<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:blogger='http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077764315792638463</id><updated>2015-06-09T11:13:20.457-07:00</updated><category term="Communication in Dating"/><category term="Tips"/><category term="Dating Tips for women"/><category term="Eye Contact"/><category term="Touching"/><category term="Are Women Solar Powered"/><category term="Blog Course"/><category term="Blogging in Pursuit"/><category term="Bloggingsphere"/><category term="Body Movement"/><category term="Flirting"/><category term="Hair and Mouth"/><category term="Kiss Sensation"/><category term="Physical Attraction"/><category term="Self-Image"/><category term="Single Live"/><category term="The Way they Speak"/><category term="UK Dating Scene"/><title type='text'>Communication in Dating</title><subtitle type='html'>This site is about Communication in Dating, communication dating, free dating sites,online dating sites, nonverbal communication dating and lot of dating advice to share with the whole community. Have a great days</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default?redirect=false'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Ahmad Naim</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114126733784086951500</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IFmh037yOwQ/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAA2o/TOavPdzsuHc/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>20</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077764315792638463.post-5686114022889093592</id><published>2011-02-02T08:05:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-01-06T12:39:00.886-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Communication in Dating"/><title type='text'>6 Amazing Tips For Excellent Dating In Communication</title><content type='html'>&lt;table align=&quot;center&quot; cellpadding=&quot;0&quot; cellspacing=&quot;0&quot; class=&quot;tr-caption-container&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_CVKCYRt3ZGU/TUl_q-E0WUI/AAAAAAAAAWM/bTyYgx7JXbw/s1600/communication19167364.jpg&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;212&quot; src=&quot;http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_CVKCYRt3ZGU/TUl_q-E0WUI/AAAAAAAAAWM/bTyYgx7JXbw/s320/communication19167364.jpg&quot; width=&quot;320&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td class=&quot;tr-caption&quot; style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;Learn how to communicate fine so that you can narrate to your date&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CVKCYRt3ZGU/TUl_r85s3GI/AAAAAAAAAWU/kcX1yuIAjIw/s1600/Online-Dating.jpg&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot; style=&quot;text-indent: 36pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot; style=&quot;text-indent: 36pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot; style=&quot;text-indent: 36pt;&quot;&gt;Communication  is a very important part of dating. It&#39;s fundamental that you learn how  to communicate fine so that you can narrate to your date. All women  love to chat, so if you can equal their interest, you will have the  highest achievement. A good way to communicate well is to pay attention  to what your lady has to say. If a woman says something like, &quot;why are  you being distant?&quot; - follow up with something like, &quot;what do you mean  distant? Explain.&quot; This show that you&#39;re listening and that you&#39;re  vigorously attentive to what she is saying. Listening is a very  imperative division of communicating and it&#39;s one of the key to triumph  when it comes to dating.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;Here are some tips for being a first-rate communicator.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst&quot; style=&quot;text-indent: -18pt;&quot;&gt;1)&lt;span style=&quot;font: 7pt &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Offer support&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot;&gt;Your  words can carry a lot of support and calm to a woman. You have to be  taught how to use your words well so that you can be successful with  what you&#39;re saying. The phrase &quot;it&#39;s not what you say but how you say  it&quot; is accurate in this case as what you say and how you say can have a  reflective impact on where a woman&#39;s sensation for you goes.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;table align=&quot;center&quot; cellpadding=&quot;0&quot; cellspacing=&quot;0&quot; class=&quot;tr-caption-container&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_CVKCYRt3ZGU/TUl_rRXhgpI/AAAAAAAAAWQ/CPO6UMH1HyM/s1600/free-communication-dating-weekends.jpg&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;400&quot; src=&quot;http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_CVKCYRt3ZGU/TUl_rRXhgpI/AAAAAAAAAWQ/CPO6UMH1HyM/s400/free-communication-dating-weekends.jpg&quot; width=&quot;266&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td class=&quot;tr-caption&quot; style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;Don&#39;t mock her&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot; style=&quot;text-indent: -18pt;&quot;&gt;2)&lt;span style=&quot;font: 7pt &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot; style=&quot;text-indent: -18pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot; style=&quot;text-indent: -18pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Don&#39;t mock her&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot;&gt;You  never want to mock your date. Don&#39;t make fun at her or transparently  criticize what she has to say when she says it. This show that you&#39;d  rather make fun at her than get to know her better - and this isn&#39;t the  impression that you want to give off.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpLast&quot; style=&quot;text-indent: -18pt;&quot;&gt;3)&lt;span style=&quot;font: 7pt &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Relax&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 36pt;&quot;&gt;A  lot of jumpiness and anxiety is general in dating so you must try to  settle down for your big date. Be peaceful in the fact that you&#39;re going  out with a gorgeous woman and you&#39;re just demanding to have a good  time. When fear or panic arises, just take deep breaths as this is a  vast way to reduce the apprehension.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst&quot; style=&quot;text-indent: -18pt;&quot;&gt;4)&lt;span style=&quot;font: 7pt &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Listen &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot;&gt;Well  mentioned this earlier and I&#39;m mentioning it here again too. You wish  for to show your date that you&#39;re paying concentration to her. Comment  on things that she says and listen closely to what she has to say.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;table align=&quot;center&quot; cellpadding=&quot;0&quot; cellspacing=&quot;0&quot; class=&quot;tr-caption-container&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CVKCYRt3ZGU/TUl_r85s3GI/AAAAAAAAAWU/kcX1yuIAjIw/s1600/Online-Dating.jpg&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;212&quot; src=&quot;http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CVKCYRt3ZGU/TUl_r85s3GI/AAAAAAAAAWU/kcX1yuIAjIw/s320/Online-Dating.jpg&quot; width=&quot;320&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td class=&quot;tr-caption&quot; style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;Don&#39;t use profanity&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot; style=&quot;text-indent: -18pt;&quot;&gt;5)&lt;span style=&quot;font: 7pt &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot; style=&quot;text-indent: -18pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot; style=&quot;text-indent: -18pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot; style=&quot;text-indent: -18pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot; style=&quot;text-indent: -18pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Don&#39;t use profanity&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot;&gt;It  doesn&#39;t matter if she is using profanity - you shouldn&#39;t use profanity  while on your date. This shows that you are unrestricted and that you  are a offensive person. It can also be very discourteous to her  especially is she is a fashionable woman. So refrain from using  profanity. If you&#39;re somebody who uses foul language a lot, then think  about practicing talking without using profanity. It will come in useful  on your date.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot; style=&quot;text-indent: -18pt;&quot;&gt;6)&lt;span style=&quot;font: 7pt &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Compliment her&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot;&gt;Compliments  are superior but you don&#39;t want to exceed it. Complimenting a woman  shows that you like what you see and that she made a good conclusion in  what she&#39;s chose to dress in and put on. A woman loves it when they can  have a high self esteem, so you will be making her feel good when you do  so. Just don&#39;t overdo it because if you do, she may sight you as soft  and weak.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpLast&quot;&gt;These  6 tips shape the core of how you ought communicate to a woman. Be sure  to get going using these tips at the moment so that you can start having  dating triumph.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/feeds/5686114022889093592/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4077764315792638463&amp;postID=5686114022889093592&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/5686114022889093592'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/5686114022889093592'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/2011/02/6-amazing-tips-for-excellent-dating-in.html' title='6 Amazing Tips For Excellent Dating In Communication'/><author><name>Ahmad Naim</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114126733784086951500</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IFmh037yOwQ/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAA2o/TOavPdzsuHc/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_CVKCYRt3ZGU/TUl_q-E0WUI/AAAAAAAAAWM/bTyYgx7JXbw/s72-c/communication19167364.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077764315792638463.post-783905325267706636</id><published>2011-02-02T07:24:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-02-02T07:31:20.509-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Communication in Dating"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Tips"/><title type='text'>Communication in Dating DO&#39;s and DONT&#39;s</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CVKCYRt3ZGU/TUl2maHe0wI/AAAAAAAAAWA/KLjOEGmQkFY/s1600/CommunicationDatingMen4.jpg&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table align=&quot;center&quot; cellpadding=&quot;0&quot; cellspacing=&quot;0&quot; class=&quot;tr-caption-container&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_CVKCYRt3ZGU/TUl2nraxt1I/AAAAAAAAAWI/80U613pX6aU/s1600/free-dating-advice.jpg&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;211&quot; src=&quot;http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_CVKCYRt3ZGU/TUl2nraxt1I/AAAAAAAAAWI/80U613pX6aU/s320/free-dating-advice.jpg&quot; width=&quot;320&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td class=&quot;tr-caption&quot; style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;Greater relationship lies in high-quality communication&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;A very significant constituent to having a greater relationship lies in high-quality communication.&amp;nbsp; In fact, it is roughly impossible to have any sort of relationship with a person except you are able to narrate to him or her.&amp;nbsp; The skill to communicate effectively means that you have to pay close concentration and to listen very carefully.&amp;nbsp; We all have dissimilar method of communication.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;You require to be able to recognize, appreciate, and respect how other people communicate, more than ever your date partner. A good way to show your date that you are listening carefully to him or her is to say again what he or she has said.&amp;nbsp; Say for example your partner tells you: &quot;You have been very far-away lately&quot;, you then say, &quot;So you are saying I have been distant?&quot;&amp;nbsp; Follow up with an open ended question like &quot;Tell me more about what you mean.&quot;&amp;nbsp; By saying that, you can confirm what your partner has said and create him or her feel relaxing about conversation to you about his or her concern. How you communicate with your verbal skill could convey comfort by dropping fear and let-up tension.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;table align=&quot;center&quot; cellpadding=&quot;0&quot; cellspacing=&quot;0&quot; class=&quot;tr-caption-container&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CVKCYRt3ZGU/TUl2m2s1UTI/AAAAAAAAAWE/g6EeAXuAcxw/s1600/CommunicationDatingMen5.jpg&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; src=&quot;http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CVKCYRt3ZGU/TUl2m2s1UTI/AAAAAAAAAWE/g6EeAXuAcxw/s1600/CommunicationDatingMen5.jpg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td class=&quot;tr-caption&quot; style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;DO make the person you are talking to feel safe&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;The subsequent are some guiding philosophy to help you take lead of your expression and get your aim across more efficiently: DO make the person you are talking to feel safe and sound by contribution a lot of support and enjoyment.&amp;nbsp; This gets the soundless types to open up further and think at ease. DON’T make your date feel scratchy by judging, criticizing, or making fun of what he or she has to say. DO let go.&amp;nbsp; Feeling nervous can mess up your assurance and consideration.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;Take deep breathes when you feel like you require to end the discussion because of fear or panic. DON’T feel that the whole thing has to be resolved at one time. DO listen carefully and avoid interrupt while the other person is talking. DON’T use distasteful vocabularies and expressions.&amp;nbsp; It is very bad-mannered and cheapens you and the person you are talking to. DO get to the face and be clear on what you want to get across or if you have any questions.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;table align=&quot;center&quot; cellpadding=&quot;0&quot; cellspacing=&quot;0&quot; class=&quot;tr-caption-container&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CVKCYRt3ZGU/TUl2maHe0wI/AAAAAAAAAWA/KLjOEGmQkFY/s1600/CommunicationDatingMen4.jpg&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; src=&quot;http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CVKCYRt3ZGU/TUl2maHe0wI/AAAAAAAAAWA/KLjOEGmQkFY/s1600/CommunicationDatingMen4.jpg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td class=&quot;tr-caption&quot; style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;DON’T feel that the whole thing has to be resolved at one time&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot; style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/feeds/783905325267706636/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4077764315792638463&amp;postID=783905325267706636&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/783905325267706636'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/783905325267706636'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/2011/02/communication-in-dating-dos-and-donts.html' title='Communication in Dating DO&#39;s and DONT&#39;s'/><author><name>Ahmad Naim</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114126733784086951500</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IFmh037yOwQ/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAA2o/TOavPdzsuHc/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_CVKCYRt3ZGU/TUl2nraxt1I/AAAAAAAAAWI/80U613pX6aU/s72-c/free-dating-advice.