That is what the “A” stands for in the P.A.V.E. system of the 2 Girls Teach Sex DVDs There are few things that turn a girl on MORE than a guy who commands authority in the bedroom. When you act like a man it makes us feel like women. =)

There are a lot of ways to be authoritative with your girl. Here are six you can use to get on the right track, tonight!

1) Take charge!

This starts right from the beginning. Don’t ASK for sex. Just make your move! YOU must lead the interaction.

Here’s a great way to show her you’re in control: Once you have her turned on, naked, and ready to go, tell her she isn’t ready yet.

Tease her, and tell her she has to beg for it before you will give it to her.

Then tell her what positions to get in, tell her what to say, tell her whatever… just make sure you are leading!

Make her orgasm on your command. When she is getting close, tell her you want her to come for you. OR tell her she isn’t allowed to come until you say it’s OK. Then keep doing her hard and make her wait for your OK.

2) Talk dirty.

The whole authority thing backfires if you proceed to have silent sex with me!

Start early… If you’re meeting up with your girl later, call or text her ahead of time and tell her you’re going to do bad things to her. Tell her she better be ready.

Don’t know what to say once you are all over each other? Start by just describing what you’re doing, then tell her what you’re about to do to her.

Tell me what positions to get into. Tell me to talk dirty to you, tell me whatever, but save the “I Love You’s” for another day!

3) Do me hard!

You can’t be authoritative if you aren’t giving it to me hard, plain and simple. Save the sensitive love-making for another time. You have to put me in positions that are good for this – doggy-style is GREAT and so are a lot of other positions.

But don’t confuse hard with fast. You don’t have to be pounding away like a jackhammer – just full, hard, and deep.

Get physical! Gently but firmly pull her hair from the back near the roots, slap her lightly on the ass, throw her onto the bed, “mock” rip her clothes off with your teeth!

4) Use authority THROUGHOUT the whole experience.

Lead the way, tell me what positions to get in, and I will love it.

Talk dirty to me and I will love it.

Do me hard and I will love it.

But do ALL of these things… and watch me totally lose control and come over and over at your command!

5) It is all relative.

Authoritative for one couple might be completely different from authoritative for another couple.

If you have been having boring, quiet, missionary sex, with the lights out for the last 15 years – you have to be careful not to do too much too soon. This can make her uncomfortable and ruin the experience.

So start out slow if you have to. As you both get more comfortable you can keep adding to the authority… and having more and more fun!

6) IMPORTANT: Authority is not the same as being mean!

Authority is all about being in charge, and telling the girl what you want. It’s NOT about degrading her, making her feel uncomfortable, or being too serious.

One of my favorite things is when a guy is authoritative in a playful way. It’s more about him knowing that I enjoy him being in charge, that he’s not afraid to tell me what he wants, and that I can just safely give in to him.

Remember, authority is one of the best ways to get and keep a woman 100% sexually satisfied.

Many men have told me JUST these lessons have changed their entire sex lives! And taken them from clumsily messing around and “hoping for the best” in the bedroom to confidently giving their women orgasm after juicy orgasm… whether it’s their very first time with a girl, or someone they’ve been with for years!

In fact, one of the reasons why I’m so excited about the 2 Girls Teach Sex program is because of just how powerful this knowledge is when it comes to relationships.

You see, when you hit it off with a woman, and she starts thinking about becoming intimate with you… a girl will often become very nervous…

And the BETTER you get along, and the stronger the connection… the MORE nervous she gets…

Why?

Well, take it from me… EVERY woman has had the experience of hitting it off with a guy, and being really excited about starting a relationship with him… only to sleep with him and discover he doesn’t know what he’s doing in the bedroom.

There is really no bigger disappointment for us girls.

ESPECIALLY if we like the guy a lot.

Because we know that if a guy is at a certain age, and still doesn’t know what he’s doing in the bedroom, it is very unlikely he’s going to “snap out of it” and all-of-a-sudden figure out how to get us off.

It’s a real bummer. And it happens a lot.

On the other hand, if we meet a guy who IS great in bed, it’s a RARE treat!

Most women have dated so many bedroom losers that when we find a guy who knows how to get us off, he basically has us for as long as he wants.

And we are TOTALLY fine with that =)

The other reason I’m excited about 2 Girls Teach Sex is because of how it has helped men who are already IN relationships.

I can’t tell you how many men of all ages have written me telling me how 2 Girls Teach Sex has enabled them to inject new life and FURIOUS PASSION into their relationships!

My favorite letters to read are the ones where the guys tell me about how it’s now their girl who’s the one initiating the sex =)

Other emails I enjoy reading are from guys who use these techniques to give their girl her very first orgasm from penetration… or even her first orgasm, period!

And let’s not forget multiples and my favorite, squirting orgasms. Woohooo!

The 2 Girls Teach Sex program was put together to show you EVERYTHING there is to know about how to rock a woman’s world in the bedroom.

From getting her hot and heavy for you… to ways to kiss that make her melt… to giving her intense orgasms during foreplay… to how to make her scream so loudly during penetration she’ll bust your eardrums (I mean that in a good way hehe)… it’s ALL in here!

But don’t take my word for it. I want to prove it to you.

And, you can test drive the 2 Girls Teach Sex system RISK-FREE. Get it out there, try out the techniques. You’ll learn them in minutes, and be using them the same night.

If you’re not giving your girl the most INCREDIBLE sex of her entire life, starting IMMEDIATELY… simply send them back for a full, no questions asked refund. That’s the only way I feel is fair.

If you’re serious about becoming the type of man women RAVE about to their friends… and dream about when their wussy boyfriends are clumsily trying to get them off and FAILING… then you owe it to yourself to make this investment in your sex life.

Imagine if you use just one of these powerful techniques to give just one girl multiple orgasms. Wouldn’t that alone make it worth it?

Of course, it’s much more likely that you’ll use this stuff to rock the body and mind of every woman you are with from now on… and that’s why I’m so confident you’re going to love it, =)

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You, and the women who are lucky enough to make love to you… will be glad you did. =)

What they do have is widely disparate ATTITUDES toward life. Allow me illustrate:

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Bob is just an average guy. He goes to work, comes home, eats dinner. He hangs out with friends at happy hour from time to time. He generally hopes that good things will happen to him.

But Bob is passive. He doesn’t seek out ways to take charge and influence his world. Bob is too concerned with protecting his image of himself.

He goes out and meets women on occasion, but he finds the same pattern evolving: He meets a gal every once in a while, usually by luck. He’ll ask and get her number from her. He’ll call a day or two later, and usually get an answering machine. She never calls him back, and he ends up calling several times before he finally gets hold of her. She’s usually polite, and he’ll muster up the courage to ask for a date. She agrees, but when the day comes for them to meet up, she calls him and says she can’t make it. Or she stands him up. Bob then looks at this as being yet another reason women are unreliable, and he starts to get self-righteous. He’s doing everything right, and THEY are acting all weird. It must be them, he figures.

And his passivity increases. Why bother trying if you just get shot down every time?

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Dave on the other hand is average, too. But he rises above the average because of his attitude: Dave is active about his life. He takes the wheel of his life and steers it where he wants to go. He knows that if life isn’t going the way he wants it, he has the power to make it happen himself.

He doesn’t sit back expecting his abilities with women to succeed; he actively seeks out opportunities to try and learn from his interactions. When he fails in a seduction, he looks back on what he could do differently, not scared that making a mistake means he’s unworthy as a man.

Dave understands that when a woman acts a certain way, it is usually something he could influence with his approach and attitude. While her rejections do not mean anything to his worth, he does know that he can change his approach and learn to decrease those rejections. The answer isn’t finding just the right woman as it is understanding what parts of him he can develop and present to get more women interested.

Dave seeks out information and guidance to learn and improve. He doesn’t let life happen TO him, he makes it happen.

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These two men demonstrate the kind of men who eventually get dates and get laid, or the ones that get stuck in the Downward Spiral, becoming more bitter and avoiding women.

The only man who isn’t worthy of a woman is the one who isn’t learning from his mistakes and trying again. He picks himself up, dusts himself off, and tries until he succeeds. He only fails when he fails to keep trying and learning from his attempts.

So which of these two would you rather be?

Notice, I didn’t ask you which of them you ARE. All of us have elements of both men.

And it doesn’t matter in the end, because I’m giving you an opportunity that other people will never offer you in life: You can stand at this crossroads and choose to settle for whatever results you’re currently getting with women, or you can choose to take the path of action. You can learn and improve with your strategy and get more women.

Or… Well, I think you know what lies down that road.

Don’t be the man sitting in front of the wood stove who says “Give me heat first, and THEN I’ll throw in the wood.”

Now, there is simply SO MUCH dating advice for men out there that I decided to put this little overview together so you can hopefully avoid the information overload and find out exactly what YOU need to know.

Whether you’re a complete newby to learning this stuff, a seduction student hungry to learn more, or a pickup artist wanting to hone some new skills, I want to reassure you the information is out there and I’m going to tell you the best places to find it. Plus, just so you know, I’m a pretty smart guy who’s put a LOT of this stuff to the test, so I’m going to include a lot of my own insights along the way.

BUT, there’s ONE thing I want to say before we continue… if you’re looking into this stuff to control, manipulate or abuse women then just FUCK OFF RIGHT NOW. For everyone else I do apologize for the strong language but it just had to be said! A healthy respect for the opposite sex is the foundation for having the patience for learning this stuff, because you simply cannot expect to get it right every time, and when you make a mistake you have to be able to own it. Okay, that was the “heavy paragraph”, now let’s move on!

I want YOU to solve the mystery of ‘WOMAN’ – and rest assured it can and has been done! – and I’ll bet that right now you’re frustrated because you don’t UNDERSTAND women, and don’t know what to do about it. Well first, whatever you do you should never take your frustration out on someone else (I believe this is where all forms of abuse stem from.) Instead, if I can help you to UNDERSTAND, then there will be no frustration any more, and instead you’ll be acting confidently from what you KNOW.

