Here in the Midwest, there are several months of the year when it is cold and there is plenty of the white stuff.

Snow is a four letter word most of us have a love/hate relationship with.  It’s pretty and fun to play in, but it can also be a hassle (driving can be a major pain in the ass). And sometimes, when old man winter is feeling especially generous, it means you’re stuck in your house for a while.

Fortunately, this makes me an “expert” on finding fun snow day activities (since I’ve been snowed in more than a few times myself!).

So, if you are dreading that first good snowfall and the inevitable school “snow” days, fear not! Here are 10 insanely fun snow day activities for you and the kids this winter!

10 Insanely Fun Snow Day Activities for Kids

1) Build a snow man (and even paint it)

Do you want to build a snow man? (never mind, been watching too much Frozen)

Okay, so I am starting off the list with a more than obvious suggestion, but I promise this one is worth it.

Some of my favorite memories involve getting all bundled up and making the biggest snowman my sister and I could muster. It was ALWAYS better if mom and/or dad were out there too because they could lift the big pieces!

An interesting pro-tip I found online on how to take your snowman making to the next level: Snowman painting!

You can do this with with good old-fashioned food coloring! Using water and food coloring in a spray or squirt bottle is a great way to add a pop of color to your snowman and brighten your yard friend.

Image source: HowDoesShe

2) Make snow ice cream

I’ve actually done this one myself and I look forward to it every winter!

I know some people get weird about eating snow but honestly…as long as it’s fresh (and not yellow) you are totally good to go. I ate my weight in snow every winter as a kid, and to my knowledge, no permanent damage!

Here’s a recipe you can use from Inner Child Fun. I haven’t tried this specific one myself yet, but I plan to! It’s a pretty standard recipe usually involving some sugar, vanilla, and fresh snow.

It’s honestly so delicious and easy. Plus, it’s a fun snow day activity that mostly involves being inside where it’s warm!

3) Make snow cones

Along the line of more edible snow creations: snow cones! This one is even easier than the snow recipe. It really only involves juice and snow.  As in, take your favorite kind of juice, and drizzle it over a cup of fresh, clean snow.  (And if you’re weirded out by using real snow, you can also put ice in a blender and it’ll work just as well.)

If you are feeling particularly fancy, you can use flavoring syrups for the real deal. Or make your own flavoring syrup like the recipe I found here.

Snow cones are a great way to, again, have fun indoors where it is warm. It is also just a fun way to use the snow to make your little one’s day.

If the snow is going to be the “bad” guy and keep you stuck at home, you might as well have fun with it and have a sweet treat.

Image source: Rosanna Pansino

4) Go sledding

Here’s another one of my most fun snow day activities that I always did as a kid: Finding that perfect hill and going sledding!

I used to love seeing how fast we could going down the hill or take turns pulling each other as fast as we could in the sleds. (Be careful, of course, and make sure you’re supervising your kid depending on age.)

This seems like an obvious fun snow day activity, but it had to make the list. It’s a great way to burn off all the energy our kids have.  All that going up and down the hill, or pulling a sibling in the sled? They’ll be ready for nice quiet evening of hot chocolate and movies in no time. Mom win!

Plus, I found a great way to get a two for one activity out of this one:

Make your own sled….out of duct tape!

Here are some awesome step by step instructions on making a simple sled out of cardboard and duct tape. It’a a great way to burn time and keep the kids engaged. First craft time, then time to play outside and burn off all that excess energy testing them out!

5) Decorate ice globes 

Our next suggestion is one I have been DYING to try and always end up forgetting to do. Not this year! It’s on my list of musts for this winter-time.

Ice globes to decorate my front walk way.

This suggestion and step by step instructions comes from Queen Vanna Creations. It’s super simple and a great way to have fun on a snow day.

All you need is water, some cold weather, food coloring and balloons. Essentially you fill up the balloons with water, add a few drops of food coloring and set them outside to freeze. Then once they are frozen you can break the balloon and peel of the rubber to reveal a beautiful marble-like ice globe!

Talk about fun!

6) Bake, Bake, Bake!

My little guy is only two and he already LOVES when momma breaks out the baking stuff. He loves adding ingredients, stirring everything up, taste testing and then he waits (somewhat patiently) staring through the oven window while everything bakes.

Baking is a perfect snow day activity because it involves things that taste great, warming the house with the oven, and passing time while everyone is stuck inside. Instead of getting bored, kids get to be engaged, and you get a warm, sweet treat at the end!

I especially like recipes with a snow theme for this particular snow day activity list. I really liked these snowman cupcakes from the Little Sunny Kitchen!

7) Make homemade Play-Doh

Another great way to pass the time is to make your own Play-Doh! This step by step instruction guide is a great, inexpensive example of how simple making Play-Doh can be.

I love the idea of this if you don’t already have Play-Doh stored somewhere in the house because, again, it’s a two-for-one type of activity.

This fun snow day activity starts with crafting and learning to make the Play-Doh. Then, you can make your own shapes and designs and can even finish off by baking the Play-Doh shapes and painting them!

It’s a great activity that can take most of an afternoon without anyone realizing it, keeping kids engaged and mom/dad’s nerves at ease!

8) Build a fort 

Building a fort, or letting your kids experiment with building a fort is a great way to pass the time on a snowy day.

Depending on your kid’s age you can get involved and really show them how it’s done, or you could have a “fort-off” if you have multiple kids (or they have friends over). Give each kid supplies and a certain amount of time to build.

Then, mom or dad can come in and give out the “most creative fort” or “biggest fort” awards! Imagine all the things you could get done with the kids occupied for that long!

One of our favorite ways to build a fort is with the Nugget couch (or if you can’t get your hands on a Nugget, check out our list of Nugget alternatives).

Image source: Bits of Everything

9) Have an indoor picnic

Along the lines of fort building comes the indoor picnic. Whether or not you decide to go the fort route, this can be a great way to make boring activities (such as lunch) exciting for your little ones.

If you do decide to use the fort suggestion, you could even start by building an epic fort and finish with a great snack/picnic inside!

Have the kids help you make cute little sandwiches or snowman-themed foods for your picnic and then camp out in the living room and enjoy!

10) Enjoy some hot chocolate!

No fun snow day is complete without hot chocolate!

Whether spending your time outdoors, indoors, or a split between them both, you can end the snow day with a great cup of hot chocolate using the Frugal Gals recipe here. This simple recipe has minimal ingredients and can be set in the crock pot to cook while you spend the day enjoying your kiddos!

I love the idea of sitting in the fort, with a warm cup of hot chocolate in hand, telling stories, reading books or watching movies. So, cozy!

What are you waiting for? Go enjoy your snow day!

That does it for our list of fun snow day activities for you and the kiddos! (If you have young kids and you’re looking for something a little bit more low key, check out our quiet time activities.)

It’s not often that we get the chance to be a kid again, but snow days make the best opportunities. Don’t be worried about how to fill your days, just use the suggestions here and go have an awesome day!

What are some of your favorite fun snow day activities? Leave a comment below!

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Halloween will be here before you know it, and if you haven’t yet figured out what your little one is going to wear, you’d better do it soon!

When your child is just a baby, Halloween really serves three purposes:

1) You get to admire how cute your baby is in a costume.

2) You get to take lots of pictures but don’t need to go walk outside in the cold.

3) You get to eat all the candy you buy because your kid’s not old enough to eat it (oops).

I love Halloween, and I’ll be damned if a baby is going to stop me from enjoying costumes and candy.  

Picking out a costume isn’t necessarily easy – they all look cute, and before you buy one, you need to have an argument with your spouse about which one you’re going to get.

We previously looked at the best Halloween costumes for a baby girl, but now it’s time to look at costumes for a baby boy. 

