Date Havoc

Beauty Tips for Flattering Feet

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You jam your feet into fashionable shoes, kick them around, stub their toes, ignore their nails and demand that they carry you around all day. No wonder they look a little worse for the wear. Luckily, there are plenty of simple, inexpensive tricks you can use to have your feet looking and feeling their best in no time at all.

There are so many elements of everyday living that are absolutely torturous for your feet. Standing all day, too-small shoes, stuffy boots, and exposing them to the locker room floor at your local gym are examples of scenarios to which most women can relate. Feet are often taken for granted until they start to hurt and reject the burdens you place on them, so think of taking care of your feet now as an investment against problems in the future.

If you’ve ever had a professional pedicure, you know how amazing it feels to have your feet taken care of: soaking, exfoliation, moisturizing and maybe even massage. The best part is you can recreate this experience at home with only a small investment of time, money, and resources.

Begin by removing any old nail polish with a remover-soaked cotton swab and then soaking your feet in a tub of relaxing, hot water. Toss in some bath or Epsom salts to increase the pleasant feeling. If you have a home foot bath with bubbles or jets, that’s even better. Soak for at least five to ten minutes; the heat will promote blood circulation in your feet and soften your skin and you can use the time to read, watch television or just lean back and relax.

When you’re done soaking, use a small brush to buff one foot at a time, removing dead skin and softening your feet. Let each foot go back into the water after you’ve finished brushing.

Use a dollop of foot scrub lotion (available at any department or drug store) to further soften any rough spots like your heels or the sides of your toes. When you’ve massaged the lotion into your feet, take a pumice stone to finish off any lingering rough skin. This is a great tool, so take your time and rinse your feet when you’re done.

Feeling good by now? There’s more. Remove your feet from the water and dry them with a soft towel. Rub your feet with some of your favorite lotion. A peppermint lotion may be particularly soothing and relaxing, especially if you have willing partner to handle this step for you. Either way, it feels marvelous.

After you’ve finished massaging your feet, it’s time to add a little style. Trim and shape your nails with clippers and a file, and then use a cuticle stick to gently push back your supple cuticles. If you have a cuticle trimmer, you may want to scale away excess cuticle skin, although it’s imperative to do this carefully to avoid damaging the cuticle.

Once your cuticles are under control, you will want to even out the surface of your nail by applying a clear or opaque base coat. This will help hide any ridges or lumpy areas that might show up if you applied nail color directly to the affected area. When the base coat is dry, add a coat of your favorite nail color. Choose something soft and light for a conservative look or something bold and daring for more flair. Whatever your choice, it’s a good idea to apply several coats to improve the durability of your finish. Clean up any messy areas as you go, using a small cloth or cotton swab dipped in nail polish remover to dissolve stains that may have been deposited around the edges of your toe nail. An additional coat of clear sealer will prevent chips and scuff marks from harming your pedicure masterpiece.

That’s it! You’re ready to strap on a pair of open-toe sandals or to pad around the house in your bare, and very fashionable, flattering feet.

Looking pretty is one element of great feet. The other part is keeping your feet healthy. Wear supportive, well-fitted shoes, wash and dry your feet carefully to avoid fungal and bacterial problems, and mention any significant problems, such as cuts and scrapes on your feet not healing well as that could indicate a more serious problem such as diabetes.

Problems With Dating

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Most dating problems occur because either the two of
you are not compatible or you are not communicating
enough. Other problems may be because the two of you
just are not right for each other.

Communication is the most important thing when you are
dating. Most problems occur because the two of you are
having difficulty expressing your feelings or you
aren’t being clear about what you want.

When you both communicate with each other properly it
is clear to both of you if you are compatible and have
the same likes and dislikes.

You cannot force a relationship if the two of you are
too different or you have different goals for the
relationship.

It is important to communicate about what you need and
want from your relationship so you both are satisfied
and you are not having disagreements about things.

Another thing that can cause problems with dating is
if the two of you are not compatible. Communicating
properly will tell you if you are or not.

Compatibility can be difficult if one person in the
relationship is needier than the other person. If one
of the people wants their space and the other is very
needy then it can make it difficult for dating.

