particular order):

SERVING MISTRESS CONTEST:
BEST ASS + LEGS AWARD

smoothbikini
(pics 1, 2 + 3)

"If I’m not mistaken he has longer
legs than me and I’m all legs!!"
(Miss Bonnie)

The judges couldn't resist creating this award after reviewing the photos.

But who should win it?! MzTich loved saucy's "patterned hose", while Ms160 and Miss Bonnie adored poppet's legs in their perfectly turned out lace up stockings and scarlet slippers, and his cheeky raised skirt showing his pretty panties. But when it came to best legs and ass in the contest one contestant stood out in the judges' minds...

In pic 1 smoothbikini poses coltishly and a tad precariously in fishnets and high heels, offering his Mistress:

"a bottle of her favorite vintage red wine with the softest bouquet to help her relax from the stress of running this contest. (one must possess a certain amount of female intuition to recognize the times when these gestures will be most appreciated. hopefully they will never go unrewarded)".

Of course not! "A romantic gesture is nice and considerate", JustMiss observed, "but having someone so eager to please to play with trumps all!". "Oh, look, how sweet, he's seriously sucking up the judges", laughed Ms 160, while MzTich wondered "is that a 'demure' look he's giving his Mistress as he presents her wine?"!

In this general award category the judges took all three of smoothbikini's pix into account. "Smoothbikini has done pretty well", continued Ms160: "He doesn't say anything in his notes about how he assembled the outfit, but its not bad". MzTich agreed: "I have to say for putting his outfit together by himself smoothbikini did well. I like his interpetation of how he'd serve his Mistress, as not all subs are 'service oriented'". "A great entry", noted Miss Bonnie: "He had the classic ‘black’ that’s normally associated with maid or service. ... I get the impression he tried very hard with what he had at hand, not many submissives have a maid outfit, so he achieved a very close facsimile, for fitting in with the contest theme of service". "The progression of [his photos] brought a smile to my face", wrote JustMiss.

And as for the attributes that won him this price, MzTich (who was very enamored of smoothbikini's footwear) noted: "because of his heels defining his calfs I'd have to say smoothbikini has some very nice leg". And the ass (seen in pic 2, see below)? Very tasty, said Ms160. MzTich agreed: "smoothbikini's has a nice one, hmmm what I could do with that cute ass...". The final word definitely goes to Miss Bonnie:

"smoothbikini is hands down winner for best ass and legs LOL I went to sleep after the main judging night thinking about that wine bottle and ass LOL If I’m not mistaken he has longer legs than me and I’m all legs!!"

SERVING MISTRESS CONTEST:
BEST LINGERIE WASHER

saucy
(pic 2)

"Saucy is folding those panties with
so much devotion and love"
(Ms160)

The judges created this award category after observing that two contestants entered photos exploring this theme: poppet's pic 2 and saucy's pic 2.

Poppet's pic 2 (which is discussed in detail in another award post) was "absolutely delightful ... everything matches, not only the shoes, panties and his lace up ribbons are red, but so is the washing line." (Ms160). All the judges adored the detail the photo contained, and poppet's lovely accessories (actually that should probably read Mistress Amor's lovely accessories as poppet is one of them).

However, after much discussion the judges choose saucy's pic 2. Saucy titled the image "Delicate washing" and wrote of it:

"This one means a lot to me personally. i take great pride in hand washing, hanging and maticulously folding delecates such as Mistress' panties. Then carefully placing them neatly in piles of matching colors as Mistress prefers and presenting them for Her inspection before tucking them away in Her dresser"

"This one means a lot to me, too", wrote Ms160:

"sol does my lingerie washing, this photo brings back wonderful memories that catch my heart. Saucy is folding those panties with so much devotion and love, I wish I could see his face, but I don't need to because I'm sure it would contain pride at a job perfectly done"

MzTich agreed: "there is something to be said in pic #2 for the care he bestows on Her lingerie, so lovingly. His pics were well lit and clear. I think he did very well by taking pics by himself. Great job!". " I absolutely loved the theme that was brought about in these pictures", wrote JustMiss, while for Miss Bonnie:

"pic 2 was my personal favourite, I liked the neat piles, colors matched, I’m a bitch if my panties are in a bundle LOL so it appealed to me. Nothing worse than getting ready to go out and not being able to find the colour or pair your looking for !!!"

SERVING MISTRESS CONTEST:
"THE SEXY, SASSY AND SLUTTY AWARD"

poppet
(pics 1, 2 + 3)

"He deserves this award. He covered all aspects
from sexy to slutty in three images!"
(Miss Bonnie)

The judges created this award inspired by saucy, who used the term to describe both his outfit and the state of mind that accompanied it:

"i chose this particular uniform to wear today because it is my favorite. it's sexy, sassy, and it's slutty. it's so befitting of a slut such as myself. i always feel special when Mistress allows me to wear it, i know it means that She thinks i've been good and She wishes to reward me for my behavior. When i wear it i can think of nothing more than serving and pleasing Her"

And indeed this perfectly described saucy's entries. The problem for the judges was that all three entrants were serious competitors for this title! Apart from saucy's seriously sassy look there was smoothbikini, looking a complete and utter tart as he slurps on a dildo in pic 3, undergoing:

"dildo training with Mistress. i feel as a submissive i need to offer my surrender as much physically as emotionally and the prospect of being 'taken' and penetrated by my dominant dildo-wielding Mistress can and will alter my perspective and disposition in a female-positive manner"

What a choice...

