Coming Up Roses: The Bachelorette

New 'Bachelor' Spin-off CONFIRMED! 'Bachelor in Paradise' Begins this Summer!

2014-03-21T19:59:45-04:00

There's a new member of the "Bachelor" franchise! It's called "Bachelor in Paradise" and it's confirmed by ABC to be starting this summer!

Entertainment Weekly exclusively reported today that the new show will last six episodes and feature a rose ceremony!

It will reportedly take place on an isolated island location and will bring back many favorite "Bachelor" and "Bachelorette" contestants.

This is sure to be a welcome replacement for fans of "Bachelor Pad" which did not get renewed for last summer.

It seems that this new show will feature more on love connections and hookups than game playing, although I wouldn't rule anything out at this point.

Chris Harrison announced the other day that there would be a big announcement and this is big! He, of course, is returning as the host.

The premiere date and location of the show have not yet been revealed.

Hugs, Kisses, & Roses,

Jennifer Matarese

'I Like You a Lot' Juan Pablo Tells Final 'Bachelor' Pick, 'Bachelorette' Chosen

2014-03-10T23:29:55-04:00

This is it, the big finale of “The Bachelor” with Juan Pablo. Before we find out why on earth the final two girls are seen crying so much in all of the promos, Clare and Nikki are meeting Juan Pablo’s family. Well, it’s new for at least Clare. Nikki met most of them on a date earlier this season.

Clare was up first to meet Juan Pablo’s family, which included his daughter Camila. She spoke to his parents about how she wants three kids one day, and they seemed to like her a lot. She told his mother that she feels love for Juan Pablo. His mother also said that his attitude basically makes her cry sometimes too the way it did with Clare over the whole “swimming” situation. I’m not sure if that’s a good thing or not. His cousin really seemed to like her a lot and he told Juan Pablo that Clare is ready to get married right away, but he’s not going to say “She’s begging for it.” That caused the studio audience watching the finale have a good laugh.

While Clare spoke with Juan Pablo’s father, they held hands the whole time. It seems a little odd. But, he told her that he loves her and that he would be there like a father for her. Wow. Why can’t Juan Pablo be that sweet and sincere? Clare thinks Juan Pablo is just like him, but I don’t exactly see it. I think he takes a bit more after his mother.

Nikki then had her chance the following day to see Juan Pablo’s family again. Some of them she was just meeting for the first time, and others she had already met at Camila’s dance recital. She didn’t seem too interested in talking to Camila though, unless her interaction with her when she got there wasn’t really shown. His dad warned her that he’s not an easy guy to get along with and that he tells the truth brutally and that he’s very stubborn about what he wants. His dad gave her a big kiss on the cheek. It was sweet. His dad thought that her honest personality seemed like it would be a good fit for Juan Pablo and that she could “manage” him.

His mother stressed that he’s a homebody mostly and wanted to make sure she wouldn’t mind sitting around watching TV on the weekends. Nikki asked her if she thought Juan Pablo was ready for marriage and she said that she was “pretty sure”. Yeah, that’s not very convincing! His cousin talked to her about her ability to put up with his fiery fighting style and she said that she would be able to hold her own and that it creates great passion. At the end of the day, Juan Pablo told Nikki that he is so glad that she signed up for this.

Clare had her last date with Juan Pablo before he was to make his big decision. They went on a helicopter ride exploring Saint Lucia. Clare was worried that he wasn’t talking to her enough and that it was maybe just a physical connection holding them together.

Back at the room later that evening, Clare talked about how Juan Pablo made a comment about their chemistry together and that he told her that he doesn’t know her at all and she doesn’t know him at all. He clarified that it’s not “at all” it’s just “not enough” yet. Clare told him that she doesn’t just need the physical stuff she wants so much more. Juan Pablo said the part of her that he knows he likes, but he said there’s probably stuff he doesn’t like about her. She was a little shocked. Juan Pablo said he could lie to her but he’s being honest. She said that his honesty was just confusing her. She could not see what he felt and she was very unsure. She is actually considering leaving because she has more to offer in a relationship than just the physical aspect. I really respect her for saying that.

Juan Pablo said that they are great at kissing and that he thinks that’s perfect. He told her not to blame him because she broke “the kissing rule” where they had agreed to just talk and not kiss in South Korea. Juan Pablo said that he likes how she misses her family and he likes so many other things about her which was very nice of him to say. She asked him if he knew enough about her to make a decision. Juan Pablo said a proposal is huge, and he said he’s not sure if he’s ready to propose because he’s making that decision for his daughter too. He said he wouldn’t have had her meet his whole family if she wasn’t special to him. He said that he knows that if he ends up with her, they could have a baby within the next year. Will he be ready for that?

The live studio audience and the “Bachelor” couples and former contestants thought it was painful to watch…and it was. There’s nothing else to say about that.

Then it was time for Nikki’s final date with Juan Pablo. They met on a boat dock and he immediately checked out her “rack” and they kissed and boarded a boat. The one compliment I can give Juan Pablo is I thought his outfit was cute. They awkwardly sat around on the boat chatting, but it seemed very one sided.

Later it was time for their awkward evening conversation. Nikki was looking for an “I love you” from him but the best she could really get was, “It’s going to be OK”. She just doesn’t seem to want to lose or lose him. She says that she feels really right with him. She gave him a picture frame with a photo of them riding horses and kissing. There was also a letter with the photo which he read out loud in front of her. He responded to her very sweet letter by slobbering all over her face and neck. Then he said, “I’ll see you tomorrow”. Yes, Juan Pablo, that’s exactly what she was going for. Once he was out the door, she sat there and cried for a while.

At last, it’s the final day, decision day. They showed Clare getting ready and making her way over to where Juan Pablo was waiting. She looked absolutely fabulous. Chris Harrison did the walk of doom with her and she went up to Juan Pablo. He smiled as she approached and told her she looked pretty and then she launched into a speech about how much she cares about him. He talked about their ups and downs and he told her that she’s an amazing woman, but that he has to follow what he thinks is best for him and he needs to say goodbye to her. He went to hug her and she put her hands up (the audience cheered loudly). She said that she stuck around because she believed in him and that she needed reassurance and he did, but she obviously didn’t know what kind of man he was. She said that “what you just made me go through; I would never want my children having a father like you.” She walked briskly into the waiting arms of Chris Harrison who gave her a hug and sent her on her way. Once he saw that she was out of earshot he said, “Whew, I’m glad I didn’t pick her!” Sorry, but that’s a jerk thing to say.

Juan Pablo did get to pick out a ring from Neil Lane, but it remains unclear if he would ever use it. The show didn’t even bother to show him picking it out. Nikki arrived in a beautiful blue dress. Juan Pablo looked at the ring as she stepped off the boat and walked towards him. Nikki told him that he’s an amazing person and she appreciated meeting his family and that she wants to be a part of it all and she thinks it’s a once in a lifetime experience feeling the way she feels. She said she doesn’t want it to stop and she doesn’t think it will and that she loves him. He told her that he loves how she feels about all the people around her and that he can see her as a good stepmom for Camila because she has all the qualities that he is looking for. He said that he has a ring there in his pocket and he’s not going to use it yet because he’s not 100% sure that he wants to propose to her. He is however 100% sure that he doesn’t want to let her go. He told her that he likes her a lot, A LOT. He asked her if she would accept his final rose. She shook her head yes and said “absolutely”. They did a whole bunch of kissing. He told her that he was glad she accepted it and told her she was so pretty again. He then told her not to get cranky on him then, but later. Well that’s just great.