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077764315792638463.post-7054156084458162886</id><published>2009-01-27T12:41:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-01-27T12:44:03.078-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Communication in Dating"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Dating Tips for women"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Eye Contact"/><title type='text'>21 No-Cost (or Extremely Low-Cost) Ways to Remind Your Special Other of How Much You Love Them</title><content type='html'>&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-3291873-10479605&quot; target=&quot;_top&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.awltovhc.com/image-3291873-10479605&quot; alt=&quot;Life is Short. Have an Affair - JOIN NOW!&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;60&quot; width=&quot;120&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It&#39;s so easy, as they race through each day trying to accomplish an impossible number of tasks, to forget about those they love. soon, and often unintentionally, six partner, or both, are left feeling unappreciated, overlooked and in need of some serious &quot;TLC.&quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Logically, they all know that a relationship must receive attention if it is to grow. Realistically, few of us take the time to fan the relationship flames as often as they should. But help is on the way.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Showing your special someone how much you love them doesn&#39;t have to take a lot of time or cost a lot of money. In fact, it&#39;s better if it doesn&#39;t -- it&#39;s the little things that they remember most. So don&#39;t wait until next Valentine&#39;s Day to show your significant other that you love and appreciate them. Try to incorporate at least six of these romantic ideas into your partner&#39;s day, everyday (and when you&#39;ve done them all, keep going by generating your own, or repeat the cycle!)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;      Leave a note for your special other (or tuck six into a lunch/briefcase) telling them how much you care.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   1. Cook them their favorite meal. Have it ready to be going when they walk in the door, complete with candles.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   2. Try your hand at a love poem that includes special memories only the one of you share. Leave it somewhere unexpected.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;      Make your partner a CD of &quot;your&quot; songs. Have it playing when they come home.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   3. If married, have your wedding vows framed and give it to your spouse &quot;just because.&quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;      On a cold day, warm up their automobile for them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   4. Volunteer to do their share of the housework so they can relax.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;      Let them sleep in.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   5. Pamper your significant other by cycling a bath for them. Include bath salts, candles, and soft music, then wash their hair&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;      Give your partner a massage (before they ask for it).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   6. Bring them lunch at work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;      Stop to say hello, kiss and hug every time you come in the front door.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;      Flirt with them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   7. Pack a lunch and take your special someone on a surprise picnic or walk in the woods. Or, pack a desert and go stargazing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   8. Hold his or her hand.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;      Bring them a blanket or sweater if they look cold.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;      generate your own vacation, then surprise your significant other with a celebration. This could be: &quot;Happy 18 days since your last cigarette,&quot; a 2.5-year anniversary, or &quot;I Love You More Than Ever Day.&quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   9. Tell them you love and appreciate them, don&#39;t just assume they know.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  10. Leave a flower and a note on the windshield of their automobile.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;      Cuddle for at least six minutes in the morning before getting out of bed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;      Buy them a small, but meaningful, gift such as their favorite gourmet coffee, a pair of warm socks because their feet are always cold, a book on tape for them to listen to while stuck in traffic, etc.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://smiletoday.uuuq.com/love/21-no-cost-or-extremely-low-cost-ways-to-remi.html</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/feeds/7054156084458162886/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4077764315792638463&amp;postID=7054156084458162886&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/7054156084458162886'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/7054156084458162886'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/2009/01/21-no-cost-or-extremely-low-cost-ways.html' title='21 No-Cost (or Extremely Low-Cost) Ways to Remind Your Special Other of How Much You Love Them'/><author><name>Ahmad Naim</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114126733784086951500</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IFmh037yOwQ/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAA2o/TOavPdzsuHc/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077764315792638463.post-7183247177437654208</id><published>2009-01-27T12:36:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-01-27T12:38:34.043-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Dating Tips for women"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Tips"/><title type='text'>Top 10 Ideas To Revive a Fizzling Relationship</title><content type='html'>&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-3291873-10479605&quot; target=&quot;_top&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.awltovhc.com/image-3291873-10479605&quot; alt=&quot;Life is Short. Have an Affair - JOIN NOW!&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;60&quot; width=&quot;120&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Top 10 Ideas To Revive a Fizzling Relationship&lt;br /&gt;?Copyright 2005 Micheline&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Love is exciting, &amp;amp; when a relationship is new, almost&lt;br /&gt;everything you do together is fresh &amp;amp; alive, &amp;amp; keeps&lt;br /&gt;you enthralled. Then time begins to pass, &amp;amp; while the&lt;br /&gt;love is still there, the relationship may have lost some of&lt;br /&gt;its sparkle, whether it&#39;s because you now have a family&lt;br /&gt;or not. Here are a quantity of the top 10 ideas to revive a&lt;br /&gt;fizzling relationship that might  put a quantity of the&lt;br /&gt;bubble back into the champagne of your life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Micheline says, if you&#39;re still in love, there is always hope.&lt;br /&gt;Visit http://www.MoreRomanceInYourLife.com for 37&lt;br /&gt;more tips to revive your love life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Do something unexpected. Send your partner&lt;br /&gt;flowers at work. That applies to men, ! Or take them&lt;br /&gt;out for dinner on a weeknight.&lt;br /&gt;2. What lit your fire to start with? Strike the match&lt;br /&gt;again, by duplicating that initial moment you fell in love&lt;br /&gt;with your partner, &amp;amp; be sure to tell them why you&#39;ve&lt;br /&gt;created this  for them.&lt;br /&gt;3. Communicate. If you find it hard to say things, try&lt;br /&gt;surprising your better half with notes in their lunch, on&lt;br /&gt;their pillow, in the automobile, etc. Often the written word opens&lt;br /&gt;other doors.&lt;br /&gt;4. Make time  for you. &amp;amp; don&#39;t break the date!&lt;br /&gt;Book babysitters ahead or clear your work calendar so&lt;br /&gt;there is nobody on it but the other person.&lt;br /&gt;5. Get out of the rut!-literally. Take your partner&lt;br /&gt;somewhere new, &amp;amp; alone. Even if it&#39;s  a cabin on&lt;br /&gt;the lake. Rediscover each other all over.&lt;br /&gt;6. Find something you like about your partner, every&lt;br /&gt;day. Then tell them what it&#39;s.&lt;br /&gt;7. Find a shared interest. Explore new hobbies,&lt;br /&gt;sports, or other interests that you both like, &amp;amp; can&lt;br /&gt;participate in together.&lt;br /&gt;8. Accept your partner&#39;s faults. Then admit your&lt;br /&gt;own. Make an effort not to keep repeating them out of&lt;br /&gt;laziness or habit.&lt;br /&gt;9. Get physical. Touch your partner. In compassion,&lt;br /&gt;sympathy, friendship, &amp;amp; sexual attraction. Let them&lt;br /&gt;know that you are there.&lt;br /&gt;10. Make promises, &amp;amp; keep them. Slip a note into&lt;br /&gt;their wallet or purse that says what is being served for&lt;br /&gt;dinner tonight, &amp;amp; promise that dessert will be worth&lt;br /&gt;waiting for!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This article is free for republishing&lt;br /&gt;Micheline says, if you&#39;re still in love, there is always hope.&lt;br /&gt;Visit http://www.MoreRomanceInYourLife.com for 37&lt;br /&gt;more tips to revive your love life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://smiletoday.uuuq.com/love/top-10-ideas-to-revive-a-fizzling-relationship.html&quot;&gt;http://smiletoday.uuuq.com/love/top-10-ideas-to-revive-a-fizzling-relationship.html&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/feeds/7183247177437654208/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4077764315792638463&amp;postID=7183247177437654208&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/7183247177437654208'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/7183247177437654208'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/2009/01/top-10-ideas-to-revive-fizzling.html' title='Top 10 Ideas To Revive a Fizzling Relationship'/><author><name>Ahmad Naim</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114126733784086951500</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IFmh037yOwQ/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAA2o/TOavPdzsuHc/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077764315792638463.post-563132228722556722</id><published>2009-01-27T12:33:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-01-27T12:35:14.428-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Communication in Dating"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Dating Tips for women"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Tips"/><title type='text'>3 Tips You Wish You Know Earlier Before You Go Into Any Type of Relationship!</title><content type='html'>&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-3291873-10479605&quot; target=&quot;_top&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.awltovhc.com/image-3291873-10479605&quot; alt=&quot;Life is Short. Have an Affair - JOIN NOW!&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;60&quot; width=&quot;120&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are in a relationship right now, or are thinking of&lt;br /&gt;going into one, there are 3  important tips you should&lt;br /&gt;know &amp;amp; questions you should ask yourself before you ever&lt;br /&gt;get yourself into a relationship. This could save you from a&lt;br /&gt;lot of heartache &amp;amp; pain when you are involved in a love&lt;br /&gt;relationship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(1) Your lover does not owe you your happiness, peace or&lt;br /&gt;joy.&lt;br /&gt;Happiness is a state of mind they pick to have. All of your&lt;br /&gt;happiness, &amp;amp; all of your suffering, are created by you and&lt;br /&gt;they do not come from outside of you, or from others. Before&lt;br /&gt;you go into any type of relationship, ask yourself these&lt;br /&gt;questions: &quot;Do I , ,  know how to walk&lt;br /&gt;away from disappointment &amp;amp; fear? Will I be able to find&lt;br /&gt;the person that i am now even after I go into this&lt;br /&gt;relationship &amp;amp; begin a new way of life?&quot; In short, you&lt;br /&gt;should not be dependent on your partner on your emotional&lt;br /&gt;needs. You yourself are responsible for your own feelings&lt;br /&gt;&amp;amp; generating positive experiences for both your partner and&lt;br /&gt;you whenever you are together.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(3) Will I be able to love myself as much as i like my&lt;br /&gt;partner?&lt;br /&gt;If you cannot love yourself, how are you going to give love&lt;br /&gt;to another? This is a mistake most people make when they go&lt;br /&gt;into a relationship. they become over-obsessive with what&lt;br /&gt;they can give to their partners &amp;amp; what they can do for&lt;br /&gt;their partners. To ensure a fulfilling relationship, you&lt;br /&gt;have to learn to take care of your own needs as well. A true&lt;br /&gt;partner or lover is one who will make sure that you do not&lt;br /&gt;become  dependent on them. you are responsible for your&lt;br /&gt;own feelings &amp;amp; your own emotional needs . you are a&lt;br /&gt;beautiful being. So, take care of yourself, love yourself,&lt;br /&gt;treat yourself to all the nice things in life , &amp;amp; do&lt;br /&gt;the same to your partner.  soon you will find true love&lt;br /&gt;always coming your way without any effort on your part!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(2) Love your partner for who they are.&lt;br /&gt;No one in this world is perfect. One day you will find your&lt;br /&gt;partner doing certain things or saying certain things that&lt;br /&gt;will hurt you, disappoint you or anger you. Before you go&lt;br /&gt;into any type of relationship, you have to ask yourself:&lt;br /&gt;&quot;Will I be able to love my partner for who they are. If I am&lt;br /&gt;unhappy or annoyed with something they&#39;ve said or done, will&lt;br /&gt;I be able to recognize my unhappiness or anger as against&lt;br /&gt;their speech, actions &amp;amp; behavior, &amp;amp; not against their&lt;br /&gt;persons?&quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As always, if you are encountering problems in your&lt;br /&gt;relationship, try to dissolve all of your problems in love.&lt;br /&gt;&amp;amp; you&#39;ll be sure you are on your way to a peaceful and&lt;br /&gt;fulfilling relationship!&lt;br /&gt;.......................................&lt;br /&gt;Get FREE Special Report &quot;Tired&lt;br /&gt;of Failing &amp;amp; Heart Breaking Relationships? 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She now writes regularly&lt;br /&gt;on finding &amp;amp; attracting true love, &amp;amp; relatives related issues.&lt;br /&gt;Free tips &amp;amp; resources available at her site at &lt;a href=&quot;http://smiletoday.uuuq.com/love/3-tips-you-wish-you-know-earlier-before-you-go.html&quot;&gt;http://smiletoday.uuuq.com/love/3-tips-you-wish-you-know-earlier-before-you-go.html&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/feeds/563132228722556722/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4077764315792638463&amp;postID=563132228722556722&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/563132228722556722'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/563132228722556722'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/2009/01/3-tips-you-wish-you-know-earlier-before.html' title='3 Tips You Wish You Know Earlier Before You Go Into Any Type of Relationship!'