Basically, a woman wants a man who KNOWS, who “GETS IT” (even if they don’t yet!) and ACTS upon what they KNOW.

And that’s the definition of real confidence! Sure, a lot of guys can get away with fake confidence and bravado – and I’m sure you’ve seen them stealing away the women you want from right in front of your eyes and not known what to do about it – but once you have REAL confidence you can destroy their false and pretentious game and give a woman what she really wants in a way these guys don’t have a CLUE about.

Okay, I’m getting way ahead of myself there, but the point is, if you have some kind of GOAL or STRATEGY in mind, it’s going to make a huge difference to your success with women from the get-go. If you want to be successful with women, make it your INTENT right now to A. Understand Women and B. Act Confidently on What You Know. This is going to be the DRIVING FORCE that keeps you going to learn and experiment with all kinds of incredible information and skillsets!

I want to emphasize this because a lot of guys are just looking for “techniques” to improve their game, without realizing they need to be learning SKILLS and developing the CONFIDENCE that makes them work:

Confidence (Inner Game)
+ Skillsets (Outer Game)
= “Success with Women”

Now, there’s a lot of complex ideas and psychology around in the dating field that you may or may not be interested in, but if you can stick to the simple truths, start with WHAT WORKS and then learn what works BETTER, you are way ahead of the average guy and well on your way to mastery with women. I would be happy to help you on that journey, a journey that will ultimately change the way you relate with women from disappointment to satisfaction. With the right information it is just a matter of time.

Now, there’s a lot of great stuff yet we’re going to cover, but before we continue, so that you get a better idea of where you’re at, I recommend you take this quiz to get your personalized report on how you can get hotter women.

Alright, for simplicity’s sake this whole site is broken down into 4 sections:
1. Dating Basics
2. Inner Game (Confidence)
3. Outer Game (Skillsets)
4. Dating Mastery

But remember, true mastery comes from mastering the basics!

It might be helpful to be cocky with women sometimes, but do not make the mistake of getting too cocky with yourself! Know where you’re at.

Let me ask you this, do you have an overall knowledge of how to be successful with women yet, or are you relying on bits and pieces of scattered knowledge? Well, if you’re serious about this, getting the big picture is where you want to start, and for that purpose here is a book I highly recommend:

The Dating Black Book by Carlos Xuma
Rating: 4 1/2 Stars

Look, I haven’t picked this one arbitrarily, I’ve read a LOT of books like these, and I’ve picked the one that will give you the BEST overall starting knowledge to turn your dating life around as fast as possible. It’s a well structured, complete book, single-line spaced 207 pages of fluff-free, solid quality information. You can read my complete review here.

That said, if you are serious about getting this part of your life sorted, you’re not going to want to rely on just one point of view either. Here are my two other top-rated books you’ll want to read as soon as you get the chance:

Dating to Relating from A to Z by Dr. L Rx

Double Your Dating by David D’Angelo

As well as compiling the best advice from different sources for this site, I’m also in the process of putting together my own ideas and advice which you won’t find anywhere else…

But if you read nothing else, don’t miss out on my articles. This is stuff everyone considering improving their dating life should read: The First and Last Step
The ‘Be Yourself’ Trap

But the most surprising thing is that most guys are completely unaware of how they stack up in the bedroom.

So how big of a deal is it anyway?

And how do you know where you stack up?

Let me tell you something….

it is a HUGE deal!

Women crave sex FAR more than men. If you don’t believe me, then you are not giving her good sex. PERIOD.

The difference is that women only want GOOD sex.

As a guy, you can have pretty mediocre sex and still finish. And even if the sex is phenomenal, most of the time you are still only going to finish once.

Women on the other hand, usually don’t finish AT ALL from mediocre sex.

And no matter how “close” she tells you she was, or how good she tells you it was, if she’s not “getting there”, she is disappointed.

And if it happens regularly we actually start to resent it, and even start to resent you for not learning how to do it right.

But from GREAT sex a woman can easily finish 3, 5, or even 10 times. The difference between amazing and just OK sex is not nearly as significant for guys as it is for girls.

And here’s something else you should know:

Guys that can give us AMAZING sex are few and far between.

So if YOU are the guy giving a woman amazing sex, it changes EVERYTHING about how she’ll feel about you and how she treats you.

In fact, guys who I have coached into bedroom rock stars often describe it as “eye-opening” and even “life-changing.”

There are a lot of signs – both in and out of the bedroom – that you are NOT satisfying your woman. Here’s just a few signs your girl is not satified…

Signs IN the Bedroom
- Your girl doesn’t always come, and often doesn’t finish during intercourse.
- You frequently have to initiate the sex.
- She is reluctant to go down on you, to have sex in certain positions, to try anything adventurous.

Signs OUTSIDE of the Bedroom
- You feel like you have to “earn” sex, by taking her out or buying her things, or by being on your “best” behavior.
- You think your girl just doesn’t like sex as much as you do. She has to be in the right mood and not tired or stressed from work.
- She nags you about household responsibilities, how you dress, how you act.
- You and your girl aren’t having as much sex as you used to, and not as much as you would like to.

If these sound like you, you aren’t alone. So…

How Does Your Girl Act When You Are Giving Her Amazing Sex?

Make no mistake about it, once you start giving your girl amazing sex, everything, and I do mean everything about the relationship changes.

Inside the Bedroom
- She wants to have sex more often than you do.
- She is eager to please you, enthusiastic to go down on you and try anything you suggest.
- She regularly comes from intercourse and finishes multiple times.

Outside the Bedroom
- All nagging will end almost immediately.
- She buys you gifts, pays for dinners, is eager to please.
- She is eager to do you favors.
- Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with buying that special lady a present now and then, and you certainly should =) but it shouldn’t be as a way to earn something from her.

One guy came to me for coaching when he was really struggling. He was dating a girl he really liked but he was hanging on desperately. He knew she was losing interest quickly, thought she might be cheating on him, and knew it was only a matter of time until she left him for someone else.

He was doing all the of the things that so many guys do when they are hanging on for dear life… buying her expensive dinners, gifts, anything that he thought would win her back and get her attracted again.

But these well intentioned things were only sealing his fate.

He was seeming more and more needy, and confirming that sex was something he had to earn from her. Of course once you have this imbalance no relationship can survive.

The imbalance was extending outside of the bedroom – soon she was making all of the decisions, what do to, where to go, who he hangs out with, what he wears… He was losing all control.

Luckily he came to me when he did and with the principles of the P.A.V.E. system and the techniques and attitudes we teach at 2 Girls Teach Sex he was able to turn it all around.

Boy did things change! Soon she was the one begging him for sex – she couldn’t get enough! She would always be kissing him and sitting on his lap. And just a couple of weeks later she asked him to move in with her.

Another guy came to me because he was getting blown off by a girl he thought he was seeing. In fact, he was out at dinner with her one night, and she had arranged for a guy (her real date) to meet her at the same restaurant after their dinner was over!

He knew he was about to end up in the “friend zone” and thankfully got help before it was too late (Great sex starts way before you get to the bedroom!)

With a little coaching he was able to get his relationship back on track, and after they had sex things really started to change. Just a few weeks later she paid for a beach house for the weekend so she could have him all to herself. Needless to say it was a wild weekend! =)

I heard from him again recently and he said this same girl had just recently told him she wanted to bring another girl home to have a threesome with him.

Remember these two things:

1) Women crave GOOD sex more than men crave sex

2) If you are giving your woman amazing sex, she will do everything she can to please and keep you – both in and out of the bedroom

So with this in mind, why aren’t more guys great in bed?

Well, up until now, there wasn’t really a place for them to learn what to do.

But fortunately there is now. In fact, if you decide TODAY that you want to become a sexual master, you can become one in a matter of days by simply watching the 2 Girls Teach Sex videos.

So i f you’re are READY to become a sexual master – and gain skills that 99% of men will never have – then it’s a must you check them out.

It happens to every guy – and it happened to me quite a bit as I was trying to learn how to talk to women and meet women.

The good news is that you don’t have to suffer with that uncomfortable silence anymore. In this article, I’m going to reveal 3 Secrets for How To Talk To Women.

If you use these tips, every guy around you – including your buddies – are going to envy you.

• How To Talk To Women – Secret #1: Take on a Famliar Attitude

Studies have shown that a part of all human brains actually RESISTS the new and different. When you encounter a new person, your nervous system actually goes on alert, and tries to keep you from trusting and connecting with them. It takes multiple encounters with a person to finally open up and let them in.

Well, the same is true for women, who have their own “defensive shields” – yes, just like on Star Trek.

Remember all that advice you got as a kid about “stranger danger”?

Well, it’s actually terrible advice, and it conditioned us to avoid meeting new people later on in life. Most guys talk to women with the attitude of a guy who is a stranger. As a result, they’ve silently accepted this role, and they almost seem to beg to be treated like a potential threat.

Instead, when you’re learning how to talk to women, you have to assume the role of the “old friend.”

Think about how you talk to a guy friend you’ve known for years. It’s casual, laid back, and comfortable.

That’s the exact same energy you want when you talk to women. They’ll feel the vibe and respond accordingly. We react to people based on how comfortable THEY feel in their own skin. So just chill and treat her like you’ve known her for years.

And who knows – maybe you will.

• How To Talk To Women – Secret #2: Ask Questions

Questions are the secret weapon of control in conversation. They allow you to steer things, and they also allow you to draw her out of her shell.

Remember, a woman is looking to feel your confidence when you’re talking to her, and she’s also a little nervous herself. She wants to be approved of as well. By using questions, you help her get out of her nervous mindset. You need to be confident enough for two.

Some keys to asking questions are that you need to keep them:
Light – no asking about intimate or heavy emotional details.

