Couple With a Passion ...

What does being vegetarian and eating organic have to do with great sex?

2011-04-29T17:09:00.000-07:00

Leigh says:
Lately we have been changing our habits - eating habits that is - to being more green. We are already vegetarians bordering on vegan, but I so enjoy cheese and find that very hard to give up! So you may ask.. if you are a vegetarian - how can you get more green... well you can:

We started ordering a weekly organic vegie and fruit box (approx. 10kg total weight)and the challenge is to eat it all until next weeks box arrives. That means that you eat what is in season, so sometimes there are a lot of asparagus and sometimes a lot of pumpkin (and when I say a lot - I mean a LOT ha!). Also when it is organic it means that the shape is not all perfect and you actually see bugs there too (they are gently put outside in the graden to find something else to munch on) but it is so refreshing to have food that other natural creatures will want to eat.
So our morning starts off with a wonderful juice from celery, beetroot, lemon, apple, ginger or whatever is there. Then for lunch we have salad and dinner I try and make something delicious out of the veggies.. spinach pie, pumpkin soup, roasted tons of veggies, pizza with aubergine and mushrooms (and a little bit of cheese) and so on.

The thing that we struggle the most to get through is the fruit but at the end of the week I juice it all and we have a wonderful fruit juice.

Every week it is exciting to unpack the boxes and line it all up. Already when I do that my head starts to spin with ideas (although.. I do need some more ideas on what to do with pumpkins!) then it is all about storing it. There is never enough room in the fridge and besides the fridge is too cold (even on the warmest setting) and it makes all the leafy stuff go limp. Find a good place for the bananas - far away from everything else - without it being too far and you forget that you have them.

It is funny with me trying to get the fridge warmer.. normally people want to have it very cold to prevent bacteria spreading between your items in the fridge.. as a vegetarian you don't have that problem.. there is no contamination and you can use your chopping board for anything and never get sick.. interesting isn't it?

And back to the subject of one of my other interests:
One of the most rewarding things about being vegetarian is the Mike's sperm tastes sooooo goooood!

Mike says:
Well I guess reading the above, most of our readers might have been asking, "What has got to do with sex?".......and you got an answer in Leigh's last line.

The truth is, however, being healthy does wonders for your sex life. Yes the sperm does better (I'm told) because meat and dairy affect the flavour badly.

But there's also nothing better than having a good weight and shape. It makes you feel attractive to you yourself, your partner.... and other people tooo....:)

We're both vegetarian for health reasons rather than anything about wanting to save the planet. If you find good organic food, and gradually replace the meat in your diet, you'll find you won't miss it at all.

And coincidentally, the sex has never been better......

New Book: How to Introduce Your Lover to Swinging

2011-04-21T20:43:00.000-07:00

Just released! our new book, "How To Introduce Your Lover To Swinging - The Loving Approach to Dealing with Fears or Reluctance."

After the publication of my earlier book, "How To Turn Your Wife Into a Swinger" the feedback was hugely positive, but two things became apparent:

1) The title: 'turning' a woman 'into' something made some people feel uncomfortable, and
2) It was aimed only at men.

So I have completely rewritten the book, added some new material (for men AND women) and tightened the writing considerably. I'm really excited with the result and the feedback has already been great.

This book is written specifically for anyone in a relationship who would like to massively improve their sexual intimacy. You'll discover (if you haven't already) that for both people to feel comfortable - and sexy - enough in a relationship to try swinging, there has to be a huge degree of trust and communication. This book shows you how to do that, using some very powerful strategies that I have developed after studying dozens of successful swingers' relationships.

So if you want to have a lot more fun in your sexual relationship, give this book a try.
And yes the methods described WILL work for just about anyone.

Here's the link to get your copy: www.swingwithyourwife.com

It is also available at the Amazon Kindle Store.

Do we like porn?

2011-04-07T17:12:00.000-07:00

We sometimes get asked whether we like porn and if so how often we watch it.
Well the answer is yes we do like it, but finding porn that we both like and enjoy watching together is not that easy.

It's something that can make for a great night..... snuggle down with a movie, some candles, a bottle of wine, soft rugs..... and who knows where it might lead.

For other couples thinking of sharing porn together..... great idea! Here's a few tips from us....
Firstly, remember watching is only one ingredient in the 'recipe' for sexy fun. Start the foreplay a couple of days earlier (well, actually preferably all the time) with lots of erotic touch, suggestion, and arranging other situations that you can turn into something erotic (such as skinnydipping and secluded walks).

Secondly, if it's a new experience for you both, start with something 'soft'. There are some wonderfully erotic movies which you can rent from the video store. Here's a few of the best - we're making our way through the list!:
- Eyes Wide Shut
- Intimite (Intimacy)
- 9 1/2 Weeks
- Y tu mama tambien (And Your Mother Too)
- Henry & June
- Angels and Insects
- The Pillow Book
- Confidences trop intimes (Intimate Strangers)
- Les innocents (The Dreamers)
- Secretary
- Wild Orchid
- Last Tango in Paris
- The Story of O

(Many of these are European films, with subtitles.)

2) If you want something more hardcore, bear in mind that most porn is made specifically for men rather than couples. So, in looking for something to watch as a couple, our advice would be to choose either:

a) High quality porn made specifically for couples. Our absolute favourite is:

www.vivthomas.com
(Some great free stuff although it is definitely worth becoming a member. The film quality is stunning, actors lovely and the storylines better than most).

b) Amateur or 'reality' porn. You might want to check out something like:
www.backroomcastingcouch.com

(This may or may not be your partner's cup of tea....but it might start some interesting conversation....! This is rather more realistic than many other amateur sites and we get a laugh out of it, although it does a lot more for Mike than Leigh, as you would expect)

Yes porn can be a great way to spice up your sex life. I hope these suggestions help!

Have fun,

Mike & Leigh

Libidos in Synch - Hit or Miss?

2011-03-29T18:14:00.000-07:00

Mike says:
I'm an incredibly lucky guy. I have a beautiful woman who I fall asleep with every night - and who jumps on me every morning wanting sex!!!
Actually, this is a little bit of an exaggeration..... She doesn't jump on me every morning, sometimes I jump on her. But the truth is we have a wonderful sex life and make love virtually every morning. The passion seems as great as when we met.
But sometimes I feel our libidos out of synch. There are some mornings when I am just not that keen. I feel a bit guilty about this sometimes, but I've become increasingly aware of a few things that, no matter how passionate your relationship is, might still be there. they are:
1) Libido can and does go in cycles, and can be affected by many things such as work pressures, climate (extreme heat makes me feel less like wet sex), general energy.
2) The fact that your libido isn't always matched and you're not always white hot for each other doesn't mean your relationship is waning or even becoming any less passionate. However obviously the novelty does wear off (although the sight of Leigh is still as exciting for me as when I first saw her).

I'm not a believer in excuses for low libido being the cause of a cooling relationship. In my book "How To Turn Your Wife Into a Swinger" a deal a lot with ways to really keep the passion sizzling in your relationship. But here's a couple of things that work for us when one or the other is not in the mood and the other is rearing to go......

