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		<title>Comment on Why Digital Allowances Aren’t Too Far-Fetched by Ty Guillet</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Jan 2011 03:22:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am very thankful to this topic because it really gives useful information `..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am very thankful to this topic because it really gives useful information `..</p>
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		<title>Comment on Parenting harder than you thought? by Jennifer</title>
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		<description>Thank you and look forward to reading the ebook.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you and look forward to reading the ebook.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Lesson 2. Change Your Habits To Change Your Life by Kathryn Collins</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kathryn Collins</dc:creator>
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		<description>I love the quote "Our lives change when our habits change." Interestingly, I'm all over this philosophy when it comes to health and lifestyle change but never thought to apply it to changing the way I organize my life and my work. I'm starting to see that not only will I be learning and implementing organizational systems, but that I am going to learn which habits I need to develop in order for the system to work for me over the long term. It's actually a relief to think of this process in terms of creating new and successful habits because I know that once a habit is firmly in place, then I won't have to use a lot of extra energy to force or to use will power to get myself to do something related to staying organized; it should come more naturally and easier once it's become a habit.

Great idea re: before and after photos; will take mine soon and send them along, though I'm not sure how to send them as a slide show....may just email assorted photos and you can assemble them...

Thanks so much!

kathryn</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love the quote &#8220;Our lives change when our habits change.&#8221; Interestingly, I&#8217;m all over this philosophy when it comes to health and lifestyle change but never thought to apply it to changing the way I organize my life and my work. I&#8217;m starting to see that not only will I be learning and implementing organizational systems, but that I am going to learn which habits I need to develop in order for the system to work for me over the long term. It&#8217;s actually a relief to think of this process in terms of creating new and successful habits because I know that once a habit is firmly in place, then I won&#8217;t have to use a lot of extra energy to force or to use will power to get myself to do something related to staying organized; it should come more naturally and easier once it&#8217;s become a habit.</p>
<p>Great idea re: before and after photos; will take mine soon and send them along, though I&#8217;m not sure how to send them as a slide show&#8230;.may just email assorted photos and you can assemble them&#8230;</p>
<p>Thanks so much!</p>
<p>kathryn</p>
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		<title>Comment on Lesson 2. Change Your Habits To Change Your Life by Cheryl Chow</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cheryl Chow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Nov 2010 00:46:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really liked the Michael Jordan story. I found it really inspirational. I loved the slideshow! I've seen other organization sites but don't think I've actually seen anyone make a slideshow of client photos. The balloons are great. 

In doing this exercise, I've discovered that I tend to make sure that everything looks good, even if, underneath the surface, everything is disorganized. Yes, things are put away--but where? 

I should also tell you that after moving all my stuff from Boulder to California, I've basically just dumped most of it in our storage shed where I can simply forget about it all. But it feels like yet another unfinished part of my life. I need to either throw away some of the stuff, or else put them somewhere more accessible. At the least, to organize them in storage so I know where everything is. My main problem is that I can NOT find things. (Where did I put my husband's birthday card? And where is the clicker I bought so I can start training my cats.) And I do NOT know where to put things. 

Btw, I completed the survey, but had to use my husband's work computer because mine kept freezing each time I'd click on the link. This is another problem I have, which isn't necessarily organizational. My computer is not functioning properly.

Thanks,

Cheryl</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really liked the Michael Jordan story. I found it really inspirational. I loved the slideshow! I&#8217;ve seen other organization sites but don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ve actually seen anyone make a slideshow of client photos. The balloons are great. </p>
<p>In doing this exercise, I&#8217;ve discovered that I tend to make sure that everything looks good, even if, underneath the surface, everything is disorganized. Yes, things are put away&#8211;but where? </p>
<p>I should also tell you that after moving all my stuff from Boulder to California, I&#8217;ve basically just dumped most of it in our storage shed where I can simply forget about it all. But it feels like yet another unfinished part of my life. I need to either throw away some of the stuff, or else put them somewhere more accessible. At the least, to organize them in storage so I know where everything is. My main problem is that I can NOT find things. (Where did I put my husband&#8217;s birthday card? And where is the clicker I bought so I can start training my cats.) And I do NOT know where to put things. </p>
<p>Btw, I completed the survey, but had to use my husband&#8217;s work computer because mine kept freezing each time I&#8217;d click on the link. This is another problem I have, which isn&#8217;t necessarily organizational. My computer is not functioning properly.</p>
<p>Thanks,</p>
<p>Cheryl</p>
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		<title>Comment on Lesson 1.  What is Your Office Saying? by Kathryn Collins</title>
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		<description>Billie, Thanks for your comments! It's really fun seeing you on the video; most other videos I've watched of people trying to teach me something look unnatural or forced: not you! Very professional job :)

RE: always longing to be elsewhere than my office: I think there are 2 reasons I don't just run up there more often: 1. I'm not in the habit of going/being there every day. I do morning computer work in the bedroom where the morning light is, then move to the living room window bunk where the light moves to. My office is too dark, like a little cave, with only one little window that brings in little natural light, and my lighting right now is insufficient for clarity of thought. My husband has offered to put in some track lighting over my desk, which I think will help a lot with this issue. 2. When I do get up there after several days, I realize I'm more behind with sorting, filing, and working on projects than I was when I left! So it's an uncomfortable reminder of what I haven't been making progress on and how out of control the office really is.

I'm really thinking, and hoping actually, that my biggest "why" for learning your system is the exact reason I currently fear being present in my office: I'm NOT organized, I know it, and I know I MUST change it in order to accomplish the things that are dear to me, like finishing my first ebook and getting it marketed and sold and shared, and moving on to many others that are already formulating in my heart and my head.

