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The First Date and Spilling Your Guts

Mon 6 Jul 2009 05:00:00 GMT

If you want to get past the first, second or third date and know whether another single is compatible with you, make sure you communicate to know what each other is thinking. It's important to talk about sex, STDs and the possibility of love -- all scary subjects! Ignore the relationship myths that tell you not to spill your guts. Yes a little mystery is good. Of course, you don't want to scare or offend someone you're interested in, but you will never get anywhere without having the courage to express yourself. Think of it this way: Wouldn't you rather know sooner than later if that special someone is seeing other people, hates pets or is not interested in a long-term commitment? Sure it may upset you now, but talking openly will save you trouble down the road.

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Don't Believe the Bad Things You Hear About Women!

Sun 5 Jul 2009 05:00:00 GMT

There are plenty of stubborn myths out there about women, so instead of perpetuating them, let's bust a few of the common ones.

Women want to control men
Women are never satisfied
Women are high maintenance
Women are jealous
Women are possessive
Women are overly emotional
Strong and competent women don't need nurturing
Women want to keep men from having fun

Believing these stereotypes is counterproductive. Strive to be the best person you can be when dating ... and in life.

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More Sex Myths

Sat 4 Jul 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Let’s bust a move (or a sex myth at least).

If there's no spark at first, there never will be. Don't forget that Beauty fell in love with the Beast before he turned into a handsome prince

Great sex equals perpetual bliss. Just because you created sparks physically does not mean you’re both compatible in every way

You can't talk about former lovers to you partner. Don't get dramatic when your partner talks about the past! You are the receiver of your lover's affection now (and that’s all that matters)

Sex equals intercourse. If you are feeling sexual, but don't want to go all the way, consider heavy petting. Petting and outercourse (anything that feels good without penetration) can offer pleasure and opportunity for you to get to know your lover's desires

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More Marriage Myths Exposed

Fri 3 Jul 2009 05:00:00 GMT

With all the marriages out there, a few myths were bound to be created. According to the National Marriage Project at Rutgers University, there are plenty of untruths to expose. Here are two that tend to come up often.

Marriage doesn't last like it did with our grandparents. Divorce was less common in the old days because of the stigma that was attached. Don't stay with someone if you're not compatible. By doing so, you lessen your chances of finding someone who is right for you, which increases the odds of staying married

Married people have boring sex lives. Yes, some people have boring sex lives, but they would no matter who they are having it with. A healthy and exciting sex life takes work

Even if you're not married yet, try not to believe the stereotypes you hear. Have an open mind when you date and hopefully this will lead to a happy marriage one day!

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Sex Myths Exposed!

Thu 2 Jul 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Sex is always in the picture when you’re dating, but it does not equal the same thing for each person. It's important to pay attention to myths about sex and intimacy so you don't fall for them. Here are some common ones:

Men are ready to do it sooner. Not always, because every relationship is different. However, if it's true in your relationship, it does not mean a woman should do it if she isn't ready. If you do have sex before you are ready, it's alright to step back and go slower
Relationship articles are always right -- men are from Mars and women are from Venus. Don't generalize -- men don't always want to be on top and sometimes women like to be the aggressors
Sex is always good for you. Did you see “9 1/2 Weeks”? Sure, the sex was great, but the relationship wasn't. If one of you is using sex as a way to avoid other forms of intimacy, it may be sign of a larger issue
Both partners should initiate sex. Wrong! Don't assume that lack of initiation means lack of interest. If you would like your partner to be more active in the role of initiator, speak up! If you have a shy mate, try role-playing to lighten things up

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