Different – Don’t just ask her where she works – ask her how she feels about her work. Or ask her what she would rather be doing if she had the day off.

Low-disclosure – don’t ask her intimate questions, or questions that require her to give up personal information too quickly. The only thing you want to walk away with is a phone number or email. Any other details – like where she lives – should be considered off-limits. For now.

• How To Talk To Women – Secret #3: Play With Her

The fastest way past a woman’s defensive boundaries is simple – it’s the same technique you used to use when you were a kid and you wanted to flirt with a girl.

Teasing.

There’s a whole system I’ve developed for teasing women, but I’ll give you the essence of it here.

You want to be playful when you’re learning how to talk to women, because the one thing that brings down her guard fastest is feeling a bit of teasing energy.

Teasing communicates:

1. You’re not intimidated by her. Most men are intimidated by attractive women, and it shows. This then looks like a lack of confidence to her.

2. You’re playful and not deadly serious, the way most guys get when it comes to talking to women. This is usually because the only thing on their mind is not getting rejected. Which, ironically, is very unattractive for a woman to sense.

3. She has to prove herself. When you you’re thinking of how to talk to women, you’re probably imagining how you can prove your value to her. Again, teasing reverses this so she doesn’t get the upper hand.

Remember that every chance to talk to women also gives you the chance to screen out women you don’t want. A man who has standards is much more attractive to a woman.

A playful attitude means not thinking that how to talk to women means you have to be Mr. Serious, because that’s a real turn-off with women. She’s going to think you’ve got an agenda. And that’s not something she wants to sense. She wants to feel like destiny brought you two together, and it will be like a romance novel or romantic comedy movie.

She really wants to have a great story about why you came together. When you meet her, that’s your opportunity to create that story by giving her a fun time, and letting her spend her time wondering when she gets to feel it again with you.

And if you want to get the complete roadmap of how to go from home alone to how to meet and attract the sexy girlfriend of your dreams, then you need to learn how to talk to women even better with a course designed just for that:

How to Talk To Women by Carlos Xuma

Most guys, in their struggle to please women never understand the SPOTS that actually trigger orgasms so they flail around uselessly trying weird sexual positions that don’t work.

In this report I’m going to reveal 3 very important things that women know but never say:

1) The Real “Orgasm Zone” and why what most guys do NEVER hit it

2) The 3 Ideal Positions to hit that “Orgasm Zone” and drive her to screaming, shaking orgasms

3) Advanced Sexual Strategies For Each of The Ideal Positions (only if you are looking for sexual mastery, this stuff is a bit wild)

The Real “Orgasm Zone” Of A Woman… And Why Traditional Positions NEVER Hit It!

Many guys know the feeling of having sex and wondering WHEN their girl is going to orgasm. In a futile attempt to get her to come you keep pounding away hoping it will happen. But it never does.

The reason is because you are not hitting the “orgasm zone” that causes us to have an orgasm! Think about it like this:

Let’s say you burn your hand on the stove. You REALLY need to get some cold water. Your friend runs over with a bucket of cold water. But, instead of dumping the cold water all over your hand, they dump it all over your FOOT. You scream in agony that you needed cold water on YOUR HAND because that is what burned. Obviously the analogy is a bit dramatic and simple but it proves a certain point. Yes you need water, but you needed it IN A CERTAIN SPOT. Let me explain how this helps teach you about female orgasm. She NEEDS your penis to have a vaginal orgasm with you inside her. But if your penis isn’t hitting the CERTAIN RIGHT SPOT its like dumping water on your foot when you burned your hand!

Now let’s talk about where the “orgasm zone” is inside of her. Guys don’t realize that the actual “orgasm zone” is the TOP INSIDE WALL of the vagina. This is where the g spot, the deep spot, and all other sensitive orgasm zones are located!!! When you are having sex in most positions your penis is going IN to her not UP AND IN where it will give her an orgasm. Your not even giving yourself a chance at giving us an orgasm. However, there is hope! Once you learn how to ADAPT certain positions you will be going UP AND IN and nailing that “orgasm zone” EVERY TIME. You can expect your lover to start having g spot, deep spot, and maybe even a squirting orgasm when you start putting these powerful tricks into play!

The 3 Ideal Positions to Hit the Orgasm Zone and Drive Her Over the Edge

Position #1) A Very Advanced Version Of Doggy Style

What you want to do is when you are entering her from behind on the bed you want to flatten her out. But, before you flatten her out you want to stick a pillow under the lower part of her stomach. Once you have pillow under her stomach (to raise her butt higher) you want to lie down fully flat on top of her. Often people refer to this position with out the pillow as “froggy style.” However instead of staying even with her body, move up as high as you can. The goal of this is so that as you thrust you are hitting the top inside wall of her vagina. The entire point of the pillow and moving up on her is so that you are thrusting down DIRECTLY into her “orgasm zone.” As long as you can last at least 5 minutes in this position you are sure to give her an orgasm.

Here’s how to take it to the NEXT LEVEL:

- if you are doing it right your head should be right above hers putting you in a perfect position for some dirty talk…As long as you feel comfortable and she is comfortable you can throw in some dirty talk along the lines of: “you like it like this?”, “you like me on top of you?”, “you have a great ass baby”

Here’s another secret:

- you can use your arms to lightly pin down her arms to show male authority…by doing this you are going to increase the “animal primal instincts” that doggy style provides because it shows her that you are totally in control of whats going on.

And one more:

- once she has orgasm DON’T STOP… she will have an orgasm and think she needs a break.. however, you can keep going lightly and she’ll recover… and be ready for an even more intense second orgasm. Slowly increase your speed and pressure and she’ll come again and again and again! In the 2 Girls Teach Sex DVDs, you’ll see in full high def exactly how to do this.

Position #2) What I call the “2 Inches Bigger G spot Missionary”

The missionary position often gets a horrible name. Critics call it boring, plain, and vanilla. However, when used the RIGHT WAY missionary position can be one of the most intimate, orgasm giving positions there is. I personally LOVE missionary for the intimacy and most women do too!

Here is how to change missionary position to “2 inches bigger g spot missionary”: (note: not only does it hit the spot, it also makes you feel 2 inches bigger inside of her due to the “angle of the dangle”)

What you want to do is take a normal missionary position and adapt it to hit the “orgasm zone.” Here is what to do:

1) again use a pillow (or two depending on physical proportions) under her lower back but this time in missionary position

2) start inside of her in missionary and scoop under her legs and put them on your shoulders

3) now place your hands under her lower back between her and the pillow

4) lift her up so that as you thrust in to her again you are thrusting UP AND IN
and hitting the top of her vagina!

(note: the entire reason you have the pillow is so that you don’t have to support her entire lower body weight with your hands)

5) thrust up and in and the position that you have her in is sure to trigger an amazing orgasm

Here’s how to take it to the NEXT LEVEL:

If you have the flexibility lean forward and kiss her while you are inside of her. Due to the close physical contact with her (legs on shoulders AND hands around her lower back/ass) it is a very intimate position and adding in kissing makes it highly emotional. If you are a guy that likes romance (like women do!) then you can also tell her how much you like (or love her) and that she is your girl. This position is often a girl’s favorite.

Position #3) This Position Is Seated “Girl On Top” With Her Leaning Back

Let me explain…

Often your lover will climb on top and show that she wants to ride you for a bit. The reason she is trying to do this is because is instinctively trying to position herself so that you are thrusting UP AND in!!

With a few simple adaptions to “girl on top” you can let her take control while you lean back and watch her orgasm!!!
How to do it:

1) sit down in chair or sofa (not on bed) and have her get on top facing you

2) have her put her feet forward on the outside of your body

3) tell her it would be really sexy to see her lean back

4) as she leans back and start riding you thrust straight up..due to the positioning you will actually be thrusting UP and IN

5) lean back on the chair or sofa and watch her ride you to orgasm!!! Here’s how to take it to the NEXT LEVEL:

As she is riding you, reach forward and stroke her clit in a light circular motion…now she is getting stimulation on the inside “orgasm zone” and the external “orgasm zone”.

Beware: She will come quickly!

Now that you have learned WHY normal positions don’t give women orgasms and you have the knowledge as to WHAT DOES GIVE HER ORGASMS.

Take confidence in that fact that if you use JUST ONE of these positions you’ll be blowing her mind in a way that no other man ever has!

Now if you want to take your sex to life the next level, you absolutely must see the 2 Girls Teach Sex educational DVDs.

The material is fully explicit sexual techniques demonstrated by 2 sexy girls (on each other of course.)

You’ll watch as they go through each one of these sexual positions…
But that’s just one section… the rest of what they show you and demonstrate is even more incredible.

If you can just approach and meet women, you’ve got a big part of the game handled. After that, it’s how to keep women interested in you and attracted to you. Because you must remember that if you’re not going to keep your woman happy, someone else is waiting on the sidelines to give it a shot.

So here are three of the best ways I have used to meet women. And any guy can do them.

3 WAYS TO MEET WOMEN…

1) Meet Women in Bars & Clubs.

Hey, this one works just great for some guys. I say “some” guys because the truth is that if you’re looking for a girlfriend it’s highly unlikely you’re going to meet her in a bar. Bars are for quick hookups. It’s the territory of the “pickup artist” and the slick players. And the reality is that most women don’t go to clubs to meet guys. (At least, that’s not their primary reason for going to bars.)

Women go to bars to have FUN. And… maybe meet some guys.

Let’s face it: Bars are crowded, loud, obnoxious, and overpriced. They take a lot more skill because of the competition. And the reality is that you’re probably not going to meet women that want a steady relationship. But they are a great place to meet single women in one concentrated environment. It’s like the superstore for meeting women.

2) Meet Women in Your Social Network

The reality is that most people want to meet people who are friends of their friends. Women like to meet guys that they feel are “safe,” and when you’re a friend of one of her friends, you’re already locked in as a proven commodity.

First of all, seize your opportunities.

