Thanks for the advice — I can certainly think of one activity he’d happily throw himself into!

FWIW, High School can be a very trying period in a person’s life, when added to some of the general nastiness of today’s society I can understand “finding it harder and harder to give a shit about people”. The fact that you hate it is good. As was commonly said was I was young (a few years after High School for me) – don’t let the turkeys get you down. Unfortunately, we seem to have an excess of turkeys right now .

As for making a Summer of Love – nothing says you have to do it on a big scale. If nothing else, try to make one where you can.

Good luck,
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I do suggest you give the Tantus brand a try. They look imposing but we actually tried several different brands with very less than satisfactory results before finding Tantus.

BTW it was hard to get up the nerve to start posting on topics like this one. But as you have probably found out there is very little information out there for people over — lets just say 50 , or people with health issues. Hope I have been a help in some small way.

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Make no sudden moves and no loud noises.

No really, I suspect we are all different. But from what I have experienced of myself and other ENTJs that I have observed, we probably bring the stress home with us and try to act like we don’t. Best advice I can think of is to try to engage us in some favorite activity. Once we start doing something we enjoy, we tend to throw ourselves into it. If it is something that is not stressful it probably does more than anything to push stress in other parts of our lives to the side.

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I have been searching the internet for days to find alternatives to viagra, and the other two. We can’t use them. My husband had a bypass in Nov. 2010 and although he is able to walk miles without being winded, goes to cardio workout every other day~ we still can’t get the prescription for these popular medicines for ED because he takes nitroglycerine (or has the script) hardly ever takes it and when he does, usually it was just gas. Seriously. So.….…. since he is “one of them” who has a script for nitro, we are searching hi and low for a solution. This week we will be cock ring shopping. He is 64 years old and still loves sexual intimacy if you have any ideas, please email me or post some info! All the best~A and Y

Out of interest, how can a partner best support their ENTJ when they are suffering from work related stress? I have asked directly obviously, but it’s always useful to get a second opinion!