Comments for Rachel Rabbit White http://rachelrabbitwhite.com Public Discourse on Private Matters Tue, 15 May 2012 22:40:11 +0000 hourly 1 Comment on WTF G-Spot Orgasms by Claudia http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CommentsForRabbitWrite/~3/-hFR2HauSVQ/ Claudia Tue, 15 May 2012 22:40:11 +0000 http://rachelrabbitwhite.com/?p=8690#comment-7862 Rachel, great post. Four years ago I started to experience something that looks like the so called g-spot orgasm... It first happened totally out of the blue, surprised me as I was not looking for it. I experience it now and then, whether I want and go for it, or not, as it does happen unadvertised too, depending on the position and if I am really relaxed and into sex, those days when orgasm doesn't really matter... In my experience it first happened by accident and it does depend on the effort of the man, it has a lot to do with the penetration, not only it requires a longer time of penetration to keep the whole process going in a crescendo, like an opera aria, but it also demands the penetration in a certain angle, with the man on top and the woman slightly inclined toward the head, clear? Well, the woman is not really on horizontal plan... Anyway it was a whole new experience for me, different pleasure, totally different from the clit-orgasm which is amazing but can be quite exhausting sometimes. I guess I could have had it, what I imagine to be a g-spot orgasm earlier, much earlier if I was not so addicted to being on top during sex. Yes, I have played orgasm-safe-journey during sex my whole life, to took the clit-orgasm-path-during-penetration nearly every time. Most of the time I ended up on top, doing the job in an angle that was just perfect for me to have orgasms during penetration. We all have our favorite positions, right? On top was one of my favorites, the guaranteed way to clit-orgasm during penetration which is just amazing and was always enough happiness to me. However, addiction to certain positions limit the possibilities, specially if one is married etc, we get stuck, we shouldn't but we do... but I believe masturbation limits things too. I never enjoyed masturbation, it was always OK, a last resource, when I was totally stressed and sex obsessed, but never as good as the real thing. Bad sex with real penis, lips etc... was always better than masturbation so I always went to real sex. How the supposed g-spot orgasm actually happened? I was already in my 40's, with my 3rd husband, with whom I have an amazing sex life, after 10 years not based on quantity of sex anymore, I must stress. It happened after nearly three weeks without any sex, due to many non-sexy daily life facts: camping with kids, mother visiting and sleeping next door, flu all over the family etc... When we finally got into out bed in shape, one night, I was dieing to have my husband and that night started the beginning of a new thing in my life. He was on top, we were on our horrible old mattress, I was in a inclined angle, it started to feel totally different, growing, stronger, delicious, I moaned orgasm, I had to ask him to not move or change the position (we are married, we were used to move around those favorite positions, playing our perfect sex journey hitherto) when I started have vaginal orgasm like I had never experienced before... I can go for it if we lay on that same position, he does most of the work and I have a great pleasure. I don't know how it would work on a masturbation scene, when you can't have the penetration going and let yourself loose conscience totally... maybe if another person do the masturbation job... and I guess it is totally possible for lesbians etc... just my story... Rachel, great post.

Four years ago I started to experience something that looks like the so called g-spot orgasm…

It first happened totally out of the blue, surprised me as I was not looking for it. I experience it now and then, whether I want and go for it, or not, as it does happen unadvertised too, depending on the position and if I am really relaxed and into sex, those days when orgasm doesn’t really matter…

In my experience it first happened by accident and it does depend on the effort of the man, it has a lot to do with the penetration, not only it requires a longer time of penetration to keep the whole process going in a crescendo, like an opera aria, but it also demands the penetration in a certain angle, with the man on top and the woman slightly inclined toward the head, clear? Well, the woman is not really on horizontal plan… Anyway it was a whole new experience for me, different pleasure, totally different from the clit-orgasm which is amazing but can be quite exhausting sometimes. I guess I could have had it, what I imagine to be a g-spot orgasm earlier, much earlier if I was not so addicted to being on top during sex.

Yes, I have played orgasm-safe-journey during sex my whole life, to took the clit-orgasm-path-during-penetration nearly every time. Most of the time I ended up on top, doing the job in an angle that was just perfect for me to have orgasms during penetration. We all have our favorite positions, right? On top was one of my favorites, the guaranteed way to clit-orgasm during penetration which is just amazing and was always enough happiness to me. However, addiction to certain positions limit the possibilities, specially if one is married etc, we get stuck, we shouldn’t but we do… but I believe masturbation limits things too. I never enjoyed masturbation, it was always OK, a last resource, when I was totally stressed and sex obsessed, but never as good as the real thing. Bad sex with real penis, lips etc… was always better than masturbation so I always went to real sex.