1) If your first strategy doesn't work try another. If your partner says "sorry darling, I'm just not in the mood for sex" you have two choices - roll over and go to sleep or try a different approach. Leigh and I have a couple of approaches that we know are an almost certain turn-on even when we get the initial shrug-off. For her it's when I kiss her on the back of the neck. And for me.....mmmm.....she has this wonderful way of leaning over me and brushing her tits across my chest that gets old Mr Happy standing at attention instantly!
2) Find some novelty and variety. Go to that swingers club (you only have to watch), have a threesome (or at least talk about it), go for a skinny dip at a nearby beach, watch an erotic film together, talk about some of your fantasies - there's lots of things you can do to spice up your sex life. Take sex back to what it was when you first met, an adventure of discoveries and fun.

There's nothing better than a great sexual relationship, even despite all the pressures of life. Keep it fresh and exciting...... oh and Leigh, I think I need a chest rub......mmmm....

Leigh says:
It would be very odd if a couple always were on the same wavelength libido wise and sometimes you have to put in some effort to get what you want... but isn't that also the fun part of it?
Darling Mike: Come here - open your shirt and I will rub it - even while I do the dinner..lol

Some Great Reviews For Our Book

2011-03-17T16:13:00.000-07:00

We've been thrilled by the reaction to Mike's new book, "How To Turn Your Wife Into A Swinger". Not only is it selling well but we've had some great reviews as well.

Chantelle Austin, one of our favorite swinging and sex therapists, had this to say:

"I loved that this ebook went deeper than I expected; it’s more than just getting more sex and sex with other people. With a title like that I was skeptical about the content and thought it might have stayed with more surface level how-to; providing no substance but a titillating title. I’m glad to say I am more than happy to be wrong on this occasion.

In all honesty, this ebook focuses on what a man really needs to do in order to create a solid relationship and THAT is what gets more sex and creates the opportunity for the relationship to explore swinging. It’s brilliant! Oh wait; did I just give the punchline away? Oh well, even those who aren’t interested in swinging would gain a great deal from the relationship building content.

For someone who is not formally working as a coach or relationship therapist, Mike Andrews has the experience and has clearly done his research; it’s obvious that personal development is a passion of his. He uses principles that I also use to help couples create better relationships! He has basically written the book I had intended to write but if the truth be known, I think he’s done a better job of it than I would have! Now THAT is saying something!

It’s very easy to read, it’s humourous and witty while providing extraordinary value."

(You can read her full review on here website at http://www.chantelleaustin.com/reviews-how-to-turn-your-wife-into-a-swinger)

And from Rebecca Ammon at http://blogs.creativeloafing.com/dailyloaf/2011/03/17/ebook-review-how-to-turn-your-wife-into-a-swinger/:

"The author, Mike Andrews, has a good grasp on why swingers swing and conversely dispels the notion that real swingers are cheaters uninterested in their current partner, or out to hurt one another. This ebook teaches you how to discuss the plausibility of swinging with your partner. Whether your partner is male or female, the suggested thought process will help you broach the subject, which can be difficult for some."

We think the book will do a lot for the sexual relationship of all couples, whether you really want to be a swinger or not, so we hope you'll give our book a try!

For more information and to purchase your copy go here:
www.swingwithyourwife.com

And don't forget to send us YOUR success story!

Mike & Leigh

MMF is easy - but everything else?

2011-03-15T21:49:00.000-07:00

From Mike:
Well espite our efforts with couples and girls, it seems we're only having luck at the moment in expanding our sexual fun with single guys.
It's not really for want of trying....
We've messaged a number of women on swingers and dating sites. We've even met a couple (see our earlier post). Of the two we met one turned out to be very overweight (sorry, one of my turn-offs; my fault for not insisting on a body photo before we met) although with a nice personality. The other was very nice indeed and seemed keen; however she hasn't responded to our messages since. Oh well....

We've also met a few couples. The latest was one who lives in a nearby town. After exchanging a couple of messages online we agreed to meet at a nearby beach, very secluded and known as a clothing-optional spot. It's a place we've only recently discovered but is breathtaking and wonderful for swimming (sans swimsuit of course). Skinnydipping in the ocean might not be everyone's idea of an ideal first meeting with potential sexual playmates but at least we all got to check each other out properly....:).
Anyway, they seemed pleasant enough. Both of them weren't slim but they weren't overweight either. She was nicely shaved (like Leigh).
But there's so much more that seems to have to line up for us to want to play sexually with people. And although you could say it's just about sex and nothing more, there actually IS a lot more to it. It's the whole interplay of personalities, connecting on all sorts of levels. All of this is even more important than raw physical beauty when it comes to attraction.
And when you're struggling to find things to talk about after five minutes you know there's probably not much of a mind connection.
As we parted company the comment was passed around that maybe meeting on a nude beach was not the best form of introduction. A couple of drinks in a bar (fully clothed!) might have provided a better venue for breaking the ice. And who knows, the end result might have been different. After all, if what we are looking for is new experiences to explore, then a different atmosphere might have created a spontaneous sexual charge.
Not long after we got back they sent us a message saying they'd be keen to meet again for a 'drink and some fun'. They're keen - and they made it clear they were looking for 'no strings fun' but are we? Are we looking for something more, or perhaps after a couple of drinks (red wine for me; margheritas for Leigh....) would we say "What the hell let's go for it......"
That's what I love about sharing sexual adventures with my beautiful partner. It's just such a fascinating journey of learning about your own thoughts and feelings in an endless array of situations.

Leigh Says:
Although I do really like that we are having luck on the MMF front (blush.. blush) I still would like Mike to experience the same sort of pleasure.. so we will keep working at it...

In regards to couples I am probably coming to the conclusion that it would be great just to meet someone that we can have a laugh with and it might eventually end up being erotic.. so perhaps we need a change of tactics..

Swingers Parties - Is It Just Us?

2011-02-15T14:49:00.000-08:00

Last week we attended out second-ever swingers party. It was advertised on one of the swingers sites we are members of and held in a private house on the other side of town. It was organised by the same people who put together the first party we attended a year ago. We were disappointed by that experience but we thought, oh well, perhaps it was worth another try.

We arrived quite early and there were just a few couples there. By 10pm there were approx 25 couples, one or two of whom seemed quite nice.... Just one or two? Yes, well call us picky (and why shouldn't we be..) but overweight just doesn't do anything for us, and that's what the majority seemed to be.

Well by about midnight things started to heat up a bit. We were sitting outside chatting to two couples when a naked guy appeared carrying an equally naked woman. They proceeded to have sex on the outdoor table, about 4 inches from us! Sorry, not a turn on.

By about 1am we decided to leave. This was a really disappointing event, not at all erotic or the fun we had hoped it might be.

So what was the problem?

Well we've come to the conclusion that 'public' private parties are not for us and have some inherent problems. You don't know who you're going to meet and so the chances of finding compatible couples can be low. Of course, the same can be true of clubs.

Perhaps the biggest problem with this particular party was the venue. 20+ couples in a one-bedroom flat? No chance of slipping away privately for some fun.

We got some ideas and would love to host a private party - with a few couples we already know and in an environment large enough to give people privacy if they want it.

Does anyone else have any experience of private parties or ideas on putting one on?