You need to go to any and all parties that your friends invite you to. Make sure you meet up with them for happy hour, or just to hang out on the weekends. Inevitably women will come along with their friends just on the CHANCE they can meet a cool guy.

(They won’t tell you this, but it’s true…)

Even better is to line up a couple parties to hit on the same night so that you can find the one with the best opportunities for you. Always give yourself options. Make it a point to meet women in your social network, because that’s how women feel most comfortable meeting guys.

3) Meet Women Online

I know this one is going to meet with a lot of controversy, but it can be the best method of the bunch. If you’re not already using an online dating service, like Match.com or something similar, you’re missing out on the easiest method to meet women ever invented.

First off it’s convenient. You can actually sit at home and meet women from the comfort of your living room. You can search for women with the same interests as you, with all the features you prefer. You can also schedule your meetings with the women you find interesting all in a row. I used to stack up as many as six meetings in a single Sunday afternoon. I could meet women for morning tea and be home in time for the game. But here’s where most guys go wrong when they try to meet women online: They assume that women will just jump on any opportunity to meet them.

The harsh truth is that you still need to prove your value enough to get a woman to overcome her natural fear of strangers to meet you for drinks. And there is a bit of a system to helping a woman through the process of responding to your introduction, following through with a phone call, and then agreeing to meet up with you. As a result, most guys quit their online dating service within 3 months. They’ll probably go back to try it again at a later date, but without more understanding of what women are looking for and what the protocol is for online dating, they’ll probably quit again and again.

Here are a couple tips for when you meet women online that will help you overcome these issues:

- Remember her first concern: SAFETY.

A woman needs to feel safe. After all, you’re a great guy, right? YOU know that, but she’s still hearing her friends tell her the most outrageous horror stories about the losers they encountered. The first time you talk on the phone, make it a fun conversation. No heavy stuff. And don’t even suggest you meet her yet. Just get her wanting more. Then end the call at a high point. Call her a day later and suggest a meet for some coffee or tea for 30 minutes to “see if anything clicks.” The more casual you make this sound, the less anxiety you stir into the mix.

- Remember that a woman is not expecting online dating is a short-cut to intimacy.

Some guys assume that if a woman is using an online dating service, that she’s just ready to blow right past all the formalities and small talk. It’s actually the opposite. She needs to be reassured that you’re cool, safe, and fun – and not some psycho. Hey, she’s already sensitive that using an online dating service could imply she’s lowering her standards – or desperate herself. So you have to be cool and calm and make it easy for her to enjoy the process.

Take your time and play the role of the reluctant suitor. The less you come across as needy and desperate, the better you will appear – and the more you will stand out from the pack.

As you can see, there are many ways to meet women, and you need to use them all. I have a philosophy for guys that I call “multiple streams of female income.” What this means is that you need to use several different methods to meet women so that: 1) You don’t make one method too important and feel too heavy and serious with expectations, and 2) You have backup options in case one method isn’t working for you.

It’s all about protecting your attitude and your confidence when you’re out there trying to meet women. Use all the opportunities and resources available to you to date more effectively.

Those six words can strike fear into the heart of just about any man.

The truth is that women LOVE to ask this question, and men HATE to answer it.

Why? What’s the big deal?

Well, I believe that both sides know what’s going on here, but only the woman usually knows how to handle it, while the guy simply reacts in the worst way possible…

HER: “Tell me about your last relationship…”

HIM: “Oh, uh, my last relationship. Yeah. Uh, it was … okay. She was nice and all, but she and I just didn’t get along so great at the end. We met here, as a matter of fact. We went out for drinks, and then we dated for about a year. She started getting weird in the last few weeks. She would call me late at night when I was out, and ask me where I was. She could be real nasty, too. Unbelievable. Man, I’m so glad I’m out of THAT situation. Want another drink?”

Okay, let’s break this down…

Why did she ask him this?

Primarily to find out all those delicious things he gave away in that totally jaw-dropping reply.

Let’s see what kind of “hidden intel” she got from his response:

1) Conflicting stories. He tries to put a nice spin on it, but ends up falling victim to his own emotions when he starts reliving it in his head as he explains it to her. He goes from saying she was nice, to how they didn’t get along so well at the end, to weird, to nasty.

This kind of changing story signals her that there are some issues here.

2) As a result of the previous bit of information, she decides that he is definitely not “over” her. Notice how he gave a timeline there? “Last few weeks…” In her mind, she’s already started to eliminate him.

Remember that attractive women are actively LOOKING for reasons to count you out of their lives. (And by this same reason, only DESPERATE women are looking for reasons to pull you into their lives.) You must avoid giving her any reasons to eliminate you before you’ve been able to make an emotional impact.

3) His emotional reaction at the end of the story (“Unbelievable. Man, I’m so glad I’m out of THAT situation”) says that he’s got some ANGER to manage.

The last thing a woman wants is another woman’s refuse, and declaring your anger like this makes you more unattractive than Billy Bob Thornton in a speedo.

4) When a woman calls a man late at night asking where he is, the odds are (unless she’s a stalker or psycho) that there were some real trust issues in that relationship. Another red flag goes up for him.

5) He OVER answered. He went into WAY more detail than was required by the situation. Over-explanation seems patently false and hinky, and usually smells like a lie.

So how do you answer her question correctly…?

First of all, make sure you’ve laid to rest all your emotional baggage regarding any ex-girlfriends of yours. All it takes is a few beers and the wrong question, and you’re crying the blues – and she’s out the door. Let it go, move on. If you find yourself caught up in obsessively angry thoughts about your ex, seek a little help, and definitely don’t start dating yet.

Next, take a few minutes to prepare in your mind how you will answer this if asked. (The percentage of guys who actually do this is appallingly low.)

A good, generic response to her might be something like this:

“You know, it was really great while it lasted. We had a lot of fun times, but in the end, we discovered we just weren’t right for each other. I still care about her, she’s a great person, but now I’m looking for someone who has the right stuff for me.”

You don’t want to duck the question, or give a half-answer like, “Oh it was fine.” A woman will sense that you’re hiding something there, too.

Just be up-front, clear, and positive about the message and you’ll handle this particular test question easily.

Then move on to a new topic. Do NOT let her dwell here and play therapist with you. Tell her, and then get on with more positive conversation about the possibilities that could be happening right now.

I see this ALL the time, it truly is an epidemic… It basically comes down to this:

A complete lack of education on the opposite sex.

No, I’m not talking about the technicalities of great lovemaking (there’s no point knowing that if you don’t ever get to it!) – I’m talking about at the very least just knowing the BASIC similarities and differences in the way we FUNCTION as different genders.

I’m not saying you need a PhD in male-female psychology just to meet someone, have great sex or a great relationship, but I am asking you to look at exactly how much EFFORT you are making now to understand the opposite sex, and whether you are WILLING to put in a bit more to change the RESULTS you are getting with them.

Now, if you’re already experiencing satisfaction and success with your dating and/or relationships, great! But if you’re NOT, then I’d like to remind you of this:

If You do what you’ve always done, then you’ll get what you’ve always gotten.

So, if you want something better, something different, you’re going to have to change SOMETHING, right? But WHAT?

Fortunately, there are people out there who have already spent a LOT of time looking at WHAT NEEDS TO CHANGE to be successful with the opposite sex. You don’t have to spend DECADES working it out for yourself like these people did.

Look seriously, how old do you want to be before you get a handle on this part of your life? The only REAL shortcut is to get an EDUCATION from people who’ve already spent their time working it out for you.

I’m not talking fluffy relationship advice column stuff here – which is usually WAY off because it’s just too shallow and general – I’m talking tried and tested knowledge for you to find and maintain a truly satisfying sexual and social life – whatever that is for you.

For most people there’s something blocking them that I want you to be able to GET OVER right now:

The imaginary shame of not knowing already.

Do NOT fall for this shit! Men and women who are NATURALLY successful with the opposite sex are the EXCEPTION, not the ‘norm’. The majority of people are terrible at this stuff, so they barely even try, end up ‘settling’, or rely on bad tactics like getting themselves or the opposite sex drunk.

Actually, to take a real world example, if you want to look at the ‘dating guru’ scene, the most realistically successful are those who were so bad at ‘picking up girls’ that they made a DECISION to LEARN as much as they could about it.

Unfortunately, there seems to be this crazy misconception that learning about how men and women relate is somehow taking the fun and naturalness out of the whole interaction. NOTHING could be further from the truth! The more aware two people are, the more enjoyable and natural the ENTIRE interaction becomes.

SO WHAT if the only real place where cutting edge information and research on male and female interaction is being looked at is in the so-called ‘seduction’ or ‘pick-up’ community.. You don’t need to adopt that entire mentality just to learn some extraordinarily interesting things from some brilliant people that WILL change your life for the better.

I’m telling you right now, NOTHING has changed my life so drastically as LEARNING this stuff, because nothing has been so much CRAZY INTERESTING FUN! The quality of my interaction with the opposite sex has increased a hundredfold and given me experiences I never would have had otherwise.

The only question is: are you ready to learn?

If so, you’re not going to even hesitate in taking the first step. And to me, that is a BASIC EDUCATION on ATTRACTION:

For Men
For Women

If you’re NOT ready to learn, I’m truly sorry, there’s nothing I or anyone else can do for your success with the opposite sex, you are just going to have to blindly blunder through it like everyone else, making the same mistakes over and over again – and if you’re EXTREMELY lucky recognizing some of them for yourself and changing them. Good luck with that!

But if you’re having second thoughts about how much time and energy you can afford to waste in your life finding out what people who already know can easily tell you, then it’s probably a good idea to go here to get started:

For Men
For Women

Well fellas, have I got some news for you…

“Women are not attracted to WUSSIES in the bedroom!”

No sir! We don’t want a guy who asks us what to do and takes orders like a puppy. We want a man who isn’t afraid to pin us down and throw us around and literally… ROCK our worlds!

