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Angry Blake: Middle school lesson plan links

2013-01-08T23:58:00.000-08:00

Angry Blake: Middle school lesson plan links tags: how to teach anger management to middle school students, anger management lesson plans, middle school anger management lessons

Angry Blake

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about Anger Triggers, Anger Cues, our Fight or Flight Instinct, and Self-Mentoring techniques. The story is called “Angry Blake.” Blake was filled with fury. You could have cut the tension between his parents with a knife. They yelled at each other half the night, as Blake lay trembling and angry in his room. At school, he felt the need to vent that anger on some of the other students.

Middle school lesson plan: Angry Blake


Section 1: Lesson Objectives	Section 2: K-W-L MODEL discussion (‘K’ and ‘W’ questions)	Section 3: Vocabulary

Section 4: Story	Section 5: Popcorn Review	Section 6: Role-Play

Section 7: Bloom’s Taxonomy discussion questions	Section 8: Writing assignment	Section 9: K-W-L MODEL discussion (‘L’ questions)

	Bonus Section 2: Role-Play Slideshow	Bonus Section 3: Trick or Treat

Learning how to be Bully Free: Middle school hero’s journey lesson plans set 2

2012-10-25T19:10:00.001-07:00

To help promote students learning anti-bullying techniques, here are eight (8) hero’s journey lesson plans appropriate for grades five to eight.

Each lesson includes nine sections:

Section 1: Lesson Objectives
Section 2: K-W-L MODEL discussion (‘K’ and ‘W’ questions)
Section 3: Vocabulary
Section 4: Story
Section 5: Popcorn Review
Section 6: Role-Play
Section 7: Bloom’s Taxonomy discussion questions
Section 8: Writing assignment
Section 9: K-W-L MODEL discussion (‘L’ questions)

These field-tested lessons are totally self-contained. They come with teaching posters and role-play downloads – all for FREE. Everything you need is there for you simply by clicking on the links. Feel free to copy and paste them onto your computer so that you can use them with your classroom students.

One of the ways students learn about character education techniques, conflict resolution strategies, and anti-bullying processes is to try them on for size. Through the use of engaging stories and fun role-plays about realistic middle school students, young people start to incorporate the concepts taught in each lesson.

These lessons were all utilized in a class called ‘Communication Skills’. The author, Debbie Dunn, taught over 500 middle school students (Grades 5-8) a year for five years until a budget-cut eliminated many of the school’s special extracurricular programs. During that time period, she created over 3000 pages of curriculum based on real middle school conflict resolution and anti-bullying issues.

For the benefit of middle school students, middle school teachers, guidance counselors, and concerned parents, the author posts many of these lesson plans on Examiner.com. Feel free to subscribe to Debbie Dunn’s school conflict resolution Examiner page should you wish to keep abreast of each lesson as it gets posted.

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): The 'ordinary world' of Little Jack

Story Description: We are now going to hear a story about sixth-grader Little Jack. Watch how his fear of dying socially motivates him to either decide to do the VICTIM THING or to decide to act like a HERO. This story is called “The ‘ordinary world’ of Little Jack.”

Please note: This boy is called ‘Little Jack’ by the older guys he hangs out with after school. Why? One of the eighth-grade boys is also named Jack. To avoid confusion, they call the older boy ‘Big Jack’ and this sixth-grade boy ‘Little Jack’.

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Little Jack receives his 'call to adventure'

Story Description: We are now going to hear a story about sixth-grader Little Jack. Watch how his fear of dying socially motivates him to either decide to do the VICTIM THING or to decide to act like a HERO. This story is called “Little Jack receives his ‘call to adventure’.”

Please note: This boy is called ‘Little Jack’ by the older guys he hangs out with after school. Why? One of the eighth-grade boys is also named Jack. To avoid confusion, they call the older boy ‘Big Jack’ and this sixth-grade boy ‘Little Jack’.

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Little Jack crosses the 'first threshold'

Story Description: Listen to this next story about Little Jack. Now that this sixth grader has accepted his ‘call to adventure’, the time has come that Little Jack will have to cross his ‘first threshold’. Unfortunately, he finds that crossing that first threshold is not an easy process to go through as there are sometimes subtle and not-so-subtle enemies or threshold guardians trying to hold him back so that they can keep him from being successful. Fortunately, Little Jack also finds that the Ancient One and possible others serve as allies who will help him to cross that first threshold successfully.

Please note: This boy is called ‘Little Jack’ by the older guys he hangs out with after school. Why? One of the eighth-grade boys is also named Jack. To avoid confusion, they call the older boy ‘Big Jack’ and this sixth-grade boy ‘Little Jack’.

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Little Jack approaches the 'inmost cave'

Story Description: A new girl, sixth-grader Kelly, has moved to Little Jack’s school. Little Jack would like to ask her to the Valentine’s Day dance; however, he doesn’t really know how to go about being a good boyfriend. He goes to the Ancient One for advice. The story is called “Little Jack approaches the ‘inmost cave’.”

Please note: This boy is called ‘Little Jack’ by the older guys he hangs out with after school. Why? One of the eighth-grade boys is also named Jack. To avoid confusion, they call the older boy ‘Big Jack’ and this sixth-grade boy ‘Little Jack’.

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Little Jack goes through a 'supreme ordeal'

Story Description: In this story, Little Jack finds out that the parents of his maternal cousin, Jordan, are going through such a rough patch that they are temporarily sending their son to live with Little Jack and his mother. Little Jack finds this really upsetting because he and his cousin usually don’t get along. Jordan has bullied him frequently during past visits and was very abrasive about having to get his own way. Little Jack is afraid that his friends might join with Jordan in ganging up against him. To prevent this and other bad things from happening, Little Jack goes to his mentor, the Ancient One, to get some advice.

Please note: This boy is called ‘Little Jack’ by the older guys he hangs out with after school. Why? One of the eighth-grade boys is also named Jack. To avoid confusion, they call the older boy ‘Big Jack’ and this sixth-grade boy ‘Little Jack’.

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Little Jack's cousin Jordan comes for a long visit

Story Description: In this spin-off story, Jordan comes to live with Little Jack for an extended visit. Little Jack words hard to set firm and respectful boundaries with Jordan. Will Jordan cooperate?

Please note: This boy is called ‘Little Jack’ by the older guys he hangs out with after school. Why? One of the eighth-grade boys is also named Jack. To avoid confusion, they call the older boy ‘Big Jack’ and this sixth-grade boy ‘Little Jack’.

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Little Jack's reward

Story Description: Little Jack is filled with questions. Before his cousin Jordan came to live with him and his mother, he could pretty much come and go as he pleased. Now that Jordan was there, Little Jack began to wonder if he would ever again be able to call his life his own. This story is called “Little Jack’s reward.”

Please note: This boy is called ‘Little Jack’ by the older guys he hangs out with after school. Why? One of the eighth-grade boys is also named Jack. To avoid confusion, they call the older boy ‘Big Jack’ and this sixth-grade boy ‘Little Jack’.

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Little Jack's got it all figured out

Story Description: Little Jack had not seen or heard from the Ancient One for nearly a month; nevertheless, he kind of felt like at least his wisdom was still around. This felt especially true when Tom suddenly insisted that all the guys must take a cigarette – no matter what. Not one of the seventh or eighth grade boys, including his cousin, had the nerve to stand up to him. It appeared that it was going to be up to the sixth grader to save the day.

This is the conclusion of the eight-story series about sixth-grader Little Jack. It’s called “Little Jack’s got it all figured out!”

Please note: This boy is called ‘Little Jack’ by the older guys he hangs out with after school. Why? One of the eighth-grade boys is also named Jack. To avoid confusion, they call the older boy ‘Big Jack’ and this sixth-grade boy ‘Little Jack’.