Now it’s time for the LIVE “After the Final Rose” episode. Clare was out on the stage first. Clare said it was hard to watch the finale and it brought back the “sting” of that day. She said that she had hoped that he would turn out to be who she wanted him to be, but obviously he wasn’t. She stood up to a man for the first time in her life that day. She said that she gave him too many chances. It was exactly how she felt and the way he acting and what he said was not OK with her. She doesn’t need any further closure and is chose not to see him during this special. She doesn’t want to get fed “anymore BS”.

Juan Pablo would not reveal to the audience what he said that upset Clare on their helicopter ride. He just said “it’s fine” about what Clare said to him and that he doesn’t regret anything and he’s not sure why he should have regret.

Nikki came out and said that there is a relationship and they are still in love. She says she still doesn’t know if he loves her. Yikes. She says that her feelings have not changed. He still has not even told her in private that he loves her. She says that in his actions she knows that he cares about her.

Once they were on stage together, they said that they plan to go on with their lives together. They are looking forward to some privacy. Chris Harrison asked if he had a big surprise and he said it was basically that they were still together. Um, ok. That isn’t a real surprise. Juan Pablo refused to say that he loves her and just said that “he feels great” about Nikki. He would not answer that question to Chris Harrison. They said that they are happy that they had the opportunity to meet each other but they are “So done with the show”. Sean (our last “Bachelor”) basically said that when he knew that he wanted to spend his life with Catherine he couldn’t wait to tell her that and he wanted her to know it and how special she is to him. But obviously, “to each their own,” Sean said.

Chris Harrison tried as hard as he could, but he could not budge him. He said he would like to say that they are in love, but it’s so awkward. Nikki said that she respects that he’s taking his time and it’s a real relationship and you can’t force it. He was dating other people and now they need time to really get to know each other, not to mention that he also has to think about his daughter. Juan Pablo says he never wants to get divorced. Well, that’s entirely possible, because the guy may never get married! He was with the mother of his child for quite a while and never married her, that’s practically the same as dealing with a divorce, even more so with a child involved.

Back from the break, Chris Harrison continued to harp on the issue. He asked Nikki how long she planned to give him to say “I love you”. She said she wouldn’t put a time limit on it. They have a “plan” but it got sidetracked two weeks ago apparently. Something happened, but they wouldn’t say what that was. They are still trying to figure out their living situation. All they would say is, “We have our plans”. Sean shook his head “no” to that in the fact that they would ever get privacy. He’s like, “I hate to burst your bubble, but it’s not private after the show”. Catherine said that she wouldn’t be happy if she were sitting in her shoes. She said that she’s glad they are happy but that she’s also confused by it. She basically thinks they are “Slapping the hand that fed them.” It’s a public forum and people like to see what’s going to happen next. Chris Harrison wanted to know, why not share the good stuff? If it is good news, why not share how much you love her. He said it’s a “Bachelor” first and he’s been doing this for 12 years.

Next and finally, some good news. The big reveal of the new “Bachelorette”! It’s ANDI! She’s a fabulous choice! She tells it like it is and I think she will do a good job. I hope she can find happiness. I’m so glad that we all have something to look forward to after Juan Pablo turned out to be a cold fish.

Hugs, Kisses & Roses,
Jennifer Matarese

'The Women Tell All' about Juan Pablo

2014-03-03T21:44:22-05:00

“The Women Tell All” episode actually began with Sean and Catherine talking about their wedding special and how their honeymoon went.

Catherine said the wedding night was very romantic and Sean said there were fireworks. They seem very happy together. They said that they swam with sharks and stingrays on their honeymoon. He said a stingray latched on to his “man parts” and it hurt really bad, but he was OK thank goodness. That’s crazy! They also said that they would like a year of being together and then they will start trying for kids! There could be some “Bachelor” babies on the horizon!

The ladies first talked about how he never listened to him, he wasn’t genuine, and he wasn’t really that easy to talk to. The biggest complaint was that he mostly talked about himself. The ladies went there to find a husband and Andi said that they all pretty much think he’s there to find a girlfriend. They also said that he used his daughter as an excuse to pull away from the women he wasn’t interested in.

After the Clare swimming in the ocean situation, the ladies were shocked. They all called each other because they couldn’t believe it happened. However, they felt like he handled the situation poorly and blamed him more. She offered, but he took her up on it and then made her feel bad about it.

Sharleen was the first woman in the hot seat and she said that she was honest the whole time. She covered her eyes as she watched Juan Pablo and her relationship play out on the big screen for the audience. She said she could have happily dated them but that there wasn’t a cerebral connection and that she knew that it just wasn’t her in the end.

Renee was up next and it was hard for her to watch herself get her heart broken again by Juan Pablo. She said she wouldn’t change anything, except she wanted to tell him she loved him, but she didn’t think it would have made a difference. She felt that their relationship was at a slow pace compared to everyone else. Renee revealed that she’s got a new man in her life (rumor is she’s actually engaged to a man she’s known for a long time). All she would say is that she has a new “situation” going on.

The woman I was most excited to see in the hot seat, Andi, finally took the chair. She said that him talking about another woman was really hurtful. She couldn’t believe that he would do that and that she was appalled by it. She said that she wishes she would have told him exactly how she felt. She said that the things he said to her made her feel “cheap”. She did admit that she was very attracted to him though, but in the end they just didn’t understand each other basically.

At last, Juan Pablo came out to face the music. Juan Pablo said that he wouldn’t change anything and that he’s been honest since day one, and he realizes that sometimes it comes off as rude. Andi actually stuck up for him when it came to his “special treatment” of the single moms. She thought that it was great the he gave them special consideration since they were away from their children and took that seriously. Juan Pablo seemed to appreciate it a bit, however, I think he’s still steamed at the comments she made about their own relationship.

Andi talked to him about the fact that Juan Pablo didn’t really get to know them. He said that he thought he got to know some of the girls but he wanted to see how they interact more than learning facts. He also talked about the gay comments and he said that he realizes gay people are born that way and that he loves them and wants equality. Sharleen stuck up for him and said that he’s very open minded and that it was basically taken out of context. He had said that gays were “more pervert” in a sense. Not quite sure what he was trying to accomplish with that comment.

Finally,we got to see a preview of next week’s big finale with Clare and Nikki. Chris Harrison said that next week’s finale is something that they’ve never seen before. I wonder what that could mean. The preview didn’t seem like there was a happy ending, there was a lot of crying going on! I guess we’ll have to just wait and see what happens. The After the Final Rose special airs immediately after the finale.

Hugs, Kisses, & Roses,
Jennifer Matarese

A Disastrous End to a Fantasy Suite Date on 'The Bachelor'

2014-02-25T22:35:03-05:00

It’s time for the overnight fantasy suite dates in St. Lucia! It’s truly a beautiful island. Clare was up first. She and Juan Pablo took a boat ride over to a different part of the island and boarded a private yacht. They snuggled up and made out on the deck. Clare revealed that her mom and dad got engaged after three weeks and that she understood how Clare could have such strong feelings for Juan Pablo. Of course, her sister was like, “It’s a TV show!” and Juan Pablo was like yeah that sounds about right from her! I don’t think he totally warmed up to Clare’s one sister.

Clare actually looked very beautiful for the dinner portion of the date. She wore a long white dress that even Juan Pablo complimented her on. Clare thought they had a great day together and she was looking forward to having an in depth conversation about his daughter that evening. She told him that she would care about Camila and would just add more love to her life and not try to step in as a “mom” too much because she already has a wonderful mother. Juan Pablo seemed to really appreciate what she had to say.

Then the awkward fantasy suite card came out. Clare told him that she respects how he feels about what his daughter will see and that she wants to basically do what he wants to do. He said that he knew that this was coming and he wanted to have alone time with her getting to know her without cameras around. So they decided to go to the fantasy suite.

