Thank you for your comment, it's great to see you here.

It's great to read about your experiences with your personal development and the progress you have made. I've seen The Secret and was impressed when I saw it, however I have now progressed and see it merely as a step in my journey.

Thank you for sharing your expereinces.

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Paul

Anyone who wants to conquer fears, build self esteem or improve confidence need to first be convinced within themselves of the fact that they need to change and they can change. When I was younger, I had some very serious confidence problems. I overcame this by constantly focusing on all the goods things I have achieved and can do, regardless of how small it may seem to someone else. I cutoff negative friends and anything else that made me feel less than who I ought to be. I bombarded my thoughts with positive movies, books and documentaries until all I could think about is how great my life can be.

One of the documentaries that helped me is at http://www.thesecret.tv – Although I don't agree with everything that is in it, it played a key role to building my confidence and self esteem when I needed it the most.

No need to be sorry, your always welcome here. Just to say hello when you can.

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Paul

Thanks for adding to the conversation, it's great to see you here.

I agree with what you say; by wiping away the superficial materialism we can see the tru beauty.

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Paul

Once you realise that cosmetic and materialistic beauty is literally only skin deal and always completely superficial then you see the world in a whole new way.

Thanks for reminding us all Paul

I'm 100% with you on the Spirituality and the timing of God; I think that was part of my thinking behind the post. That linked with our personal development and the timing of nature.

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Paul

Thank you for dropping in to comment, it's great to see you here.

I like your clear explanation of beneficial and damaging effects of time. They help you understand the need to use your time wisely.

Please call back soon.

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Paul

Thank you for dropping in to comment, it's great to see you here.

I agree with you, the only time to make a difference is in the here and now. Live in the present!

Please call back again.

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Paul

In my opinion, “time” can be used or can hurt us.

We take the time and set deadlines so we do not procrastinate. Thus we use the time for something useful. To achieve goals.

But if we become stressful due to deadlines, then we should relax and do as you say in this post. Allow things to happen. Because, stress leads to a disease. And nobody wants that.

I quite agree, perhaps a further (guest) post maybe the answer, to deepen or stretch the discussion. Or maybe to set the boundaries. What do you think?

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Paul

Thank you for your complimentary comment, it's great to see you here.

I full agree with your sentiments the personal growth journey will start when it's ready and the learning that takes place will be an expereince to behold.

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Paul

'Letting go' was a difficult thing for me to cope with, when I first heard the phrase. It was easy enough to say it and foll myself into thinking I was 'letting go'. However, when it came down to it I wasn't 'letting go' at all; that came much later, after I'd suffer further pain. It's a great feeling though when you realise you are letting go.

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Paul

It's great to see you back here, thanks for your comment.

That sounds like a great quote, you ought to consider claiming it and use it more often.

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Paul

Thanks for adding your comment.

If we are passionate about achieving something, I agree we have to be ready for it under any type of conditions. Come rain or shine.

Your paraphasing of my meaning in the post is spot on.

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Paul

Thanks for dropping in to add your comment.

I think your one among great numbers with your impatience; it's great to hear your making changes. Again I think there are many other people realising the need to make such changes. I am one of those.

I agree with your theory of how the universe works.

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Paul