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Resources

Multiple Bullying Prevention Articles Resources on Pinterest

Multiple Anti-Bullying, Be Bully Free Videos on Pinterest

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Learning how to be Bully Free: Middle school hero’s journey lesson plans set 1

2012-10-25T17:27:00.002-07:00

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Water of Life

Story Description: Three brothers and their little sister work very hard to build a palace, a church, and a garden on their land. People came from miles around to look and admire. An old man informed them they still lacked acquiring a branch from the tree of beauty, the water of life, and a talking bird. Each brother, in turn, attempted to acquire these three items. Each brother ran into danger since they did not fully follow the directions given by a kindly giantess. It was up to the Little Sister to attempt to save the day.

Story links to both Andrew Lang’s and Brothers Grimm versions of tale

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): The Ball

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the importance of the Character Education traits of Self Control, Valuing & Respecting Self, Valuing & Respecting Others, and Tolerance & Allowing. In the set of follow-up discussion questions, your students will also learn key features of Joseph Campbell’s hero’s journey process.

This is the first story of seven about a 6th-grade boy named Jack. Jack tries out for the football team even though he is tall and gangly and wears glasses. The older boys pick on him unmercifully. Many of the kids at the school make fun of him. Then Jack discovers basketball. Read how he experiences great success when he turns to a sport he truly loves.

Please note: As a clinical social worker, Mr. Terry Gardner kindly created these stories for Debbie Dunn’s Communication Skills class at CMS back in 2001.This Terry Gardner Jack Tale is shared in his memory and with permission of his widow, Lin Gardner.

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): The Drum

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): The Dance

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the importance of the Character Education traits of Self Control, Valuing & Respecting Self, Valuing & Respecting Others, and Tolerance & Allowing. In the set of follow-up discussion questions, your students will also learn key features of Joseph Campbell’s hero’s journey process.

This is the third story of seven about a 6th-grade boy named Jack. Sixth-grade basketball star, Jack, starts going out with seventh-grade cheerleader, Ann. At first, their relationship is fun for both of them. But when Jack decides he wishes to also spend time with his other friends and go out for track, Ann becomes possessive. Will they manage to stay together or break up?

Please note: As a clinical social worker, Mr. Terry Gardner kindly created these stories for Debbie Dunn’s Communication Skills class at CMS back in 2001.This Terry Gardner Jack Tale is shared in his memory and with permission of his widow, Lin Gardner.

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): The Heart

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): The Word

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the importance of the Character Education traits of Self Control, Valuing & Respecting Self, Valuing & Respecting Others, and Tolerance & Allowing. In the set of follow-up discussion questions, your students will also learn key features of Joseph Campbell’s hero’s journey process.

This is the fifth story of seven about a 6th-grade boy named Jack. Please understand that this is a different Jack from the Jack in the previous four stories.

In this story, sixth-grader Jack feels overshadowed by his older and much-more-popular brother Andrew. Due to the fact that Jack didn’t feel like he could compete, he mostly kept quietly to himself. Read this story to find out how Jack’s older brother and mother help Jack to not feel left out anymore.

Please note: As a clinical social worker, Mr. Terry Gardner kindly created these stories for Debbie Dunn’s Communication Skills class at CMS back in 2001.This Terry Gardner Jack Tale is shared in his memory and with permission of his widow, Lin Gardner.

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): The Feeling

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the importance of the Character Education traits of Self Control, Valuing & Respecting Self, Valuing & Respecting Others, and Tolerance & Allowing. In the set of follow-up discussion questions, your students will also learn key features of Joseph Campbell’s hero’s journey process.

This is the sixth story of seven about a boy named Jack. Please note that this is a continuation of the story about the Jack you read about in the stories called ‘The Ball’, ‘The Dance’, and ‘The Heart’.

Now that Jack was in the seventh grade, he began to feel confused about whether he wished to remain on the track and basketball teams. He even began to feel curious about those kids who took either pot or pills. Did he want to become one of them? Read the role-play to discover what choice Jack ended up making.

Please note: As a clinical social worker, Mr. Terry Gardner kindly created these stories for Debbie Dunn’s Communication Skills class at CMS back in 2001.This Terry Gardner Jack Tale is shared in his memory and with permission of his widow, Lin Gardner.

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): The Star

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the importance of the Character Education traits of Self Control, Valuing & Respecting Self, Valuing & Respecting Others, and Tolerance & Allowing. In the set of follow-up discussion questions, your students will also learn key features of Joseph Campbell’s hero’s journey process.

This is the seventh and last story of seven about a boy named Jack. Please note that this is the conclusion of the story about the Jack you read about in the stories called ‘The ball’, ‘The dance’, ‘The heart’, and ‘The feeling’. This story is called ‘The star’. It was written by Clinical Social Worker, Terry Gardner.

Jack was now in eighth grade. He had come a long way since the uncertainties, fears, and many questions he had during his sixth- and seventh-grade years. Jack was very popular with most of the students and teachers. He did very well with school work and was one of the school’s outstanding athletes. But had all that success gone to his head? Let’s see what Jack did with all of his success and personal growth.

Please note: As a clinical social worker, Mr. Terry Gardner kindly created these stories for Debbie Dunn’s Communication Skills class at CMS back in 2001.This Terry Gardner Jack Tale is shared in his memory and with permission of his widow, Lin Gardner.

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Resources

Multiple Bullying Prevention Articles Resources on Pinterest

Multiple Anti-Bullying, Be Bully Free Videos on Pinterest

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Learning how to be Bully Free: Middle school self-mentoring lesson plans

2012-10-25T14:22:00.003-07:00

To help promote students learning anti-bullying techniques, here are five (5) self-mentoring lesson plans appropriate for grades five to eight.

Each lesson includes nine sections:

Section 1: Lesson Objectives
Section 2: K-W-L MODEL discussion (‘K’ and ‘W’ questions)
Section 3: Vocabulary
Section 4: Story
Section 5: Popcorn Review
Section 6: Role-Play
Section 7: Bloom’s Taxonomy discussion questions
Section 8: Writing assignment
Section 9: K-W-L MODEL discussion (‘L’ questions)

These field-tested lessons are totally self-contained. They come with teaching posters and role-play downloads – all for FREE. Everything you need is there for you simply by clicking on the links. Feel free to copy and paste them onto your computer so that you can use them with your classroom students.

One of the ways students learn about character education techniques, conflict resolution strategies, and anti-bullying processes is to try them on for size. Through the use of engaging stories and fun role-plays about realistic middle school students, young people start to incorporate the concepts taught in each lesson.

These lessons were all utilized in a class called ‘Communication Skills’. The author, Debbie Dunn, taught over 500 middle school students (Grades 5-8) a year for five years until a budget-cut eliminated many of the school’s special extracurricular programs. During that time period, she created over 3000 pages of curriculum based on real middle school conflict resolution and anti-bullying issues.

For the benefit of middle school students, middle school teachers, guidance counselors, and concerned parents, the author posts many of these lesson plans on Examiner.com. Feel free to subscribe to Debbie Dunn’s school conflict resolution Examiner page should you wish to keep abreast of each lesson as it gets posted.

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Self-mentoring Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Hyena’s dilemma at a fork in the path

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the need for Self-Mentoring and displaying other good character traits of Self Control, Responsibility, Trustworthiness, Honesty, Tolerance, Allowing, Caring, Giving, Justice, Fairness, Leadership, and Valuing and Respecting Self. The story is called "Hyena's dilemma at a fork in the path."

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Self-mentoring Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Jacob Listens to his Inner Wisdom

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the need for Self-Mentoring when you are a victim of name-calling. The way you choose to respond can either lead to a LOSE-LOSE confrontation where both people feel like they lost, a WIN-LOSE confrontation where only one person feels like the victor, or a WIN-WIN confrontation where both people manage to come out feeling like winners. In this story called “Jacob Listens to his Inner Wisdom,” Jacob not only manages to recall advice from a teacher, a friend, and his sisters, he tunes into his Inner Wisdom to select the response that will transform a LOSE-LOSE situation to a WIN-WIN.

