Designer's Original

Trees of Inspiration

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Mon, 21 May 2012 14:19:00 +0000

"A life devoted to things is a dead life. a stump; a God-shaped life is a flourishing tree." (Proverbs 11:28 msg)

"He shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, That brings forth its fruit in its season, Whose leaf also shall not wither; And whatever he does shall prosper." (Psalm 1:3)

"The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life, And he who wins souls is wise." (Proverbs 11:30)

These are random photos. I do not take credit for them.

It's Our Anniversary!!

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Fri, 18 May 2012 14:54:00 +0000

Today is a great day!! Why? You may ask. Well, that's because sixteen years ago on this day, I married the love of my life, Larry Thompson. It's such a blessing to be marry this long. Many married couples have gotten divorce after only 3 years or less of marital bliss. That's probably because God is not the foundation of their marriage; Or they have put more emphasis on getting married and not enough on doing what needs to be done to stay married.

Larry and I have had our share of ups and downs. However, not to sound so cliche', but love really did conquered all. Marriage is definitely hard work, but it's worth it. Let's just say it's a labor of love. As a married couple, we are still a work in progress. Besides, we have to make sure that we keep our home fire burning. ;)

I pray that we continue to grow in our marriage. I, also, pray for all marriages. I come against anything and anyone that may cause unnecessary strife, discord, deceitfulness within a marriage. What God has joined together no one can divide it or tear it apart by the power of the blood and the name of Jesus. Amen.

To Us!!

Today's Inspiration

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Thu, 17 May 2012 20:36:00 +0000

What God Has For You.....It's For You!!

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Wed, 16 May 2012 21:27:00 +0000

Have you ever given any thought about what God has in store for you?

I do.....almost everyday. My mind has the tendency to daydream about my future. I think about how my life may change within a year or even ten years from now. Sometimes I envision God transforming what naturally seems impossible into supernaturally possible. We were created to do great things in the name of Jesus so that other people can see God's glory in His miraculous works through us.

However, we must allow God to lead, instruct, direct, and guide us to what He has in store for us. In addition to that, grab hold of it and claim in it in the mighty name of Jesus. Please keep in mind the road that you will travel to stake claim on your divine possessions will not exactly be as easy as you think. There are going to be quite a few potholes, road blocks, and even detours that are going to try to hinder you along the way. The devil is not going to make it easy for you at all. But it's all good because what God has for you......It is for you.

Though the devil may make several attempts to hinder us, We have the victory!! We are armed for battle. Our weapons of warfare are not carnal, but mighty and strong. We have angels watching over us. We have the Most High God and His Word; Whereas we can speak to every situation and every burden that may try easily beset us. We are not and cannot be ignorant to satan's devices.

Remember, when things may not seem to be going the way you hope, don't worry. God always has a plan. Keep your eyes stayed on Him. Don't waver to the left or the right. Just keep on moving and put your faith into action.

Here are few scriptures for encouragement.

"For He shall give His angels charge over you, To keep you in all your ways. In their hands they shall bear you up, Lest you dash your foot against a stone. You shall tread upon the lion and the cobra, The young lion and the serpent you shall trample underfoot." (Psalm 91:11-13)

"For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ," (2 Corinthians 10:4-5)

"So Jesus answered and said to them, "Assuredly, I say to you, if you have faith and do not doubt, you will not only do what was done to the fig tree, but also if you say to this mountain, 'Be removed and be cast into the sea,' it will be done."
(Matthew 21:21)

"But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ." (1 Corinthians 15:57)

I pray this post was a blessing to you in the name of Jesus.

Ode to Mothers Week: Mom Power....You Need Not To Apply!

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Sat, 12 May 2012 16:31:00 +0000

"All positions are filled. You need not to apply." If you go to a business establishment where you wish to put in a job application and you see these words posted up, that pretty much means that they have all the man power they need to get the job done. Most likely, each employee is probably responsible for doing one job maybe two. They work the 8, 10, or 12 hours that are required of them, clock out, and then go home.

But, what if see these same words..."All positions are filled. You need not apply.," posted up in someone's home?? Do you know what that means?? One thing for sure is not 10-20 employees working various jobs in that home. However, it does mean that this home has all the man power they need. Except it is not man power,..... it's MOM POWER!!

Moms have many job descriptions. Our work is never done. We work way more than 12 hours a day. Not to mention, we are on called 24/7. We wear so many hats and at the same time, too. Yet, we rarely complain. Moms don't these various jobs out of mere obligation, but out of love for our family and home. Though, it wouldn't hurt to have a vacation every now and then. ;)

In order to get an idea of all the things moms do, here's a list of some of the many jobs a mom has.