After hard debate, however, the judges choose to give this award to poppet for his pic 2., of which poppet wrote:

"poppet in a slightly cheeky pose whilst hanging out Owners freshly washed underwear to dry. poppet is wearing his maid’s outfit with black stockings with a red ribbon up the seam, his fluffy red slippers and matching black and red lace panties. The picture captures poppet’s true slutty nature in that he is flashing his bottom to the camera"

"Slightly cheeky??" queried Ms 160:"seriously, poppet's pic 2 is adorable. Everything matches, not only the shoes, panties and his lace up ribbons are red, but so is the washing line. It definitely shows his tarty cheeky (excuse the pun) side". "Kudos on the very well presented maids uniform. Very coordinated ... His sassy 2nd one is so cute, how could a Mistress resist him?", wrote MzTich, while JustMiss pointed out:

"aside from the neat appearance of the uniform and the poses that were chosen for each scene, there was one other detail that I noticed that stood out to me: each expression seemed perfectly fitting for the picture being taken".

Again, the final judging comment goes to Miss Bonnie:

" I can hear all the Mistress’ reading this thread (afterwards) sighing in want! Everything matched, and in total made for some very bright and vibrant pictures ... Perfect. ... Such a slut ! He deserves this award. He covered all aspects from Sexy to slutty in three images! Quite the achievement!"

SERVING MISTRESS CONTEST :
MOST INNOVATIVE "ENTRY"

smoothbikini
(pic 2)

"I went to sleep after the main judging night
thinking about that wine bottle and ass"
(Miss Bonnie)

This award was created entirely with smoothbikini in mind. While the judges enjoyed all smoothbikini's pix, we have to admit our favorite was pic 2, of which smoothbikini wrote:

" unfortunately [after presenting his Mistress in pic 1 with another bottle] Mistress preferred a white wine on this occassion over the red i had choosen!!!! how could i be so unfeeling as to not realize this! for punishment Mistress had me slowly lower myself completely down onto the red wine bottle to appease her for my mistake"

The photo shows smoothbikini from the rear, crouching over the wine bottle, framed by an oval mirror. "The ‘mirror’ pic would be my over all favourite of smooth’s", wrote Miss Bonnie: "great imagery, and very arty in it’s appearance ... [the award Ms160 suggests is] perfect!".

"He's tried hard with his themes", noted Ms160: "serving wine in the first pic, anally inserting it in the second, sucking a dildo in the third. These are definitely serving Mistress themes from a male mind, but that makes them no less fun". JustMiss agreed: "from the gesture to the insertion of the wine bottle to making good use of his mouth, I think that he shows all of this well. I did especially love the second picture, where the wine bottle was being put to better use". "Hmmm what I could do with that cute ass", sighed MzTich.

After close study of the photo, the judges asked smoothbikini exactly how much of the bottle he inserted:

smoothbikini: the whole bottle, i couldn't disappoint Mistress, could i???

Ms160: Are you seriously telling us you inserted that WHOLE bottle???? (lying to judges has a very nasty penalty). So next question: did you drink the contents before or after, lol?!

smoothbikini: i could never lie to Mistress!!! i have had much experience in making love in my manpussy - nothing feels quite as nice... and i most certainly will drink the wine!

How could we not reward such efforts, lol?! The final judges' comment again goes to Miss Bonnie: " I went to sleep after the main judging night thinking about that wine bottle and ass ... hmmm wonders what else sb can do with an empty wine bottle LOL"

SERVING MISTRESS CONTEST:
ATTENTION TO DETAIL AWARD

saucy
(pic 1)

"Great job! That he can envision through fantasy
how it would be, speaks volumes as to
how he would serve a Mistress"
(MzTich)

This is a very important award, that reveals the underlying strengths of a sub willing to serve his Mistress to the very best of his ability. Attention to detail is absolutely necessary, and makes the difference between a sub at play, and a dedicated sub committed to his Mistress' comfort.

All three contestants showed strongly in this category, and the judges would especially like to commend poppet and Mistress Amor, who's imagery has every judge grinding their teeth in jealousy. However, the judges were particularly impressed by Saucy's over all service theme, especially his evocative and beautifully written description in regard to getting dressed for his Mistress, which accompanied pic 1, which saucy titled "Ready to serve":

"Getting ready to serve my Mistress is always the first act of my day. i start by applying my makeup. A touch of dark shadow on my lower eyelids, a little less light shadow on my upper eyelids. Some mascara, a dust of blush, and a kiss of light pink lipstick. Not too much, not too little, just enough.

"i finish getting ready by slipping into my uniform, a pair of fishnets, and a tight thong. i then tie my apron on. The tails must be even, and loops of matching size, just how Mistress likes. i slide my feet into a pair of heels. Lastly i lock the small padlocks in place knowing that Mistress won't free me from them until bedtime.

"i'm now ready to present myself to Mistress. Standing as She taught me, with my eyes lowered i await Her approval before i go about my duties for the day".

"When it came to this set of pictures", commented JustMiss: "I absolutely loved the theme that was brought about ... The pictures were very clear and I had no doubt about what was going on in the progression of the sequence". Miss Bonnie:

"adored the maids outfit theme ... service is something on line or unowned submissives don’t get to participate in, so this competition was a great opportunity for all. Saucy showed all sides of the outfit in clear well lit pics, a very important factor and here we can see how he's gone ahead and done that".

Ms160 agreed:

"saucy's photos are technically good (well lit, nicely laid out etc). He's created a theme, that while a fantasy (as he is not owned at present) is completely believable. He keeps his themes and tasks simple and effective (preparation / service / punishment with a service theme) which perfectly represent the contest's theme or service.... You can see saucy's French Maid's outfit clearly. He also shaved his legs, so good attention to detail".

JustMiss picked up similar points:

"kudos for the leg shaving as well, as that is something I personally enjoy. saucy's first picture was what impressed me the most, as paying attention to details is a very important factor and here we can see how he's gone ahead and done that"

For Mistress Tich, saucy's first pic was a favorite:

"I loved his maid's uniform and so meticulous getting ready ... . Great job! That he can envision through fantasy how it would be, speaks volumes as to how he would serve a Mistress"

And showing that in a photograph", concluded Ms160: "is what this contest was all about".