Dating problems occur when communication skills are
not up to par. You have to be comfortable with the
person you are with so you can talk to them.

Being comfortable and being able to communicate will
show you how compatible the two of you are. If you
don’t have these two things then you might just
consider a good friendship.

Blind Dating

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Blind dating is a common way for dating also. It often
occurs when someone is set up on a date through a
friend or a third party.

People are often set up on a blind date through a
friend or a co-worker who knows both parties and
believes they would make a great couple.

If you are recommended to go on a blind date by a
friend who knows you well, you might want to consider
it.

If your friend knows the other person as well as they
know you, they might be right about the two of you
connecting and getting along well together.

When you go on a blind date you might not have any
idea what the other person looks like or you might
have been shown a picture.

In all cases, the person you will be going out with
will be someone you have never met or spoke to before.
It is common to be nervous about going on a blind date
because you don’t know if the person will like you and
you don’t know if you will like the other person.

Some people really enjoy being set up on a blind date
and many blind dates turn into successful
relationships if the right people set the two of you
up.

You should try to know as much information that you
can about the person before you go and be sure your
friend knows the other person well before you go to be
sure the date will not be a disaster.

However, even if the two of you decide that you are
not a compatible couple you might meet someone who
becomes a very good friend of yours in the long run.

Online Dating Tips for Women

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Women in search for a knight in shining armor in real life

dating should not lower her standards while searching

online.

She should keep her dream of having a prince charming to

the rescue. But having big dreams does not mean being too

selective.

Women should be selective but they should not limit their

options exactly to their ideal man. Limiting your options

will decrease the possibility of having a good catch.

Create an interesting profile. This is one way to attract

your prince charming. The content of your profile should be

honest and true if you are looking for someone who’ll be

you’re partner for a long and intimate relationship.

Thus, put something on your profile that can make a good

first impression. This impression should also last a

lifetime. Keep in mind to upload a photo with your most

attractive smile.

Avoid overly sexual photos - upload sexy photos, but limit

it to PG13 viewing.

Let’s include your safety. Make sure your common sense is

working well. Do not give your personal home address to

your online date. If you plan to meet up somewhere, have

someone to accompany you or know about your plans.

If uneasiness is felt while being with your date, you have

the right to stop and cut all contact off between the both

of you. It is better to be safe than sorry.

Online dating is a rapidly growing activity. Better hurry

and carry on these tips to start your wonderful search for

your partner.

Online Dating Tips for Men

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So you’ve just joined an online dating community. Do not be
discouraged when your prospect dates have not yet responded
to your queries.

Women members of online dating portals receive an average
of fifty to 200 queries from other members of the opposite
sex. This means she’s just taking time going through all
the queries she had received. You need to be a bit more
patient.

Have a proactive approach when it comes to online dating.
Focusing on one woman would reduce your chances of landing
a response.

Try sending messages to different women in order to bolster
the probabilities of getting a good response.

Carefully choosing your would-be dates is a good thing to
do since this would help you land the dates who have the
same interests as yours. However, don’t be too selective.

You have to try creating a unique profile when sending
messages. Make it stand out because there will be a lot of
messages for one woman from other members of the online
dating community.

Starting out with an interesting username is favorable. In
addition, read through the profiles of your intended
partners in order to incorporate a few things they like on
your own profile, but keep in mind to include just the
things you are actually interested in.

By doing so, your prospective partners will read through
your profile after receiving a query from you and end up
remembering you because of the stuff that’s on your
profile.

She may even feel that you took the time to read through
her profile and subsequently establish a connection with
her.

Be truthful about the things you put on your profile. Lying
about stuff will just ruin your entire reputation in the
online dating community.

In addition, it will be harder to correct lies whenever you
and your dates have known each other better. It would also
prevent you from enjoying while you’re on a date with the
other members of the online dating community because you’ll
be too careful to cover up all the lies you’ve told your
dates before you got to go out on a date with them.

Making Dates More Enjoyable and Fun

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Most people are usually nervous when it comes to their
first dates. This can make you look like someone who had
taken gallons of coffee before the date.

Long silence is always between your conversations with your
date, and you are hoping to come up with a few funny lines
that can crack the ice.