Chef - She makes sure that gourmet meal is on the dinner table every night. ;)

Chauffer - Those who are not licensed to drive, she chauffers them and their friends to various events and places, such as birthday parties, mall, school, etc.

Laundry Machine Operator - She makes sure the family has clean clothes.

Housekeeper - She makes sure the home is tidy and clean.

Mentor - She teaches lifeskills that are important for spiritual growth and preparing for the real world., .
Cheerleader - She cheers on her family members on their various achievements.

Handywoman - If something breaks around the house and she is capable of fixing it, she will do it or at least try.

Judge and Juror - If there is a crime committed, such as rule breaking. She deliberates (if necessary), then she sentences the proper consequence. It's not People's Court, but MOM's Court.

Manager - She manages day-to-day tasks and make sure everyone and everything is in position.
CEO (Chief Executive Officer) - She runs the household. She makes executive decisions based on what's best for the family.
Nurse - She handles minor boo-boos. For major ones, to the emergency room we go.

Physchologist - She listens. Whether there is a problem or not, she just listens and renders advice, comfort, and unconditonal love if necessary.

Seamstress - She handles all wardrobe malfunctions

Teacher - She helps with homework, school projects, studying, etc. If she has a child 4 and under, then she specializes in teaching Shapes, Numbers, ABC's, Nursery Rhymes, etc.

Hair Stylist - She makes sure that no one has a noticeable bad hair day.

Family Assistant - She provides any assistant that's necessary to show support and to encourage.

Body Guard - She protects her family. She has their backs.

Mediator - If there is a disagreement among the family, she helps to rationally find a way to agree to this disagree without strife.
Local Buyer - She buys household supplies, groceries, clothes, and all the necessary essentials that are needed to run and maintain a household.
Coordinator/Planner - She plans/coordinates special events birthday parties, family outings/trips, and any other special activity and/or event.

There are plenty of job titles that I failed to mention. However the bottomline is, you need not apply because WE GOT THIS!! You may wonder how we are able do so much from one day to the next?? The answer is simple. All that we do for our family is not by are natural strength. It's supernatural. The bible says, "We can do all things through Christ that strengthens us," (Phil. 4:13), which includes being a mom and all the job descriptions that comes along with it.

That's why it is so important for moms to pray and intercede for their family. Though we contribute a lot, we cannot do anything without strength from God and His grace and His mercy. Moms, I am hear to tell you not to grow wear in well doing because your labor is not in vain. With God on our side each day, we are POWERFUL, not powerless!!!

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Here's a poem that I thought would be great addition to this post.

Mother's Day Author: Carol Matthews

A Mother loves right from the start.
She holds her baby close to her heart.
The bond that grows will never falter.
Her love is so strong it will never alter.

A Mother gives never ending Love.
She never feels that she has given enough.
For you she will always do her best.
Constantly working, there's no time to rest.

A Mother is there when things go wrong.
A hug and a kiss to help us along.
Always there when we need her near.
Gently wipes our eyes when we shed a tear.

So on this day shower your Mother with Love.
Gifts and presents are nice but that is not enough.
Give your Mother a day to have some peace of mind.
Be gentle, be good, be helpful, be kind.

Happy Mothers Day.

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Ode to Mothers Week: A Mother's Fight!!

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Fri, 11 May 2012 20:56:00 +0000

As mothers, it is our naturally instinct to protect, provide, and comfort our children. We want to make sure that our children know that no matter what, we are here for them. Mothers are natural born fighters. And we are willing to come against anyone or anything that tries to hurt our children, whether it's physically, emotionally, or verbally. Bottomline, you don't mess with our kids. If you have a problem with our children, then you have a problem with us. We are like lionesses protecting their cubs.

But, what if a mother's primary fight is not only for her children, but for her health? We are talking about mothers who have been healthy all their lives only to have it compromised. Mothers whose primary concerns included dinner for the family, fixing their children's school lunches, making sure laundry is done, preparing dinner, carpooling, and so, much, much more. So, what happens when a monkey wrench called cancer has been thrown into your best laid plans?? Whereas, your fight is no longer just about getting everything done on the to-do list, making sure your children are taking care of, or getting off of work in time for child's little league game, but for health.

