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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" media="screen" href="/~d/styles/atom10full.xsl"?><?xml-stylesheet type="text/css" media="screen" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~d/styles/itemcontent.css"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/" xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:feedburner="http://rssnamespace.org/feedburner/ext/1.0"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4854221947088060169</id><updated>2009-07-01T05:10:08.089-07:00</updated><title type="text">Crafty Listening</title><subtitle type="html">Curious Responsive Assertive Focused Thoughtful YES! (a positive attitude)</subtitle><link rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/" /><author><name>michael mallows</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08616545218314439899</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version="7.00" uri="http://www.blogger.com">Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>7</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><link rel="self" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/CraftyListening" type="application/atom+xml" /><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4854221947088060169.post-1324771909149813166</id><published>2009-07-01T02:45:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-07-01T03:05:43.220-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="hand movements" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="non-verbal communication" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="body languare" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="gestures" /><title type="text">Non-verbal Behaviour</title><summary type="text">Non-verbal behaviour or 'body language' is a fascinating topic with all sorts of myths attached as well as a lot of useful information e.g.facial expressionseyescryingtouching www.craftylistening.co.ukmjmallows Twitter</summary><link rel="related" href="http://www.spring.org.uk/2007/05/nonverbal-behaviour.php" title="Non-verbal Behaviour" /><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/feeds/1324771909149813166/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/2009/07/non-verbal-behaviour.html#comment-form" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4854221947088060169/posts/default/1324771909149813166" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4854221947088060169/posts/default/1324771909149813166" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CraftyListening/~3/uRUCpKM6vJo/non-verbal-behaviour.html" title="Non-verbal Behaviour" /><author><name>michael mallows</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08616545218314439899</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" name="OpenSocialUserId" value="12944478303761906741" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/2009/07/non-verbal-behaviour.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4854221947088060169.post-5506039708308650655</id><published>2009-06-30T15:41:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-06-30T15:44:56.648-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="writers" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="writer's block" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="writers' workshops" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="creative-writing" /><title type="text">Writer's block? Right  as Rain!</title><summary type="text">E-mail if  you'd like to know about workshops that will help you get unblockedI've never known the awful shock when words or rhythms just don't flow! It seems to be that writer's block Can make you stop or very slow!It's bound to happen, I suppose To low and mighty, bright and dull, To those who rhyme or scribble prose In Dallas, London, Leeds or Hull.The cogs get clogged the thoughts are dire, </summary><link rel="related" href="http://www.google.co.uk/search?q=writer%27s+block+help&amp;ie=utf-8&amp;oe=utf-8&amp;aq=t&amp;rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&amp;client=firefox-a" title="Writer's block? Right  as Rain!" /><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/feeds/5506039708308650655/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/2009/06/writers-block-right-as-rain.html#comment-form" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4854221947088060169/posts/default/5506039708308650655" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4854221947088060169/posts/default/5506039708308650655" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CraftyListening/~3/mY4noR7XQJ4/writers-block-right-as-rain.html" title="Writer's block? Right  as Rain!" /><author><name>michael mallows</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08616545218314439899</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" name="OpenSocialUserId" value="12944478303761906741" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/2009/06/writers-block-right-as-rain.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4854221947088060169.post-8062967326092361513</id><published>2009-06-30T15:00:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-06-30T15:03:16.291-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="beauty" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="ugly" /><title type="text">If Beauty is Skin Deep</title><summary type="text">Does ugly go right down to the bone?Votehttps://twitter.com/mjmallows</summary><link rel="related" href="http://twtpoll.com/x1pfnu" title="If Beauty is Skin Deep" /><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/feeds/8062967326092361513/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/2009/06/if-beauty-is-skin-deep.html#comment-form" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4854221947088060169/posts/default/8062967326092361513" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4854221947088060169/posts/default/8062967326092361513" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CraftyListening/~3/sBMlacDEhro/if-beauty-is-skin-deep.html" title="If Beauty is Skin Deep" /><author><name>michael mallows</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08616545218314439899</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" name="OpenSocialUserId" value="12944478303761906741" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/2009/06/if-beauty-is-skin-deep.