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Self-mentoring Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Jerry Checks His Facts

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the need for Self-Mentoring when you are a victim of false rumors and trying to get to the bottom of a he said – she said situation. Have you ever had one of those he said / she said situations where you are not sure who to believe? That’s what happened to Jerry. Julie walked up and said, “Jerry! I can’t believe you did that!” Jerry asked, “Did what?” Julie said, “What Kelly said you did.” When Jerry found out what Kelly said about him, he was furious. He imagined all kinds of scenarios where he would get his revenge with Kelly for starting such an embarrassing rumor about him until it occurred to him that it was perhaps Julie who was the trouble-maker instead of Kelly. He was determined to find out which girl was trying to make trouble for him. But how?

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Self-mentoring Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Jesse needs to learn to set firm boundaries

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the need for Self-Mentoring when you are a victim of name-calling. The way you choose to respond can point to whether you are making a good character choice or bad. Listen to the character choices made by the three seventh-grade boys you will hear about in this next story called “Jesse Needs To Learn To Set Firm Boundaries.”

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Self-mentoring Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Who Really Started the Rumor about Cindy?

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the need for Self-Mentoring when you are a victim of false rumors and trying to get to the bottom of a he said – she said situation. Have you ever had one of those he said / she said situations where you are not sure who to believe? That’s what happened to Cindy and Emily.

Troublemaker Donny decided to make trouble for both Emily and Cindy. He would tell Emily that Cindy spread a rumor about her. He would tell Cindy that Emily was spreading a rumor about her. Emily’s inner wisdom alerted her that Donny was lying; therefore, she did not take the rumor seriously. Unfortunately, Cindy believed Donny was telling the truth. She was determined to get revenge on Emily for tainting her name. Would Cindy realize the truth before it was too late?

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Resources

Multiple Bullying Prevention Articles Resources on Pinterest

Multiple Anti-Bullying, Be Bully Free Videos on Pinterest

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Learning how to be Bully Free: Middle school perception lesson plans

2012-10-25T14:08:00.002-07:00

To help promote students learning anti-bullying techniques, here are twelve (12) perception lesson plans appropriate for grades five to eight.

Each lesson includes nine sections:

Section 1: Lesson Objectives
Section 2: K-W-L MODEL discussion (‘K’ and ‘W’ questions)
Section 3: Vocabulary
Section 4: Story
Section 5: Popcorn Review
Section 6: Role-Play
Section 7: Bloom’s Taxonomy discussion questions
Section 8: Writing assignment
Section 9: K-W-L MODEL discussion (‘L’ questions)

These field-tested lessons are totally self-contained. They come with teaching posters and role-play downloads – all for FREE. Everything you need is there for you simply by clicking on the links. Feel free to copy and paste them onto your computer so that you can use them with your classroom students.

One of the ways students learn about character education techniques, conflict resolution strategies, and anti-bullying processes is to try them on for size. Through the use of engaging stories and fun role-plays about realistic middle school students, young people start to incorporate the concepts taught in each lesson.

These lessons were all utilized in a class called ‘Communication Skills’. The author, Debbie Dunn, taught over 500 middle school students (Grades 5-8) a year for five years until a budget-cut eliminated many of the school’s special extracurricular programs. During that time period, she created over 3000 pages of curriculum based on real middle school conflict resolution and anti-bullying issues.

For the benefit of middle school students, middle school teachers, guidance counselors, and concerned parents, the author posts many of these lesson plans on Examiner.com. Feel free to subscribe to Debbie Dunn’s school conflict resolution Examiner page should you wish to keep abreast of each lesson as it gets posted.

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Christy and Laura Both Like Brandon

Story Description: This Conflict Resolution story is based on an idea shared with me by one of my past seventh-grade students about two girls who liked the same guy. This story demonstrates the importance of checking your facts.

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Clever Angie Thinks Fast

Story Description: This Conflict Resolution story is based on an idea shared with me by a teacher who wished to remain anonymous. This is a love triangle story that actually happened to her when she was in the eighth grade. This story demonstrates the importance of checking your facts.

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Frogs and Newts or Gold Coins

Story Description: You each have a lot of personal power. The words you say are extremely powerful and have the power to harm or the power to heal or somewhere in between. This is illustrated in the story called “Frogs and Newts or Gold Coins.” It is adapted from a Grimm’s Fairy Tale that you will hear told as part of this story. Please sit back and enjoy “Frogs and Newts or Gold Coins.”

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Jessica's Painful Experience

Story Description: This story is fiction, but it is based on true events. The idea for the story came from a social worker who used to live in Knoxville, Tennessee. She had clients who had to get their stomach pumped due to either accidentally or purposely taking an overdose of pills or drugs. One of the points of the story is that if you cloud your vision or dull your senses by taking drugs or drinking alcohol, the world will lose out of all your special talents and abilities. Each of you is essential to making the world the best possible place it can be.

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Jessica and Tonya Combine Their Resources

Story Description: This story is a follow-up to two of the previous stories and role-plays called “Frogs and Newts or Gold Coins” and “Jessica’s Painful Experience.” It is about a time that Jessica and Tonya got together and combined their ideas and philosophies to help each other and themselves further their personal goals. It is called “Jessica and Tonya combine their Resources.”

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Julie's Big Challenge
Story Description: In this story, Julie was once again being verbally attacked about her excessive body weight. Instead of feeling sorry for herself, she had learned from her father to be sorry for those kids. She felt great compassion for kids who only knew how to make themselves feel better by putting others down.

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Joshua's Experiment in sending Positive Peer Pressure

Story Description: Eighth grader Joshua was invited to a party at Dustin’s house. Dustin did his best to negatively peer pressure Joshua into drinking a beer. In return, Joshua did his best to positively peer pressure Dustin into drinking a Pepsi. Who will win?

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): The Confrontation

Story Description: Joshua’s best friend Zach leaned over to Dustin and complained about their classmate George asking a dumb question in math class. Later on, Dustin purposely told George what Zach had said about him. The next day, George found Zach and pushed and hit him in revenge before running off. Will the confrontation keep going, or will the boys find a way to make amends?

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Roxanne and Courtney Jump to the Wrong Conclusions

Story Description: The idea for this role-play came from three of my former seventh-grade students. It starts with a he said/she said situation where Roxanne and Courtney give this girl no chance to explain her side of the story. Instead they simply choose to believe the worst. Then there will be a re-role-play showing how the situation should actually have been handled. This role-play is called “Roxanne and Courtney Jump to the Wrong Conclusions.”

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Six Blind Men and the Elephant

Story Description: This is a parable from India that is re-told by Debbie Dunn.

When conflict arises, we have two options. We can choose to continue the conflict or to problem-solve. This parable from India deals with times when people misinterpret what is really going on and they jump to the wrong conclusions. In the case of this particular story, six blind men encounter an elephant. Listen for how each blind man perceives what an elephant looks like.

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): The Misunderstanding

Story Description: The idea for this role-play came from one of my former seventh-grade students. It demonstrates the importance of checking your facts before jumping to conclusions when hearing a rumor.

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Wild Boar

Story Description: This short story will demonstrate the importance of not judging as we perceive the actions of others. It also demonstrates the FIGHT OR FLIGHT Instinct in action.

In this story, there is a wild boar. Who knows what a wild boar is? Watch the slideshow or video to see a picture of a wild boar drawn by a boy named T.J. Hutcheson when he was in the sixth grade.