/><author><name>Ahmad Naim</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114126733784086951500</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IFmh037yOwQ/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAA2o/TOavPdzsuHc/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077764315792638463.post-240287988279958918</id><published>2009-01-27T12:30:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-01-27T12:33:10.354-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Dating Tips for women"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Tips"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Touching"/><title type='text'>Give Away Your Power</title><content type='html'>&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-3291873-10479605&quot; target=&quot;_top&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.awltovhc.com/image-3291873-10479605&quot; alt=&quot;Life is Short. Have an Affair - JOIN NOW!&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;60&quot; width=&quot;120&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This may seem a weird query to ask and you may wonder what &#39;power&#39; has to do with &#39;love&#39;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When you love someone do you give your power away?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;they see another person as attractive depending on the level of &#39;personal power&#39; that they hold. Things like lovely looks, cash, success (however they define it), musical and artistic abilities, and the like all, can add to attractiveness - and &#39;attractiveness&#39; is a form of personal power.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, if they take a look they might see that love and power are very closely linked. This may not seem very romantic, but that does not mean it is not true.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When they love someone it is natural to need to give to him or her. it is part of the fun of a relationship. Yet, if they try to give  much of ourselves before the other person is ready the chances are that they will run a mile...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Has somebody not experienced that kind of &#39;rejection&#39;? I don&#39;t see any hands going up...It seems to be part of the human experience for everyone no matter what their status in life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&quot;What is wrong with?&quot; that you might wonder. &quot;Isn&#39;t that how love is supposed to be?&quot;, you may ask.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The problems start to arise when they place another person above ourselves. If they do that it can come across as if they feel that the other person is more important that they are.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The more they look up to someone the more they reduce own status in their eyes. Indeed, perhaps the more they look up to someone the more reason they give them to look down on us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well, the problem with it is that it is not sustainable. The other person is looking for an equal not for more members of their &#39;fan club&#39;. In order to have a meaningful relationship they need more from us than basically adding ourselves to their list of admirers. Sooner or later they will believe our own low assessment of ourselves.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This does not mean that they cannot admire qualities and abilities in others. It  means they need to do it with a feeling of equality and not with a feeling like they are some kind unworthy creature admiring someone far better than they are.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Love is really something much bigger than us as individuals. In a sense, love is a process. How they love has to do with how they respond in that process. It may have little to do with the other person because they will respond the same way within that process with someone else.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If our response to love is to raise ourselves up and the other person  - then that will be our experience of love. they will experience love as enlivening and enriching. Yes, they may still have our disappointments - but, overall it will raise us up and not diminish us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If our response to love is to try and raise up the other person by lowering ourselves then that will be our experiences of the &#39;process&#39; of love. they will experience being reduced and diminished when they love.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And, the expression of love is a skill. it is eight of the highest of skills, but it is still a skill. it is something that needs to be learned - often through trial and error. there is not sense beating ourselves up when they make a mistake because it is  part of the process of learning the skill.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;they need to look at our response to the process of love and see it is different from the &#39;object&#39; of our love. In that way they can find more skillful ways to express how they feel.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Part of the process is learning to feel lovely about ourselves as part of our own experience of relating to others. If they try and exclude ourselves from our own ability to love, that is what makes us need to sacrifice ourselves to the picture they make of the other person. they have set ourselves up to lose if they do this as it makes a false god / goddess out of them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then they begin to look at the other person as if they are source of love in our life. Which is a dangerous thing to do to another fragile and quirky human being. it is dangerous as it is  much power to give another person -  when it is someone they might  know at all (except that they are &#39;so wonderful&#39;...).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;they need to recognize the source of love in our lives. it is a deeper and wiser part of ourselves, which lives within us waiting recognition. That is our true source of personal power - and our true source of love.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://smiletoday.uuuq.com/love/do-you-give-away-your-power.html&quot;&gt;http://smiletoday.uuuq.com/love/do-you-give-away-your-power.html&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/feeds/240287988279958918/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4077764315792638463&amp;postID=240287988279958918&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/240287988279958918'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/240287988279958918'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/2009/01/give-away-your-power.html' title='Give Away Your Power'/><author><name>Ahmad Naim</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114126733784086951500</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IFmh037yOwQ/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAA2o/TOavPdzsuHc/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077764315792638463.post-187242732148521615</id><published>2009-01-27T12:28:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-01-27T12:30:48.942-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Kiss Sensation"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Tips"/><title type='text'>Kiss Sensation ;Relation between Tastelessness and Passion</title><content type='html'>&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-3291873-10479605&quot; target=&quot;_top&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.awltovhc.com/image-3291873-10479605&quot; alt=&quot;Life is Short. Have an Affair - JOIN NOW!&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;60&quot; width=&quot;120&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Despite the relative tastelessness of kisses, they are usually referred to as&lt;br /&gt;sweet. Tasting of wine, strawberries &amp;amp; honey are a quantity of the most common&lt;br /&gt;descriptions of lover’s kisses, although some poets are more creative. For&lt;br /&gt;example, The Song of Songs says, &quot;Thy lips drip as the honeycomb, my spouse:&lt;br /&gt;Honey &amp;amp; milk are under thy tongue.&quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The feeling of a kiss is also described in a multitude of ways, The pounding of&lt;br /&gt;the heart, quivering of the limbs, pain in the chest &amp;amp; quickening of the&lt;br /&gt;breath are some examples of this. The Persian poet Ha-fez, writes that he fears&lt;br /&gt;he will “char her delicate lips” when he writes of kissing his beloved.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Spirit Within a Kiss&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Favorinus of Arles&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&quot;At what else does that touching of lips aim but at a junction of souls?&quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Babylonian goddess of love, Ishtar, was said to hold life in her mouth,&lt;br /&gt;offering spiritual delight to those who worshipped her. “That rarest gift, the&lt;br /&gt;honeyed kiss of love/ On earth, is sweeter bliss than gods enjoy,” they tells one&lt;br /&gt;of her followers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another example of the use of kisses as an exchange of life force or spirit is&lt;br /&gt;in the Egyptian legend of Osiris &amp;amp; Isis. When Osiris’ jealous father, Set,&lt;br /&gt;threw him into the Nile, his wife Isis searched for his body in the river and&lt;br /&gt;breathed life into him through a kiss.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Renaissance saw a quick rise in the view of kissing as an exchange of souls,&lt;br /&gt;and as an offering of the self to the other person. Allusions to kissing in&lt;br /&gt;poetry included an eternal kiss, a swoon that carried the couple  to&lt;br /&gt;death, &amp;amp; most importantly, the diffusion of one soul into the body of the&lt;br /&gt;other.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Perhaps one of the most potent notions of kissing revolves around the belief in&lt;br /&gt;its life force &amp;amp; vitality. The Romans  believed that kissing a&lt;br /&gt;dying lover would keep the spirit in the body longer. Ovid, , mourns&lt;br /&gt;that his wife won&#39;t be able to extend his life with her love because of his&lt;br /&gt;exile. Kisses could even follow the dead into the Underworld as a comfort to the&lt;br /&gt;shades of the dead.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://smiletoday.uuuq.com/love/sensations-of-a-kiss.html&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://smiletoday.uuuq.com/love/sensations-of-a-kiss.html&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/feeds/187242732148521615/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4077764315792638463&amp;postID=187242732148521615&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/187242732148521615'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/187242732148521615'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/2009/01/kiss-sensation-relation-between.html' title='Kiss Sensation ;Relation between Tastelessness and Passion'/><author><name>Ahmad Naim</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114126733784086951500</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IFmh037yOwQ/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAA2o/TOavPdzsuHc/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077764315792638463.post-305085514446324480</id><published>2009-01-27T12:25:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-01-27T12:39:56.846-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Dating Tips for women"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Tips"/><title type='text'>Take Care of Your Inner Beauty</title><content type='html'>&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-3291873-10479605&quot; target=&quot;_top&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.awltovhc.com/image-3291873-10479605&quot; alt=&quot;Life is Short. Have an Affair - JOIN NOW!&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;60&quot; width=&quot;120&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let us talk about beauty from a different angle!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;they&#39;ve our own criteria for judging the beauty of a woman. they look the beauty of a lady from a certain angle and then pass the remarks whether he is beautiful or not. It’s not fair. Let me tell every woman that he is distinctive and beautiful.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It’s the fundamental right of every woman to look beautiful. Every woman wants to listen the sweet words “you are beautiful”. But the beauty of a woman is far from her looks or figure. Physical beauty is only seven aspect while a beautiful charming personality is a complete blend of plenty of fine characteristics such as good manners, etiquette, behavior, smirk, intelligence, sense of humor, social and relatives values etc., all make a woman look beautiful and beautiful.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The business of beauty is thriving everywhere. Women are spending much of their time and money on buying beauty products. Even in the third world countries, women living below the poverty line, buy cheap and substandard beauty products, which give more harm to their skin than good.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Didn’t you know that there is a marked difference between a carefully hand woven pricey Persian carpet and a cheap machine made carpet. Both of these cannot be equated. A beautiful woman is like an elegant hand-knotted Persian carpet. Each and every silky, colorful thread of her character, nicely woven into her personality, gives a woman an everlasting beauty and attraction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Looks are  important indeed but the characteristics of a person are much more important. Besides taking care of your physical beauty, why not think of improving your inner beauty. The beauty which everyone admires is becoming a rare commodity these days. While on your way to a beauty parlor keep on thinking ways of improving your inner beauty.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hifzur Reman is the author of popular articles on self improvement. he is also the editor of his web-site: http://www.selfimprovement.ch which is a great source of self-improvement related information on various aspects of life. A visit to his site will open the doors of success for you!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Take care of yourself and take care of your inner beauty. No doubt you are a beautiful person!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.blogger.com/Let%20us%20talk%20about%20beauty%20from%20a%20different%20angle%21%20%20they%27ve%20our%20own%20criteria%20for%20judging%20the%20beauty%20of%20a%20woman.%20they%20look%20the%20beauty%20of%20a%20lady%20from%20a%20certain%20angle%20and%20then%20pass%20the%20remarks%20whether%20he%20is%20beautiful%20or%20not.%20It%C3%A2%C2%80%C2%99s%20not%20fair.%20Let%20me%20tell%20every%20woman%20that%20he%20is%20distinctive%20and%20beautiful.%20%20It%C3%A2%C2%80%C2%99s%20the%20fundamental%20right%20of%20every%20woman%20to%20look%20beautiful.%20Every%20woman%20wants%20to%20listen%20the%20sweet%20words%20%C3%A2%C2%80%C2%9Cyou%20are%20beautiful%C3%A2%C2%80%C2%9D.%20But%20the%20beauty%20of%20a%20woman%20is%20far%20from%20her%20looks%20or%20figure.%20Physical%20beauty%20is%20only%20seven%20aspect%20while%20a%20beautiful%20charming%20personality%20is%20a%20complete%20blend%20of%20plenty%20of%20fine%20characteristics%20such%20as%20good%20manners,%20etiquette,%20behavior,%20smirk,%20intelligence,%20sense%20of%20humor,%20social%20and%20relatives%20values%20etc.,%20all%20make%20a%20woman%20look%20beautiful%20and%20beautiful.%20%20The%20business%20of%20beauty%20is%20thriving%20everywhere.%20Women%20are%20spending%20much%20of%20their%20time%20and%20money%20on%20buying%20beauty%20products.