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Amazing Secrets to Meeting Fascinating Singles on the Internet

2011-09-10T16:58:00.000-07:00

by Jay Reiss

At the end of a long day at work, what better way to enjoy the evening than to share it with your heart's companion - your Soul mate. Not only is having a love relationship a healthy way to live, but you'll feel more fulfilled as a person too.

As an online dating Coach, I've had the pleasure of working with clients worldwide. People just like you have contacted me from all over the world wanting online dating advice... with the ultimate goal of finding their Soul mate - no matter where he or she may be living. In the global community we all live in today, connecting with and meeting singles online is the most natural thing imaginable.

Today I'll be your Dating Coach while I share some helpful online dating tips. With my online dating advice to guide you, learning how to find your Soul mate through online dating can be fun and easy - so let's get started!

A Dating Coach Offers some Tips for Success

One of your first and most important decisions is your commitment to joining an online dating service. Whether you join a large dating site with millions of members, or a dating service that targets matches within a smaller niche, your online dating success will, to a large extent, be the result of how well your Online Dating Profile is written. With this in mind, here are the first steps to finding your Soul mate.

First, make a commitment to joining one or more paid dating services, each of which has enough members living in your general vicinity so you'll have a variety of prospective Soul mates to choose from.

As your Dating Coach, I'll help you create your Online Dating Profile, since this will become your "Online Dating Brochure" and "calling card."

Then, decide who you would truly like to meet. Your online dating service can help you to some extent, but always keep in mind that you're using computer matching for your introductions. Therefore, to take full advantage of the technology, it would be helpful to first understand how it works! Online Dating services match their clients by performing both a keyword search, as well as a simple match of the preferences you've assigned in your Online Dating Profile.

When the online dating services ask you to select your "interests and hobbies" for example, you'll be much better off selecting as many of them as you can while still being truthful. Let's say, for example, that under "interests and hobbies" you have 25 options to choose from. If you select only one of them, then you'll be matched with site members who have made that one selection too.

Computer matchmaking works by matching the words or phrases from your dating profile with those of other members within your chosen age range and geographic area, while applying your preferences for height, hair color, drinking and smoking habits, and so on. So one of the secrets to getting more matches is to be more flexible with the options you choose, just like in the example I've given.

Finally, and most important of all, to take full advantage of the online dating services you join, whether you're a man or a woman, take the initiative and send some letters of introduction - and if possible, do this every day. Don't expect the online dating services to do all of the work! My best advice to you as your dating coach is to become pro-active - and be responsible for your success!

My Dating Coach Advice

You really can find your Soul mate on the Internet. So just take a deep breath, make a decision that you WILL succeed, and then get the ball rolling! Today more than 25% of single adults use online dating services, and within the next five years, this number is predicted to double. Will YOU find your Soul mate through Online Dating? To a large extend, the decision is up to you!

About the Author

Jay Reiss is an Online Dating Coach who has worked with more than two thousand clients worldwide! He'll help you design your Online Dating Profile and show you how to succeed with Online Dating! He offers a free telephone coaching session (a $100.00 value - free!) and has Free Online Dating Advice on his website http://www.online-dating-coach.com

Top Romantic Beach Destinations

2011-09-10T16:53:00.000-07:00

by Joe Collinsworth

If you are looking to rekindle some romance or sweep a new love interest off their feet, there are some great ways to do that with our list of top romantic beach destinations.

Depending on where you are located, we wanted to put together a list of top romantic beach destinations that you could whisk off to for a weekend getaway or a week's worth of relaxation and love.

This article is for US beach destinations; however we'll provide a list of outside the US in a second part of this series, as we know there are some gorgeous locations all over the world.

Discount Florida Vacations List of Top Romantic Beach Destinations:

**Hawaiian Islands have to be on this list. Maybe it's because we have heard so many great things or have been drooling to visit the islands for a long time.

Offering a sense of inner peace with very warm, welcoming people, Hawaii is a great beach destination and one of love and beauty. Rated number one by many travel agents and experts, the serenity, tropical allure, amazing beaches, ambiance, and more has couples desiring to travel to the Hawaiian Islands in droves.

**Florida Beaches have to be added as top romantic beach destinations. You know we would have picked a few and said these are the best locations in Florida for romance and honeymoons, but we don't do that anymore. After visiting many of the beaches in Florida, we realized that they all offer something special and something unique that you can't find elsewhere. Whether you vacation on the Gulf, Panhandle, Atlantic Coast, or Keys, you will find love and romantic ideas everywhere. Plus one couple's idea of romance may be different from another's.

(You can obviously learn more about Florida vacations at our website).

**The California Coast: My dream has always been just to hop into a convertible with the love of my life and cruise up the coast visiting each city that invites us in. Big Sur is one destination that continues to pop up on the top romantic beach destinations radar. We've also heard nothing but great things regarding San Diego with a lot of cool stuff to do together and plenty of quality time. Among the other spots there are a handful of secluded spots nestled within the coast of California that you can choose from.

**East Hampton in New York. We had to mention some East Coast beaches along with the beautiful West Coast. Unbelievable homes, grassy dunes, sandy beaches, and roaring ocean breaks will have you drooling over more than your loved one. Aside from hobnobbing with the elite and famous, The Hamptons are a great place just to enjoy each other's company by staying in the whole time - be sure to get a beachfront stay.

More top romantic beach destinations that we could talk about all day include:

Cape May in New Jersey

Oregon's Coast including Cannon Beach

The US Virgin Islands

Hilton Head South Carolina

Outer Banks North Carolina

There are so many great romantic beach spots that you really can't go wrong as long as you spend time together doing what each of you loves.

Also, don't forget to make a list of things to do whether it's to stay in the whole time or go wild with all sorts of adventurous activities. Remember every couple is different!

About the Author

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Why Love is Not Enough

2011-09-10T16:47:00.000-07:00

by Greg S. Baker

Is it not true that you argue more with people whom you say you love the most? Is it not also true that you've been hurt more by people that claim they love you than by anyone else? If love is enough why then do 50% of marriages end in divorce between two people who once said they loved each other? This article takes a look at this problem.

Often, when asked why two people decide to marry each other, the answer comes back as, "Because I love her/him!" Despite a profound misunderstanding of what love really is, this comment has become the stock reason for marriage for most couples. Yet, their love for each other is not enough to keep them married. Everyone who has gotten a divorce, at one time, felt like, believed, and trusted that they loved the person they eventually divorced. Clearly, love wasn't enough.

In fact, is it not true that you argue more with people whom you say you love the most? Is it not also true that you've been hurt more by people that claim they love you than by anyone else?

Society promotes love as the sole reason for a successful relationship. They believe that love will solve all problems conquer all obstacles. This idyllic and euphoric concept of love works great for the movies and fairy tales, but is impractical and unbiblical in real life.

Biblically, love does not conquer all. Biblically, love is a sacrifice, a giving of self that reflects the character of the giver more than honors the qualities of the receiver. The Bible teaches us that greater love can no man have than to lay down his life for his friend. The Bible also says that we are to love our enemies, and the word love is no less deep and meaningful for the friend as it is for the enemy. God so loved us that He gave his only son-to death! It was a sacrifice, not an emotional force that turns back the evil tide.

