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		<title>Comment on How I Hooked Up With A Neighbor by Eathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 16:42:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good idea.  Those are great tips for anyone who is trying to keep it casual too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good idea.  Those are great tips for anyone who is trying to keep it casual too.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How I Hooked Up With A Neighbor by T-Moe</title>
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		<dc:creator>T-Moe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 19:28:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Every 2 weeks might work, but you're pushing it. The more time you spend with her, the more you risk her becoming attached. Especially if you treat her better than the men she's actually been in relationships with. That's when they start thinking, "I could get used to this." I have actually heard this come out of a booty call's mouth. I hit it one more time and left her alone. Let her fiend for a few weeks. It'll make the sex better anyway. Send her a text once a week to say what's up and to stay in her good graces. But keep it general...nothing to personal. You have to establish the boundaries early if you want to avoid any unnecessary drama.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every 2 weeks might work, but you&#8217;re pushing it. The more time you spend with her, the more you risk her becoming attached. Especially if you treat her better than the men she&#8217;s actually been in relationships with. That&#8217;s when they start thinking, &#8220;I could get used to this.&#8221; I have actually heard this come out of a booty call&#8217;s mouth. I hit it one more time and left her alone. Let her fiend for a few weeks. It&#8217;ll make the sex better anyway. Send her a text once a week to say what&#8217;s up and to stay in her good graces. But keep it general&#8230;nothing to personal. You have to establish the boundaries early if you want to avoid any unnecessary drama.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How I Hooked Up With A Neighbor by Eathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 18:55:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow.. now that is a risky move.  She might turn on you in the parking lot.  Or they might invite you over to join in.  
My biggest fear is his behavior and if it will risk you being a close booty call.  Either way.. you got yours, right? ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow.. now that is a risky move.  She might turn on you in the parking lot.  Or they might invite you over to join in.<br />
My biggest fear is his behavior and if it will risk you being a close booty call.  Either way.. you got yours, right? <img src='http://idatewhite.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on How I Hooked Up With A Neighbor by Eathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 18:50:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Once a month? that means she would be tripping for a couple weeks trying to get her fix, right?  I'm thinking every 2 weeks, maybe.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Once a month? that means she would be tripping for a couple weeks trying to get her fix, right?  I&#8217;m thinking every 2 weeks, maybe.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How I Hooked Up With A Neighbor by nicole</title>
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		<dc:creator>nicole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 18:41:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A couple weeks ago I moved to a new place and while carrying things in,  met the neighbor and a couple of his friends. I could hear their comments and see their eyes so I deemed it easy to have a close new bed buddy. This excited me because I never get it as often as I'd like and really dread the dry spells. I am not one to go after another womans man or even let him think I'm remotely interested. Many times it turns me off just to see the woman a man is with because if I don't find her attractive, he immediately gets written off. Somehow hormones and the excitement of the situation took over my typically rational thought process. I never thought my convenient booty call would be the actual neighbor who shares a wall with me. He and his girlfriend have twins and had a new baby as of a week ago. I feel terribly guilty. This is not my style and he is not even my type. Somehow I disregarded her because I never met her and was feeling selfish about having my physical needs met. I'm just hoping the truth doesn't come out in one of their arguments because this could mean extreme drama for me, all over a neighborly booty call.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A couple weeks ago I moved to a new place and while carrying things in,  met the neighbor and a couple of his friends. I could hear their comments and see their eyes so I deemed it easy to have a close new bed buddy. This excited me because I never get it as often as I&#8217;d like and really dread the dry spells. I am not one to go after another womans man or even let him think I&#8217;m remotely interested. Many times it turns me off just to see the woman a man is with because if I don&#8217;t find her attractive, he immediately gets written off. Somehow hormones and the excitement of the situation took over my typically rational thought process. I never thought my convenient booty call would be the actual neighbor who shares a wall with me. He and his girlfriend have twins and had a new baby as of a week ago. I feel terribly guilty. This is not my style and he is not even my type. Somehow I disregarded her because I never met her and was feeling selfish about having my physical needs met. I&#8217;m just hoping the truth doesn&#8217;t come out in one of their arguments because this could mean extreme drama for me, all over a neighborly booty call.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How I Hooked Up With A Neighbor by T-Moe</title>
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		<dc:creator>T-Moe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 18:18:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I've made it a point to NEVER get involved with the neighbors or their family &amp; friends. I don't need them watching me any more than they already do. But you've already crossed the line now. If you play it right...you might get lucky. If you're gonna keep hittin' it, you need to limit it to about once a month. If you do it on the regular, you're begging for a "2am bangin' on your door...yellin' get that b*tch outta there!!!" debacle.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve made it a point to NEVER get involved with the neighbors or their family &amp; friends. I don&#8217;t need them watching me any more than they already do. But you&#8217;ve already crossed the line now. If you play it right&#8230;you might get lucky. If you&#8217;re gonna keep hittin&#8217; it, you need to limit it to about once a month. If you do it on the regular, you&#8217;re begging for a &#8220;2am bangin&#8217; on your door&#8230;yellin&#8217; get that b*tch outta there!!!&#8221; debacle.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How I Hooked Up With A Neighbor by Eathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 17:53:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So true.. time will tell.  She's gotta follow the program.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So true.. time will tell.  She&#8217;s gotta follow the program.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How I Hooked Up With A Neighbor by Eric</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eric</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 17:45:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Man E, you may have her dickmotized  after one stroking session. May have a clinger on your hands. Then again you never know she might be an exception.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Man E, you may have her dickmotized  after one stroking session. May have a clinger on your hands. Then again you never know she might be an exception.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Top 5 Signs Of Good Sex by How I Hooked Up With A Neighbor</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 16:58:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] or a good actress.  Either way, I was wrapped up and giving her a full stroke.  Surprisingly she squirted with in 3 minutes of penetration.  It freaked her out for a minute, but we didn’t stop. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] or a good actress.  Either way, I was wrapped up and giving her a full stroke.  Surprisingly she squirted with in 3 minutes of penetration.  It freaked her out for a minute, but we didn&#8217;t stop. [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Latina Flavor For My Swirl by Jeneba</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 14:04:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>from following some of your posts, you just seem to have this overall weird views about the women you date, dare i see you don't respect alot of them,  I read one post awhile ago where you went to some friend's  house who had just lost her job, you ragged on how filthy her house was but yet you let her "give you head" on the couch, ( as disgusted as you were) what kind of friend is that? then in this post. several things stood out.   You said