Now, I’m not saying you should be a “jerk” when you are having sex… I but I DO mean that you need to be authoritative and IN CHARGE!

This definitely extends to your dating and relationship life as well, but for the purpose of RAPID SEXUAL IMPROVEMENT I want to show you right now how to use authority in the bedroom and LEAD your girl to stronger orgasms. =)

So let’s get right into it…

First of all, WHAT being authoritative in the bedroom REALLY is can be explained very simply:

It’s all about you being a MAN!

You see, when you start asking questions and catering to your woman, her sexual attraction towards you INSTANTLY SHUTS OFF.

I don’t mean to get too “biological” on you, but think about this…

We woman are naturally drawn to men who are leaders and protectors.

In caveman days, woman would go after the strongest man… the LEADER of the tribe. Also known as the guy who would hunt down the prey and clobber any enemies.

I know, I know, your mother and your sister tell you you should be nice to women. And you should!

But in the bedroom, what we REALLY want is the same guy that in the caveman days would be leading the hunt. =)

We want you to take charge and lead US by:

• Telling us how turned on you are.
• Doing us HARD! (there, I said it!)
• Using positions in which you have TOTAL CONTROL! Such as “doggy style” (which is often our favorite position… we love it because we feel like we are being “taken”!)
• Having us go down on you and be there for YOUR pleasure!

I’m in no way saying make your girl do anything she (or you) isn’t comfortable with. But what I AM saying is your girl is going to be most turned on when you:

• Do not ask what position to use and INSTEAD grab and her put her into it!
• Lightly pull her hair during doggy style and give her ass a little slap =) Talk dirty on occasion and ravish her – and yes tell her what panties to wear!
• Set up romantic evenings that you plan WITHOUT asking her what she wants (Here’s a hint: “Romance” is her feeling that YOU know what she wants EVEN BETTER than she does.)

The whole point of this note is to open your eyes that when you stop being “nice” to your girl in bed, and start taking authority and taking CONTROL, you will be pleasantly surprised by how much your girl likes it… AND how much easier it is for her to have intense, mind-blowing orgasms!

Once you start, don’t be surprised if SHE takes it the next level by telling you to do her harder, or being COMPLETELY submissive to you and even orgasming on your command…

I hope this note has opened your eyes a little bit… but the next step is for you to go and TRY THIS STUFF OUT!

You won’t know just how powerful it is until you start doing it. =)

Of course, if you want to see ALL of the specific tips and tricks for taking control of your girl’s sexual experience, and giving her more orgasms than she can even hope to count, then you owe it to yourself to check out the 2 Girls Teach Sex DVD program.

In it, you’ll WATCH exactly how to be dominant in bed… from the exact words to say, the techniques and positions to use, the psychological tricks that make her cum even HARDER, and how to get sex exactly as YOU want it and as OFTEN as you want.

It’s all in there, and you’ll master the secrets the same day you watch the DVDs and use them the same night!

I got a letter recently that I thought was provoking and interesting. I think it’s such a critical point that it needs to be reviewed and restated.

Guys, there is NO magic bullet in dating and attracting women – other than this:

If you are not successful with women right now, you need to LEARN MORE and PRACTICE MORE. And then leave no other option for yourself than success.

Bottom line: You must PERSIST.

No ifs, ands, or buts.

I’ve seen some not-very-attractive guys with such great game that they were always lining up a new lady. They were balding, slightly chubby men – not good looking. But they knew that one thing was going to override any appearance factors: Their ATTITUDE.

Are these guys getting as much sex as the gorgeous model guys? I suspect many probably are. There’s also a distinct chance they might not be getting the supermodels to ride home with them in their Ferrari’s the way some of the gorgeous model guys do.

A lot of guys will just throw their hands up at this and shriek, “Hey! What’s the POINT then? If good looking guys get more sex and better looking women, then what gives?”

In fact, in the letter I got, the reader said this: “Like many other authors and dating experts you continue to overlook the fact that how you look and appear physically is the most important factor in success with beautiful women. I truly know this from first hand, real experience.”

Now I’m going to tell you the same thing I told him:

Your “image” (how you dress, how well groomed you are, etc.) DOES matter.

But your looks do not matter all that much. I suspect many guys like you already know this. If you’ve ever seen a couple and thought, “HUH? What the hell does she see in HIM???” you know what I mean.

However…

Let’s just say for a minute that this is correct and physical appearance is THE most important factor.

What then?

What would that mean to you if this ‘fact’ were established as 100% correct? Would you give up trying to get with beautiful women if your looks weren’t a “10″? Would that mean the “game is over”? No sex with good looking women for you? If the worst thing you suspected were true, *what would you do then?*

You’d have to do what millions of men have to do every day when they’re faced with a challenge: You figure out a way around it.

Looks only get your foot in the door. She can still shove you out and slam the door shut.

I don’t believe there are specific laws you can use that say “only beautiful women will sleep with beautiful men.” Human relationships are not like math where you add up some numbers and always get the same result.

There is NO MAN who is a born or condemned failure with women – IF he’s willing to get in there and persist. I did. I was a beaten-down “Nice Guy” who once endured a two-year dry spell that would have made a celibate monk weep in his cot at night.

Remember, it’s easier to change yourself than the rest of the world. It’s easy to accept an assumption rather than question it and change it in your life.

I happen to believe one fact COMPLETELY and without a doubt with respect to men’s attitudes:

You will only attract the quality of woman into your life that your level of self-confidence will allow.

Did you catch that?

You will only attract the quality of woman that your current level of self-confidence will allow.
Sure, a guy who has average looks is not going to be as IMMEDIATELY appealing to a woman as a hot guy, but in what context? In the meat-market pickup clubs?

Remember this critical fact: HOW you look is less important than the way you make a woman feel.

Have you ever used hotornot.com? It’s a Web site that lets you put your picture up and have it graded on a scale from 1 to 10. Go there and see what kind of ratings some pictures get. Some people’s pictures vary anywhere from a 2 to a 10.

How can this be?

For two reasons:

1) Each woman’s tastes are different. One woman’s ugly is another’s gorgeous.

2) You can put up a different picture with a different attitude and look – but the SAME person – and get completely different ratings. Even from the SAME woman!

How can THAT be?

Do this: Ask any woman you know to go through a set of pictures of you and have her help you pick out which one is most enticing. And then have her explain her choices to you.

Chances are she won’t be able to, but the women that can will tell you it’s all in the attitude (sexiness) you convey. Same person, just different attitudes.

The same thing happens in real life. Your appearance is directly influenced by your attitude.

So, back to the Truth: How you LOOK is less important than how you make her FEEL. But you do have to make the most of what you’ve got first so that she’ll be interested enough to peek below the surface.

If you’re not having more success with women right now, it’s because something is still missing. I’ll bet that I know what this is, too.

ATTITUDE.

Every single guy I know who has improved his game with women has shirked off that bitter, whining attitude (that he can’t get success because of this or that) and he just goes and DOES IT ANYWAY.

Remember that scene in Apollo 13 where Ed Harris talks about the situation and says, “Failure is not an option!” There was NO point in their problem solving that allowed them to throw their hands up and say, “Can’t do it! Those guys are just going to have to die up there. We give up.”

That’s SO essential. You can’t give yourself the option of failure, or you will probably take that option somewhere along the way.

There is ALWAYS a reason that you’re not getting the success you want with women, and there is ALWAYS a solution.

So my message is this: The only people who fail in this world are those who PERSEVERE. There are plenty of guys who want to find this mystical magical combination of words that will “GET A WOMAN IN BED WITH YOU, TONIGHT!”

It doesn’t exist, guys. It’s what they used to call Snake Oil.

I’m here to tell you that you CAN have almost any woman you want, but you’re going to have to learn and practice a hell of a lot more. It’s not instantaneous. And there are no “six magic words” out there that are going to change that. The great Secret that you’re all looking for is already in front of you:

ANY method will work, if you REALLY use it and work it. (And it’s not as hard as you might imagine.)

Failure will NOT be an option.

If you employ these principles, and make her feel good about herself and you, you WILL be more successful.

Now get busy!

What it is is actually quite surprising… because…

It’s NOT having a huge penis.

It’s NOT some crazy sexual position.

And it’s NOT a pill, a toy, or a special “spot” technique.

Nope. The most powerful tool for unlocking screaming orgasms from your girl is actually…

HER BRAIN.

I know I know, this is starting to sound cheesy… but bare with me. =)

Here’s the deal:

As I’m sure you know, for men sexual pleasure is MOSTLY physical.

You see a hot woman, great ass, nice breasts, and a pretty face… and these “assets” of hers trigger a biological signal to your body that makes you want to be intimate with her.

You don’t care what kind of car she drives, what she does for a living, or even if she can speak!

Old news right? Ok, let’s move on…

So… for a woman, the biological “trigger” for sexual pleasure is VERY DIFFERENT.

Your girl isn’t staring at your chest, your legs, or your manhood.

In fact, even if she’s staring at Brad Pitt, yes, she’s going to find him attractive… but women never get that same URGE that men do.

So what DOES trigger that biological response in a woman?

It’s when you make her FEEL a certain way.

Put more simply…

Women THRIVE on emotions.

Unlocking your girls emotions — and being able to influence her emotions in bed — is extremely important for female pleasure.

ESPECIALLY when it comes to giving a woman what she really wants… mind-blowing, body-shaking orgasms. =)

Here’s something most guys don’t realize:

The female orgasms occurs when a woman is totally in the moment, and allows herself to surrender her emotions and control of her body to you.

Read that again. It’s important.

The best lovers are can get INSIDE A WOMAN’S HEAD and make her feel very strong emotions during lovemaking.

Any woman will tell you that her strongest orgasms are those that are the most emotional for her.

Sure, physical orgasms such as the g-spot, deep spot, oral sex, and clitoral are great!

