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		<title>Comment on Obsession of Identity by Mat</title>
		<link>http://www.vertegram.com/conscious-living/obsession-of-identity/#comment-7507</link>
		<dc:creator>Mat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jun 2008 01:53:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.vertegram.com/conscious-living/obsession-of-identity/#comment-7507</guid>
		<description>Seeing the soul is not possible or more people would have reported it with full descriptions. 

It is ever present clear awareness to our sense of perception, when we do feel the sight of our soul.

The soul is like an unborn self, we "grow on top" of it. 

A Root grows upward and yields a beautiful flower. How does a flower know itself? It thinks it will always be there,
its only concern is the flower. 

In the winter, the flower is gone. The root will grow again another beautiful flower.

We are the root that never dies as an unborn self is never born so it can not die. We grow on the outside like bacteria.

We can all experience the truth of this.
Relax and look inside, what do you see?
What do you feel? Now after that what is the color or sound of or shape of the soul. 

pure clear awareness and the body connected to the unborn self.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seeing the soul is not possible or more people would have reported it with full descriptions. </p>
<p>It is ever present clear awareness to our sense of perception, when we do feel the sight of our soul.</p>
<p>The soul is like an unborn self, we &#8220;grow on top&#8221; of it. </p>
<p>A Root grows upward and yields a beautiful flower. How does a flower know itself? It thinks it will always be there,<br />
its only concern is the flower. </p>
<p>In the winter, the flower is gone. The root will grow again another beautiful flower.</p>
<p>We are the root that never dies as an unborn self is never born so it can not die. We grow on the outside like bacteria.</p>
<p>We can all experience the truth of this.<br />
Relax and look inside, what do you see?<br />
What do you feel? Now after that what is the color or sound of or shape of the soul. </p>
<p>pure clear awareness and the body connected to the unborn self.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The violence on the monitor issue by Attila Borcsa</title>
		<link>http://www.vertegram.com/conscious-living/the-violence-on-the-monitor-issue/#comment-7500</link>
		<dc:creator>Attila Borcsa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2008 08:57:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.vertegram.com/?p=217#comment-7500</guid>
		<description>So the evil TV had a good influence after all... I like the story!

I guess the topic is worthy, I had my say before on this and still believe that we have a completely wrong attitude concerning aggression. Although being one of the utmost preoccupation of our times, sort of an obsession.

What I am actually concerned (a little) here are the authoritative voices deified through the media, thus by the masses. And the receptivity towards those persistently propagated ideas. It is like the TV tells us not to let kids watch TV, but you have to keep watching it to know what to do. Wonder what "The Cable Guy" would say here...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So the evil TV had a good influence after all&#8230; I like the story!</p>
<p>I guess the topic is worthy, I had my say before on this and still believe that we have a completely wrong attitude concerning aggression. Although being one of the utmost preoccupation of our times, sort of an obsession.</p>
<p>What I am actually concerned (a little) here are the authoritative voices deified through the media, thus by the masses. And the receptivity towards those persistently propagated ideas. It is like the TV tells us not to let kids watch TV, but you have to keep watching it to know what to do. Wonder what &#8220;The Cable Guy&#8221; would say here&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on The violence on the monitor issue by teodora</title>
		<link>http://www.vertegram.com/conscious-living/the-violence-on-the-monitor-issue/#comment-7499</link>
		<dc:creator>teodora</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2008 08:36:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.vertegram.com/?p=217#comment-7499</guid>
		<description>I was at a family with a baby some days ago and just saw when the little guy learned to turn himself over from lying on the belly to the back. He was on the floor (on a mat) and they had the TV near hanged on the wall. The parents just wanted to turn the kid away from the evil TV which he was watching so much that he stretched his neck and lifted his head up so that he managed to turn over for the first time. I don't know what was on TV..
As for Tom and Jerry I think these statements are stupid. Kids should learn  to live in the Real World. Some sane protection is OK like not watching strange porn in kindergarden or whatever, but the most important is having a good, loving family, isn't it? I wonder how much you can be concerned about it in real, maybe it is just a good topic :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was at a family with a baby some days ago and just saw when the little guy learned to turn himself over from lying on the belly to the back. He was on the floor (on a mat) and they had the TV near hanged on the wall. The parents just wanted to turn the kid away from the evil TV which he was watching so much that he stretched his neck and lifted his head up so that he managed to turn over for the first time. I don&#8217;t know what was on TV..<br />
As for Tom and Jerry I think these statements are stupid. Kids should learn  to live in the Real World. Some sane protection is OK like not watching strange porn in kindergarden or whatever, but the most important is having a good, loving family, isn&#8217;t it? I wonder how much you can be concerned about it in real, maybe it is just a good topic <img src='http://www.vertegram.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>Comment on What would you sell your soul for? by Al</title>
		<link>http://www.vertegram.com/conscious-living/what-would-you-sell-your-soul-for/#comment-7385</link>
		<dc:creator>Al</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Mar 2008 16:11:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.vertegram.com/conscious-living/what-would-you-sell-your-soul-for/#comment-7385</guid>
		<description>well, if there is anyone convinced enough that things like "souls" exist and agrees to buy my "soul", i will definitely cash the price he or she pays. easy!

