<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/" xmlns:blogger="http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008" xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0" version="2.0"><channel><atom:id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983</atom:id><lastBuildDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2025 01:51:04 +0000</lastBuildDate><category>bread</category><category>if I were</category><category>g-chat</category><category>learning world</category><title>day of the quote</title><description>overheard and experienced in the pacific northwest</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/</link><managingEditor>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</managingEditor><generator>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>600</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-6317216176376695860</guid><pubDate>Wed, 25 Aug 2010 10:29:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-08-25T03:31:30.126-07:00</atom:updated><title>&quot;Postcards are my favorite form of commuication&quot; - Molly</title><description>For details on Greta&#39;s adventures in the Netherlands this summer, please see a new blog, &lt;a href=&quot;http://speakingindutch.blogspot.com/&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;text-decoration: underline;&quot;&gt;Speaking in Dutch*.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/08/postcards-are-my-favorite-form-of.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-6549530664285528680</guid><pubDate>Sun, 06 Jun 2010 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-06-06T07:00:02.183-07:00</atom:updated><title>okay, for real this time</title><description>I tried to do this last December. But like any addict, sometimes it takes an intervention to change behavior.  Someone wise observed last week that most of my life is currently centered around processing information for other people and perhaps not for myself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And I&#39;ve been thinking about how it&#39;s been hard this year to be present with the people I care most about. And also how I often use this blog as a way to update those people without actually having to be present with them. Which is pretty much cheating - it gives the illusion I am communicating with people I love, but this is a delusion. And really, what I want to be doing with people I care about is hanging out with them. Not to go all &lt;a href=&quot;http://home.btconnect.com/tipiglen/berrynot.html&quot;&gt;Wendell Berry&lt;/a&gt; on you. But the man is wise.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So about an hour after that observation was shared, I decided to stop this blog for the next three months. It&#39;s easier to give up something for three months than for forever, all at once. And on August 20th I am embarking on a cool trip and will most likely upload some fun pictures.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are friends with me, you should do the following:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1) Call me up and invite me to dinner. I&#39;ll bring the salad. Or dessert. Or whatever. There&#39;s not enough potlucks in the world, and I miss you. Lots. So call.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2) See number 1.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3) Write a letter. If not to me, then to someone else you like. There&#39;s not enough letter writing going on either.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are not friends with me, then you should do the following:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1) Email me and invite me to dinner. Um, except unless I actually know you, we&#39;re gonna have to meet in a public place. Like a restaurant.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2) See number 3 above.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Love you, peeps.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;XOXO,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gretzky</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/06/okay-for-real-this-time.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-2877959005375843308</guid><pubDate>Sun, 06 Jun 2010 13:55:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-06-06T06:55:00.916-07:00</atom:updated><title>sunny spring spinach salad</title><description>when it&#39;s sunny out i like making salad combinations out of what&#39;s in the fridge. also when it&#39;s not sunny out.  this weather is making me crazy. The combo below is p.d. good. Let&#39;s be honest, I don&#39;t know if you can call it salad with the eggs and bacon additions, but if you use a ton of spinach, we&#39;ll roll with the salad label.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1) Boil 3 eggs. As in hardboil.&lt;br /&gt;2) Cook maybe 7 slices of bacon in a pan over med heat til crispish. Put on paper towels to drain.&lt;br /&gt;3) Drain pan except for about 3 Tbs.  Add 2 Tbs. olive oil.&lt;br /&gt;4) Put pan back on stove over med.&lt;br /&gt;4) Add 1/2 chopped fine red onion, 2 cloves minced garlic, 1 tsp. sugar, salt, pepper. Cook til onion&#39;s soft, about 3-5 minutes. Take off heat, add 6 Tbs of cider vinegar. Or balsamic vinegar. Or white vinegar. Whatever you&#39;ve got is fine.&lt;br /&gt;5) Get a whole ton bunch of spinach and dump on plate. Pour some of the dressing over it while still hot. THIS IS THE BEST PART. It cooks the spinach just a little bit.&lt;br /&gt;6) Add a couple slices of the eggs, and a wee bit of bacon, crumbled.&lt;br /&gt;7) YUM. Serves 4-ish, depending on how hungry everyone is.</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/06/sunny-spring-spinach-salad.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-7707119305724163614</guid><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jun 2010 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-06-05T07:00:03.704-07:00</atom:updated><title>the art of losing / isn&#39;t hard to master - elizabeth bishop</title><description>This school year flew by so fast I didn&#39;t realize I was leaving some things and people behind without thinking about it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One Art&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Elizabeth Bishop&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;pre&gt;The art of losing isn&#39;t hard to master;&lt;br /&gt;so many things seem filled with the intent&lt;br /&gt;to be lost that their loss is no disaster.