When you love someone, you express it in the form of a sacrifice of self. It is a measure of the giver, never the measure of the power of love itself. It is why God can command our love. Love is something we all have. It is something built into us. We are created in the image of God. God is love. We too have this same attribute...and attribute of God Himself. Thus, God can command our love.

Love is vitally important in our lives. It provides the right perspective on life. But it doesn't solve your problems. God loved us and so sent His Son to die for us so that we might go to heaven. But that love didn't prevent masses of people from killing Jesus anyway. And it doesn't prevent millions of people from rejecting His saving grace.

Yes, you ought to learn to love, because as you love, you set the groundwork and the necessary foundation to solve problems, to overcome obstacles, and to have successful relationships. Love keeps the door open. In that, it is essential. Learn to love.

But love, of itself, is not enough. It's just the best start that you can have. Every relationship must expand upon their love. Communication skills need to be developed to express that love. Patience is important. Controlling your anger is essential. Even learning to forgive someone else is vital to the success of a relationship.

The five leading causes of divorce have nothing to do with love. They are:

1. Bad sex life

2. Disagreements over child rearing

3. Trouble with in-laws and / or friends

4. Finances

5. Unrealistic expectations

Love isn't enough. It's a good start and if you truly love someone, you'll work on these other areas as well. Love provides the opportunity. Now we must act on the opportunity.

About the Author

Greg S. Baker is a Pastor, Counselor, and Author specializing in building and strengthening relationships.

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Smart Tips for Online Dating Profile Pics

2011-09-05T14:02:00.000-07:00

by Text Dating

In the world of online dating, the one thing that prompts most singles looking for a relationship to hit the 'send a message' button is a profile pic. Although we would agree that most online daters usually resolve to very flirtatious (or so it seems) profile pictures on online dating sites to attract other singles, however, we cannot help but get attracted to the ones that really catch our attention. If you are single and are looking for a serious relationship, here are some smart tips for profile pics that you might find handy in finding your perfect date:

Make eye contact: Statistics show that most singles that upload profile pics in which they stare right at the camera, so as to make a direct eye contact with those looking at the pic tend to attract more hits and messages. As against this, looking away from the camera may amount to a beautiful picture but does not reveal your interest in the onlooker. Such as picture might make you seem distant and reserved and is not a good choice for a dating profile pic. Pics that have eye contact make you seem interested and friendly.

Smile: Looking serious is frankly a big turn off. A smiling profile pic, on the contrary shows that 'you won't bite', are friendly and approachable. This will not only help you attract like-minded singles but also reveal a positive and lighter side of you and help you attract similar singles interested in dating or looking for a relationship.

Flirt (but only a bit): Flirting seems to work quite well on online dating sites. But when it comes to choosing your profile picture, be a little cautious. You do not want to send out the wrong vibes or attract the wrong people. While it is okay to appear a little flirtatious in your profile pic, going overboard might make you seem very frivolous.

Abstain from pornographic profile pics: Nude/seminude or pornographic pics show that you are desperate for a physical relationship and are not serious about finding a good dating partner. Watch out! This may attract sex predators!

Avoid bathroom mirror shots: Dude, seriously, that is old!! Bathroom shots taken of oneself with the flash reflecting in the mirror is passé. Think of more innovative ideas to click yourself!

Use a 'present day' picture: What good is a ten years older picture of you in which you looked younger (and probably slimmer!!) when you are looking for a real date in present day? Do not give out an incorrect impression about yourself. Ageing is a natural process. Accept it and let genuine people get attracted to who you really are now.

Here's hoping that you will find these tips useful. So go ahead and put up your bests shot. You never know, your perfect date might just 'hot poke' you!

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Outsourcing Online Dating

2011-09-05T13:57:00.000-07:00

by Text Date

A lot of singles are paying strangers to find them suitable partners to date. With this, the entire concept of online dating has acquired an all-new perspective.

In times when outsourcing is the 'buzz' word that drives the economies of many countries, outsourcing online dating a brand new form of business. Singles who are interested in meeting suitable partners contact websites that provide such services. That's right - relationships just got added to the list of things that can be outsourced, just like buying groceries, paying bills or painting your car.

This is how it is done. Those interested in meeting friends, finding dates, flirting or a long term relationship get in touch with these websites that provide excellent services. These websites typically have freelancers with a relative amount of experience in online date and match making industries. These freelancers work as online dating assistants and help their clients find a suitable date. These personnel pen down relevant and attractive profile details for their clients and submit them on their website to attract other single men and women who too are looking for a perfect match. When someone shows interest in their client, these professionals respond to their interest by writing messages on their client's behalf. In this way, while they help their clients acquire a database of possible suitors, they also save those interested in feeling embarrassed about not receiving any response.

These dating assistants decide who should they respond to and if the interested partner is ready to go on a date with their clients, they even set up a time and place for their clients' first real date!

Women are also prone to outsourcing dating as men, although the latter comprise over 80% of the outsourcing agency's clientele. Most women find first-hand experience of going through a man's profile information and pictures quite intriguing and they do not wish to let go of this opportunity. However, if she is on the receiving end of the outsource set-up, she is all too glad to receive sincere and soulful messages from her interested partner, which in reality are sent by the virtual dating assistants.

The best part about outsourcing the responsibility of finding a date to an agency or a website means that singles do not have the time to get into the nitty-gritty of 'hit and trial' dates before they find their perfect match. Plus, because the entire correspondence is done by a third person, to whom the responsibility is outsourced, the chances of getting emotionally attached to suitors or making the wrong decisions are often less.

So, you think you should give outsourcing online dating a shot? Go ahead!

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Deception in Online Dating

2011-09-05T13:51:00.000-07:00

by Adam Valentine

How to Spot a Liar in Online Dating

There are so many online dating services now. In the recent years online dating has seen a substantial increase in popularity and doesn't seem to have the stigma it once had.

Online dating offers several benefits, one of the main benefits being that you have a large number of potential people to date that you would not otherwise have. But, how do you know if the person on the other end of that internet connection is being truthful?

Online dating offers people quite a bit of anonymity. For some people this is a great benefit because they can say things in there profile that they would be afraid to say to someone in person. For other people, anonymity makes it easier to pretend to be someone they're not and they will try to get the attention of others by being dishonest and misleading.

So, here are some tips to help you decide whether someone is being truthful or dishonest.

1. A good way to spot deception, whether online or off, is noticing inconsistencies. If someone tells you the same story more than once or you ask the same question a few times but the "facts" change, there is a good chance the person is not being honest.

2. If someone seems evasive, like they're trying to avoid answering certain questions or disclosing certain information, that person is probably hiding something.

It's not always a bad thing for someone to keep some information to themselves but if you're going to go out on a date with someone there are some things you need to know about that person. What's there age? What's there name? What kinds of things do they like or dislike?