Once inside the suite, they sipped some champagne and Clare told him how happy she was to be spending that time with him. She was deep in thought and he could totally read it. She took that opportunity to tell him that she is falling in love with him. She said that, “Honestly, I am loving falling in love.” With that they kissed! Later in the hot tub, Clare said to the camera that he’s the man she wants to have babies with and get married to. Wow, she is totally in love with him.

Fresh off his overnight with Clare, the next day, Juan Pablo met up with Andi. They walked through a village and they learned how to play steel drums. They grabbed some food, but sat with three little boys. Generously, he offered to get them some juice and food. Andi said she loved seeing him with kids and gave her a glimpse into how he probably is with his daughter. Before you knew it, they were playing soccer out on the sand. Then, they took a land buggie to a beautiful waterfall where they could sit nearby and have a chat. They talked about what her family asked him and what they thought of him and what he thought of them. After their talk, they took a dip in the waterfall and did some kissing.

Later, they had dinner on a little couch. He said that he wanted to make sure that she wasn’t forcing herself to try to fall in love with him. He doesn’t want her to have to force herself to feel things. She said that she wants it badly and that’s not forcing it. She calmed his concerns, and he seemed to feel better. Andi said that it was nice to see that he was listening to what she had to say and that it stuck with him. He assured her that he’s listening to every word she says and is paying close attention so he doesn’t make any mistakes and can pick the right person. When the fantasy suite card arrived, they of course decided to take the opportunity to spend more time together. Andi said that she felt like she was on cloud 9. Inside the suite, they toasted each other, kissed, and in an interview, Juan Pablo told the camera that he actually thought that she could be the one.

The next day, Juan Pablo said they stayed up laughing and talking for hours and that things went great. He was gushing about her the next day. Andi said that when she woke up that morning, she couldn’t wait to get out of the fantasy suite. She said that she thought she had genuine feelings, but the fantasy suite turned into a nightmare. She said the whole night was a disaster. She said she hopes he didn’t think that it was a good date.

She felt like that he only wanted to talk about himself. She said that he doesn’t care about what she thinks or wants out of life. She didn’t see someone who cares for her. She said that the name dropping and talking about his overnight with Clare was just inappropriate. She said she just wanted to smack him across the face and he just doesn’t get it and there’s no filter with him. She’s totally done with this whole thing, but we won’t get to see the breakup just yet.

It was Nikki’s turn for a fantasy suite date. They began the day horseback riding along a beach, which was just beautiful! After riding, they sat on the beach and had a talk. They talked about what her family thought about him and how much they liked him. After that they spent some time kissing in the ocean.

Before you knew it, the sun was down and it was time for dinner. Juan Pablo said that the date during the day went great so he couldn’t wait for their night together. They really didn’t show much of their conversation during dinner, but the fantasy suite card came out and they ended up retreating to the room.

In the room, she told him that she wouldn’t be there if she didn’t feel the way she did and said, “I love you”. She said she assumed that he already knew that, and he said he knew she liked him but wasn’t sure if she loved him yet. It almost brought him to tears! Wow!

Juan Pablo had a chat with Chris Harrison about all of the ladies and where his head is at. He said that he really didn’t know who he wanted to send home because he had such a great time on all of his dates. The ladies recorded videos for him and he was going to take some time to watch them. Nikki’s video recapped their time together; she talked about meeting his family, and her feelings of love for him. Clare’s video talked about how much it meant for him to meet her family and she reiterated that she is falling in love with him. Andi’s video talked about the progression of her feelings and said that she has a lot of thoughts about their time together and she wanted to share those thoughts with him in person.

Andi walked up to a confused Juan Pablo who was hoping that if she had concerns he would be able to fix them. She was very blunt in saying that she realized that she wasn’t in love with him and that she wasn’t going to fall in love with him. Juan Pablo said that it was ok, and that if it isn’t meant to be it isn’t meant to be. She was angry at that response in saying that it is ok. He said that he just doesn’t want her to feel bad that she doesn’t feel it. She said that came off as him not having feelings. He said he respects her as a woman and as a person and that he respected her honesty. He said he’s not going to die, but it is sad for him. She said that she was super upset that she never saw any emotion out of him. She told him that she was offended by the fact that he said he bonded with Clare on his overnight and she thought he took that conversation too far and it hurt her feelings. Andi said that he told him that she barely made it by default at one point and that was very offensive to her.

The conversation continued to go back and forth for a while with Juan Pablo saying everything is “fine” and “ok”. Andi just replied, “Of course it is.” He asked her why she didn’t bring it up when it was happening in the fantasy suite. Why didn’t she ask to talk about something else? She told him to stop saying, “It’s OK” because “It’s annoying”. He asked her how to acknowledge the feelings and she said to repeat what the person said so they know you listened and then say, “It’s OK”. He continued to pick at her hair and her face, and even her eyebrow, right up to the end. How strange. He totally sees women as dolls or something. He told her he appreciated her honestly, they hugged, and she left.

He was like, “Am I disappointed, maybe a little bit.” I mean, ok, this is not a guy who’s all broken up inside. He said he won’t miss the arguments. He was like, “I’m not going to argue with a lawyer.” He said that her putting words in her mouth killed it for him and if she changed her mind and wanted to stay he would say no. Yeah right, I think he’s just trying to save face because he’s feeling rejected. Andi said he doesn’t get it and never will as she left in the car.

So now that Andi was gone, the remaining two women lined up and were like, “Where’s Andi?” They realized something went wrong. Nikki wanted to know what the heck happened. Juan Pablo said to them that Andi told him that she didn’t have strong enough feelings to stay and that she wanted to go home. He said there are two roses, but if they don’t want to be there to not accept the rose and that’s OK if that’s how they feel. Both women accepted the roses.

Next week, is “The Women Tell All”. We’ll see more from Andi thank goodness. Things are going to be explosive! Then in two weeks, it’s the big finale! It looks like there will be a lot of tears and Chris Harrison calls it the “shocking conclusion that no one will see coming.

Hugs, Kisses, & Roses,

Jennifer Matarese

Juan Pablo Visits the Final Four Women's Hometowns on 'The Bachelor'

2014-02-24T22:29:11-05:00

Juan Pablo traveled to meet his final four this week. First up, was Nikki in Kansas City.

Juan Pablo says that he really likes how well they get on and that he loves their relationship. She took him to Oklahoma Joe’s Barbeque, the most famous BBQ place in her town. They had some ribs and boy, did those look delicious! They had a great time chowing down, but then they were off to a bar to try some mechanical bull riding.

It was a fun time for them, but of course it ended up with more making out.

Later, Juan Pablo went over to Nikki’s parents’ house to meet her family. Her parents, two brothers, and the one brother’s wife were all there to greet him. They seemed extremely nice. They had full plates of food and her mom’s like, “Wanna go chat?” And Nikki said “Sure” and I would be like, “Hello, wait 10 minutes” ha-ha! Her mother asked her if she told him how she feels yet and Nikki told her that she was waiting for the right moment. Her mom seemed worried about the fact that Nikki would accept a proposal so soon, but said she would support her all the way.

Nikki’s dad, Tom, sat down with Juan Pablo and asked him what he likes about Nikki, and said that he loves how the conversation just flows and that he admires her honesty. Her dad said he doesn’t want him to propose unless he’s in it 100%, and Juan Pablo said not to worry that he’s looking at this as a long-term thing and that he needs to build a family first with his daughter and whomever he chooses before proposing marriage. Nikki’s dad also told her that he trusts her and that he just loves her and supports her.

After the serious chats were over, they headed outside for their goodbye make out session, and Nikki said that she really wanted to, but it just didn’t feel right to drop the L-bomb yet. I think she made the right decision. If anything, it might make him think she’s a little hard to get and that could work in her favor. We’ll see!