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4854221947088060169.post-7849644765874646194</id><published>2009-06-30T14:11:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-06-30T15:09:37.701-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="mystery" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="psychology" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Hollywood" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Halo effect" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="mind" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="traits" /><title type="text">When your own mind is a mystery</title><summary type="text">The 'halo effect' is a classic finding in social psychology. It is the idea that global evaluations about a person (e.g. she is likeable) bleed over into judgements about their specific traits (e.g. she is intelligent). Hollywood stars demonstrate the halo effect perfectly. Because they are often attractive and likeable we naturally assume they are also intelligent, friendly, display good </summary><link rel="related" href="http://www.spring.org.uk/2007/10/halo-effect-when-your-own-mind-is.php" title="When your own mind is a mystery" /><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/feeds/7849644765874646194/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/2009/06/when-your-own-mind-is-mystery.html#comment-form" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4854221947088060169/posts/default/7849644765874646194" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4854221947088060169/posts/default/7849644765874646194" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CraftyListening/~3/j-TcL1vyOp8/when-your-own-mind-is-mystery.html" title="When your own mind is a mystery" /><author><name>michael mallows</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08616545218314439899</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" name="OpenSocialUserId" value="12944478303761906741" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/2009/06/when-your-own-mind-is-mystery.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4854221947088060169.post-7390516201621872683</id><published>2009-06-30T06:23:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-06-30T06:54:40.878-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="heart" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="strokes" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="early warning" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="symptoms" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Blood clots" /><title type="text">May your heart sing</title><summary type="text"> Click the Heading aboveSAVE LIVES READ, REMEMBER &amp; TEACH THIS!Blood  Clots/Stroke - They Now Have a Fourth Indicator,  the TongueSTROKE:Remember  the 1st Three Letters....S T RSTROKE  IDENTIFICATION:During a BBQ, a friend  stumbled and took a little fall.  She  assured everyone that she was fine (They offered  to call paramedics).  She said she had just  tripped over a brick because of her new  </summary><link rel="related" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stroke" title="May your heart sing" /><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/feeds/7390516201621872683/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/2009/06/may-your-heart-sing.html#comment-form" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4854221947088060169/posts/default/7390516201621872683" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4854221947088060169/posts/default/7390516201621872683" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CraftyListening/~3/R3ttBcA5CjI/may-your-heart-sing.html" title="May your heart sing" /><author><name>michael mallows</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08616545218314439899</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" name="OpenSocialUserId" value="12944478303761906741" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_RlA6Lg9iiBQ/SkoS1ZkRZWI/AAAAAAAAADE/jPWcyO-9Yn8/s72-c/TongueClot.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/2009/06/may-your-heart-sing.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4854221947088060169.post-8927795226892329959</id><published>2008-09-14T01:55:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-09-14T02:01:59.245-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="facilitator" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Michael Mallows" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Crafty" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="learner" /><title type="text">Three Great Crafty Questions</title><summary type="text">“What do you like or appreciate about what you contributed to the whole process?”“What might you differently in the future?”“What would you like from me?” or "How do you think I can support you?"These three crafty 'headline' questions, along with supplementary exploratory or 'expanding' questions are particularly useful after somebody has 'messed up'. They can also greatly improve communication </summary><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/feeds/8927795226892329959/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/2008/09/what-do-you-like-or-appreciate-about.html#comment-form" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4854221947088060169/posts/default/8927795226892329959" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4854221947088060169/posts/default/8927795226892329959" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CraftyListening/~3/iLTWsy2MGHg/what-do-you-like-or-appreciate-about.html" title="Three Great Crafty Questions" /><author><name>michael mallows</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08616545218314439899</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" name="OpenSocialUserId" value="12944478303761906741" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/2008/09/what-do-you-like-or-appreciate-about.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4854221947088060169.post-7874613598190668281</id><published>2008-09-14T01:47:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-09-14T01:49:42.299-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Responsiveness" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Focus" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Curiosity" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Yes" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Assertiveness" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Thoughtfulness" /><title type="text">Crafty Listening</title><summary type="text">Curiosity Responsiveness Assertiveness Focus Thoughtfulness Yes! Each of these key components of the crafty model refers to a set of skills, qualities and attributes that listeners have or can develop. Implicit in the model is that crafty listeners care about the quality of their communication and want to listen exquisitely well because they also care about current and future relationships.http:/</summary><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/feeds/7874613598190668281/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/2008/09/crafty-listening.html#comment-form" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4854221947088060169/posts/default/7874613598190668281" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4854221947088060169/posts/default/7874613598190668281" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CraftyListening/~3/OFYuW4hIjbA/crafty-listening.html" title="Crafty Listening" /><author><name>michael mallows</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08616545218314439899</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" name="OpenSocialUserId" value="12944478303761906741" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://craftylistening.blogspot.com/2008/09/crafty-listening.html</feedburner:origLink></entry></feed>