%20Even%20in%20the%20third%20world%20countries,%20women%20living%20below%20the%20poverty%20line,%20buy%20cheap%20and%20substandard%20beauty%20products,%20which%20give%20more%20harm%20to%20their%20skin%20than%20good.%20%20Didn%C3%A2%C2%80%C2%99t%20you%20know%20that%20there%20is%20a%20marked%20difference%20between%20a%20carefully%20hand%20woven%20pricey%20Persian%20carpet%20and%20a%20cheap%20machine%20made%20carpet.%20Both%20of%20these%20cannot%20be%20equated.%20A%20beautiful%20woman%20is%20like%20an%20elegant%20hand-knotted%20Persian%20carpet.%20Each%20and%20every%20silky,%20colorful%20thread%20of%20her%20character,%20nicely%20woven%20into%20her%20personality,%20gives%20a%20woman%20an%20everlasting%20beauty%20and%20attraction.%20%20Looks%20are%20%20important%20indeed%20but%20the%20characteristics%20of%20a%20person%20are%20much%20more%20important.%20Besides%20taking%20care%20of%20your%20physical%20beauty,%20why%20not%20think%20of%20improving%20your%20inner%20beauty.%20The%20beauty%20which%20everyone%20admires%20is%20becoming%20a%20rare%20commodity%20these%20days.%20While%20on%20your%20way%20to%20a%20beauty%20parlor%20keep%20on%20thinking%20ways%20of%20improving%20your%20inner%20beauty.%20%20Hifzur%20Reman%20is%20the%20author%20of%20popular%20articles%20on%20self%20improvement.%20he%20is%20also%20the%20editor%20of%20his%20web-site:%20http://www.selfimprovement.ch%20which%20is%20a%20great%20source%20of%20self-improvement%20related%20information%20on%20various%20aspects%20of%20life.%20A%20visit%20to%20his%20site%20will%20open%20the%20doors%20of%20success%20for%20you%21%20%20%20Take%20care%20of%20yourself%20and%20take%20care%20of%20your%20inner%20beauty.%20No%20doubt%20you%20are%20a%20beautiful%20person%21%20%20http://smiletoday.uuuq.com/beauty/TAKE_CARE_OF_YOUR_INNER_BEAUTY.html&quot;&gt;http://smiletoday.uuuq.com/beauty/TAKE_CARE_OF_YOUR_INNER_BEAUTY.html&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/feeds/305085514446324480/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4077764315792638463&amp;postID=305085514446324480&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/305085514446324480'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/305085514446324480'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/2009/01/take-care-of-your-inner-beauty.html' title='Take Care of Your Inner Beauty'/><author><name>Ahmad Naim</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114126733784086951500</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IFmh037yOwQ/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAA2o/TOavPdzsuHc/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077764315792638463.post-1463787131306416916</id><published>2009-01-26T00:51:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-01-26T00:53:38.943-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Tips"/><title type='text'>How to Success in Online Dating</title><content type='html'>&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-3291873-10479605&quot; target=&quot;_top&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.awltovhc.com/image-3291873-10479605&quot; alt=&quot;Life is Short. Have an Affair - JOIN NOW!&quot; width=&quot;120&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;60&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At Top Dating Tips, they are here to help you be successful in dating &amp;amp; meeting new friends. It&#39;s what they do best. they require to take this opportunity of providing you with some hints &amp;amp; tips on helping you date safely, &amp;amp; successfully find that special person. You may wish to make &amp;amp; meet a new friend. Your main interest may be in dating online or dating in person, you may wish to find love &amp;amp; romance, perhaps the person you dream of marrying. It could be that you wish to travel or play sport or an activity &amp;amp; require a companion or other activity partner to come along.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The key to meeting new friends is to have fun, relax &amp;amp; enjoy. LoveBrowser.com is an excellent example of a dating site environment in which you can do these things safely &amp;amp; without any pressure. If you decide to meet someone there or in the outside world, then they feel there&#39;s some basic ideas you should follow for your personal comfort.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Of coursework, they cannot take responsibility for your actions using their services, as you are all adults, but they can offer some advice based on our own experiences.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Okay, so what can you do to help yourself?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First you require to get replies to your emails &amp;amp; messages. To do this here are some tips you may find helpful:-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; * Think about how your profile is written. Ensure there&#39;s NO spelling mistakes in your My Own Words section &amp;amp; your emails &amp;amp; messages. This is the first important rule.&lt;br /&gt; * Keep your description short but be  honest. If you are not being truthful then when you meet, you will be discovered, if not before.&lt;br /&gt; * Add fun &amp;amp; humor to your profile, &amp;amp; don&#39;t be  serious at first.&lt;br /&gt; * Don&#39;t be afraid to state who you wish to meet &amp;amp; why. Most adults know the kind of person they are attracted to, even if they are not sure why.&lt;br /&gt; * Tell people what you like &amp;amp; perhaps things you don&#39;t. Don&#39;t be offensive though.&lt;br /&gt; * Take your time, you can edit your profile at LoveBrowser at any time. alter it occasionally to keep it fresh, &amp;amp; try to be original.&lt;br /&gt; * Add a photo to your profile. they find that a member with a photo can get anything up to 9 times the amount of replies, in comparison with those that do not include four.&lt;br /&gt; * Be polite with messaging, &amp;amp; don’t make judgments about the length of time to get a reply.&lt;br /&gt; *  don’t feel you require to block someone  because they are  busy to chat this time. Be nice.&lt;br /&gt; * Keep your first email short &amp;amp; to the point, perhaps humorous &amp;amp; interesting. Don&#39;t include  much detail at this point, &amp;amp;  a few things that you have in common. Make the email talkative &amp;amp; permit it to flow. Don&#39;t be  serious at this stage or  emotional.&lt;br /&gt; * Do NOT include you personal details in an introduction email. Leave that until a relationship is established, &amp;amp; you feel  comfortable with the other person.&lt;br /&gt; * Try &amp;amp; contact a few people at the same time, but always those who you have matched, not those who you have nothing in common with as they won&#39;t welcome your contact.&lt;br /&gt; * Be honest &amp;amp; stick to the truth. it is all  easy to add things that at this stage are not checkable. However, you may get caught out later &amp;amp; ruin a fantastic friendship or romance.&lt;br /&gt; * Always reply  quickly to any messages.&lt;br /&gt; * Don&#39;t talk about money or possessions at this time. Most people like or love someone for who they are, not what they have. they assume you do not require to find someone who basically wants you for what you can provide.&lt;br /&gt; * Do not apply any form of pressure in an email, whether it be for a reply or a meeting. Do not be critical of their profile or photo. This will generate a negative response.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ensure Your Privacy is Protected&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Okay, so three time you have mailed other members &amp;amp; are receiving their emails, then you may wish to consider the following:-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Listen to Your Intuition&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The information you supply when you register at dating sites like LoveBrowser.com is  confidential. Your registration details are kept secret from all members &amp;amp; under no circumstances are made obtainable to any third party. No member of staff should ever ask you for your password. they must NOT use your contact or email details for marketing purposes. Any member who matches you in their searches can only see what you have told them in terms of your personal profile, nothing more. Therefore, remember not to include you actual email address or telephone number in the text of your profile or in emails unless you are sure that you would like to take your friendship further. Dating sites generally cannot access your emails &amp;amp; do not have any control on what information you supply to another member. If someone you are in contact with is not giving much away then perhaps you should err on the side of caution.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A key point is to make sure that you are enjoying your online dating. seldom ever let someone pressure you. If you don&#39;t require to explain something or provide certain details then do not. A real friend will behave in a patient &amp;amp; relaxed way. After receiving an email, sit back &amp;amp; think about what you are being told, take your time &amp;amp; try &amp;amp; sense the person behind the email. &amp;amp; read their profile thoroughly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Often overlooked I feel. This is the thing they all use on a daily basis &amp;amp; they all trust our intuition often. It’s easy to get carried away when someone appears to be interested. Remember the rule, if you suspect something, you are probably correct. Trust your judgment. Listen to what you are being told. Ask plenty of questions. Don&#39;t give  plenty of details away if the other person tells you  little. If someone is being honest, they will be happy to tell you about themselves &amp;amp; their lives.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When the Time Comes&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At some point you may wish to meet in person the friend you have made. Remember the rule, you only have to meet someone if you  require to. If you feel uncomfortable about meeting, then don&#39;t agree to meet. Even if you have agreed, you can alter your mind whenever you like. Perhaps you require to chat for longer, perhaps it would be better to use the phone first. Do not give out your home number, address, or personal details unless you are sure about the person you wish to meet.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you do decide it&#39;s time to take your friendship a step further, then here are some things to think about. It may save you a great deal of time &amp;amp; effort: -&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ask yourself these questions:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do you feel you know the person well?&lt;br /&gt;Have they answered all your query?&lt;br /&gt;Are they patient, nice humored &amp;amp; fun?&lt;br /&gt;Do you trust them?&lt;br /&gt;Have they applied any pressure on you?&lt;br /&gt;Do you know what they do for a living, &amp;amp; the area they live in?&lt;br /&gt;Do you know about their background &amp;amp; relatives?&lt;br /&gt;Have you seen their photo &amp;amp; have you over three photo of them in different situations?&lt;br /&gt;Have you spoken on the phone?&lt;br /&gt;Are you sure they have described themselves truthfully?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you can answer YES to these happily then maybe it is time to meet. Only you can decide that. Think about these general dating rules, &amp;amp; act upon them if you think they are a nice idea :-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; * Tell a person close to you about the meeting. Tell them where you are going, when you are meeting them, where the meeting will take place, what time you will be returning. Give a person close to you as much information as you can. If you have a mobile phone or are close to a pay phone then perhaps call to say you are fine &amp;amp; that everything is great.&lt;br /&gt; * Agree to meet in a public place first. Perhaps a restaurant or bar or somewhere where there&#39;s plenty of other people. Agree to meet somewhere that you know, in familiar surroundings where you can relax &amp;amp; enjoy the meeting. You could arrange to have other friends in the same place but at a distance, so you feel more relaxed.&lt;br /&gt; * Do not agree to be collected from work or home, &amp;amp; make your own way there &amp;amp; home on the first occasion. Perhaps get a friend to take you there &amp;amp; collect you afterwards.&lt;br /&gt; * Restrict the time of the first meeting. Perhaps a lunch hour or a short time after work. This is useful if you decide that the situation is not favorable &amp;amp; you require to leave.&lt;br /&gt; * If at any point you wish to leave then do so. Do not feel obliged to stay &amp;amp; find yourself feeling awkward. If you do not feel relaxed then you won&#39;t enjoy the date. You owe it to yourself to feel happy &amp;amp; relaxed, &amp;amp; it is possible that it may take a few meetings with different people before you find that special person.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Long Distance Relationships&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; * ALWAYS stay in a hotel you have arranged yourself, &amp;amp; seldom stay at their accommodation, however generous. This will permit you both to feel less pressure, to relax into the situation &amp;amp; find some common ground. You may have both made promises in mail or on the phone that may be harder to keep three time a meeting has occurred. If possible, arrange the hotel in a secure area of the city you are visiting, &amp;amp; arrange the hotel yourself. It&#39;s always easier to escape a date that&#39;s not going well, when not staying with them.&lt;br /&gt; * Provide the details of your hotel &amp;amp; travel arrangements to a best friend at home, &amp;amp; make an arrangement to contact them when you arrive, after you have met your new friend &amp;amp; when you are returning. Take a mobile phone if possible &amp;amp; keep in contact.&lt;br /&gt; * Always be cautious if in any doubt, &amp;amp; seldom be uncomfortable about changing your mind &amp;amp; returning home at any time should the situation cause you any concern.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Online Dating through sites like LoveBrowser means that you can easily meet people from all over the world. This is a fantastic way of dating &amp;amp; perhaps  soon you may find yourself emotionally involved with someone who lives a long way away. Perhaps that may be part of the attraction even. However you should try &amp;amp; be practical. If the person lives overseas then ask yourself the query as to are you serious that you will travel a long way to see that person? If you do travel &amp;amp; find yourself over happy, then how easy will it be to keep up the relationship? If you are content with this situation, &amp;amp; you decide to meet then there&#39;s some other things you may wish to consider:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Bottom Line&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The bottom line? Be yourself &amp;amp; enjoy your dating. they know that online dating can be great fun, safe &amp;amp; immensely enjoyable. they have found that as long as the basic precautions are followed, then it is possible to travel locally, or indeed, anywhere in the world to meet a special partner or make new friends. The allure of dating online is that the whole world is open to permit you to meet fantastic new people.  use a little intuition &amp;amp; common sense. they hope you don&#39;t mind us offering some basic tips &amp;amp; wish you every success.