Here we go…

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Best Halloween Costumes for Baby Boy in 2025

As you read through this list, keep in mind that it’s subjective and in no particular order.  These are just 11 baby boy costumes that we really liked and think you will too.

#1) The Little Monkey

To get this list started, how could we go with anything but the cute little monkey costume.

It’s adorable.

Functionally speaking, there are leg snaps that allow for easy diaper changing and, as a bonus for those of you in colder climates, it’s pretty warm and fuzzy too.

Click here to read more about this costume.

#2) Superman (or Superbaby)

This is a little romper costume with a removable cape.  Perfect for your little Superman.

Consider having dad dress as Superman too, for a little father-son super hero duo.

Click here to read more about this costume.

#3) The Lil’ Monster

It’s the only costume that could make a scary monster look cute.

It’s a bright, colorful costume and has convenient slip-on booties.

Only thing to watch out for on this one is the size. Many who purchased it felt it was too large, so you may want to consider going  a size smaller than you normally would.

Click here to read more about this costume.

#4) The T-Rex Dinosaur 

With all of the recent Jurassic park movies, dinosaurs are IN as much as ever before.

If you or your son is into dinosaurs, this is an excellent costume that is sure to get a lot of attention.

Click here to read more about this costume.

#5) Elmo

My kid absolutely loves Elmo.  There’s something about him that every kid seems to love.

So, why not BE Elmo for Halloween?

Click here to read more about this costume.

#6) “What a Hoot” Owl 

This one’s just super adorable.

A colorful owl that’s sure to be a “hoot” with your friends and family (alright, I’ll stop with the terrible puns).

Click here to read more about this costume.

#7) The Lil’ Elephant

I can’t say I understand why, but this elephant costume has always been really popular.

I think it’s probably the big ears that make this one so hilariously cute.

Click here to read more about this costume.

#8) The Baby Fireman

I was going to call this the “Fire baby” instead of Baby Fireman, but that just sounded a bit weird.

This is a classic costume for those of you who want to stay away from TV and movie characters.  Reviewers say it fits well, and it’s basically like putting your kid in pajamas (aside from the hood), which makes this an easy one to wear throughout the day.

Click here to read more about this costume.

#9) Baby Hatching Dinosaur

I know this is our second T-Rex on the list, but what’s wrong with having more options for dinosaur costumes? This one’s cute for crawlers because it’s a dinosaur hatching from an egg.  

If you’re into the dinosaur theme, this is another great option!

Click here to read more about this costume.

#10) Baby Lion

Here’s another great option if you’re looking for a cute baby animal costume.

Lions can be terrifying, but I’d say this one is anything but!

Click here to read more about this costume.

#11) Baby Shark

I hesitated to put this one on the list because I know some parents have had enough Baby Shark already, but for any who are brave enough to keep the Baby Shark train going, here’s a possibly good costume choice.  

I know the picture above shows an older kid, but this one does come in an infant size as well.

Click here to read more about this costume.

Happy Halloween!

Now that we’ve looked at a bunch of possible baby boy costumes, we’re super excited for Halloween!  There are so many great choices, and honestly, you can’t go wrong with any of these.

Fortunately, we probably still have another year or two before it becomes ALL about the candy.

What are some of your favorite Halloween costumes for baby boys? Leave a comment below!

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The day I dragged that Blackstone griddle out of its box and set it up on our back deck changed our family summers forever. Two years later, I still get a ridiculous little rush of excitement every time I fire it up. There’s something so satisfying about cooking outdoors – the sizzle when food hits that hot surface, the way conversations flow more easily when we’re all hanging around waiting for dinner.

My kids used to wander inside during meal prep, but now they pull up chairs to watch pancake batter transform into golden discs on Sunday mornings. My husband, who couldn’t care less about cooking indoors, has somehow developed strong opinions about the perfect griddle temperature for hash browns.

Last weekend, as I was finishing up some cedar plank salmon (that crispy skin is everything), my neighbor leaned over the fence and jokingly asked when I was starting my own food truck. I laughed, but honestly? Standing there with spatula in hand, surrounded by family, I felt like I’d found my element.

Enough about me…are you getting hungry? Here are our family’s top 10 Blackstone recipes that have earned permanent marker status on our summer menu board.

Top 10 Blackstone Recipes (Our Favorites to Cook in the Summer)

1. Ultimate Blackstone Breakfast

There’s something special about starting the day with a hearty breakfast cooked entirely on the griddle. The sizzle of bacon, the aroma of hash browns, and the satisfaction of flipping pancakes all while enjoying the morning air make this meal a family favorite.

2. Blackstone Philly Cheesesteak

This classic sandwich is a hit during our summer gatherings. The combination of thinly sliced steak, sautéed onions and peppers, all smothered in melted cheese, makes for a mouthwatering experience that always has everyone coming back for seconds.

3. Blackstone Shrimp Fried Rice

This dish is my go-to when we crave something flavorful yet quick. The combination of shrimp, rice, and vegetables, all cooked on the griddle, brings a taste of takeout right to our backyard.

4. Blackstone Cowboy Stir-Fry

This hearty mix of sausage, potatoes, and vegetables is perfect for a filling dinner after a day of outdoor adventures. It’s a dish that satisfies everyone’s appetite and makes great leftovers too.

5. Blackstone Crunchwrap Supreme

Recreating this fast-food favorite at home is always a hit. The crispy, packed wrap is both fun to make and delicious to eat, and the kids love watching the layers come together on the griddle.

6. Blackstone Mexican Street Corn

This flavorful side dish is a hit at any summer gathering. The combination of sweet corn, creamy sauce, and spices makes it irresistible, and it pairs well with everything from burgers to fajitas.

7. Blackstone Egg Roll in a Bowl

This low-carb, deconstructed egg roll is quick to prepare and packed with flavor. It’s a great option when you’re craving takeout but want something lighter and faster.

8. Blackstone Hibachi Salmon

When we’re in the mood for a lighter meal that doesn’t compromise on flavor, this hibachi-style salmon is our go-to. The griddle gives the salmon a perfect sear, and the combination of soy sauce, ginger, and garlic infuses it with a delightful umami taste.

9. Blackstone Smash Burgers

There’s nothing quite like the sizzle of a smash burger on the griddle. The high heat creates a crispy crust while keeping the inside juicy. It’s a simple yet satisfying meal that never fails to please.

10. Blackstone Chicken Fajitas

Fajitas are a family favorite, and cooking them on the Blackstone griddle brings out the best flavors. The chicken stays juicy, and the peppers and onions get a perfect char. It’s a fun and interactive meal that everyone enjoys.

Those are our top 10 Blackstone recipes – what about yours?

I won’t lie – there are evenings when I’m exhausted and the thought of cooking anything makes me want to reach for the takeout menu. But stepping outside to fire up the Blackstone has become a ritual that somehow makes dinner prep feel less like a chore. Plus, it keeps the kitchen cool during those sweltering summer months when the AC is already working overtime.

The best part isn’t just the delicious food (though these recipes are definitely worth trying). It’s how cooking outdoors naturally brings everyone together. Conversations flow more easily and family members wander out to “check on dinner” (and steal bites when they think I’m not looking).

These top 10 Blackstone recipes have earned their place in our regular rotation because they’re reliable crowd-pleasers that don’t require hours of prep. They’ve survived the test of picky eaters and last-minute guests alike.

So give these Blackstone favorites a try this summer. And if you have a go-to griddle recipe that I’ve missed, drop it in the comments below. I’m always looking to add something new to our mealtime lineup!