The Essential Guide For Adventurous Couples

2011-01-30T02:12:00.000-08:00

Hot on the heels of our own book, "How To Turn Your Wife Into A Swinger" is another book which we had the pleasure of reading and which is quite complementary. Called "The Essential Guide For Adventurous Couples" by Chantelle Austin it contains pretty-well everything a couple needs to know about an adventurous sexual lifestyle. Beginning with the various reasons why a couple might want to become swingers it goes on to cover all the various scenarios a couple could be presented with. It includes lots of answers to things you might not have thought about.
What I particularly like is the section at the end of each chapter which contains a series of discussion questions for a couple to share. This really accentuates what open sexual exploration in a relationship is all about - communication!
Austin writes in an engaging style that is both informative and easy to read. She shares a lot of her own experiences in her own relationship and presents the swinging lifestyle in a most positive light. As she says, the benefits of swinging are that you meet some fabulous people as well as take your own relationship into a new dimension.
Whether you as a couple are already into swinging or you both want to take the plunge, you will find this a great book.
We thoroughly recommend it!
To find out more and get your own copy click here

How To Turn Your Wife Into A Swinger

2011-01-10T22:49:00.000-08:00

Are you one of those guys (and they seem to be mainly men) who would love to be involved in the swinging lifestyle yet your wife or partner isn't interested? Well we've got some great news for you... there's a new book out called "How To Turn Your Wife Into A Swinger - The Four Steps that Will Turn Any Woman Into A Sex Dynamo".

This book is quite unique in that it deals with the psychology of swinging and how, really, it's all in the mind. And once you understand the thought processes going on and how to change them, you can get some very different results.

Of course, I would think this is a great book - because I wrote it! (With lots of help from Leigh of course). But if you are finding your partner is reluctant (or if you know someone like that) I think you will find it a bit different, and extremely effective.

By the way, it's not some sleazy "take your wife to a swingers club and pray she likes it" type of book. It's not about mind control or talking her into it. No, it takes a very genuine look at the mindset of happy swinging couples and uses a bit of psychology to make your wife naturally realise that swinging is the most fun she could ever have.

Anyway, check it out and let me know what you think. And we would love to hear your success stories!

Here's where to find it: http://cwap69.tywias69.hop.clickbank.net/

Cheers

Mike

Leigh Says:
Yes Mike... it is a very captivating book and I am so proud of being your partner :-)
Guys.. if you really want to make your wife interested.. this is the book for you..

FFM Anyone?

2011-01-06T23:47:00.000-08:00

Mike says:

Well speaking of threesomes, I've always wanted to try an ffm. The thought of Leigh and another woman pleasuring me together.... whew, it gets the blood flowing in the right places. It was interesting how the thought came up. Unlike a lot of guys, it was not top of my list of fantasies I want to fulfil (couples, groups and mmf threesomes are all preferences actually). But I had been thinking more and more about what an ffm would be like, especially as Leigh seemed to be enjoying our encounters with other guys lately......

When I broached the subject with Leigh I wasn't quite sure how she would react. I got off slightly on the wrong foot with her by sharing one of my erotic dreams which was that I had seen her rubbing tits with another woman. For a start she's not bisexual so I think she thought I was wanting some girl-on-girl action.

Well, we got that one cleared up - I would be quite happy to be the centre of attention (although I would be giving as good as I got!) and, apart from it being a dream, it's not really a burning fantasy.

So, bless her heart, Leigh went online and contacted a few girls who seemed possibilities. It's a funny thing about women's profiles on dating sites - they often are a lot more subtle about expressing their interest in sex than guys. I guess women tend to get more inundated with messages for sex than the other way around.

Anyway I for one was surprised that we have had two or three positive responses and we're meeting a woman next week for a check-each-other-out drink! She seems nice, although of course you never know until you meet in person.

I keep saying it on this blog, but I'm so lucky to have Leigh as a partner. And it's wonderful that we can share our fantasies together. Oh that all couples were like that.

Roll on next week..... I'll let you know how it goes!

Leigh says:

Oh darling.. I get soft inside with your wonderful words..

Yes - we did have to talk about the girl-on-girl action.. Let me explain.. I think a lot of guys have got their wires crossed! They get turned on by two (or more) girls making it out and see them selves as being part of it. What I think they fail to understand is that if the girls are lesbians they would not want a man to participate - hence they are lesbians! I can look at a womans body and decide if it is beautiful just as well as I can with a mans body - does that make me bi curious?? I think not. I can even touch and kiss a female body and it still does not make me bisexual or curious. In our sexual encounters I have seen men have a go at different man-on-man things.. and that does not make them bi-anything either. I woman turns me on as little as a man turns an other man on... So anyway after having said all that..

It would be great to try a FFM with you darling.. and I will also give it my best :-)

What surprises me is that it is so much more difficult to find a woman than a man... but I am confident that we will have a great experience.

Getting Into Threesomes

2010-12-09T01:44:00.000-08:00

Mike says:
We've had a bit of a run on threesomes lately of the mmf kind....

....the tall, dark banker from town....his first time, and he couldn't believe his luck. Unfortunately the awe of it all was a bit much for his ability to perform on the night but he still seemed to enjoy it.

...the young Englishman backpacking around the world. We met him a couple of times and showed him our country's good-ole hospitality. Now he had stamina.....

And just last a charming guy. In an open marriage, he promised to bring his wife along next time.

What's great to see is how Leigh is really getting into it. She tells me it's the thrill of all the attention she gets. For me, it's an incredible pleasure to see her getting so much enjoyment. And of course the great comments and reaction when another guy gets the opportunity to play with her makes me feel proud and lucky to have her as my partner and lover.

We had a drink with a guy the other afternoon and he came straight out with it. "Do you like your men just one at a time or is it full on with every hole?" This got her hot straight away.... "Well, whatever way you want to use me...." she spluttered.

So yes Leigh is loving the attention and she deserves it. A more gorgeous woman you will not find.

I've been dropping a few hints about being interested in trying another woman with us in a threesome. It would be a new experience for both of us. Leigh is not bi so it would be about me.... Maybe I'll get to know what it feels like to be the centre of all that attention....!

Leigh says:
yes I sure have been enjoying these events :-) as a woman it is a wonderful feeling to be wanted by a couple of guys and getting a lot of attention. The only sad part is that I don't agree that well with condoms, so I have a nasty itch for a few days after... but I can take it! lol
I do get the hints about the ffm and it looks like I have managed to find a willing woman :-). It is not that easy to actually find an attractive and willing female - so lets hope for this one - we will keep you posted!

It would be wonderful to have some comments on threesomes.. have you tried it? did you like it? what did you like? what type was it? and so on.. please let us know..

Off to Desire

2010-11-19T17:26:00.000-08:00

Mike says:
Well we've finally made the decision.... all booked and we're off to Desire resort in Cancun in May next year!
We've heard so much about this place so it's been on our agenda for some time to check it out. We're finally taking the plunge. If you haven't heard of Desire, it's a couples-only, adults-only, all-inclusive, clothing-optional 'erotic' resort, where apparently anything and everything can happen (personally I'm looking forward to the everything...!)
Although the dress code for Leigh and myself will definitely be 'naked' for the seven days we are there, the nights will be a little more different. The dress code for dinner suggests a hint of elegance so I've been really pleased that Leigh is looking out for some nice outfits to take and wear. The new one she showed me last night was very sexy....mmmm.
So roll on May....and of course we'll be telling you all about our experiences....

Leigh says:
I too am excited.. hopefully it will be so much fun and yes I want to look sexy in the evenings...