However, the next level is being able to not only stimulate her to have physical orgasms… but AT THE SAME TIME involve HER BRAIN.

And THAT is when she’ll really be blown away =)

Sooo… the key to giving her these intensely stronger orgasms is to lead her to the emotions you want her to feel.

And the first way to do it, is to…

TALK her into her orgasm!

I don’t mean CONVINCE her into it. I mean lead her into it gently with your words.

As she is getting close to peaking (you can tell by: moving her hips up and down, moaning loudly, gets VERY wet, says she is about to come) gently encourage her in a low, slow voice by saying any of the following:

“Come for me baby”

“Get really wet and come for baby”

“Relax baby and come for me”

Now, those lines may sound cheesy to you… but they work and here is why…

For a woman to orgasm intensely she has to TOTALLY give up control of her body. When you give her this gentle reassurance that she CAN trust you and give up control, she will have an extremely intense orgasm.

It’s that simple. =)

Enjoy this technique and remember, INTENSE ORGASMS start in her MIND.

If you want to get DOZENS of specific techniques for getting your woman “in the mood” quickly… how to get her to LOVE going down on you… ways to give her G-spot orgasms, Deep Spot orgasms, clitoral orgasms, and orgasms from penetration… and even how to give her multiple orgasms and squirting orgasms, then I’d like to invite you to check out the 2 Girls Teach Sex DVDs.

First of all, blanket rules are rarely practical or effective. What’s much more valuable to you is having the fundamental understanding of where her head is at so you can judge for yourself and adjust to fit the situation. You have to have an adaptive system to decide these things for yourself.

Let me give you some examples so you can understand what I’m talking about:

1) You barely know her, and you got her phone number fairly quickly. (Met her in a store or on the street.)

She’s a cold contact, and she’s unlikely to remember you after a couple days. I’d call her between 48-72 hours after you met her so that the contact doesn’t go too cold. She barely knows you, so you are very suspect in her eyes until you’ve had a chance to establish more attraction. Until then, you’re no better than a blind date. Don’t wait too long, or you’ll stand almost no chance of getting together with her. Make sure you go for a light meeting (coffee or a drink) to get things started.

2) You met her at a party or social occasion where you had an opportunity to interact for a while and establish some trust and rapport.

She’s a warm contact, and you’ve got some time here. I would not call her until after 3 or 4 days, with 7 days maximum. You want her to wonder where you are and why you haven’t called. Of course, this only works if you had a strong connection up front.

3) You know her from a common connection or setting (work, friends, same class, etc.) and you’ll likely see her again there. OR she’s very interested and you hit it off great right at the start, including some likely buying indicators.

She’s a hot prospect, and you can wait even longer before you contact her. In fact, if you met her in a setting where you’ll see her again, get her number, but don’t call her until AFTER the next time you see her. This will make her wonder if you’re really interested. This kind of wonder will only help you. The longer the better, but don’t wait TOO long. 10-12 days is about the limit.

As for voicemail, you never leave a message with a woman on your first few phone calls.

Why? Because you are giving your power over to her, because if you leave a message with her, for as long as it takes her to get back to you (IF she gets back to you) you’ll be wondering about her and thinking about her. And that deepens your emotional interest in HER more than it does hers in YOU.

NEVER, ever leave a message with a woman, and especially on the first time you call her. Block your caller ID so she won’t know it’s you, and try her again later. Don’t call more frequently than once a day. (She might be screening her calls, and that marks you as a freak when and if she decides to answer to find out who is pestering her.)

The way to avoid this situation is to always find out when she’ll be available for you to call her when you first get her number. Then, if she’s not there when you call and leave a message, you have a reason to be concerned. She’s raising a red flag for you before you’ve even gotten started, so you know that you need to put her on probation.

Also, get her cell phone, since people are least intimidated about giving that number out (not as personal as a home phone), and you can be reasonably sure to get her if she’s out.

In this revealing report you’ll discover the most common mistakes men make in bed… and… what to do INSTEAD to drive your woman WILD with pleasure. Avoid these 10 mistakes and you’ll have better sex the very NEXT time you make love… guaranteed…

Mistake 1. Thinking She is Climaxing When She Isn’t

You may think that your lover is having “multiples” (or even ONE you-know-what) when she is not. She may make a bunch of noises and even TELL YOU it’s happening. But is she really?

Grab a Cosmopolitan sometime and look at how many articles and comments on “faking it”. I’m not saying that YOUR GIRL is faking it EVERY TIME but… chances are there have been a few episodes of love making where she was CRAVING something other than what you were doing.

When this happens women just want it to be over and encourage you to finish. It doesn’t mean you are awful in bed; just that being a mind-blowing lover EVERY TIME takes some specialized knowledge.

If you are giving your girl the “Big O” (and absolutely 100% sure of it) then congratulations! You’re one of the few guys who is ACTUALLY pleasing a woman REALLY WELL. But if you’re not, it is crucial that you learn how…

Mistake #2) Not Giving Her a Variety of Sexual Experiences

A lot of guys who are new to lovemaking – or are used to doing it with the same woman – tend to forget that women want different KINDS of sensual EXPERIENCES.

You might think that changing positions a few times and varying the speed of your thrusting IS a mixing it up. But it is not.

Women thrive on emotions. Sometimes they want to be taken, sometimes they want it hard, and sometimes they want to make love.

If you are NOT talking during lovemaking and creating a strong emotional experience for her, she CAN’T be totally fulfilled. Women want and NEED strong emotional experiences in bed.

Let’s look at an example.

Women love bad boys because of the emotions that a bad boy inspires in them.

This is why that when a women cheats, it is often with a “bad boy.”

However, you don’t need to be bad boy to create bad boy emotions within her in the bedroom. Just be a bad boy yourself by giving her a light spanking, talking dirty, and giving it to her good!

Women also love very suave, romantic types. Think of the cheesy paperback romance novels they read with Fabio on the cover. This is not a myth… women REALLY read this stuff!

Now, I’m not saying you should grow long hair, huge man boobs, and start riding a horse… but what you can do is mix up your lovemaking with some romantic sessions in which you are telling your girl how beautiful she is to you and how much you love her.

Get it?

The skinny is this:

You NEED to give your lover a variety of sexual experiences… and YOU are capable of giving her each kind… but you have to mix it up!

Mistake #3) Forgetting To Be A MAN

Ask any 100 women off of the street and 99 of them will tell you that they want a man that TAKES CONTROL.

That’s right, we want YOU to call the shots!

As long as you are respectful, your girl DOES want you to take control in the bedroom, to flip her around and switch positions without asking, and to do what YOU want!

Women are programmed to respond to strong, authoritative, confident men. It signifies that you are a protector, a leader, and a suitable mate.

Sure, it’s ok to ask her if she is enjoying something… but keep it simple. Save the talk about actual positions she liked for AFTER you are done.

Now don’t get me wrong – you are not making her a slave here, but rather leading with authority and masculine strength.

Once you start doing this you will be able to do many things with her in the bedroom that she earlier would not do. Many guys often think a woman is just uptight if she doesn’t want to do something… when in reality she just needs you to be a man and guide her with strength and confidence. You’ll be amazed at just how powerfully she responds!

Mistake #4) Thinking Sex Isn’t That Important To Her

If you want to know how much women LOVE sex… just think about how loudly we scream during lovemaking! You won’t ever hear a guy screaming like that!

You might THINK that your drive is much higher than your woman’s because YOU are usually the one initiating sex with her. But…

As hard as it is to accept, recognize that if your girl doesn’t want to make love, it is NOT always because she doesn’t want to.

Unfortunately, it’s probably because you just aren’t getting her off.

Fortunately this is an easy fix, and in a moment we’ll talk about how to do it…

Mistake #5) Being Silent/Emotionless in Bed

You may think that it is “cheesy” or “creepy” to talk romantically in bed. (you may think its weird to talk at all in bed.) However, women HATE silent, mechanical lovemaking.

Why?

I’ll say it again: Women THRIVE on emotion.

Dirty talk or romantic talk are EXCELLENT ways to give your girl STRONG EMOTIONS in bed. And strong emotions = STRONG ORGASMS.

Never think that it is solely your physical parts or motions you are making that give your girl the most pleasure. The most POWERFUL “BIG O” will always be triggered by our MINDS, not by our physical bodies.

Unlock her mind through dirty talk, romantic talk, and emotional talk WHILE having making love, and she will experience the most intense pleasure of her life!

Mistake #6) Trading Dinners/Flowers/etc To Get Sex From Her

Many men mistakenly think that we women aren’t interested in making love (we already discussed how this is incorrect thinking), and that they have to “trade something” with her to get her to want intimacy.

This is why you see so many guys trying to “get there” with their girl by first taking her out to a nice dinner or buying her gifts.

While doing nice things for your girl is awesome, it should NEVER be with the intention of GETTING SOME. When you have to trade something to get intimacy from your girl, realize that this is PROOF you are just not truly satisfying her in the bedroom.

When you are intimately satisfying your girl you will not have to trade ANYTHING for it, but she will often spontaneously text you sexy messages, buy YOU a small gift, or begin initiating lovemaking constantly. Just wait and see!

Mistake #7) Not Giving Her Enough “Foreplay”

If you still think of “foreplay” as the activity before lovemaking, well then you are thinking of it WRONG!

Here’s a hint: Women consider foreplay as PART of the lovemaking. NOT as a separate thing!

Here’s why:

While a man is not always capable of having a “Big O” during foreplay AND then another “Big O” during the actual lovemaking, WOMEN CAN!

Imagine if YOU could have one during foreplay… AND not lose any firmness and keep having them well into lovemaking. You’d want to spend A LOT of time in foreplay too, right?

Well your girl CAN have foreplay “O’s” AND penetration “O’s” so she DOES want to spend a lot of time in foreplay. As she should!