Next, Juan Pablo headed over to Andi’s hometown of Atlanta, Georgia. She started off by taking him to a firing range! That’s pretty exciting and she was really enthusiastic about showing off her skills. She got a bull’s eye right out of the gate. Juan Pablo didn’t do that well at it, but hey, I give him an A for effort.

When he met Andi’s family, they weren’t as warm as Nikki’s were. You could see the look on her father’s face right away, he was not happy with this situation. Interestingly enough, her parents got engaged after knowing each other for just six months. Andi’s mom Patty took Juan Pablo aside and asked him how things were going with Andi, and he said that he has a great time with her and finds her very fun. Her mom asked Juan Pablo to show her how to dance salsa so he got Andi and showed her an example. It was pretty funny, because Andi hardly moved ha-ha!

Then it was dad’s turn. Hy, Andi’s dad, said that he’s worried about her getting her heart broken. He asked him why go on “The Bachelor”. He said that he added that it was great that all the women there knew that he had a daughter and still wanted to be there. He said that’s a big hurdle for him. Her dad told him to focus on finding someone he was happy with and then see if she’d be a good fit for Camila as a step-mother. Juan Pablo asked Hy if he would accept him and his daughter in their family. He wouldn’t answer his question unless Andi was the only one for him. Hy said that he wouldn’t really expect Juan Pablo to answer that about his own daughter one day, so it’s a tough one for him too.

Andi said that she wished that her parents and sister could see the way that they feel about each other and think that it was an obvious match but they don’t. So they talked outside, and you could see that Juan Pablo was kind of lying when he said that he had a good time there. The poor guy was under the pressure cooker 24/7. I’m surprised he didn’t have pit stains the size of lakes. He must wear some good deodorant. They kissed each other goodbye, and the night ended without an L-bomb dropped.

Renee was next in beautiful Sarasota, Florida. Juan Pablo met her on the beach and they headed over to a little league baseball field to have a picnic. She told him that’s where she and Ben usually hang out. Ben got out of the car and arrived at the field. He’s adorable. He got out of the car and gave his mom the biggest hug ever. Juan Pablo came over and shook his hand and told him how much his mom talks about him. Then they watched Ben play in a game.

They went over to her parents’ house later where Renee took some time to hang out with her son for a little while. Meantime, Juan Pablo chatted with Renee’s brother and her parents. Her brother seemed to respond to Juan Pablo really well. Her mom was shocked that she didn’t tell him that she loves him yet and was encouraging her to do so. I was really surprised by that! When the day was over, she walked him outside, but didn’t say I love you. That’s three ladies now who have not said it! I’m shocked! She said she regretted not saying it, but she just couldn’t get it out yet.

Last but not least, Clare met up with Juan Pablo in Sacramento, California. They talked about her father and all of the great memories she had with him there. She told him how they danced her father-daughter dance before he died of cancer because she asked him who would do that one day when he died. They threw rocks into the water because her dad told her he would never be further away from her than she could throw a rock into the pond. It was really heartfelt.

He met Clare’s mother and sisters. They really responded to him. It was an entire room full of women and he was having a great time!

While talking with her sister, Clare told her sister that she would say “Yes” in a heartbeat to Juan Pablo. She was shocked, but she said that she wished her dad was there to basically size him up. Clare’s other sister asked if he would be ready to propose to her. He said that at first it was just attraction between them but now he really gets to her emotionally. Her mom and sister were not even really critical, but Clare ended up crying and saying that she just wants them to be happy for her. Her sister freaked out and wouldn’t even let her talk to her mother. It was the weirdest confrontation ever.

Juan Pablo tried to talk to her sister about her issues and how he wanted to meet all of them and see why Clare is the way he is. She left, and then Clare’s mom sat around and spoke to him in Spanish! It was cool to see. After their chat, Clare spoke with Juan Pablo about his impressions and of course he said he had a good time.

Back in Miami, the ladies assembled to find out who would make the final three. Juan Pablo decided to give roses to Nikki, Clare, and Andi. Poor Renee got the boot. I’m shocked. I can’t believe he would still keep Clare around after meeting her family. I think there was a spark missing between Renee and Juan Pablo though and ultimately that cost her the rose and his heart. Renee said that he opened up her eyes to a whole new world and she’s ready to get back out there after her experience on the show. I’m bummed. I think she was the nicest out of the group.

Juan Pablo cried as he sent her home because he truly respected her and didn’t want to hurt her, but ultimately did.

Tomorrow night, “The Bachelor” is back! It’s time for fantasy suite time and things get messy between Andi and our Bachelor. What on earth happens?! I can’t wait to find out! Apparently, St. Lucia isn’t paradise for everyone.

Hugs, Kisses & Roses,

Jennifer Matarese

One Woman Chooses To Leave, Others Compete for Hometown Dates

2014-02-17T22:23:18-05:00

This week the final six are in Juan Pablo’s city of Miami, Florida. He begins by visiting his daughter, Camila. He hadn’t seen her in three weeks.

He was so excited to surprise her, which was actually really sweet. They had a lot of hugs and they were obviously overjoyed to be reunited.

Juan Pablo dropped off the date card himself and handed it to Sharleen. It said, “Come sea my city.” She didn’t seem enthused at all. She’s still battling her confusion over her feelings for him. Once she was ready, they walked up to a yacht, and got ready to take to the water. They laid down on a blanket on the front of the boat and Sharleen told him that he looked “too cozy”. They kissed and made out a little bit, but you could tell that she was pulling away from him and not into it. She playfully told him, “You’re trouble”. But she even admitted that they do have good chemistry and she’s attracted to him. She just feels like something is lacking.

Juan Pablo asked Sharleen about her life and told Juan Pablo that she now has different priorities because she’s a professional opera singer and that she enjoys change. He seemed satisfied by their strange conversation and so did she. Enough so, that she jumped into the water with him and kissed him endlessly.

That evening, she seemed more content with Juan Pablo, but was still trying to see if he was the kind of guy she wanted to bring home to her family. She’s not sure if she sees him as a future husband or not. It’s a little reassuring to hear someone have doubts and actually evaluate the situation where Juan Pablo seems to obviously think that it’s her that needs to do all of the “impressing”. I’m so sick of seeing them kiss…it’s getting gross. She made him stop kissing her and they talked about how she felt about him meeting her family and she said honestly she could see it, but she’s not sure. She says she still has a little voice in her head telling her, “It’s not right”. Sharleen said that they did have an amazing date, and she’s still having doubts about him and she doesn’t feel that she should. She voiced those concerns to a producer who was on the boat who urged her to not make a hasty decision.

Another date card came and it was another one-on-one for Nikki! It read, “Listen to my heart beat.” The following day they met up and went to a flower shop together. They were making a flower arrangement together to give to Camila for her dance recital. Nikki was very excited at the prospect of seeing her dance, but also learned that his parents and his ex-girlfriend, Camila’s mother, would also be there. They got a really pretty tulip arrangement made for her.

Chelsie, Renee, Clare, and Andi got the last date card that said, “My hometown for yours,” and they learned that there would be a date rose! That woman will be bringing Juan Pablo home to meet her family next week.

Back on Nikki’s one-on-one date, they watched Camila perform and it was adorable! It was pretty awkward watching her meet Carla, but Nikki handled it well. It’s pretty telling that he picked Nikki to go on this date, it’s a huge deal. I’m surprised he felt comfortable enough to introduce someone to his daughter at this point.