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Halloween is just around the corner, and if you’re like me, you might not be a huge fan of pumpkin carving. The mess, the sharp knives, the inevitable tears when someone’s design doesn’t turn out as planned. But what if I told you there’s a better way? We’ve tracked down some pretty clever no-carve pumpkin decorating ideas that will have your kids creating Halloween masterpieces without any of the usual carving chaos.

The best part?

Your kids can tackle most of these projects independently, giving them that sense of accomplishment they crave while you get to enjoy a (slightly) less stressful Halloween prep season. From simple painting techniques to creative material combinations, these ideas will keep your little ones engaged and excited about decorating.

Let’s get to it.

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9 Clever No-Carve Pumpkin Decorating Ideas for Kids

1. Painted Pumpkin Faces

Nothing beats the charm of a painted pumpkin face, and kids love to get creative with expressions. Unlike carving, if they mess up, they can simply paint over it and start fresh.

• Difficulty: Easy
• Approximate Time: 30-45 minutes
• Materials Needed:
  • Medium-sized pumpkins
  • Acrylic paints (orange, black, white, and fun colors)
  • Paintbrushes (various sizes)
  • Paper plates for paint palette
  • Water cup
  • Paper towels
• Step-by-Step Instructions:
  • Clean the pumpkin surface with a damp cloth and let dry completely
  • Have kids sketch their face design lightly with pencil first
  • Start with the base colors, letting each section dry before adding details
  • Use smaller brushes for facial features like eyes, nose, and mouth
  • Add fun details like rosy cheeks, freckles, or silly expressions
  • Let dry completely before displaying

2. Washi Tape Geometric Designs

This modern approach to pumpkin decorating gives kids the satisfaction of creating clean, professional-looking designs. If you have a craft stash, you may already have washi tape lying around the house.

• Difficulty: Easy
• Approximate Time: 20-30 minutes
• Materials Needed:
  • Pumpkins (any size)
  • Washi tape in various colors and patterns
  • Scissors
  • Ruler (optional)
• Step-by-Step Instructions:
  • Clean the pumpkin surface and let dry
  • Plan the design by having kids visualize their pattern
  • Start applying tape from the top, pressing down firmly as you go
  • Create stripes, zigzags, or geometric shapes
  • Trim excess tape with scissors
  • Press all edges down securely to prevent peeling

3. Glitter Pumpkin Makeover

Every kid loves glitter, and this project lets them go wild with sparkle. Fair warning: you’ll be finding glitter in random places for weeks, but the results are pretty magical.

• Difficulty: Easy to Medium
• Approximate Time: 45-60 minutes (including drying time)
• Materials Needed:
  • Pumpkins
  • Mod Podge or white glue
  • Fine glitter in various colors
  • Foam brushes
  • Newspapers or drop cloth
  • Small bowls for glitter
• Step-by-Step Instructions:
  • Set up workspace with newspaper to catch excess glitter
  • Apply Mod Podge to one section of the pumpkin with foam brush
  • Sprinkle glitter generously over the wet glue
  • Gently tap off excess glitter onto newspaper
  • Continue section by section until pumpkin is covered
  • Let dry completely for 30 minutes before handling

4. Yarn-Wrapped Pumpkins

This cozy craft transforms ordinary pumpkins into textured masterpieces. Kids love the repetitive wrapping motion (it’s surprisingly meditative for them).

• Difficulty: Medium
• Approximate Time: 45-60 minutes
• Materials Needed:
  • Pumpkins (medium size works best)
  • Yarn in fall colors
  • Hot glue gun (adult supervision) or craft glue
  • Scissors
• Step-by-Step Instructions:
  • Start at the bottom of the pumpkin with a dab of glue to secure yarn
  • Wrap yarn around the pumpkin horizontally, keeping rows close together
  • Apply small dots of glue every few wraps to keep yarn secure
  • Continue wrapping until entire pumpkin is covered
  • Secure the end with glue and trim excess yarn
  • Add a yarn bow or decorative element to the stem if desired

5. Decoupage Leaf Pumpkins

This technique creates stunning autumn-themed pumpkins using real or artificial leaves. 

• Difficulty: Medium
• Approximate Time: 40-50 minutes
• Materials Needed:
  • Pumpkins
  • Pressed leaves (real or artificial)
  • Mod Podge
  • Foam brushes
  • Scissors
• Step-by-Step Instructions:
  • Clean pumpkin surface thoroughly
  • Arrange leaves on pumpkin to plan design
  • Apply thin layer of Mod Podge to back of first leaf
  • Press leaf firmly onto pumpkin, smoothing out air bubbles
  • Continue adding leaves, overlapping slightly for natural look
  • Brush thin layer of Mod Podge over entire surface to seal
  • Let dry completely

6. Pumpkin Animals

Transform pumpkins into adorable little creatures. This project really lets kids’ imagination run wild as they decide what animal their pumpkin wants to become.

• Difficulty: Medium
• Approximate Time: 60-75 minutes
• Materials Needed:
  • Pumpkins (various sizes)
  • Construction paper or felt
  • Googly eyes
  • Pipe cleaners
  • Craft glue
  • Markers
  • Scissors
• Step-by-Step Instructions:
  • Choose what animal to create (owl, cat, pig, etc.)
  • Cut out ears, wings, or other features from construction paper
  • Glue googly eyes in appropriate spots
  • Attach paper features with craft glue
  • Use pipe cleaners for whiskers, antennae, or tails
  • Add marker details like spots, stripes, or facial features
  • Let all glue dry before moving

7. Sticker Collage Pumpkins

Sometimes the simplest ideas are the most fun. Kids can create elaborate designs using nothing but stickers, making this perfect for younger decorators or when you need a quick activity.

• Difficulty: Easy
• Approximate Time: 15-25 minutes
• Materials Needed:
  • Pumpkins
  • Variety of stickers (Halloween-themed, shapes, letters)
  • Wet cloth for cleanup
• Step-by-Step Instructions:
  • Clean pumpkin surface with damp cloth
  • Let kids choose their sticker theme or pattern
  • Start placing stickers, building up the design gradually
  • Encourage layering and overlapping for interesting effects
  • Fill in gaps with smaller stickers
  • Step back and add final details as needed

8. Fabric Pumpkin Wraps

This technique creates beautiful textured pumpkins using fabric scraps you probably have around the house. It’s a great way to use up leftover material from other projects.

• Difficulty: Medium
• Approximate Time: 35-45 minutes
• Materials Needed:
  • Pumpkins
  • Fabric scraps in fall patterns
  • Fabric glue or hot glue gun
  • Scissors
  • Ribbon or twine
• Step-by-Step Instructions:
  • Cut fabric into strips about 2 inches wide
  • Apply glue to one end of fabric strip
  • Wrap fabric around pumpkin, slightly overlapping each row
  • Continue wrapping until pumpkin is covered
  • Secure final end with glue
  • Tie ribbon around stem area for finishing touch
  • Trim any excess fabric

9. Button and Bead Pumpkins

This project turns pumpkins into textured art pieces using buttons and beads. It’s perfect for kids who love detail work and want to create something really unique.

• Difficulty: Medium to Hard
• Approximate Time: 60-90 minutes
• Materials Needed:
  • Pumpkins
  • Assorted buttons in fall colors
  • Beads (various sizes)
  • Craft glue
  • Tweezers (for small beads)
  • Small bowls for organizing supplies
• Step-by-Step Instructions:
  • Sort buttons and beads by color and size
  • Plan design by arranging some pieces on pumpkin first
  • Start gluing larger buttons first, working from top to bottom
  • Fill in spaces with smaller buttons and beads
  • Use tweezers for precise placement of tiny beads
  • Let each section dry before moving to next area
  • Allow entire project to dry overnight before displaying

Ready for your no-carve pumpkin project?

