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“This is what women want…”

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Good times…

Any guys out there experience this one?

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For now, here’s a funny little cartoon that hits this subject on the head… Thanks to Feliciano

One of the reasons I’ve never delved into relationships is primarily because there are SO many books out there on the subject. I mean, it’s almost unreal. But there were never any books on exactly what to do to get things started.

After all, if you didn’t learn this stuff from your dad, you usually wound up learning from your clueless friends.

But in recent months I’ve noticed that a lot of guys are asking for this kind of information.

So I’ve taken the first step in doing what you mention – tackling relationships.

What I’m doing is discussing the kind of Alpha Man you need to be to make a relationship work long-term. How you keep being the confident man after you’ve hooked her – so you don’t lose her!

If you guys like this material, who knows? I might actually get around to a more in-depth discussion of how to manage things with a woman you’re staying with for the long term.

Stay tuned…

Here’s the text for you. I left it unedited, so you’ll see me listed about 5 guys in…

- CX

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For years now people have been asking Neil how he
got so good, so fast. The answer is that he had
the best material from the original teachers who
INVENTED this stuff – and here’s your surprise…

If you ever want to be in Neil’s shoes, this is
your chance! Because we pulled together 8 amazing
teachers from his book “The Game” to whisper into
your ears what they taught Neil.

It’s a set of 8 CDs PLUS a 400 page book with the
classical styles of approaching, building
attraction and rapport, and finally giving a girl
the night of her dreams. There is NO part of the
game that this collection does not cover.

Here’s the link:

www.stylelife.com/pickupgurus

Here’s more details about what you’ll learn:

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Some specifics you’ll be learning from the gurus
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LESSONS FROM STYLE

* How to deal with physical limiting beliefs -
stutters, height, weight

* How one guy went from being too scared to
approach an old woman to easily opening groups of
7 or more beautiful women.

* How to learn to attract women using a step by
step method of learning.

* Learn which openers are the best openers to use
for any situation.

* Learn why “canned” or “scripted” openers are the
first type of opener that anyone should learn and
how they set the pace for your social education.

* Learn the process that all women need to be led
through in order to attract them.

* How a single issue of “Cosmopolitan” can teach
you an entirely unique personal routine stack.

* Learn the three things all women want to know
when you approach them.

* How to build a story using the skills of a
stand-up comic that will ensure that you keep the
attrition of entire groups of women.

* Find out how outcome dependence can ruin your
game, and then learn how to overcome it.

* A bonus secret technique that Style personally
used to overcome many of his fears.

LESSONS FROM ROSS JEFFRIES

* Learn about “the brilliant model” for learning
seduction and attraction that Ross Jeffries
recently found.

* Learn the new inner game techniques that Ross
Jeffries has been working on for over 5 years.

* Simple ways to overcome the frustrations that
almost all guys who are learning to build
attraction have.

* Find out which technique Ross Jeffries uses to
always have a positive frame around even the most
beautiful women.

* Reasons that internal noise can destroy your
game.

* The one key skill that is completely missing
from the pick-up community.

* One sentence that most guys say that can ruin
your game without them knowing it!

* How to pinpoint and extract the pieces of your
personality that can take your game to the next
level.

* Ross’s 5 elements for quieting your mind that
can rocket you up the learning curve.

* How internal chatter will pollute your mind and
create limitless sticking points.

* One shocking truth about women and sexuality
that both Style and Ross Jeffries agree on.

* The power of beliefs and how to learn from them.

* How to untangle emotions so you can easily
overcome sticking points.

* One problem that has been asked to Style,
Mystery, and Ross Jeffries time and time again,
and how to overcome them.

* An epiphany that Style had about getting women
back to his place.

* One thing to focus on before going for the
threesome.

* The right way to respond to negative emotions.

* Learn about “high wattage charisma” and “low
wattage charisma”

* One question you can ask yourself to overcome
sexual issues.

* The core reason women can feel uncomfortable
before sex and how to alleviate this discomfort.

LESSONS FROM HYPNOTICA

* Learn the rarely heard origin of Hypnotica.

* The three disciplines that Hypnotica recommends
in addition to Neuro Linguistic Programming.

* Hypnotica explains the difference between
“doing” and “being.”

* The one “guru” mentality that halts your
learning process.

* Why night clubs make the perfect social
laboratories.

* How to not get bogged down with information.

* Learn Hypnotica’s technique for pushing yourself
when the going gets tough.

* Hear about Hypnotica’s extreme outer game
experience.

* Techniques to judge where you are in your game.

* A method for making your spontaneous openers
more relevant and entertaining.

* Four ways to “level up” your inner game.

* Hypnotica’s “time line” inner game technique.

* How to use a double blind to easily get a kiss.

* A technique for giving a woman an orgasm
with only your voice.

* Learn Hypnotica’s techniques for attracting
exotic dancers.

* How to perform the “Scrooge Routine.”