Later, they went to Marlin’s Park to see his office. He’s really revealing a lot about himself to her. I think despite his infatuation with Sharleen, he likes Nikki the best. They got to throw the ball around a little, and he stopped suddenly and said, “I really want to kiss you and not throw the ball around.” It was pretty funny. They sat down on the ball field later to have a picnic dinner. Nikki told him that she couldn’t have asked for a better day and she really enjoyed meeting his family and Camila. Nikki stopped herself and she told him that she wondered where she would fit in with that dynamic. She wanted to make sure that Carla was OK with everything and that they want the best for each other. At the end of the day, Nikki was sure that she wants her forever to be with Juan Pablo.

Sharleen called a meeting with the other ladies about her feelings about Juan Pablo and her conflicted feelings. She said that she felt it wouldn’t be fair of her to potentially take a spot from one of them when she really isn’t feeling it. She told them that she was on her way to go tell him. She went and knocked on Juan Pablo’s door and he was excited to see her, but knew right away that something was wrong. She told him that the other day was amazing, but she doesn’t know if she’s going to be able to get her feelings to where they should be in three weeks. She told him it’s not right for her to take a spot from someone else. He told her that he understood and kept telling her to stop crying and that he was sorry it didn’t work out. She apologized for wasting his time, and he told her that she didn’t, and that it was ok. He also reiterated that she is different in a good way and the only thing that made him upset is that she didn’t fall in love with him.

Surprisingly, after his conversation with Sharleen, he was really shaken. He even cried about it when he was in his interview with the camera. He clearly didn’t expect anyone to leave him, but it happened, and I think that could be a little scary.

On the group date, a sea plane showed up and whisked them away to a private beach area. Chelsie chatted with Juan Pablo about her mom and her advice to her about being on the show and Andi took her private time to talk about her insecurities some more. It’s getting really old! Clare and Juan Pablo had a semi-awkward talk about what it would be like to bring him home to meet her family. She told him about how her dad made a video to her future husband. His time with Renee was apparently uneventful.

Despite his talks with the other women, Juan Pablo gave the date rose to Andi. Clare was not happy about this. Clare noticed that the people who were getting the roses were the women that aren’t there necessarily for him, and they doubt themselves. I think it’s basically that they aren’t throwing themselves at him. Now Andi gets to go to Atlanta for the evening to have a semi one-on-one date with Juan Pablo.

Juan Pablo and Andi walked into a club where they danced to Latin music on a stage in front of everyone. She said that she’s not very comfortable with that but he’s such a good dancer that he put her at ease. Juan Pablo also said that he laughs more with her than many of the other girls in the house because she knows how to have fun and is so smart and witty.

Back at the hotel it was really awkward as Clare talked about how she thought Andi was wrong for Juan Pablo. Nikki walked up to the bedroom and of course, Clare went upstairs and confronted her. Nikki told her that she is talking “bleep” about her friend. Nikki told her she was interrupting her in a very rude way and Clare was like, “why did you think that” and Nikki said she just “didn’t want to be a part of it.” Then Clare accused her of cutting her off in the conversation. Nikki basically laughed at her and said they would never be friends and that she should “excuse herself” from her room and Clare was like, “you didn’t pay for it, it’s all of our space”. The conversation ended with some curse words.

At the cocktail party, Juan Pablo’s conversation with Renee seemed very buddy, buddy and not romantic. It’s tough because they do have a good connection with both being single parents and they are able to understand each other. I’d like to see him give her a real chance. Maybe he’s not feeling Clare’s craziness, this could go any way! Meantime, it was super awkward between Clare and Nikki while Juan Pablo was talking with all of the other women. Thank goodness Chris Harrison broke up the tension by telling Juan Pablo he had to go deliberate and make his decision.

In addition to Andi who already has a rose, going on the hometown dates are:

Clare (ICK)

Renee

Nikki

That meant that Chelsie didn’t get a rose and would not get to take him to her hometown. Poor girl was so upset! She told Juan Pablo that she had a great time as Juan Pablo cried some and she thanked him for being a “great guy” and that she wanted the best match for him and for her. She was really almost consoling him! Until she got in the limo that is, she cried once she was inside there. She could potentially be a good “Bachelorette” candidate. She’s a sweet girl.

Next week, it’s time for mayhem with the hometown dates! These are the best! Clare’s parents seem to not like the circumstances at all! They don’t like that there are still other women involved as he’s basically asking for their blessing. Something goes very wrong and it’s a two-night event, Monday and Tuesday! Wow. Something is going down!

Hugs, Kisses & Roses,
Jennifer Matarese

Juan Pablo Dumps a Girl on her Birthday, While Another has Doubts

2014-02-10T22:13:50-05:00

“The Bachelor” and his remaining ladies headed to Taupo, New Zealand.

It is incredibly beautiful there and the ladies were understandably blown away. The first date card arrived and it said, “Andi, let’s heat things up.” Finally! Andi got her one-on-one and will stop complaining. Clare was obviously jealous right away.

Andi met up with Juan Pablo outside and they got on a little river jet. After zipping around for a while they pulled up to a spot to go swimming. Andi said it felt really, really cold. After walking through a maze of mossy rocks that continued to get narrower until they got to a beautiful waterfall! It was really amazing! She said that the water got a lot warmer too which was fantastic! Then of course they started making out under the waterfall!

Once it got dark out, they had a private dinner, right at the water’s edge. It was incredible romantic and really cool. After a geyser going off nearly killed the romance, they managed to still have a good time cuddling under a towel. Juan Pablo offered her the date rose, so she’s safe for another week. She seemed very happy, at last!

A group date card came and it said, “Let love roll.” It was for Sharleen, Chelsie, Renee, Nikki, Kat, and Cassandra. That meant that Clare got another one-on-one date, let the drama begin!

On the group date they all met up and had a little picnic and it just happened to be Cassandra’s 22^nd birthday. It was pretty windy out! It was driving all of the girls crazy with their hair. After chatting with a few of the ladies, they headed to a hill in their bikinis and went down the hill in those giant clear balls that you ride inside. It looks crazy, but fun! There was also some crazy kissing going on in there! Who knew you could kiss while flying down a hill at warp speed in an inflatable ball filled with some water?

Later, they had some drinks as the ladies tried to get as much time with Juan Pablo as possible. He spoke with Renee first. She talked about how she and Cassandra missed their sons and bonded over that, but that it is all worth it to be there with him. He kissed her a LOT. She said she wanted to kiss him for the rest of her life. During his talk with Nikki, she said its weird going from having so much alone time with him during a one-on-one and now they are on a group date, but she’s going with it.

Sharleen seemed to have some questions as far as her feelings go and his feelings for her too. She seemed like she was about to start talking to him and he just went in for the kill right away and started kissing her. She had zero time to discuss anything at first. He tickled her chin and she stopped and she asked him, “How do you think I’m feeling right now?” She admitted she is having a few doubts, but she is questioning where they are at. He told her not to questioning anything and to just “Live this” and started kissing her again. So crazy!

Birthday girl Cassandra spoke with Juan Pablo about how she’s so happy she’s able to open up to him more and how she has a bunch of love to give. She called him a good person and a very special person. I think all of those compliments just went in one ear and out the other, because there was no kissing going on at all! She was really hoping to get the date rose because it’s her birthday. Juan Pablo picked up the rose and gave it to Sharleen. Why does he like her so much? I don’t understand! She doesn’t even want kids and he has a child!

After that, Juan Pablo pulled Cassandra aside and dumped her on birthday. He told her that she’s gorgeous and sweet but he’s basically not feeling it anymore. He said that they are not “in the same chapter”. He told her that he needs to let her go because he knows that she’s not the one, and she respects the fact that he didn’t wait until the rose ceremony to tell her that. He told her that he’s so happy he was a little part of her emotional growth on the show. Poor Cassandra!