But sometimes, you’re too late because your date has
decided to spend her time with someone else.

Usually, first dates are spent in places where you can sit
and talk with your date in order to know each other better.

Some go to the movies, have some coffee at the local coffee
house, or dine in an expensive restaurant so as to impress
their dates.

Dates like these just need a little jump-start to be more
effective. Try adding some adventure or do a set of
enjoyable activities together in order to have fun with
your dates.

Some men take their dates to an adventurous place. They go
to a few local destinations or historical places within the
area. They go around these places whilst having so much to
see and many things to talk about. These are times when you
don’t need a funny line to break the silence.

In case of rain, you can’t go out and have a walk at the
local park or other outdoor spots conducive for talking and
knowing each other better.

On the brighter side of things, you can go indoors. Try
some shopping malls. There, you can find a wide variety of
places to have some coffee.

Drinking coffee doesn’t take four hours or so of sitting
and doing nothing since you can talk to your date and get
to know her better.

After some time, try inviting your date for a walk at the
mall. Go shop for small things with her such as clothes and
CDs.

Save some time to go bowling, play video games, or find a
bookstore to share your interests with her. The main idea
is to interact with your date in order to know her better.

This will surely provide you with a means to bolster your
chances of landing a date that can lead to love and romance
in the long run.

With this in mind, go and check out places near you for fun
activities you and your date will surely enjoy.

Kissing Tips on a Date

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Usually, you shouldn’t go all out with a kiss at the end of
a first date. First date kisses mostly involve light pecks
at the cheeks or even on the lips. These kisses should only
be allowed once you feel comfortable enough with your date.

The right time to kiss is usually the most romantic moments
of the date. When you feel that you’re close enough to your
date while having fun doing a set of adventurous
activities, this might be the right time to kiss.

If you’re talking while having a quiet walk at the park and
you notice that he’s looking directly at your eyes, this is
usually another one of those right kissing moments.

Try to look at his eyes and see if he’s sincere enough to
give you a light kiss on the lips. You’ll usually feel if
it’s just the right time to kiss.

Sharing moments are usually the best times to kiss on a
date, especially if you’re talking about something
personal.

The situation doesn’t need to be dramatic and serious to
kiss. The right moment to kiss during these sharing moments
is when you feel comfortable sharing your personal
perceptions and experiences with your date.

At the end of the date, you can give him a light peck at
the cheeks if you had fun with him on your first date after
he has taken you home safe and sound.

You can give him a friendly kiss on the lips if you happen
to have fun with him again on your second date. Afterwards,
a fertile imagination is all you need when it comes to the
kisses you’ll be having on your succeeding dates.

What women want. And how to give it to them.

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This whole "game" is revolving around trying to find out what girls want. Everyone has different ideas, but none grasp it fully. The art of seduction is to make her want you, correct? well try to have qualities she wants.

1. Confidence.
This is the #1 rule. Always be sure of yourself. There is no use to fear or worry, in fact it usually works against you. You were fine before you approached her, however it goes, good or bad, you will be fine without her. Let it be a privledge for her to be an ASPECT of your life.

2. Security.
Both financially and physically... along with mentally. If you can't support yourself, why are you wasting time on here, go get a job. physically by having a hint of badass. say you took karate. or roman greco. or bjj. And mentally by assuring her you dont just want to hurt her. (If her getting hurt is a side effect, its a mis understanding :p)

3. Excitement
Dont be boring. Stand out from every other person. Peacocking is one way to do it, but i mean on a more mental level. Dont be every other guy. Be different, be new, be yourself. If you can, dont always use scripted routines. Take a risk. Add some flair.

3.5. Humor and Wit
Be funny. Have a since of humor. Dont be a complete smartass, but at least know how to use sarcasm.

4. Social status
Have friends. Preferably ones who dont just talk about sarging and drugs and video games(etc)... have legit friends. Dont make your whole life about 1 thing, or you will become boring.

5. Intelligence
Women dont want a dumb ass. They want someone who can connect on a deeper level with them. If you seem like a pig, just wanting sex, you just lost your target. Your job is to be the acception to the rule.