Bondage night

2010-10-17T02:45:00.000-07:00

Leigh tells her version:

I knew that Mike had planned for us to meet with a couple in town and I was really not in the mood (as it often happens when Mike plans these meetings - but he is starting to see through me!) anyway we got there and they were not there - relief I thought - pressure off - so we can just relax and be ourselves... wrong... Mike messaged them and apparently a "meeting confirmation" message had been "lost" but they suggested to meet one hour later and we replied OK! well at least it was time enough to get a beer - which always helps my antisocial-mood. On the way back to meet them Mike asked if he should tell me about the couples profile and I just said no - but I had a feeling that we were in for something different.. that certainly got confirmed when we meet them and they pulled up "new" cuffs and put them on us right in the bar... a taste of the bondage - since they quickly found out the we had never done anything like that before - they started to explain and in a very good way that made us curious yet comfortable enough for us to try it.

That is why we found ourselves in the car a few evenings later on our way to our first dom / sub situation... neither of us were in our element, but we agreed that we had to try it! They were doms and we both subs.

When we came in I noticed that she was in very little clothing - he was normally dressed - and she had tattoos all over her body. Neither of them was in my opinion particularly attractive - but then that was not was it was about. And anyway it didn't really matter much because soon after we found ourselves blindfolded and handcuffed to the couch next to each other! We were holding hands and they did encourage us to keep touching each other (at least for a while..) just as a reassurance all while we were being tied up and losing our clothes.

I could hear and feel that they were doing something to Mike and he didn't like it - I worked out that they were putting nipple clamps on him - his hand was squeezing mine and in the end he asked to have them taken off.. even that was a bit of a mission and still he was not enjoying it. Of course I was next.. my nipples are not that sensitive (lucky for me..ha) and I ended up with a whole row of wooden pegs on both my breasts and then I felt my nipples suddenly very sensitive and I think that they were either sucking them or just massaging them but it did feel nice.

Then the sound of a whip on Mike.. slowly and soft at first.. and then on me.. it was a soft leather one and it felt nice when it was just caressing you.. but then.. wack... and then soft again... Then we both got whipped over and over.. not knowing if it was hard wack one time or soft caressing on the skin. I could tell again that Mike did not enjoy it and when I took my hand to face to kiss him.. we both got our hands tied up.

Sometimes they would leave the room.. I don't know what they did.. but they often came back with some new toy... while they were out.. we would whisper to each other.. and make sure we were ok.. I tended to giggle a bit.. it just seemed quit comical at times.

Things suddenly took a turn for more action and I lost touch with what was happening to Mike. I had ice cubes on my nipples and down my belly. My legs got spread and I felt a tongue on my clit and I got fingered (a bit too rough for me..) and I didn't really get turned on. Suddenly I had a tit in my mouth and was told to suck it hard.. I did! Then they both stood up in the couch - me with a cock in my mouth and I guess.. Mike with a pussy on his face.. just guessing here :-)

In between we were kindly given a sip of wine and a kiss on the neck.. and then back to being spanked.. sometimes hard sometimes soft and then a bit of licking and fingering.. (still a bit too rough for my taste!) then I could hear that Mike was getting close to an orgasm while I didn't know how he was being helped.. it did turn me on and hearing him come was very nice indeed.. then I felt a drip of something cold on my tits and I could smell the wonderful smell of Mike's cum... a finger was put in my mouth with more cum on and then a spoon full of cum... mmm.. a soft whisper in my ear: "I know what you want - and I will give it to you" then the feel of a womans tongue on my clit.. with the right pressure.. finally.. lol.. still very intense and I could tell that she was not going to stop until I had had a release... It came.. a bit out of the blue.. and quite different from my normal orgasms.. hmm.. longer.. but not actually better...

Then I thought we were finished.. but no... first we had to get our bottoms smacked.. very very hard.. and stupid me... it took me 4 smacks to find out that I had to count down and not up.. =ONE HOT BOTTOM

After that.. we all sort of had enough and we were released..

My conclusion: I find the whole scene a bit comical and a few times I did end up giggling... I probably got a few more smacks for that. I found it being blindfolded interesting and not knowing what was happening next.. but the smacking does not turn me on.

Mike says:
Hey Leigh I just love you for your adventurous spirit and your willingness to try this. However, although I will try anything (at least) once my heart tells me this wasn't really my thing. The blindfolding certainly made it interesting (although I would have got a lot more turned on being able to watch) but the spanking and pain just isn't me.
They were a very considerate couple weren't they? And I'm certainly really glad we tried it.
There are certain aspects I could appreciate and would probably like to explore again.....
In particular, being part of a group where the women have to be 'available' to any of the men. And I have a fantasy of giving you to another man for his pleasure....mmm, interesting....
(Reminds me of that wonderful film we watched together, "The Story of O".)
Anyway, another interesting experience.... what's next?

Afternoon Adventure

2010-10-09T21:32:00.000-07:00

From Mike:
We met Roger for a coffee after connecting with him online. He was a good-looking, polite guy, never played with a couple before but keen.... In fact, by merely showing up he proved he was keen....so many guys seem to be all talk but flake when it comes to actually meeting.

So we invited him around one afternoon. Having two guys (or more) is probably Leigh's favourite fantasy so I was pleased when the day arrived!

Roger came to our house and explained he couldn't stay long.... he'd taken a break from work but had to get back to a meeting. Short and quick was not really my idea of getting Leigh relaxed and in the mood but we decided to go ahead anyway. After all, he did actually show up......!

We all went downstairs and Roger excused himself for the bathroom. He returned to find Leigh and myself in a passionate kiss on the bed. She was down to her (stunning) lingerie so I could sense Roger getting very excited as he set eyes on Leigh's lovely half-naked body.

I invited him over to join us. He didn't need to be asked twice! As Leigh knelt on the bed Roger joined me in exploring her body and (quite quickly) getting her out of her remaining clothes. Roger seemed quite skilled with all the hooks.....

We then both gently lay Leigh on her back and proceeded to caress and stroke her all over. The feel of her soft skin always gives me a thrill and I found myself again kissing her passionately. Roger seemed a bit nervous but it wasn't long before he and I were taking turns playfully stroking Leigh's pussy, shaved smooth and bare for the occasion.

As we both knelt over her Leigh commented on having two semi-hard cocks quivering above her. She began stroking us both and it wasn't long before we were both hard and glistening wet. This seemed to turn Leigh on even more and she hungrily (and noisily) took us each into her mouth in turns while continuing to stroke the other.

By now she was desperate to be fucked - and we were desperate to oblige! I went first and eased my cock into her gaping pussy while Roger looked on, his cock still deep in her mouth. We then swapped places. It was a real turn on, seeing another man's cock sliding in and out of her. And by the look of Roger's face, he was in heaven.

I then told Roger to lie down on his back and he proceeded to receive the sucking of his life. I got a great view as I took Leigh from behind. It was too much for Roger. Leigh stopped sucking but it was too late.... he came in big spasms, the cum spread wetly on his stomach.

I was in no hurry to finish as it was just so pleasurable. However when Leigh sucked Roger's balls and then took his semi-hard cock into her mouth it was just too much for me.... a few hard poundings of her gorgeous bum and I exploded into her.

As the three of us lay on the bed in recovery mode enjoying the warm 'aftershocks' of intense sex I couldn't help but feel the luckiest man alive. Here I was sharing the most beautiful woman in the world with an (almost) complete stranger. It was with a strange satisfaction that I knew Roger was envious of me - that I had such a gorgeous woman as my love and partner.