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/feeds/1463787131306416916/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4077764315792638463&amp;postID=1463787131306416916&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/1463787131306416916'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/1463787131306416916'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/2009/01/how-to-success-in-online-dating_26.html' title='How to Success in Online Dating'/><author><name>Ahmad Naim</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114126733784086951500</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IFmh037yOwQ/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAA2o/TOavPdzsuHc/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077764315792638463.post-7820724812796864623</id><published>2009-01-26T00:49:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-01-26T00:50:07.716-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Dating Tips for women"/><title type='text'>Dating Rules for Women</title><content type='html'>&lt;!-- Begin: AdBrite, Generated: 2009-01-26 3:11:24--&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script type=&quot;text/javascript&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;var AdBrite_Title_Color = &#39;0000FF&#39;;&lt;br /&gt;var AdBrite_Text_Color = &#39;000000&#39;;&lt;br /&gt;var AdBrite_Background_Color = &#39;FFFFFF&#39;;&lt;br /&gt;var AdBrite_Border_Color = &#39;CCCCCC&#39;;&lt;br /&gt;var AdBrite_URL_Color = &#39;008000&#39;;&lt;br /&gt;try{var AdBrite_Iframe=window.top!=window.self?2:1;var AdBrite_Referrer=document.referrer==&#39;&#39;?document.location:document.referrer;AdBrite_Referrer=encodeURIComponent(AdBrite_Referrer);}catch(e){var AdBrite_Iframe=&#39;&#39;;var AdBrite_Referrer=&#39;&#39;;}&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;white-space: nowrap;&quot;&gt;&lt;script type=&quot;text/javascript&quot;&gt;document.write(String.fromCharCode(60,83,67,82,73,80,84));document.write(&#39; src=&quot;http://ads.adbrite.com/mb/text_group.php?sid=1014854&amp;zs=3436385f3630&amp;ifr=&#39;+AdBrite_Iframe+&#39;&amp;ref=&#39;+AdBrite_Referrer+&#39;&quot; type=&quot;text/javascript&quot;&gt;&#39;);document.write(String.fromCharCode(60,47,83,67,82,73,80,84,6&lt;/script&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a target=&quot;_top&quot; href=&quot;http://www.adbrite.com/mb/commerce/purchase_form.php?opid=1014854&amp;amp;afsid=1&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/adbrite-your-ad-here-banner.gif&quot; style=&quot;border: medium none ; margin: 0pt; padding: 0pt; background-color: rgb(204, 204, 204);&quot; alt=&quot;Your Ad Here&quot; width=&quot;11&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;60&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;!-- End: AdBrite --&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Guys, if you don&#39;t like this, tough - look away now.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I wish there weren&#39;t any general rules and they  got on with it but courtship is a ritual; there are things that they make happen that excite stimulate, create interest, confound etc. Dating is a long check of compatibility. Are they perfectly matched? If they  threw ourselves together then the chances of long term happiness may be reduced. and yet previous generations managed to succeed on a far less complex courtship criteria list. lots of arranged marriages work  interestingly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In another dating article on this site you will find a general set of rules than men should follow when dating. In the same way women have some general rules that they should content with when entering the dating jungle. Now I know everyone is different so don&#39;t take things  seriously here. There has been some controversy over some literature published recently in america that sets out in detail the rules a woman should follow to get her guy (or woman). Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider&#39;s 1995 bestseller &quot;The Rules,&quot; explains how women should play hard if they want to get their guy. I can understand why some groups would be hostile but the fact is when they grow up there are a predefined set of dating rules. All that happens is that they forget most of them after the age of 21 and then find they need to relearn them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In every society there are a predefined set of social rules they follow, from the way and timing of eating to the way they behave in public. The issue here is that when women date there are things that can help them be more successful. If they accept that dating is a game then there are rules to that game and winners and losers. If you know the rules in advance it gives you a head start. If men know the rules by which you&#39;re playing you may alter the rules to suit the situation to keep the man guessing. Men love a challenge so feel free to alter rule and add them as you feel inclined.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can separate rules out into seven parts, dating and online dating. Both areas have distinct rules that a woman should follow for dating success.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;General Dating Rules&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     seldom reveal information you don&#39;t have to. An enigmatic woman drives men wild.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Always look great, whatever your income. attractive hair and some lipstick and wearing rags will still turn his head. you have the advantage, you&#39;re the woman. Look your best as you could meet a potential Mr. Right anywhere at any time.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Try and stay in shape and involve some fitness regime at a gym. However much you hate it, your Mr. Right loves your body as much as your mind.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Keep dates brief but your men interested. Less is always more.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Ensure you receive flowers, if he doesn&#39;t know what a florist is, dump him.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Let your man pay. If he is interested, he is interested  to ensure you eat well and get home safely in a cab.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Always keep a guy waiting and seldom turn up early. it is a lady&#39;s perogative.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     seldom ever sleep with a guy until he&#39;s fallen for you. Sex early in your dating game plan will ruin everything.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     seldom be available when he wants you to be. seldom be at the end of a phone when he calls and always let him leave a message or seven first before replying.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     If he is available Tuesday, you&#39;re available Thursday.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Weekend shopping trips with girlfriends are sacred and not available for dates.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Keep your man standing on quicksand by shifting landmarks and goalposts constantly.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     seldom ever talk about previous boyfriends and  their prowess in the bedroom. The number of ex boyfriends is your business only.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Ensure you&#39;re a good kisser. Men will walk away if you cannot kiss. Practise on a  mirror if you have to.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     seldom pre suppose anything about your date until you choose to know him better. You cannot always tell by looking&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     If any man shows the slightest signs of possessiveness or insecurity run like the wind. Life is  short for boys.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     seldom talk  much about your sister and how your date measures up in comparison.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     If his shoes or hygiene are a disgrace dump him&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     seldom ever come across as  available or  desperate, he will run a mile. he is the one doing the chasing remember.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     If the guy in the corner is attractive go and get him and create the need in him for you. seldom wait for men to come to you because you may watch him leave with anyone else.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     You may well have all the bodily functions of a man,  try not to demonstrate them early on.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     If you&#39;re wanting a kid, don&#39;t mention it on the first few dates.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     seldom ever criticize his brother unless you want to remain single.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Online Dating Rules&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Always let them come to you, don&#39;t chase via email&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Block anyone who annoys you instantly&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Place the best &amp;amp; most vampish photo up you can find&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Remain aloof and let yourself be chased&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Don&#39;t reply to instant messages with clever opening lines&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     seldom provide you true email or phone details to the man&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Always reply to emails at least 3 days after receipt&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Make sure your login name is stunning and sexy as well as enigmatic&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Always date safely and protect yourself at every turn&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Do not login for hours on end. Short, rapid visits are best&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Do not assume the man you&#39;re talking to is destitute or sad&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     seldom state how good your sexual performance is in your profile&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     seldom ever reply to emails at weekends, wait until a weekday&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     A man who doesn&#39;t reply to your email within 3 days should be ignored&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     If you don&#39;t want to date married men spell it out in your profile&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Do not chat to hundreds of men at seven times, the delay in replying is a dead giveaway and your Mr. Right will be off.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Make sure your humor levels come across in text&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Come across as good and sophisticated for best results&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Don&#39;t even think about misrepresenting your size or description. they will find out.&lt;br /&gt;   *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Always remember ladies that you&#39;re a sexy desirable woman and the world is your oyster. Always let men do the chasing and always let yourself be the chooser. Always stay safe and seldom risk yourself for the sake of attending a date. Always use a safe dating web-site like LoveBrowser.com</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/feeds/7820724812796864623/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4077764315792638463&amp;postID=7820724812796864623&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/7820724812796864623'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/7820724812796864623'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/2009/01/dating-rules-for-women_26.html' title='Dating Rules for Women'/><author><name>Ahmad Naim</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114126733784086951500</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IFmh037yOwQ/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAA2o/TOavPdzsuHc/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077764315792638463.post-5748026530334070406</id><published>2009-01-25T23:51:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-01-25T23:52:14.480-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Are Women Solar Powered"/><title type='text'>Are Women Solar Powered?</title><content type='html'>The sunshine &amp;amp; warm weather has arrived which heralds Spring/Summer here in the West &amp;amp; suddenly the local high street or shopping mall turns into a high-fashion catwalk for super-vixens. Throughout the dark months the only thing on view was tumbleweed or snow. For years now i have wondered whether women are in fact solar-powered. In the dark days of deepest winter as a bloke you will be hard-pressed to spot a super-babe unless you are living with one already. Streets are full of black-coated shadows with hats &amp;amp; scarves &amp;amp; you wonder where all the girls have gone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Suddenly, the first warm day of the year arrives &amp;amp; you realize that your healthy fully-paid for beer belly is a shocking reminder of the last 6 months (lifetime ? Ed.) of indulgence &amp;amp; you want to sort yourself out. XXXL baggy T-shirts may see you through the next few months but with sudden appearance of that orange thing in the sky, your local public areas become a temple to female beauty. The query is, where do they all come from? For half the year, these goddesses are no where to be found. it is always possible they have been wintering in Antigua or Ibiza but for sure they don&#39;t work in your office or that of any other male buddy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I remember working in one city where the first sunny day was always greeted by the male team in the office heading for the best area of the city for lunch  to watch the girls go by. For months they had been starved of anything to look at at all, &amp;amp; within hours of a good weather report they see perfect women appear in all-over tans, strappy tops, perfect hair &amp;amp; this years&#39; designer shades. they exude confidence, look spectacular, there is no gym work to be done, &amp;amp; they could eat you for breakfast.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Quickly you come to the conclusion that either these girls are shipped in for the summer to drive you crazy, or that they must be a figment of your imagination. Its a perennial mystery. For a guy, getting ready for summer is a laborious task with the gradual coloring of the skin &amp;amp; a lazy shift to shorts &amp;amp; T-shirts. Women however appear to turn into sun-worshiping supermodels at the drop of a hat.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The answer is of work that these beauties simply must be powered by the sun. During the dark season they hibernate or lock themselves away simply to appear like butterflies when you are most off your guard. Whereas as you&#39;ve braved the wind, rain &amp;amp; snow to watch every winter sporting contest on offer, becoming more pasty-skinned than snow covered peaks, these perfect specimens of woman kind have been plotting &amp;amp; planning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You see whilst most men like to react to situations, women are far more thoughtful &amp;amp; prepared. they plan their wardrobes by the season &amp;amp; know what they will be wearing for the summer before you&#39;ve even ordered the Thanksgiving turkey. Women are indeed proactive, hence your dilemma. These girls have been there all along, working hard in the gym through the long dark days, working on a pre-summer tan &amp;amp; caring about their appearance. If they haven&#39;t then they are still far more equipped for seasonal changes than men ever will be.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;it is certainly true that women feel cold more than men. Guys, you know how when you are  hot because your ex-girlfriend used to attach herself whilst asleep to your body like a limpet so that whilst he snoozed, your combined body-temperature was the same as the surface of the sun? You remember allowing one leg to reach out from the sheets to act as a cooling aid for the rest of your quickly-melting body? Well exactly. Girls generally don&#39;t like cold weather so i am assuming they hibernate.