SERVING MISTRESS CONTEST:
WINNER

poppet and Mistress Amor
(pic 3)

"I’m so jealous, What Domme wouldn’t want
a sassy maid and queening stool at her service"
(Miss Bonnie)

"Oh poppet", wrote Miss Bonnie "(can I clone you) I adore your pics ... I can hear all the Mistress’ reading this thread (afterwards) sighing in want! ".

"Poppet's outfits and accessories are fabulous, sol would be green with envy", wrote Ms160: "I love poppet's first photo, presenting the wine on his knees. This is the kind of sub a Mistress dreams of. His French Maid's outfit is very well presented (clean / ironed), nice and shiny lol, love those polyester fabrics! ".

"Everything matched, and in total made for some very bright and vibrant pictures", agreed Miss Bonnie. "Congrats also to his Mistress, his pics were great! ... how could a Mistress resist him?", said MzT, while JustMiss noted "each of these pictures had something to say to me personally. .. each picture seemed very fluid, very familiar, as though I was simply catching a glimpse into the everyday life of poppet".

Which of course we were. Which is what made this particular photo so striking to the judges. Poppet wrote, to accompany it:

"poppet positions himself on his owners queening stool ready to serve his Owner in a most intimate fashion. poppet is wearing his white stockings with a bow on the heels and matching suspenders and panties. poppet has selected shoes that coordinate with his outfit. poppets nipples are pre-clamped for his Owners amusement. Not visible is poppet’s CB-3000 chastity device which poppet is expected to wear at all times"

The judges really enjoyed all the entries in the contest, and greatly appreciated the effort each contestant had taken. "I love how each [contestant] had different thoughts on "serving his Mistress" ... some very multi-faceted subs!", concluded MzTich, but: " [Re] poppet and his Queening stool, a sub couldn't get much more intimate with his Mistress then in this fashion"

What Ms160 found extraordinary about the image was that:

"apart from the Maid outfit and the great shoes lol, it's rare for a sub to show himself with a queening stool. Considering this is a contest about how best to serve your Mistress I find the intimacy of the queening stool very evocative and powerful. This is the kind of image that breaks through Feminization stereotypes. I think MistressAmor and poppet have done a great job ...

"now excuse me, I have to go find sol and request he finish making the half completed queening stool in the spare room...."

Miss Bonnie agreed:

"Poppet’s entry was a nice surprise, as Ms 160 mentioned it breaks from the stereo typical images that are normally made to appeal to men in mass media. Poppet's picture was aimed at pleasing women ... it was a refreshing change. Poppet's image showed the true nature of service"

And again, that is what this contest was truly all about.

The judges are sincerely delighted to announce poppet - and of course the ever talented and much envied Mistress Amor - as winners of the 2007 Serving Mistress Contest.

Many thanks to:

Miss Bonnie, Mistress Tich and JustMiss
and our contestants and FF group members

Photos:
courtesy MistressAmor, poppet,
saucy and smoothbikini

Christmas Celebrations

2007-12-01T13:18:00.000+11:00

Since it's Christmas I wanted to give gifts to all the members off Collar N cuffs.com and readers.

But I'm not crazy with over 200 in our forum alone, not even mentioning the Chatroom they would commit me

..oO(but then again maybe I could get that straight jacket I've always wanted)

Well, instead we are having a Christmas party at Collar N cuffs in the forum and you can win prizes !!! it's easy, it's fun, and free, all you need is your imagination, the more times you enter the more chances you have to win.

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CNC Forum is running 4 contest all with different themes

Collar N cuffs 2007 Christmas themed 'pimp my profile' Contest

PRIZE DETAILS:
1 Vibrating ecstasy pleasure lounge with power handles, the chair that never stops feeling good..hop on and hold on !!!!!!!

1 Spartacus leather collar/choker, sissy pink with the word SLUT in metallic studs, snap closure adjusts to 13” 14”15”and 16”

1 Crystal collection packed G-String, this little number is a black G-string with beautiful diamante back detail on the T bar (contents is the one model is wearing on the package)

Total prize value: $50

Submit your name to the collar N cuffs .com forum under the contest thread to enter your MPS (My Personal Space) profile, when all submissions are received, a poll will be added to the thread by admin. Winner will be chosen via poll results.

Deadline to enter - December 23, 2007.

JUDGING:

Once all the entries are in and the contest closed Admin will set up a poll on the bottom of the thread and registered forum members can all vote for your favourite entry?

Admin will announce the winner/s the week of December 30th (If a tie occurs outside judges will be consulted) All members can vote, but vote only once. Contestants are encouraged to conjole, bribe, entice, and beg members to vote for them, and even refer new members to sign up on the site to vote - but those caught creating false profiles just to stuff the ballot box, will be disqualified. And yes, we DO have WAYS.

Any member profile can be entered, individual, couple, or business. Your profile should be creative, informative, and reflect who you are and have a Christmas theme. Don't pretend to be someone you're not just to make a more impressive profile.

Submit your profile for entry by posting a reply in the Pimp My Profile forum thread no later than December 30th Profiles that take more than 2 minutes to load on DSL will be disqualified from entry.

Profiles that display a blank user pic will be disqualified from entry. Avatars are fine, stock forum 'no image selected' is not.

Winners agree to provide a name and address to Admin in order for the prize to be sent via mail (if chosen). In the event a winner does not provide a name and mailing address, the winner forfeits any claims to their prize.

Prizes are not transferable; prizes cannot be redeemed for cash.

Topics that are off limits (Anyone under the age of 18, SPAM of any kind, Advertising of any kind, Incest, Bestiality (sex with animals), Insults, or flames Libel, Age play, Snuff topics, or those involving death of yourself, or another)

By submitting a submission you are verifying that the work is your own creation and that the submission results may be published on our website and/or blog Moderators reserve the right to delete inappropriate submissions and refuse contest entries.

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Collar N cuffs 2007 any thing you like, it's a Femdom christmas Contest

PRIZE DETAILS:

GYRO-TEX anal bouncer 6” (15.2 cm) butt plug

one rubber angel hair mini flogger, this flogger is brilliant and just the perfect size for CBT, or used to drag across the skin for a little sensuous tease and play. It can be used perfectly to deliver pain or pleasure!!!