The key to successful no-carve pumpkin decorating is preparation and patience. Set up your workspace with all materials within easy reach, and don’t be afraid to let kids experiment. Some of the most creative designs come from happy accidents and spontaneous ideas.

Remember that these clever no-carve pumpkin decorating ideas are about the process as much as the final product. Your kids will feel proud of their creations, and you’ll love having Halloween decorations that last much longer than traditional carved pumpkins.

What did we miss? Are there other good no-carve pumpkin decorating ideas that you’ve tried and enjoyed? Leave a comment below!

(And if you’re looking for more Fall-themed crafts, check out this post for a Thanksgiving plate craft for kids.) 

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With Halloween coming up soon (depending on when you read this), and if you’re anything like me, you’re probably scrambling to figure out what your little one will wear this year. Store-bought costumes can be expensive, uncomfortable, and sometimes pretty generic. That’s why I’m sharing some of my favorite DIY toddler Halloween costumes that are not only budget-friendly but also allow your creativity to shine.

These costume ideas are perfect for toddlers aged 1-4 and require zero sewing skills. Trust me, if I can make these, you definitely can too! Each costume uses materials you can easily find at your local craft store or might already have lying around the house.

Let’s jump into some of our favorites.

DIY Toddler Halloween Costumes: 10+ Easy & Creative Ideas

DIY Bunny Halloween Costume

There’s something soo precious about a toddler dressed as a bunny. This costume is incredibly versatile and can be made sweet and simple or dressed up with extra sparkle and accessories.

Here’s a good example of a DIY bunny Halloween costume: Pretty Providence

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We’ve been doing meals on the griddle for a few years now, and I keep coming back to sausage Blackstone recipes because they’re so reliable. Whether it’s a weekend breakfast or a quick weeknight dinner, sausage cooks fast, has tons of flavor, and makes for good tastin’ family meals.

I pulled together five recipes that we’ve tried and really enjoy. There’s one breakfast option that’s perfect for Saturday mornings, and four dinner ideas that all come together pretty quickly. The best part? Everything cooks on the same surface, so cleanup is just scraping the griddle and wiping it down.

These aren’t fancy recipes. They’re straightforward meals that work when you want something that tastes good without spending all afternoon in the kitchen. The ingredients are simple, the techniques are basic, and the results are consistently delicious. If you’ve got a Blackstone and some sausages on hand, you’re ready to get started.

Let’s get to the recipes.

5 Delicious Sausage Blackstone Recipes 

1. Smothered Sausage Breakfast Sandwich

This one’s a weekend favorite in our house. With crispy hash browns, juicy sausage, and just the right kick from sriracha mayo, it’s the kind of sandwich you’ll want to eat for breakfast and lunch. Even the kids gobbled it up, and that’s saying something!

Ingredients:

• 2 breakfast sausage patties (about ⅓ lb each)
• ½ white onion, diced
• 1 cup shredded hash browns
• 2 slices American cheese
• 2 eggs
• 4 slices Texas toast
• 2 leaves lettuce
• 2 slices tomato
• Sriracha mayo
• 1 tablespoon butter
• Avocado oil for cooking
• Salt and pepper to taste

Instructions:

• Divide sausage into two thick patties, about ⅓ lb each.
• Preheat your Blackstone to 375-400°F. Add avocado oil and a pat of butter.
• Toss hash browns into the buttery oil, season with salt and pepper, and spread them into two thin piles. Let them sit and crisp up undisturbed for 10 minutes.
• Add diced onion to the griddle and start sautéing.
• Place sausage patties on the griddle. Cook about 5 minutes per side or until fully cooked.
• Once sausage and onions are cooked, move them to a cooler spot to keep warm.
• Crack the eggs directly onto the griddle. Pop the yolks if you like. Cook ~2 minutes per side.
• Toast Texas toast slices on the griddle until golden brown.
• Flip hash browns once they’re crispy underneath. Top each with a slice of cheese and some grilled onions.
• Assemble: bottom toast, sriracha mayo, lettuce, tomato, cheesy hash browns, sausage, egg, and top toast.

Source: Johnny Brunet

2. Smoked Sausage & Potatoes Hash

Hearty, filling, and so simple. Perfect when you want a comforting dinner that practically cooks itself. I love how the griddle gets the potatoes crispy every time.

Ingredients (serves 4-6):

• 1 lb smoked sausage, sliced
• 2½ lb small red potatoes, cubed
• 1 onion, diced
• ⅓ cup olive oil
• 1 Tbsp garlic powder
• 1 tsp salt
• 1 tsp pepper
• ½ tsp smoked paprika
• 2 tsp Creole seasoning or seasoned salt

Instructions:

• Toss potatoes with oil and seasonings; spread on griddle, cover with dome; cook ~15 min, flipping.
• Push potatoes aside, add sausage and onion to cook until browned.
• Mix everything, plate, and serve with hot sauce or fresh herbs.

Source: Ole Blue Dog

3. Italian Sausage & Peppers

Classic comfort food with sheet-pan vibes, but on your griddle. Fast, smoky, and perfect for hoagie-style dinners. I always double this because the leftovers are great for next-day lunches.

Ingredients (serves 4-6):

• 10 Italian sausage links (mild or hot)
• 4 bell peppers (mixed colors), thinly sliced
• 1 onion, thinly sliced
• 4 Tbsp oil (avocado or vegetable)
• Salt & pepper
• Optional: provolone or mozzarella, hoagie rolls

Instructions:

• Preheat griddle to medium.
• Oil surface; lay sausages on one side, veggies on the other.
• Cook sausages ~10-15 min, turning occasionally; stir veggies until soft.
• Use thermometer to confirm sausage at 160°F.
• Optional: split rolls, add sausage & veggies, top with cheese, melt.

Source: Meatloaf & Melodrama

4. Cowboy Stir-Fry

A colorful, hearty skillet dinner inspired by Tex-Mex cowboy flavors. It combines kielbasa, veggies, potatoes, and even steak if you want. My crew loves it paired with tortillas or rice. My husband joked we could call this “leftovers on steroids.”

Ingredients:

• 2-3 lbs red potatoes
• ½ head cabbage, core removed and chopped
• 2 lbs Ribeye steak
• 1 red bell pepper, seeded and chopped
• 1 sweet onion, chopped
• 1 yellow squash, sliced
• 1 lb Kielbasa, sliced
• Heifer Dust or favorite steak seasoning
• 1 can sweet corn
• ½ jar pickled jalapeños
• 2 tbsp Worcestershire sauce
• 1 bottle Italian dressing
• Oil for cooking

Instructions:

• Preheat griddle to low/medium (around 375°F). Add oil and spread evenly.
• Cut red potatoes and add to griddle. (Optional: par-cook in microwave first.) Add water and cover with a dome for 4-5 minutes.
• Add chopped cabbage to griddle. Then add chopped bell pepper, onion, and sliced squash. Season with salt and pepper and mix veggies together.
• Move veggies and cabbage to one side. Turn center burners to high.
• Add sliced kielbasa to hot section and sear. Season ribeye steak with Heifer Dust, add oil, then sear steak on hot zone. Cook 3-4 minutes per side then remove and chop.
• Mix sausage with veggies and cabbage. Add corn and pickled jalapeños to griddle and heat through.
• Combine everything: potatoes, steak, corn, and veggie mixture. Add Worcestershire and Italian dressing, stir well.
• Plate and serve hot – this one goes fast!

Source: The Hungry Hussey

5. Kielbasa & Cheese Tortellini Skillet

A low-effort midweek hit featuring cheese tortellini, kielbasa, bell peppers, and Italian dressing. Comforting, cheesy, and perfect for leftovers. 