If someone is not forthcoming with even the simplest information then that individual is hiding something.

3. Trust your gut. I'm not suggesting that you tap into any latent psychic powers. I'm just saying to listen to that little voice in your head. If you feel uneasy about something don't just ignore that feeling and say "oh it's probably nothing." Trusting your gut can keep you out of a bad or even potentially dangerous situation.

4. One last tip is to ask a prospective date you meet through an online dating service to have a conversation with you via web cam. This way you can see the person. Seeing someone will uncover some obvious information. If someone tells you they are 26 years old, 6 feet tall and 185 lbs. You'll be able to have a pretty good idea if they are being truthful just by looking at them.

Being able to see someone can also reveal other, less obvious information. Being able to see someone’s eyes or watch their body language will also give you a better idea if this is someone you want to meet in person.

If someone refuses to use a web cam or makes a bunch of excuses they could possibly be trying to deceive people.

To sum it up, online dating should be based on truthful information. If you even suspect someone is being dishonest or deceptive you should find someone else. There are plenty of other people out there for you.

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Where to Find True Romance

2011-08-23T23:14:00.000-07:00

by Sammy Kay

What is true romance? Has anyone ever set parameters that define the state of true romance? Take the movies for example. Can romance be disguised as a thriller or an action drama? Take some of these classics when thinking about true romance.

Some movie fans have claimed that they find Sir Anthony Hopkins' portrayal of the infamous Hannibal Lector as romantic. Okay, so he's a bit off the deep end, but how many people do you know who would actually chop off his own hand to save you? If that isn't a sign of true romance, what is? Actually, if you think about it long enough, you wonder what the bloody heck he did with the handcuff key in the first place. He could have saved himself the trouble, but it's the thought that counts, right?

What about the Phantom of the Opera? All he wants is to be loved by Christine, for crying out loud! Why can't she get beyond the scars? What defines true romance if it's not the desire and yearning found within all of us to love and be loved? And consider Quasimodo, from the Hunchback of Notre Dame. Yeah, he's appearance-challenged, but what a guy! How can you deny that poor man's sense of chivalry and loyalty? All he wanted was to be loved as well, and he risks his all to save Esmeralda. Again, what is true romance? True romance is indeed found in the eye of the beholder.

Women must always strive to realize that true romance is more than candlelight, roses and candy. We also realize that true romance is more than syrupy endearments and undying declarations of love, but again, there's some ancient thing inside of us that, for some silly reason, yearns to hear it anyway. Authors create wonderfully romantic characters; characters that many of us would like to call our own. Why in the world can't we train our guys to behave like that, anyway? Perhaps that's the reason for creating the romance genre. This way, we can finally have true romance in the man of our dreams.

You think?

Most of us are mature enough to understand that the men we date or are married to aren't nearly as 'romantic' as their fictional or movie counterparts. Don't ask why not, but that seems to be the way it is. They may not measure up to the physical standards portrayed in many books and films, but who really cares? Our men are real. They're flesh and blood and if we're really lucky, they stand by us through thick or thin and shopping sprees. On paper and film screens, we see our 'true romance fantasy guys' at their best.

What, after all, actually constitutes true romance?

Is it a candlelit dinner, or cuddling in front of a fire, or roller blading with your guy or just hanging out with each other? It should behoove us to remember that true romance comes wrapped in many different packages. It may come silently like a tender hug in the middle of the night, or warm bodies to lean against as you watch television. True romance may be a smile sent your way or a casual touch of the fingers. True romance doesn't have to sweep you off your feet, although that would be a nice sensation as long as you don't get hurt in the process.

About the Author

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The Importance of Romance

2011-08-23T21:14:00.000-07:00

by Joseph Taylor

Romance is important in any relationship. Everyone, regardless of what they say or do, responds to romance. The difficult part about romance is finding exactly what sort of romantic gesture your partner responds to favorably. There are some basic truths about romance that can help you to figure out what direction to take your romantic intentions.

When it comes to romance, it is important to remember that how you are romantic is really more important than why you are romantic. Both are important, but the action is what makes the most impact. You cannot reason or analyze love or the reasons behind a person's emotions, so it makes sense that romance follows suit.

Committing to romance can be a lengthy and strenuous process for some. If you find that you are someone who struggles with some of the concepts and ideas of romance, always take the time to remind yourself that no matter what you struggle with right now, the rewards far outweigh any difficulties in the end.

You can't expect the first attempt at romance or all subsequent attempts to be successful. You are human and error is definitely allowed. There are no true masters of romance in the real world. Everyone is unskilled at romance and just like anything else; it takes time and practice to learn the skills of the trade.

Romance is an excellent way to keep or reintroduce passion into any relationship. It is virtually impossible to keep that smitten feeling from when you first met for a lifetime; however it is possible to keep the passion alive for as long as you want it to be there with romance. Keeping passion in a relationship leads to a lifetime of happiness.

Remember that giving one hundred percent is the only way to have a good relationship with romance. If you believe that you and your partner must give fifty percent and meet halfway, there is still too much effort missing from both parties. Romance and relationships take all of a person's effort.

Recognize your partner as an individual and shed any stereotypical thoughts you may have. Understand that he or she is unique and that is what makes you passionate about them. Holes and ruts are often formed around preconceived notions and expectations. Eliminate any stereotypes or unrealistic expectations from your thought process and give your partner a clean slate.

Don't expect change to happen quickly when introducing or enhancing romance in any relationship. Change takes time and can be difficult for some people. Imagine that your relationship and romance can't move much more than a single mile or kilometer an hour. It is slow to move and slow to work. Also, enjoy the slow pace because change is an adjustment for many. If you feel uncomfortable with change, allow yourself a long time to get used to ideas and concepts before passing judgment.

Romance can make you happier. If you are happy, your partner is happy and a relationship can enjoy passion and excitement. Accept your love as a gift that is beyond explanation and that time is on your side when working on any aspect of a relationship. The heart is often wiser than the brain in relationships. Listen to both your heart and your partner and you can't go wrong.

About the Author

Joe Taylor is a respected writer and owner of Joe Taylors Relationship Advice Website. He runs and writes for his own newsletter and posts to his Relationships and Dating Tips Blog every week.

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Tips for creating great profile on online dating site

2011-08-23T12:24:00.000-07:00

By Linda Crowford

Dating undoubtedly is becoming rising trend especially among youngsters. Most of us are using online dating service for finding a true love, companion, flirting or just to hang around with someone you like. Online dating sites are keeping the huge database of members. If you would like to search profiles, you need to register yourself with it. After initial sign-up, you are required to create your own profile, which will be added in your chosen online dating site's database. In fact, profile creation is the integral part of registration process with almost all the leading online dating services.

Writing a profile is an art and it becomes too special if you gonna make it for online dating purpose. Profile needs to be very catchy, it must also reflect your personality in the first place. Profile should arouse temptation for other members to look at your profile and interest to contact you. That's why you are at online dating site, right?

"Blond gorgeous, blue-eyed, widely traveled, nature loving, God fearing, benevolent and fun loving independent entrepreneur for an advertising firm looking mate for the same." Perhaps these few lines could add spice to your profile.