Total prize value: $50

You can submit a photo or personal artwork, of anything you like..Actually anything you like, anything goes it’s a Femdom Christmas!!!... some ideas: maybe what you plan to wear Christmas day to please your mistress, If you’re the Mistress what are you wearing, your favourite Forced femme Christmas outfit, decorated cocks and/or body parts, your Femdom Christmas tree, let your inner Femdom Christmas mind loose with your camera, or do you have PC skills your dying to show off, slide shows, short videos, fractals, animations the ideas are endless. Alternately you may choose to paint or draw your idea of a perfect Christmas scene if you’re a little shy even a cartoon. Please remember that it is not compulsory to show your face, off course we would like see you, but blurred out or cropped images are very welcome.

Alternately you may chose to establish a new identity and profile just for competition purposes (you will need a secondary Email address for this) Let your imagination run wild, if your in doubt if your submission fits here, drop the Admin team a message.

Submit your entry to our Christmas 2007 anything goes, it’s a Femdom Christmas Contest Forum thread and you will be registered for a chance to win.

Each submission will register you for 1 chance. Enter 5 submissions - then you'll have 5 chances.

Winner will be chosen via poll results.

Deadline to enter - December 23, 2007.

JUDGING:

Once all the entries are in and the contest closed Admin will set up a poll on the bottom of the thread and registered forum members can all vote for your favourite entry?

Admin will announce the winner/s the week of December 30th

(If a tie occurs outside judges will be consulted)

CONDITIONS:

You must be a member of CollarNcuffs.com forum to enter.

All members can vote, but vote only once. Contestants are encouraged to conjole, bribe, entice, and beg members to vote for them, and even refer new members to sign up on the site to vote - but those caught creating false profiles just to stuff the ballot box, will be disqualified. And yes, we DO have WAYS. Any member, individual, couple, or business may enter. Your submissions should be creative, reflect who you are and have a Christmas theme. Don't pretend to be someone you're not just to make a more impressive entry.

Submit your ‘piece’ for entry by posting a reply in the forum thread any thing Christmas Contest forum thread no later than December 18th

Profiles that display a blank user pic will be disqualified from entry. Avatars/Images are fine, stock forum 'no image selected' is not.

Prizes are not transferable; prizes cannot be redeemed for cash.

By submitting a submission you are verifying that the work is your own creation and that the submission may be published on our website and/or blog Moderators reserve the right to delete inappropriate submissions and refuse contest entries.

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Collar N cuffs 2007 Christmas themed writing Contest

PRIZE DETAILS:

Also included in this prize pack Pink beaded nipple clamps by Spartacus Slim sleek and lovely, decorative (pic does not do justice) nipple clamps to adorn the body while creating a pleasurable sensation with out the weight of heavier clamps ,it’s your choice-adjustable for light pressure, or full strength intensity, rubber tipped for comfort and confident grip.

Total prize value: $50

You can submit a story, a poem, song lyrics, anything you like...As long as it Femdom with a Christmas theme and you've writen it Submit your entry to our Christmas 2007 ‘Christmas writing Contest thread on collarncuffs forum and you will be registered for a chance to win.

Each entry submitted will register you for 1 chance. Enter 5 submissions - then you'll have 5 chances.

Winner will be chosen by poll.

Deadline to enter - December 23, 2007.

JUDGING:

Once all the entries are in and the contest closed Admin will set up a poll on the bottom of the thread and registered forum members can all vote for your favourite entry?

Admin will announce the winner the week of December 30th

The winner's name/nick and story will be posted on our CNC website the week of December 30th.

CONDITIONS:

You must be a member of CollarNcuffs.com forum to enter.

Your Profile must be filled out with your basic details, and the MPS section 'enabled’ so 'full profile’ is visible (omitted details will be accepted) Profiles that display a blank user pic will be disqualified from entry. Avatars are fine, stock forum 'no image selected' is not.

Winners agree to provide a name and address to Admin in order for the prize to be sent via mail (if winning entry). In the event a winner does not provide a name and mailing address, the winner forfeits any claims to their prize.

Prizes are not transferable; prizes cannot be redeemed for cash.

Stories must be Femdom related

Off limit topics (Anyone under the age of 18, SPAM of any kind, Advertising of any kind, Incest, Bestiality (sex with animals), Insults, or flames Libel, Age play, Snuff topics, or those involving death of yourself, or another)

By submitting a entry you are verifying that the work is your own creation and that the story may be published on our website, blog, and/or the main section of reading corner on the website (if chosen). Additionally you are giving permission for CNC to record your story on MP3's for future site use.

Moderators reserve the right to delete inappropriate submissions and refuse contest entries.

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Collar N cuffs 2007 Short Story Contest

PRIZE DETAILS:

1Hell for leather T bar cock leather cock ring, Made from genuine Australian 15 MM leather with a vinyl insert for extra strength. Comfortable and functional, fully adjustable snap stud, cock ring with ball separating T bar strap. Value $50

Submit your short Femdom based story entry to our Christmas celebrations 2007 ‘Short Story Contest’ thread (below) and you will be registered for a chance to win.

Each story submitted will register you for 1 chance. Enter 5 stories - then you'll have 5 chances.

Winner will be chosen by the Admin team.

Deadline to enter - December 30, 2007.

JUDGING:

Once all the entries are in and the contest closed the Admin team will pick the over all favourite

Admin will announce the winner the week of 30th December.

The winner's name/nick and story will be posted on our CNC website the first week of January

CONDITIONS:

You must be a member of CollarNcuffs.com forum to enter. Your Profile must be filled out with your basic details (name or nick/location (general)/gender/role), and the MPS section 'enabled’ so 'full profile’ is visible (omitted details will be accepted)

Profiles that display a blank user pic will be disqualified from entry. Avatars Images are fine, stock forum 'no image selected' are not.