As a rule of thumb, spend at least the same amount of time on foreplay as lovemaking and you can always spend EVEN MORE time in foreplay. You can never get her too turned on and it will only make the lovemaking better when you are finally inside of her.

Mistake #8) Not Lasting Long Enough

This mistake is well known and very simple, but no list of mistakes in the bedroom would be complete without it. But while all guys know they need to last long… they don’t necessarily know HOW LONG that is!

Well, after talking to dozens of my girlfriends about the subject, I’ve discovered that we all think pretty much alike…

If you can last at least 20 minutes, most women will be SUPER happy with that!

Mistake #9) Mistaking Her Moody-ness For NORMAL Behavior

It’s no secret that we women can be a LOT moodier than you men. =)

But if you’re in a relationship with a woman and she seems to keep getting more and more moody over time… this is often because she isn’t getting what she needs in the bedroom.

FACT.

As we talked about before… while women aren’t usually as sexually aggressive as men, we do love and NEED to make love just as much!

But here’s the thing… if you’re not giving her the “Big O”… then lovemaking does her no good!

Can you imagine if when you were “taking care of yourself” you could NEVER “get there”? You’d begin to enjoy it less and less each time. Eventually you’d get so frustrated by the inability to “finish” that it would just be easier to avoid it COMPLETELY!

Sooo… If you can’t give her the “Big O” why WOULD she want to make love with you?

The answer: She won’t.

If your girl is not wanting to make love with you as much as you want then this is EXACTLY what has happened for her.

In the beginning, she may have tolerated it because she was really into you. Now that you have been together for a long time and lovemaking isn’t satisfying for her, it is more fulfilling for her to take care of HERSELF when you’re not around. This leads to only being with you on special occasions… or when she feels obligated (like if a guy bought her a fancy dinner or some sort of gift.)

If you recognize any of these signs, it’s time to step up your game NOW before the drought gets even worse.

And when you do, you’ll discover that when you are completely rocking her world in bed, not only is she in a better mood on a day-to-day basis… but SHE’LL start initiating making love with YOU!

A close friend of mine who is some what of a love-making expert himself told me something that I didn’t believe at the time… but I now KNOW to be 100% true:

IF YOU ARE GIVING HER THE BEST OF HER LIFE, SHE WON’T CARE IF YOU ARE HOMELESS LIVING IN A CARDBOARD BOX… AS LONG AS YOU CAN MAKE LOVE IN IT!

And hey, I’ll admit it… if a man can give it to me like that, this is probably true. =)

If your girlfriend or wife is often starting arguments, not wanting intimacy, or acting “distant” in some way, it’s time to stop blaming her. Re-examine your ability because the real culprit is inadequate lovemaking pleasure.

Mistake #10) Not Getting Help

Top performers in any aspect of life realize that MASTERY is a journey, not a destination. Top athletes don’t all-of-a-sudden stop practicing. CEOs don’t suddenly neglect their businesses and expect it to keep growing. And guess what… lovemaking is no different.

To be an amazing lover you can’t ever be blinded by arrogance. Never think that you know EVERYTHING. You may know A LOT but there are ALWAYS new tricks or tips to get you to the next level.

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Best of all, you can try it RISK-FREE. Get it out there, watch the videos, and try out the techniques. If your girl isn’t SCREAMING with pleasure and begging you to make love to her at all times of the day, simply pack them up and return them for a full refund, no questions asked. But I’ll bet that once you get these DVDs out there and see how well these techniques work, we wouldn’t be able to pry them out of your hands with a crowbar!

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Maybe you’re always the one who has to initiate sex… or maybe she’s just not in the mood as often as you are.

If you’re finding these things happening with your woman, you’re not alone.

But, I’m going to venture that the REASON WHY she doesn’t seem to want to make love as often as you do is NOT because she has a lower sex drive….

What is really happening is…

You’re Just Not Satisfying Her Enough During Sex To Make Her CRAVE It!

You see, in order for a woman to experience REAL sexual pleasure, she MUST be having orgasms.

Her moaning, saying its good, or just letting you have sex with her IS NOT ENOUGH.

Think about how sex would feel for YOU if you always got “close”… but were never able to fully get off…

That would pretty much suck, right??

Well that’s exactly what your girl is going through if you’re not giving her the mind-blowing orgasms she craves!

If you’re not giving your girl orgasms when you make love, it may SEEM like she is having fun. But in reality, she’s probably just being nice, and sleeping with you because she feels she has to.

And if this is the case, then she’s not going to want to have sex with you very often.

Worst case scenario… if she’s been with a guy in the past who was cabable of giving her orgasms… and you are not… she’s probably not going to stick around very long unless you are married or financially supporting her. It’s sad, but true.

But fortunately since most guys DON’T know how to give a woman orgasms you probably don’t have anything to worry about. (But in a way, isn’t that even MORE sad?!? LOL!)

On the upside, giving a woman orgasms is not DIFFICULT… it’s just DIFFERENT!

A woman’s body works very differently than a man’s, and once you know the subtle differences, it’s actually very EASY to give your woman not just one orgasm… but 2, 3, 4 or more… even different kinds!

And Here’s The Best Part…

When you ARE able to give your woman orgasms, sex with you is not frustrating… it’s FUN!

So of course, she’ll want to have sex with you all the time!

Often times, she’ll even be the one asking you for sex.

You can trust me on that =)

Here’s How To TELL
If You Are Getting Her Off…

The lesson to take away here is that your girl’s “sex drive” and how often she wants to have sex with you have nothing to do with body chemistry… and everything to do with whether or not you are sexually satisfying her.

With this in mind, here’s how to tell if you are:

If your girl wants sex at least 3-4 times a week, then you are satisfying her.

If she DOESN’T want sex at least 3-4 times a week, then I am sorry, but you are not.

It’s really that simple.

How To Make Absolutely SURE You Satisfy Your Woman Every Time…

Step 1.) Start By Giving Her A Foreplay Orgasm Every Time

Giving a girl an orgasm through intercourse is a MUCH more intense experience for a girl, and giving her one of these body-shaking orgasms usually requires you know some techniques.

On the other hand, giving a woman a foreplay orgasm is easy.

So easy, that…

There is NO EXCUSE for not being able to give your girl a foreplay orgasm!

So let’s talk about how to do it, shall we?

But first, REMEMBER:

While you’re going to give her this orgasm during foreplay, it’s important that you continue to think of foreplay as PART of the sex… because to your girl, it is!

Women love foreplay and you can keep it going until she is DESPERATE for you to be inside of her. Women LOVE this!

Here are a few ways to keep foreplay going:
Kiss her for 10-15 minutes before taking off clothes (hers or yours)

Rub her over her “area” for 5 FULL minutes and refuse to take her panties or clothes off no matter how much she or you wants it – tell her how much she wants you AND how much you want her

If you start the technique I’m about to share with you AFTER you do all this stuff then you are almost GUARANTEED to give her a foreplay orgasm =)

So.. the easiest way to give her a foreplay orgasm is by stimulating her “love button”.

Here’s one way to do it that I know your girl will like. =)

When massaging it, use one finger in circular strokes directly on it, but to the upper right.

Think of it like the 1:30 position on a clock. For reasons I can’t explain, this particular area of a woman’s clitoris is packed with even MORE nerve endings than the rest!

Make sure she is wet, or add lube (you can also lick your finger).

It’s important that you keep a steady pressure the whole time, but not too hard! We girls are much more sensitive than you are, so start off light, and don’t go harder until she starts pressing herself against you.

Once she starts lifting her hips towards you, go just a little bit faster… and tell her SOFTLY and GENTLY “come for me baby and totally relax”. This reassures her that it’s “ok” to let herself go, and often you reassuring her is exactly what she needs to go from feeling really good to going OVER THE TOP and having an incredible orgasm!

Step 2.) Discover How To Give Her More Advanced Orgasms

Giving a woman a foreplay orgasm is always a good time… but if you REALLY want to take her pleasure to a level that no man ever has before, you’re gonna have to give her the more ADVANCED types of orgasms that make her whole body pulsate with pleasure! The type of orgasms that leave her lying there wondering what just happened… and instantly have her calling you the BEST she’s ever had!

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Orgasms for a man are EASY to understand.
You simply thrust, get aroused, finish, and go to sleep. =)

Most men can only have one type of orgasm… after which they usually lose their erection temporarily before they can get hard and have another.

Women however, can have MANY different types of orgasms.

These orgasms range from those that are barely noticeable to her man, to SCREAMING, TOE-CURLING, even bed soaking squirting orgasms (Woo!)

And….

THERE ARE ALL SORTS OF ORGASMS IN BETWEEN THOSE EXTREMES!

And… unlike men, the TYPE of orgasm a woman has is often 100% CONTROLLABLE by her sexual partner! (you)

One of the first steps to giving your girl the strongest orgasms of her life is RECOGNIZING that YOU have control over her orgasms.

Lucky you. =)

My point is that you should never blame your girl for not coming. Always be honest with yourself, and ask yourself if you are really sexually satisfying her.

Let’s talk about some of the types of orgasms women are capable of having.

Foreplay Orgasms

These orgasms take place during foreplay (or “pre-penetration” as I like to call it.)

Foreplay orgasms are sooo important… because they allow your lover to “warm up” and have multiple orgasms later when you penetrate her. =)

Every GREAT lover should have the following foreplay orgasms in his playbook:

Nipple Orgasm: Not all women can have an orgasm through nipple stimulation alone, but since a personally know a few who can I had to put it in here to make the article complete!

Clitoral Orgasm: This orgasm concentrates on the clitoris. Not as intense as the deep spot and other vaginal orgasms but still a great warm up and relatively easy to give.

“Deep Spot” Orgasm: The “deep spot” orgasm is often the first time many woman have a true “internal” orgasm, as it’s usually easier for a woman to have one of these than it is for her to have one during sex.