How the supposed g-spot orgasm actually happened? I was already in my 40′s, with my 3rd husband, with whom I have an amazing sex life, after 10 years not based on quantity of sex anymore, I must stress. It happened after nearly three weeks without any sex, due to many non-sexy daily life facts: camping with kids, mother visiting and sleeping next door, flu all over the family etc… When we finally got into out bed in shape, one night, I was dieing to have my husband and that night started the beginning of a new thing in my life. He was on top, we were on our horrible old mattress, I was in a inclined angle, it started to feel totally different, growing, stronger, delicious, I moaned orgasm, I had to ask him to not move or change the position (we are married, we were used to move around those favorite positions, playing our perfect sex journey hitherto) when I started have vaginal orgasm like I had never experienced before…

I can go for it if we lay on that same position, he does most of the work and I have a great pleasure. I don’t know how it would work on a masturbation scene, when you can’t have the penetration going and let yourself loose conscience totally… maybe if another person do the masturbation job… and I guess it is totally possible for lesbians etc… just my story…

]]> http://rachelrabbitwhite.com/wtf-g-spot-orgasms/#comment-7862 Comment on No Make-Up Week by fragrancelagoon.ie http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CommentsForRabbitWrite/~3/y4LKBsyudwg/ fragrancelagoon.ie Tue, 15 May 2012 17:12:23 +0000 http://rabbitwrite.com/#comment-7860 I do agree that Make-up is a powerful tool and a way to express yourself, your mood and interior life...But all time make up is not good...It should be in special occasion.. I do agree that Make-up is a powerful tool and a way to express yourself, your mood and interior life…But all time make up is not good…It should be in special occasion..

]]> http://rachelrabbitwhite.com/no-make-up-week/#comment-7860 Comment on WTF G-Spot Orgasms by Ashley http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CommentsForRabbitWrite/~3/FBpqBQKiGCQ/ Ashley Tue, 15 May 2012 13:22:44 +0000 http://rachelrabbitwhite.com/?p=8690#comment-7858 So this is my first time reading your blog and i happened to read this article and the same thing has happened to me! After reading article after article about squirting and g-spot orgasms my partner and i would try the come hither movement. Each attempt i tried to work through the peeing sensation and would eventually feel soo good! But i never felt a complete climax, the feeling sort of just decreased. I remember not being dissapointed even if it wasnt a full orgasm. It still felt amazing and different. So this is my first time reading your blog and i happened to read this article and the same thing has happened to me! After reading article after article about squirting and g-spot orgasms my partner and i would try the come hither movement. Each attempt i tried to work through the peeing sensation and would eventually feel soo good! But i never felt a complete climax, the feeling sort of just decreased. I remember not being dissapointed even if it wasnt a full orgasm. It still felt amazing and different.

]]> http://rachelrabbitwhite.com/wtf-g-spot-orgasms/#comment-7858 Comment on WTF G-Spot Orgasms by Melody http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CommentsForRabbitWrite/~3/3UwbBAoBQiE/ Melody Tue, 15 May 2012 03:17:48 +0000 http://rachelrabbitwhite.com/?p=8690#comment-7854 The G-Spot has always been a curiosity of mine as well. I have repeatedly asked former lover's of mine to work, work, work and make me squirt but they just weren't getting it. And to agree with what Gabriella said, I have had the uncomfortable need to pee during vaginal sex and oral sex, and would demand that he pull out due to my fear of urinating all over his precious mouth. Katrina, your video was very enlightening but unfortunately I believe the "squirtmaster" has reached a level of professional that my current boyfriend will need many many months of experience to obtain. But in regards to Ryan's Q's, I would have to agree and say that my O's are both physical and emotional. My head works in fuzzy ways and there have been several dozen times where my body would shut down during sex because the wrong thought popped into my head and worst of all, is if we (women) are thinking too much during sex about miscellaneous bullshit, the O will take THAT much longer to come. So don't sweat it & keep up the good work :) The G-Spot has always been a curiosity of mine as well. I have repeatedly asked former lover’s of mine to work, work, work and make me squirt but they just weren’t getting it. And to agree with what Gabriella said, I have had the uncomfortable need to pee during vaginal sex and oral sex, and would demand that he pull out due to my fear of urinating all over his precious mouth. Katrina, your video was very enlightening but unfortunately I believe the “squirtmaster” has reached a level of professional that my current boyfriend will need many many months of experience to obtain.