Prizes are not transferable; prizes cannot be redeemed for cash.

Stories must be Femdom related

By submitting a story you are verifying that the work is your own creation and that the story may be published on our website and/or blog, and/or the main section of reading corner on the website.

Additionally you are giving permission for CNC to record your story on MP3's for future site use.

Moderators reserve the right to delete inappropriate submissions and refuse contest entries.

Have fun, enjoy, and good luck !!!

prizes: collarncuffs.com MissBonnie in conjuction with Erotic Nights Melbourne

Serving Mistress

2007-11-12T09:27:00.001+11:00

For more contest details and previous contest images

see Mistress160's Abode

New Contest: "Serving Mistress" Photo Contest

Serving Mistress...What evocative, powerful words ... they bring a shiver of anticipation to every sub.Some of you have been lucky enough, to already find and serve your Mistress, to kneel at her feet, waiting patiently for the chance to serve. Perhaps you have already purchased a service outfit at her instruction, and recall the spine tingling rush of having her measure a maid outfit against your body in a crowded store ... Now is the time to show it to us...You may not yet have had the honor of finding your Mistress ... but you too know the erotic dreams in your heart, and the services you would most like to offer her...The theme of this contest provides the perfect vehicle to explore your dreams of service, to present - perhaps for your future Mistress to find here - photos that reveal how you would most like to serve her...What will she see? A sissy maid in ruffles and curls, massaging her feet? Or a naked boy, creating the perfect meal in her kitchen, naked but for a collar and apron? An elegant French maid serving her dominant friends tea? A latex covered slave serving wine (like mont202 on the left, from an earlier photo contest)?No outfit? Its time to challenge yourself a little ... take yourself to your local adult store, or go online and see what you can find ... what most expresses your personality and desires ... even if you can't buy something pretty there are many items around the home ... all that limits you is your imagination....

"SERVING MISTRESS"PHOTO CONTEST
1) RULES:

You must be a member of MyDungeonSpace's Forced Feminization group (it's free to join - click on MDS to join, then click here for the Forced Fem group )
Contest is open to all genders
Subs of judges may enter
Each member may submit up to three photos of themselves wearing a "Serving Mistress" themed outfit / pose (your Mistress does not need to be visible)
Photos are to be uploaded in the group's gallery by 30 November 2007)

JUDGES:

four absolutely stunning Mistresses who are experts at accepting service, lol: Mistress160 and Miss Bonnie, and please welcome as judges for the first time: Mistress Tich and Just Miss!3)

WHAT THE JUDGES ARE LOOKING FOR:

Well lit, in focus photos

You may submit three photos of the same outfit (perhaps: front, back and a detail) or you can wear a different outfit in each pic. Please make sure the outfit can clearly be seen in your photos
There are two parts to this photo competition:

an outfit that portrays the theme "Serving Mistress" and /or
actions or a pose (or series of poses) that expand on that theme.

Contestants who address both parts in their photos will score higher. For example, a photo showing the contestant standing in a maid costume addresses the first part; a photo of the contestant in a maid outfit on his knees serving drinks to his Mistress addresses both.

Judges may also award prizes for various categories, such as:
Best Apron
Best Service
Best French Maid
Most Innovative Interpretation of "Serving Mistress"
Sexiest Maid
Best Sissy Maid

Additional marks will be given for extra effort for personal presentation (such as perfectly painted nails, professionally arranged hair, etc) or perfect examples of service (pouring tea for Mistress, painting Mistress' toes or whatever). Contestants may need to bring these details to the attention of judges via the message they post on this thread to confirm they have uploaded photos

4) PRIZE:

Winner will be presented with "Serving Mistress" Photo Award and have this title added to your winning photo in the Forced Fem group gallery. Highly commended prizes will also be awarded.
All prize winning photos will also be published in a post about the contest on Mistress160's personal blog, and on the blogs of other judges
At the end of 2007 an annual winner will be selected from the winners of contests during the year will be awarded a Special Prize (to be confirmed by the judges, but perhaps something along the line of some lingerie purchased especially for the winner by the judges)This contest will close midnight 30 November 2007, and the winner / other prizes will be announced later that week.

For more info, click here.Contestants, register here (or join MyDungeonSpace first).
Good Luck from Ms160 and the Judges!

NEVER ENTERED ONE OF MS160'S CONTESTS (BUT WOULD LIKE TO?)

"the whole competition was a blast!.."i really encourage anybody who is even a little bit curious to enter the next one. they're very fun, very low pressure, and a great way to be part of the community and meet new people. thanks again to Mistress 160, the mastermind of the whole operation"
(veritas - Winner of Best Ass in Babydoll Contest)
"what a fun time to be expressive and creative and have fun at the same time. I certainly would like to encourage all the tarty sluts out there to participate in the next one ... Good luck to everyone and come on and have some fun!"(mont202 - Winner of Princess Contest)
"you could feel the joy emanating from the other contestants as they described their shopping / picture taking experiences. Very positive feelings ..."i felt all kinds of emotions during this contest and i embraced them and watched others go through similar feelings on the topic. No answers, no coming down on one side or the other ... It was bizarre and different and provocative. A rich experience. i couldn't ask for more".
(Destiny's chance - winner of Special Artistic Award)We'd love you to join this contest. Truly.As you can see from what other contestants have written above, everyone has a really great time. There are no "losers" in my contests. You get to meet - and interact with - some great people, including the Domme Judges and other members of MDS' Forced Fem group. You also get to challenge yourself a little - purchasing your outfit, taking the photos, posting them etc...You don't need to have an owner or a Mistress, its possible to take your pix yourself and if you are stuck for ideas you can discuss what you want to wear / how you plan to look in your photos with other members.Past contests include the Princess Contest (won by mont202 as Xena, on the left) and Best Babydoll Outfit (won by quall from Turkey). Future ones will include Best Schoolgirl, Best Showgirl and Best Ladies Swimming Outfit. The current contest, featuring a service / maid theme, promises to be especially fun.Any questions?You can contact Mistress160 via the cbox on this page or via her profile at MyDungeonSpace. Or drop any of the boys who entered previous contests a line. You can also read about contestant chance's experiences in the following links:

chance's thoughts about wanting to enter a contest by Ms160
on actually entering a contest and on
forced fem
(Photosof sol and c: Ms160of mont202: jade tigerPrincess contest montage: Miss Bonnie)