Sometimes people do strange things and we get the totally wrong impression about them. That is the situation in this next story. Listen and notice what you find strange or different about the actions of the short man in this story called “The Tall Man and the Short Man.”

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Resources

Multiple Bullying Prevention Articles Resources on Pinterest

Multiple Anti-Bullying, Be Bully Free Videos on Pinterest

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Learning how to be Bully Free: Middle school diplomacy lesson plans

2012-10-25T10:41:00.001-07:00

To help promote students learning anti-bullying techniques, here are four (4) diplomacy lesson plans appropriate for grades five to eight.

Each lesson includes nine sections:

Section 1: Lesson Objectives
Section 2: K-W-L MODEL discussion (‘K’ and ‘W’ questions)
Section 3: Vocabulary
Section 4: Story
Section 5: Popcorn Review
Section 6: Role-Play
Section 7: Bloom’s Taxonomy discussion questions
Section 8: Writing assignment
Section 9: K-W-L MODEL discussion (‘L’ questions)

These field-tested lessons are totally self-contained. They come with teaching posters and role-play downloads – all for FREE. Everything you need is there for you simply by clicking on the links. Feel free to copy and paste them onto your computer so that you can use them with your classroom students.

One of the ways students learn about character education techniques, conflict resolution strategies, and anti-bullying processes is to try them on for size. Through the use of engaging stories and fun role-plays about realistic middle school students, young people start to incorporate the concepts taught in each lesson.

These lessons were all utilized in a class called ‘Communication Skills’. The author, Debbie Dunn, taught over 500 middle school students (Grades 5-8) a year for five years until a budget-cut eliminated many of the school’s special extracurricular programs. During that time period, she created over 3000 pages of curriculum based on real middle school conflict resolution and anti-bullying issues.

For the benefit of middle school students, middle school teachers, guidance counselors, and concerned parents, the author posts many of these lesson plans on Examiner.com. Feel free to subscribe to Debbie Dunn’s school conflict resolution Examiner page should you wish to keep abreast of each lesson as it gets posted.

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Diplomacy Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Denny Teaches Tom to Eat Crow

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the need to be diplomatic with adults in positions of power such as teachers, administrators, and parents. Valuing & Respecting Authority are two important survival skills that all thinking individuals need to display if they wish to get along well in this world. Students will learn when it might be appropriate to “eat crow” with teachers and other significant adults in their lives. One of the goals of this story is that students will increase the number of times they choose to “eat crow” with teachers instead of being rude or disrespectful.

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Diplomacy Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): First Lesson in Diplomacy

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the need to be diplomatic with adults in positions of power such as teachers, administrators, and parents.

Picture this. You are in the seventh grade and need help with an algebraic formula problem. You go to your teacher for help. Unfortunately, your teacher has gotten older and sometimes experiences memory problems. Not knowing that this was one of your teacher’s bad days, you work your entire homework assignment based on this help. The next day in class, another student asks for help on the very same problem. That is when you discover that every problem that you worked was wrong. You angrily yell at the teacher in front of the whole class.

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Diplomacy Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Johnny and Susan

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the need to be diplomatic with your family members, your school mates, and the other people in your life. Johnny and Susan are a brother and sister who cannot seem to get along. Everything changes for the better after their mother teaches Susan how to use ‘I Messages’ (i.e., Diplomatic ‘I’ Statements) with her big brother instead of using Accusing ‘You’ Statements.

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Diplomacy Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Ted's Use of Diplomacy Saved the Day

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the need to be diplomatic with the other kids at school.

Ted asked to join the pick-up basketball game before school. When a jock named Matt refused to let him join, Ted went over to one of his friends and complainingly called Matt a name. That began a chain reaction where Ted got himself into hot water with a few kids at school. Will Ted manage to find a way to fix the problem before his day gets any worse?

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Resources

Multiple Bullying Prevention Articles Resources on Pinterest

Multiple Anti-Bullying, Be Bully Free Videos on Pinterest

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Learning how to be Bully Free: Middle school ‘fight or flight’ lesson plans

2012-10-25T00:19:00.004-07:00

To help promote students learning anti-bullying techniques, here are five (5) ‘fight or flight’ lesson plans appropriate for grades five to eight.

Each lesson includes nine sections:

Section 1: Lesson Objectives
Section 2: K-W-L MODEL discussion (‘K’ and ‘W’ questions)
Section 3: Vocabulary
Section 4: Story
Section 5: Popcorn Review
Section 6: Role-Play
Section 7: Bloom’s Taxonomy discussion questions
Section 8: Writing assignment
Section 9: K-W-L MODEL discussion (‘L’ questions)

These field-tested lessons are totally self-contained. They come with teaching posters and role-play downloads – all for FREE. Everything you need is there for you simply by clicking on the links. Feel free to copy and paste them onto your computer so that you can use them with your classroom students.

One of the ways students learn about character education techniques, conflict resolution strategies, and anti-bullying processes is to try them on for size. Through the use of engaging stories and fun role-plays about realistic middle school students, young people start to incorporate the concepts taught in each lesson.

These lessons were all utilized in a class called ‘Communication Skills’. The author, Debbie Dunn, taught over 500 middle school students (Grades 5-8) a year for five years until a budget-cut eliminated many of the school’s special extracurricular programs. During that time period, she created over 3000 pages of curriculum based on real middle school conflict resolution and anti-bullying issues.

For the benefit of middle school students, middle school teachers, guidance counselors, and concerned parents, the author posts many of these lesson plans on Examiner.com. Feel free to subscribe to Debbie Dunn’s school conflict resolution Examiner page should you wish to keep abreast of each lesson as it gets posted.

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‘Fight or Flight’ Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): A Mediation session with Shawn, Tyler, and Dennis

Story Description: This is the sequel story about Tyler, Dennis, and Shawn’s gang used to teach more about Fight or Flight and the Mediation process. This story is called “A Mediation session with Shawn, Tyler, and Dennis.” Shawn and his gang had been waging psychological warfare on Tyler. One day, Dennis playfully nudged Tyler while he was with them. Instead of laughing in welcome, Tyler and the gang accused Dennis of hitting Tyler and warned him he better watch his back.

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‘Fight or Flight’ Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Bully Jake & Eddie plus Sequel

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the VICTIM-VICTIMIZER CYCLE in action. The two characters who interact together are a bully named Jake and a boy named Eddie. The story is called “Bully Jake And Eddie.”

Story Description for Sequel: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the possible consequences of having the reputation of being a bully. It also demonstrates the slow process it takes for a former bully to try to re-gain people’s trust. Do you remember Bully Jake and Eddie? Jake is seriously worried. A friend of his, a former bully, got framed and placed in the Alternate School. What if that happens to him as well? How do you regain people’s trust when you’ve been a bully for years? Will anybody ever be willing to trust Jake again? The story is called “Jake tries to rebuild his trust level with others.”

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‘Fight or Flight’ Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Mouse Mother

Story Description: This is an adaptation of a story that comes from the oral traditions of Africa. It is used with permission of Opalanga Pugh, a griot of the African culture. Prior to her death in 2010, Opalanga traveled around the United States, sharing the traditional stories of Africa.

This story perfectly demonstrates a character Self-Mentoring as she remembers to breathe, gives herself a Pep Talk inside her head, relies on her Inner Wisdom, and comes up with a brilliant solution to get her attacker to leave her and her loved ones alone.

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‘Fight or Flight’ Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Thicken Your Skin to Put-Downs

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach your students some potential humorous retorts they can use when other kids attempt to put them down. It might just help them to thicken their skin to put-downs. Wayne and Melinda are tired of being put down. They both decide to use some humorous retorts to help them defuse the conflict. The humorous retorts are so successful that they start teaching these techniques to some of their friends. Perhaps some of these ideas will work for you and your friends as well. The humorous retorts used in this story came from an actual Chicago social worker who worked at a school for unwed girls. I met her on a cruise we both took. She shared with me several ideas to help kids thicken their skin to put-downs.