We sent him back to work with a spring in his step and a sparkle in his eyes. I wonder if we'll meet up with him again......

Leigh says:
This whole experience was for me very erotic. It is great to feel "wanted" by two men and being able to "give" them what they want. During our play I was asked a few times by Roger what I wanted to happen now.. and I could not come up with an answer.. simply because I was enjoying everything... but I am sure as we pursue this (we are aren't we Mike? aren't we??) I will come up with more sophisticated scenarios and will be able to act them out too.
No only did we send Roger home with a spring and sparkle.. It made me feel very sensual for quite some time after too..
Thanks love for making these things happen....
I love you.

Leigh

A Fun Night out

2010-07-04T03:28:00.000-07:00

We've both been so busy lately! So when we were contacted by a couple from an online swinging site we're members of we thought "what the heck, let's have a fun night out."

We met at a bar in the city... A nice little place with a Spanish theme (it suited my love of wines to try some interesting and very different Spanish wines). Andy and Paula arrived...both a presentable looking couple (nice bodies we thought.....). Conversation flowed as did a few drinks. We all seemed to be getting on well.

After a few more of those Spanish wines they suggested we move on to the nearest swingers club (which was just around the corner) to check out the action. When we arrived around 11pm there was very little happening, and it stayed that way. Very disappointing. We're starting to think swingers clubs aren't what they're cracked up to be and the real fun happens in more private places.

Then Andy invited us back to the hotel room they had booked for the night....

We didn't waste a lot of time in getting undressed and although Paula had a nice body (although she told us earlier she was considering getting a boob job because she thought they weren't big enough....perfectly adequate in my opinion), I was reminded once more just how gorgeous Leigh is. As she lay on the bed wearing nothing but a pair of (very small) panties I nearly gasped at the sight of her beautiful body. I'm so lucky.

Then the fun got really interesting. It was obviously part of Andy's fantasies to see his wife in some girl-on-girl action and although Leigh is new to that she got into the swing of it.

Some of my 'highlight' moments.....

- Leigh on her back with Paula sitting on her face sucking Andy as he stood in front of her, with me thrusting in and out of Leigh

- Leigh lying on her side with my face between her legs, watching her suck Andy's while feeling myself being sucked by Paula

- Leigh on her knees with me fucking her from behind and seeing Andy's face as she devoured his cock.

When we finally said our goodbyes and staggered out the door around 2.45am it was with a smile on our face for a nice night. As I held Leigh's hand walking back to the car all I could think was how amazingly lucky I am to have her in my life.....

It was a pleasant diversion from the focus on our business which has consumed us these last few weeks.

On the drive home when we passed through a slightly 'industrial' part of town I said to Leigh "can you smell that?".

Her response was: "All I can smell is pussy.....!"

That's my girl....

Leigh says:

lol... well what else could I say??
Anyway.. this was the first time that we found someone to have a foursome with and not just a swap and it was great - I really enjoyed it... it was very much driven by Andy.. he commanded us all around (especially the girls) and we obeyed! I would very much like to try it again and have some specific fantasies, because they seemed to be willing to fulfill them.

My highlight...being the spit roast for sure...

Night at the Swingers Club

2010-06-06T03:41:00.000-07:00

Mike says:

Friday night....feeling in a great mood due to some personal good news. Aside from a lovely bottle of champagne we shared over dinner, I felt like some fun with my darling Leigh.

It's been months since we'd been to the local swingers club and, hearing through the grapevine that there were a 'large group' of people going I thought it might be a good opportunity to check it out. After all, Leigh and I have been sharing some quite raunchy fantasies lately (always making for very wet sex....mmmm) and maybe this would be a chance to act some of them out. There would surely be a few guys to pleasure her with me watching.......

Well bless her cotton-pickin' socks. I could tell Leigh was not quite in the mood but she agreed to go anyway. After all, she herself agreed she might feel a biy more into it once we got there.

When we arrived, there were already about 15 couples there. Many of them we had met before at a party a few weeks back. Were they going to be friendly and want to play with us? After all, we don't feel too much a part of the 'swinger set' and would need a bit of encouragement.

The night turned out to be a big disappointment, for several reasons (and if anyone out there runs a swingers club, take note).

1) The loud music and dim lighting were not at all conducive to talking with people and making connections. It just created a very clicky environment in which people only mingled with those they already knew well.

2) Aside from having a drink and listening to the loud music, the only 'ice breaker' was a pool table (but again the music made it difficult).

How about a club with bright lights, soft music, and even games to encourage people to mingle?

After a bit of a chat with a few people who we'd met before, a couple of drinks, a quick spa and a look at some of the action happening in one of the playrooms, we left.

And understandably, Leigh's mood didn't become any more sexy. We both just got a headache from the loud music.

I'm not sure we'll be back..... Maybe we should set up our own club, complete with soft, tasteful music, pleasant lighting, and fun games.

Hmmm, I can hear Leigh saying "We've already got too much on our plate."

Still, we're hoping to get a spa pool soon and then maybe we can create our own private club. The imagination is getting going on that one.

Leigh says:

Mike you are right.. I wasn't in the mood and I didn't get in the mood.. and very much so because of the loud music and to be honest.. I don't get horny by watching hard core porn on the wall either. I sometimes think we are the only ones that actually want to chat and get to know people!! and you should think that it wouldn't be too hard to set up a nice environment to do so?? and yes Mike we do have too much on our plate at the moment.. but I am not disregarding it either at some stage..

I love you..

Whew

2010-04-28T01:59:00.000-07:00

Mike says:
Where has the time gone? We have been so busy setting up a new business we haven't had time to write. Fortunately we've still had a lot of time for each other but the energy just hasn't been there to do much else that was adventurous.
On top of all that we have moved. Quite unexpected, but what a wonderful place. A modern, quiet, private, warm and sunny home, just steps from a private beach. It is wonderful to wake up in the morning with the sun streaming through our windows, make passionate love and then head out for a run with the dog followed by a naked swim at the beach. Wow, the pleasure I get from being naked together with Leigh and enjoying the sight and feel of her body never ceases to make me filled with joy. I am just so happy when I am with her, seeing her smile, feeling her touch, sensing her love.....
In fact, we did have a lovely evening recently with some good friends with the expectation of having a nice play, but after a couple of glasses of wine we were shattered. We had to make our apologies and leave.... We were all disappointed but of course they understood....good friends are like that and we're lucky to know them.
We have some other friends who are keen to have a fun night with us. I'm hoping Leigh will be in the right space that we can have some long-overdue 'r and r' and a change of pace. But of course the final decision is always hers and I'm totally fine with that. I'm just so lucky to have her in my life.

Leigh says:

Oh thank you darling.. from the bottom of my heart..

A Holiday With a Difference

2010-02-27T14:43:00.000-08:00

Mike says:
We've been working so hard lately getting our new business off the ground that we decided to have a few days break. Where to go though......? We wanted somewhere quiet, private, sunny and preferably somewhere where we could swim and enjoy one of our favourite hobbies - nude sunbathing.

Well we found the perfect spot.....a resort with our own private self-contained 2-bedroom chalet, spacious grounds, large swimming pool, 2 hot tubs, sauna, warmth and sunshine...and the best part.... we could be naked all the time..... (it was also about 30% cheaper than a very basic motel).