Ingredients (serves 4):

• 2 packages kielbasa, sliced
• 2 bell peppers & 1 onion, sliced
• Oil
• 19-oz frozen cheese tortellini
• ½ cup water
• ~¼ cup Italian dressing
• Parmesan for topping

Instructions:

• Heat griddle medium-high, oil, cook kielbasa & veggies ~5 min.
• On other side, add tortellini, splash water, cover with dome ~4-6 min till tender.
• Toss tortellini with sausage & veggies, drizzle Italian dressing, stir.
• Serve sprinkled with Parmesan.

Source: Cooking in the Midwest

Hope you enjoy!

Hope you get a chance to enjoy one or more of these sausage Blackstone recipes. Before we go, here are some general Blackstone cooking tips…

• Prepping ahead: Chop veggies inside and bring them out in trays or zip bags to streamline cooking.
• Griddle zones: Use heat zones: for example, potatoes and sausages on hot, veggies on medium, to prevent burning and improve flow.
• Use a dome: Lock in steam over potatoes or pasta for tender, thorough cooking.
• Check sausage temps: Fresh sausage needs to reach 160°F.
• Kid shortcuts: Frozen diced potatoes, pre-cooked sausages, and frozen tortellini save prep time when you’re juggling homework or sports.

Any other sausage recipes you’ve enjoyed on the Blackstone? We’d love to hear about it – leave a comment below!

Also, while you’re at it, check out some of our other Blackstone recipe posts:

• Top 10 Blackstone Recipes (Our Favorites to Cook in the Summer)
• 5 of the Best Hibachi Recipes for Blackstone (that will impress your family)
• Best Blackstone Dessert Recipes: 6 You Have to Try
• 4 Crazy Good Blackstone Smash Burger Recipes

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I get it. It’s 3 PM on a Tuesday, your little one is about to roll into a boredom tantrum, and you’re about two seconds away from handing over the iPad just to keep the peace. We’ve all been there. But what if I told you there’s a whole world of screen free activities for kids that can actually keep them engaged longer than it takes you to make a cup of coffee?

After years of trial and error (and yes, some failures involving glitter that I’m still finding in weird places), I’ve compiled this massive list of activities that actually work – there are so many here that you’ll never run out of things to do. 

Whether you’re dealing with a curious toddler who wants to “help” with everything or a school-aged kid who thinks they’ve outgrown “baby games,” there’s something here that’ll spark their interest. And the best part? Most of these use stuff you probably already have lying around the house.

Before we dive into the fun, let’s talk about why screen free activities for kids are so worth the effort. Sure, screens aren’t the devil, but there’s something important that happens when kids engage with the physical world around them. Their creativity explodes, their attention spans actually grow, and they develop problem-solving skills that’ll serve them well beyond childhood.

Plus, let’s be honest, when kids are happily occupied with hands-on activities, they’re usually much more pleasant to be around. Win-win! So whether you’re just trying to keep your kids entertained on a rainy day or you’re actually building out some summer camp activities for kids, there’s probably at least a few good ideas for you here.

Some of Our Favorite Screen Free Activities for Kids

1. DIY Sensory Bins

We’re a huge fan of sensory bins and we’ve written about them before (such as in our post on what to do indoors with a toddler). They work for a surprisingly wide age range (this isn’t just for toddlers). I’ve watched my 2-year-old spend 45 minutes just moving dried beans from one container to another, while my 6-year-old creates elaborate treasure hunts in the same bin.

2. Kitchen Science Experiments

Kids are natural scientists, and the kitchen is like a laboratory waiting to be explored. These experiments feel like magic but teach real scientific concepts.

3. Indoor Obstacle Course

When it’s too cold, hot, or rainy to go outside, bringing the playground indoors saves the day. This burns energy and builds gross motor skills.  DIY obstacle courses are surprisingly easy to create.

4. Homemade Playdough Adventures

Store-bought playdough is fine, but homemade playdough is an activity in itself, plus it feels amazing and lasts longer.

5. Nature Scavenger Hunt

This works whether you have a backyard or just a few houseplants. It gets kids really looking at their environment instead of just rushing through it.

6. Cardboard Box Creations

Never underestimate the power of a good cardboard box. I’ve seen kids ignore expensive toys to play with the box they came in for hours.

7. Dance Party and Freeze Dance

Sometimes you just need to get the wiggles out, and music is pure magic for changing everyone’s mood.

8. Simple Cooking Projects

Cooking with kids is messy and takes forever, but it’s also incredibly rewarding and teaches so many skills.

9. Treasure Hunt Adventures

Kids love mysteries and feeling like detectives. Treasure hunts can be adapted for any age and skill level.

10. Art Supply Exploration

Sometimes the best art happens when you just put out supplies and let kids experiment without an end goal in mind.

11. Build a Fort

Fort building is basically architecture for kids, and it never gets old. Every blanket fort feels like a secret hideaway.

12. Water Play Activities

Water play isn’t just for summer or bath time. It’s incredibly soothing and engaging for kids of all ages. 

13. Puppet Show Theater

Puppet shows let kids practice storytelling, develop language skills, and work through emotions in a safe way.

14. Garden Planting Project

Even if you don’t have a yard, kids can learn about growing things with small indoor plants or herbs. I love getting the kids involved with gardening.

15. Storytelling and Book Creation

Kids have amazing imaginations, and creating their own books helps develop literacy skills while honoring their creativity.

Other Screen Free Activities for Kids by Age Group

Ages 2-4: Little Hands, Big Imagination

16. Sticker scenes on paper
17. Sorting colors with colored blocks
18. Playing with measuring cups in the bathtub
19. Simple puzzles with large pieces
20. Tearing paper (surprisingly entertaining!)
21. Matching games with household objects
22. Playing with scarves and ribbons
23. Water painting outside with big brushes
24. Exploring different textures in bags
25. Simple songs with hand motions

Ages 3-5: Growing Independence

26. Threading large beads or cereal
27. Playing dress-up with old clothes
28. Building with blocks or magnetic tiles
29. Simple board games like Candy Land
30. Painting with cotton swabs
31. Playing “restaurant” or “store”
32. Easy jigsaw puzzles
33. Dancing to different types of music
34. Playing with kinetic sand
35. Simple science experiments with water

Ages 4-6: Ready for Challenges

36. Memory matching games
37. Beginning board games like Connect Four
38. Creating patterns with objects
39. Simple card games like Go Fish
40. Building elaborate block structures
41. Playing charades with simple words
42. Easy craft projects with glue and scissors
43. Playing school or teacher
44. Simple word games and rhyming
45. Exploring maps and globes

Ages 5-7: Building Skills

46. More complex puzzles (50+ pieces)
47. Beginning strategy games like Checkers
48. Writing letters to family members
49. Creating comic strips
50. Playing 20 questions
51. Simple embroidery or sewing projects
52. Building with more complex construction sets
53. Playing detective games
54. Creating their own board games
55. Learning card tricks

Ages 6-8: Independent Explorers

56. Reading chapter books independently
57. More complex craft projects
58. Playing chess or advanced strategy games
59. Creating stop-motion videos (without screens!)
60. Writing and illustrating stories
61. Building complex structures with various materials
62. Learning magic tricks
63. Creating and solving riddles
64. Planning and preparing simple meals
65. Organizing collections (rocks, cards, etc.)

Ages 7-10: Creative Problem Solvers

66. Building models from kits
67. Learning origami
68. Playing word games like Scrabble
69. Creating detailed drawings or paintings
70. Writing plays and performing them
71. Building robots or inventions from recyclables
72. Learning calligraphy or hand lettering
73. Playing complex strategy games
74. Creating detailed treasure maps
75. Learning to knit or crochet

Screen Free Activities for Kids: Tips for Success

Start small. You don’t need to do all 70+ activities in one week. Pick one or two that sound fun and see how they go.