i would also do it several times, of course, if the first buyer does not want to pay me enough. 

any offers welcome  :-)

cheers guys

al


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sarcasmo e come un cane mordace che, oltre a mordere, ha imparato a ridere.     f.n.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>well, if there is anyone convinced enough that things like &#8220;souls&#8221; exist and agrees to buy my &#8220;soul&#8221;, i will definitely cash the price he or she pays. easy!</p>
<p>i would also do it several times, of course, if the first buyer does not want to pay me enough. </p>
<p>any offers welcome  <img src='http://www.vertegram.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>cheers guys</p>
<p>al</p>
<p>&#8212;-<br />
sarcasmo e come un cane mordace che, oltre a mordere, ha imparato a ridere.     f.n.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What if the guru is still alive? by Attila Borcsa</title>
		<link>http://www.vertegram.com/conscious-living/what-if-the-guru-is-still-alive/#comment-6851</link>
		<dc:creator>Attila Borcsa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2008 08:39:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.vertegram.com/conscious-living/what-if-the-guru-is-still-alive/#comment-6851</guid>
		<description>It depends when is it that you "feel well". If you "feel well" after an actual inner transformation, that is fine. This should occur normally after some cathartic experience. Otherwise if you "feel well" around a guru it is due to the charm, the vitality, the "comforting" etc. which you may very well experience in so many other milieus too. Like a spa maybe? :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It depends when is it that you &#8220;feel well&#8221;. If you &#8220;feel well&#8221; after an actual inner transformation, that is fine. This should occur normally after some cathartic experience. Otherwise if you &#8220;feel well&#8221; around a guru it is due to the charm, the vitality, the &#8220;comforting&#8221; etc. which you may very well experience in so many other milieus too. Like a spa maybe? <img src='http://www.vertegram.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>Comment on What if the guru is still alive? by Razvan</title>
		<link>http://www.vertegram.com/conscious-living/what-if-the-guru-is-still-alive/#comment-6817</link>
		<dc:creator>Razvan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 18:41:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.vertegram.com/conscious-living/what-if-the-guru-is-still-alive/#comment-6817</guid>
		<description>It is most likely that it will make you feel uncomfortable. But you may feel very well also. I think these kind of relations don't have any rules, they are beyond rational (not in the sense of irationality :P).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is most likely that it will make you feel uncomfortable. But you may feel very well also. I think these kind of relations don&#8217;t have any rules, they are beyond rational (not in the sense of irationality :P).</p>
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		<title>Comment on Best Practices for New Year’s Resolutions by Razvan</title>
		<link>http://www.vertegram.com/conscious-living/best-practices-for-new-years-resolutions/#comment-4251</link>
		<dc:creator>Razvan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jan 2008 16:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think this new year (on dec 31) is stupid:
where is the new? most of the nature is dead,
 you have 24 ney years arround the globe,
it's based on a time convention ...
yes, you have the solstice, nearest point to the Sun, but that is a week before.
but the astronomical new year is different :)
Meri in Crishma !
(romanian for Mery Christmas!)</description>
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where is the new? most of the nature is dead,<br />
 you have 24 ney years arround the globe,<br />
it&#8217;s based on a time convention &#8230;<br />
yes, you have the solstice, nearest point to the Sun, but that is a week before.<br />
but the astronomical new year is different <img src='http://www.vertegram.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Meri in Crishma !<br />
(romanian for Mery Christmas!)</p>
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		<title>Comment on Best Practices for New Year’s Resolutions by teodora</title>
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		<dc:creator>teodora</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jan 2008 12:45:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>BUÉK!
I think new years resolutions are stupid.
I never had any.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>BUÉK!<br />
I think new years resolutions are stupid.<br />
I never had any.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Secret starting to be revealed by John</title>
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		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Nov 2007 10:50:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You can now add a 4th link to the next episode of Schirmer when he got caught selling his snake oil in New Zealand.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FuGK9JnZAAw</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You can now add a 4th link to the next episode of Schirmer when he got caught selling his snake oil in New Zealand.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FuGK9JnZAAw" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FuGK9JnZAAw</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on Where the revolt against the older world got us by Theo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Theo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Nov 2007 17:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As I get older, I find the kind of instruction books I like most useful are the ones which contain exercises and experiments to carry out. Indeed, they might contain a bit of theory to introduce you to what the exercise might achieve, and some criteria to help you evaluate what happens, but the crux of the matter is the exercise. When you try something out (many times, hopefully), record the results, then reflect on them over time and try to apply them to other problems and situations, you can really say you've learned something. And I don't think Socrates himself would disagree with that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As I get older, I find the kind of instruction books I like most useful are the ones which contain exercises and experiments to carry out. Indeed, they might contain a bit of theory to introduce you to what the exercise might achieve, and some criteria to help you evaluate what happens, but the crux of the matter is the exercise. When you try something out (many times, hopefully), record the results, then reflect on them over time and try to apply them to other problems and situations, you can really say you&#8217;ve learned something. And I don&#8217;t think Socrates himself would disagree with that.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Remembering yourself causes awakening by Attila Borcsa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Attila Borcsa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Nov 2007 06:19:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, I thought to spice it up a little...