2007-10-17T17:01:00.000+10:00

Hello,
CollarNcuffs.com has been through some changes.
We are an online social networking community website created for those interested in the Femdom lifestyle, from the, just inquisitive... to the more experienced. All are welcome on CollarNcuffs.com

We NOW have personal pages, offering, you the user.. an interactive, user-submitted network of friends, personal profiles, blogs, groups, photos, music and videos, even personal image galleries.

Take advantage of our forums, chat rooms, E cards, stories, Femdom Galleries, resource pages and friends network to meet, learn, or explore the Femdom and Fetish lifestyles and the interesting people that live them!

We are a Free service, no fees to pay, and no advertising material
This site was created with You the user in mind.

· We have an active forum with over 200 members.
· Join in and create your own personal space with your own address (just like my space)
· Leave comments/images for your friends , fully interactive, show the Femdom community ‘who’ you are.
· View the personal galleries of the other members, upload your own to share or keep private.
· Read a blog or create your own. (all blogs are fully functioning with image uploading/comments)
· Choose an E cards with music to send, free of charge. Ready for you to personalize. Over 600 to choose
· Browse our Free Femdom Galleries complete with slideshows, you pick the speed and sizing.
· Chat rooms with 1 to1 interaction , join the main room, create your own... maybe indulge in the dungeon.
· Read a user submitted story while your paying a visit, we have over 50 on site catering to all tastes.
· Wonder about how to do something, chances are you will find it in our 90 resource pages.(regular updates)

Drop in, make a new friend (or ten) today...what are you waiting for !!!!!

Best marks photo contest

2007-09-12T14:05:00.000+10:00

what I get up too when I'm not posting, I am still around

reposted from Mistress160's abode

Wednesday, September 12, 2007

BEST MARKS PHOTO CONTEST - Winners

"for contestants ... kudos on your participationin the contest, and, more importantly, thecourage and pride you shared with the storiesbehind the pictures. Congrats to all of you"

Nikita

Readers might recall I announced the Best Marks Photo Contest for female subs, a few weeks back. We've had great fun with this one!This contest was for the ladies ... specifically the female subs who belong to my female sub educational / support group FemSubStartingPlace:
"It's time to share your favorite photos ... and relive the moments you received the marks of which you are most proud ..."Were they from a flogging, with a flogger made by your Dom/me, in front of all his friends ... or from especially vicious labia clamps that she instructed you to wear ... or from a really hard spanking, after you did something naughty ... or the pegs he had you purchase from the supermarket ..."Show us your photos and tell us all about it..."

Ms160 and Miss Bonnie (World Famous Judges Of BDSM Contests) judged the contest, which we really enjoyed, although as I pointed out during the judging process, "it was a challenge to judge, because we had such a wide range of marks plus the wide range of real time experience of both contestants and their Doms".I would like to thank each and every contestant, as well as the prize winners for permission to reproduce their photos and experiences here. It's been an honor.The judges were highly impressed by the standard on entries. "Any dominant would be happy for them to 'wear' their marks. Well done girls", concluded Miss Bonnie, " it's a pleasure to be a part of your support group". Members of FSSP were equally supportive of contestants, with Nikita writing: "kudos on your participation in the contest and, more importantly, the courage and pride you shared with the stories behind the pictures"

.Here are the awards (in no particular order):

Wild and Passionate Award:

kynthia and her Master

kynthia only entered one photo, of which she wrote: "the marks in my picture aren't as extreme as some, but they hold pretty heavy place for me".The judges appreciated how kyn treasured her marks:
"[these are] from the last time that Master and i truly got to "play." It's been a long time ... so these pictures and these marks are all I have to show" and were delighted for her that some had scarred. We loved how she had submitted to his fingernails ("his preference") and the pain ("don't remember much of the physical pain ... must have been off in lala land").For Miss Bonnie, kyn's marks "suggest frenzy, and total abandonment ... [a] lust for wanting to mark". For Ms160, they were "passionate stitches that covered her back in a quilt of desire". We have much pleasure in presenting kynthia and her Master with the Wild and Passionate Award. Accepting the award, kyn wrote:
"I'm proud to be connected with [FemSubStartingPlace], the lifestyle, and appreciate the comments!"

Inaugural FSSP Flaming Cheeks Award:

Nikita

This was tricky. We had three entrants with "flaming cheeks": Nikita, cyndi and saturn, all of whom deserved to win.As part of the story of her photo cyndi explained how she had been cheeky about not receiving enough pain from a Dom at a play party ("he used it rather sensually") and had received these marks as a result:
"it felt like a battle of wills to me...or at least some sort of challenge to see if i could back up my SAM mouth with my butt. Right at the point i though i couldn't take any more..he stopped and these are the marks that resulted ... they lasted about two weeks. It was worth it though...i really enjoyed it!"So did the judges. "Such a lovely shade of purple! ", exclaimed Miss Bonnie, "well spread out across the canvas". "I love that you can see track marks from the implement, often deep within the darkest bruises ... seriously yummy", concluded Ms160.The judges very much liked saturn's "Thor's handy work" photo, and enjoyed what saturn wrote:
"[this] is from my current ... Master ... He attacked my rear before thispicture. We were trying to make a heart shape on my rear using a wooden spoon, for the contest, but were unable to accomplish that. So He used the spoon, His hand, and a beautiful Lolita paddle purchased some time ago""This pic showed precision application of 'toys' for a desired effect (to produce a result)", noted Miss Bonnie, and Ms160 also commented on this: "oh I love that pale pink blush ... they nearly got that heart shape, just needed more work on the sweet spot, lol". Miss Bonnie also:
"adore[d] the two perfect reddened 'orbs' ... the heat from [saturn's] cheeks would have produced would have been amazing ... as a Domme one thing I to love to do is feel the heat produced after / during a session ... this pic made me want to feel that heat..."Nikita entered three photos from the one session, writing in detail about what had occurred:
"The first time I played with a group of friends, I was timid. There was excitement and fear. I was self conscious .. you know, all the things women are self-conscious about before any encounter ... [it] was clouding my judgment ... there was no way I was going to drop my pants for this group".Nikita explained how she was given a color safe word code by the Dom, but:
"it was such a rush for me, the whole scene, the spanking, humiliation, and the subbie sisterhood, that I quickly forgot what I was supposed to do if it got too painful"She endured a great deal before finally ending the session:
"finally, I whispered, 'red' very quietly ... the action stopped. Someone said 'let's check for marks.' I pulled down my pants with difficulty and heard them gasp. It was too late"The resulting marks were stupendous:
"the results of that episode are on the cover of my book."What did I learn from that? I created a situation where the Dom questioned himself and for that I really feel bad. What could have been done to avoid the situation? I should have pulled my pants down, modesty be damned".The judges agreed, and appreciated that Nikita had previously posted this story as a warning to other subs. "I admire her conviction to stay stead fast and receive what she took", noted Miss Bonnie, "LOL I hope those pants go down now !!" Ms160 felt the same: "lesson well and truly learned ... the entire ass is deeply bruised, flaming and red, I doubt she sat down for days". Miss Bonnie agreed: "that's one wicked never ending mark ... but it would come at cost of a sore butt for weeks!"When the judges compared the three bottoms, we decided that Nikita's most clearly met the category of "flaming cheeks", so we are delighted to present her with the Inaugural FSSP Flaming Cheeks Award.Accepting the award "~beaming and blushing~ ", Nikita wrote:
"Thank you ... I'll be very proud to put it on my profile".For more info on Nikita's great online book Tales of the Whipping Post, check out my earlier post. You can purchase it here.

BEING CHEEKY AWARD:

cyndi

The Being Cheeky Award is presented to cyndi, for her Photo 1, for the events outlined in her story above. Ms160 especially loved how cyndi uses the term "sensually" with such masochistic despair ("he used the carriage whip rather sensually" translates as "he didn't hit me hard enough"!!)Sometimes, the judges decided, a sub deserves a little cheek for being cheeky....Accepting the award, cyndi wrote:
"It is good to know my mouth finally earned me something other than a lot of pain and bruising. lol. thank you for the award. Congratulations to Carrie Ann and Taylor and to all the others. I look forward to new contests in the future."

Rings of Desire Award:

saturn and Thor

saturn's three contest entries were greatly admired by the judges, who appreciated saturn and Thor producing marks especially for the contest. "Thor's handy work" has already been described. Her second photo depicted "a glorious imprint of a hand" (Ms160) from an earlier master, which Miss Bonnie (for whom it revived memories "of my youth and my Dom who liked to leave full hand prints") especially enjoyed.However the most important of saturn's entries was her first photo, which illustrates one way her Master likes to use and mark her:
"He really loves biting me, and i (obviously) really enjoy it. He has a habit of biting and sucking... you get the beautiful mark seen in the first picture"Ms160 found the photo "made me smile, the way he uses his teeth to possess what he desires, to mark what he owns".The judges also loved how saturn shared the following:
"we were looking at it after the first time He made it on me and we both go "it looks like Saturn" then our eyes met (yes it's cheesy but true) and i go "maybe ... that could be..." and He goes "that's exactly what i was just thinking.""And so we found my name".The judges are honored to present saturn and Thor with the Rings of Desire Award. saturn accepted the award with "::blushes::":
"thank You so much for this wonderful opportunity, and for the award"

Best Marks Contest Winner:

CarrieAnn and Taylor

"your pics are BEAUTIFUL and anyone with an eye for art should be able to see that. saturn and i actuallytalked, in detail, about how we both thought that you tookthe contest, hands down (no offense to any others!!)"
kynthiaCarrieAnn entered three photos of the same scene.Her description ("Taylor is slowly but surely cutting a design into me") turned Ms160's "knees and other parts liquid". CarrieAnn continued:
"We like blood and sharp things ... [cutting the design slowly] makes it cool in the long run and allows us to do the type of cutting we like without having "ugly" scars later"She also describes the process ("most of this is done with different types of scalpels, though he usually has a pile of knives next to him too") and her own response:
" it's a very yummy sensation for me. Pain plus fear plus the battle to sit absolutely still. I love sharp things...."CarrieAnn is of course a great deal more experienced than some other members of the contest, but it was not the extreme nature of cutting that drew the judges as much as the "extraordinary artistry" (Ms160) involved. "Beautifully done", wrote Miss Bonnie, "the lines are all of the same depth, they are fluid and curved ... not your standard squared off irregular mean looking lines. Skill was used to produced them".Ms160 agreed: "cutting curvilinear designs is the highest degree of technical difficulty. The pattern (although obviously incomplete) is intricate and follows the body's own curves - see the left shoulder". Miss Bonnie - previously not a fan of cutting - found herself a convert: "her Master has talent at his craft ... [I] might have to re look into this myself now lol...".

The judges are really pleased to be able to declare CarrieAnn and Taylor the Winner(s) of FSSP's 2007 Best Marks Contest.CarrieAnn wrote, when accepting her prize:
"that was unexpected! I was feeling all blah cuz I didn't have any impact play pics to share so big, huge thanks M 160 and Miss Bonnie."Most particularly cool cuz we often get a really bad reaction to our knife play/cutting play from those who disapprove. I'm beaming!"

