Comments for Hammer Time

Comment on I Dare You to Flake by Hammer

Hammer — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 22:38:36 +0000

Do you not see the sexual innuendo in “you make a very good point. On both accounts”? She’s basically saying, “yea it is too bad you’re saving yourself for jesus because I kind of want you to violate me right now.” She’s then implying that we’re going to do naughty things together which she will have to confess for.

The plan isn’t actually to see her the next night. That’s why it’s left in her court. The real plan is to contact her again on Sunday and schedule her for next Tues or Wed.

Comment on I Dare You to Flake by Vincent Ignatius

Vincent Ignatius — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 22:17:45 +0000

Seems try hard to me. One good joke is enough. I would have rescheduled for a couple days later with definite yes or no, otherwise if she didn’t want to commit, just drop her. Tell her “k, call me”. She’s lucky you even talked to her.

Comment on Psychoanalysis Game by Thundercat

Thundercat — Sat, 20 Feb 2010 19:22:13 +0000

So can you give an example of how this would work if you’re trying to PU a girl in a club? Or a coffee shop? Or if you’re out on a date?

Thundercat

Comment on Psychoanalysis Game by Hammer

Hammer — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 20:47:34 +0000

You’re developing a theory about her sub-conscious motivations that you’re using to explanation her actions and feelings, thus psychoanalyzing her.

Comment on Gaming Girls With No Game by Hammer

Hammer — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 20:39:18 +0000

Yea, I did dial it back as I said in the post, but this girl kind of continues to show more and more signs of falling in love with me. I’m totally honest with her about what’s what, so it’s on her if she gets hurt, but we’ll see how things go.

Comment on Gaming Girls With No Game by Thundercat

Thundercat — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 18:39:36 +0000

Actually, I think Jennifer is right to an extent, bro. Being from a small town in Ohio myself, I know where this girl is coming from. It sounds like she genuinely likes you from your post, and if that’s the case, you don’t need to be running hard game on her like you’re doing.

I agree that you need to be consistent with who you are, but at a certain point with a chick, especially one you like and who you’re in a relationship with, you need to relax and just rely on the comfort and trust you’ve built up with her to carry you through the long term.

It sounds like you typically go for high-maintenance women who need that type of game you’re talking about (girls with game? i guess?). We got those types here in LA too. But we also got normal girls, like the one you’re going after, and I personally prefer those because you can actually have meaningful relationships with them.

If you were just going for a “hit it and quit it” mentality, then your regular game would probably work. But I think you know that because you like this girl and she is different, you need to dial it back a bit. I think if you built up the emotional connection with this girl she would want to go all the way with you.

Good luck!

Comment on Psychoanalysis Game by Thundercat

Thundercat — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 18:30:56 +0000

Where’s the psychoanalysis part of this? I would think part of this technique would be to breakdown the psychology behind why she’s currently with a guy. I’ve had some success dating women who had boyfriends when I met them, and I usually elicited the things they weren’t happy about in their relationship and then presented an alternative to that by being “better” than who she was currently with. Is that what you do here? It wasn’t clear.

Whenever dealing with a woman – any woman – you’re right that you can’t use logic to convince them of anything, and I also think you’re right that you can use logic to break down how to get them, but you need to translate that into emotional response because at the end of the day, that’s what drives the girl.

Would you be willing to clarify in more detail how you use psychoanalysis in PUA?

Thundercat

Comment on Stealing a Girl Away from Another Guy by Psychoanalysis Game « Hammer Time

Psychoanalysis Game « Hammer Time — Sun, 14 Feb 2010 01:37:24 +0000

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Comment on Gaming Girls With No Game by Hammer

Hammer — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 12:52:31 +0000

I absolutely tease everyone in my life, especially my friends. That’s the whole point of teasing, it’s quick intimacy. People who aren’t close generally don’t bust on each other.

You clearly don’t understand what game is on a fundamental level or why it works. And yes, you do have to keep being the same attractive man in a long term relationship as you were in the initial pickup, that’s just called being honest.

Comment on Gaming Girls With No Game by Jennifer

Jennifer — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 09:34:19 +0000

So even when you hang out with your mates/ girls who are just normal friends, you neg, frame etc. ???
And are you saying that you have developed a personality which only works for dating/ picking up girls, but not for long term relationships (and don’t say that making someone chase you is going to work forever..)?