But in regards to Ryan’s Q’s, I would have to agree and say that my O’s are both physical and emotional. My head works in fuzzy ways and there have been several dozen times where my body would shut down during sex because the wrong thought popped into my head and worst of all, is if we (women) are thinking too much during sex about miscellaneous bullshit, the O will take THAT much longer to come. So don’t sweat it & keep up the good work :)

]]> http://rachelrabbitwhite.com/wtf-g-spot-orgasms/#comment-7854 Comment on WTF G-Spot Orgasms by Katrina http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CommentsForRabbitWrite/~3/vXIeFyv2nu8/ Katrina Mon, 14 May 2012 03:07:47 +0000 http://rachelrabbitwhite.com/?p=8690#comment-7850 It's definitely a physical thing too. Like every orgasm, there is an awesome mental portion to it, but you can't argue with the physical reaction of a squirting orgasm. This is why I don't understand the scientific studies that claim that it's solely a psychological reaction. It's just as physical as a clitoral orgasm. It's just a different kind of sensation. It’s definitely a physical thing too. Like every orgasm, there is an awesome mental portion to it, but you can’t argue with the physical reaction of a squirting orgasm. This is why I don’t understand the scientific studies that claim that it’s solely a psychological reaction. It’s just as physical as a clitoral orgasm. It’s just a different kind of sensation.

]]> http://rachelrabbitwhite.com/wtf-g-spot-orgasms/#comment-7850 Comment on WTF G-Spot Orgasms by Ryan http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CommentsForRabbitWrite/~3/4zGLKR7neF4/ Ryan Sun, 13 May 2012 17:47:17 +0000 http://rachelrabbitwhite.com/?p=8690#comment-7848 Hey girls, for the past two years I've been making an effort to really understand the woman I sleep and the best sex I've had has been when I make her feel really at ease and comfortable with me, obviously, this also means taking of the pressure of the "end" goal. I just tell my girl to relax and massage her first, that really helps, I enjoy reading this blog because it teaches me how you feel, so thanks for being so honest, I'm listening. But here's my question? Do you feel that the mysterious g-spot orgasm is more of psychological feeling or a physical, are you able to orgasm physically or mentally or both? What are your thoughts? p.s. Thanks for the video Katrina Hey girls, for the past two years I’ve been making an effort to really understand the woman I sleep and the best sex I’ve had has been when I make her feel really at ease and comfortable with me, obviously, this also means taking of the pressure of the “end” goal. I just tell my girl to relax and massage her first, that really helps, I enjoy reading this blog because it teaches me how you feel, so thanks for being so honest, I’m listening.

But here’s my question? Do you feel that the mysterious g-spot orgasm is more of psychological feeling or a physical, are you able to orgasm physically or mentally or both? What are your thoughts?

p.s. Thanks for the video Katrina

]]> http://rachelrabbitwhite.com/wtf-g-spot-orgasms/#comment-7848 Comment on WTF G-Spot Orgasms by Gabriella http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CommentsForRabbitWrite/~3/9wmEKcw51Ng/ Gabriella Sat, 12 May 2012 02:52:01 +0000 http://rachelrabbitwhite.com/?p=8690#comment-7843 Honestly I'm not sure. I probably had maybe one? I remember my first experience with them, I was with my ex at the time and I really felt like I had to pee so I told him to pull out and he was really concerned but I replied to his worry face with, "No I'm fine I just REALLY have to pee." Needless to say he wasn't amused, it happened a few times. When it came up in a conversation with a co-worker she said that's how it was supposed to feel like and that it would make orgasms so much better and she would actually avoid peeing before sex if she knew it was going to happen. I thought that was strange but I get that the having to pee feeling is normal and now if I have that feeling I know I won't pee/squirt? (I'm still confused on that matter are you squirting pee or...?) everywhere if I don't want to. My current bf stops sometimes cause he has to pee is that just cause he has to pee or is that him feeling like he's going to orgasm? It's probably the former but I'm not sure, I'm sort of ignorant on the subject of how a guy feels when he's going to orgasm all I know is that there's a point of no return. Honestly I’m not sure. I probably had maybe one?
I remember my first experience with them, I was with my ex at the time and I really felt like I had to pee so I told him to pull out and he was really concerned but I replied to his worry face with, “No I’m fine I just REALLY have to pee.” Needless to say he wasn’t amused, it happened a few times. When it came up in a conversation with a co-worker she said that’s how it was supposed to feel like and that it would make orgasms so much better and she would actually avoid peeing before sex if she knew it was going to happen. I thought that was strange but I get that the having to pee feeling is normal and now if I have that feeling I know I won’t pee/squirt? (I’m still confused on that matter are you squirting pee or…?) everywhere if I don’t want to.
My current bf stops sometimes cause he has to pee is that just cause he has to pee or is that him feeling like he’s going to orgasm? It’s probably the former but I’m not sure, I’m sort of ignorant on the subject of how a guy feels when he’s going to orgasm all I know is that there’s a point of no return.