Awareness is good in the context. Being aware is preceded by getting aware. It can be a state of mind, but it can be more.

Consider the last paragraph of the post. It is on the contrary. The identity is altering, varying, may be talking about several "I"s. Getting into the inner time and space is orienting towards the subject, but from the existential perspective it is towards more objective realities. As you put it, the ever not-changing self is more objective.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, I thought to spice it up a little&#8230;</p>
<p>Awareness is good in the context. Being aware is preceded by getting aware. It can be a state of mind, but it can be more.</p>
<p>Consider the last paragraph of the post. It is on the contrary. The identity is altering, varying, may be talking about several &#8220;I&#8221;s. Getting into the inner time and space is orienting towards the subject, but from the existential perspective it is towards more objective realities. As you put it, the ever not-changing self is more objective.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Remembering yourself causes awakening by teodora</title>
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		<dc:creator>teodora</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Nov 2007 22:23:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>funny post, at first it sounds like a debate..
I think awakening means awareness.. but being aware is just a state of mind. 
I don't get why the ever changing self is objective.. is it surely me who i remember?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>funny post, at first it sounds like a debate..<br />
I think awakening means awareness.. but being aware is just a state of mind.<br />
I don&#8217;t get why the ever changing self is objective.. is it surely me who i remember?</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Autodidacticism Complex by Attila Borcsa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Attila Borcsa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 21:15:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No offense, but you seem to put the blame on the ego a lot. May I ask what do &lt;em&gt;you&lt;/em&gt; mean by ego? Seemingly it does lots of bad things to you. It suppresses, conceptualizes, fights you, grabs you, doesn't like to hear things, brings up arguments, causes problem, is superficial ;)

Recognizing an awakened I say it is simply impossible. I don't see partial awakening as a possibility. Maybe moments, but that is still not partial awakening. Can we then say it is also partial sleeping? Sort of a daydreaming? There is no linearity here. There is no certain finality. Instead there is a paradox to be solved.

