Comfy Couch

Meet bizzaro Rukaya

2010-02-18T18:37:00.000-08:00

I am really enjoying my life. Honestly for the most part I always have. Even the bullshit seem funny to me. I have no regrets which sometimes seems arrogant to me but wtf. Its my life. I love to have a good time. I am a risk-taker in my personal life I like the thrill and freedom of my life. I am all out there in your face screaming whooo hooo! and loving it. I don't understand complacency. I am annoyed by boredom. SO I rarely get boredom. I love to go go go! I want to see the world and show my children the adventure of life. When I die I do not want to say" I wish I would have..." why? Meet bizzaro Rukaya: She is very laid back and quiet. She observes and listens to the winds. As extroveted and Rukaya is Bizzaro Rukaya is introverted. Bizzaro Rukaya is too serious. She is down right a snore! She is mean, bitchy and perfers to be alone.Bizzaro Rukaya plays it safe while Rukaya watches in angst. Do we all have inner opposites? I find that I am so true to myself it makes me a bit looney.

Please help our Haitian neighbors

2010-01-13T17:10:00.000-08:00

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Starting the New Year

2010-01-08T21:58:00.000-08:00

We all make New year resolutions on New Year's eve and break them by the 2nd or 3rd day of the year. I decided a long time ago that this method does not work for me. So instead I make a list of short and long term goals for the following months. Sounds better,right? Well it is. I set a list of simple goals for myself first; thing that I can easily do and feel accomplished. 1. Walk the dog for an 30 mins twice a day. Easy enough. 2.Color code my closet (again) 3. Give away old clothes and shoes 4. Pat myself on the back once goals 1-3 are done for 21 days 5. Go to bed at a reasonable hour Easy. Long term 1. Walk more Drive less 2. Eat one more vegetable a day. 3. Volunteer at a organization of my choice once a month :D 4. Lose 2 lbs in a month keep it off for the rest of the year! 5. Pay off one debt. Not bad. I can do this! Now you see how easy it can be to set simple goals. Once those goals are done set ten more. Now these goals are very personal and you should NOT share them with anyone! This is the most important part. If someone ask, "why are you eating raw veggies now"? simple say "would you like some"? They will not ask again. Ok. Have a great year

2008-11-23T17:59:00.000-08:00

What is the difference between sexy and rouchy? Where is the line drawn?

Balance

2008-11-08T14:50:00.000-08:00

I was recently asked, what would it take to have balance in your life? I wanted to share this question with you. Do you feel that you have balance? The spiritual, mental, and physical balance needed to be happy. Is it possible to maintain this balance?

Vegas

2007-01-26T16:38:00.000-08:00

Vegas at night is crazy. Life in the fast lane portrayed in the images. No matter what day of the week it is the clubs are crowded. Great Food & Shopping. I had never visited Las Vegas before but I know I'll be back . I had a blast! Thats all I can say... cuz you know... what goes on in Vegas stays in Vegas.

coerced conformity

2007-01-21T09:45:00.000-08:00

As all that know me are aware, I am very proud of my hertiage. My history reflects a big part of me. I am even more proud of myself. I know who I am. There are many things that you don't know about me, even more that you may never know. I want to start by having a little conversation. how can you say that you are so original and unique when you perform like everyone else? Do you dress yourself in the morning or do you check the music videos to see what you CAN wear? Are you so confused about your identiy that you require frequent media doses before you face yourself? hmmm What is your relationship with yourself? Anyway I was scrolling through this myspace...ya know reading profiles...about me sections are always interesting to a voyuer like myself. More to point I was humored by the abundant claims of original in personality and character. Yea it was amusing... women oftens used the words uncomparable, like no other bitch, or the famous always hated on. :) These same women have the same racy photos leaving little for the imagination. T&A all over the places it just tacky. mundane. go ahead flash your ass for some attention. its cute,really? pffft! As for the men, well the oh so unique photos of a bare chested over- exercised completely uninteresting. the top friend list are filled the women above. lol. Their claim to fame? well just browse thru snd see for yourself. YAWN! What is an "other"? you dont have to check a race or ethnicty box ya know. but other... well that ...Its sad. Identity. Get one, take your time though. It must compliment you.

SCENTED DREAMS

2007-01-20T23:11:00.000-08:00

Wet Dreams I can still smell his scent it intoxicates me I can still feel his hands going thru me touch my moist he does it well the space it is invisble I do not exist outside this moment air is shared between us I whisper his name as my body began to mold with his a perfect fit. I am no longer neither is he we have become one the succubus in me devour his sex the incubus in him decends upon me desire is all I am no longer neither is he we are one one body one breath one spirit this is awesome and my whispers become with his shouts in this darkness we have created a monster stop breathe now repeat his scent brings out the carnal animalistic craving a lust a love of the act I have developed a dependency for his touch his scent his desire for me is the drug and I am addickted. climax never a means to end and I stop breathe repeat until I see myself in his eyes ;) wide shut dilated release. I am me again he is he we are no longer one till next again I can still smell his scent Queen Rukaya.

2006-06-24T21:45:00.000-07:00

Are You Monogamously Challenged?