]]> http://rachelrabbitwhite.com/wtf-g-spot-orgasms/#comment-7843 Comment on WTF G-Spot Orgasms by Liza http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CommentsForRabbitWrite/~3/4vVS5jiWJDE/ Liza Fri, 11 May 2012 16:48:01 +0000 http://rachelrabbitwhite.com/?p=8690#comment-7842 It's so funny how vaginal orgasms are tricky. You describe the feeling so accurately! Unlike clitoral ones where there is a definite begging, middle and end (sometimes overly sensitive and painful), in the case of the g-spot it's so different. There is a build up, but if the stimulation doesn't stop, it's just a constant wave of pleasure...I decided to call it orgasms. So far I am satisfied, and so are my partners. I have the feeling that squirting might emulate more that begging, middle, end patter of a clitoral orgasm, but having never achieved it, I'll continue exploring. At the end of the day, I think it really shouldn't matter what a g-spot orgasm is/isn't. If it feels good for you go for whatever makes you happy. It’s so funny how vaginal orgasms are tricky. You describe the feeling so accurately!
Unlike clitoral ones where there is a definite begging, middle and end (sometimes overly sensitive and painful), in the case of the g-spot it’s so different. There is a build up, but if the stimulation doesn’t stop, it’s just a constant wave of pleasure…I decided to call it orgasms. So far I am satisfied, and so are my partners.

I have the feeling that squirting might emulate more that begging, middle, end patter of a clitoral orgasm, but having never achieved it, I’ll continue exploring.

At the end of the day, I think it really shouldn’t matter what a g-spot orgasm is/isn’t. If it feels good for you go for whatever makes you happy.

]]> http://rachelrabbitwhite.com/wtf-g-spot-orgasms/#comment-7842 Comment on WTF G-Spot Orgasms by Katrina http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CommentsForRabbitWrite/~3/rkEPyKj52W0/ Katrina Mon, 07 May 2012 01:15:25 +0000 http://rachelrabbitwhite.com/?p=8690#comment-7833 Rabbit- It just sort of happens! It only comes (haha!) after a buildup. It happens after already experiencing a clitoral orgasm, so it helps to have all your muscles relaxed. When I first experienced one, it felt like I had to pee in the middle of the normal orgasm buildup. If you tense up your muscles fearing you might actually pee, you won't end up squirting. I recommend taking this experiment to the bath to ease any I-might-pee fears! I didn't realize that there was a strategy to it until I read guides on it that reinforced the methods I had been using all along. This video has produced good results, actually: http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=212403928 Rabbit- It just sort of happens! It only comes (haha!) after a buildup. It happens after already experiencing a clitoral orgasm, so it helps to have all your muscles relaxed. When I first experienced one, it felt like I had to pee in the middle of the normal orgasm buildup. If you tense up your muscles fearing you might actually pee, you won’t end up squirting. I recommend taking this experiment to the bath to ease any I-might-pee fears!

I didn’t realize that there was a strategy to it until I read guides on it that reinforced the methods I had been using all along. This video has produced good results, actually:
http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=212403928

]]> http://rachelrabbitwhite.com/wtf-g-spot-orgasms/#comment-7833 Comment on WTF G-Spot Orgasms by Emily http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CommentsForRabbitWrite/~3/aWkTMMNEEVQ/ Emily Sat, 05 May 2012 19:34:40 +0000 http://rachelrabbitwhite.com/?p=8690#comment-7828 haha, I have definitely explored my body in multiple combinations of ways (g-spot, clitoral, with partners (multiple), alone, with and without toys, one night stands, on-going relationships...) and have never definitively had an orgasm. I've had thatcouldhavebeenanorgasmmaybebutletskeepgoingbecauseeitherwaythatfeltgood moments but never something where I was sure it was an orgasm. This doesn't mean that I'm pining for orgasms or feel like my sex life is a waste or a joke, quite the opposite. It takes a lot of pressure off of my fuck buddies and I: we just pursue pleasure, whether or not orgasm is at the end of it doesn't make everything that came before less fun... Prioritizing a single moment just because it felt "more good" seems silly to me if everything else around was good too.... Maybe I just say that because I haven't orgasmed? Not sure, really, and kind of don't care. haha, I have definitely explored my body in multiple combinations of ways (g-spot, clitoral, with partners (multiple), alone, with and without toys, one night stands, on-going relationships…) and have never definitively had an orgasm. I’ve had thatcouldhavebeenanorgasmmaybebutletskeepgoingbecauseeitherwaythatfeltgood moments but never something where I was sure it was an orgasm. This doesn’t mean that I’m pining for orgasms or feel like my sex life is a waste or a joke, quite the opposite. It takes a lot of pressure off of my fuck buddies and I: we just pursue pleasure, whether or not orgasm is at the end of it doesn’t make everything that came before less fun… Prioritizing a single moment just because it felt “more good” seems silly to me if everything else around was good too….

Maybe I just say that because I haven’t orgasmed? Not sure, really, and kind of don’t care.

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