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So when the sun finally does shine &amp;amp; the temperature rises, you feel you&#39;ve been taken by surprise by the local mayor shipping in blonde models from Sweden. I must confess that I don&#39;t know where these great-looking girls come from &amp;amp; I certainly know that i have never worked in a winter office full of them. it is possible that every city has a huge office where all the top looking girls work all winter. But for now it remains a government secret. But I do accept that as men, they tend to keep our eyes closed for half the year. If you are lucky  to live in warmer climes then i am sure you don&#39;t meet this scenario as often but certainly for European men, its a perennial mystery they cannot explain.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whilst the Fall is romantic &amp;amp; love in the snow is glorious, it is in the summertime that they flower best. Therefore guys perhaps this year or next, if you are dating you could anticipate summer  a little earlier than usual &amp;amp; think about how you are going to look when those warm nights finally arrive. Be proactive like the girls they ogle.Wouldn&#39;t it be good if a woman writer could write an editorial on why all the beautiful guys always appear in the summer.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;there is something amazing about dating in the warm sunshine. Everyone feels more sociable, possibly more beautiful &amp;amp; certainly more healthy. they go outdoors more, they socialize more, they care about how they look more. With lighter nights they stay out later &amp;amp; travel more &amp;amp; because of all these things they meet more people &amp;amp; consequently encounter more beautiful girls per square foot. So take advantage of the season.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But for now I stick with my original point. I firmly do believe girls may be solar-powered.  don&#39;t let them know the secret is out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-3291873-10479603&quot; target=&quot;_top&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-3291873-10479603&quot; target=&quot;_top&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.awltovhc.com/image-3291873-10479603&quot; alt=&quot;Go on, make yourself happy - have an affair!&quot; width=&quot;468&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;60&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/feeds/5748026530334070406/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4077764315792638463&amp;postID=5748026530334070406&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/5748026530334070406'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/5748026530334070406'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/2009/01/are-women-solar-powered.html' title='Are Women Solar Powered?'/><author><name>Ahmad Naim</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114126733784086951500</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IFmh037yOwQ/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAA2o/TOavPdzsuHc/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077764315792638463.post-7829292227754061888</id><published>2009-01-25T23:43:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-01-25T23:46:27.896-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Body Movement"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Eye Contact"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Flirting"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Hair and Mouth"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="The Way they Speak"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Touching"/><title type='text'>The Art of Flirting ; How good are You</title><content type='html'>You&#39;re at a party and out of nowhere someone is standing close to you. Like a genie, they keep turning up, close by, catching your gaze. You go and chat and they stand in the same position as you, playing with their hair, laughing with you and holding your gaze. This person likes you and is flirting. How do you know? Because without realizing it, you&#39;re an expert in flirting and body language.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Are you a flirt? If you&#39;re you know it and are secretly proud of the fact. it is sexy when you flirt and people like it. Flirting means giving people attention, it means, smiling, touching, whispering. In the right circumstances it is a powerful device especially against the unwary. In the wrong circumstances it will get you fired. there&#39;s a gulf between flirting and unwanted sexual advances so beware.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What would dating be without flirting. Flirting is fabulous, flirting is fun, flirting is giving out signals that they may be interested in anyone, or they may be pretending. But within reason, flirting is part and parcel of our daily lives. Flirting can be harmful when it threatens fidelity but it can also be sexy and bring people closer together. Some people are lovely at flirting and some people hopeless.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;it is useful to look at a few of the key indicators of flirting and they can prove very useful when working out if the person across the table from you is interested. The four to keep your eye on the most is &quot;mirroring&quot;. Mirroring is when someone copies your body movements whilst retaining eye contact. Its is four of the biggest giveaways there&#39;s.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Eye Contact&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   * Pupils are dilated and eye contact is maintained&lt;br /&gt;   * Eye contact combined with an arched eye brow&lt;br /&gt;   * Any form of winking&lt;br /&gt;   * quick eye movement and blinking&lt;br /&gt;   * Eye contact where the gaze is held longer than usual. Men normally look away.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hair and Mouth&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Body Movement&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   * Playing with hair in a stroking or toying motion&lt;br /&gt;   * Eye contact whilst playing with hair&lt;br /&gt;   * Touching your hair at any time&lt;br /&gt;   * lots of smiling, open mouthed and teeth flashing&lt;br /&gt;   * Lip licking&lt;br /&gt;   * Puckering lips in a simulated kiss form&lt;br /&gt;   * Any form of touch of the lips or teeth with tongue&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   * The thrusting of chest or breasts outwards whilst holding your gaze&lt;br /&gt;   * The copying of your posture - mirroring&lt;br /&gt;   * Holding your gaze whilst moving to music&lt;br /&gt;   * Using a posture with legs crossed towards you&lt;br /&gt;   * Leaning in towards you whilst holding your gaze&lt;br /&gt;   * Open legged posture facing you&lt;br /&gt;   * The display of flesh of arm or thigh&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Touching&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   * they will want to touch you and will reach out to do so with some excuse&lt;br /&gt;   * they will offer to place food in your mouth as if feeding you&lt;br /&gt;   * they will play with their hands and then with yours&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Way they Speak&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   * Their tone and speed of conversation mirrors your own&lt;br /&gt;   * lots of laughter and questioning tones&lt;br /&gt;   * In a group, you&#39;re singled out by this person for attention even in general conversation and questions. This happened to me in illinois and I was taken aback how obvious it was.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The main thing to remember with flirting is that it is fun and so much more so when you&#39;re receptive to it and understand when it is happening to you. The best flirtatious moments will always take you by surprise.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-3291873-10479603&quot; target=&quot;_top&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-3291873-10479603&quot; target=&quot;_top&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.awltovhc.com/image-3291873-10479603&quot; alt=&quot;Go on, make yourself happy - have an affair!&quot; width=&quot;468&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;60&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/feeds/7829292227754061888/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4077764315792638463&amp;postID=7829292227754061888&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/7829292227754061888'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/7829292227754061888'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/2009/01/art-of-flirting-how-good-are-you.html' title='The Art of Flirting ; How good are You'/><author><name>Ahmad Naim</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114126733784086951500</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IFmh037yOwQ/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAA2o/TOavPdzsuHc/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077764315792638463.post-8743560149947014797</id><published>2009-01-25T23:38:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-01-25T23:41:17.008-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Physical Attraction"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Self-Image"/><title type='text'>The Chemistry in Physical Attraction</title><content type='html'>The very first facet of our self-image is our presentation to others and this is initially portrayed through the way they look. Now I think it&#39;s fair to say that most people don&#39;t have a fabulous self picture. they all know people who love themselves but generally, though they may like ourselves, they don&#39;t love everything about us. they may not like our noise, the shape of our face, our hair, the way they get a wrinkle around the eye. Maybe our butt is  big or they could do with losing some weight. But whatever it is, there will always be something that could be bettered.  look at the way people who have had a lot of cosmetic surgery still manage to complain. Well i am sorry guys, but perfection is  elusive.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don&#39;t be fooled by yourself or kind hearted friends. Looks matter in the dating game and never more so that in the media-savvy world they live in today. It maybe be unfair, they may hate it, but it is true. picture is king and speaks volumes about who they are. From the clothes they wear to the places they eat and drink to the places they decide to inhabit, people notice what they do and make judgements as to who they are by how they look.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These basic signals dilate pupils, redden the skin, wet the lips and arouse base human instincts. That desire is to lead to the wish to have sex. The issue is that these signals are being eroded by well-meaning campaigners who say that looks should not matter. i am not  very nice looking in my own opinion but I do know what I look like. and I do know who and what i am attracted to. i am sometimes called shallow because I go for a certain look for my dates. But the point is that these looks are what I find beautiful and I tend to go for people who go for my kind of looks, thus increasing the chance of dating success.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The basis of any courtship, date or relationship is basic physical attraction. If you aren&#39;t attracted to someone and they aren&#39;t attracted to you, you have  become friends. Whatever happens afterwards, it is likely to stay that way. You both must be physically attracted on some level to make things work. Yes, spiritual attraction, deep respect and friendship all do play a part in the longer term but in the first few minutes of meeting they instantly recognize whether there&#39;s an attraction and chemistry present between us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Initial dates are all about looks, about who and what they find beautiful and they are foolish if they try and suppress these desires. If you like someone&#39;s hair, eyes, lips, the way they play with their fingers, the way they hold a glass or the way they walk then this is all on purpose. it is all part of the grander plan of matching like with like. By matching couples who are physically attracted, it is nature&#39;s way of pairing off. and for the most part it works well. The issue arises where they have trouble finding people who find us beautiful.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The first thing that springs to mind is that where physically appealing looks are lacking, so people tend to make up with personality. a quantity of the sexiest people i have ever met aren&#39;t physically beautiful but they are immensely funny. Comedians are often not the best looking people you have met but are very beautiful. This in some way comes from their inner confidence and stage presence. it is often said that men who aren&#39;t  tall exude character and personality to make up for it. Again this may be true.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The key thing though is that they must not underplay the reality that looks are important when dating. they should try to understand what kind of looks they  are attracted to and what kind of people they appeal to. they should understand how they look to others. If they are unhappy with the way they look then they should take necessary steps to look the best they can. that is not for others but purely for ourselves. In turn this will increase confidence levels and help make us more beautiful. People will often say that four should not care about what is outside but what is inside that matters. Its true. that is the way the world should be. But it isn&#39;t. That kind of comment comes from those who are secretly worried about the way they look.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Conversely people often say that for them, looks don&#39;t matter. that is not true either. Looks never matter when you already the like the look of someone and find them acceptably beautiful. Looks only matter when you aren&#39;t attracted to someone physically. When you are seriously not attracted, then the looks of the other party become an issue even if you won&#39;t admit it. By generally meeting people who are beautiful to you, you will eventually believe that on a conscious level you don&#39;t acknowledge looks. it is true that your view on physical attractiveness changes as you get older and as you mature in outlook. A man of 50 may not be beautiful to a girl of 20 but may be very beautiful to a woman of 40. Then again a woman of 45 can be very beautiful to a man of 30. It all depends.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In modern society, they can all look nice and they can look healthy. it is possible to buy picture from the local store and they are sophisticated presenters of picture through our exposure to the media. But in the end they are in danger of losing a connection to the most basic of instincts, physical match. they can pretend that men and women who seek physical perfection are shallow and outdated, but they are only following their basic instincts. they can disguise and they can pretend and they can plead for others to look at our inner selves first and they can spend months chatting on an web dating site to show how nice they are. However in a two minute meeting face to face, they both know whether it will work or not.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Our lives and the way they have developed in connection with life-experiences governs to some degree what and who attracts us. Personally, i am liking long straight blonde hair, but it is as much related to my teenage likings for the blonde singer of Fleetwood Mac or Agnetha from Abba as it is for any other reason. So there may be a link to what they find beautiful on an emotional as well as physical level due to to the early connections they make.