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2012-07-04T12:13:00.000-07:00

Finding the right sex toy can be a lot like the Goldilocks dilemma -- they come in all shapes, sizes and functions, but how do you know which one’s “just right?” From big to small, mischievously discreet to obviously kinky, here’s a list of our favorite guilty pleasures -- perfect for solo or partner play. (Don't have one yet? This is the perfect place to start!) Read More http://www.ivillage.com/sex-toys-we-love/6-b-330909#ixzz1zgNkDzWr Sign up for iVillage Special Offers

Why Foreplay Can’t Be Skipped, Five Steps to Amazing Sex Tonight

2012-07-04T12:04:00.000-07:00

Having amazing sex can happen tonight if you implement just a few simple steps to make your experience incredible. 1. Kiss for Five Minutes Kiss slowly, cup your partners face in your hands, and enjoy this step. As a practicing Marriage and Sex Therapist it is surprising how many couples completely skip the kissing part. Kissing helps to us get aroused, connected and warms up our bodies to move into intercourse. People who struggle with erection difficulties or arousal issues should pay particular attention to this step as it helps us to get ready for sex. Kissing also helps reduce our anxiety as it relaxes us as we move into more intimate and sexual touching. Related Articles Entertainment Tonight and the C-Word: Beating Up Women for Laughs Impostor! The Stalker in All of Us Much More Than "Seven Dirty Words" The Banjo Player's Porsche Find a Therapist Search for a mental health professional near you. Find Local: Acupuncturists Chiropractors Massage Therapists Dentists and more! 2. Don't Skip Foreplay and Take Turns Giving and Receiving Foreplay is the most intimate step of the sexual process. It is the opportunity to feel sought after, desired and pleasured by your partner. Foreplay represents the part of the sexual script where partners are taking turns pleasuring one another. Couples who skip foreplay are doing their relationship a disservice because you miss out on the opportunity to learn what you like sexually and to tell your partner so that you desire to have the type of sex you are having. Oral or manual stimulation represent great options for foreplay. If you don't currently engage in foreplay with your partner, try talking about it outside the bedroom as an idea you would like to explore. 3. Give Your Partner Feedback Say "that feels good" or make some noise to signal you like what they are doing or the way they are touching you. Everyone likes a different type of touch; it is as unique as your fingerprint. Women are often socialized to be quiet during the sexual process but many partners complain that they don't know what type of touch feels good to their partners and want to know if what they are doing is working. Giving your partner pleasure also helps you build sexual self-confidence. Make sure you provide feedback during the process as well as afterwards on what you liked, also try showing your partner if they can't seem to grasp what you are asking for so they can mimic the moves you enjoy. 4. Look at Each Other While Being Sexual During the process of being sexual together, open your eyes and look at your partner. An advanced move is to open your eyes and look at your partner when you are having your orgasm. Many couples report feeling closer after sharing such an intimate experience. Looking at each other pushes couples to grow sexually by confronting your sexual self, taking a risk together and taking ownership of being sexual with your partner. 5. Try Something New Trying something new sexually is good for you and good for your relationship. Some desire problems stem from sexual boredom and the prescription is sexual risk. You don't have to do something that you find distasteful but when was the last time you tried initiating, experimenting with a new position, different lighting such as candlelight or using a sexual aid (toy) or lubricant. Even trying to bring each other to orgasm during foreplay instead of during intercourse could be a nice change. Be brave tonight and try something new, it just might stimulate your minds as well as your bodies. Enjoy!

OLDEST WORKING MODEL

2012-07-01T10:07:00.000-07:00

American model and actress Carmen Dell'Orefice was born on June, 3 1931, making her 80 years young this year.