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‘Fight or Flight’ Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Tyler Chooses between Dennis and Shawn’s gang

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the Fight or Flight technique of mob mentality and psychological warfare. The story is called “Tyler chooses between Dennis and Shawn’s gang.” Shawn and his gang were waging psychological warfare on Tyler. One day, Dennis playfully nudged Tyler while he was with them. Instead of laughing in welcome, Tyler and the gang accused Dennis of hitting Tyler and warned him he better watch his back.

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Resources

Multiple Bullying Prevention Articles Resources on Pinterest

Multiple Anti-Bullying, Be Bully Free Videos on Pinterest

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Learning how to be Bully Free: Middle school communication skills lesson plans

2012-10-25T00:15:00.003-07:00

To help promote students learning anti-bullying techniques, here are five (5) communication skills lesson plans appropriate for grades five to eight.

Each lesson includes nine sections:

Section 1: Lesson Objectives
Section 2: K-W-L MODEL discussion (‘K’ and ‘W’ questions)
Section 3: Vocabulary
Section 4: Story
Section 5: Popcorn Review
Section 6: Role-Play
Section 7: Bloom’s Taxonomy discussion questions
Section 8: Writing assignment
Section 9: K-W-L MODEL discussion (‘L’ questions)

These field-tested lessons are totally self-contained. They come with teaching posters and role-play downloads – all for FREE. Everything you need is there for you simply by clicking on the links. Feel free to copy and paste them onto your computer so that you can use them with your classroom students.

One of the ways students learn about character education techniques, conflict resolution strategies, and anti-bullying processes is to try them on for size. Through the use of engaging stories and fun role-plays about realistic middle school students, young people start to incorporate the concepts taught in each lesson.

These lessons were all utilized in a class called ‘Communication Skills’. The author, Debbie Dunn, taught over 500 middle school students (Grades 5-8) a year for five years until a budget-cut eliminated many of the school’s special extracurricular programs. During that time period, she created over 3000 pages of curriculum based on real middle school conflict resolution and anti-bullying issues.

For the benefit of middle school students, middle school teachers, guidance counselors, and concerned parents, the author posts many of these lesson plans on Examiner.com. Feel free to subscribe to Debbie Dunn’s school conflict resolution Examiner page should you wish to keep abreast of each lesson as it gets posted.

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Communication skills Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Dennis Learns about Responsible Reporting

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the need for using good communication skills in the classroom. This story called “Dennis Learns about Responsible Reporting Versus Tattling” illustrates the importance of following class rules, being respectful to the teacher and your fellow classmates, maintaining your classroom as a safe zone from put-downs, and learning the difference between responsible reporting versus tattling or snitching.

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Communication skills Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Fred learns to make Good Observations

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the need for using good communication skills when interacting with other people. This story called “Fred learns to make Good Observations” illustrates the importance of making good observations about when it is your turn to talk and when you should be simply listening or keeping quiet.

Additional Note: Making good observations of when it is a good time for you to talk to others and when you should be simply listening is an extremely good character trait to have. That is part of having good Self Control. It also demonstrates a lot of Respect for others when you wait your turn to talk and only speak on related topics

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Communication skills Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Goofy Jane

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the need for using good communication skills when interacting with other people. This comic story called “Goofy Jane” demonstrates the pitfalls that can happen when you do not follow the simple rules of being a good communicator. Eighteen-year-old Jane is training to be a singer, dancer, and actress so she can become a Hollywood movie star. She nearly blows her chance to fulfill her dream as she breaks every communication skill rule with a Hollywood agent by the name of Mr. Headworthy. Read the role-play called “Goofy Jane” to find out what happens.

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Communication skills Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Josh Takes a Risk
Story Description: Imagine your teacher expects each student in the room to give a speech or perform a story. You, however, are feeling nervous or reluctant to perform. That’s the way that a boy named Josh felt.

Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about importance of making eye contact with others when you do public speaking.

As you may be aware, many students would rather eat nails than get up in front of their classmates to do any kind of public speaking. Making eye contact with your teacher and the other students in the room is one technique that really helps build your comfort level in the long run. A boy named Josh did not believe that making eye contact could actually help him build his comfort level; however, when he finally took the risk to try it out, he found it actually worked for him as well.

This story called “Josh Takes a Risk” illustrates the importance of making eye contact with your teacher and your classmates when you give a public speaking speech or performance.

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Communication skills Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Little Red-Riding-Hood and Omega Wolf Bert

Story Description: Here is a modern version of an old favorite called “Little Red-Riding-Hood and Omega Wolf Bert.” The story teaches the importance of finding common ground between two opposing forces, empathy, using your survival instincts to help you through dangerous situations, the unpleasantness of name-calling, and the importance of making sincere apologies for wrong intentions and wrong-doing.

Frequently, other kids call Connie Blake by the name of Little Red-Riding-Hood because she regularly wears a red cloak. On her way to bringing muffins to her sick granny, she met an Omega Wolf by the name of Bert. Hoping to be more popular with his wolf pack, Bert hatches a plan to capture Connie. Will Connie survive?

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Wolf videos to accompany story called 'Little Red-Riding-Hood & Omega Wolf Bert'

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Resources

Multiple Bullying Prevention Articles Resources on Pinterest

Multiple Anti-Bullying, Be Bully Free Videos on Pinterest

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Learning how to be Bully Free: Middle school character education lesson plans

2012-10-24T23:04:00.003-07:00

To help promote students learning anti-bullying techniques, here are eight (8) character education lesson plans appropriate for grades five to eight.

Each lesson includes nine sections:

Section 1: Lesson Objectives
Section 2: K-W-L MODEL discussion (‘K’ and ‘W’ questions)
Section 3: Vocabulary
Section 4: Story
Section 5: Popcorn Review
Section 6: Role-Play
Section 7: Bloom’s Taxonomy discussion questions
Section 8: Writing assignment
Section 9: K-W-L MODEL discussion (‘L’ questions)

These field-tested lessons are totally self-contained. They come with teaching posters and role-play downloads – all for FREE. Everything you need is there for you simply by clicking on the links. Feel free to copy and paste them onto your computer so that you can use them with your classroom students.

One of the ways students learn about character education techniques, conflict resolution strategies, and anti-bullying processes is to try them on for size. Through the use of engaging stories and fun role-plays about realistic middle school students, young people start to incorporate the concepts taught in each lesson.

These lessons were all utilized in a class called ‘Communication Skills’. The author, Debbie Dunn, taught over 500 middle school students (Grades 5-8) a year for five years until a budget-cut eliminated many of the school’s special extracurricular programs. During that time period, she created over 3000 pages of curriculum based on real middle school conflict resolution and anti-bullying issues.

For the benefit of middle school students, middle school teachers, guidance counselors, and concerned parents, the author posts many of these lesson plans on Examiner.com. Feel free to subscribe to Debbie Dunn’s school conflict resolution Examiner page should you wish to keep abreast of each lesson as it gets posted.

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Character education Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Accept Me for Who I Am

Story Description: Some kids start making fun of basketball player Jason just because he is short. In the first part of the role-play, seventh-grader Jason reacts badly to their ridicule. He ends up getting beat up. The last part of the role-play shows how much better the situation can be when Jason demonstrates enough self control to talk reasonably with his tormentors. As a result, they react in a more tolerant fashion as well. The role-play is called “Accept Me for Who I Am.” This Conflict Resolution role-play is based on an idea shared with me by one of my past seventh-grade students who struggled with being a lot shorter than the other 7th-grade guys.