I know someone who can answer this question. Her name is Tilease Jenkins, whom I have called my sister from day one. In February 2012, she was diagnosis with breast cancer. Right now, she is in the process of doing chemo. She is a hard working woman of God, who will be there for you whenever you called. She loves her family immensely. After God, they are her top priority. I ask Tilease to write about what is it like as a mother to fight for her health and to be their for her children. I wanted her to share a little bit of her story. And this is what she had to say:

Valentine’s Day is supposed to be the Day of Love. You’re supposed to be figuring out new and romantic ways to show the one you love just how much you love them. You’re supposed to be looking for that perfect gift that doesn’t come across as last minute and cliché. I, however, spent my Valentine’s Day this year at Charleston Breast Center. I remembered the doctor coming in after my ultrasound telling me that what they saw didn’t look good and she wanted to do a biopsy right then. I remembered looking at the clock and asking how long it would take and the doctor telling me about 1.5 – 2 hours.

I had to find someone to pick up my children from school. My mom was in Beaufort and my husband was at work. Then, right there on the table, I burst out into tears. Not because of the possibility of having breast cancer, but because of the possibility of not being able to take care of my children. Here I was sitting on an exam table faced with the dilemma that where I was and what I had to do was going to prevent me from providing a need for my children. It was MY responsibility that day to get them from school and I was not going to be able to do it.

Now, I know you may say that my health should’ve been my first priority, but as a mom, it never is. As a mom, I put the needs of my children before me, even as a sat on an exam table waiting to have a biopsy done. Don’t get me wrong, I had the biopsy done and I found someone to pick my children up from school. But the truth of the matter is that I was more worried about not being able to care for them than I was about the results from the biopsy. Well, two days later, I got a phone call from my doctor asking my husband and I to come in. When we get there, the doctor comes in, who is very straightforward, and says, “You have breast cancer!” Afterwards she apologized for 20 minutes.

Once it sank in and the crying was over, the doctor says to me, “What can I do for you now?” My answer to her was simple, “I need to know what the next step is, because I have to be able to sit my children down and tell them what’s going on and what the game plan is going to be!” I’ll deal with how I feel about it later. I need to make sure they are going to be ok and put things in place for them. Even through all of that, the needs of my children were greater than what I was currently having to process.

What is it that makes me put the concerns and needs of my children before my own? I would say that it was the way God designed me. As I go through chemotherapy and deal with the effects of breast cancer, one of the things that keep me going is the need to be able to care for my children as much as I physically can. I still have the desire to meet their needs. I still have the desire to be there for them physically, mentally, and spiritually.

I still have the desire to be their protector and go out and fight for them when they’re not able to fight for themselves. I am still their mom. So, I take care of me, so that I can take care of them. They are my gifts from God. They were assigned to me to love, care for, cherish, teach, discipline, and show them God in action. I take that job seriously; And I will do what I need to do to make sure that they are taken care for. The reward is unmeasurable.

I care for myself, because I have to be able to care for them.

Written by: Tilease Jenkins

Tilease is a wife, a mother of 2, and like most of us, wear many hats. We thank you so much for sharing with us. We know that in the name of Jesus, Tilease has the victory over breast cancer. By His stripes, she is healed!! I pray that this post is a blessing to you. To all mother's no matter what you are going through, stand and fight. Fight the good fight of faith. In Christ Jesus, we are more than conquerors. And we have the victory!! Hallelujah and Amen!!

Ode to Mother's Day Week: We Are Designer's Originals!!

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Wed, 09 May 2012 12:35:00 +0000

When God gave me the vision for Designer's Original, He wanted me to help women to understand that we are His original creation. We are His masterpiece, a poem, His priceless work of art. In addition to that, we are fearfully and wonderfully made. God is our Master Designer. Everything He has made is good.

There some women who elude the eloquence of Christ. They inspire us. They encourages. They give us hope. There are also women who have that mother hen syndrome. They know how to keep the peace and balance among friends and family. And that is exactly what my sister in Christ, Sonia does. She is such a sweet and tender hearted person. She is also the very first recipient of the Designer's Original Award. Congratulations!! You deserve it!!

Today is her birthday!! Happy Birthday Sonia!!! It's a blessing to have her in my life.

We are all Designer's Originals. And to all mothers, continue to always be encourage. If you feel like you are not doing a great job as mother, cancel that thought in the name of Jesus. You are an original creation designed and created by God. He knew you before you knew Him. He knew that someday you will be a mom. So, don't fret. Seek parental guidance from God. He will instruct, lead and carry you along the way. You being a mom is no accident, but a blessing!!