***Thanks again to all contestants!We'll definitely be holding more contests. Any female subs reading this who'd like to take part, come and join us at FemSubStartingPlace, an educational / support group for female subs run by Ms160. It's a small group, carefully moderated to preserve privacy, where you can ask anything, rant about anything, and post your favorite marks pix, lol.

Photos: courtesy of kynthia, Nikita,cyndi, saturn and CarrieAnnBook cover:courtesy of Nikita
Many thanks:to Miss Bonnie

all contestantsand members of FSSP
Posted by Mistress160 at 9:50 AM
Labels: Contests - photo, Female Subs, FemSubStartingPlace

reposted by MissBonnie with permission from all involved.

Our Princess has been named

2007-07-10T21:40:00.002+10:00

The Princess contest was the second in a series of photo contests Mistress160 is currently running for members of my Forced Feminization group at MyDungeonSpace. The first, the Babydoll Contest, AdultBlogHub calls "the most unusual competition we’ve come across in the adult blogging world".

Contests are a great way to encourage shy kinksters into taking a more active role, to challenge those who need a challenge, initiate dialogue, and meet new friends. As Destiny's chance, a regular contestant, once wrote, "you could feel the joy emanating from the other contestants as they described their shopping / picture taking experiences. Very positive feelings .... i felt all kinds of emotions during this contest and i embraced them and watched others go through similar feelings ... It was bizarre and different and provocative. A rich experience. i couldn't ask for more".

After consultation with group members and judges I selected a Princess theme for this latest contest. We had a truly international judging panel this contest (MsAlice from Greece, Destiny from Canada, Alice from New Zealand and myself and MissBonnie from Australia). They all put in tremendous effort. Many many thanks to them all!

As you will see, we ended up with some extraordinary photos to judge.

If there was one phrase repeated time and time again during judging deliberations it was "this is really tough!". As Destiny noted " the biggest problem [was] there were no negatives. These princesses went above and beyond". Miss Bonnie ("All the contestants shone picking just one was a hard task") and MsAlice ("Oh God, hard to decide! All the bitches look great and did a very good job with their transformations ... they all deserve a prize!") agreed.

"These pix are so interesting to judge because they are so DIFFERENT", I observed during deliberations, "Warrior princess vs kitten princess vs Egyptian princess vs an innocent princess blowing bubbles.... as always the talent of these guys amazes me. I also like the way all contestants have utilized the princess theme to express their personal kinks. Mont has chosen a costume that aligns with his enclosure / tight clothing kink, while both chance and solipsist have included imagery that expresses important aspects of their submission".

"Initially I was disappointed that a few of the Mistresses did not want their submissive competing because they felt the princess category was not a good one", noted Destiny, "These entires proved that they made a mistake. There are many princesses and these boys proved that Cinderella is not the only way to go for sure. ...our "princesses" should be very proud of their entries". MsAlice agreed, "although we only have three Princesses I admit they are all beautiful and with great fantasies!".

Our princess has been named for the winners details please read Mistress160 Abode,

Destiny and chances blog post
I'm currently on holidays (another 7 days) with limited internet time and looking forward to catching up on my return, but would like to say this was a wonderful experience for contestants and judges alike.

And most of all Fun (with a capital F)

protect your rights to blog

2007-06-22T13:45:00.000+10:00

I've been make this post for quiet some time as this something that effects us all in the blogsphere, especially us adult bloggers.

If you're a blogger, this website is for you.

EFF's goal is to give you a basic roadmap to the legal issues you may confront as a blogger, to let you know you have rights, and to encourage you to blog freely with the knowledge that your legitimate speech is protected.

I urge you all take a look at this site and know your rights.
I belong to nemerous Adult webmaster sites due to my own personal site, and the general whisper is that 'Adult' bloggers are the next target.

Our right to blog may be under attack.
Some of the items on the agenda is our right to blog Anonymously

the EFT also covers
Other Legal Issues
Student Bloggers
Election Law
Labor Law
Adult Material/image posting

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Ms160 has a contest

2007-06-11T23:14:00.001+10:00

Ms160 holds another photo contest.....Yes it's that time again
WHOOO HOOO I get to perve on all the pretty boys again.

We had so much fun with our Babydoll Outfit contest ("the most unusual competition we’ve come across so far in the adult blogging world" according to adultbloghub 7.05.07) that Mistress160 promised to hold another photo contest soon...

Here it is:

BEST "PRINCESS" OUTFIT

(Worn By a Member of my Forced Feminization Group)

"it's time to make all your princess fantasies a reality!"

(Ms160)

RULES:

You need to be a member of MyDungeonSpace's Forced Feminization group (it's free to join - details below)
You may submit up to three photos of yourself wearing a "princess" style outfit

Photos are to be uploaded in the group's gallery by 1 July 2007

JUDGES:
Mistress160 MissBonnie Alice and Destiny

WHAT THE JUDGES ARE LOOKING FOR:

Well lit, in focus photos
You may submit three photos of the same outfit (perhaps: front, back and a detail) or you can wear a different outfit in each pic
Please make sure the outfit can clearly be seen in your photos - you are being judged both on the outfit and how you look in the outfit

For this competition, interpretation of the term "princess" will be left up to individual contestants
Judges may also award prizes for various categories, such as:

Best Tiara
Best Makeup
Best Lingerie
Most Innovative Interpretation of "Princess"
Sexiest Princess
Most Regal Princess
Sluttiest Princess
Best Fairy Princess

Additional marks will be given for extra effort (such as perfectly painted nails, professionally arranged hair, shaved legs etc). Contestants may need to bring these details to the attention of judges via the message they post on this thread to confirm they have uploaded photos
Three of the Judges have birthdays during the period the contests runs. Additional marks will be awarded for any contestants who honour Ms160, Alice and Destiny with a "birthday" element in their photos

For prizes and competition detail please see Mistress160's Abode

text republished from Ms160's abode with permission.