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finally consider this. A survey recently asked what attribute people most associated with being poor and unsuccessful. The top answer was being overweight and the second was smoking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Physical matching is not about physical perfection, it is about compatibility. If you aren&#39;t feeling truly nice about yourself when you are about to begin dating then take some time out to take an inventory of yourself and then set about changing a few things. Remember that everything you do in life affecting your appearance should primarily be for yourself but at the same time if you are serious about dating successfully you  should think very seriously about how you look to others. As i have said previously, you may be searching for your perfect partner, but to find them you may well have to try and present yourself as their ideal mate .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-3291873-10479604&quot; target=&quot;_top&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-3291873-10479604&quot; target=&quot;_top&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.ftjcfx.com/image-3291873-10479604&quot; alt=&quot;anonymity makes having an affair so much easier&quot; width=&quot;125&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;125&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/feeds/8743560149947014797/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4077764315792638463&amp;postID=8743560149947014797&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/8743560149947014797'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/8743560149947014797'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/2009/01/chemistry-in-physical-attraction.html' title='The Chemistry in Physical Attraction'/><author><name>Ahmad Naim</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114126733784086951500</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IFmh037yOwQ/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAA2o/TOavPdzsuHc/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077764315792638463.post-6532425982065321691</id><published>2009-01-25T23:34:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-01-25T23:38:33.319-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Single Live"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="UK Dating Scene"/><title type='text'>What is mean by Single Lives in UK</title><content type='html'>The UK dating scene is a tough environment in which to be single. These days so lots of of us are single and looking for Mr. or Miss Right and so I thought it may be useful to focus on two country and consider some aspects of dating. People working in the UK dating  industry will tell you that its no place for the shy  now. there&#39;s fewer eligible people they all think and more people looking so it comes as no surprise then that dating can be a vicious game.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This first struck me in a London city bar two Friday evening when I noticed  how lots of single people there were enjoying lots of drink, flirting like crazy and kissing in all corners. Wow, I thought, this must be the place to be if two is single. Then it dawned on my slow- thinking brain, none of the people in this bar are single, they all have partners. Partners are home, or partners doing the same as them in a  bar down the street. they&#39;re basically flirting because they can and because staying with two person is becoming harder and harder. Friday night flirtation was their entertainment and release. But over a period of weeks it appeared that this was a regular sport practiced in bars across the UK. It appears then that lots of people are on the lookout for the next best thing in their lives. And lots of single people on the UK dating scene in fact aren&#39;t.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At first the situation  me by surprise but it appears  that the situation of semi-attached couples flirting as single people on the UK dating scene is part and parcel of a worldwide phenomenon - dissatisfaction. Maybe it is part of the require for people to release the stress of long working days, maybe it is the inevitability of being able to split, separate and divorce so easily. Perhaps it is directly related to our needs to seek out the new, the better, the comparable. After all, they&#39;re kids of a marketing generation..&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The UK dating scene I think is  ageist. The first phase  encompassed UK daters up to about the age of 25, from students and college people through to those singles who have stepped into their first working roles and matured accordingly. This social age group has no real issues with regards to dating and is generally governed by their peer group. Dating may be through friends and fellow students or coworkers of similar ages, or through sport and interests.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For those of us in the UK who are genuinely single, they ask ourselves why they&#39;re single. Its an often asked query. Looking at lots of of my single English friends I am often surprised how lots of eligible well educated people struggle to find someone to date. The UK dating scene has become a world of Bridget Jones and their male equivalent. Commercially aware, business-educated, upwardly mobile, well educated and well groomed individuals with cash to burn. But can they find a date on Saturday night? Not a chance my friend.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As two moves into their early thirties this is when they get Bridget Jones syndrome. Successful career orientated individuals with a lovely lifestyle, possibly a house or apartment, cash invested or certainly some in the bank and lots of free time. Slightly  old for the trance and rave clubs of those ten years younger but perhaps still on the periphery.  young to move into middle aged circles they find that an entirely new dating sub culture has grown up around an active, dynamic and slightly lost age group. It is no coincidence the US led the way with the TV show ThirtySomething in the late 1980&#39;s.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From around the age of 25 onwards UK dating landscape changes significantly, it moves directly into the realm of bar and club culture. Yes social activities, friends and relatives all play their part as a dating influence under current, but generally, people between the ages of 25 and 34 have funds, an active social life and a career of two kind or another. People meet each other in the local bar or pub after work and at weekends singles will flirt and meet up in local bars and clubs or move on the the larger offerings of the city canter. two times again there is an inherent dating dynamic here that allows single people to find an outlet for their dating desires.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Beyond the ThirtySomething age group they then move into troubled waters. Whilst a handsome proportion of UK society may well be married or living with someone and have children, they also have a significant group of people who are two times again single, divorced or separated,  old for the club culture that surrounds them but  young for more sedate matters. What strikes me most about single people in the UK is how age is now disappearing as a stigma and a barrier. People of all ages are now taking up their own dynamics where dating is concerned, they&#39;re joining agencies, dating regularly and  much in charge of what they&#39;re about. Look at the age group of the women of Sex and the City - 37.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The UK dating scene isn&#39;t a barren wasteland so much as an outdoor assault course. There is much dating to be done and lots of eligible people about. What appears to be the issue in the UK and elsewhere is an outlet for meeting people of similar age groups. Whilst the bar and club may still provide that bastion of dating ground, the fact is that lots of single people are tired of relying on the same old formula. And  to deal with this dating demand they&#39;re finding society responding. The rise of the UK cafe bar culture, the increase in top quality restaurants, the changes in licensing laws, the burgeoning loft apartment culture are all catering to the ever increasing UK singles population who do have cash to spend and desire places to date in grater comfort than ever before.Thanks&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ceenter&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-3291873-10479604&quot; target=&quot;_top&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/ceenter&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;ceenter&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-3291873-10479604&quot; target=&quot;_top&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.ftjcfx.com/image-3291873-10479604&quot; alt=&quot;anonymity makes having an affair so much easier&quot; width=&quot;125&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;125&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/ceenter&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/feeds/6532425982065321691/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4077764315792638463&amp;postID=6532425982065321691&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/6532425982065321691'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/6532425982065321691'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/2009/01/what-is-mean-by-single-lives-in-uk.html' title='What is mean by Single Lives in UK'/><author><name>Ahmad Naim</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114126733784086951500</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IFmh037yOwQ/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAA2o/TOavPdzsuHc/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077764315792638463.post-158530346501042273</id><published>2008-12-12T08:44:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-12-12T08:46:04.110-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Blog Course"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Blogging in Pursuit"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Bloggingsphere"/><title type='text'>Simple. Ology</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot;   style=&quot;  white-space: pre-wrap; font-family:-webkit-monospace;font-size:13px;&quot;&gt;&lt;div&gt;Aloha To all blogreader and blogger firstly thanks a lot for reading my blog and I hope you&#39;ll get what you&#39;re looking for.Have a nice day &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id=&quot;simpleology_blog_35afcd649a76eab59e13a6db07bed09d&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;I&#39;m evaluating a &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.simpleology.com/training/blogging/index.php&quot;&gt;multi-media course on blogging&lt;/a&gt; from the folks at Simpleology.  For a while, they&#39;re letting you &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.simpleology.com/training/blogging/index.php&quot;&gt;snag it for free&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; if you post about it on your blog.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It covers:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;The best blogging techniques.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How to get traffic to your blog.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How to turn your blog into money.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;I&#39;ll let you know what I think once I&#39;ve had a chance to check it out. Meanwhile, go grab yours while it&#39;s still free.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/feeds/158530346501042273/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4077764315792638463&amp;postID=158530346501042273&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/158530346501042273'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/158530346501042273'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/2008/12/simple-ology.html' title='Simple. Ology'/><author><name>Ahmad Naim</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114126733784086951500</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IFmh037yOwQ/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAA2o/TOavPdzsuHc/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077764315792638463.post-8217787309516650221</id><published>2008-10-04T13:58:00.002-07:00</published><updated>2012-01-06T12:39:00.886-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Communication in Dating"/><title type='text'>Internet Dating Communication Tips</title><content type='html'>&lt;div id=&quot;body&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;Internet dating communication usually progresses through four distinct stages:  text, audio, visual and in person.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Step 1: Text Communication&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Internet dating communication almost always starts with an e-mail. Most people e-mail back and forth for a while before advancing to the next level of communication. While emailing, they usually explore topics of common interest without giving out personal information.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Another online dating communication method is instant messaging (IM). IM is similar to email except that it occurs in real time and permits you to respond to each others&#39; comments. It&#39;s like a text conversation.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Before signing up for an internet dating service, it&#39;s sensible to establish an anonymous e-mail account with a public internet service, such as yahoo or hotmail. Use this e-mail account for all online dating communication. You can usually establish an IM account with the same name as your email account.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Step 2: Audio Communication&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You can use instant messaging to progress to audio communication if you have a microphone and speakers on your computer. This allows you to continue to interact with each other without divulging any additional information.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;At some point, however, you will likely want to talk on the telephone. This is an important point in the relationship because it is the first point where you share information that could reveal your identity.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If someone has your home phone number, he or she can find out your address, name, the names of other people who live there and a lot of other personal information. Most people prefer to use cell phones for initial communication in order to protect that information. You can enter *67 before making a phone call so that your number does not show up on caller ID, too.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Somebody has to offer to share his or her phone number. Because stranger relationships are more dangerous for women, most of the time the man will disclose his phone number first and ask her to call him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Step 3: Video Communication&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Not every couple needs this step; many go from talking on the phone to meeting in person. If you are extra cautious or if travel is required for you to meet in person, video communication is a good next step in getting to know someone. All you need is a web cam, and you can communicate in real time with sound and picture.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Step 4: Meeting in Person&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is the next point of risk for most people. When your internet dating relationship progresses to the point where you are ready to meet face-to-face, you are investing more of yourself, your heart and hope, in the relationship, and you are making yourself more vulnerable to the possibility of personal danger. It&#39;s important to be cautious and to take safety precautions, but this is also the point at which your internet dating relationship can turn into something more.