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lose something every day. Accept the fluster&lt;br /&gt;of lost door keys, the hour badly spent.&lt;br /&gt;The art of losing isn&#39;t hard to master.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then practice losing farther, losing faster:&lt;br /&gt;places, and names, and where it was you meant&lt;br /&gt;to travel. None of these will bring disaster.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I lost my mother&#39;s watch. And look! my last, or&lt;br /&gt;next-to-last, of three loved houses went.&lt;br /&gt;The art of losing isn&#39;t hard to master.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I lost two cities, lovely ones. And, vaster,&lt;br /&gt;some realms I owned, two rivers, a continent.&lt;br /&gt;I miss them, but it wasn&#39;t a disaster.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;--Even losing you (the joking voice, a gesture&lt;br /&gt;I love) I shan&#39;t have lied.  It&#39;s evident&lt;br /&gt;the art of losing&#39;s not too hard to master&lt;br /&gt;though it may look like (&lt;i&gt;Write&lt;/i&gt; it!) like disaster.&lt;/pre&gt;</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/06/art-of-losing-isnt-hard-to-master.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-2114292143106626956</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Jun 2010 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-06-04T07:00:08.299-07:00</atom:updated><title>&quot;You&#39;ve come to assume / protective color&quot;</title><description>&lt;pre&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;font-size:100%;&quot; &gt;for K8 on the road to Wenatchee: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;How to See Deer &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;by &lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philip_Booth&quot;&gt;Philip Booth&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Forget roadside crossings.&lt;br /&gt;Go nowhere with guns.&lt;br /&gt;Go elsewhere your own way,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;lonely and wanting. Or&lt;br /&gt;stay and be early:&lt;br /&gt;next to deep woods&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;inhabit old orchards.&lt;br /&gt;All clearings promise.&lt;br /&gt;Sunrise is good,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and fog before sun.&lt;br /&gt;Expect nothing always;&lt;br /&gt;find your luck slowly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wait out the windfall.&lt;br /&gt;Take your good time&lt;br /&gt;to learn to read ferns;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;make like a turtle:&lt;br /&gt;downhill toward slow water.&lt;br /&gt;Instructed by heron,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;drink the pure silence.&lt;br /&gt;Be compassed by wind.&lt;br /&gt;If you quiver like aspen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;trust your quick nature:&lt;br /&gt;let your ear teach you&lt;br /&gt;which way to listen.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You&#39;ve come to assume&lt;br /&gt;protective color; now&lt;br /&gt;colors reform to&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;new shapes in your eye.&lt;br /&gt;You&#39;ve learned by now&lt;br /&gt;to wait without waiting;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;as if it were dusk&lt;br /&gt;look into light falling:&lt;br /&gt;in deep relief&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;things even out. Be&lt;br /&gt;careless of nothing. See&lt;br /&gt;what you see.&lt;/pre&gt;</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/06/youve-come-to-assume-protective-color.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>1</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-1851293371897354442</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2010 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-06-03T07:00:03.741-07:00</atom:updated><title>&quot;sometimes it is necessary / to reteach a thing its loveliness&quot;  -</title><description>- Galway Kinnell, from &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.poets.org/viewmedia.php/prmMID/19852&quot;&gt;Saint Francis and the Sow&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was so struck by that line that I had to read it twice. And then I cried. And it&#39;s in a poem about a pig.</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/06/sometimes-it-is-necessary-to-reteach.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-4646156873752400667</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Jun 2010 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-06-02T07:00:04.131-07:00</atom:updated><title>&quot;you know what Wednesday is, don&#39;t you? Hump day.&quot; - Mr. Schuster****</title><description>I am vomiting as we speak. (lies! types Ringo)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Okay, I&#39;m not really vomiting but I did turn away from the tv while schuster was singing that HORRIBLE song to Sue. ugh. This was the creepiest episode of Glee ever - what&#39;s her name, the former Mrs. Schuster having a crush on Finn - GROSS! - and I did not watch the end. i did catch the man&#39;s world rendition with all the pregnant mothers and am still pondering that one. I might have something to say about that later.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Much better to think about was dinner at Ringo&#39;s after class:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1) Pizza: Red onion, mozzerella, goat cheese, basil, and prosciutto. YUM.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2) Salad: Arugula, beets, goat cheese, sunflower seeds, black pepper, olive oil, balsamic vinegar. YUM.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;***My other favorite quote was &quot;We&#39;re going to go all &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;Braveheart &lt;/span&gt;on Vocal Adrenaline.&quot; - Finn</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/06/you-know-what-wednesday-is-dont-you.