I don't get it how or why it leads to frustration, indifference, hostility. Please explain.

Oh yes, many people say they want to wake up. But when it comes to making an effort - and a superhumanly great effort is required here - they step back. Or maybe ask for that "faster, easier, more effective or why not - cheaper way". Just consider how 'The Secret' turned into a big BS. (Or it was from the start) I hear of attracting even enlightenment trough this "method". OMG

Whether those people deserve guidance or not is their wish. But from the awakened perspective it is still irrelevant what they wish for. As long as they are in the sleeping state, they don't have a true will. Their aspiration towards a higher good is very much pure from the ethical perspective. It is good, it is the right thing to do. Dreaming of the sun.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No offense, but you seem to put the blame on the ego a lot. May I ask what do <em>you</em> mean by ego? Seemingly it does lots of bad things to you. It suppresses, conceptualizes, fights you, grabs you, doesn&#8217;t like to hear things, brings up arguments, causes problem, is superficial <img src='http://www.vertegram.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Recognizing an awakened I say it is simply impossible. I don&#8217;t see partial awakening as a possibility. Maybe moments, but that is still not partial awakening. Can we then say it is also partial sleeping? Sort of a daydreaming? There is no linearity here. There is no certain finality. Instead there is a paradox to be solved.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t get it how or why it leads to frustration, indifference, hostility. Please explain.</p>
<p>Oh yes, many people say they want to wake up. But when it comes to making an effort - and a superhumanly great effort is required here - they step back. Or maybe ask for that &#8220;faster, easier, more effective or why not - cheaper way&#8221;. Just consider how &#8216;The Secret&#8217; turned into a big BS. (Or it was from the start) I hear of attracting even enlightenment trough this &#8220;method&#8221;. OMG</p>
<p>Whether those people deserve guidance or not is their wish. But from the awakened perspective it is still irrelevant what they wish for. As long as they are in the sleeping state, they don&#8217;t have a true will. Their aspiration towards a higher good is very much pure from the ethical perspective. It is good, it is the right thing to do. Dreaming of the sun.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Autodidacticism Complex by Marcus</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marcus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 16:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just an additional comment;

&lt;i&gt;“while asleep, how can you recognize the awakened”."&lt;/i&gt;

How can a blind man recognize color?  In the only possible way...

...once he can see...

You can't recognize an "awakened", unless you have a common point-of-reference, with them. 

If you are partially awake yourself, then you &lt;i&gt;will&lt;/i&gt; recognize them.  And if you are fully asleep then you will either not care about the issue - or if you do care, then you will have to take it all on faith.

It's very much of a case of 'being on the outside and looking in'.  Perhaps it leads to a degree of frustration or sometimes even indifference and hostility, I really don’t know.  But it is always possible to recognize the people that want to wake up and haven't done so yet, because they express a certain degree of effort which leads them towards (intellectual) confusion.  So in those cases I entirely agree that such people should be given all the guidance possible.  And personally I believe they are very deserving of being given that guidance.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just an additional comment;</p>
<p><i>“while asleep, how can you recognize the awakened”.&#8221;</i></p>
<p>How can a blind man recognize color?  In the only possible way&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230;once he can see&#8230;</p>
<p>You can&#8217;t recognize an &#8220;awakened&#8221;, unless you have a common point-of-reference, with them. </p>
<p>If you are partially awake yourself, then you <i>will</i> recognize them.  And if you are fully asleep then you will either not care about the issue - or if you do care, then you will have to take it all on faith.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s very much of a case of &#8216;being on the outside and looking in&#8217;.  Perhaps it leads to a degree of frustration or sometimes even indifference and hostility, I really don’t know.  But it is always possible to recognize the people that want to wake up and haven&#8217;t done so yet, because they express a certain degree of effort which leads them towards (intellectual) confusion.  So in those cases I entirely agree that such people should be given all the guidance possible.  And personally I believe they are very deserving of being given that guidance.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Autodidacticism Complex by Marcus</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marcus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 14:53:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yep, I essentially agree most of what you are saying then. Point-of-reference works better than the word 'authority'.  The dream-interpreter for example is creating reference points, rather than providing authoritative knowledge.

