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		<title>Comment on What I Learned from Blowing Up a PC by Fred H Schlegel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fred H Schlegel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Jul 2009 11:37:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I've heard of machines knowing you were on deadline before, but exploding to keep you from meeting it... LOL.
.-= Fred H Schlegel´s last blog ..&lt;a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/frogblog/yTub/~3/4Dzxqf9AiOE/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Shaking Up the MBA | Dirty Fingernails Entrepreneurship&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve heard of machines knowing you were on deadline before, but exploding to keep you from meeting it&#8230; LOL.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Fred H Schlegel&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/frogblog/yTub/~3/4Dzxqf9AiOE/" rel="nofollow">Shaking Up the MBA | Dirty Fingernails Entrepreneurship</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://confidentwriting.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on What I Learned from Blowing Up a PC by write a writing</title>
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		<dc:creator>write a writing</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Jul 2009 08:20:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great insights Joanna!
.-= write a writing´s last blog ..&lt;a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/WriteAWriting/~3/Q9AeBszG1gk/" rel="nofollow"&gt;How to Write a Conclusion&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great insights Joanna!<br />
<span class="cluv"> write a writing&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/WriteAWriting/~3/Q9AeBszG1gk/" rel="nofollow">How to Write a Conclusion</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://confidentwriting.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on What I Learned from Blowing Up a PC by Lillie Ammann</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lillie Ammann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Jul 2009 04:35:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great story and great lessons, Joanna. I have experienced dead computers, and it's not fun!
.-= Lillie Ammann´s last blog ..&lt;a href="http://lillieammann.com/2009/07/08/guest-post-9-ways-to-promote-your-book-using-social-media-by-beth-morrow/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Guest Post: 9 Ways to Promote Your Book Using Social Media by Beth Morrow&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great story and great lessons, Joanna. I have experienced dead computers, and it&#8217;s not fun!<br />
<span class="cluv"> Lillie Ammann&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://lillieammann.com/2009/07/08/guest-post-9-ways-to-promote-your-book-using-social-media-by-beth-morrow/" rel="nofollow">Guest Post: 9 Ways to Promote Your Book Using Social Media by Beth Morrow</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://confidentwriting.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on What I Learned from Blowing Up a PC by Carla</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Jul 2009 03:36:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great words of wisdom.  During the last few weeks I was working before I went on disability, I was in the middle of an MS attack and kept having to either go to the doctor or leave work early.  Every time I went back to work the next day, I was expecting co-workers to be hopping mad and stressed out because they had to do my work or fix whatever errors I made the previous day.  No, I got hugs, smiles and well wishes. 

“People don’t really care about deadlines, or machines, or broken objects: they care about you.”
.-= Carla´s last blog ..&lt;a href="http://www.greenandchic.com/blog/giveaway/the-winner-is/" rel="nofollow"&gt;The Winner is…&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great words of wisdom.  During the last few weeks I was working before I went on disability, I was in the middle of an MS attack and kept having to either go to the doctor or leave work early.  Every time I went back to work the next day, I was expecting co-workers to be hopping mad and stressed out because they had to do my work or fix whatever errors I made the previous day.  No, I got hugs, smiles and well wishes. </p>
<p>“People don’t really care about deadlines, or machines, or broken objects: they care about you.”<br />
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		<title>Comment on What I Learned from Blowing Up a PC by Kathy | Virtual Impax</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kathy | Virtual Impax</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 23:21:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The picture of the monitor impaled upon the post is totally priceless!!!
If I had a dollar for every time I WANTED to do that to my PC - well, let's just say I'd be aboard my 50 ft cabin cruiser with a cabana boy rubbing my feet.  
 
Instead of acting upon my natural (and more destructive)  impulses - I tend to go with option C: 

"When the universe tells you to slow down a bit, don’t push your luck and ignore her warnings..."

It's a lot less expensive than impaling my computer on something sharp every time the mood strikes.  