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-3276143849572642835</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-06-01T07:00:05.389-07:00</atom:updated><title>&#39;&#39;If Craig M. gets a rose tonight, I will know for sure there is no God.&#39;&#39; - weatherman</title><description>um, because i was homeworking, I did not watch the bachelorette. however, I did read Jennifer Armstrong&#39;s &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.ew.com/ew/article/0,,20387311_20390140,00.html&quot;&gt;article about it,&lt;/a&gt; and if I were a ew journalist, I would be her, because she is FUNNY. I do realize it&#39;s pretty easy to make fun of the bachelorette, but still.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But after reading her take, of course I went to hulu and watched the second part because the weatherman is perhaps the funniest reality tv persona I think i&#39;ve ever seen, and also because I am just amazed at the level of ridic that people stoop to.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;my thoughts are that jesse&#39;s adorable but way too young. craig m is an ass, who actually said on national television that he couldn&#39;t talk to people shorter than him. and THEN went on to say that he hoped there were some hotties on the plane ride home because he needed some extra attention. And he added that Allie just made a big mistake. Wow, that&#39;s a classy act right there. (I&#39;d also like to point out that his conversation with allie was a PERFECT tutorial for what NOT to do on a date. In fact, dating coaches could use it to showcase where everything goes wrong. You know when a girl asks you if you&#39;re uncomfortable, it&#39;s not going too hot. )&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Where does abc get these people? I think they pick some idiots on purpose.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Including my favorite, the weatherman. he is not my favorite for allie, and I certainly wouldn&#39;t date him, but he&#39;s pretty fricking funny. And too serious at the same time. I also can&#39;t really get down with his world view, but he has some awesome one-liners. I wonder if he&#39;s as funny on the weather show?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Also, roberto is a good one, chris l is solid, and justin is just weird. And slightly creepy. I vote no.</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/06/if-craig-m-gets-rose-tonight-i-will.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-419580992897265682</guid><pubDate>Mon, 31 May 2010 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-05-31T07:00:00.490-07:00</atom:updated><title>&quot;the water is wide / I can&#39;t cross o&#39;er&quot;</title><description>&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJvgEsvfPRV-8qTXnzt0o4JQ3Wth0ZqU-cbj8dyEcAvFpNwU0O23c2J8RRRIio3YnXZS4o6B6HQlEjTOsWZHTYNJm2S6VdQbNFjQNSGCvn_WDhfY9TiAHqN70bu3USuh1V22C5cxgxeWE/s1600/beckyboat+001.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 291px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJvgEsvfPRV-8qTXnzt0o4JQ3Wth0ZqU-cbj8dyEcAvFpNwU0O23c2J8RRRIio3YnXZS4o6B6HQlEjTOsWZHTYNJm2S6VdQbNFjQNSGCvn_WDhfY9TiAHqN70bu3USuh1V22C5cxgxeWE/s400/beckyboat+001.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5477184087034959890&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This week I wasn&#39;t sure I was making conversation as much as hoping the words coming out of my mouth would make sense in whatever train of dialogue we were on...I am tired...ready for this quarter to be over. Right now. I want to sleep for a week. BUT I got a letter in the mail from Becs and it was perfect!  And then we skyped this weekend, which was even perfect-ter. Whoever invented skype is going to heaven. If I were in charge.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was also reminded of this poem I can&#39;t remember, where the poet says to not write, because it&#39;s worse, after getting a letter, because you are reminded of how much you love the letter writer, and miss them, and want to be with them. And it&#39;s true. 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They are pretty fantastic out of the video too, so it&#39;s really not surprising how great they are IN it. 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I mean, I&#39;ve always been in love with it, but these poems are amazing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This one is adorably sweet, and I love it:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;The Indexer in Love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;by Gray Emerson, from the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/Time-You-Let-Me-Poets/dp/0061896373&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;Time You Let Me In&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; collection.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Answer to My Prayers, 8&lt;br /&gt;     &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     - See also&lt;/span&gt; You&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Board Games (That I Let You Win), 122-124&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dancing, 42-44&lt;br /&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;     - On the Ends of Your Eyelashes, 27&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Eyelashes, 18-19&lt;br /&gt;     &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     - See also&lt;/span&gt; Dancing&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hair, 83-85&lt;br /&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;     - That You Complimented, 86&lt;br /&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;     - That You Wrote a Poem About, 87&lt;br /&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;     - That You Wrung Your Fingers Through, 88&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Index, Index&lt;br /&gt;      &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     - See also&lt;/span&gt; You&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Kisses&lt;br /&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;     - Never Given, 23-29&lt;br /&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;     - Stolen/Ransomed/Returned, 