The next day, Clare and Juan Pablo went on their one-on-one date. They started off by talking about their controversial swim in the ocean. She had more to say about it and has a lot of questions about where their boundaries are. He talked about how he never has any physical contact with a woman in front of Camila. He basically thought it was inappropriate because it was early in the morning and he was mad at himself afterwards. He broke up the tension by kissing her. So I guess it’s ok to make out on the rocks there. She said that he apologized, but it didn’t really feel like an apology to me.

That evening they talked about what they want out of their relationship and they actually seemed to have a really productive and good talk. He brought her some gross looking sweat pants and a white tank top. Juan Pablo said that there is just something about her that he finds super attractive. He offered her the date rose! She’s around for another week.

Before you know it, it’s time for another cocktail party. Nikki and Juan Pablo flirted a lot while he fished for a few compliments and then they made out. I wonder how much he really gets to know these women by operating this way. He told Renee that he respected her during their short talk and also spent some time kissing her. Chelsie complained to Juan Pablo about how they didn’t get any time together that week and he tried to reassure her but didn’t really seem that into her, so we’ll see. There wasn’t any big time kissing going on, just kisses on the cheek.

Kat spoke to Juan Pablo about her dad and how he wasn’t around for her at all. She said she remembered her dad being passed out drunk and that he couldn’t take care of her sister so she climbed into her sister’s crib and laid there with her until she fell asleep. It was actually a pretty depressing conversation, but at least they talked about something and didn’t kiss the entire time.

It was time for roses. In addition to Clare, Andi, and Sharleen, Juan Pablo gave roses to:

Nikki

Renee

Chelsie

That meant that Kat was sent home. I felt so bad for her; she gave it a good shot. She said that she saw herself at the end of the show, but that just didn’t work out because she knew she wasn’t at the same place as some of the other girls. And then there were six! Sharleen however, seemed confused. She’s very unsure of her feelings for Juan Pablo. She said she feels guilty in a way. That’s not cool; she should have bowed out so Kat could have had another week to get to know him. She said she can see other girls being a better fit for him. Next week, they head to Miami, where Juan Pablo lives! Sharleen said that she’s going to give it one more week and then she’ll make her decision. Nikki and Clare also have a pretty big blow out, so there’s some big drama on the way!

Hugs, Kisses, & Roses,

Jennifer Matarese

Juan Pablo and Clare Take a Risque Dip in the Sea

2014-02-04T01:31:43-05:00

Juan Pablo and his remaining 11 ladies traveled to Vietnam this week. The women were welcomed into an amazing hotel where a date card was waiting for them. It said, "Renee, are we the right fit?" Will she finally get that kiss she's been after? She said that he makes her palms hurt...that's weird. Ha, I've heard of getting sweaty palms, but making them hurt?

They met up in Hoi An, where they got to explore the area and it's culture. Juan Pablo and Renee both are single parents who are 32 and want more kids, so they have that going for them. They stopped into a dress shop and they picked out fabrics to have an authentic dress made for Renee. Juan Pablo peeked when the seamstress measured her bust, bad boy! While she was standing there sweating and getting measured, Juan Pablo ran off and bought a fan to fan her with, which was very sweet of him.

Then, they strolled hand and hand through the city and took some photos together. They decided to look for gifts for their kids together. For Camila they got a dress, and for her son Ben they got a hat. It was very cute, and warmed Renee's heart. Renee wanted a kiss very badly and was staring at him and leaning in a little bit, but he still wasn't taking the bait. Hopefully the romance will get dialed up a notch during dinner.

Renee went and put on her custom made blue and pink dress and she looked beautiful! He spun her around and said that they did a great job on the dress. They went to dinner at a restaurant that had been cleared out just for them with a table set for two. It was very romantic. Renee said that he is giving her butterflies in her stomach. She spoke about her ex-husband and her divorce and how they got married very young and grew apart. Juan Pablo says she lights up when she talks about her son and he just knows she's a great example of a good mom. Aww!

Back at the hotel, another date card arrived. It was a group date card said, "Can you go with the flow?" and it was for Sharleen, Chelsie, Kat, Cassandra, Clare, Kelly, Alli, Danielle and Andi. Andi was very upset that she still hasn't gotten a one-on-one date.

Juan Pablo, back on the one-on-one with Renee, picked up the rose and he paid her compliment after compliment and then asked her to accept the rose, which she did! She was super excited! He still just gave her a kiss on the cheek, but the date wasn't over yet. They went for a walk in the night, and saw children with lit lanterns that they could place in the water. They each got one, and made a wish, and released them into the water. Juan Pablo said that he didn't want to kiss her just yet because she has a son who is old enough to understand what's going on and have a lot of questions and he doesn't want to go there just yet. Poor Renee.

The next day, it was time for the group date. They all got into some bamboo circle boats to explore around. Because Clare as no friends, they all paired up and she got to go with Juan Pablo. I can't believe more ladies didn't jump on that chance! While they were rowing around and got stuck in the trees, Juan Pablo seized the moment to kiss her and of course the other ladies saw that! They were not happy with that to say the least.

They went to a little village where they wandered into a family's home (which was of course set up). They gave them traditional hats and led them to a garden to pick produce and herbs to make a lunch. Juan Pablo helped them water the crops while the girls went picking. Andi meantime, continued to be super annoying and complain that she didn't have a one-on-one date. Juan Pablo told her to stop complaining and that he wants her to be there, and she's basically reading too much into it. The ladies finally got to sit down and have a traditional meal and they all said it was delicious.

That evening, they had some cocktails and Juan Pablo took Clare aside to chat first. The ladies were mad that he took her first, and they were sitting there on her date. They talked about what he wants out of a relationship, blah, blah, blah. They then went into his suite and went swimming in his pool. They made out like crazy in the pool! How long were they gone for?! This is getting a little awkward for the other girls for sure. Clare had to even tell him that they were kissing too much, but he couldn't seem to stop.

At the hotel, Nikki's one-on-one date card came and said, "Nikki, let's have a hell of a good time." What could that mean? Maybe it will be a "hot" date?

Back on the group date, Sharleen and Juan Pablo walked along the beach and then plopped down in the sand and had a little chat. She was starting to question their connection. Juan Pablo basically just told her that she was beautiful and tried to kiss her a lot. She said that there were questions she wanted to ask him, but she kept forgetting to ask them because he kept kissing her!

Once it was Andi's turn, she started up again with questioning his feelings for her and he was like, didn't we already talk about all this. He took her to the beach, possibly hoping that a change in scenery would change the topic. He snuggled her and then everything changed. The next thing you know, they are making out on the beach. Andi said, "Sorry Mom! Another episode you can't watch!"

That pesky date rose was still sitting there, so he had to give it to someone. Juan Pablo decided to give the date rose to Clare and not one woman was surprised. They were all really upset, especially Andi. She realized she basically has no control over it and is still wondering what she's doing there.

The ladies returned back to the hotel from their group date and they rehashed the day. Clare said that she was going to bed, but she snuck off to Juan Pablo's room and asked him to go swimming with her. Apparently it was 4 a.m.! It didn't take much convincing! He got in his swim trunks and off they went in the dark. Clare thought it was amazing, it was a warm ocean and they made out like crazy, and he said they got a little wild out there. She said that they "just went for it" and it was "pure bliss in every way". I wonder if the ladies see her come back all wet from the water or if she's able to pretend like she just went to bed.

The following morning (let's hope Juan Pablo got a little sleep) Juan Pablo met up with Nikki for their one-on-one. They walked around Marble Mountain and then she learned that they were going to rappel down into a cave named "Hell". That sounds lovely. I actually feel bad for her. I wouldn't want to do this. She's a trooper though and she geared up and did it. She could hardly stop herself from shaking, but she managed to do it. Usually, I am jealous of their dates on this show, but not this time. Anyway, part way down there he kissed her, which was nice, but she could hardly enjoy it. They eventually made it to the bottom where they made out some more. They explored the cave which was full of creepy things and I think I would just want to get the heck out of there.