Thanks for a great chuckle.   It's a situation to which all web workers can relate!
.-= Kathy | Virtual Impax´s last blog ..&lt;a href="http://virtualimpax.com/2009/07/06/marketing-perspective/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Perspective’s role in your marketing messages&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The picture of the monitor impaled upon the post is totally priceless!!!<br />
If I had a dollar for every time I WANTED to do that to my PC &#8211; well, let&#8217;s just say I&#8217;d be aboard my 50 ft cabin cruiser with a cabana boy rubbing my feet.  </p>
<p>Instead of acting upon my natural (and more destructive)  impulses &#8211; I tend to go with option C: </p>
<p>&#8220;When the universe tells you to slow down a bit, don’t push your luck and ignore her warnings&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a lot less expensive than impaling my computer on something sharp every time the mood strikes.  </p>
<p>Thanks for a great chuckle.   It&#8217;s a situation to which all web workers can relate!<br />
<span class="cluv"> Kathy | Virtual Impax&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://virtualimpax.com/2009/07/06/marketing-perspective/" rel="nofollow">Perspective’s role in your marketing messages</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://confidentwriting.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on (Re)Learning How to Write by Davina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Davina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 20:09:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Joanna. I love the idea of this exercise. When I was younger, I used to do this with names of musical groups; trying to come up with a visible image that conveyed them, like a logo or something. I miss journalling and I've found it difficult to go back to it after being accustomed to typing.
.-= Davina´s last blog ..&lt;a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ShadesOfCrimson/~3/JBpP3b5xLt4/" rel="nofollow"&gt;On the Edge of Being&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Joanna. I love the idea of this exercise. When I was younger, I used to do this with names of musical groups; trying to come up with a visible image that conveyed them, like a logo or something. I miss journalling and I&#8217;ve found it difficult to go back to it after being accustomed to typing.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Davina&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ShadesOfCrimson/~3/JBpP3b5xLt4/" rel="nofollow">On the Edge of Being</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://confidentwriting.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on What I Learned from Blowing Up a PC by Lori Hoeck</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lori Hoeck</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 17:52:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My husband tries to teach his work-study students that if you have to learn a lesson, learn it the easy way by watching others make the mistake instead of learning it the hard way by living through it yourself. I plan to learn this from your post:  "People don’t really care about deadlines, or machines, or broken objects: they care about you." Thank you.
.-= Lori Hoeck´s last blog ..&lt;a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ThinkLikeABlackBelt/~3/mgH62cLCMhI/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Three ways a narcissist can take control&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husband tries to teach his work-study students that if you have to learn a lesson, learn it the easy way by watching others make the mistake instead of learning it the hard way by living through it yourself. I plan to learn this from your post:  &#8220;People don’t really care about deadlines, or machines, or broken objects: they care about you.&#8221; Thank you.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Lori Hoeck&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ThinkLikeABlackBelt/~3/mgH62cLCMhI/" rel="nofollow">Three ways a narcissist can take control</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://confidentwriting.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on What I Learned from Blowing Up a PC by Paul</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 13:04:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post Joanna!

I can really picture you there at the terminals. Flicking the switch and looking at the clock. Flicking the switch and looking at the clock. Like a bad Pavlovian experiment ;)

A friend of mine worked directly for one of the big bosses at his company. All of this boss's instructions were 'green folder' priorities. At first, my friend would rush around like his life depended on it, working to incredibly short, always urgent deadlines.

As time passed he realised that his boss wasn't even reading/using most of the research or reports he was creating. In the end he did nothing until at least 3 or 4 requests for the same piece of work came in.

No warnings and no reprimands ever came his way either ;)

All the best,

Paul
.-= Paul´s last blog ..&lt;a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/worklifefusion/~3/8etErORNNx8/commuters-tale.html" rel="nofollow"&gt;A Commuter's Tale&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post Joanna!</p>
<p>I can really picture you there at the terminals. Flicking the switch and looking at the clock. Flicking the switch and looking at the clock. Like a bad Pavlovian experiment <img src='http://confidentwriting.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>A friend of mine worked directly for one of the big bosses at his company. All of this boss&#8217;s instructions were &#8216;green folder&#8217; priorities. At first, my friend would rush around like his life depended on it, working to incredibly short, always urgent deadlines.</p>
<p>As time passed he realised that his boss wasn&#8217;t even reading/using most of the research or reports he was creating. In the end he did nothing until at least 3 or 4 requests for the same piece of work came in.</p>
<p>No warnings and no reprimands ever came his way either <img src='http://confidentwriting.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>All the best,</p>
<p>Paul<br />
<span class="cluv"> Paul&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/worklifefusion/~3/8etErORNNx8/commuters-tale.html" rel="nofollow">A Commuter&#8217;s Tale</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://confidentwriting.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on What I Learned from Blowing Up a PC by Wilson Pon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Wilson Pon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 12:59:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Joanna, I'd learned a lesson, after reading your post: Always standby a laptop besides you, as you didn't know when the desktop computer will blow up!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joanna, I&#8217;d learned a lesson, after reading your post: Always standby a laptop besides you, as you didn&#8217;t know when the desktop computer will blow up!</p>
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		<title>Comment on What I Learned from Blowing Up a PC by Robert Hruzek</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robert Hruzek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 12:41:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, I'm glad you didn't work for me! :-D (Just kidding, of course!)

Sometimes all the signs are pointing one way while we go barrelling down another, right? I hear ya! Sounds like you had some good friends at that office, though, and that always makes it easier.

Thanks for the WILF entry, and a tip o' the hat to ya!
.-= Robert Hruzek´s last blog ..&lt;a href="http://middlezonemusings.com/when-you-mess-up-bad/" rel="nofollow"&gt;What to Do When You Mess Up – Bad!&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, I&#8217;m glad you didn&#8217;t work for me! <img src='http://confidentwriting.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':-D' class='wp-smiley' />  (Just kidding, of course!)</p>
<p>Sometimes all the signs are pointing one way while we go barrelling down another, right? I hear ya! Sounds like you had some good friends at that office, though, and that always makes it easier.</p>
<p>Thanks for the WILF entry, and a tip o&#8217; the hat to ya!<br />
<span class="cluv"> Robert Hruzek&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://middlezonemusings.com/when-you-mess-up-bad/" rel="nofollow">What to Do When You Mess Up – Bad!</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://confidentwriting.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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