81-85&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Love, 99-100&lt;br /&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;     - Not at First Sight, 10&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Peculiarities (of You)&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt; - Biting at Your Cuticles, 50&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;     - Silent Sneezes, 113&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;     - Words Used Out of Context, 103-105&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Things, List of&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;     - I Want to Do to You, &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;Appendix A &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;     - I Want to Do with You, &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;Appendix B &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Waiting&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;     - In Line With You, 131&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     - See also &lt;/span&gt;You&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;     - Answer to My Prayers, 1&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;     - Index You (Unable to), 1&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;     - Waiting for You, 1</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/05/indexer-in-love.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-8825558835540636017</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 May 2010 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-05-27T07:00:00.908-07:00</atom:updated><title>poetry crush</title><description>some of you might know I have a poetry crush on Matt Gano, a local Seattle poet.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In fact,  THE top MOST AWKWARD moment of my life was when I told him this. I was at an event he was emceeing last year and the first thing I said when I met him was -  &quot;Hi Matt. I have a poetry crush on you.&quot; I don&#39;t know where that filter went, the one that usually stops us from saying things that make us sound like crazy people. My filter got broke for just a minute that night.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Poor Matt. He didn&#39;t realize I was just a harmless poetry admirer and backed away. I&#39;m sure he was thinking, this lady&#39;s crazy. I hope someday I can reverse the damage, but you know, in situations like this, it&#39;s hard to convince people you&#39;re actually normal and were briefly star struck and an alien took over your body for a second.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But regardless of whether or not he thinks I&#39;m crazy, he&#39;s got a great poem about the truth, and since we&#39;re telling it this year, here it is:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object width=&quot;480&quot; height=&quot;385&quot;&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;movie&quot; value=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/v/v-bAlN84jRk&amp;amp;hl=en_US&amp;amp;fs=1&amp;amp;rel=0&quot;&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;allowFullScreen&quot; value=&quot;true&quot;&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;allowscriptaccess&quot; value=&quot;always&quot;&gt;&lt;embed src=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/v/v-bAlN84jRk&amp;amp;hl=en_US&amp;amp;fs=1&amp;amp;rel=0&quot; type=&quot;application/x-shockwave-flash&quot; allowscriptaccess=&quot;always&quot; allowfullscreen=&quot;true&quot; width=&quot;480&quot; height=&quot;385&quot;&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/05/poetry-crush.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-5049059234875786261</guid><pubDate>Wed, 26 May 2010 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-05-27T19:37:25.052-07:00</atom:updated><title>&quot;you and homework, you&#39;re tight&quot; - Klein</title><description>Let me just state for the record I love school. For real. It&#39;s fun, challenging, and I&#39;m learning a tooooooooooooooooooon. And I like it, generally.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But the thing I HATE about school is that I would always rather put people before anything else, and the sad truth is that #$%^#%$&amp;amp;$% presentations wait for no one. So I find myself saying the lamest things in the world, like &quot;I have to go write a paper&quot; or &quot;I can&#39;t do that, I have to read.&quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Which are true statements, but let&#39;s be honest, right up there with &quot;I have to wash my hair&quot; excuses. Except mine are more true than that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thankfully I have friends like Klein, who keep it real and keep me laughing when I say I can&#39;t hang out.</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/05/you-and-homework-youre-tight-klein.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-403057698569076561</guid><pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-05-25T07:00:00.430-07:00</atom:updated><title>&quot;Wanna do parallel activities?&quot; - Ringo</title><description>To address the melancholy Monday sitch, I went to Ringo&#39;s for dinner, which was AMAZING:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1) Sweet Potato Enchiladas: Mash a few sweet potatoes with cumin, garlic, thyme, salt, pepper, etc. Add black beans, corn and a little pepperjack. Add a teensy bit of sour cream to green chile enchilada sauce. Pour some sauce in bottom of pan. Put sweet potato mixture into tortillas, roll up, and put rest of sauce on top, sprinkle some cheese on top. Bake for around 1/2 hour. YUM.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2) Whatever&#39;s-in-the-fridge-Salad: Cut up red pepper, avocado, 1/2 cucumber and some red cabbage. Add a dash of balsamic vinegar and a dash of olive oil. Mix. YUM.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3) Fossil Fuel Ben and Jerry&#39;s Ice Cream. YUM.