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Character education Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Animal Justice for the Hyena and the Hare

Story Description: The Grandmothers of the Kikuyu tribe of Kenya tell stories to teach the children important lessons like don't be greedy. One of those children, Ann Njeri Mwangi, orally shared this tale with me in 1990. Hyena helps Hare find a cub-sitting job for Queen Lion. Unfortunately, Hyena demands a very unreasonable reward in exchange. Listen to this Character Education tale and see if you agree it also has a strong message about Justice and about being Responsible.

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Character education Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Be part of the Solution

Story Description: Students participate in acting out the twelve (12) skits called “Be part of the Solution Skits.”

12 Character Education skits

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Character education Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): How the Tortoise Got Cracks in his Shell

Story Description: The Grandmothers of the Kikuyu tribe of Kenya tell stories to teach the children important lessons like don't be greedy. One of those children, Ann Njeri Mwangi, orally shared this tale with me in 1990. Many of the birds were invited to a party in Heaven. Tortoise convinced them that a way must be found to bring him along as he was such a Sweet Talker. Read about his elaborate con job. Listen to this Character Education tale and see if you agree it also has a strong message about the necessity of being a strong Leader and Trustworthy.

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Character education Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): How to tactfully handle acquaintances who leach on to you

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the importance of the Character Education traits of Caring & Giving, Leadership, Tolerance & Allowing, Valuing & Respecting Self, and Valuing & Respecting Others. Jenny never wanted a school shooting to happen at her school. Her solution: Find and befriend an outcast. Her problem: The loner she found, Anne, began to follow her around everywhere she went. How could Jenny still be Anne’s friend yet maintain her own personal boundaries? Additional Note: Sometimes, when we become an advocate for someone perceived as a loner or outcast, that person can suddenly expect you to become his or her best friend. So, in that case, it is important to learn an assertive way of handling that situation.

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Character education Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Making Friends with Kids from Other Schools

Story Description: I used to teach at a middle school that had 6 feeder schools: 3 were K-6 and 3 were K-5. The newly entered sixth-and seventh-graders found it challenging to meet so many news kids. This story addresses the best way to expand your network of friends.

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Back to school game: The getting acquainted treasure hunt

Create small group role-plays about how to form new friendships

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Character education Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Sarah and Jennifer End Their Friendship

Story Description: While Jennifer was out sick, Sarah hears rumors that Jennifer had been saying bad things about her. When Jennifer returns to school, Sarah verbally attacks her. Can their friendship be saved? This story demonstrates the importance of checking your facts. It also demonstrates the importance of finding a balance between the Character Education traits of Valuing& Respecting Self and Valuing & Respecting Others.

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Character education Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Three Outcomes for Denise

Story Description: This story demonstrates the three different outcomes to conflict: LOSE-LOSE, WIN-LOSE, and WIN-WIN. It also illustrates three character education traits: Valuing & Respecting Self, Valuing & Respecting Others, and Valuing & Respecting Authority. See if you can figure out when each happens.

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Resources

Multiple Bullying Prevention Articles Resources on Pinterest

Multiple Anti-Bullying, Be Bully Free Videos on Pinterest

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Learning how to be Bully Free: Middle school basic skills lesson plans

2012-10-24T22:13:00.001-07:00

To help promote students learning anti-bullying techniques, here are four (4) basic skills lesson plans appropriate for grades five to eight.

Each lesson includes nine sections:

Section 1: Lesson Objectives
Section 2: K-W-L MODEL discussion (‘K’ and ‘W’ questions)
Section 3: Vocabulary
Section 4: Story
Section 5: Popcorn Review
Section 6: Role-Play
Section 7: Bloom’s Taxonomy discussion questions
Section 8: Writing assignment
Section 9: K-W-L MODEL discussion (‘L’ questions)

These field-tested lessons are totally self-contained. They come with teaching posters and role-play downloads – all for FREE. Everything you need is there for you simply by clicking on the links. Feel free to copy and paste them onto your computer so that you can use them with your classroom students.

One of the ways students learn about character education techniques, conflict resolution strategies, and anti-bullying processes is to try them on for size. Through the use of engaging stories and fun role-plays about realistic middle school students, young people start to incorporate the concepts taught in each lesson.

These lessons were all utilized in a class called ‘Communication Skills’. The author, Debbie Dunn, taught over 500 middle school students (Grades 5-8) a year for five years until a budget-cut eliminated many of the school’s special extracurricular programs. During that time period, she created over 3000 pages of curriculum based on real middle school conflict resolution and anti-bullying issues.

For the benefit of middle school students, middle school teachers, guidance counselors, and concerned parents, the author posts many of these lesson plans on Examiner.com. Feel free to subscribe to Debbie Dunn’s school conflict resolution Examiner page should you wish to keep abreast of each lesson as it gets posted.

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Basic skills Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): A False Rumor about Brittany

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the importance of checking your facts when rumors are being spread, Basic Needs, working for a WIN-WIN Outcome, and the Peer Mediation process. Brittany discovers that either Christy or Sarah has spread a false rumor that she has cheated on her boyfriend named Corey. Will Brittany discover who really started the rumor and why? Will Corey believe that she was innocent and take her back?

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Basic skills Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): It All Happened Because Mark Overslept and Missed Breakfast

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about that conflict happens when one or more of your Basic Needs get messed with. Either you have conflict within yourselves and you feel frustrated, angry, or depressed; or conflict happens with others and you get into an argument or a fight. But sometimes, conflict can happen from something as simple as being sleepy, sick, or hungry. Listen to this story about Mark and the chain reaction of actions that happened as a result of what was going wrong with him.

Sequel tale Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about why conflict happens. Mr. Campbell, a middle school Communication Skills teacher, teaches his class about the fact that conflict happens when our Basic Needs get messed with. He also introduces the concepts of Passive, Aggressive, and Assertive Responses to Conflict.

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Basic skills Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Oscar the Outcast

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about the importance of being an advocate for someone who is viewed as being an outcast and loner. Oscar is a middle school student who is viewed as an outcast at his school. No one will sit with him. No one will be his friend. The only ones who talk to him are the bullies who constantly put him down and push him around. Oscar has no idea how to fix or change things for the better. Then one day, a new girl enters his homeroom.

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Basic skills Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Who will make the Princess Laugh?

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach all about our Basic Needs. This is a story about a Princess who has never laughed and a goofy guy named Jack. The story was inspired by Richard Chase’s story called “Jack and the King’s Girl” found in his book called THE JACK TALES.

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Resources

Multiple Bullying Prevention Articles Resources on Pinterest

Multiple Anti-Bullying, Be Bully Free Videos on Pinterest

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Learning how to be Bully Free: Middle school anger management lesson plans

2012-10-24T21:42:00.000-07:00

To help promote students learning anti-bullying techniques, here are seven (7) anger management lesson plans appropriate for grades five to eight.

Each lesson includes nine sections:

Section 1: Lesson Objectives
Section 2: K-W-L MODEL discussion (‘K’ and ‘W’ questions)
Section 3: Vocabulary
Section 4: Story
Section 5: Popcorn Review
Section 6: Role-Play
Section 7: Bloom’s Taxonomy discussion questions
Section 8: Writing assignment
Section 9: K-W-L MODEL discussion (‘L’ questions)

These field-tested lessons are totally self-contained. They come with teaching posters and role-play downloads – all for FREE. Everything you need is there for you simply by clicking on the links. Feel free to copy and paste them onto your computer so that you can use them with your classroom students.

One of the ways students learn about character education techniques, conflict resolution strategies, and anti-bullying processes is to try them on for size. Through the use of engaging stories and fun role-plays about realistic middle school students, young people start to incorporate the concepts taught in each lesson.

These lessons were all utilized in a class called ‘Communication Skills’. The author, Debbie Dunn, taught over 500 middle school students (Grades 5-8) a year for five years until a budget-cut eliminated many of the school’s special extracurricular programs. During that time period, she created over 3000 pages of curriculum based on real middle school conflict resolution and anti-bullying issues.

