Comments for Pick Up Artists Resources: Attraction, Seduction, Pickup Women http://www.pickupandattraction.com A wealth of information for the PUA community. Learn how to pick up and attract women using proven methods. Master your game! Fri, 15 Jan 2010 07:02:57 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 Comment on Rejected by Women? It’s Nothing Personal — Fix Your Approach by Agreed http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/11/rejected-by-women-its-nothing-personal-fix-your-approach/#comment-672 Agreed Mon, 19 Jan 2009 12:09:31 +0000 http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/11/rejected-by-women-its-nothing-personal-fix-your-approach/#comment-672 I have to agree, Truth. Unfortunately, you are pretty much spot on. However, the important thing to understand about pickup is that we're not trying to conform to other guys' precedent at all; most of us are nice, average-looking guys with plenty to offer. If we went around and dated the normal way, we'd have lower success than really attractive guys, really confident guys, etc., just like a lot of less-attractive women have less success than supermodel-gauge girls do. No, what pickup is really for is to distinguish yourself from other guys. Unless you luck out and happen to be a girl's image of the perfect guy, pickup theories can do nothing but improve your life. It's not just with women, either. Confident, comfortable, outgoing men succeed more at pretty much everything. Plus, some of the tips on this site are just to start working out, eating right, and getting some hobbies. Can't hurt! I have to agree, Truth. Unfortunately, you are pretty much spot on. However, the important thing to understand about pickup is that we’re not trying to conform to other guys’ precedent at all; most of us are nice, average-looking guys with plenty to offer. If we went around and dated the normal way, we’d have lower success than really attractive guys, really confident guys, etc., just like a lot of less-attractive women have less success than supermodel-gauge girls do.
No, what pickup is really for is to distinguish yourself from other guys. Unless you luck out and happen to be a girl’s image of the perfect guy, pickup theories can do nothing but improve your life.
It’s not just with women, either. Confident, comfortable, outgoing men succeed more at pretty much everything. Plus, some of the tips on this site are just to start working out, eating right, and getting some hobbies. Can’t hurt!

]]> Comment on Inner Game - 5 Ways To Improve Yourself by Inner Game and Outer Game | Seducer Blog http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/02/inner-game-5-ways-to-improve-yourself/#comment-522 Inner Game and Outer Game | Seducer Blog Mon, 10 Nov 2008 13:34:46 +0000 http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/02/inner-game-5-ways-to-improve-yourself/#comment-522 [...] Using affirmations to develop your inner game Developing Inner Game by Cajun 5 Practical Ways to develop inner game [...] [...] Using affirmations to develop your inner game Developing Inner Game by Cajun 5 Practical Ways to develop inner game [...]

]]> Comment on Rejected by Women? It’s Nothing Personal — Fix Your Approach by Truth http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/11/rejected-by-women-its-nothing-personal-fix-your-approach/#comment-521 Truth Mon, 10 Nov 2008 04:41:30 +0000 http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/11/rejected-by-women-its-nothing-personal-fix-your-approach/#comment-521 To Hell wit hthis crap!! I am so tired of reading this garbage of how it's Men's fault and how we need t o"fix ourselves". It's women withthe problem. Some men are shy, some are not, we are all different but in these stupid articles. We have to strive to all be alike just to have women resepct us. It all bullshit. Women are scum, the majority of them. They are the ones who are unkind, rude, ugly and uncompassionate. When do you everread articles telling women to all be alike to get men to like them? Rarely! They get a free ride. This shite will not end until men refuse to play the game any more. Because al it does is create a sciety of angry men and women who abuse them. To Hell wit hthis crap!! I am so tired of reading this garbage of how it’s Men’s fault and how we need t o”fix ourselves”. It’s women withthe problem. Some men are shy, some are not, we are all different but in these stupid articles. We have to strive to all be alike just to have women resepct us. It all bullshit. Women are scum, the majority of them. They are the ones who are unkind, rude, ugly and uncompassionate. When do you everread articles telling women to all be alike to get men to like them? Rarely! They get a free ride. This shite will not end until men refuse to play the game any more. Because al it does is create a sciety of angry men and women who abuse them.

]]> Comment on Rejected by Women? It’s Nothing Personal — Fix Your Approach by Gene http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/11/rejected-by-women-its-nothing-personal-fix-your-approach/#comment-227 Gene Wed, 16 Jul 2008 22:13:33 +0000 http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/11/rejected-by-women-its-nothing-personal-fix-your-approach/#comment-227 Great list, I also use visualization and affirmations just to perk myself up and build more confidence. Sounding natural and not appearing serious but rather playful and full of fun are also good way to appear more smooth. Make your approach part of your game and most importantly embrace small wins and do not dwell on negative outcomes but learn from them. Good luck. If it doesn't kill you makes you stronger. - g Great list,