* The one technique that will separate you from
your average guy in a strip club.

* Hypnotica’s method for dealing with low points
in your romantic life.

* A special mind blowing inner game technique for
moving through your limiting beliefs

* Style and Hypnotica teach a lesson together
about overcoming Self-Sabotaging behavior.

LESSONS FROM JUGGLER

* Hear the advice that Style was given by Juggler
that changed his game forever.

* Learn to play the game “in your court” not hers.

* Juggler teaches you to be the wolf, and not the
sheep – a technique for showing sexual interest.

* How showing a woman your “greediness” can be
extremely attractive.

* Learn what two beautiful women think of being
hit on by men at work, club game, and making
friends.

* Learn the right way to buy a girl a drink and
continue to build attraction.

* How to tell a story that will convey your
personality and build attraction.

* Two questions that all men ask women that turn
them off, and how you can ask these questions the
right way.

* Juggler’s frame changing technique that will
change the way everyone looks at you.

* How to become a character that everyone wants to
relate to in conversation.

* Juggler reveals the best places to learn
conversational skills.

* One trait that all women need to find in men in
order to become attracted.

* Discover how to convey your charm in
imperfection.

* The key to reaching the hook point when you open
poorly.

* How to use fear to overcome approach anxiety.

* The number one way that Juggler conveys value.

* A game you can play that can tremendously
improve your openers and provide you with
limitless material.

* The right way to use canned openers for
training.

* Juggler’s “I and you” technique for opening.

* How to transition from openers to a place that
furthers the interaction.

* Juggler explains his “three levels of an
interaction.”

* How to balance keeping a relationship and
improving your social skills.

* The best way to use an SOI (statement of
Intent).

* How not to revert back to AFC behavior while
you’re around the most beautiful women.

LESSONS FROM CARLOS XUMA

* Learn the meaning of R.E.A.L. Game

* How to be Relaxed and Resourceful in the field,

* Learn to keep your interactions Effective and
Energized.

* How to be both an alpha male and authentic man
whenever you communicate with women.

* Carlos explains how to keep a lifestyle that
keeps women in your life.

* Carlos reveals the three pieces that make up all
game.

* A method for building a tool called an “Alpha
Reminder Card.”

* A surefire way to get you into the field and out
of your house.

* Learn what your knee jerk social reactions when
you’re in field.

* Discover your “Primary Motivator” and get
yourself in field and making approaches.

* Learn how to read and use micro-expressions

* A special mirroring exercise that will change
your rapport building techniques forever.

* One approach that most men do that consistently
fails and how not to do it.

* Learn the roots of approach anxiety in order to
understand and overcome it.

* A technique for using that “uncomfortable
silence” that everyone has felt, to your
advantage.

* Carlos Xuma’s secret “waterfall technique,” for
changing your frame while dating multiple women.

* 3 steps to improving your kino escalation
skills.

* How to overcome the “limitations” of having no
money or no car.

* A ground breaking technique for anyone who over
analyzes their interactions.

* A new method for turning an old friend into a
lover.

* The purpose of being a sophisticated and alpha
man.

LESSONS FROM DAVID SHADE

* The origin of David Shade and how he learned to
build emotional connections over the phone.

* How leading a sexual relationship can amp the
excitement and help her to have an orgasm or
multiple orgasms.

* David explains why being respectful can increase
a woman’s sexual drive.

* Why dirty talking is something that should be
used in the bedroom to help women explore their
sexuality.

* How to get a woman to talk dirty in the bedroom
and how to talk dirty to a woman.

* Learn a secret technique for getting women to
tell you their fantasies.

* How to use fantasies to kick your sexual
relationship up to the next level.

* A mind-blowing method for having threesomes with
your long term girlfriend.

* How to get your girlfriend to help you pick up
women for a threesome.

* How to maintain a sexual relationship with
someone who lives at a long distance.

* A method for helping a woman reach orgasm – even
if she’s never had one before.

* The first two things you should do whenever you
get a girl into the bedroom.

* The importance of mastering the mental aspect of
sex.

* Learn how to increase a woman’s commitment to
you by giving her orgasms.

LESSONS FROM TWOTIMER & BRENT

* Find out the real identity of Twotimer from the
book, The Game.

* The single affirmation that changed the game for
Twotimer.

* How to convey and image that will guarantee that
a woman you meet will call you back.

* One sentence you can memorize that will show a
woman how amazing your life has been.

* The absolute right way to use humor to build
attraction.

* Twotimer tells a story about an airplane sarge
that contains all the principles of non-neediness
and validation.

* How not to become a “tool” for the most
beautiful women you meet.

* What to do right after you get the phone number.

* How to overcome the fear of moving in for the
kiss.

* What to do if you go in for the kiss and she
turns her head.

* One common theme or topic that attractive women
will fall back on when they are attracted to you.

* How to tell the difference between real interest
and fake interest.

