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		<title>Comment on 4 Ways Parents Can Help Break Down Society's Gender Assumptions by Jennifer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 00:58:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My 7year old daughter wanted a blue shirt, so I said we should go to the boy area.    She asked me if the blue shirts were in the boy area, because people think blue is for boys. I told her that yes people think that, but she could like whatever she wants. This is the first time she realized that maybe blue was a "boy" colour. I think that homeschooling has really helped in this regard, because, despite many of her friends wearing all pink, no one seems to notice that she doesn't wear pink.

I do think that it it funny though that my son until recently had long hair (never cut until almost 5), but my kids still think that people with long hair are girls.  They never seem to generalise to other boys can have long hair no matter how many times I tell them this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My 7year old daughter wanted a blue shirt, so I said we should go to the boy area.    She asked me if the blue shirts were in the boy area, because people think blue is for boys. I told her that yes people think that, but she could like whatever she wants. This is the first time she realized that maybe blue was a &#034;boy&#034; colour. I think that homeschooling has really helped in this regard, because, despite many of her friends wearing all pink, no one seems to notice that she doesn&#039;t wear pink.</p>
<p>I do think that it it funny though that my son until recently had long hair (never cut until almost 5), but my kids still think that people with long hair are girls.  They never seem to generalise to other boys can have long hair no matter how many times I tell them this.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 4 Ways Parents Can Help Break Down Society's Gender Assumptions by Julie Cole</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julie Cole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 00:56:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was actually a bit surprised at their reaction.....we are always talking about gender so it wasn't that, it was that they are tweens and they were aware that lipgloss companies would target them. And - that they thought there were only magazines for tween girls that would be like that. Yes, thank you New Moon!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was actually a bit surprised at their reaction&#8230;..we are always talking about gender so it wasn&#039;t that, it was that they are tweens and they were aware that lipgloss companies would target them. And &#8211; that they thought there were only magazines for tween girls that would be like that. Yes, thank you New Moon!</p>
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		<title>Comment on 4 Ways Parents Can Help Break Down Society's Gender Assumptions by Amber</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amber</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 00:56:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We constantly discuss gender with our kids. Right now my son is three and a half, so he's just getting to the age where he's starting to differentiate "girl" things from "boy" things. This is giving us lots of fodder for conversation. Their actions don't always change based on what I say, but I like to think that they are hearing an alternative message all the same.

We also week out alternatives in terms of toys, shopping, and so on. I avoid taking my kids to the mall as much as possible. This doesn't only help my kids to avoid the gender messages they would get there, it saves me money, too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We constantly discuss gender with our kids. Right now my son is three and a half, so he&#039;s just getting to the age where he&#039;s starting to differentiate &#034;girl&#034; things from &#034;boy&#034; things. This is giving us lots of fodder for conversation. Their actions don&#039;t always change based on what I say, but I like to think that they are hearing an alternative message all the same.</p>
<p>We also week out alternatives in terms of toys, shopping, and so on. I avoid taking my kids to the mall as much as possible. This doesn&#039;t only help my kids to avoid the gender messages they would get there, it saves me money, too.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 4 Ways Parents Can Help Break Down Society's Gender Assumptions by phdinparenting</title>
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		<dc:creator>phdinparenting</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 00:46:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love New Moon Girls and I love that your girls are so aware. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love New Moon Girls and I love that your girls are so aware. <img src='http://www.phdinparenting.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on 4 Ways Parents Can Help Break Down Society's Gender Assumptions by Julie Cole</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julie Cole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 00:41:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I recently got my 9 and 11 yo girls a subscription to new moon magazine. When they got home from school I told them I got them a magazine subscription, and they said "NOOO....we don't want to read about lip gloss!!".  They are so aware they are targets, and they're not happy about it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I recently got my 9 and 11 yo girls a subscription to new moon magazine. When they got home from school I told them I got them a magazine subscription, and they said &#034;NOOO&#8230;.we don&#039;t want to read about lip gloss!!&#034;.  They are so aware they are targets, and they&#039;re not happy about it.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 4 Ways Parents Can Help Break Down Society's Gender Assumptions by Misty Pratt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Misty Pratt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 00:34:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Unfortunately (but fortunately!) we were given all of her clothes from a family member who was finished with them, and most of the baby stuff was pink. But I've also had to make some of my own purchases for her - slippers and rain boots, for example. I couldn't understand why slippers were divided between princess and GI Joe, so I just picked a set of blue Cars slippers for her. I also went to the "boys" section for her rainboots, and was sad to see the only option was army-style boots. She is still only 2 years old, but I"m hoping to point these things out to her as she gets older, and begin a dialogue. I don't care if she likes pink or barbies, I just hope she does because it's truly about her own interests and not about gender assumptions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Unfortunately (but fortunately!) we were given all of her clothes from a family member who was finished with them, and most of the baby stuff was pink. But I&#039;ve also had to make some of my own purchases for her &#8211; slippers and rain boots, for example. I couldn&#039;t understand why slippers were divided between princess and GI Joe, so I just picked a set of blue Cars slippers for her. I also went to the &#034;boys&#034; section for her rainboots, and was sad to see the only option was army-style boots. She is still only 2 years old, but I&#034;m hoping to point these things out to her as she gets older, and begin a dialogue. I don&#039;t care if she likes pink or barbies, I just hope she does because it&#039;s truly about her own interests and not about gender assumptions.</p>
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		<title>Comment on McDonald's Canada's All-Access Moms by 4 Ways Parents Can Help Break Down Society's Gender Assumptions | PhD in Parenting</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 00:24:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] rep about about gendered happy meals." Although gendered toys is obviously only one of the issues with McDonald's, Veronica took the time to explain to the rep that it might be better to ask families if they want [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] rep about about gendered happy meals.&quot; Although gendered toys is obviously only one of the issues with McDonald&#039;s, Veronica took the time to explain to the rep that it might be better to ask families if they want [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Women in the Media: You Can't Be What You Can't See by 4 Ways Parents Can Help Break Down Society's Gender Assumptions | PhD in Parenting</title>
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		<dc:creator>4 Ways Parents Can Help Break Down Society's Gender Assumptions | PhD in Parenting</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 00:24:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Women in the Media: You Can't Be What You Can't See [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on Gender and Kids: Fitting In Versus Getting Sucked In by 4 Ways Parents Can Help Break Down Society's Gender Assumptions | PhD in Parenting</title>
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		<dc:creator>4 Ways Parents Can Help Break Down Society's Gender Assumptions | PhD in Parenting</dc:creator>
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		<description>[...] Gender and Kids: Fitting In Versus Getting Sucked In [...]</description>
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		<dc:creator>Update on Ad Network | PhD in Parenting</dc:creator>
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		<description>[...] So, back to exclusively selling my own ads. If you are interested in advertising, check out my information here. [...]</description>
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