"This was probably the most effort and time I’ve spent on a second date that didn’t include sex.  " 

this is a recurrent themes in many post, y ou sleep around, not that im here to judge you, but you don't really seem to give any of these women a shot at "being with you" nor do you seem to really be looking for anything.  Yet you are very quick to point out whats wrong with them.

"I know that breaks my usual Starbucks routine, but she wasn’t a white women.  So I had to do something different.  "

 what does this mean? you don't treat all the ladies you take out the same way?
Why would you have to do something "different" according to their race.  


I don't know, these posts leave you looking like an indecisive Peter Pan most of the time, its just well, CONFUSING</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>from following some of your posts, you just seem to have this overall weird views about the women you date, dare i see you don&#8217;t respect alot of them,  I read one post awhile ago where you went to some friend&#8217;s  house who had just lost her job, you ragged on how filthy her house was but yet you let her &#8220;give you head&#8221; on the couch, ( as disgusted as you were) what kind of friend is that? then in this post. several things stood out.   You said</p>
<p>&#8220;This was probably the most effort and time I’ve spent on a second date that didn’t include sex.  &#8221; </p>
<p>this is a recurrent themes in many post, y ou sleep around, not that im here to judge you, but you don&#8217;t really seem to give any of these women a shot at &#8220;being with you&#8221; nor do you seem to really be looking for anything.  Yet you are very quick to point out whats wrong with them.</p>
<p>&#8220;I know that breaks my usual Starbucks routine, but she wasn’t a white women.  So I had to do something different.  &#8221;</p>
<p> what does this mean? you don&#8217;t treat all the ladies you take out the same way?<br />
Why would you have to do something &#8220;different&#8221; according to their race.  </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know, these posts leave you looking like an indecisive Peter Pan most of the time, its just well, CONFUSING</p>
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