Following few tips could help you making your profile more genuine and creative in leading online dating service:

1. Be positive

Since your profile reflects your personality, you must take precautions while creation. It must reflect positive side of your personality. Nobody likes negative shades in you. Hence, you need to be very positive.

2. Create excitement

Make profile exciting. Why someone should take interest in you if you do not sound exciting? This excitement can be created by presenting list of your interests and hobbies. Be specific and avoid making it too lengthy. Mention interests which you think would be exciting to opposite sex. Remember, simple and boring profiles are over-looked many times.

3. Be upbeat

Make sure you sound like dream person who would be fun to know. You should be the person everyone is waiting for.

4. Reveal facts

Mention the facts that matter most to you, so are for your dating partner. Hence, stick to facts and not hype. Be genuine in disclosing facts. Giving any false information could minimize your chances of getting good responses.

5. Honesty is the best policy

While filling up the columns for your personal habits and marital status be honest in disclosing about your height, body type, smoking and drinking habits, and marital status. You are also required to upload true photo of yourself.

6. Realistic approach

While dating online, keep in mind that you must find someone who is also looking for dating. Creating profiles for whom you think won't be responsive, is just waste of time.

7. Accessibility

Your profile should be accessible and open for others to approach. This will open the whole new world of contacts for you.

8. Upload photo

Profile with photos has 15 times more chances for getting responses quickly than those without ones. In fact, profiles with photos produce great search results in online dating site's databases. It is a fact that people prefer to read profiles having fascinating photos and contact them, hence do not lose the opportunity of finding mate just for being negligent in uploading your photo. Some online dating services provide options of uploading more than one photograph; therefore, you have better chances to upload your good photos in different poses. Make it well-focused, close-up shots and then no eyes could escape seeing your profile.

To know much more about online dating service, please do visit at <http://www.datingservices-online.net>

About the Author

Linda Crowford is an author for many successful articles and ebooks written on human relationship especially romance, dating, marriage and divorce. She is also associated with online dating service and dating services online. She gives helpful advices to her clients.

Romantic Date Ideas: 5 Big Mistakes That Could Put You in the Valentine's Day Penalty Box

2011-08-22T14:34:00.000-07:00

By Tracey E. Bennett

If you want romance, connection and closeness on this most romantic of days, listen up! Valentine's Day is the most important date day of the year. And that's not just Hallmark speaking. Your sweetie believes it, too. You want to score points and stay out of the penalty box. So play hard and fair, and stay away from the 5 big mistakes. They include 1) not planning until the last minute, 2) choosing a gift that sends the wrong message, 3) buying the wrong clothing size, and 4) blowing the chance for true intimacy.

Ready? Here we go:

1. Forgetting this special date day altogether. 

Have you been living in a barrel? Are you oblivious to all the hearts and red posters in store windows? Ohhh, forgetting this romantic day is gonna cost you. But that's another topic.

2. Not planning until the last minute. 

You can get restaurant reservations, but only at Taco Bell. The flower shop has been picked over. Valentine's cards look shoddy and bent. Take heart. All is not lost because you're cooking, buying artificial flower arrangements, and making cards. Then you have to pretend that you planned it all along. (I lied about the fake flowers. Don't buy those unless she loves 'em and you don't mind living with them.)

3. Choosing a gift that sends the wrong message. 

Giving her Tigress perfume and Victoria's Secret lingerie sends a message that you want her to be sexy or sexier. Or worse, that she's not sexy, period. If she's a soap-and-socks kind of gal, you're off base. But new socks and jammies in her favorite color might be a cherished Valentine's Day gift idea, showing that you're paying attention to her uniqueness.

On the other hand, if she likes perfume, there are inexpensive "message" brands that could make your point--for example, Goddess and Sensational. Perfume counters often have tester bottles. Buy the fragrance you like, spritz a piece of paper with the tester, and wrap them up together. If she sniffs the paper and doesn't like it, she doesn't have to open the package, and it's returnable. Then go shopping together for another scent. You've made your point, and she can get what she likes and educate you, too.

4. Buying clothing that's too big.

If you want to break up, get her a tarp from Omar the Tent Maker. If you're unsure about her size, go small. If you can afford it, buy 2 or 3 sizes of the same item. Gift wrap the smallest size, and stash the others in the closet.

5. Having ordinary conversation on an extraordinary day

A special day deserves special conversation starters. Make this romantic date all about getting to know her better than you already think you do. I promise you, no matter how long you've been together, there's unexplored territory. You can find hundreds of conversation questions in my e-book Do You Squeeze the Toothpaste in the Middle? Playful Questions for Dates & Mates. Here is a good conversation starter you can play with:

* Modesty aside, what are you good at? It could be anything--from changing

light bulbs in high places to making margaritas from scratch to tying knots.

Name at least 3 things you’re good at. And then I'll tell you 3 more.

Keep going, taking turns back and forth. Here's a hint: think about what she's good at in advance so you have a bucketful of praise to share. When she runs out of ideas, keep adding to the list. This free Valentine's Day gift idea could be the highlight of her date with you!

About the Author

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Inspirational Love Quotes You Cannot Miss

2011-08-22T13:23:00.000-07:00

by Sky Kim

Love is the hardest habit to break. So, we have to love. There is no escape.
Here are top 10 inspirational love quotes you must skip if you don't want to Love.

" Love is the hardest habit to break, and the most difficult to satisfy."

~ Drew Barrymore

" Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get - only with what you are expecting to give - which is everything."

~ Katharine Hepburn

" There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness."

~ Friedrich Nietzsche "

When you sit with a nice girl for two hours, you think it's only a minute. But when you sit on a hot stove for a minute, you think it's two hours. That's relativity."

~ Albert Einstein "

In love, the paradox occurs that two beings become one and yet remain two."

~ Erich Fromm

" Love one another, but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls."

~ Khalil Gibran

" Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own."

~ Robert A. Heinlein

" Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage."

~ Laozi

" In dreams and in love there are no impossibilities."

~ Janos Arany

"Be glad of life because it gives you the chance to love and to work and to play and to look up at the stars."

~ Henry Van Dyke

"Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable."

~ Bruce Lee

"I was born with an enormous need for affection, and a terrible need to give it."

~ Audrey Hepburn

"For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul."

~ Judy Garland

"The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved -- loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves."

~ Victor Hugo

"Love is life. And if you miss love, you miss life."

~ Leo Buscaglia

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Does Love Help You Live Longer - The Real Answer

2011-08-22T12:05:00.000-07:00

By Relationship Counselor

Does love help you live longer? What a great question! Statistics show that happily married couples live as much as five years longer than their single counterparts (with the effect being somewhat more pronounced in married men). Because it is so subjective, it is impossible to accurately measure love with statistics. However, with a cursory glance of the data, it seems reasonably safe to assume that love, does, in some way, lead people to spend a few more years among the living.