Follow their lead. If your child is really into dinosaurs, incorporate dinosaurs into your sensory bins, art projects, and imaginative play.

Embrace the mess. Seriously, some of the best learning happens when things get a little chaotic.

Keep supplies accessible. Having a designated craft bin or activity box makes it easier to say yes when inspiration strikes.

Don’t feel guilty about saying no. Some days you just need quiet time, and that’s okay too.

That’s all (for now)!

Here’s what I’ve learned after years of keeping kids busy: the magic isn’t in the activity itself. It’s in those moments when you see your child completely absorbed in something they’re creating, when they solve a problem on their own, or when they come up with an idea that surprises you.

Screen free activities for kids give us the chance to slow down and really see our children. They remind us that the best entertainment often comes from the simplest things: a cardboard box, some paint, a pile of leaves, or just our undivided attention.

So the next time you hear “I’m bored,” take a deep breath, consult this list, and remember that you’ve got this. Your kids are lucky to have a parent who cares enough to offer them real-world adventures instead of just handing over a device.  (With that said, no judgement if you occasionally have to break out the iPad – I still do it all the time too.)

What’s your favorite screen free activity for kids? Share it in the comments below!

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As I watched my 7 year-old bounce off the walls for the third time this morning, I realized something had to give. The endless “I’m bored” complaints, the gravitational pull toward their iPads, and my own regret for not signing them up for summer camp, were weighing on me. That’s when I discovered the magic of creating a DIY obstacle course for kids right in our own backyard (and living room).

If you’re like me and want to get your children moving without breaking the bank on expensive gym classes or equipment, you’re in the right place. Building obstacle courses at home has become our family’s secret weapon against endless energy, and I’m excited to share everything I’ve learned along the way.

Let’s jump into it (pun intended).

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Why Build a DIY Obstacle Course for Kids?

When I first started researching summer camp activities for kids that we could do at home, I hadn’t even considered obstacle courses. Sure, I knew they’d tire out my kids, but the advantages go so much deeper than just burning energy.

The physical benefits alone are worth it:

• They help improve balance 
• The coordination required to navigate different stations works muscle groups that normal playground equipment often misses
• The varied movements help build overall strength in a way that feels like play rather than exercise

But what really surprised me were the mental/emotional benefits:

• Watching my kids problem-solve their way through challenges has been pretty cool to see
• Seeing their confidence grow as they master new obstacles
• Witnessing their determination when they don’t succeed on the first try
• They’re learning persistence and resilience without even realizing it

The cost savings compared to sports classes or gym memberships make this even better. Most of what you need is probably already sitting in your garage or can be purchased inexpensively.

Planning Your DIY Obstacle Course for Kids

Before diving into construction mode, I learned that a little planning goes a long way. My first attempt was a chaotic mess that wasn’t fun for anyone (oops). 

Start by assessing your space: Do you have a backyard, or will you primarily be working indoors? I’m lucky to have both options, but I know plenty of parents who create amazing obstacle courses in apartments.

Age considerations matter more than I initially thought:

• What works for my eight-year-old definitely doesn’t work for my four-year-old neighbor
• Younger kids need lower obstacles, wider paths, and simpler challenges
• Older children crave complexity and competition
• I always plan with my youngest participant in mind, then add optional difficulty boosters for the bigger kids

Safety became my number one priority after we had a little injury:

• I always do a walkthrough before letting the kids loose
• I check for sharp edges, unstable surfaces, and potential collision points

Bonus tip: involve your kids in the planning process. They come up with the most creative ideas, and they’re way more invested when they feel ownership over the course design.

Essential Equipment and Materials

You probably already own more obstacle course materials than you realize. My most successful courses have used household items in creative ways:

• Pool noodles are absolute gold. I bought a pack of foam pool noodles and use them for everything: hurdles to jump over, tunnels to crawl under when bent into arches, and balance challenges when laid flat on the ground. They’re soft, colorful, and incredibly versatile.
• Hula hoops serve multiple purposes in our courses. Kids can jump through them, use them as targets for bean bag tosses, or step through them in sequence. I keep several different sizes on hand.
• Jump ropes work for traditional jumping, but I also lay them on the ground to create paths kids must follow or boundaries they can’t cross.
• For marking stations and creating boundaries, I rely on cones or markers. The bright colors help kids understand the course layout immediately.
• Yoga mats have become essential for any indoor setup. They provide cushioning for rolls and crawling sections while protecting both kids and floors.
• I invested in some resistance bands after seeing how much my kids enjoyed the stretchy challenge element. They’re perfect for creating “spider webs” to navigate through.
• Small hurdles or an agility ladder add professional-looking challenges without the professional price tag. My kids feel like real athletes when they’re stepping through ladder rungs.
• A good stopwatch or timer turns any obstacle course into an exciting challenge. Kids love trying to beat their previous times.
• For younger children, portable tunnels are fantastic. They’re collapsible for storage and provide that fun enclosed crawling experience kids crave.
• Instead of balance beams, I use 2×4 lumber pieces or even just strips of tape on the ground for balance challenges.
• For outdoor courses, outdoor chalk and sidewalk paint let kids help design and mark their own courses.
• Storage bins are crucial for keeping everything organized and easily accessible. Nothing kills the motivation to set up an obstacle course like spending twenty minutes hunting for equipment.

Indoor DIY Obstacle Course Ideas

Winter afternoons and rainy days don’t have to mean screen time. Some of our most creative obstacle courses happen inside:

• Living room transformations: I move the coffee table to create an open space, then set up stations around the perimeter. Couch cushions become stepping stones. The space between the couch and wall becomes a crawling tunnel. Pool noodles taped to chairs create limbo bars or hurdles to step over.
• Hallway challenges: The hallway is perfect for straight-line activities. I lay out yoga mats end-to-end for bear crawls, set up cones for weaving, and use painter’s tape to create balance lines kids must walk.
• Basement or playroom setups: If you have a basement or dedicated playroom, you can leave semi-permanent setups that kids can use whenever they want. 
• Apartment-friendly options: Apartment dwellers shouldn’t feel left out. I know families who create amazing courses using just their living room space. The key is vertical thinking and multi-purpose obstacles. A single hula hoop can be jumped through, used for arm circles, and laid flat for stepping inside.

Additional Tips for a Successful Obstacle Course

• Layout first: I start by laying out the entire course before setting up any individual stations. I walk the path myself, checking for logical progression and identifying potential bottlenecks where kids might bunch up.
• Add clear visual markers: Each station gets a clear visual marker. Numbered cones help kids understand the sequence. Arrows made with chalk or tape eliminate confusion about direction.
• Use a timing system: Add excitement without requiring expensive equipment. For younger kids, I simply count out loud or play energetic music. Older children love the precision of actual stopwatch timing.
• Make the difficulty scalable: Making courses scalable for different skill levels keeps everyone engaged. I create multiple options at challenging stations. Kids can crawl under the pool noodle hurdle, step over it, or jump over it based on their ability and confidence.

Troubleshooting Common Challenges

Even the best-planned obstacle courses hit snags. Here’s how I handle the most common issues.

When kids lose interest, it’s usually because the challenge level is wrong. Too easy becomes boring quickly. Too hard leads to frustration and giving up. I adjust difficulty by changing rules rather than rebuilding stations. “This time, do it while balancing a bean bag on your head” instantly increases difficulty.

Difficulty level adjustments need to happen in real-time. I watch for signs of struggle or boredom and make modifications immediately. Adding or removing steps, changing time limits, or introducing handicaps keeps everyone appropriately challenged.