Ode to Mothers Week - A Mother's Love

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Tue, 08 May 2012 20:44:00 +0000

There's nothing like a mother's love. A mother's love is nurturing, endearing, comforting, and warm. A mother's love is express in so many ways. You can see it and feel it everytime she bakes gourmet cookies, helps out with homework, kisses the boo-boos, wipes away the tears, etc. A mother's love is endless from the moment her child started to grow in her womb to adulthood. A mother will love her child(ren) forever.

Here's an excerpt from one of my favorite children's book, "I Love You Forever" By: Robert Munsch

A mother held her new baby and very slowly rocked him back and forth, back and forth, back and forth. And while she held him, she sang:

I'll love you forever,
I'll like you for always,
As long as I'm living
my baby you'll be.
Well, that mother, she got older. She got older and older and older. One day she called up her son and said, "You'd better come see me because I'm very old and sick." So her son came to see her. When he came in the door she tried to sing the song. She sang:

I'll love you forever,
I'll like you for always...

But she couldn't finish because she was too old and sick. The son went to his mother. He picked her up and rocked her back and forth, back and forth, back and forth. And he sang this song:
I'll love you forever,
I'll like you for always,
As long as I'm living
my Mommy you'll be.

When I taught preschool, every year I would invite mothers and grandmothers to their child's classroom for Mother's Day Tea. In honor of our classroom moms, I would read "Love You Forever". Needless to say, there was not a dry eye in the classroom.

I, also, came across this poem and thought I would share it with you.

A Mother's Love
There are times when only a Mother's love Can understand our tears, Can soothe our disappoints And calm all of our fears.

There are times when only a Mother's love Can share the joy we feel When something we've dreamed about Quite suddenly is real.
There are times when only a Mother's faith Can help us on life's way And inspire in us the confidence We need from day to day.
For a Mother's heart and a Mother's faith And a Mother's steadfast love Were fashioned by the Angels And sent from God above.

Author Unknown

I pray this post is a blessing to all mothers.

Ode to Mothers Week: Prayer While Doing Laundry

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Mon, 07 May 2012 19:50:00 +0000

A mother's work is never done. There's always something to do whether it's cooking, taking the children to their little league practices, and so on. And let's not forget my all time favorite.......doing laundry......yeah right. Even though laundry is not exactly on the top of my to-do list, it is still has to get done. I must admit I have no problem with the washing and drying process of doing laundry. But, folding and putting it away is probably a different story.

With that being said, I came across this "Prayer While Doing Laundry" on Creighton University Online Ministries and thought this will be a great edition to my "Ode to Mother's Week". In addition, I think all mothers can relate to the beauty of doing laundry. This prayer can help you make the most of your laundry time. So, the next time you are up to your eyeballs in laundry keep this prayer in mind. I pray that it is a blessing to you.

Prayer While Doing Laundry
I find you so close to me right here, dear Lord. Surrounded by the dirt and scattered clothing of my family, I find this an ideal spot to pray with you. No one comes near here so it is quiet, and it gives me a chance to reflect on the many blessings of my life.As I pick up their clothing and sort it, I ask you to give each of them what is needed most in their lives.

I fill the washer with my husband's shirts and socks, and ask that you bless him as he wears them to work each day. Give him the grace to see that his work is holy and open his eyes to see the sacredness of each moment of life.

As I sort the tiny socks or the overalls of the children, I smile and remember how blessed I am to have them in my life.

I sort the larger teenage clothing and wonder at how fast these clothes have become larger sizes - and how quickly children grow up. I ask your help as I guide them through each new phase of their lives.

Give me a love that is endless, a heart that forgives them and the humility to ask for their forgiveness when that is right. Help me keep them from danger, and help me to let go and trust you when it is time to do that.
I try so hard to be perfect but lead me to remember that it is here in the smudged, disorganized and disheveled part of life that I find you the nearest.

Thank you, dearest Lord, for so much grace in my life!Amen.

Ode to Mothers Week

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Sun, 06 May 2012 21:26:00 +0000

Next Sunday is Mother's Day!! So, I will post all this week in honor of mothers. I am mother of three, 2 boys and a girl. Jonathan 16, Michael 13, and Ketirah 9. I wish I can say that raising children is a ray of sunshine every single day. Unfortunately, it's not because being a mother has its own challenges. However, the good always outweighs the bad. Sometimes, I think that God tests us through our children. He tests our patience. He tests our faith. He tests our parenting skills. In order for us to grow as mothers and be the mother that God designed us to be, in some way or another we must and have to be tested.