2006-06-24T20:20:00.000-07:00

We will discuss the challenge of monogamy all next week. I would like to begin the subject with the topic of cheating. Is it natural for human beings to mate for life? Do you feel that there is ONE person out there for people, i.e. a soul mate or are there potentially many "loves of a lifetime?" I recently read a study that said more and more women were "cheating." Why do you think that is? Have you ever strayed? Why or why not? If your spouse/partner cheated would it end the relationship? Do you think men and women cheat for different reasons? How diffucult is it for you to be faithful? These are some of the question we will try and discuss the week of the 24th. I hope to hear from all of you. Please remember to be respectful... this is a touchy subject and emotion can get high however, I must ask that you dont not use profanity, gender specific epithets,or anything hateful. Peace, Love, and Understanding is our Motto

Would you date someone who has taken a vow of celibacy?

2006-06-22T20:34:00.000-07:00

How can you really get to know your partner is completely compatible with you if you are not intimate before marriage? Can you have a healthy monogomous relationship with someone without taking a "test drive?" In a fantasy world we would all find our perfect sexual matches and live monogmously ever after. But what if you find that you are not able to express

Does size matter?

2006-06-22T03:05:00.000-07:00

What do you think? Is is the motion in the ocean or the size of the boat? What do you think?

The Beauty of Our World

2006-06-22T02:24:00.000-07:00

Isnt it amazing the creatures that share this world with us!!! I am always in awe of this earth. I love to travel and see new and exciting places. This was in Monterey, California. Beautiful, right?

When its okay to date your ex's friend or your friend's ex?

2006-06-19T12:50:00.000-07:00

So...I was at the mall yesterday when I saw my friends ex.Not just any ex but the father of her son. The guy is "hot" in so many ways its a crime. I mean tall, muscular, great masculine structure, and he knows it. While I never spoke to him. I did talk to her later that day and she said he was off limits.I knew that but I wondered why she even put it out there. I never thought he was "within limits." However, I wonderer why. I mean the have been apart for a long time. I never actually met him they broke up before my friend and I met. All this got me thinking... When is it okay to date your friends ex? Any thoughts?

TAKE THE POLL! NEW POLL EVERY WEEK!

2006-06-15T12:15:00.001-07:00

Poll on dating a friends Ex Take My Poll

HELP! I hate my partners friends

2006-06-15T00:11:00.000-07:00

How would you handle it if your partner hated all your friends? Does it matter to you? Do you think it would/should effect your relationship?

Contemplating the Fate of the Universe

2006-06-14T19:20:00.000-07:00

How frequently do you want to have sex ?

2006-06-14T18:58:00.000-07:00

Let me know what you think? Some people feel everyday was nice at one point but now feel 3 times a week is sufficient. Remeber to include you age, martial status, length of relatiohship , sexual preferance, and gender. A typical answer should look like this: Boogerbear says, I feel that I would like to have sex with my partner once a day. However, I would have been with her for six months now and I am already down to once every ten days. We both work at an adult book store and feel sexed out by the time we get home. 23/M/Dating

Poem: Comfy Couch

2006-06-14T18:37:00.000-07:00

This poem was written for me by my soul mate. She is a phenomenal woman. She was truly made in heaven as a gift for me. COMFY COUCH Like snuggling against your favorite material Loving you feels like collasping on my comfy couch. Fluffy pillows with hidden nooks and crannys. Carressing you is the same as putting my feet up after a hard days work. Going to my relaxing place and collapsing on my comfy couch. Vegg out, chill, talk, and laugh Loving you feels like collapsing on my comfy couch. Laughing so hard at my jokes that passers by stop and smile, but feeling as though i'm in the privacy of my own living room loving you feels like collapsing on my comfy couch. By Tobi E.

Welcome to Comfy Couch: Advice, Discussions on Sex, Love and All Types of Relationships

2006-06-13T19:59:00.000-07:00

Welcome, Let me begin by introducing myself and my purpose. My name is RuKaya. Since I was a young girl, I have been listening to the concerns of everyone who needed an open ear. My heart and my mind has always thrived from helping others see the light at the end of the tunnel.The purpose of this blog is to invite an open discussion, give advice, support and increase our knowledge on the subjects that effect our lives the most. Love,Sex, and Relationship. While I am not a doctor(yet) I believe that the best advice comes from people that have experienced real "drama" in their lives. I have and so have you. Together we will provide a network of "family friends" (as I like to call them) across the world. I have managed to maintain successful relationship throughout my life and I want to encourage you and help you do the same. People come first. We need each other. None of us are as alone as we feel. My duty is to provide you with instructions on how to keep the important people in your life. Starting with you.... Let me help you. I will give you advice that will allow to overcome the most trying situations. I will help you understand your Significant other, family friends, and loved ones. I try to keep each positive and focused. I gain positive energy from her as well as others in my life. We feed off of each other. What about you....? Have you developed any meaningful nonsexual relationship? Do you have issues with trust? Are you "damaged goods"(DG)? Do you lie more than you are comfortable with? How do you really feel about sex ? Do you orgasm? Well I invite you to my Comfy Couch. Take a seat. Lie Back. And let's talk ..... Love is a wonderful thing!