Yes.... it was a naturist resort....! And what a great experience it turned out to be.....

If you haven't been to a naturist club or resort you probably (like us) had a few pre-conceived ideas..... lots of ugly fat people running about playing silly games in the nude and having sing-songs in the evenings.

Well the people there certainly weren't models but they made up for it in friendliness. The place had large, well-kept grounds and were able to keep to ourselves as much as we liked. Not a lot of people there, mainly couples with a few single guys.

We lazed around the pool and in the hot tub, chatted (to some very interesting people from other parts of the world), went for walks, even played mini golf and ping pong.... and all the time enjoying that wonderful feeling of the sun and breeze on our skin.

While there was no overt sexual activity, and only a little bit of ogling from one guy towards Leigh's deliciously bare pussy, being naked certainly added to our feeling of overall sensuousness - and it sure added some intensity to some great lovemaking we had while we were there.

It was with reluctance we put our clothes back on to come home.....can't wait to go back!

Leigh Says:

When Mike suggested a naturist resort for a few days away I was delighted ...it sounded really nice and Mike is right.. we both love to be naked. Often we have our curtains drawn just to be able to wander around naked inside (we really gotta find a more private place to live..)
When we got there it already had a very relaxed feeling and it was great to see people just wandering around with no worries at all.. The pool area was great and the hot tub very nice. We even had a game of table tennis in the nude.. cool.. a few very nice days away.. thanks for that Mike - we needed it....xx

Her Fantasies

2010-02-09T17:04:00.000-08:00

Mike says:

We did something quite fun today... Leigh found a magazine which had a quiz in it entitled "How Wild Are You? - Find Your Fantasy". Although it was written for women (it was one of those girlie mags that guys can't make sense of), we answered each question together, although I always let her give her answer first....I was fascinated to see what her answers were going to be (although to be honest I did know what most of them would be!)

Here's a sample question:
"When you have erotic dreams what are they typically about....
a. me together with Jude Law
b. my boyfriend...and I don't want to elaborate any more
c. SM, leather, chains and lots of sex with lots of different people of both sexes
d. me and a lot of guys at the same time.

Leigh's answer? I'll tell you at the end of this post.......

When we added up her score Leigh definitely comes out the wild end of the scale....yummm...it's one of the things I love so much about her...her sense of adventure and open-mindedness....I am truly blessed to have her as my partner.....

Anyway, totting up her score this was her result:

"Threesome and porn.
there's no doubt that you are experienced, that you are wild and that you are far from shy. You go right to the edge but may regret when there is an opportunity for a threesome, girl sex or a whip. You think it's fascinating and you are turned on by it but you have a hard time making your lively fantasy real. Perhaps you would rather watch other people live out your naughty thoughts because then you don't have to take the first step.

It's ok to have boundaries and it's even more ok not to break them if it feel's wrong. You have to be careful not to send out signals to something that you actually really don't want. You can turn on your boyfriend or partner with your fantasies but if it's all just hot air they will lose interest because it's not honest or real. You can start at your own speed."

This led to another very interesting conversation (spiced up with some wonderful sex as these conversations do tend to make us rather horny....) about the difference between people who actually experience their fantasies and those who simply think about them. There's nothing wrong with the latter, of course, but for me it's a similar issue to how you live your life in general - you can talk about what you're going to do or you can (much, much more difficult) actually go out and make your dreams happen.

There are very, very few of the latter type of person, but they're the ones who truly understand that making your life fantasies reality takes a huge amount of courage and determination.

Leigh and I challenge ourselves everyday to be action takers rather than just dreamers, and I still count myself incredibly lucky to have someone as my partner who truly does what it takes to make dreams reality, hard that it can be.

Whether it be in our business, health or sex... we are (and will continue) making our wild fantasies real. Bring it on!

By the way, Leigh's answer was........ d. You guessed, didn't you?

Leigh says:

The more you watch people and what they do... the more you become aware of how little they actually do. We certainly do both enjoy being doers and making life take form.. sure we have ups and downs and not everybody likes what we say and do.. but is that really what life is about anyway?

This made a big impression on us

2010-01-31T15:16:00.000-08:00

We'd like to think we're very open-minded. And we guess that's one thing we like most about people who are involved in the swinging lifestyle. To be able to explore their sexuality in such an open way they tend to be very interesting and open-minded about other aspects of their life. They certainly are prepared to challenge conventional thinking and evaluate things for themselves.

So when we came across the information in the following video we were literally blown away. It gor us really thinking (and making some changes to our life in positive ways).

No-one is trying to sell anyone anything here, but we urge to have a look at this video

Sex Tips for Men (by Him) part 1

2010-01-21T16:43:00.000-08:00

Well I can't claim to be anything at all of a sex expert. However, all I know is that pleasuring Leigh sexually is one of the most fulfilling, exciting and fun things I can think of to do - and I am always looking for ways to increase the pleasure of sex for both of us. (And interestingly, what I've found is that the more I focus on her fulfilment, the more mine increases. It's like my own sexual happiness takes care of itself if I focus completely on her).

So while I'm no expert, I know what works for us. And although I've read quite a few 'sex manuals' I've also learnt a few tricks of my own that I haven't found in any of them. Here's one of them....give it a try and see if it works for you too!

One of the things I love most of all is 'going down' on Leigh to bring her to a screaming orgasm... Here's my Oral Sex Method for Going Down on Women that works an absolute treat......

1) Start with plenty of foreplay and flirting. Most guys aren't good at this because we're so busy filling our minds with other things that we only really think about sex when we're ready for it. But a touch on the arm, a smile, a lustful look, a gentle kiss....these can go a long way for a woman. Show her you care for and desire her at other times rather than just when you're in bed.... I can't confess to being the best at this - and it does take some effort to remember - but it is very worth it.

2) So now you're in bed together naked. Really take the time to explore her body. Touch her everywhere...with your hands, arms, legs, feet, mouth, tongue, face. Vary the pressure from barely touching to quite firm. Vary the pace, the strokes....vary everything.

3) Find where her really 'sensitive zones' are and then start to focus on those. For Leigh it's the back of her neck, mouth, stomach, lower back, bum and inside of her legs (to name a few...!). Again don't just use your hands, although fingertips and mouth/tongue are definitely the most effective.

4) Next I like to lie beside her and start to move down her body with my mouth, kissing and lightly touching as I go. At the same time I am stroking her inner legs with my hand, moving gently up and over her pussy (it really helps Leigh is waxed....it is so much more sensitive there...).

5) My mouth and hands reach her pussy at the same time. I use both the graze lightly over that area and all around her inner and upper thighs. I sniff her pussy (mmm...smells wonderful) and even lightly lick it with my tongue.

6) Now here's the trick..... I begin to gently explore Leigh's pussy lips with my mouth - kneeling BESIDE her rather than between her legs. So I am approaching her pussy from a right-angle rather than from below. Get the picture? I tell you, this angle has an amazing effect on her.... I begin to apply more and more direct pressure to her clitoris with my tongue, as always trying to be aware of how her body is responding by her sounds and movements.

7) As I'm doing this I explore the rest of Leigh's body with my hands... her legs, stomach and sides. I massage her tits, with the occasional hard squeeze of a nipple (she loves this!). I also love to see her caressing her own tits, and the feel of a hand as she strokes my head and guides my tongue onto her clitoris even more firmly.