Everybody agrees that being loved is a wonderful feeling. Knowing that somebody cares for us is hard to explain in words, but it sure feels good! Heck, I wouldn't be surprised if you smiled a little bit just now thinking about the people that love you. And though true love towards someone doesn't require that they love you back, I bet you just so happen to return love to those who love you most.

Loving others means you are unselfish when dealing with them. Caring for someone else's happiness and well-being takes your focus off of you and puts other people first. This can be a marvelous way to reduce stress that would otherwise steal years from our lives.

Another quick answer to the question "does love help you live longer" is, "hate sure makes you die sooner". Hating others only increases other negative feelings and stress. Have you ever felt a certain something pumping through your body when you hate someone or something? Your whole physiology changes. Besides, it's wasted energy, because those that are the subject of our hatred either don't care how we feel, or have no idea how we feel.

One more aspect of love and longevity is that love often gives us a reason to keep on living. Men and women throughout the world have survived horrendous situations (man-made and natural) only because they focused on seeing their loved ones once again. If that's not a testament to the life-extending power of love, I don't know what is!

The connection between emotional health and physical health is still not completely understood. However, there are clear links between the two. The human body is, in many ways, greater than the sum of its parts. Another way to look at it is if we are in prime physical shape, but are emotional wrecks, then we are not getting all life has to offer.

Let's be realistic for a moment, shall we? Love may not keep you from getting hit by a bus when crossing the street, but it can make recovering from such an accident more bearable. Even if love can't be proven to help you live longer, I know I would rather have a few short years of loving someone, instead of having several lifetimes without any love at all.

There are two easy ways to use love to increase the quality of life. The first is to show love towards others. That not only includes family and friends, but everyone you deal with in some capacity. The second way can be a bit trickier for some: allow others to love you. Keep the following phrase in mind as you go about your day, and see what a difference it makes. The phrase? "Let love happen".

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3 Little Known First Date Ideas

2011-08-22T11:59:00.000-07:00

By Scott Patterson

Going on a first date with a woman can be a nerve wracking experience.

While you want to impress a girl, you also have to make sure you're not appearing to be too overeager.

The one mistake guys make is to bring a woman to a fancy restaurant and buy expensive gifts. Unfortunately this does nothing to build attraction. Instead it creates too much pressure and makes her feel uncomfortable.

So instead of blowing tons of money on your first date, you should focus on trying to think of first date ideas which are both memorable and fun. What you want to is to think of activities that'll allow you to establish an emotional and physical connection. If you both have a good time, then you can go on a second date that is more *standard*- like going to a restaurant.

In the next few paragraphs, I'll cover three first date ideas you can use which are both fun and exciting.

First date idea #1- Meet for drinks or coffee

While meeting for drinks or coffee is another *standard* date that many people use, it's still pretty effective. When you do this, you're able to meet a woman in a casual manner, without the pressure of facing each other from across a table.

What I like about meeting for drinks or coffee is you're within a distance to establish contact. This means you're able to flirt and emphasize different things during your conversation, which helps to build attraction.

First date idea #2- Play games

Another great place to bring a woman on a date is to a place where you can play games like a pool hall, miniature golf, the boardwalk or a video arcade.

What I love about playing games on a first date is you're able to avoid the pressures that often come with meeting up for the first time. You can have fun while being competitive and behaving in a playful manner.

First date idea #3- Get physical

Okay when I say *get physical*, I'm not talking about sex (yet). Instead I think a great first date idea is to bring her someplace where you're able to engage in an exercise activity.

Whether you're going for a hike, rollerblading or ice skating, engaging in a physical activity can be fun. It's also a good first date idea because taking her to these venues is a great way to gauge if your woman has an adventurous spirit.

All three of these first date ideas are a great way stand out from other guys. They can be fun without feeling the pressures of the *job interview* type dates.

Just remember to work on building attraction and work towards securing future dates. If you do your job right, you can easily set up another date and start working towards building intimacy.

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Dating On a Budget - Romantic Date Ideas That Are Fun and Cheap

2011-08-22T11:20:00.000-07:00

By Jason C Maxwell

My favorite place to take a date, especially a first date, is the local coffee house. I can usually get out of this entire event for less than ten bucks. The benefits to a place like this are endless. You have a chance to really talk to the person and get to know them. Coffee and tea has a way of bringing out a person's personality. Before you know it she will be telling you embarrassing stories from her childhood. If your conversation is going really well, offer to get the two of you a dessert to share. If she stays and shares it with you, you can be assured she likes you (or she just loves cake).

Do you remember as a kid how much fun it was to play certain board games? It can be fun for adults too. Break out the old monopoly or LIFE game and have fun. Be silly and not too competitive. Let her win if you have to. Remember when you didn't used to be so darn serious all the time, playing a game can bring back the old, fun you. Certain games will let you bring out your creative side and really show your date who you are. If you and your date like to drink, that can also add a fun element to the evening.

Go to the grocery store and by bread, meat, cheese, and sodas. Enjoying the sunshine and the companionship of your date at the park isn't expensive at all. The park is a great place to people watch and a great place to have a first kiss (if you haven't already had one). The park is a fun and inexpensive date that will let you really get to know a girl. If you really want to make it fun, consider taking a board game.

If you have ten one dollar bills you can have a great date. Even a guy on a tight budget can afford that. The objective of a date is to have a good time and to get to know the other person better. You really don't need to spend a lot of money to leave a good impression on a woman. The absolute worse way to get to know a girl is to try to impress her with money. You are way better off just being yourself and doing the things that you can both enjoy that won't break the bank!

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Top 5 Romantic Dating Ideas

2011-08-22T09:14:00.000-07:00

by Emily Heart

Taking your dating partner somewhere romantic is doesn't have to mean spending a fortune at an expensive restaurant. They say the best things in life are free and some of the most memorable outings can be the ones which don't cost a penny, while others may cost you a couple of tickets but the experience will be well worth the cost. Here are some of the best romantic dating ideas, from paddle boats to picnics.

1. Hire a paddle boat for two

Many public parks have the option to rent a paddle boat for a spin around the lake. This is a romantic dating option because the two of you will have to learn to work together to get the boat moving in the right direction, a lovely metaphor for a relationship - see? In addition the feeling of floating around together in a pretty environment ought to be one which allows you to open up - a great opportunity to find out all about each other.

2. Go for a picnic

If it's a sunny day, pack up a picnic and head to a pretty spot where you and your dating partner can enjoy some alfresco dining. For added romance factor, think about foods which you could feed to each other, like strawberries. Eating outdoors is a highly pleasurable and tactile experience, which will bring out the best in you in terms of both conversation and romanticism. A pack of cards or a board game can add some light competitiveness to the atmosphere.

3. Go to the opera

This might sound a little old fashioned, but the formal setting of an opera or classical concert can be an excellent situation for a romantic dating experience. Getting all dressed up is part of getting into the swing of the occasion, and this will give you both the feeling that something special is about to happen. Opera itself can be very moving, ratcheting up the romance factor that extra notch!