* How to turn fake interest into real interest.

* Learn the importance of her “end value.”

* How to use indifference to build attraction.

* How to create arousal using what Twotimer calls,
“secret patterns.”

* Why it is important to maintain the balance
between comfort and seduction.

* Small changes in your facial expressions that
can give extremely attractive mixed messages.

* Two important qualities you need to have when
you’re trying to get Day 2’s.

* How to build a brand new high value social
circle.

LESSONS FROM ZAN

* The secret origin of Zan.

* Why asking “why not?” is one of the most
important questions a social artist can ask.

* How to deal with women who are taken.

* Find out what women don’t want you to apologize
for.

* Learn Zan’s direct number close.

* Learn the mindsets that you should be creating
in order to rid yourself of approach anxiety and
the fear of rejection.

* Why your goal for the night should not be
getting a phone number and what your goal should
really be.

* Zan solves the three issues that most guys have
when they get into the game.

* Learn unique ways to frame an interaction for
maximum attraction.

* Zan’s “touch and go” under the radar kino
technique.

* How telling a girl that you “can’t get it up”
can actually build attraction.

* When to let your girlfriend know that you want
multiple relationships.

* Unique and exciting ways to show disinterest.

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Supplies are limited so be sure to act fast!
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Between all these great gurus the entire art of
attraction is explored. No stone is left unturned.
To learn it all and make this collection yours,
Follow this link right now:

www.stylelife.com/pickupgurus

Best,

The Sneak

Love all the emails about the techniques with women Carlos, its help me get rid of my old wuss ways no end, though its something i find you have to keep working at as its easy to slip back to the dark side.

One question about a personal issue i have with bad mannered people. In the past i used to let people get away with bad manners but my new alpha male wont allow it.

Whats your take on old male friends (schooldays) who add you on Facebook, so i send a courteous message asking how there getting on and don’t even reply. A women I’d delete no hesitation, do you think the same rules apply with men.

By the way i dont want to date men lol, its just a respect/good mannered thing I have. Whats your take?

Keep up the good work

Regards
A.N.
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CARLOS XUMA RESPONDS:

Don’t take “no response” too seriously, my friend.

Old friends are typically trying to reconnect, but have little time to do so if they have their own families. It’s not really “rude” even if WE interpret it this way. It’s not rude to them because they don’t see themselves as doing anything wrong.

Don’t work too hard to interpret people’s INACTION as something against you.

People have a tendency to interpret ignoring as a deliberate act against us, which it really isn’t.

I wouldn’t even bother “removing” someone as a friend. It doesn’t get noticed, and it doesn’t really make much of a difference. It also can seem a bit petty. Better to leave them and reconnect later on.

Just add them, initiate, and expect nothing in return.

Then go on finding their hot friends you can connect with and date…

- Carlos Xuma

You might recognize a couple from these pictures:

More coming soon…

And some surprise announcements coming this week…

- Carlos

So who do I believe the girl that says they are just friends or the guy that says they are together?

- Marcus

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CARLOS XUMA ANSWERS:

I have to confess that there was about 20 more paragraphs to that email, but this is the only sentence that really matters.

Why?

Because I’ll bet you a fair amount of cash that you’ve run into this one before.

I have a TON of times.

Who do you believe?

NEITHER of them!

Here’s what’s going on from HER perspective:

He’s probably needy & clingy and doesn’t really man-up enough to get her excited and sexually attracted. That’s why she says they’re just “friends.” She hasn’t worked up enough nerve to tell him to hit the freakin’ road yet. (That, or she’s still getting the occasional dinner from him and doesn’t want to kill the Golden Goose.)

Here’s what’s going on from HIS perspective:

He’s invested a lot of money in buying this girl drinks and taking her out, and she still hasn’t put out. He’s only getting a little kissing action at the end of the dates, but not much action. He’s getting frustrated, but he’s also convinced he’s got some ownership privilege here based on his financial investment.

Am I being cynical?

Maybe a little bit.

But the reality is that when you have two people giving this kind of conflicting story, you know there’s more than meets they eye.

If you’re in this situation, you have to realize that a woman often may be dating a guy because he’s a BTN.

Better Than Nothing.

It’s not evil or manipulative. After all, guys do it, too.

What it means is that she’s a serial dater. She doesn’t leave the guy she’s with until she’s got her next prey lined up.

You should call this girl and take her out. I really don’t think the other guy realizes he’s being a tool. And since you’re using superior battlefield strategy, you’re going to get the girl.

Again, I usually don’t condone “boyfriend destroying” or any of that NONSENSE that a lot of so-called gurus teach out there.

But this guy isn’t even a boyfriend, and the saddest part is that he isn’t even aware of it. You can’t be responsible for someone else’s delusions, right?

And if you’re reading this right now and you want to learn these killer techniques (for good and not for evil, of course), you need to go learn how to get a girlfriend – fast…