I hope I'm making sense; but I will keep in mind your admonition to be willing to be present as I become a student of your system, and to be committed to change.

thanks! kathryn</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Billie, Thanks for your comments! It&#8217;s really fun seeing you on the video; most other videos I&#8217;ve watched of people trying to teach me something look unnatural or forced: not you! Very professional job <img src='http://one-step-ahead-parenting.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>RE: always longing to be elsewhere than my office: I think there are 2 reasons I don&#8217;t just run up there more often: 1. I&#8217;m not in the habit of going/being there every day. I do morning computer work in the bedroom where the morning light is, then move to the living room window bunk where the light moves to. My office is too dark, like a little cave, with only one little window that brings in little natural light, and my lighting right now is insufficient for clarity of thought. My husband has offered to put in some track lighting over my desk, which I think will help a lot with this issue. 2. When I do get up there after several days, I realize I&#8217;m more behind with sorting, filing, and working on projects than I was when I left! So it&#8217;s an uncomfortable reminder of what I haven&#8217;t been making progress on and how out of control the office really is.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m really thinking, and hoping actually, that my biggest &#8220;why&#8221; for learning your system is the exact reason I currently fear being present in my office: I&#8217;m NOT organized, I know it, and I know I MUST change it in order to accomplish the things that are dear to me, like finishing my first ebook and getting it marketed and sold and shared, and moving on to many others that are already formulating in my heart and my head.</p>
<p>I hope I&#8217;m making sense; but I will keep in mind your admonition to be willing to be present as I become a student of your system, and to be committed to change.</p>
<p>thanks! kathryn</p>
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		<title>Comment on Lesson 1.  What is Your Office Saying? by Cheryl Chow</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cheryl Chow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Nov 2010 17:39:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Responding to Tera -- I used to feel that way, too. Then, I had the opportunity to live in a tiny studio for several years in Tokyo. Believe me, it wasn't much fun. And, it was even more difficult to get organized because of the small space and lack of any storage. I had to improvise all sorts of ways. As a result, I'm pretty creative about coming up with storage in tiny spaces. 

I had a job that took me out of my studio, but I don't think I would've been able to stand it if I'd had a home office. As it was, on my days off, I mostly found myself going to coffee shops to work (as did most of the Japanese population) because I needed a separate space for my work. Well, in my case, it didn't help that at the time, I had an extremely vocal cat who would NOT stop talking so I needed a break from her. (This cat would whine about everything. Meooowoe is me!) 

Suppose it might work better with a larger studio. Even so, for me, I really needed to demarcate certain spaces. It bothered me, for instance, to look at my bed when I worked. 

The bottom line is, I just got restless. But, it may work for Tera, everyone is different. I only wanted to share my experience because sometimes the reality is sometimes different than your fantasy. Just something to bear in mind.

What Tera might be needing is to have everything at her fingertips? Music, color, food, things that uplift her and remind her of good times? Maybe she can have 2 places for her work? One to put everything that she doesn't use every day. And then a separate area where everything that she's going to need for a particular project she's working on is all ready to go--all within reach.    

Cheryl</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Responding to Tera &#8212; I used to feel that way, too. Then, I had the opportunity to live in a tiny studio for several years in Tokyo. Believe me, it wasn&#8217;t much fun. And, it was even more difficult to get organized because of the small space and lack of any storage. I had to improvise all sorts of ways. As a result, I&#8217;m pretty creative about coming up with storage in tiny spaces. </p>
<p>I had a job that took me out of my studio, but I don&#8217;t think I would&#8217;ve been able to stand it if I&#8217;d had a home office. As it was, on my days off, I mostly found myself going to coffee shops to work (as did most of the Japanese population) because I needed a separate space for my work. Well, in my case, it didn&#8217;t help that at the time, I had an extremely vocal cat who would NOT stop talking so I needed a break from her. (This cat would whine about everything. Meooowoe is me!) </p>
<p>Suppose it might work better with a larger studio. Even so, for me, I really needed to demarcate certain spaces. It bothered me, for instance, to look at my bed when I worked. </p>
<p>The bottom line is, I just got restless. But, it may work for Tera, everyone is different. I only wanted to share my experience because sometimes the reality is sometimes different than your fantasy. Just something to bear in mind.</p>
<p>What Tera might be needing is to have everything at her fingertips? Music, color, food, things that uplift her and remind her of good times? Maybe she can have 2 places for her work? One to put everything that she doesn&#8217;t use every day. And then a separate area where everything that she&#8217;s going to need for a particular project she&#8217;s working on is all ready to go&#8211;all within reach.    </p>
<p>Cheryl</p>
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		<title>Comment on Lesson 1.  What is Your Office Saying? by Tera Allison</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tera Allison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Nov 2010 02:42:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No, I'm not avoiding my office. I just prefer sitting on the couch, listening to HGTV, while doing the bulk of my computer work, research, etc...

I've often thought I might do well living in a one-room studio. I think I'd actually enjoy having my computer, printer, bed, tv and the refrigerator all within one area. 

Sounds silly, I know... but it would work for me!

Tera</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No, I&#8217;m not avoiding my office. I just prefer sitting on the couch, listening to HGTV, while doing the bulk of my computer work, research, etc&#8230;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve often thought I might do well living in a one-room studio. I think I&#8217;d actually enjoy having my computer, printer, bed, tv and the refrigerator all within one area. </p>
<p>Sounds silly, I know&#8230; but it would work for me!</p>
<p>Tera</p>
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