As for the higher-faculties emerging.  From my own personal experience I can say to you without any form of doubt that these higher-senses only emerge during the moments the ego disappears, or starts breaking down.  The ego effectively suppresses these abilities.  They don't emerge &lt;i&gt;because&lt;/i&gt; of the Ego, they emerge when the Ego is removed even if only momentarily.  At least that is how it has happened for me - so I can talk about that from experience, rather than as an abstract intellectual concept.

However I think I would be very arrogant to say that is how it works for everyone else, after all – who am I to say how these things function for &lt;i&gt;everyone&lt;/i&gt;?!  Especially without more experience.  Part of the process of all forms of development is the realization that at some point we have to leave intellectual concepts at the door.  Certain things simply have to be &lt;i&gt;experienced&lt;/i&gt; in order to be understood.  Now watch how the Ego will fight against that notion – because it likes to believe it can understand everything in the form of concepts!  That is how the Ego grabs you, and it won’t let go until you see it for what it is.  It simply doesn’t like hearing this sort of thing and generates all sorts of arguments and notions.

Also, the Ego causes problems with these higher-senses - because it tries to 'interpret' them in the BS superficial level.  They simply won't work through the Ego.  At least that is my experience of them.

That said - I do agree that when you can use them at will - it would be a true sign of an 'awakened' mind.

I don't quite get what you mean with 'my interpretation of the Tao.'