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then we decided to do &quot;parallel activities&quot; - which apparently means to be in the same room with someone but be working on different things -  until 9, at which point my reward for finishing my power point presentation and handouts would be to watch the first episode of the Bachelorette. I finished my power point and Ringo e-mailed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And then, at 9, we started watching the Bachelorette, and I texted with my boss throughout. It&#39;s entirely her fault I ever watched the Bachelor.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I did not watch the entire show because I would have cringed about having those 2 hours of my life gone forever, but here is what I noticed:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1) Ali got botox. It inhibited her ability to talk. AND made her lips look weird.&lt;br /&gt;2) Ali couldn&#39;t walk in her dress. Not my idea of a good time.&lt;br /&gt;3) 25 guys, 1 girl, alcohol, and Chris Harrison in a room, something&#39;s guaranteed to go wrong. WEIRD dynamics, peeps.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Favorite quotes:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1) &quot;I need someone to go ice fishing with.&quot; - Kyle. Ah, Kyle, you know just what to say to warm any girl&#39;s heart.*&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2) &quot;You can&#39;t go wrong with a broken leg.&quot; - Weatherman Jonathan, commenting on another contestant&#39;s broken leg. Hmmm....so a broken leg inspires sympathy and thus ensures a rose? Jonathan needs to lighten up just a bit.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*For the record, I&#39;d go ice fishing once to see what it was like. But gotta be honest, doubt I&#39;d go for days on end, hours at a time.</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/05/wanna-do-parallel-activities-ringo.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-2433479678089943685</guid><pubDate>Mon, 24 May 2010 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-05-24T07:00:05.318-07:00</atom:updated><title>listen/ with the night falling we are saying thank you</title><description>- &lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/W._S._Merwin&quot;&gt;w.s. merwin&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;thanks&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This might be my melancholy spring moment. ooh, and on monday, too. Maybe i&#39;ll do melancholoy mondays. i mean, seriously, who loves mondays?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;i was thinking about this merwin poem because over the past few months I&#39;ve been re-watching &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.pbs.org/moyers/journal/04172009/watch.html&quot;&gt;the Wire&lt;/a&gt;. The first time I watched the show, I raced to get through it,  eager to see the rest of the story. This time, I was savoring it, like those books that are so good you can only read 4 or 5 pages at once so that it lasts as long as you can draw it out. And also I was cramming it in between writing papers on ILS systems and reading about information literacy and making presentations about poetry. I know, my life is sooooo hard.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This time, I wanted to catch the expression on Omar&#39;s face when he testifies against Bird, and the way Jimmy self destructs, almost totally imploding. And how Bubs can&#39;t really believe he&#39;s alive, and the sheer beauty of his survival - he is one of the most lovely characters I&#39;ve ever met, in a tv series or novel.  How Greggs comes to terms with herself, easily missed among the loudness of the men around her. And mostly I&#39;m now head-over-absolutely-heels-in-love with Carver. Over the course of five seasons, he becomes a grown up. For real.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So I was re-watching the Wire, and then also reading Marina Budhos&#39; &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/Ask-Me-Questions-Marina-Budhos/dp/1416949208/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1273815141&amp;amp;sr=1-1&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;Ask Me No Questions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, and also Marc Aronson&#39;s &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/Race-History-Beyond-Black-White/dp/0689865546&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;Race: a History Beyond Black and White&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;.  &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;Ask Me No Questions&lt;/span&gt; is a novel of two undocumented sisters worrying about being deported, holding their family together. &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;Race&lt;/span&gt; is non-fiction, and mostly what it sounds like.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I got to skype with these two authors in one of my classes this quarter, and Marc said something about tragedy - how our culture doesn&#39;t like to acknowledge tragedy, that we want to give teens a sugar-coated version of events in hopes that they won&#39;t re-create the mess we continue to make of things. But the irony is that only telling the truth about the mess is what gets it cleaned up.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&#39;ve been thinking about that a lot, since truth is the word of the year, and wondering how telling the truth plays out in different situations...And this poem keeps coming back to me - I think what I&#39;ve loved about it since I first read it 6 years ago is that acknowledgement piece - just that there is much to be sad about here.  And in the midst of that great sadness, there is also great beauty, and in saying thank you we are noticing the beauty around us. I think that&#39;s one reason I loved &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;the Wire&lt;/span&gt; so much - It was Shakespearean tragedy at its best, with characters we can see the brilliance in even as we decry their wretched choices. Last night at church we sang about how all we have to offer are thankful hearts. That&#39;s the truest piece of religion that I know.