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Online Dating Etiquette

Mon 1 Dec 2008 05:00:00 GMT

Are you a single thinking about online dating? Here are some guidelines for online dating etiquette:

Post a current, accurate photo of yourself. You may wish to post one you think is more attractive, but honesty is the best policy when looking for companionship.
Reply to messages in a timely manner
Do not lead other singles on. If you are not planning to continue the conversation, be honest and up front. Do so tactfully by saying something like, "I really enjoyed meeting you and I hope you find your ideal match."
Remember that if someone is not interested in a relationship with you, you are not being rejected. You are just not the correct match for that person. There will be others. That's the great thing about online dating! You can meet many, many people in a short period of time!

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Formal Dining Etiquette

Sun 30 Nov 2008 05:00:00 GMT

If you've been dating someone for a while, the time may come when you meet the parents in a formal dining setting. Don't embarrass yourself (or your date) by having poor manners at the dinner table. Follow these tips to impress the 'rents:

Wait until your host or hostess begins the dinner in case there is a prayer
The napkin goes on your lap, not stuffed in your shirt
Use outermost utensils first, changing for each course. When in doubt, watch others and follow
For smaller parties, wait until everyone is served to take a bite. For larger events, you may begin once a few others are served
Sit up straight without leaning forward or back. Do not lean on the table with your elbows
For soup, scoop the spoon away from yourself
Items passed should be placed near the person requesting them -- no hand-to-hand passing

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Tips for Party Behavior Befitting a Princess

Sat 29 Nov 2008 05:00:00 GMT

Which of the Royals has the best party etiquette? Hats off to Princess Beatrice! Usually, it's Prince William or Harry making the news at the famous Boujis nightclub in South Kensington, but this time the royal cousin stole the show with her dignified and composed behavior. If you want to have royal manners at your next party, follow these tips:

Show up on time. Being too early is rude to your busy host
Bring a simple offering. Don't overwhelm the host with too much food/drink
Make a dignified entrance with a quiet word to the host
Make polite conversation. Try to discuss topics of mutual interest. Be a good listener and do not dominate conversations
Leave at the designated time (if stated on an invitation). For a dinner party, leave 45 minutes after dessert
Let your host know that you had a wonderful time
A written thank-you is always a nice touch

Remember, behaving properly at a party could always catch the eye of a certain guy or girl from across the room

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Help! My Blind Date is a Dud!

Fri 28 Nov 2008 05:00:00 GMT

If you find yourself on a blind date gone bad, there are a few strategies you can use to diffuse the situation, while still remaining polite. Prepare some conversation topics in advance in the event you don't hit it off romantically. When dinner is over, thank your date and offer a handshake (this is a clear signal that there will be no kissing!). The next day, thank the person who fixed you up. Keep in mind that you were fixed up with good intentions and though it did not work out, you should be gracious. If they want to know how the date went (and they probably will), you shouldn't lie. However, say something positive about the date and choose your words carefully when explaining why it didn't work out. If you want to try another blind date, tell your friends and family what type of person you are looking for. You never know, the next date could be right on target!

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Who Pays for the Date?

Thu 27 Nov 2008 05:00:00 GMT

With so many dating rules out there, it's confusing to know who should pay on a date. The general rule: if you ask, you pay. If you would like to be helpful and help pay for the date, offer but don't insist. You can also suggest paying for the next date. If he pays for dinner, you can pay for the movie. If he insists on doing both, offer to buy the popcorn. If your date wants to pay for everything, accept graciously. Remember, rules are made to be broken, so do what feels right to you and your date.

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