The Tao isn't an intellectual concept.  It can't be &lt;i&gt;understood&lt;/i&gt; on an intellectual level.  That is all a part of the illusion, and the Tao says that itself many times over.  Unless I mis-understand what you are saying?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yep, I essentially agree most of what you are saying then. Point-of-reference works better than the word &#8216;authority&#8217;.  The dream-interpreter for example is creating reference points, rather than providing authoritative knowledge.</p>
<p>As for the higher-faculties emerging.  From my own personal experience I can say to you without any form of doubt that these higher-senses only emerge during the moments the ego disappears, or starts breaking down.  The ego effectively suppresses these abilities.  They don&#8217;t emerge <i>because</i> of the Ego, they emerge when the Ego is removed even if only momentarily.  At least that is how it has happened for me - so I can talk about that from experience, rather than as an abstract intellectual concept.</p>
<p>However I think I would be very arrogant to say that is how it works for everyone else, after all – who am I to say how these things function for <i>everyone</i>?!  Especially without more experience.  Part of the process of all forms of development is the realization that at some point we have to leave intellectual concepts at the door.  Certain things simply have to be <i>experienced</i> in order to be understood.  Now watch how the Ego will fight against that notion – because it likes to believe it can understand everything in the form of concepts!  That is how the Ego grabs you, and it won’t let go until you see it for what it is.  It simply doesn’t like hearing this sort of thing and generates all sorts of arguments and notions.</p>
<p>Also, the Ego causes problems with these higher-senses - because it tries to &#8216;interpret&#8217; them in the BS superficial level.  They simply won&#8217;t work through the Ego.  At least that is my experience of them.</p>
<p>That said - I do agree that when you can use them at will - it would be a true sign of an &#8216;awakened&#8217; mind.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t quite get what you mean with &#8216;my interpretation of the Tao.&#8217;</p>
<p>The Tao isn&#8217;t an intellectual concept.  It can&#8217;t be <i>understood</i> on an intellectual level.  That is all a part of the illusion, and the Tao says that itself many times over.  Unless I mis-understand what you are saying?</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Autodidacticism Complex by Attila Borcsa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Attila Borcsa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 14:05:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Marcus, I agree with (almost) all that you say here in this last comment. In these contexts you can be obviously an authority for yourself. There are just nuances where I see it differently. Like the higher faculties should be considered valid signs of development only when they are occurring at will. And now the question of (true) will... But will (sic!) stay on the topic.
Another person being an authority is not how I see it essentially. Starting from the post, I said that an authority is not a requirement. Rather I'd use the term 'point of reference'. Authority should be someone to be considered by all means, without doubts. A guru might be one. But even a point of reference should do, not always though. Ex. the higher faculties occurring at will are not there just for you. They can occur at will at someone else, who can thus be a point of reference. All other occurrences – until completely under will – are just playing their part in “the ego BS” (quoting you here). But once again, these are just nuances to what you commented before.
You are very much right on the opinion matter. Agree, even an awakened one's remarks, advises etc. are simple opinions until you are asleep. The impartiality might be true, still doesn't count much from this perspective.
Regarding the dreams part. If you consider the analytical approach, that is not just an opinion the therapist can give you. The therapist has to turn into a mirror for you to see clearly your dream. Also according to his experience he will guide you towards understanding it. Helping you to understand your own dream, not explaining it to you. This is much more than an opinion or interpretation.
The “green to a blind-man” and “sound to deaf” questions are saying the same as I did with “while asleep, how can you recognize the awakened”. We are saying the same. 
(I dislike the way you interpret the Tao here, but I think I got your point.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Marcus, I agree with (almost) all that you say here in this last comment. In these contexts you can be obviously an authority for yourself. There are just nuances where I see it differently. Like the higher faculties should be considered valid signs of development only when they are occurring at will. And now the question of (true) will&#8230; But will (sic!) stay on the topic.<br />
Another person being an authority is not how I see it essentially. Starting from the post, I said that an authority is not a requirement. Rather I&#8217;d use the term &#8216;point of reference&#8217;. Authority should be someone to be considered by all means, without doubts. A guru might be one. But even a point of reference should do, not always though. Ex. the higher faculties occurring at will are not there just for you. They can occur at will at someone else, who can thus be a point of reference. All other occurrences – until completely under will – are just playing their part in “the ego BS” (quoting you here). But once again, these are just nuances to what you commented before.<br />
You are very much right on the opinion matter. Agree, even an awakened one&#8217;s remarks, advises etc. are simple opinions until you are asleep. The impartiality might be true, still doesn&#8217;t count much from this perspective.<br />
Regarding the dreams part. If you consider the analytical approach, that is not just an opinion the therapist can give you. The therapist has to turn into a mirror for you to see clearly your dream. Also according to his experience he will guide you towards understanding it. Helping you to understand your own dream, not explaining it to you. This is much more than an opinion or interpretation.<br />
The “green to a blind-man” and “sound to deaf” questions are saying the same as I did with “while asleep, how can you recognize the awakened”. We are saying the same.<br />
(I dislike the way you interpret the Tao here, but I think I got your point.)</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Autodidacticism Complex by Marcus</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marcus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 13:27:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Attila, thanks for the answer.  Yeah that sheds a little light on your process.

I wrote a bit about Awareness Development a while ago.  Or another way of saying that – I wrote about one way to start the process that will eventually lead to spiritual development.

http://www.thethoughts.co.uk/thoughts/awareness-development/

I don't know if you read that before.  But a large part of our development (all forms of development) is finding a balance between authority and personal experience.

Here's a question for you that is a bit out of the box.  On my Spiritual Development, I have found that my 'higher faculties' have developed.  These ‘higher-senses’ are things like increased intuition, and symbolical understanding of my life etc.  I have also experienced premonitions.  These things I can validate from my own personal-experience, I am my own authority on these matters because no-one else possibly can be. 

