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Comment on Trauma – Change – Reset: Part Two by Bob

Bob — Tue, 17 Apr 2012 20:33:52 +0000

Thanks for your thoughts Luisa – I appreciate your sarcasm at the end – I know you personally and how hard you work at your business.

Comment on Trauma – Change – Reset: Part Two by Luisa

Luisa — Tue, 17 Apr 2012 17:06:32 +0000

Dear Bob:

I had reflected on this and these are my thoughts:
I am one of those persons that accept responsability for the good and for the wrong.
All along I accepted the fact that I had made decisisions which directed my life in the direction it is. I left Mexico in 1975. It was not a good decision but it is nothing I could change.

I wish to be like all those souls who blame somebody else for their mistakes and feel better when they say “it is not my fault” . I think their life is easier….

Have a “swell day”
Luisa

Comment on Trauma – Change – Reset: Part One by Socorro

Socorro — Fri, 13 Apr 2012 05:47:42 +0000

Thank you Bob.
I do agree to all you say. It makes me appreciate where I am now, I have gone through this process and I keep going at different levels with more awareness, it’s so interesting to be the observant of my life, the reactions I have to different situations and be ok with my “human moments” and to move on not to engage with the critical or the victim personas that come up now and then. I love this truth, “Be ruthlessly honest.” I am through another transition in my life and I thought i had been honest with myself, I’m learning that nope! I wasn’t totally, ruthlessly honest with myself, so I am in this intentional process of being totally honest, checking my intentions moment by moment and WOW! what a Journey!!!

Thanks for sharing your thoughts, experiences with us. I am very glad to know that soon we’re going to have you in the neighborhood!
Much Love,
Socorro

Comment on Feeling Disconnected by Joe Schmoe

Joe Schmoe — Sat, 31 Mar 2012 23:15:50 +0000

Wow, very insightful the world needs to be filled with people more like you, thank you.

Comment on The Lost Art Of Introspection by Justin Richards

Justin Richards — Fri, 19 Aug 2011 22:42:59 +0000

Good article bob – the challenge is in this day and age….nobody is willing to be accountable to anything or anyone, much less themselves. It’s sad, but too often the game we play is “blame game” where you pass the responsibility of your actions to others.

I’m a jerk, but it’s because my dad beat me
I treat my wife like dirt, but it’s because she is a B(*#&
the list could go on and on.

Like you said, true introspection requires the ability to take accountability for your actions. I don’t see a lot of people raising their hand for that.