Later, it was time for dinner inside of a beautiful lit up cave. She lied and said that she had a good time and that she'd do it again. I don't buy it. She laughed that he had quite the view looking at her butt the whole way down there in that cave. He lied and said that he missed her the night before, um, did you forget your time with Clare in the sea? After they were done lying to each other, they talked about her career and why she became a pediatric nurse. She said that there's a lot of hope that comes with caring for sick children and it's given her a bunch of compassion and a huge heart. They seemed to have a very nice time together. She revealed that she's never dated someone with a child and she said he wouldn't be who he is without having his daughter, so she could never write him off because of that. She also tried to assure him that she has a lot of love to give not only to him but to his daughter. He was really touched by that and asked her if she would accept the date rose, and she said yes! He said he sees her as a potential wife.

At last, it was time for the cocktail party. The ladies were shocked to learn that three of the women had to go home that night. The women were so awkwardly quiet after that news, and Clare tried to break the silence with a toast. Juan Pablo basically told Andi she had nothing to worry about and kidded her about being nervous that evening during their chat. Juan Pablo seemed to have a hard time deciding what to do that night since he had to send so many women home at once. He also talked with Renee about why he wasn't kissing her, so Renee tried to tell him it was ok, and he went in for the kill. He kissed the heck out of her! She was so relieved!

During his talk with Clare, Juan Pablo basically told her that it was weird for him that they went in the ocean. He said that there are 10 other women he is getting to know, and it wasn't right, but "what happened, happened." She said that she felt silly now. He tried to say he was trying to be fair, she said it wasn't about fair and it was about his heart. He also said it was a bad example for his daughter. He kept telling her to listen to him and she started to cry. He said he was just trying to let her know how he felt. She said it was the last thing she wanted or intended was to be a bad example to his daughter. He told her to not feel stupid or embarrassed, but hey pal, you just totally made her feel that way! You are responsible for your actions and you went along with it! I mean, come on! He's making out with 11 girls! That totally trumps Clare asking for a midnight swim in my opinion. Clare left confused and in a weird place. I actually feel bad for her. She should have walked out and called him a hypocrite.

The ladies noticed the tension when they returned and had no idea what had happened! She was trying hard to keep it together, but just needed to have a good cry. She feels terrible. I'm actually mad at him for making her feel that way. She tried to pass off her crying as allergies, but they weren't buying it. It was confusing to the other ladies why she would be crying if he had given her a rose already. She was crying outside and Juan Pablo came back and said that he wanted her to be OK. She told him she felt like he wanted to take the rose back and he said, "No, no, no!" That's not what he meant at all. He told her to "just delete it". She asked him why he didn't say no to swimming in the ocean, and he said it was because he didn't want to take away her emotion or hurt her feelings, but it was totally his fault too. Thank goodness at least he's owning up to it some. She said that she would have respected it if he hadn't wanted to go "swimming" because of his daughter. When she returned to the ladies, she again said it was just "bad allergies".

Renee, Clare, and Nikki already have roses. Juan Pablo also gave roses to:

Sharleen

Cassandra

Chelsie

Kat

Andi

That meant that Kelly, Alli, and Danielle were sent home. Next week, they travel to New Zealand. It looks like Andi's finally going to get her one-on-one date so she will stop complaining, yay!

Hugs, Kisses & Roses,

Jennifer Matarese

Clare vs. Nikki on 'The Bachelor'

2014-01-27T22:23:18-05:00

This week’s episode began with Juan Pablo saying goodbye to his daughter Camila as he got ready to travel the world.

Chris Harrison announced to the 13 ladies still remaining that they would be traveling to Seoul, South Korea. They had just one hour to pack and get ready for their flight.

Juan Pablo arrived first and took in some of the sights of the city. Meantime, the ladies landed and got to see their amazing hotel suite where they would be staying. The first date card arrived for Chelsie, Cassandra, Elise, Danielle, Kat, and Nikki. It read, “Pop”! That could mean anything! Nikki said she was bummed that she was half way around the world and had to spend her time with girls she finds “quite annoying.”

Nikki started off the date by seeming really annoyed, but we’ll see if she’s able to turn on the charm once Juan Pablo is around. They are going to dance with the biggest K-Pop group “2NE1”. Nikki said she’s terrible at dancing, but she tried to make the most of it. Kat meanwhile, can dance at a professional level and could really impress him. The ladies learn that “2NE1” has a big show that evening and that they are going to be in part of the show! Some ladies were excited, some were not. I think we all know who.

They showed up at a mall and “2NE1” arrived and they all got on stage. The fans went wild and the ladies did the best they could and it looked pretty good! Juan Pablo was proud of them. He thought they all did a great job. Nikki was obsessed with getting time alone with Juan Pablo and finally smiled once she got to stand next to him while they took a picture. She needs to calm down already!

In the evening, Juan Pablo finally got a chance to talk to Kat about how she is about more than just having a great time and how she wants him to get to know her deeper. She talked about her parents’ divorce when she was a little kid. It got really depressing at times. Yeah, don’t worry Kat, I doubt he thinks you’re all about fun after your chat.

Back at the circle of ladies, no one was talking! They all just sat there in silence like they were in a waiting room or something. Elise spoke to Juan Pablo about who she thought would be a good mother and who wouldn’t without naming names. He assured her that he was keeping his eyes open.

Nikki told him that it’s hard for her to open up when all of the other girls are around. Juan Pablo asked if there is anything he could have done to make her more comfortable, but she said “no” it’s just the situation and it’s not easy. She told him that she was really excited to see him that day and was even a little giddy to see him. He asked her how she felt about him having Camila, and she said that she loves kids and that is why she chose to work with children as a pediatric nurse. She thought the talk went really well. They ended their chat with a kiss. She ended up getting a date rose so that worked out!

Back at the hotel, another date card arrived. It was for Sharleen and said “Are you my Seoul mate?” She said she hoped it meant that they would explore Seoul together. She seems a little unsure of their connection so I think it’s good that they get some time alone together to figure that out.

Sharleen went into the date a little skeptical, while Juan Pablo went into it really hopeful. They walked around a public market where they saw pig snouts, fish, and all kinds of weird things. It was really cool when they looked at the clothing. Juan Pablo got a traditional dress for Camila. They even tried some of the unusual foods.

Later, they went to a tea house where they could sit and chat. They talked about how she started singing opera and he kind of pressured her into performing for him. She was really nervous but she went outside and started singing. She said that she has opened up way more than she ever thought she would to him. They started to kiss and I’m sorry, but watching them kiss is just a little gross. He bit her lip?!

At dinner, they talked about how similar they were and Juan Pablo seemed to really be falling “in like” at least with her. She talked about how she cried the first 6 months she lived in Germany because she missed everyone and everything she was used to. Juan Pablo said that coming to America felt a little like that to him too. He asked her how many kids she wanted and she said, “That’s a whole other topic.” Yikes! What does that mean? He said that well, “I have a daughter,” which of course she knew. She told him that she’s very career focused and that, including her relationships, was on the back burner. She admitted that she had a problem dating a man who had a four-year-old daughter before and that she really couldn’t handle that they wouldn’t be experiencing that first together. Juan Pablo said that he had a great date with her but he appreciated her honestly and still offered her the rose. Wow. I didn’t expect that. He said that he thinks that if she took time off from work to be on the show and that means she looking for love and a family. I don’t know where he got that from, she flat out told him that she didn’t really ever think about having a family.

The remaining ladies met Juan Pablo to explore Seoul and do some crazy activities. They began their day with karaoke. They seemed to have fun there and then took some silly pictures, and moved on to some paddle boats.