As kulcsi says; how can another person provide me with any form of authority on those things?  I can discuss the experiences with another person, but that person is not inside my head.  That person did not experience what I experienced - therefore that person cannot be an authority.  Let’s be clear.  If we are talking about spiritual development – which leads to higher awareness, then we are &lt;b&gt;not&lt;/b&gt; talking about something that is observable from a third-person perspective.  How would you explain ‘green’ to a blind-man?

At best all another person can do with regards to inner development and higher-senses, is to be an impartial observer and share their opinion with me.  But even if their words helped me, the fact remains that their opinion would be little more than mere opinion.

For example if I have a dream.  I can tell you about it.  You could perhaps give me your own 'interpretation' on that dream.  But the only authority on my dreams is me.  Simply because there is no way another person can experience the dream I had.  They can give me their opinion, but that opinion can in no way be authoritative.  How do you ‘share’ a dream with another person?  How would you explain sound to a deaf man?

You speak of oriental ways of approach.  Then you will have heard this; "The Tao that can be shown, is not the true Tao".

"The Tao that can be spoken is not the true Tao."

In our conversation we could say; "The Tao that is an authority, is not the true Tao."

I didn't understand those words until I let go off my intellectual view on the subject.  Spiritual development really isn't an intellectual matter at all...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Attila, thanks for the answer.  Yeah that sheds a little light on your process.</p>
<p>I wrote a bit about Awareness Development a while ago.  Or another way of saying that – I wrote about one way to start the process that will eventually lead to spiritual development.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.thethoughts.co.uk/thoughts/awareness-development/" rel="nofollow">http://www.thethoughts.co.uk/thoughts/awareness-development/</a></p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know if you read that before.  But a large part of our development (all forms of development) is finding a balance between authority and personal experience.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a question for you that is a bit out of the box.  On my Spiritual Development, I have found that my &#8216;higher faculties&#8217; have developed.  These ‘higher-senses’ are things like increased intuition, and symbolical understanding of my life etc.  I have also experienced premonitions.  These things I can validate from my own personal-experience, I am my own authority on these matters because no-one else possibly can be. </p>
<p>As kulcsi says; how can another person provide me with any form of authority on those things?  I can discuss the experiences with another person, but that person is not inside my head.  That person did not experience what I experienced - therefore that person cannot be an authority.  Let’s be clear.  If we are talking about spiritual development – which leads to higher awareness, then we are <b>not</b> talking about something that is observable from a third-person perspective.  How would you explain ‘green’ to a blind-man?</p>
<p>At best all another person can do with regards to inner development and higher-senses, is to be an impartial observer and share their opinion with me.  But even if their words helped me, the fact remains that their opinion would be little more than mere opinion.</p>
<p>For example if I have a dream.  I can tell you about it.  You could perhaps give me your own &#8216;interpretation&#8217; on that dream.  But the only authority on my dreams is me.  Simply because there is no way another person can experience the dream I had.  They can give me their opinion, but that opinion can in no way be authoritative.  How do you ‘share’ a dream with another person?  How would you explain sound to a deaf man?</p>
<p>You speak of oriental ways of approach.  Then you will have heard this; &#8220;The Tao that can be shown, is not the true Tao&#8221;.</p>
<p>&#8220;The Tao that can be spoken is not the true Tao.&#8221;</p>
<p>In our conversation we could say; &#8220;The Tao that is an authority, is not the true Tao.&#8221;</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t understand those words until I let go off my intellectual view on the subject.  Spiritual development really isn&#8217;t an intellectual matter at all&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Autodidacticism Complex by Attila Borcsa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Attila Borcsa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 09:18:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Marcus
Will try an answer to your question.
Mostly I do similar to how you say you do. Going on the personal experience. And the judgments it provides. But I find it important to state that I go like this in the present. Being involved with several ateliers on the subject here, it drove me to a sort of a gestation phase. Even this blog helps me in this clarifying effort. Also being involved mostly in Oriental ways of approaching the subject here, drove me to a reevaluation of those experiences and knowledge in terms of the milieu and life where I actually live. Maybe I gave you an answer, I don't know. I tried :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Marcus<br />
Will try an answer to your question.<br />
Mostly I do similar to how you say you do. Going on the personal experience. And the judgments it provides. But I find it important to state that I go like this in the present. Being involved with several ateliers on the subject here, it drove me to a sort of a gestation phase. Even this blog helps me in this clarifying effort. Also being involved mostly in Oriental ways of approaching the subject here, drove me to a reevaluation of those experiences and knowledge in terms of the milieu and life where I actually live. Maybe I gave you an answer, I don&#8217;t know. I tried <img src='http://www.vertegram.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>Comment on The Autodidacticism Complex by Attila Borcsa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Attila Borcsa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 08:59:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@kulcsi
Back to the authenticity issue then. I doubt that while asleep you can recognize the awaken. Instead of authentic I would use fit for yourself: ".. if the chosen guru is &lt;em&gt;fit for you or not&lt;/em&gt;". But even that is paradoxical. Maybe fit for your  - more or less - imagined concept of how a guru - your guru - should be. I would say that it is actually on the contrary, &lt;em&gt;if you are fit for the guru&lt;/em&gt;. (This "guru" term might be misleading anyway, too much into the Oriental approach.)