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here&#39;s the full text of that poem:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;pre&gt;Listen&lt;br /&gt;with the night falling we are saying thank you&lt;br /&gt;we are stopping on the bridges to bow from the railings&lt;br /&gt;we are running out of the glass rooms&lt;br /&gt;with our mouths full of food to look at the sky&lt;br /&gt;and say thank you&lt;br /&gt;we are standing by the water thanking it&lt;br /&gt;smiling by the windows looking out&lt;br /&gt;in our directions&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;back from a series of hospitals back from a mugging&lt;br /&gt;after funerals we are saying thank you&lt;br /&gt;after the news of the dead&lt;br /&gt;whether or not we knew them we are saying thank you&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;over telephones we are saying thank you&lt;br /&gt;in doorways and in the backs of cars and in elevators&lt;br /&gt;remembering wars and the police at the door&lt;br /&gt;and the beatings on stairs we are saying thank you&lt;br /&gt;in the banks we are saying thank you&lt;br /&gt;in the faces of the officials and the rich&lt;br /&gt;and of all who will never change&lt;br /&gt;we go on saying thank you thank you&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;with the animals dying around us&lt;br /&gt;our lost feelings we are saying thank you&lt;br /&gt;with the forests falling faster than the minutes&lt;br /&gt;of our lives we are saying thank you&lt;br /&gt;with the words going out like cells of a brain&lt;br /&gt;with the cities growing over us&lt;br /&gt;we are saying thank you faster and faster&lt;br /&gt;with nobody listening we are saying thank you&lt;br /&gt;we are saying thank you and waving&lt;br /&gt;dark though it is&lt;/pre&gt;</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/05/listen-with-night-falling-we-are-saying.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-682431750903172653</guid><pubDate>Sun, 23 May 2010 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-05-23T07:00:00.332-07:00</atom:updated><title>&quot;Fuck Tris. I would give body parts to have a guy write something like that for me. My kidney? Oh, both of them? Here Nick, they&#39;re yours.&quot;</title><description>- Norah, in &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/Nick-Norahs-Infinite-Playlist-Rachel/dp/0375835318&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;Nick and Norah&#39;s Infinite Playlist&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh, the drama. This is one of my favorite YA books lately - zippy, snappy dialogue and story that perfectly captures the heady craziness of falling in love unexpectedly. Told in alternating viewpoint chapters from both Nick and Norah&#39;s perspective. Sweet little story for a study break.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Favorite Quotes:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;&quot;Is this what happens on dates? You kiss before you&#39;ve met, then talk about why your previous relationship failed? I&#39;m stumped.&quot; &lt;/span&gt;- Norah, p. 53&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Me too, Norah. Dates are weird.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;&quot;Look,&quot; she says...&quot;I know you probably think I&#39;m a horrid bitch from the planet Schizophrenia, but I&#39;m honestly not trying to mess with your head. I&#39;m just messing with my own head and seem to have dragged you along for the ride. I think you&#39;re nice to me and that scares the fuck out of me. Because when a guy&#39;s a jerk or an asshole, it&#39;s easier because you know exactly where you stand. Since trust isn&#39;t an option, you don&#39;t have to get all freaked out about maybe having to trust him. Right now I am thinking about ten things at the same time, and at least four of those things have to do with you. If you want to leave right now and drive home...I wouldn&#39;t blame you in the least. But what I&#39;m trying to say is that if you did that I&#39;d be sorry.&quot; &lt;/span&gt;- to Nick, p.63&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&#39;m pretty sure my liking this book confirms I&#39;m a sucker for romance. Who knew?</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/05/fuck-tris-i-would-give-body-parts-to.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-127147931703012619</guid><pubDate>Sat, 22 May 2010 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-05-22T07:00:02.569-07:00</atom:updated><title>best thai place in the pacific northwest is right here in river city</title><description>okay, it&#39;s not in river city, but it is near that godawful monstrosity known as Southcenter mall. oh, wait, it&#39;s now westfield shopping center. Sorry. Well, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.baitongrestaurant.com/&quot;&gt;Bai Tong &lt;/a&gt;is conveniently located next to Toys&#39;r&#39;us. (Did I even spell that right?)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know, I know, the mall, but for real, this is the BEST Thai place I&#39;ve ever been to. Food Porn Blogger Jason Sheehan &lt;a href=&quot;http://blogs.seattleweekly.com/voracious/2010/03/food_porn_hooked_on_bai_tong.php#&quot;&gt;agrees.&lt;/a&gt; Yum.</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/05/best-thai-place-in-pacific-northwest-is.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-4312863254720007410</guid><pubDate>Fri, 21 May 2010 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-05-21T07:00:01.371-07:00</atom:updated><title>grecian hair  g-chats</title><description>&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;evs:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;:59&quot; class=&quot;t5&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;:52&quot;&gt;♫ &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id=&quot;:51&quot;&gt;Man on the bus  this morning: &quot;Your hair has a lot of body.  Are you from Greece?&quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;k8: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id=&quot;:3p&quot;&gt;patient quote of the day: &quot;Did you change your hair? It looks  good.  You look less like a little old lady and more like a teenager.&quot;  74 year old man who can&#39;t speak a whole sentence without going into a  coughing fit.  Also, he invited me to go camping with him.  Um, no  thanks.