4. Head out on a bike ride

Bike rides can be very romantic - choose a pretty area and spend a while cycling at a leisurely pace while having a friendly chat. Aim for an attractive viewpoint for a mid-cycle pause, where you can and your dating partner can get your bearings. Finally, ending you ride at a good pub or cafe is a nice way to refresh after expending all that energy. Ideally, you'll want a flat bike trail so that you and your dating partner can focus more on the scenery than on struggling to get up that hill!

5. Ice skating

In winter, ice skating outdoors is a wonderfully romantic way to get to know the person you are dating while gracefully (or not) gliding across the ice and gazing intermittently at the stars. For the rest of the year, indoor ice rinks can be just as romantic. Layering up is a wise move for any ice skating, so you can take off layers as your body starts to warm up from the exercise.

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10 Dating Tips to Reigniting Your Romance

2011-08-22T08:03:00.000-07:00

By Jason Roberts

Romance can stagnate. There are those that think that because you are in love you shouldn't have to work at love. That's not at all true. You must keep love alive by being kind to each other, being honest with each other, compromising, trying something new and adventurous and just being romantic. Here are ten fast ways to reignite a romance that has grown somewhat stale.

Part of the reason a romance stagnates is because you know each other too well, you've become too predictable to each other. Predicable translates into boring.

Perhaps the most common complaint women express about their husbands and long term partners is that they're never spontaneous.

"I wasn't going to turn around and come back when I remembered it was your birthday. I would have wasted my plane ticket."

Can you imagine, however, if you showed up at the door with a dozen roses and a bottle of shampoo when you were supposed to be at the other end of the state in a business meeting?

What wonderful spontaneity and what a wonderful reaction you'd get to "I couldn't go without celebrating your birthday with you." What love and romance that would convey.

So, yes, spontaneity is the first of the 10 fast ways to reignite romance.

The second way to reignite your stagnating romance is to talk to each other, to listen to each other, and to do things together that make you laugh. Don't hide your feelings - open up and trust each other.

Love notes reignite romance as well. Make a path of love notes - perhaps a poem of sticky notes - down the hall and into the bedroom - that says how much you love her.

The fourth of the 10 fast ways to reignite romance is to compliment your partner. Say nice things about her or him to others within hearing of your partner.

Don't paw her or him when others around but be affectionate. It's sweet to see elderly couples holding hands walking down the street.

Be responsive to their needs. Offer to be the one to run to the store when they're the one that wants the ice cream. Or better yet, take her or him to the Dairy Queen for a sundae.

Show your partner respect. Don't belittle them or their opinions and ideas just because they don't agree with yours.

Reignite romance by doing something special, some little thing you know they would like to do. Give up your night in front of the game for a walk by the lake.

Number eight of the ten fast ways to reignite romance is to not react with anger when your partner says something particularly nasty in the heat of an argument.

Wait until things cool off and then calmly and rationally explain why it angered and hurt you. You're probably going to get an apology as well as some insight into some of your annoying habits as well.

Another way to reignite romance is to take responsibility for yourself. Your partner is not responsible for your health or your happiness. Quit the cigarettes, get out and exercise and find creative and recreational outlets with other than your partner once in a while so she or he can feel free to do the same.

The last of the 10 fast ways to reignite romance is to let yourself feel free to communicate without evasion or deception, or holding back. Trust your partner and show her or him that you do. That will reignite romance.

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Dating Advice for Men - 9 Killer Dating Tips for Guys

2011-08-22T07:53:00.000-07:00

By Jay Sullivan

For those guys who are a bit clueless when it comes to dating, attracting and approaching women, here's some simple dating advice for men to help you out.

Stop worrying about what you think women may like. Every man has potential. Focus on what you like in the mirror, not what could use improvement. Your confidence will appeal to all women.

Put your best foot forward! Shower, shave and make an effort to show women that you care about yourself. Update your look. Find a men's magazine and see what styles are in fashion. Or pay attention to what guys are wearing round town.

Some more great dating advice for men is to look for love in every place, not just traditional singles spots. The woman of your dreams might be on the treadmill next to yours, or squeezing a melon in the same grocery aisle as you!

Practice being playful with your friends and co-workers. You don't have to be born with a sense of humour, you can build one! Use flirting as a way to show a woman that you have a sense of humour. Flirt with every woman you come across, because your methods will improve as you see women's reactions to your techniques.

Rescuing a woman is the surest way to win her heart. Whether it's from another man or an embarrassing situation, find a way to save the day and you'll find yourself in her good books. That's a great piece of dating advice for men.

Try planning a date that's not too intimidating for a single woman, especially if you don't know her very well. Also plan your date before you ask a girl out. That way, you'll have all the answers, not to mention the upper hand.

Watch your choice of conversations. If something is brought up that makes you or your date uncomfortable, just laugh it off and change the subject.

Here's another bit of dating advice for men: Never stare at a woman's breasts, no matter how bad you want to!

When you first kiss a woman on a date, never ask for it, let her want it! There's nothing worse than asking a woman: "Can I have a kiss?" Try not to use all your mouth muscle in the kiss too, women like long, gentle, lingering kisses!

So there you go, there's some simple dating advice for men to help you attract, approach and date women. Good luck in your seduction game!

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Senior Dating Advice - May Lead To True Love

2011-08-21T21:37:00.000-07:00

by Robert Carleton

Do you need a little senior dating advice before you search for your next possible love connection? The dating process creates anxiety for both the young and the old, but for those that have been out of the dating arena for many years or even decades; this process can seem even more frightening. Relationships between men and woman are hard to understand even when you are in a good and stable situation.

However, the thought of having to search for a new person to form a relationship with baffles the average person. Just think about that elderly person that hasn't dated in years. He has a lot of dating information to study and learn in order to apply it to his new relationships. What would you tell a person in this situation?

Ask Your Friends for Possible Mates

Don't shy away from this option. Maybe in your younger years you did not need any senior dating advice or want your friends to plan blind dates for you, however, you may be surprised to learn about other elderly people that are in your same predicament. Your friends may know others that have divorced, become widowed or are unmarried. Things change and so do the status of relationships over the years. Who knows? Maybe your friend knows of an old girlfriend that has also suddenly become available.

Join Senior Groups

Senior groups such as church groups, hobby groups or community groups provide plenty of options for meeting other single seniors that are also looking for companionship. There are always senior bus charters groups that are formed due to different hobbies that seniors have. Try a bus charter that is going to the state flea market.

Go site seeing on the next bus tour that your local community group forms. These charters and tours are great meeting places for senior citizens. Form friendships and get senior dating advice from other seniors that are also looking for places to find love interests. Your new senior citizen friends may have contacts or ideas that you may not have thought about. Brainstorm and find ways to meet other seniors that are looking for fun.

Join Senior Internet Dating Sites

Join a dating site and find new friends. This is great senior dating advice for someone who is looking to get back into the dating scene at their own pace. Once you join, you are free to browse the site and find the type of friends that you are looking for. Unlike a blind date, you don't have to feel pressured into meeting a person that you don't know.