I agree on getting support in the presence of a guru. Going further, I would say that if that is the only time/place to get closer to a higher state, then it is a sort of a vampirism. If this is the case, some gurus might beat you up :D But on the more serious side, this Witness concept is not very clear to me the way you use it. The Witness seems to me like a silent entity, thus without judgments, impartial. How it becomes an authority then?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@kulcsi<br />
Back to the authenticity issue then. I doubt that while asleep you can recognize the awaken. Instead of authentic I would use fit for yourself: &#8220;.. if the chosen guru is <em>fit for you or not</em>&#8220;. But even that is paradoxical. Maybe fit for your  - more or less - imagined concept of how a guru - your guru - should be. I would say that it is actually on the contrary, <em>if you are fit for the guru</em>. (This &#8220;guru&#8221; term might be misleading anyway, too much into the Oriental approach.)</p>
<p>I agree on getting support in the presence of a guru. Going further, I would say that if that is the only time/place to get closer to a higher state, then it is a sort of a vampirism. If this is the case, some gurus might beat you up <img src='http://www.vertegram.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> But on the more serious side, this Witness concept is not very clear to me the way you use it. The Witness seems to me like a silent entity, thus without judgments, impartial. How it becomes an authority then?</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Autodidacticism Complex by kulcsi</title>
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		<dc:creator>kulcsi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 08:14:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice conversation...
I think in some sense every personal or spiritual development is auto-didactic. Without judgment, noone can tell if the choosen guru is authentic or not. Without judgment there is no conscious development at all. 

The only "authority" on this question is the inner Witness, and noone else. The presence of a realized guru helps You to be in a higher state of mind which is a firm support on personal/spiritual development. But without judgment one can not make distinction between this authentic support, and the fake, egocentric thoughts. And judgment it cannot be "injected" with a third party person... Every personal and spiritual path is ultimatelly an auto-didactism.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice conversation&#8230;<br />
I think in some sense every personal or spiritual development is auto-didactic. Without judgment, noone can tell if the choosen guru is authentic or not. Without judgment there is no conscious development at all. </p>
<p>The only &#8220;authority&#8221; on this question is the inner Witness, and noone else. The presence of a realized guru helps You to be in a higher state of mind which is a firm support on personal/spiritual development. But without judgment one can not make distinction between this authentic support, and the fake, egocentric thoughts. And judgment it cannot be &#8220;injected&#8221; with a third party person&#8230; Every personal and spiritual path is ultimatelly an auto-didactism.</p>
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