That’s All!

Hopefully our little guide on DIY obstacle courses for kids will help you put something fun together. Remember, you don’t need a huge budget, perfect weather, or extensive space to get started. Begin with whatever you have available. Use household items creatively. Focus on fun over perfection.

Start small with just three or four simple stations. Pay attention to what your kids enjoy most, then build from there. Every family’s obstacle course will look different, and that’s exactly how it should be. It’s pretty hard to screw it up, and even if you do, no big deal – just tweak it!

Anyway, enough from us.  Have you tried creating an obstacle course for your kids before? What worked well for you? Let us know in the comments!

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Undoubtedly the single greatest challenge of raising a newborn child is something you’ve likely taken for granted your entire life: how to manage sleep.

And no, not managing sleep for the baby: the baby will sleep whenever it feels like sleeping.

Before becoming a new parent, you commonly hear two seemingly contradictory things:

1. Newborn babies sleep all the time (somewhere in the range of 16-20 hours per day)
2. As a parent of a newborn, you will get very little sleep

“What the f**k?”  you think to yourself.  If the baby is sleeping 16-20 hours per day, surely I can find my usual 6-8 hours of sleep in there somewhere, right?

Here’s the part where experienced parents laugh at you.

I thought the same thing when my daughter was born.  I knew sleep was going to be rough in the beginning, but with the baby sleeping most of the day, I thought for sure there would be some way to still get something close to my normal amount of sleep.

Ha…I was so wrong.

I’m not going to get into the exact details of why I didn’t sleep much, because it’s irrelevant for the topic of this post.  Every kid is different, and I can guarantee your experience will be at least somewhat different from mine.

But…we can all agree that nighttime sleep will never be the same while a newborn is in the house.  So, with that in mind, I want to discuss some strategies around how to tackle these nighttime duties in your average two-parent home.

It won’t be easy, but here it goes…

The Dad Problem

Let’s just get the big issue out of the way first…

Dads don’t have boobs.

Okay, fine, that’s not the biggest problem, although it can be one of them.  If you’re a mother who is exclusively breastfeeding, it’s difficult to get dad involved with the feeding.

However, as I quickly learned, there are many other ways to help out: burping the baby during and after each feeding, changing diapers, changing clothes, etc.  There is lots to be done that doesn’t involve being equipped with milk-producing breasts.

And in my case, we eventually moved away from exclusively breastfeeding, and started occasionally bottle-feeding breast pumped milk.  This is a prime spot for dad to get involved with the feeding.

So what’s the problem?

Newborn babies eat often, which includes multiple times during the night.  And feeding aside, sometimes newborn babies just don’t want to sleep.

And although dad may be on paternity leave, it generally doesn’t extend beyond a few weeks, at which point your newborn is still, well, a newborn.  So herein lies the real problem:

How can we split up nighttime duties if dad needs to go to work?  Should he still be expected to help out at night?

After all, he can’t nap during the day when the baby is napping, like mom sometimes can.  It’s a difficult situation, especially when dad wants to stay involved and not leave mom feeling overburdened.  There are some ways around this problem, however.

Strategies for Splitting Nighttime Duties with a Newborn

It would tough to expect both mom and dad to evenly split nighttime duties with a newborn when dad has to work a full day and likely needs some reasonable amount of sleep.   But that shouldn’t render him useless (even though he might feel useless as a first time dad).

Here are some strategies and ideas for how to split nighttime duties (or at least, ease the burden) with a newborn at home that I think can work for a lot of parents:

1) Split the weekday nights and weekend nights (with “bonus” help during the week)

This is probably the most practical strategy that works for most couples where dad has to work a normal “9 to 5” job during the week.  Sunday-Thursday night, mom handles the feedings at night while dad gets enough sleep so he can work during the day.

In exchange, dad takes the night feedings on Friday and Saturday nights (assuming you are okay with bottle-feeding your baby).

The “bonus” help comes during the weekday evenings: Dad takes care of whatever chores mom couldn’t do during the day.  Whether that’s doing dishes, laundry, etc…dad takes care of them when he gets home from work.

It’s a relatively fair trade-off (given the circumstances) that allows dad to not go to work feeling like a zombie.

2) Split every night.

This one can get tricky, but if you do it right, it works.

It’s reasonable to expect that, even though he has to work, dad is still not going to get the sleep he had before the baby is born.  I think we can all get on board with that premise.

Splitting every night works something like this (and you can tweak this schedule to fit your own personal situation):

• After dinner, mom sleeps from 8:30-11:30 PM while dad watches the baby (and bottle feeding, if necessary during that time)
• Dad sleeps from 11:30 PM – 4:30 AM
• Dad watches and feeds the baby from 4:30 AM – 6:30 AM while mom sleeps (and then dad proceeds to get ready / go to work)

It’s not going to be enjoyable for everyone, but it’s a schedule gives dad a solid 5 hours of sleep (which is enough to be functional at work with a little bit of coffee).

It also gives mom 5 hours of sleep – granted, it’s not 5 hours of continuous sleep, and 5 hours isn’t a lot, but mom has the ability to take naps during the day while the baby naps (which dad can’t do).

3) Alternating Days

This one won’t be as appealing to working dads, but it’s an option.  Basically, mom and dad take turns handling the late night work, alternating days so that each gets a full night’s sleep every other day (one person handles 3 nights while the other handles 4).

I think this can work if you make it similar to strategy #1 above where two of dad’s nights are Friday and Saturday (i.e. nights where he doesn’t work the next day), and one night during the week.

If you truly alternate nights and dad potentially has at least two week nights for his responsibility, he could run into some sleep trouble if your child isn’t quick to go back to sleep after feedings. Our daughter was pretty difficult early on and wouldn’t let you put her down in the middle of the night (wide awake between 2-4 AM).

While this option does seem to be the most “fair,” I do think it could place unnecessary stress on a couple when one of you has to work a normal workday.  I’m all for equality when it comes to raising a newborn, but I also think it’s important to keep in mind that one person has the luxury of a mid-day nap, while the other doesn’t (and if he does, he may find himself without a job before long).

So, which is the best option?

Well, I can’t exactly make that decision for you, but’s a decision that needs to be made.  Sleep is extremely important, so you and your spouse must find a way to each get a reasonable amount of sleep each day.

In my opinion, however, option 2 allows you to get on a consistent schedule where every day is the same.  Once you’ve got a rhythm going, it’s not so bad.

Keep in mind that this isn’t a life sentence – eventually, your child will begin sleeping longer and longer at night, waking up less frequently for feedings (and eventually, not waking up at all at night).  It’s a pretty stressful time that all parents go through, but it is manageable if you come up with a plan and stick to it.

But as any parent will tell you…plans are often foolish.  Just when you think you’ve found something that works, your kid will surprise you and throw off the plan completely.  

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Remember when parenting styles were just… parenting? Now we’ve got labels for everything. There’s the crunchy mom grinding her own baby food and making cloth diapers from organic hemp. There’s the silky mom with her perfectly organized nursery and state-of-the-art baby gear. And then there’s us somewhere in the middle, trying to figure out where we fit in this whole parenting spectrum. Enter the Scrunchy Mom (or Scrunchy Parent, because dads and non-binary parents are doing this too). 

If you’ve ever felt like you don’t quite belong in either the super-natural or ultra-conventional parenting camps, you might just be scrunchy without even knowing it.

Let’s get into everything you need to know.

What is a Scrunchy Mom?

The term “Scrunchy Mom” has been floating around parenting circles for a few years now, and honestly, it’s about time someone gave us middle-ground parents a name. A Scrunchy Parent is basically someone who cherry-picks from both crunchy and silky parenting approaches, creating their own customized parenting style that works for their family.