You use the computer as a virtual tool to meet people online. You aren't physically meeting anyone, but you have the capability to rule out anyone that you know that you don't ever want to meet in person. This is a great way to build your confidence before you start meeting people face to face. All in all, the best senior dating advice is to get back out there and just enjoy life.

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Dating Advice Now Offered by the Single Parent Dating Guide

2011-08-21T20:31:00.000-07:00

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Down To Earth Dating Advice For Women - Keep The Spark Alive

2011-08-21T19:09:00.000-07:00

Dating advice for women can be complicated sometimes. There are so many different things to remember while you're on a date. In this article you will find a few advice tips for you to work on while you're on a date. Always remember though, it is only a guideline and it's you on the date, not the person writing the article.

A woman should always be their self on a date. If you pretend to be something you aren't, you may end up ruining your chances. You will make things difficult for yourself. By pretending to be someone else you are lying to yourself and to the guy you're on a date with. Trying to please someone by being something you aren't proves that the guy is maybe not the right one for you in any case and you may end up angering him by lying.

Women sometimes find it hard to accept a compliment given by a man. Most of the time we find they may be lying to us. Most men will give you an honest compliment on your first date. The best is to accept it and thank him for it. This will show that you're self-assured and do not lack confidence. You need to accept that you may really be as beautiful as the man is saying you are. You should never try explaining the compliment away. Never ignore it and do not try to change the subject when he has given you one to try and take the spot light off you.

When you're on a date, you should not discuss your previous relationship. Discussing previous relationships may give the impression you still have feelings for your previous boyfriend. This discussion may send a prospective boyfriend in the opposite direction. The gentleman may decide that he does not want to wait until half way through your relationship for you to decide that you would like to try restarting your previous relationship and that you made a mistake by ending it.

Being positive is always right. Positivity on a date makes it pleasant. It will keep him from running away from your constant nagging or complaining. Complaining and nagging may portray you as an unhappy person and no one really enjoys a person who always complains.

The age old saying of making a man wait for you to arrive for your date is really a myth. Men will quickly become irritated if you are continually late for a date. If something comes up and you are genuinely going to be late for your meeting with him, phone ahead and explain the situation and give him a time frame of how much longer you are going to be. Tardiness is not something that will build anticipation; it only shows that you don't really care about being on time.

Honesty on a date is always important. If you feel you disagree in opinion you should let him know. Don't start an argument but inform in a polite manner you have a different feel about a subject. By doing so, you may prolong your conversation by comparing views. People may have different views on a subject; it only proves you're not boring by agreeing with him on everything.

The day after your date should not be a day for you to call. You should wait a few days and see if he calls you. If he is interested in you, he will make the time to phone you. If you don't receive a call, give him a call and keep the conversation light. If he is not interested in you it won't help by constantly calling him to see when your next date is. You will sound rather desperate.

The only real person who can help you on a date is yourself.

Dating Advice for Girls will help but always remember to be yourself and keep yourself calm.

Be friendly and don't make you look desperate or not interested.

Always try to find the balance between the two.

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3 Ways Men Show Their Love through Actions

2011-08-21T09:51:00.000-07:00

A man who really loves you will tell you that he loves it and he will also show it. A man who says that he loves you but whose actions do not love you is probably stringing you along. But how can you know that a man loves you with his actions. What are the ways that men show their love through actions?

I. He loves you with his time.

Men show love by the way they use their time. A man who loves you will make the effort to spend time with you and it will be premium time and not left-over time.

a. Left-over time is time when he has nothing else to do after he has done all the things that are important to him. Left-over time is thus time when he is looking to get a need met after he has spent himself with everything and everyone that he has prioritized above you. He will meet with you only when it is convenient for him and thus he will only call when he is bored or when he has nothing better to do. He will be unavailable to you when you need him since you are low on his priorities. He will be available to you only at his discretion and you just cannot predict his availability to you. If you are in love with him then you will often have to change your schedule around when he is available as he will not be available when you need him or when he tells you as other things more important than you will pop up and that's what he will focus on. Does your man only spend time with you when he has nothing better to do? Are you low on his time priority so that you get him only after everything and everybody else? Then he does not love you; he may like you or like some aspects of you but he does not love you!

b. Premium time is time when he is not exhausted from other activities and it is time where he gives up other things or people for you. He has prioritized you in his life and so you can rely on him. He is available when he promises and he calls when he says he will call. You can tell that he has given up other things and people to spend time with you. If he gives you premium time then he loves you.

II. He loves you with his strength.

Men show love using their strength and what they do with their strength and energy. In today's society most men spend their strength and energy earning money. Does he spend significant amounts of his money on you and your relationship? If he does then he loves you. Remember the saying 'where a man's heart is where his treasure lies'? It simply means that a man will invest his money on what his heart loves and treasures. If he is not spending his money on you then he is either unsure of your role in his life or he simply doesn't treasure you.

III. He loves you with his mind.

A man who loves you will love you intelligently. He will think through what you say to him and he will use his creativity to show you that he loves you. He will do thoughtful things for you and he will love you creatively. He will put thought into the things he does for you and in what he says to you. What he does for you or say may sometimes be inappropriate but that may be a result of his socialization and not his lack of love for you. Try and understand whether he loves you with his mind but is limited by his socialization so that you don't misunderstand him.

Men show their love through all that they are and have. Does he love you in the 3 key ways? If he does then rest easy as he really loves you. He may not love you well in all three areas but if you notice that he is making an effort then find a way to gently guide him in the right direction so that you both reap the maximum benefits from each other.

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How to Get a Girl to Love You - In 5 Easy Steps...Too Easy!

2011-08-21T09:47:00.000-07:00

If you're trying to find out how to get a girl to love you then you must have read a lot of rubbish online.

There are secret scents and hypnosis techniques that all claim to be the magic formula but when it comes down to it, falling in love is a process that cannot be faked but can be MIRRORED.

When I say mirrored I mean than if you learn the common things that make a girl fall in love you can follow that process and have a much better chance of achieving your goal.

With that in mind I want to pull back the curtain and let you in on the process so you can start to use it right away.

1. Girls want to fall in love - dude, you need to open your eyes. There are millions of girls out there who want to fall in love and want to be loved back. The problem that most guys have is that they focus on just one woman and never think about any other girls.

Don't get hung up on just one chick, meet lots of women and you will have a much better chance of finding one who loves you.

2. Don't be impatient - follow the simple pick up process and meet women every day. If you do this for just a month you will get with more girls than ever and if you're not expecting to get married to every girl you meet you will be surprised when something cool happens.

* Try to stop being so needy and intense.

* Don't expect anything from the girl.

4. Be a nice guy - this is an obvious one but the more you are nice to a girl the more she will get to love you.

* Hand-make her a card on her birthday.

* Get tickets to her favorite show.

* Make sure you do something nice for her every day.

5. Space space space - if she wants to go out with her friends be cool about it. Love grows not when people are chained together but when they come together like magnets.

Don't play hard to get or ignore her, but just let her do her own thing and she will love you for it.

Final thoughts.