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;gr:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;:3w&quot; class=&quot;t5&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;:3p&quot;&gt;♫ &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id=&quot;:3o&quot;&gt;gr has a  tendency to be too informal when she is with her peers and supervisors:  this is one of her greatest strengths and greatest areas for  improvement.  Her ability to say what was on her mind certainly helped  us in numerous situations; at the same time, her lack of a filter with  peers and supervisors sometimes created uncomfortable situations.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;vans: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://xkcd.com/616/&quot;&gt;http://xkcd.com/616/&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/05/grecian-hair-g-chats.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-1341262726266190314</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 May 2010 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-05-20T07:00:05.030-07:00</atom:updated><title>&quot;ooh, I can have some orange herbal tea. that&#39;s thrilling.&quot; - Mom</title><description>Mom is on a sugar fast and I am attempting to be supportive by also not eating sugar. But H offered me a red vine at work the other day and I wasn&#39;t even paying attention and ate it. Oops.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don&#39;t really mind giving up candy things because I don&#39;t really eat candy. And even other carbohydrat-ey things aren&#39;t too bad, I don&#39;t really miss them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But chocolate? I want chocolate. Right now. Any kind would do.</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/05/ooh-i-can-have-some-orange-herbal-tea.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-3519273366407398453</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 May 2010 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-05-19T07:00:00.774-07:00</atom:updated><title>&quot; I wanted all my food to come from places I would enjoy visiting.&quot; - Nicolette Hahn Niman</title><description>If you don&#39;t have time or inclination to read &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.animalvegetablemiracle.com/&quot;&gt;Animal Vegetable Miracle&lt;/a&gt;,  &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.michaelpollan.com/omnivore.php&quot;&gt;The Omnivore&#39;s Dilemma&lt;/a&gt;, or &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.eatinganimals.com/&quot;&gt;Eating Animals&lt;/a&gt;, this &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.huffingtonpost.com/nicolette-hahn-niman/avoiding-factory-farm-foo_b_353525.html&quot;&gt;blog post&lt;/a&gt; by Niman is a nicely condensed guide about why you might want to think more about what you eat.</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/05/i-wanted-all-my-food-to-come-from.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-5085362521415650796</guid><pubDate>Tue, 18 May 2010 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-05-18T07:00:04.556-07:00</atom:updated><title>if you missed mother&#39;s day</title><description>go to &lt;a href=&quot;http://epicchange.org/&quot;&gt;epic change&lt;/a&gt; and check out &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tomamawithlove.org/&quot;&gt;to mama with love&lt;/a&gt;. Mama Lucy is amazing.</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/05/if-you-missed-mothers-day.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-1651082261015159738</guid><pubDate>Mon, 17 May 2010 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-05-17T07:00:06.716-07:00</atom:updated><title>&quot;In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act.&quot; - George Orwell</title><description>Bring on the revolution peeps, because 2010 is the year of truth.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I guess I forgot to mention this one in January. Becks reminded me and I think I ignored her.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But following courage (2007),&lt;a href=&quot;http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2008/01/imagination-is-more-important-than.html&quot;&gt; imagination&lt;/a&gt; (2008), and love (2009) proved a sort of challenging task, until situations arose which made it clear that truth-telling became more important than anything else. Even love, because it seems to me that truth-telling is a form of love. Or maybe love is telling the truth about people. I mean, Shakespeare did say &quot;Love is all truth.&quot; (Venus and Adonis.) Probably this is like the chicken and the egg argument and I won&#39;t really get anywhere with it. In any event, just so we&#39;re all aware, 2010&#39;s word of the year is truth.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The reason I picked truth isn&#39;t because I&#39;ve got a lying problem. And it&#39;s not about the little things, you know, like telling your grandmother her  chicken salad is the best you&#39;ve ever tasted,  I&#39;m not talking about  those kinds of things.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&#39;m talking about the messes.  You know, the kind of mess we humans get ourselves into all of the time. Sticky, gummy, gross. Hurt feelings, untrusting-ness, suspicions, accusations, and all that good stuff flying around.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Last year I learned about such a mess. People I love had been lying. To themselves, to each other, to their friends. The specifics of the situation don&#39;t really matter, but the outcome of it does. It&#39;s not totally finished, of course, because humans take a long time to clean up stuff, and some things take a good looooooooooooong while.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My general feeling about such messes is that they are WAY EASIER to clean up when folks come clean and are honest about them. You know, the truth will set you free and all that jazz. But I am learning not everyone feels that way. And in regards to that particular mess, not everyone feels that way. Some people would like to stay hiding out. Covered up. Pretending things are just fine. And I was so startled at how stark a difference the approach is - tell the truth vs. hiding out - that the word truth came down and settled on my shoulder and that was that: 2010 was going to be the year of truth.