I also use visualization and affirmations just to perk myself up and build more confidence. Sounding natural and not appearing serious but rather playful and full of fun are also good way to appear more smooth. Make your approach part of your game and most importantly embrace small wins and do not dwell on negative outcomes but learn from them. Good luck. If it doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. - g

]]> Comment on Is Kosmo (Alvaro Orlando) from VH1’s Pick Up Artist a Fraud? by John http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/15/is-kosmo-alvaro-orlando-from-vh1s-pick-up-artist-a-fraud/#comment-224 John Wed, 09 Jul 2008 22:47:51 +0000 http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/15/is-kosmo-alvaro-orlando-from-vh1s-pick-up-artist-a-fraud/#comment-224 Alvaro Orlando is a fraud. He was in my acting class in Florida before he moved to LA a few years ago. I actually watched an episode with my classmates and teacher in ft lauderdale one night and it was pretty sad to witness all these lies about him. Most of the things that were said about him were fake and if you watch the episodes carefully, you can notice a dramatic change from start to finish. In the beginning episodes, he appears to be geaky and nerdy never having a girlfriend (which is not true) and having an inability to control his nerves around woman. As the show progresses, so does his personality. It was so obvious that he was acting especially when most times he was indicating. Furthermore, the episode where he wins the challenge of kissing that gorgeous woman; did that kiss look like a guy who is shy, nervous, and never had a girlfriend before?? I think not. Even his name is a joke. His first name is really Alvaro, but he changed his last name. Is it a coincidence that he chose "Orlando" for his last name when he grew up in Miami. Hmmm. Big set up. Alvaro Orlando is a fraud. He was in my acting class in Florida before he moved to LA a few years ago. I actually watched an episode with my classmates and teacher in ft lauderdale one night and it was pretty sad to witness all these lies about him. Most of the things that were said about him were fake and if you watch the episodes carefully, you can notice a dramatic change from start to finish. In the beginning episodes, he appears to be geaky and nerdy never having a girlfriend (which is not true) and having an inability to control his nerves around woman. As the show progresses, so does his personality. It was so obvious that he was acting especially when most times he was indicating. Furthermore, the episode where he wins the challenge of kissing that gorgeous woman; did that kiss look like a guy who is shy, nervous, and never had a girlfriend before?? I think not. Even his name is a joke. His first name is really Alvaro, but he changed his last name. Is it a coincidence that he chose “Orlando” for his last name when he grew up in Miami. Hmmm. Big set up.

]]> Comment on Casual Locations for Sarging and Meeting Women by Clark http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/09/casual-locations-for-sarging-and-meeting-women/#comment-16 Clark Tue, 19 Feb 2008 19:07:19 +0000 http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/09/casual-locations-for-sarging-and-meeting-women/#comment-16 Hey, I am the owner of www.theplayersociety.com . I just wanted to thank you for helping spread the word, and cudos on such an excellent looking blog! Hey, I am the owner of http://www.theplayersociety.com . I just wanted to thank you for helping spread the word, and cudos on such an excellent looking blog!

]]> Comment on Is Kosmo (Alvaro Orlando) from VH1’s Pick Up Artist a Fraud? by The Pick Up Artist Sequel? Season Two? - Pick Up Artists Resources: Attraction, Seduction, Pickup Women http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/15/is-kosmo-alvaro-orlando-from-vh1s-pick-up-artist-a-fraud/#comment-5 The Pick Up Artist Sequel? Season Two? - Pick Up Artists Resources: Attraction, Seduction, Pickup Women Mon, 21 Jan 2008 17:21:26 +0000 http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/15/is-kosmo-alvaro-orlando-from-vh1s-pick-up-artist-a-fraud/#comment-5 [...] However, that seems highly unlikely to us, especially given the information out there implying that Kosmo may be an actor. Here at Pickup and Attraction, we’re thinking that if “The Pick Up Artist - Season [...] [...] However, that seems highly unlikely to us, especially given the information out there implying that Kosmo may be an actor. Here at Pickup and Attraction, we’re thinking that if “The Pick Up Artist - Season [...]

]]> Comment on Rejected by Women? It’s Nothing Personal — Fix Your Approach by Rejected by Women? It’s Nothing Personal — Fix Your Approach - Dating, Pickup, Seduction http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/11/rejected-by-women-its-nothing-personal-fix-your-approach/#comment-3 Rejected by Women? It’s Nothing Personal — Fix Your Approach - Dating, Pickup, Seduction Sun, 13 Jan 2008 03:04:06 +0000 http://www.pickupandattraction.com/2008/01/11/rejected-by-women-its-nothing-personal-fix-your-approach/#comment-3 [...] Rejected by Women? It’s Nothing Personal — Fix Your Approach Submitted by PUA pua479, 3 seconds ago (www.pickupandattraction.com) [...] [...] Rejected by Women? It’s Nothing Personal — Fix Your Approach Submitted by PUA pua479, 3 seconds ago (www.pickupandattraction.com) [...]

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