For the benefit of middle school students, middle school teachers, guidance counselors, and concerned parents, the author posts many of these lesson plans on Examiner.com. Feel free to subscribe to Debbie Dunn’s school conflict resolution Examiner page should you wish to keep abreast of each lesson as it gets posted.

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Anger Management Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Angry Blake

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Anger Management Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Control your anger with SPAM

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about a unique Anger Management method. The story is called “Control Your Anger With SPAM.” Emily and Mike have a great deal of trouble keeping control of their temper. A guidance counselor teach them a method of Anger Management that works called SPAM, like the meat, only it is not something to eat. (S.P.A.M. = Stop-Ponder-Appreciate-Moment)

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Anger Management Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Her First Kiss

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about resolving conflict with friends.

It is normal and natural to feel angry or sad when someone disrespects you in some way. What do you do if you are the person who is in the wrong? How do you make amends if you realize that you are the one who accidentally or purposely mistreated a friend?

Here is a true story about a sixth-grade girl named Debbie who did just that. There will be two role-plays to follow that tie in with this story. The discussion questions are built into each role-play, so other than a Popcorn Review, there will be no additional discussion questions at the end. The story is called “Her First Kiss.”

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Anger Management Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Matt Falsely Accuses Jonathan of Stealing

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about Anger Triggers, Anger Cues, our Fight or Flight Instinct, and Self-Mentoring techniques. This story is about a boy not only making a false accusation of a good friend, he punches him in the nose. Will his friend agree to forgive him? Find out in the story called “Matt falsely accuses Jonathan of Stealing.”

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Anger Management Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Pranks, Idle Threats, & Promises

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about Anger Triggers, Anger Cues, and Anger Management techniques. This story demonstrates that it is not appropriate to make threats or promises to administer bodily harm at school. The action of making threats or pulling pranks can often backfire as it did for Greg, Tim, and Bruce in this story called “Pranks, Idle Threats, and Promises.”

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Anger Management Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Sam Self-Mentors versus Psychological Warfare

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach about Anger Triggers, Anger Cues, and Anger Management techniques. The story is called “Sam Self-Mentors rather than giving in to Psychological Warfare.” Sam was overwhelmed. Due to his Dad’s drinking and rage, Mr. Duncan lost his job, his wife, and moved his son to a new town. Adding to all the other losses, Sam’s new best friend Drew deserted him to join Shawn’s gang. What will Sam do now that Shawn and his gang are starting to play their psychological warfare games on him?

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Anger Management Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): SPAM and Stairstep Thinking

Story Description: Here is a story scenario you can use to help teach further details about a unique Anger Management method called S.P.A.M. The story is called “SPAM and Stairstep Thinking.” Jason is offended and angry that Blake put him down. The rest of the morning went from bad to worse. At lunch, his best friend Lee taught him how to use the SPAM method of anger management and Stairstep Thinking to psych himself into feeling better again.

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Resources

Multiple Bullying Prevention Articles Resources on Pinterest

Multiple Anti-Bullying, Be Bully Free Videos on Pinterest

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Voki videos for Matt falsely accuses Jonathan of stealing

2012-10-14T21:35:00.000-07:00

	Here is a sneak preview of the story about Matt falsely accusing his good friend, Jonathan, of stealing. Will their friendship survive? Matt falsely accuses Jonathan of stealing.






To read the rest of the story, click on this link. Matt falsely accuses Jonathan of stealing.	Click below for other parts of this lesson plan for middle school students, teachers, guidance counselors, and home-schooling parents. Lesson Plan links

Chapter 5 of 12: Middle School Anti-Bullying series by Debbie Dunn

2011-10-12T07:12:00.000-07:00

Bullies, Bystanders, and Victims Middle School lesson plan: Chapter 5 of 12

Middle School students who participate in this set of twelve lesson plans focusing on Bullies, Bystanders of Bullying, and Victims of bullying-type behavior will receive the following benefits:

(1) They will become skilled in using the eight (8) tools of Anger Control developed by Dr. Tony Fiore. (Many thanks goes to Dr. Tony Fiore, also known as the Anger Coach, for freely providing these techniques to my readers. See more info about him in resource section.)

(2) Students who have been identified as bullies should decrease the instances of bullying-type behavior.

(3) Victims of bullying and bystanders of bullying will increase their ability to defuse bullying-type behavior.

(4) Students will increase their feelings of empathy for self and others.

Click BE BULLY FREE to read Chapter 5 of the twelve-chapter series.

Chapter 4 of 12: Middle School Anti-Bullying series by Debbie Dunn

2011-10-06T01:04:00.000-07:00

Bullies, Bystanders, and Victims Middle School lesson plan: Chapter 4 of 12

Middle School students who participate in this set of twelve lesson plans focusing on Bullies, Bystanders of Bullying, and Victims of bullying-type behavior will receive the following benefits:

(1) They will become skilled in using the eight (8) tools of Anger Control developed by Dr. Tony Fiore. (Many thanks goes to Dr. Tony Fiore, also known as the Anger Coach, for freely providing these techniques to my readers. See more info about him in resource section.)

(2) Students who have been identified as bullies should decrease the instances of bullying-type behavior.

(3) Victims of bullying and bystanders of bullying will increase their ability to defuse bullying-type behavior.

(4) Students will increase their feelings of empathy for self and others.

Click BE BULLY FREE to read Chapter 4 of the twelve-chapter series.

Chapter 3 of 12: Middle School Anti-Bullying series by Debbie Dunn

2011-10-06T01:02:00.000-07:00

Bullies, Bystanders, and Victims Middle School lesson plan: Chapter 3 of 12

Middle School students who participate in this set of twelve lesson plans focusing on Bullies, Bystanders of Bullying, and Victims of bullying-type behavior will receive the following benefits:

(1) They will become skilled in using the eight (8) tools of Anger Control developed by Dr. Tony Fiore. (Many thanks goes to Dr. Tony Fiore, also known as the Anger Coach, for freely providing these techniques to my readers. See more info about him in resource section.)

(2) Students who have been identified as bullies should decrease the instances of bullying-type behavior.

(3) Victims of bullying and bystanders of bullying will increase their ability to defuse bullying-type behavior.

(4) Students will increase their feelings of empathy for self and others.

Click BE BULLY FREE to read Chapter 3 of the twelve-chapter series.

Chapter 2 of 12: Middle School Anti-Bullying series by Debbie Dunn

2011-09-24T11:49:00.000-07:00

Bullies, Bystanders, and Victims Middle School lesson plan: Chapter 2 of 12

Middle School students who participate in this set of twelve lesson plans focusing on Bullies, Bystanders of Bullying, and Victims of bullying-type behavior will receive the following benefits:

(2) Students who have been identified as bullies should decrease the instances of bullying-type behavior.

(3) Victims of bullying and bystanders of bullying will increase their ability to defuse bullying-type behavior.

(4) Students will increase their feelings of empathy for self and others.

Click BE BULLY FREE to read Chapter 2 of the twelve-chapter series.

Chapter 1 of 12: Middle School Anti-Bullying series by Debbie Dunn

2011-09-24T11:46:00.000-07:00

Bullies, Bystanders, and Victims Middle School lesson plan: Chapter 1 of 12

Middle School students who participate in this set of twelve lesson plans focusing on Bullies, Bystanders of Bullying, and Victims of bullying-type behavior will receive the following benefits:

(2) Students who have been identified as bullies should decrease the instances of bullying-type behavior.

(3) Victims of bullying and bystanders of bullying will increase their ability to defuse bullying-type behavior.

(4) Students will increase their feelings of empathy for self and others.

Click BE BULLY FREE to read Chapter 1 of the twelve-chapter series.