8) I also let her know how much I'm enjoying it by my moaning sounds and enthusiastic movements.... That in itself seems to be a turn-on for her.

9) As I feel her orgasm approaching I really start to give some sustained stimulation to her clitoris. A firm (not too hard) pressure and wow, she's off into the stratosphere.... As her climax subsides I continue to lick her clitoris and all around her pussy (tasting and smelling her lovely juices) and to caress the rest of her body, thoroughly enjoying myself and letting my self go in her pleasure.

10) Then a cuddle....really important for both of us. As I hold her lovingly in my arms I acknowledge what is a very intimate thing.....to trust someone else enough to allow them to bring you to an orgasm. If she thanks me I thank her too and let her know it was a pleasure we share together and that I really enjoyed it too.

It might end there....or I might just 'use' her then.... but that's another story.

This is one of our favourite ways of making love and despite the 'formula' above there really is infinite variation possible.

And guys, try the sideways technique (no 6 above)... you might be amazed, as I was when we discovered it. It's a whole lot more creative (and nicer) than what most guys seem to do (from what I've read and also seen at sex clubs) which is just to lie between the woman's legs and just start licking away.....

Now Leigh, where are you..... let me kiss the back of your neck......

Leigh says:
aha.. so that is what you do to get me to heaven and back...

Well all I can add is that this position of kneeling next to me gives me the opportunity to stroke your cock at the same time and if I use a bit of lube at the same time.. I know that feels very good for you too...

Now..let me move my hair so you can get to my neck...

My Birthday Wish

2010-01-13T23:09:00.000-08:00

Well it's my birthday in a couple of days. Although Leigh and I aren't really into the general run of 'commercial celebrations', for me birthdays are a bit different. It's an opportunity to recognise how special and unique a person is.....

She asked me what I wanted to do....mmmmm....what would be on my list?

Well she knows I love being sexual and erotic with her....Perhaps she is planning something? Maybe a meeting with a nice couple we met recently, or a woman she tells me is interested.....Maybe pick up a guy in a bar (hey, just who's birthday is it?). A drink or a nice meal followed by....?

Hmmm, now wouldn't that make me feel special.....

But honestly, just having Leigh in my life is the greatest gift I could ever dream of. Every moment I spend with her is precious and enough to make me feel so grateful and happy. We have the children for the day (which is great) but knowing we have the evening set aside for us is what I'm really looking forward to - whatever we do, no matter how simple. She has a lot on her mind at the moment and I just want her to know how much I love and support her.

But you never know..... wink!

New Year Fantasies

2010-01-04T00:34:00.000-08:00

Mike says:

I was looking forward to celebrating New Year more than at any time in the past. I've not really been much of a party-goer - I'm no good at small talk and (call me judgemental) I just find most of what goes on in a roomful of strangers to be shallow and boring.

But this year when Leigh and I decided to spend a night 'on the town' I was strangely excited... maybe New Year celebrations would be a fertile ground for realising some of our erotic fantasies....mmmm. Or maybe it was just the thought that I'd have the most gorgeous woman on my arm, surrounded by a heap of guys drooling over her and who would do anything to be me...

That's probably why come the morning of New year's eve I was as horny as hell. We normally have wonderful sex virtually every morning but this morning I was insatiable.... Mind you, I made sure I didn't cum...I wanted to save that for later.

It carried on throughout the day. Leigh came to work with me that day and early in the afternoon I told her to go to the room out the back, take her clothes off and kneel on the bed, face down. I locked the front door and put a sign up saying "Back in 15 minutes". As I went into the room she was in, the sight of her delicious bum was enough to make my already aroused cock spring to full attention when I stripped off my pants. It slid in easily to her waiting wet pussy and a good pounding took the edge off my lust. But again, I stopped short of cumming......

After a very enjoyable dinner at a local Italian restaurant, we checked into the hotel I had booked and proceeded to get ready for our evening. After another intense fucking session (brought on just by me seeing her naked as she stepped out of the shower.... is she gorgeous or what) we began to get ready. Leigh gave her pussy a final shave to make sure it was super smooth and put on her incredibly sexy outfit of black dress, black tights and long black boots. Wow, did she look hot!

So it was that we hit the town for a night of people watching and who knows what else.....

A short taxi ride and we were out our first bar, a place we had heard was a hangout for 'couples in the know. Nice atmosphere but not a lot of people there. After a glass of red wine (Spanish Rioja I recall) we moved on.....

Next we found a small place with a slightly older crowd...more our age. It was there we met a guy called M and I could tell Leigh was having naughty thoughts.... We stayed quite a while, and the more drinks we had the naughtier the thoughts became. How would he feel, we thought, if we invited him back to our hotel room? We both got quite horny talking about it together and 'scheming' about our prey.....

Interesting how the 'bar dynamic' works though. M seemed quite a socialite and was talking to a number of other people. Eventually we saw him chatting intensely with another woman and soon after that he was off in a taxi with her. Ah well, another time perhaps......

After seeing in the New Year with the obligatory countdown and a bit of singing to a few blasts from the 60s, we thought maybe it was time to head back to the hotel. I still had plenty of naughty energy in me, though and I could see that Leigh did too. Was there still a chance to find others for some New Year naughty fun? I just wasn't ready for (our) bed just yet.....

I suggested to Leigh a detour to the local swingers club, and she agreed. This might be interesting.....

We had been there a couple of times before and there never seemed to be that much going on..... Tonight however was busy. I then remembered that this was the night they also let single guys in so there was a number of them to swell the ranks.

After a spa and a very erotic dance on the dance floor where I gently removed Leigh's sarong and we danced naked together, we were in the mood for some playing in one of the back rooms. I hadn't really seen anyone I wanted to interact with, but I was sure in the mood by this stage to pleasure Leigh. So we entered one of the dimly-lit playrooms and this is when something interesting happened.....

I don't recall a lot of other people in there, but we lay down and started to kiss. This was when I noticed a guy lying behind Leigh and stroking her.....and she seemed to be enjoying it! With only a little bit of encouragement he soon joined in our fun. Leigh lay on her back as he and I started sucking her nipples, with one of our hands holding her tit and the other stroking between her legs...wow, she was loving it. Next he moved into position to give her a gentle but thorough pussy licking. I lowered my cock into her mouth to take full advantage of the view....his face buried in her bare pussy while she had one hand on his head guiding him and moaning with pleasure.

Next I suggested we swap places, but instead of going down on her, by now I desperately wanted to feel my cock inside her. I lay on top of her and penetrated her and looked up to see her sliding his cock in and out of her mouth while she stroke his balls....another amazing sight....!

It was here that I felt the sudden urge to try something new - gently moving her mouth aside I took his cock in MY mouth and started sucking! What a different sensation! A hard, wet cock in my mouth....it wasn't unpleasant at all.....! We started sharing his cock between us, licking and sucking, all the while my own cock sliding in and out of her pussy.

A bit more of this and I could sense we were all really getting turned on. "Would you like to fuck her" I said to him and he didn't need to be asked twice.....

My enduring memory was lying on my back with Leigh kneeling over me and my cock in her mouth as he pounded her hard from behind. The movement of her body and her muffled moans of pleasure from the two cocks in her added amazingly to the pleasure my cock was receiving.

He then left us and soon after we too decided it was time to go. Back in our hotel bed, as we made love once again, I remembered with pleasure our erotic experiences of the evening. As I exploded with the cum I had been holding back all day all I could think was what a wonderful and amazing woman Leigh is that I can share such adventures with her. I love her so much.