6. Appearance wise
There are no ugly people. just lazy people. Take some time and care about your appearance. get some nice looking clothes instead of your friends heavy metal T-shirt. Wash your face. take showers. Hit the gym. etc. Also, makeup is not just for girls. if you can pull it off... pull it off.

7. Honesty
Dont lie to them at every turn. Take my advice. Some lies are ok... but you have to put in a hint of yourself or your just a copycat.

8. They want to work for you.
You cant be easy. don't show attraction right off. make them work hard to get it. give it to them for a while... then give your attention to someone else. let your target want to get your attention. make her try. make her work to get you. If you close... she will feel acomplished about pulling it off.

9. Sweetness
They do not like to be downright insulted. negs are fine, but dont go to far. Everyone has their limit. Show a deep inner caring, but act like your trying to hide it... it will make her see you as hard on the outside, and romantic on the inside. (I'm saying be sweet, not whipped. Every once and a while, you can show affection... but no one likes a clingy bastard.

10. Sex.
Show a guy a playboy magazine, and hes ready to go. You have to work a girl up to it. But in a way where she doesn't think your trying to hard. But once you get her wanting it... She will want it. Bad.

10.5. Sex (With you)
This is a bit harder. She will want sex, but she will not want to show it. What you need to do is get into her comfort zone. When she feels safe, happy, or some other amazing emotion... Use a closer routine.

11. Have a life of your own that doesn't revolve around her/ women in general.
Title says it all. See #4
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Being really good at just one aspect of this(EX. Your rich) Isn't enough. you have to try to learn the full spectrum. Women look at men as a whole. Not just one thing. Also, you cant just appear to have this, well not all of it. Some things you will have to work for. Women also have a deep yearning for romanticism, but also they want to feel your an accomplishment. So cocky funny is a must. Let them like you, but not quite have you. (Cat string theory.) Understand?

I hope this helps. I made it off past experience and surveys with lots of women

The Cat String Theory Explained

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What is the Cat String Theory?
The Cat string theory deals with the subconscience way we desire things, you always want what you can't have and never want what you do. The idea is to convey yourself as within reach of the target but never obtained. This can be applied to everyone.

How to apply it to women:
To apply it to women, you must look un-attracted to the female, yet still very friendly and easy to get along with. Show you have the qualities women want, but do so without looking like your trying. You must be the string in the girls eyes.

Common Mistakes:
As soon as the female starts to show attraction, you will want to jump at the opportunity. Hold back, make her work for you. Do not give the cat the string, or even worse, become the cat. Sometimes they show attraction as a shit test. Wait for the perfect moment to strike.

Dos and Donts
DO Look her in the eye.
DO Remain interesting
DO Be yourself. (Unless you suck at life. Then be yourself... just... better)
DO Use Negs.
DONT Be an ass
DONT Suck at life.
DONT Lean forward every time she talks.

The Right Time to Kiss Your Date

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Some men may not know or do not have the slightest idea if
a woman is ready to be kissed. These men may be sitting
beside their dates talking too much they suddenly realize
how the lips of their dates are so kissable.

Their imagination will then take control, but this would
also mean disaster if done wrong. This may often leave
these men without a second chance for another date with the
woman.

If a guy finds himself talking to a girl and wondering if
she’s ready to be kissed, he may softly touch her hair and
give a compliment about it.

If the girl shows a favorable reaction, this may be a sign
of getting closer to a kiss. Get closer and try reaching
for her hair again.

Touch the hair tips and simply gaze on her lips and eyes.
The fact that she does not mind about you getting closer to
her is a sign that she is comfortable. This is a sign for a
guy to go and kiss the girl.

Some guys try to go out on an adventurous date in order to
make the kissing move more suave and natural. One
particular example is a guy who usually takes a girl to a
small boat ride on a river.

Upon sailing along the river, he happens to direct the boat
to a place covered with trees and fireflies - truly a
romantic place to kiss.

A guy can also take her date to some ancient ruins in a
local spot and manage to spend time walking until dark.
These ruins usually light up at night.

The guy can take his date to the top of the ruins where
they can see the city all beautifully lit up. This is when
the guy should make a move and kiss his date.