Models Over 30 Become Increasingly Popular

2012-07-01T06:40:00.002-07:00

Over recent years Models Direct has been encouraged by distinct signs that diversity in the fashion and modelling industry continues to grow. These days we see more models of colour, plus-size models and models with disabilties in advertising campaigns. Another recent trend has seen a notable rise in the use of models over 30, whether they be mature models such as 80 year old supermodel Carmen Dell'Orefice - or younger, 30 plus models - such as the stunning 32 Brazilian supermodel Gisele Bundchen. It seems that the industry has finally accepted the virtues of the older model and that, as we head into 2012, to be over the age of thirty is no longer a negative for today's model. In fact it appears that it may now present a distinct advantage. Significant campaigns that booking agents and models at Models Direct have recently noticed involving 30 plus models include; 30 year old Adriana Lima for Donna Karan, 34 year old Guinevere Van Seenus for Mui Mui and Prada, 31 year old model Mariacarla Boscono for YSL, 30 year old model Saskia de Brauw for Chanel and of course the ever popular and incredibly beautiful Gisele Bundchen who will represent Givenchy, Salvatorre Ferragamo and Versace amongst others during 2012. This situation seems to be particularly relevant right now due to current 1950s inspired fashion, makeup and hair trends that lend themselves to the more mature and sophisticated woman. Models Direct absolutely loves these glamourous looks and are delighted to see them being embraced by celebrities and models alike. There is no denying that this style looks fantastic on the more mature lady - just think Dita Von Teese and you will see what we mean. The nod towards all things 50s may have been inspired by movie My Week with Marilyn which came out last November. The film starred 31 year old Michelle Williams who recently won 'best actress in a comedy or musical' at the a Golden Globes for her role as Marilyn. Other fashion heroines of the 1950s include Audrey Hepburn and Jackie Kennedy. These are ladies whose style was simply timeless. The move towards favouring older models also comes shortly after high profile brands such as Mui Mui and Vogue have been slammed for the use of teen, or tween, models in campaigns labelled as 'inappropriate', which is likely another influencing factor for the lean towards favouring the 30 plus model. Girls and guys here at the MD modelling agency see no reason to get tween models to do the job of a more mature model, and while we adore many campaigns where child models are allowed to be children, we also give the current move towards an industry that does not write models off as they grow older a huge thumbs up! What do you think about this increase in the use of models over 30?

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2 Key Tips for Pleasing A Woman: Foreplay & Afterplay

2012-07-01T04:32:00.000-07:00

The key to making love to your wife so she'll adore you and get pleasure out of pleasing you is simple: make it about her. Make the effort to ensure that it's a thrilling experience for her. Two of the most important tips for pleasing a woman are: 1) Foreplay 2) Afterplay. I once heard a quote: â€œA man who engages in foreplay understands sex. A man who engages in afterplay understands love.â€ If you want a happy wife and thereby a happy marriage then, you need to understand both sex and love. A wife needs (and deserves) high quality of both. As for foreplay, it should be your default rule. It doesnâ€™t mean that a woman never wants to skip quickly to sex. Quite the contrary. Women are far more sexual than men often imagine and tend to be very eager for sex if their man has built up their desire for him. Plan ahead sometimes. Start the seduction outside the bedroom. Tell her what you want to do to her. Tell her what she does to you. Tell her what it'll be like. Why? Because for her, love-making isn't just about the sex. Yes, a woman wants to ravaged and taken sometimes. But she also wants to be seduced. Seduce her before you even get to the bedroom. Make it about her. And here's the cool part: if your focus is pleasing her, then her focus will be pleasing you. So when to engage in foreplay and when to go straight for sex? You have two guidelines for that: 1) Make it about her. If you're not sure what I mean, make sure you've read The Key to Making Love. 2) Pay attention! If you're not sure what I mean, make sure you've read Sexually Pleasing a Woman. As for afterplay, itâ€™s really not that hardâ€”donâ€™t freak out! Just gently kiss her for a while and hold her for even longer. This will make her feel loved on an emotional level, not just desired on a physical level. Both are necessary. If your afterplay heightens her desire, then it may end up being foreplay, instead. All the betterâ€¦unless youâ€™re exhausted at that point. Then I canâ€™t help you. Sorry. I have a saying that I tell husbands, â€œTreat your woman like a queen. But be her king, not her subject (or another queen).â€ Foreplay can help make you her king. Afterplay will help you make her feel like a queen.