It sure was a New Year to remember.

Leigh says:

It certainly was an amazing New Years Eve - I enjoyed every bit of it. Especially the very erotic situation where Mike joined me to suck that guy's cock... very erotic indeed. Mike left out a few other good bits like the moment where we were in the spa pool and I lifted my pussy out of the water and Mike bent down to lick me - shortly after which he sat on the edge of the pool and I gave him a good sucking. All much to the interest of the three other naked couples in the pool at the time....

When we are out I always feel very special as Mike puts me first all the time. It is even just the little things like opening the doors or letting me enter first.. making sure I have a drink and so on. And at the swingers club, he made sure all the time that I was comfortable with whatever was going on.... especially since there were quite a few extra guys hanging around. It is a fantastic feeling to feel so special.....

Back at the hotel I have rarely seen Mike so aroused as he was that night, so being taken for the nth time - I have lost count - well that day, THAT was the best one of them all...

We figure now that if we want to pick someone up in a bar it is best not to show too much affection towards each other, otherwise the man (well we have only tried it with men so far) just thinks there is no chance and looks elsewhere to get some meat around the sausage... if you know what I mean!! but I think we will have to try it a few times..lol

I love you too Mike!

My first wax

2009-12-28T01:20:00.000-08:00

Leigh says:

Sitting in the car outside the Brazilian Wax house.. house of voluntary torture...haha.. My thoughts were all over the place: "I could just leave... no... Mike would be so disappointed... couldn't do that..."
Painkillers... damn.. I forgot to take the painkillers as it said on the website... handbag.. there has to be some in there.. I always have painkillers.. damn, no painkillers (gotta get that handbag sorted).. God.. it is time already?... OK.. well lots of women have done it.. come on... you like pain.. no don't focus on pain now... focus on the pleasure ... mmm yes that is better... the pleasure... OK.. Time to go now....

I ring the doorbell and a middle-aged woman opens the door. She is very calm and collected and has obviously done this before! duh... Then she tells me that I don't even need to take my knickers off... what?? "well I just push them aside," she explains.. yeah right!!

Up on the bench.. face down - she does my bum first..

and so warm wax on my bum.. feels nice... then padding with the cloth.. and then....rip = PAIN PAIN PAIN.. God that is painful!.. but she has no mercy.. she just says.. "I know" and continues. The pain actually gets less as she goes on.. that is until she tells me to roll over and starts doing my pubic bone. GOD THIS IS JUST SO PAINFUL. I now so fully understand the women that hve a landing strip... one for big planes!! At least she holds her hand hard on my bone when she rips it.. and it helps a little.. but I have very sweaty palms.. normally only something I get when I am at the dentist!

Anyway it only lasts about 15 minutes and then I'm back in the car with my first waxed pussy... at least that is much faster than childbirth.

I can't wait to show Mike and his reaction was just what the doctor ordered.... a nice soothing lick in all the right places...

Mike says:

Well hey, Leigh I honestly didn't realise it would be that painful. You know I like to trim my pubic hair very short because it adds so much to the sensitivity. I tried shaving once but because my hair is quite coarse it was like a cactus after a couple of days..... so short pubes it is....
But your waxed pussy...wow..! First off the look....you look so wonderfully sexy with no hair.. I can see every fold of your skin and the inviting slit of your vagina. It entices me to explore more....

Then the feel of the smooth skin on my face, fingers and tongue and, as I mount you, against my own pubic bone. I am truly sensitive to every inch of your skin.

Please don't stop babe. I'm sorry for the pain in getting it done but for me the pleasure is intense. And if you knew the times I have looked at your bare pussy and fantasised at seeing other men looking at the same sight and getting highly aroused, wanting to have you........

Waking up

2009-12-21T18:28:00.000-08:00

The softest touch on my hair continuing down over my face, my shoulder, my waist and hip... awakes me slowly... pulling me close, beautiful words whispered in my ear - I only hear the last part clearly .. "but without you - I won't last a day"... am I dreaming??

The caressing continues... kissing... softly.. mmmm... his face is freshly shaved!! My body against his.. he rolls on top of me and kisses me again, between my legs I feel his hardened penis, poking me gently but not penetrating.. feeling my nipples being bitten and sucked until they are both hard. The soft lick on my clitoris feels like a relief.. the repeat of it even better. My god.. the feel of Mike's warm tongue and lips on my clit is just amazing.. my hips move side to side in enjoyment.

Then Mike says: "I've had this picture in my head the last few days of you being pleasured by two cocks ... well in fact my cock wasn't even one of them - I was just watching...".

"Hmmmm," I reply, "and just how did I end up in that situation??". Mike slides up next to me to tell me his fantasy, while gently stimulating my clit with his fingers... softened with a bit of lube.

"Well", he says, "We are out in town and have a hotel room for the night. We are at a bar having a drink, when we eye a couple of good-looking guys. We go over there to chat to them and they seem very happy with our company... In fact, they seem to enjoy very much what they see - so they are quick to reply when I ask if they would join us in our hotel room....

"The scene then changes to the hotel room. You are sitting on the couch between the two of them. I watch from a chair... they start to fondle you... Their hands are on your thighs and slowly they work their way up your legs, obviously getting very aroused as they do so. You place your hand on their crotches and feel their hardness through their jeans. We all decide it is time to take you to the bed. They slowly undress you as I watch and lie you on your back in the middle of the bed. All three of us guys have our cocks out and are stroking them; you see that they are rock hard and already glistening with pre-cum...."

God! By this stage I'm so turned on!!!.. .Just imagining these three guys wanting me so badly that they can hardly wait to take me and to take their turns with me. That feeling of being used ....

Mike continues,, his soft breath on my neck and his fingers massaging my now soaked pussy....

"We all three begin to explore your body all over with our hands. As one of us is going down on you, you have a cock in you mouth, while the third guy just watches while stroking his hard erection. Then we turn you over and we take turns taking you from behind. Soon, one of us slips down under you and lies on his back. You lower your wet pussy onto his hard cock... from behind you feel the two others starting to touch your legs and bum....You know what they are thinking and what is coming, which only increases the sensations of pleasure from the cock throbbing deep within you. You feel the coolness of the lube as it is smeared gently around your anus.... And then you feel it.. a very hard and thick cock slowly entering your ass... waiting a while.. and then a bit more... and more... deeper..."

At this point I'm not sure what's happening... I almost lose consciousness as I explode in Mike's hands... but perhaps Mike can tell... can you darling?

Mike says:

My god what an experience it is dreaming of me and two other guys having our way with Leigh - using her, taking her, listening to her cries as we caress her body and fill her every hole. Seeing in the eyes of two other men the lust they have for my woman, and their begging for me to allow them to have her....

Here I lie, next to her, my hand drenched between her legs, my other arm pulling her closer to me as I whisper my passion hoarsely into her ear. As she explodes beneath my fingers I feel her whole body shake against me and I too writhe in exstasy, kissing her ear and neck. As her orgasm slowly subsides I feel my own lust rising still further. My hard cock throbs against her hip in a pool of pre-cum. I want her now, and I raise her leg and slide into her. It isn't long before I erupt into her in a crescendo of my own.....

What a way to greet the day..... something that puts a smile on both of our faces....