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the midst of trying to be a good friend, I&#39;m learning that speaking truth is important - in this case, telling someone I love them no matter what. And also that I&#39;m not going to go along and pretend everything is fine just because that&#39;s what they think they want.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&#39;m also learning this is difficult stuff. I am making mistakes with it, because I am the most impatient person I know and I want it to be fixed right away. This is unrealistic, I know. I want it anyway.  But it&#39;s a delicate thing, telling someone you love them, then not agreeing with the choices they make, and then figuring out how to still be their friend when they don&#39;t do what you hope for. It&#39;s not like every time you see them you can say, hey, by the way, I don&#39;t like what you&#39;re doing here. They know how you feel already. You don&#39;t have to tell them five times.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I guess the biggest thing I am learning is that we see the people we love with a kind of vision they don&#39;t always see themselves with. Usually that&#39;s good - we can see their full potential, the beauty they bring to the world and their place in it, a place that no one else can quite take.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think telling the truth involves holding a mirror up to that vision, so that people can see themselves in it, and claim it for themselves.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And I think holding mirrors up is hard. But also revolutionary - truth telling results in radical change, peeps.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So revolutionize this year. Tell the truth.</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/05/in-time-of-universal-deceit-telling.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-4785074059984610076</guid><pubDate>Sun, 16 May 2010 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-05-16T07:00:02.517-07:00</atom:updated><title>&quot;What&#39;s in that pot?&quot; - Mom</title><description>&quot;The first dead basil.&quot; - Me&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&quot;The first?&quot; - Mom&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&quot;The second one&#39;s on the windowsill.&quot; - Me&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have successfully killed two basil plants so far this spring. The first, by putting it outside and letting it get pounded in rain. Not a good plan. The second, by leaving it inside in a non sunny spot. Also not a good plan. But Mom&#39;s attempting to revive it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I planted some lettuce this week. And beets. And rosemary. And I nailed some wire to a board so the beans can grow up it. And I transferred the little tiny sprouts that will become butternut squash and carrots into bigger containers, where I am crossing my fingers that they will be happy until it is the very end of May and I put them into the real garden.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The dogs helped by keeping an eye out for things.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I got out to the garden and wished for a radio, but then I started listening, and there was a pretty good soundtrack going on. The lilacs and roses are happy to have vegetables growing nearby, and the sage is glad to not be the only herb running amok.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was considering the spacing of things - you know, how much room does the broccoli actually need to stretch its roots out and grow sort of considering, and also which plants will help each other out, and which plants don&#39;t want to be near each other - and thinking also about how considering such things with people can be helpful too.  Some people help each other grow, and others don&#39;t. And some people give us lots of space to be ourselves, and we love them for it, and others crowd us out and it&#39;s kind of cramped being around them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I feel like I am going to learn things from this whole gardening business.</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/05/whats-in-that-pot-mom.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293027383254367983.post-4884458932607881196</guid><pubDate>Sat, 15 May 2010 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-05-15T07:00:05.258-07:00</atom:updated><title>one day all children....</title><description>in this country will have the opportunity to receive an excellent education...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.teachforamerica.org/&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;- Teach for America &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Since it was featured in the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.cinemablend.com/new/Must-Watch-Waiting-For-Superman-Trailer-18516.html&quot;&gt;Waiting for Superman &lt;/a&gt;preview I posted yesterday, I figured if you haven&#39;t been paying attention to world events like the olympics and somehow missed this song, you should really notice it:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object width=&quot;640&quot; height=&quot;385&quot;&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;movie&quot; value=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/v/WRmBChQjZPs&amp;amp;hl=en_US&amp;amp;fs=1&amp;amp;rel=0&quot;&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;allowFullScreen&quot; value=&quot;true&quot;&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;allowscriptaccess&quot; value=&quot;always&quot;&gt;&lt;embed src=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/v/WRmBChQjZPs&amp;amp;hl=en_US&amp;amp;fs=1&amp;amp;rel=0&quot; type=&quot;application/x-shockwave-flash&quot; allowscriptaccess=&quot;always&quot; allowfullscreen=&quot;true&quot; width=&quot;640&quot; height=&quot;385&quot;&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;</description><link>http://dayofthequote.blogspot.com/2010/05/one-day-all-children.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item></channel></rss>