Middle School lesson plan: The Confrontation

2011-09-14T09:10:00.000-07:00

This is a Perception lesson plan for grades 5 to 9. It is built around a story called "The Confrontation." Steps 1 to 9 include the links to all nine sections of the lesson.

Joshua’s best friend Zach leaned over to Dustin and complained about their classmate George asking a dumb question in math class. Later on, Dustin purposely told George what Zach had said about him. The next day, George found Zach and pushed and hit him in revenge before running off. Will the confrontation keep going, or will the boys find a way to make amends?

Click PERCEPTION LESSON PLAN to be able to read the entire lesson plan on Examiner.com.

Middle School lesson plan: Joshua’s Experiment In Sending Positive Peer Pressure

2011-09-14T09:07:00.000-07:00

This is a Perception lesson plan for grades 5 to 9. It is built around a story called "Joshua’s Experiment In Sending Positive Peer Pressure." Steps 1 to 9 include the links to all nine sections of the lesson.

Eighth grader Joshua was invited to a party at Dustin’s house. Dustin did his best to negatively peer pressure Joshua into drinking a beer. In return, Joshua did his best to positively peer pressure Dustin into drinking a Pepsi. Who will win?

Click PERCEPTION LESSON PLAN to be able to read the entire lesson plan on Examiner.com.

Middle School lesson plan: Making Friends with Kids from Other Schools

2011-09-05T23:32:00.000-07:00

This is a Character Education lesson plan for grades 5 to 9. It is built around a story called "Making Friends with Kids from Other Schools." Links to all eleven sections of the lesson are included.

Story Description: I used to teach at a middle school that had 6 feeder schools: 3 were K-6 and 3 were K-5. The newly entered sixth-and seventh-graders found it challenging to meet so many news kids. This story addresses the best way to expand your network of friends.

Click CHARACTER EDUCATION to get access to all eleven links of this lesson plan posted on Examiner.com.

Self Mentoring Lesson Plans 1 to 5 for Middle School Students

2011-09-05T23:28:00.000-07:00

Self Mentoring Lesson Plans 1 to 5 for Middle School Students

Do you wish to teach your middle school students about some great ways to self-mentor themselves when they are feeling stressed?

Click on the link at the bottom of this blog to get access to all five lesson plans that could help.

Self-Mentoring Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8) – Hyena’s dilemma at a fork in the path

Self-Mentoring Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8)-Jesse needs to learn to set firm boundaries

Self-Mentoring Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8) – Jacob Listens to his Inner Wisdom

Self-Mentoring Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8): Jerry Checks His Facts

Self-Mentoring Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8): Who Really Started the Rumor about Cindy?

Click SELF-MENTORING to get access to all five lesson plans.

Perception Lesson Plans 1 to 9 for Middle School Students

2011-09-05T23:24:00.000-07:00

Perception Lesson Plans 1 to 9 for Middle School Students

Do you wish to teach your middle school students about the importance of Perception? Click on the link at the bottom of this blog to get access to all nine lesson plans that could help.

Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8): Six Blind Men and the Elephant

Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8): Christy and Laura Both Like Brandon

Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8): Clever Angie Thinks Fast (grades 6-8)

Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8): The Misunderstanding (grades 6-8)

Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8): Roxanne and Courtney Jump to the Wrong Conclusions (grades 6-8)

Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8): Frogs and Newts or Gold Coins

Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8): Jessica's Painful Experience

Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8): Jessica and Tonya Combine Their Resources

Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8): Julie's Big Challenge

Click PERCEPTION to get access to all nine lesson plans.

Fight or Flight Lesson Plans 1 to 4 for Middle School Students

2011-09-05T23:20:00.000-07:00

Fight or Flight Lesson Plans 1 to 4 for Middle School Students

Do you wish to teach your middle school students about some great ways to deal with their fight or flight instincts?

Click on the link at the bottom of this blog to get access to all four lesson plans that could help.

Fight or Flight Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8) – Tyler Chooses between Dennis and Shawn’s gang

Fight or Flight Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8) – A Mediation session with Shawn, Tyler, and Dennis

Fight or Flight Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8) – Bully Jake & Eddie plus Sequel

Fight or Flight Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8) – Thicken Your Skin to Put-Downs

Click FIGHT OR FLIGHT to get access to all four lesson plans.

Diplomacy Lesson Plans 1 to 4 for Middle School Students

2011-09-05T23:16:00.000-07:00

Diplomacy Lesson Plans 1 to 4 for Middle School Students

Do you wish to teach your middle school students about using I Messages and some great ways to be diplomatic with each other and with authority figures? Click on the link at the bottom of this blog to get access to all four lesson plans that could help.

Diplomacy Lesson Plan (Grades 4-8) – First Lesson in Diplomacy

Diplomacy Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8): Ted's Use of Diplomacy Saved the Day (grades 4-8)

Diplomacy Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8): Denny Teaches Tom to Eat Crow

Diplomacy Lesson Plan (Grades 4-8) – Johnny and Susan

Click DIPLOMACY to get access to all four lesson plans.

Communication Skills Lesson Plans 1 to 5 for Middle School Students

2011-09-05T23:11:00.000-07:00

Communication Skills Lesson Plans 1 to 5 for Middle School Students

Do you wish to teach your middle school students about using good communication skills techniques? Students will also learn the difference between responsible reporting and tattling or snitching. Click on the link at the bottom of this blog to get access to all five lesson plans that could help.

Communication Skills Lesson Plan (Grades 4-8) – Fred learns to make Good Observations

Communication Skills Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8): Little Red-Riding-Hood and Omega Wolf Bert

Communication Skills Lesson Plan (Grades 4-8) – Goofy Jane

Communication Skills Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8): Josh Takes a Risk (grades 4-8)

Communication Skills Lesson Plan (Grades 6-8) – Dennis Learns about Responsible Reporting

Click COMMUNICATION SKILLS to get access to all five lesson plans.

Conflict Resolution Info

Angry Blake: Middle school lesson plan links

Angry Blake

Learning how to be Bully Free: Middle school hero’s journey lesson plans set 2

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Little Jack receives his 'call to adventure'

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Little Jack crosses the 'first threshold'

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Little Jack approaches the 'inmost cave'

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Little Jack goes through a 'supreme ordeal'

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Little Jack's cousin Jordan comes for a long visit

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Little Jack's reward

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Little Jack's got it all figured out

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Learning how to be Bully Free: Middle school hero’s journey lesson plans set 1

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): The Ball

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): The Drum

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): The Dance

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): The Heart

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): The Word

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): The Feeling

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): The Star

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Resources

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Learning how to be Bully Free: Middle school self-mentoring lesson plans

==================== Self-mentoring Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Hyena’s dilemma at a fork in the path

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Self-mentoring Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Jacob Listens to his Inner Wisdom

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Self-mentoring Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Jerry Checks His Facts

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Self-mentoring Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Jesse needs to learn to set firm boundaries

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Self-mentoring Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Who Really Started the Rumor about Cindy?

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Resources

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Learning how to be Bully Free: Middle school perception lesson plans

==================== Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Christy and Laura Both Like Brandon

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Clever Angie Thinks Fast

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Frogs and Newts or Gold Coins

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Jessica's Painful Experience

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Jessica and Tonya Combine Their Resources

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Joshua's Experiment in sending Positive Peer Pressure

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): The Confrontation

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Roxanne and Courtney Jump to the Wrong Conclusions

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Six Blind Men and the Elephant

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): The Misunderstanding

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Wild Boar

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): The 'ordinary world' of Little Jack

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Hero’s journey Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Water of Life

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Self-mentoring Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Hyena’s dilemma at a fork in the path

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Perception Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Christy and Laura Both Like Brandon

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Diplomacy Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): Denny Teaches Tom to Eat Crow

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‘Fight or Flight’ Lesson Plan (Grades 5-8): A Mediation session with Shawn, Tyler, and Dennis