During our testing time, we must not grow weary or even question our ability to be a great mom. We must stand on God's word. We must seek Him for guidance and instruction on being the mother He has called us to be. Even as mothers, we have a divine purpose. And if you are not sure what that might be, God will show you in due time.

Trust in the LORD with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding;In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths. (Proverbs 3:5-6)

Celebrating Cinco de Mayo

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Sat, 05 May 2012 15:52:00 +0000

"Cinco de Mayo is a celebration held on May 5. It is celebrated nationwide in the United States and regionally in Mexico. The date is observed in the United States as a celebration of Mexican heritage and pride, and to commemorate the cause of freedom and democracy during the first years of the American Civil War." Quoted from Wikipedia.org

I didn't realize how many people celebrated Cinco de Mayo and how much they look forward to it. If everything goes according to my schedule today, I will be attending my first Cinco de Mayo party. Yay!!! In addition to having fun with my friends, I am excited about the food, because I love mexican food. The only thing I am not a big fan of is the refried beans.

However, I am definitely a fan of burritos, fajitas, and quesadillas. Yummmmmmm. All this talk about food is making me hungry. Besides, what's Cinco de Mayo without some delicious SALSA!!! I saw this salsa recipe on the Taste of Home website. It looks so divine and delish. Here's a photo of it taken by Taste of Home.

You can check out the recipe at Taste of Home

Even though you may not participate in Cinco de Mayo, I pray you have a great day and enjoy your weekend!!

May Flowers Are Here!!!

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Fri, 04 May 2012 21:57:00 +0000

You know that saying "April Showers Bring May Flowers". Well, April is gone and apparently its showers because we haven't seen any rain for about a week or so. Also, May is here and only 3 1/2 weeks left in the month. You can see signs of summer almost everywhere from the weather to the beach. If that is not enough, children will officially be out of school for the summer in , oh, about three weeks.

With everything, such as time, school, events, and so on, coming and going so fast, we must try to stop and take time to enjoy tourselves. Not only that, we must make the most of it!! May flowers are here. So, stop and smell them. Make plans for this summer and have fun, fun, and more fun. Plan a family outing. Go to the beach. Have a cookout. Do and enjoy life with your family and friends.

So, now that April is done. It's time to have some May fun!!!

Ten Ways To Love

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Tue, 24 Apr 2012 16:57:00 +0000

"And you shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength.' This [is] the first commandment. And the second, like [it, is] this: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' There is no other commandment greater than these." (Mark 12:30-31) "A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another." (John 13:34) "This is My commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you." (John 15:12)

From reading the scriptures above, it is very clear that love is the foundation of everything in the bible. Without love, we cannot go forth in ministry, fulfill our dreams, or even win souls for Christ. You cannot be an effective Christian without love. Because of unconditional love, God was able to provide a way for us have freedom from sin without having to sacrifice animals and such so that we can have eternal life. We are in union with Christ.

"For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life." (John 3:16)

When you read the book of John, you will see how Jesus was and is the epitome of love. Jesus worked miracles beyond miracles through the power of love. He sent a comforter to help and guide us along the way; So that, we won't feel alone. If that is not love, I don't know what is. Love attracts people to the kingdom of God. It is through love and kindness that God will draw people to us. I saw this picture on one of my sister in Christ facebook page and was inspire to write this post.

Remember, we can't do anything without love. We are representatives of Jesus. Since Jesus represents love, so should we. If we have not love, then we have nothing.

Blessings to you on this day!!

Where Did The Time Go Today!!??!!

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Mon, 23 Apr 2012 20:49:00 +0000

Today flew by like crazy. I managed to get a few things done here and there, which is a good thing. I do feel like I accomplished something today. One thing for sure no matter how fast time flies, God will never linger behind. He is always at a constant, never changing. He has our backs in the slow times and in the fast times.

Besides, as long as we are good stewards over our time throughout each day, we may not feel like time is wasted. Nonetheless, always be in encourage and praise and thank God for the time He has blessed you with each day.

Blessings to you all this week and then some!!!

Psalm Reading For Today

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Sat, 21 Apr 2012 19:43:00 +0000

Psalm 36:5-10
Your unfailing love, O LORD, is as vast as the heavens; your faithfulness reaches beyond the clouds. Your righteousness is like the mighty mountains, your justice like the ocean depths. You care for people and animals alike, O LORD.