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Take time to progress through the stages of communication when you are building an internet dating relationship. It&#39;s safer to remain anonymous for a while and to disclose personal information a little at a time as you develop trust in the other person.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id=&quot;sig&quot; class=&quot;sig&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;For a free internet dating newsletter, free dating e-books, and more &lt;a id=&quot;link_78&quot; target=&quot;_new&quot; href=&quot;http://www.internet-dating-sites.com/internet-dating-tips.asp&quot;&gt;Internet Dating Tips&lt;/a&gt;, visit Brad Morgan&#39;s site at &lt;a id=&quot;link_79&quot; target=&quot;_new&quot; href=&quot;http://www.internet-dating-sites.com/&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;http://www.internet-dating-sites.com&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, your trusted source for the &lt;a id=&quot;link_80&quot; target=&quot;_new&quot; href=&quot;http://www.internet-dating-sites.com/dating-internet-services.asp&quot;&gt;Dating Internet Services&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;p&gt;Article Source: &lt;a id=&quot;link_81&quot; href=&quot;http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Brad_Morgan&quot;&gt;http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Brad_Morgan&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/feeds/8217787309516650221/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4077764315792638463&amp;postID=8217787309516650221&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/8217787309516650221'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/8217787309516650221'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/2008/10/internet-dating-communication-tips.html' title='Internet Dating Communication Tips'/><author><name>Ahmad Naim</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114126733784086951500</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IFmh037yOwQ/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAA2o/TOavPdzsuHc/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077764315792638463.post-3259540584142103944</id><published>2008-10-04T13:58:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2012-01-06T12:39:00.887-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Communication in Dating"/><title type='text'>Dating on Internet on the Rise</title><content type='html'>&lt;div id=&quot;body&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;There are many skeptics who discouraged or opined against the use of online dating service for looking for a date. Internet entered into our lives with a lot of inquisitive visits. People knew that it was a latest communication technology but few knew about the impact it was going to have on their lives.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In the starting phase Internet was not easily accessible and quite costly to use, hence it was hardly seen to be as productive as it has become now. There was lot of hesitancy in using Internet and the same applied to the Internet dating sites that had come up then.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The inquisitive visits brought in a gradual understanding of the Net. Subsequently the fact that Internet was a powerful media began to surface. Internet initially was devised for messaging and communication over telephone lines turned commercial in the last decade. It is now a medium for information transfer, messaging, audiovisual impacts, and online business to short list a few. The magnitude of Internet’s power is indescribable.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Dating also went online and it is now days called as online dating or Internet dating. The Net has brought in a paradigm shift as to how we date. The preliminary hesitancy in using the Internet dating site to search for dating partner has now vanished. Large number of single men and women are going in for online dating. This is due many reasons elaborated in my earlier articles.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The starting fear of scammers has also reduced to a large extent due to an impressive number of testimonials that where written on dating sites by those successful in online dating. The instances of singles becoming couples are on the increase – single women and men who have found their mate online. This is encouraging more and more people to join online dating and matchmaking services.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id=&quot;sig&quot; class=&quot;sig&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;Hi... I am freelance writer and journalist and have published many articles of dating and &lt;a id=&quot;link_78&quot; href=&quot;http://www.adultdatingpersonals.com.au/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;discreet personals&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a id=&quot;link_79&quot; href=&quot;http://www.yahoopersonals.com.au/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Yahoo dating&lt;/a&gt; sites.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;p&gt;Article Source: &lt;a id=&quot;link_80&quot; href=&quot;http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Jane_Jwaltz&quot;&gt;http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Jane_Jwaltz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/feeds/3259540584142103944/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4077764315792638463&amp;postID=3259540584142103944&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/3259540584142103944'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/3259540584142103944'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/2008/10/dating-on-internet-on-rise.html' title='Dating on Internet on the Rise'/><author><name>Ahmad Naim</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114126733784086951500</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IFmh037yOwQ/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAA2o/TOavPdzsuHc/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077764315792638463.post-7881901155518532524</id><published>2008-10-04T13:57:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2012-01-06T12:39:00.888-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Communication in Dating"/><title type='text'>Dating - Communication Is The Key</title><content type='html'>&lt;div id=&quot;body&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;Sometimes when I read some questions posted by people on dating on forums, I find curious phenomena. They all discuss their problems, their questions and everything about dating from others, but they don&#39;t ask their dating partner about what should be done. I wonder that it is like this - a child is crying and the mother posts on the net that my child is crying, what should I do? Why not ask the child? Similarly most of the issues of dating can be easily sorted out if we ask our partner. Let us find out more.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Are you confident about your dating partner?&lt;/strong&gt; Are you confident about your relationship and your partner? If you are sure about your choice of dating partner than most of the problems can be solved. Whatever may be the issue, ask him/her. Sometimes people get baffled with straight queries, but once they realize that you are very honest and open about your dating relationship, they will love it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Why fear in dating?&lt;/strong&gt; People fear that a small wrong step can spoil the dating and they will have to begin searching again. This is not true. Fear kills your natural behavior. Fear will make you very guarded in your dating. Please stop fearing. Sky will not fall. Be natural and worry not. If you are good and your dating partner likes you, everything will end Ok.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Dating and communication&lt;/strong&gt; - Good communication is the key to success. Talk and listen as much as possible. Don’t hide feelings. Express them. Don’t hide fears, talk about them. Don’t hide desires; express them and you will get real satisfaction.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id=&quot;sig&quot; class=&quot;sig&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;The author, C.D.Mohatta writes for screen savers and desktop wallpapers at &lt;a id=&quot;link_74&quot; target=&quot;_new&quot; href=&quot;http://www.screene.com/&quot;&gt;http://www.screene.com/&lt;/a&gt; on topics like nature, spirituality, motivation, love, holidays, animals, etc. He also writes fun quizzes and fun tests at &lt;a id=&quot;link_75&quot; target=&quot;_new&quot; href=&quot;http://www.funquizcards.com/&quot;&gt;http://www.funquizcards.com/&lt;/a&gt; on topics like love, personality, dating, relationships, friendship, movies, tv, music, business, etc. The author also writes articles, advice and ideas on love, dating, marriage, relationships, break-ups, at &lt;a id=&quot;link_76&quot; target=&quot;_new&quot; href=&quot;http://www.yourromanceguide.com/&quot;&gt;http://www.yourromanceguide.com/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;p&gt;Article Source: &lt;a id=&quot;link_77&quot; href=&quot;http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=CD_Mohatta&quot;&gt;http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=CD_Mohatta&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/feeds/7881901155518532524/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4077764315792638463&amp;postID=7881901155518532524&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/7881901155518532524'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/7881901155518532524'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/2008/10/dating-communication-is-key.html' title='Dating - Communication Is The Key'/><author><name>Ahmad Naim</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114126733784086951500</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IFmh037yOwQ/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAA2o/TOavPdzsuHc/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077764315792638463.post-499541328545033533</id><published>2008-10-04T13:56:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2012-01-06T12:39:00.889-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Communication in Dating"/><title type='text'>The Simple Mistakes Could Fail Your Dating</title><content type='html'>&lt;div id=&quot;body&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;The dating mistakes could destroy a dating relationship. Have your ever noticed what dating errors you just made? Dose the dating mistakes hinder your relationship forward.? And,dose the mistakes like this kind get missed again later on? Dating errors are merely the things that you did not complete very well. To avoid them, you should know what your dating partner consider as a dating mistake.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The open communication is sort of a key point, and generally it is the most common dating mistake which you could make.Just talking about what you need,want, and wish in your dating relationship.This kind of dating mistakes often lead to the misunderstanding and the dating may even finish here.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Not expecting too much, either. Do not put the high standard and expect that your dating relationship got to be perfect.Reading the need of the other person is so important while dating. Not underestimating and overestimating your dating.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Do not tell a lie. This dating error will leave you outside on the street!If you lied once ,it will take you much more efforts to make it up ,or even ever.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;To have faith in your dating. If you never refuse to set up a relationship, trust ought to be the thing that you and your dating partner share.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Not forgetting the feelings of your dating partner. The most winning dating relationship are related to the people who often put the feelings of their date partners before their own.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What I got to say is here,the rest is upon yourself. Have a run for yourself.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id=&quot;sig&quot; class=&quot;sig&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;Browse a huge collection of tips, suggestions for dating and relation. Search for huge selection of &lt;a id=&quot;link_69&quot; target=&quot;_new&quot; href=&quot;http://dating.online-assistant.info/&quot;&gt;dating and relation&lt;/a&gt; information here.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a id=&quot;link_70&quot; target=&quot;_new&quot; href=&quot;http://dating.online-assistant.info/download.htm&quot;&gt;Dating and Relation Handbook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;p&gt;Article Source: &lt;a id=&quot;link_71&quot; href=&quot;http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=David_C_Thomas&quot;&gt;http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=David_C_Thomas&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/feeds/499541328545033533/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4077764315792638463&amp;postID=499541328545033533&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/499541328545033533'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4077764315792638463/posts/default/499541328545033533'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://communicationdating.blogspot.com/2008/10/simple-mistakes-could-fail-your-dating.html' title='The Simple Mistakes Could Fail Your Dating'/><author><name>Ahmad Naim</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/114126733784086951500</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IFmh037yOwQ/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAA2o/TOavPdzsuHc/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4077764315792638463.post-950677242875841081</id><published>2008-10-04T13:02:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-04T13:02:24.900-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Communication in Dating"/><title type='text'>Communication in Dating</title><content type='html'>&lt;div id=&quot;body&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;Does your dating relationship have good communication? Communication during dating is what will eventually make or break the dating relationship. If you can not talk or communicate with your loved one, how will they ever know what you expect from your dating relationship?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Communication in dating is essential. Not only do you need to know what your date needs and desires, you also need to know how those things play into your life. Don&#39;t get angry with your date if he hasn&#39;t fulfilled your every need if you didn&#39;t communicate those needs to him in the first place. Instead, tell him what you need him to do and be. Communications like these will keep your dating relationship positive and worthwhile.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Communication in dating is something that many relationships lack. In fact, it is often one of the key factors in the break up of dating relationships. How can you build the communication within your relationship, then? You can start by agreeing that communication is a problem within your relationship. At that point, you can begin to talk or communicate about how to add communication into your every day dating lives. Can you commit to communicating your needs? Can you commit to listen to the needs of your date?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Communication in dating is not about what movie to see or where to eat. Although this is a good way to work communication in, your dating relationship needs to have other strong areas of communications. Especially important are dating relationship fundamentals like trust, commitment, and honesty. 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