Think of it like this: a crunchy mom might exclusively breastfeed for two years and refuse all processed foods. A silky mom might formula feed from day one and stock up on convenient baby pouches. A Scrunchy Mom? She might breastfeed for six months, then switch to formula when she goes back to work, and feed her kid both homemade purees AND store-bought options depending on what her Tuesday looks like.

The whole point is flexibility and doing what works for your family.

Scrunchy vs. Crunchy vs. Silky: Understanding the Spectrum

Let me break this down because these labels can get confusing, and most of us don’t fit neatly into just one category anyway.

Crunchy parents tend to go the all-natural route. They’re often into attachment parenting, extended breastfeeding, baby-wearing, co-sleeping, and avoiding processed foods. They might prefer natural remedies over conventional medicine and choose alternative education options. There’s nothing wrong with this approach if it works for your family.

Silky parents embrace modern conveniences and conventional approaches. They’re comfortable with formula feeding, sleep training, using disposable diapers, and following traditional medical advice. They might love their high-tech baby monitors and aren’t stressed about screen time limits.

Scrunchy Parents are the ones saying “why not both?” We might cloth diaper during the day but use disposables at night. We’ll try the natural remedy first, but we’re not afraid to call the pediatrician when needed. We love our baby carriers but also appreciate a good stroller.

Here’s the thing though: most parents are actually pretty scrunchy, even if they don’t realize it. Very few people are 100% crunchy or 100% silky in every single parenting decision.

Core Characteristics of Scrunchy Parenting

What makes a Scrunchy Parent tick? It comes down to a few key principles that guide our decision-making.

We’re flexible above all else. Scrunchy Parents understand that what works for one kid might not work for another, and what works today might not work next month. We’re willing to adapt and change course when needed, without feeling like we’re betraying our parenting values.

We make evidence-based decisions when possible. We read the research, talk to our doctors, and consider expert opinions. Research consistently shows that balanced, flexible parenting approaches tend to have the most positive outcomes for children. But we also trust our instincts and recognize that sometimes the “best” choice on paper isn’t the best choice for our specific situation.

Individual family needs come first. A Scrunchy Parent doesn’t make decisions based on what other parents might think or what looks good on social media. We consider our work schedules, our budget, our living situation, our kids’ personalities, and our own mental health when making parenting choices.

We’re okay with practical compromises. Perfect is the enemy of good, and Scrunchy Parents get this. We’d rather make a decision that’s 80% aligned with our values and actually sustainable than go for the 100% “perfect” choice that leaves us stressed and overwhelmed.

Common Scrunchy Mom Practices

So what does scrunchy parenting actually look like day-to-day? Here are some examples of how Scrunchy Parents typically approach common parenting decisions.

Feeding choices are probably where you’ll see the most scrunchy behavior. We might start with exclusive breastfeeding, supplement with formula when needed, make some baby food from scratch, and also keep store-bought pouches in the diaper bag for emergencies. We’re not stressed about giving our toddler goldfish crackers at the playground, but we also try to offer plenty of fruits and vegetables at home.

Sleep approaches tend to be pretty practical too. A Scrunchy Parent might try gentle sleep methods first but isn’t opposed to some form of sleep training if everyone in the house is suffering from sleep deprivation. We might co-sleep with a newborn but transition to a crib when it feels right for our family.

Medical decisions are made in partnership with healthcare providers. We follow the recommended vaccine schedule but might ask questions and do our own research. We’ll try natural remedies for minor issues but don’t hesitate to seek medical treatment when necessary.

Screen time and technology is handled with balance. We’re not going to let our two-year-old watch TV all day, but we’re also not going to stress if they see some screens during a long car ride or when we need to make an important phone call.

Education and childcare choices are based on what works for our family’s situation. We might love the idea of homeschooling but choose traditional school because we need to work. Or we might choose a Montessori preschool but a conventional elementary school.

The Benefits of Being a Scrunchy Parent

There are some real advantages to taking a scrunchy approach to parenting; I wish more parents felt comfortable embracing this middle ground.

The guilt factor is way lower. When you’re not trying to fit into a specific parenting box, you spend less time worrying about whether you’re doing everything “right” according to someone else’s standards. You make decisions based on your family’s needs, and that’s incredibly freeing.

You’re more adaptable when life happens. And trust me, life will happen. Kids get sick, jobs change, family situations shift. Scrunchy Parents are already comfortable adjusting their approach, so we roll with these changes more easily.

Your kids learn balance and critical thinking. When children see their parents making thoughtful decisions that consider multiple factors, they learn to think critically about choices instead of just following rules blindly.

You build genuine confidence in your parenting. Instead of constantly second-guessing yourself against some external standard, you develop trust in your ability to make good decisions for your specific family.

Challenges and Criticisms

Let’s be real though: being a Scrunchy Parent isn’t always easy, and you might face some challenges along the way.

Judgment from other parenting camps can be tough. Some crunchy parents might think you’re not committed enough to natural parenting. Some silky parents might think you’re being unnecessarily complicated. The truth is, people are often more comfortable when you fit neatly into a category they understand.

Decision fatigue is real. When you’re constantly evaluating each choice instead of just following a predetermined set of rules, it can be mentally exhausting sometimes. Every decision becomes a decision, if you know what I mean.

Explaining your choices gets old. People often want to understand why you cloth diaper but also use disposables, or why you’re okay with some processed foods but make other things from scratch. Sometimes you just want to parent without having to justify every single choice.

How to Embrace Your Inner Scrunchy Parent

If you’re reading this thinking “this sounds like me,” here are some ways to lean into your scrunchy parenting style with confidence.

Let go of perfectionism. This is probably the hardest but most important step. Accept that there’s no perfect way to parent, and what matters most is that your choices work for your family. Good enough really is good enough most of the time.

Trust your instincts while staying informed. Read the books, talk to experts, and gather information. But also trust that gut feeling when something doesn’t feel right for your family, even if it’s supposedly the “best” approach.

Find your community. Look for other parents who share your flexible, evidence-based approach to parenting. Online groups, local parenting classes, or just conversations with friends can help you realize you’re not alone in this middle-ground approach.

Be practical about implementation. Start with small changes that feel manageable. You don’t have to overhaul your entire parenting approach overnight. Maybe start by being more flexible about one area, like feeding or sleep, and see how that feels.

Remember that consistency doesn’t mean rigidity. You can be consistent in your values (like prioritizing your family’s wellbeing and making thoughtful decisions) without being rigid in your methods.

Embracing the Journey

Here’s what I’ve learned after years of scrunchy parenting: there’s no finish line where you suddenly become the perfect parent who makes all the right choices. Parenting is an ongoing process of learning, adjusting, and doing your best with the information and resources you have.

Being a scrunchy mom or scrunchy parent means accepting that parenting is messy and complicated, and that’s okay. It means prioritizing your family’s actual needs over someone else’s idea of what good parenting looks like. It means being confident enough to change course when something isn’t working, and humble enough to admit when you don’t have all the answers.

Most importantly, it means recognizing that the goal isn’t to win some imaginary parenting competition. The goal is to raise healthy, happy kids while maintaining your own sanity and well-being in the process.

So whether you’re already embracing your inner Scrunchy Mom or just starting to question whether you need to fit into a specific parenting category, remember this: you know your family better than anyone else. Trust yourself to make the choices that work for you, stay open to adjusting when needed, and don’t worry too much about what anyone else thinks about your approach.

After all, your kids won’t remember whether you were crunchy, silky, or scrunchy. They’ll remember that you loved them, and that’s all that really matters, right?

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