If you follow all the steps in this article you will have a much better chance of working out how to get a girl to love you. Once you meet the perfect woman make sure you continue to show her you appreciate her every day and her love will grow over time.

About the Author

By Chris Love

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What is Real Love?

2011-08-21T07:46:00.000-07:00

What is Real Love?
By Maria

Real Love: The Love We've All Been Looking For -- Unconditional Love

We've heard songs about it, seen it in the movies, heard it talked about on Oprah by relationship experts, and read about it in thousands of self help books. But, what is unconditional love? We all want to feel loved. We think about it, hope for it, fantasize about it, go to great lengths to achieve it, and feel that our lives are incomplete without it. The lack of unconditional love is the cause of most of our anger and confusion. It is no exaggeration to say that our emotional need for unconditional love is just as great as our physical need for air and food.

It is especially unfortunate, then, that most of us have no idea what unconditional love really is, and we prove our ignorance with our horrifying divorce rate, the incidence of alcohol and drug addiction in our country, the violence in our schools, and our overflowing jails.

Our misconceptions of unconditional love began in early childhood, where we saw that when we did all the right things--when we were clean, quiet, obedient and otherwise "good"--people "loved" us. They smiled at us and spoke in gentle tones. But we also saw that when we were "bad," all those signs of "love" instantly vanished. In short, we were taught by consistent experience that love was conditional, that we had to buy "love" from the people around us with our words and behavior.

So what's wrong with conditional love? We see it everywhere we look, so what could be wrong with it? Imagine that every time you pay me fifty dollars, I tell you I love you. We could do that all day, but at the end of the day would you feel loved? No, because you'd know that I "loved" you only because you paid me. We simply can't feel fulfilled by love we pay for. We can feel loved only when it is freely, unconditionally given to us. The instant we do anything at all to win the approval or respect of other people--with what we say, what we do, how we look--we are paying for the attention and affection we receive, and we can't feel genuinely loved.

A New Definition of Love: Real Love

There's only one kind of love that can fill us up, make us whole, and give us the happiness we all want: unconditional love or true love. It is unconditional love that we all seek, and somehow we intuitively realize that anything other than that kind of love isn't really love at all--it's an imitation of the real thing.

Unconditional love--true love--is so different from the kind of love most of us have known all our lives that it deserves both a name--Real Love--and definition of its own: Real Love is caring about the happiness of another person without any thought for what we might get for ourselves. It's also Real Love when other people care about our happiness unconditionally. It is not Real Love when other people like us for doing what they want.

Under those conditions we're just paying for love again. We can be certain that we're receiving Real Love only when we make foolish mistakes, when we fail to do what other people want, and even when we get in their way, but they don't feel disappointed or irritated at us. That is Real Love (true unconditional love), and that love alone has the power to heal all wounds, bind people together, and create relationships quite beyond our present capacity to imagine.

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Which Is The Best Online Dating Site For Me

2011-08-21T07:21:00.000-07:00

Which Is The Best Online Dating Site For Me?
By Samantha Sanders

Deciding to give online dating a try is a gamble in itself. But choosing the right online dating site for you doesn't have to be. There are a lot of online dating sites out there, but picking the right one doesn't have to be an overwhelming task.

By taking an honest look at yourself, you'll arm yourself with all the knowledge you need to find the ideal online dating site. Are you willing to pay a set monthly fee for a site, or are you looking for a free site? Do you want to access a site that's moderated, or one that has a more open membership policy?

Do you need a professionally moderated site, or are you OK with one that admits most everyone? The answers to these questions will help you determine the best dating site for you.

You'll have to first decide whether you're interested in a free online dating site or one that requires a membership fee. Each option has its advantages and disadvantages.

You might also go with a free site if you'd like to post profiles at more than one site at a time.

With free sites, you can send your profile to several different online dating services without hurting your bank account. Keep in mind, though, that free sites are often home to a lot of spam. You may have to move past several ads for mail-order brides or adult services before finding any actual dating profiles.

Make sure any online dating site that you join includes a telephone number - not just an e-mail address - that you can use to speak to a live staff person.

These niche sites may only feature profiles of potential dates with college degrees, for example. You'll have to decide whether the extra cost of these sites is worth the higher potential of finding a good match.

You'll also want to make sure that you can quickly contact the staff members running an online dating site. Support personnel can help you with questions about your online dating profile, deal with an abusive member or erase incorrect charges to your credit card.

Pay sites do a better job of eliminating both spam and inappropriate profiles. That's because they usually have paid staffers who moderate the site. On the downside, may pay sites are extremely costly. Your budget may not be able to afford them. With some research, though, you'll probably be able to find a pay site that fits within your monthly budget.

One key, though, is to only work with pay online dating sites that give potential members the opportunity to try their services free of charge for a limited period. Reputable online dating sites provide free trials. If the site you are considering doesn't, you should keep searching.

You might also like to explore the more specific niche online dating sites. The majority of online dating sites feature profiles of members of all age levels, economic backgrounds and education status.

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Webcam chat and its significance in the world of online dating and chat rooms

2011-08-20T12:36:00.000-07:00

Webcam chat and its significance in the world of online dating and chat rooms

By Matt Dating

The wide world web has been available to our homes and businesses since 1995. Prior to this, communication via computers was mostly limited to within a particular address. For example between several people working with the same building but in different offices.

Whilst the www has only been widely available for as little as just over 10 years, can you imagine what life would be like without the internet? How did we ever make do before this very convenient tool came into our lives?

Chat rooms provide the ability to chat in real time to anyone, anywhere and at any time. For those that have not had a lot to do with chat room technology, chat room technology began with (what’s commonly known as and still used) forums, blogs or bulletin boards. This allows people to post comments, questions and replies that can be viewed via the web. The conversation takes place via messages posted but cannot be responded to in real time. It’s just like writing someone a letter and waiting for a response via the post.

Forums are still very common for like-minded groups of people who comment on each other’s opinions. Forums are very handy for individuals wishing to gain knowledge that are inexperienced in a certain topic or skill. For example, many software companies will host a forum for their customers rather than set up a help desk. This way all their customers can bounce ideas and questions off each other. It saves the software company the hassle of having to support their customers.

Chat rooms are now by far more popular and more convenient for busy singles or business people. Online dating sites and adult dating sites often host chat rooms. There are many different types of functionality available regarding chat rooms. There are general chat rooms where by multiple people can chat to each other in full view of the other chatters. There are private chat rooms where by chatters can chat privately. For a more personal chat experience there are many online dating sites that offer their members webcam chat rooms so they can see exactly what they are getting themselves into.

Webcam chat is a visual chat facility and leaves nothing to the imagination. If you plan to utilize a singles chat room a handy tip would be to search the net for free chat rooms and free adult chat rooms.

The online dating industry offers singles many free dating sites and as chat rooms are often part of their features so you will have access to free chat rooms.

Chat rooms are a popular and convenient tool for business people giving them the choice to host meetings, job interviews or overseas conferences from within their office.

All this fascinating technology has come about in as little as around 15 years, chat room technology is again entering a new phase with the integration of mobile phones. Watch this space!

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