“G-Spot” Orgasm: Similar to the deep spot orgasm but not quite as intense. Still a great orgasm to have in the bag of tricks to get her “primed” for multiples during sex.

Now let’s talk about some of the orgasms women are capable of having during PENETRATION:

Penetration Orgasms

Vaginal Orgasm: Normal orgasm while you are inside of her, much like the “deep spot” orgasm. Usually more intense than any foreplay orgasm but for some woman very difficult to achieve. Far easier to achieve AFTER a foreplay orgasm.

Anal orgasm: This occurs when you have a clitoral or vaginal orgasm during “rear entry”. It feels very different to a girl than a clitoral or vaginal orgasm alone. =)

Multiple Orgasms: Multiple orgasms are when your lover has an orgasm and you give her another (or many) orgasms right after. This is different than the continuous orgasm which is described next.

Continuous Orgasm: This is when your girl has an orgasm but instead of letting her sexual excitement come down (as many women think they have to because they are sensitive) you INSTEAD keep going and often even harder. This causes her to start orgasming UNCONTROLLABLY and over and over. With a continuous orgasm she will often be EXHAUSTED after and will always say she had not idea how many orgasms she had. 99% of women need to be verbally talked through a continuous orgasm as it is rare that previous lovers have EVER given this to her. She also has no way to do this herself through masturbation. If you give your girl this she just might become sexually addicted to you, so only do this with a girl you REALLY like!

Squirting Orgasm: Ah, the mysterious one! Well first of all I will tell you, squirting orgasms are VERY REAL and every woman has the “equipment” to have one! Actually getting your girl to experience one of these intense orgasms is a whole ‘nother article altogether… but let’s just say they’re a lot of fun =) (Note: For a limited time, in the 2 Girls Teach Sex DVD package includes a Bonus DVD which shows you EXACTLY how to give your woman one of these wild, full-body orgasms she’ll never forget! Check it out here.

So there you have it. Being a girl does have SOME advantages. =)

So now that you know how many different types of orgasms your girl can have… It’s your job as a man to GIVE THEM TO HER.

Get to it! And if you want to find out how to give her each one of these easily (you can even give her ALL of them in one night!) check out the 2 Girls Teach Sex DVDs. Take the risk free test drive and see how many orgasms YOU can give HER!

Today I’d like to share a secret with you that is going to get you MORE sex and BETTER SEX… for both you and your girl!

It involves something 99% of the men on the planet don’t know about women:

The LONGER you take to get a woman’s clothes off… and the LONGER you wait to go down on her… and the LONGER you wait to have sex with her… the MORE likely she is to have an orgasm!

Let me explain:

We’ve all heard the phrase “women are like an oven, they need to be warmed up”… but what most guys don’t know is WHY and HOW.

THE “WHY”:

Guess what fellas… your most powerful weapon in the bedroom is not your Johnson… but the force of ANTICIPATION!

Girls LOVE to be teased… WAAAAY more than men! And the longer you take to do EVERYTHING… the HOTTER and MORE TURNED ON your girl is gonna get!

THE “HOW”:

Here is a step-by-step guide to undressing your girl in way that builds INCREDIBLE ANTICIPATION that will drive her absolutely CRAZY! (in the best way possible =) )

By following these simple steps, you’ll have her so turned on by the time she is naked that she will be BEGGING to have you inside of her! (This is directly from the 2 Girls Teach Sex DVDs, so pay attention.)

(Warning: Some steps may sound basic, but I’ve thrown in some fun tricks to SPICE UP the simple stuff… so make sure you read this guide all the way through!)

Here we go:

1.) As you are kissing her, rub your hands firmly up and down her back. Once you’ve been kissing for several minutes, work your fingers under the bottom of her shirt, and circle back to her stomach (still kissing, but alternating between her lips, neck, and ear lobes.)

2.) Gently scratch her back as you are kissing her, and softly but firmly slide your hand up under hair at the nape of her neck and give a nice squeeze. =)

3.) Lift up her shirt and take it off in the smoothest way possible, being careful not to pull her hair!

4.) Now that her shirt is off, slowly progress your kissing downward towards her breasts, kissing the upper area, and still rubbing her lower body with your hands.

>>> BONUS TIP! Gently but firmly, pin her arms above her head and hold them there with one hand while you caress her body with your other, still kissing all over. Girls LOVE this!

5.) As you are kissing her neck, reach behind and unhook her bra. If you get stuck, don’t worry! Just smile at her and say, “assistance please” and she’ll unhook it for you.

6.) DO NOT GO STRAIGHT FOR THE BOOBS! Go back to kissing her on the lips and neck! (In fact, until you are fully going down on her, you should always return to her mouth every so often to kiss her passionately). Then, taking your time, make your way down to her breasts, but DO NOT GO FOR HER NIPPLES! Kiss them in slow circles, leaving the nipples for LAST!

7.) When you get to her nipples, lick them gently, alternating between the 2. When your mouth isn’t on one, your finger should be on the other (lick it for lubrication =) )

>>> BONUS TIP! Some girls LOVE to have their nipple pinched! I would say at least 50% of all women! Start gently of course, and increase the pressure and watch her reaction. If she seems to be getting turned on, squeeze a little harder and ask her if she likes it. She’ll let you know. =)

8.) Move down to her stomach, and use the same slow, anticipation-building style. Try to kiss every inch of it! Slip your tongue under her waistband to tease her once in a while, and “accidentally” graze your chin over her “area”, breathing heavily.

9.) Kiss her on the mouth again while you go to take off her pants. But NOT her panties! It’s time for the fun part. =)

>>> BONUS TIP: Take her right leg, and starting at her foot, kiss EVERY INCH OF IT, working your way down in slow circles! This should take A WHILE… and she will be LOVING EVERY SECOND OF IT! Then, when you get to the “good spot”, breathe heavily OVER her panties, letting her feel the heat! Then go back to her left leg (start in the middle this time) and do it all over again!

By the time you get back down to her “area”… she’ll be BEGGING you to rip her panties off and give her more!

10.) Give her what she wants =)

So there you have it! This entire process should take around 30 minutes… and will get her more turned on then she’s EVER been before!

Building anticipation like this paves the way for her to have INTENSE orgasms… and lots of them at that.

Oh, and if you’re with a woman for the very first time, this is a pretty good way to make HER be the one begging YOU to be inside of her, not the other way around. =)

This stuff will DEFINITELY give you an edge over the other men she’s been with. And if you’d like to get an even BIGGER edge and join the 1% of men who women call the best lovers in the WORLD… I have some great news for you!

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“Just be yourself and girls will like you for who you are.”

Great advice… On the surface… But I’m sorry fella, it just ain’t gonna cut it. Let’s find out why in a little more detail so you’re no longer confused on this one like most people are (I know I was for a long time!)

First, if you’re nervous or anxious around women, the LAST thing you’re going to be able to DO is “be yourself”! Even if you’re the most amazing person on the planet otherwise, she’s never going to know that if you turn into a stammering nervous reck around her.

But more importantly, what “self” are you being? Do you know yourself well enough to be able to tell the difference when you are and aren’t being yourself? The sad truth is most people don’t. When it comes down to your sense of identity, it’s the trickiest thing in the world to pin down, and for good reason. Identity is a fluid thing, it’s changing all the time, whether we admit to it or not.

The thing is, most people confuse their SELF with their limited definitions of their SELF-IMAGE. We are all much more than we BELIEVE we are, that’s why we GROW. If you have a self-image that let’s you confidently and calmly interact with women and know what you’re doing and why you’re doing it, AWESOME! But if you have a self-image that PREVENTS you from doing that, it’s time to question if it’s really you (Hint: it’s not, it’s just your imagination!)

I’m not saying you need to create a fake persona to get girls, as some pickup artists do, I’m saying your need to EXPAND your definitions of who you are. We all have the inherent ability to ACT in ways that ATTRACT women. The only person preventing us from acting in those ways is us, or more accurately, the limited ideas we have of ourselves.

Being fake is for suckers and most women pick up on it instantly because it’s incongruent. They can feel something is a little “off”. What you should be looking at is changing your BEHAVIOUR PATTERNS. Because, fortunately or unfortunately for all men:

Women respond emotionally to how you ACT.
(Cool, I just noticed this: ACT is central to attrACTion.)

If you don’t understand this, you’re going to create resentment towards women for not appreciating you for who you are. Yes, they will take you for granted or dismiss you because your ACTIONS aren’t “doing it for them” on an EMOTIONAL LEVEL. So don’t try to fight it my friend, accept it for how it is and learn to work with it.

If you act like a needy drooling desperate chump (aka WUSS), she’s not going to respect you OR feel attraction, quite the opposite in fact. But if you act like an independent, together, confident, fun-loving MAN, you’re going to easily create respect AND attraction. Are you still one of those guys who think “if only she spent some time with me she’d like me”? Dude, she’s not going to WANT to spent that time with you in the first place if you can’t SHOW her from the start that you’re someone she WANTS to spend time with. Making sense yet?

So how do you get from one type of man to the other? (or in other words fix any behaviour patterns that aren’t working for you.) PRACTICE. There is going to be a bit of “fake it til you make it”, but you don’t even have to look at it like that. You’ve simply got to TRY NEW THINGS. Learn new stuff and experiment. Not everything that you hear about is going to work for you, but there is definitely stuff that will. USE whatever jibes with you.

Learn some new routines and new behaviours and take the time to adapt them to your current personality. Them give them a go, even as a joke at first. Sure, you’re going to feel like a tool sometimes when you say the wrong thing then realize it, but learn to laugh about it and chances are she won’t take it seriously either. Just remember, you’re going to feel like even MORE of a tool when she rejects you in some way because you’ve repeated old behaviour that you already know doesn’t work. So try some new stuff that might.

And next time someone tells you to “just be yourself”, turn around and tell them “No way! I’m putting my energy into being MORE of myself – and lovin it!”. A much better option don’t you think?