Then they walked into a spa where they had those little fish eat the dead skin off their feet. Gross. Apparently, it tickles quite a bit! It was so funny because they all attacked Renee and loved her feet! Ha-ha!

The ladies started to notice how Clare latched onto Juan Pablo and wouldn’t let go. She told him she didn’t like octopus and of course, he took her to try a piece. She ate it in the end, but the ladies were upset that she seemed to be monopolizing his time with her silly antics.

Once the sun went down, they settled in to have some cocktails and Juan Pablo started to make the rounds chatting with the women. Renee was up first, and she really wanted to get out of the friend zone and kiss him. She flat out asked him, and it turns out the problem is that he doesn’t want to kiss too many girls and said that he really didn’t want to kiss any girls that night. Wow, ok. How about you just don’t kiss the other six then?

He and Andi had a funny conversation where they called each other bad dancers. They also talked about how they like to sleep in and how amazing it was to be in South Korea. Juan Pablo said that he finds her to be perfect, but he wants to stick to what he said and not kiss her, so he called her “beautiful” in Spanish instead.

The other ladies sat around and conspired about who they thought would get the group date rose, and who they thought might get eliminated in this round. The women are all trying to get kissed, but Juan Pablo is having none of it! Lauren even cried because he flat out rejected her kiss when she asked for one. He went over and tried to explain to her that there’s plenty of time for kissing and it’s not because he’s not attracted to her.

Clare told him how when she ate the octopus she threw up in her mouth. ICK. Don’t worry, no kisses tonight Clare! But wait! He kisses her anyway! Well, she’s one of the six he’s already kissed, so in a way it kind of doesn’t count. He can’t even follow his own rules! However, that did not get her the date rose, Andi got it!

During the cocktail party, the girls decided anyone who already has a rose should be respectful and sit back and let the others talk to Juan Pablo first. Clare spoke to him first and surprise, surprise, Nikki didn’t stick to the rules. She came by and stole Juan Pablo away. This made the ladies furious! Clare decided to not take this whole thing lying down and got up and went to find Nikki. Juan Pablo had asked Nikki if there was drama in the house and so she thinks that Clare put that in his head which he totally did not. She doesn’t want to take her time with him to talk about other women. Nikki though called her out for being one way with the other women and then another way around Juan Pablo. Nikki was like, “Well you aren’t handing out the roses.” Good thing for that Nikki!

Sharleen, Nikki, and Andi already all have roses. Juan Pablo also gave roses to:

Renee

Chelsie

Kelly

Danielle (we haven’t seen that much of her!)

Cassandra

Allison (another one that hasn’t been seen all that much)

Clare

Kat

That meant that Lauren and Elise were eliminated. Aw, I liked Elise! I also feel really bad for Lauren. She gave it her best shot. Now they get to make the long flight home back to the United States.

Juan Pablo announced to his 11 remaining ladies that they were heading to Vietnam! Don’t worry, it looks like the drama picks up too.

Hugs, Kisses, & Roses,

Jennifer Matarese

'The Bachelor's' Sean and Catherine Get Married!

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The biggest night in love kicked off with a look back at Sean and Catherine's engagement, and then quickly caught viewers up on what they have been up to since they got engaged.

That included a road trip from California to Dallas. They visited the Grand Canyon and then did a lot of talking about the wedding on the road. Sean listened patiently as Catherine beat him to death with every detail. He was trapped in that SUV with nowhere to go poor guy! Still, they had a great time and before you knew it, they were in Dallas! Catherine lived with Sean's friend Laura and Sean went to live in a loft. They live just a few blocks from each other but thought it was important to not live together until they were married.

Sean and Catherine met up with Sean's family to share the big news that they had a wedding date picked out. Catherine seems to have a great relationship with his parents so that's great. They even joked that they like her better than they like Sean! Sean also used the occasion to ask his father to officiate their wedding and it brought tears to his father's eyes.

Catherine met with the wedding planner Mindy Weiss and explained what "grown sexy" meant, which was like grown up, sophisticated and sexy. Catherine said that she wants everyone to feel so sexy that night that they all conceive. I can't believe she even asked about them "saving themselves" for their wedding night. Neither one of them is a virgin, but they have not yet consummated their relationship with each other.

Then it was time for one of the most important parts of planning a wedding, dress shopping! She tried on a few different style types and almost all of them made her family and friend cry, because she just looked so beautiful!

Meantime, Sean, trying not to be a perv, went looking for something for Catherine to wear on their wedding night together. It was really awkward listening to the sales lady explain all the different styles of undergarments to Sean. Of course, he pretty much liked everything and I think he bought pretty much everything too.

They also had to go pick out their wedding cake! That was my favorite part of wedding planning. Before they looked at all of the different options, they decorated a cake together. And then they didn't show anything else, so I guess we'll have to wait to see it later. Later, they sat around drinking champagne and Sean gave Catherine all the lingerie he picked out for her. I think she might have been expecting jewelry, but hey, she didn't seem to freaked out by the present.

Less than a month before the big day, they met with the wedding planner and the florist to check out the arrangements for their big day. They were amazed by what they saw at "Mark's Garden". There were so many beautiful pinks and light purples! It's going to be beautiful.

Catherine also got to do a hair trial with a top Hollywood stylist. Jose Eber is known for his amazing work. She also got to see what her makeup would look like. It looked so pretty! I loved the half up, half down look that they were working with while she was there. After that, she went to get boudoir photos done to give to Sean. She wanted to take pictures in all of the lingerie that he picked out for her.

They checked out their wedding bands and tried them on and skipped around the venue and were just really excited for their big day approach. Then, Chris Harrison showed up! He just wanted to basically interview them about their thoughts and plans. They talked about their time on the show and how they each realized that they were meant for each other. She calls herself "his barnacle" because she's always attached to him, ha-ha!

At last, it was time for the actual wedding ceremony! Sean was walked down the aisle by his parents. His dad took his spot at the top as the officiant and Sean waited patiently at his side for his bride. The bridesmaids dresses were a beautiful pale pink. They started their walk down the aisle as Catherine got some finishing touches on her makeup and hair and before you knew it, it was her turn to make her grand entrance.

Catherine opted for a strapless dress made of lace with a beaded dress. I loved her pink rose bouquet. Sean immediately started to cry when he saw her. Catherine walked down the isle alone for the beginning part of the way but was then joined by her family. Sean's dad did a wonderful job making the sermon personal for both of them even though he hasn't known Catherine nearly as long of course. It didn't take long for them to get to the "I do's".

Then, it was time for them to recite their vows that they wrote for each other. Catherine spoke about how much she loves him and how she knew she was waiting for someone like him. She tossed about phrases like "love sprinkles" and making people "blind" by their shining love. Sean talked about the unusual way they met, but how she encourages him and how he always wants more of her smiles, giggles and love. They also spoke about how much they want to be good parents to their children, so it looks like some "Bachelor" babies could soon be on the way for these two.

They exchanged rings, and the best man made a joke about a snack and Catherine said she actually wanted it because she was hungry, but instead, he just gave them the rings. They were beautiful of course. Then, Sean's dad pronounced them man and wife!!!! They gave each other one big kiss and then a bunch of small ones. A confetti of white rose petals rained down on them as they walked back up the isle. Once up at the top, they told each other how much they loved each other and had missed seeing each other earlier that day. It was really sweet.

JP and Ashley, Trista and Ryan, spoke about how happy they were for the happy couple and how it was fun watching the wedding from the audience and not having to deal with the stress today. Sean and Catherine walked in to their reception and hopefully we'll get to see some pictures from that in the future!

Hugs, Kisses, & Roses,

Jennifer Matarese