How precious is your unfailing love, O God! All humanity finds shelter in the shadow of your wings. You feed them from the abundance of your own house, letting them drink from your river of delights. For you are the fountain of life, the light by which we see. Pour out your unfailing love on those who love you; give justice to those with honest hearts.

I pray that this psalm reading is a blessing to you in the name of Jesus. Remember that God's love is unfailing; And His faithfulness reaches beyond the clouds. Blessings to you on this day!! Have a great and blessed weekend!! =D

He Will Carry You!!

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Fri, 20 Apr 2012 15:34:00 +0000

I think this poem is a great reminder, especially for me, that no matter what we go through, Jesus will always be and is there. Even on my quest to get in shape and on other endeavors I have before Him, I have to remind myself that Jesus is there carrying me and give me the strength to press toward my goals. When embarking on a new journey, there are going to be highs and definitely lows. During those lose times, you may feel like throwing in the towel. You may even feel like that you have nothing else to give. You are all out of options.

But, I am in hear tell you that just like Jesus carried this man in His most troublesome times, He will do the same for you and me. Jesus is not partial. So, if you ever feel like you are alone, remember that you're not. Just stop, pause, and feel Jesus arms wrapped around you, comforting and carrying you along the way.

One thing is for sure Jesus will not only carry you; He will never leave nor forsake you.

P.S. He is definitely there to pick me up everytime I feel like I am going to fall flat on my face in Zumba class. :)

"And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Advocate (a Comforter, an Encourager), who will never leave you," (John 14:16).

"I will be your God throughout your lifetime— until your hair is white with age. I made you, and I will care for you. I will carry you along and save you," (Isaiah 46:4). (NLT)

Workin' It Out!!

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Thu, 19 Apr 2012 17:47:00 +0000

In one of my posts, I announced that I was getting into shape by doing Zumba. I am proud to say that Friday will make it two weeks for me doing.....ZUMBA!! Woo Whoo!! Zumba works every muscle in your body. I think I discovered muscles that I didn't realize I had. I do it for an hour each day. After I finished each class, I have this sense of accomplishment, which feels great by the way.

To change things up, I have decided to incorporat water aerobics at least 2-3 times a week. I love getting in the water. Another plus for me is that the pool at the gym is an indoor pool. Yay!! From there, I will look into other classes that may peak my interest. I want my workouts to be fun and exciting. I don't want it to feel like a chore. Chores are not my cup of tea.

There are so many styles and methods for exercising. There is something for everyone. If you like to dance, then Zumba is just for you. If you are very competitive, there is an exercise program for that. You just have to find out what best suits your needs and weight loss goal. You just have to start somewhere.

Hopefully, when I do my weigh in and check my measurements, I will like what I see.

So until then.....try not to be like this lady below :)

And that's why I don't wear leotards!!! =D

Serenity Prayer

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Thu, 19 Apr 2012 01:43:00 +0000

It took me a very long time to comprehend this prayer. I will read it here and there on posters, coffee mugs, home decor pictures, websites, and etc. But I would never pay any attention to it, because (in my opinion) it just didn't seem like a sound doctrine prayer.

Then one day I heard someone recite it on TV and it sort of clicked in my brain. I had an epiphany. I realize that there are some things I cannot change. I cannot change my past (though I sometimes wish). I cannot change where I from. I cannot change the color skin not that I would want to or anything. But if wanted to, it's not like I can. Bottom line, no matter how hard we may try, there are just some things we cannot change. Nonetheless, we have to accept that fact.

Once you accept that, then you can begin to move forward with the plans God has for you. God cannot use or prepare you for future plans, if you are still dwelling in the past wishing that you can change a few things. This is where you should pray for wisdom from God. This wisdom will help you decipher from the things you can change; And the things you cannot change. Because once you become wise enough to know the difference between the two, you will not waste time or energy on things you cannot change. Rather than, you will use them toward praying to God for strength so that you can begin the process of changing the things that you can.

This is when the work in progress begins. We are all works in progress. However, it's a free will choice to decide if we want the work that God wants to do in us to digress or progress. If you want the work that God wants to do in you to progress, in the name of Jesus and by the power of the Holy Spirit, it will. It will prevail in Jesus' name.

So don't fret. The change that needs to take place in you will happen, but not overnight. Just always remember to stay steadfast and don't going weary in doing good.

Posting This Week :)

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Tue, 17 Apr 2012 11:45:00 +0000

Hello there!!

I will be posting very soon!! I am working on few that God has given me and I want to make sure I listen to what God is saying. I am expecting to have it all together by the end of the week.

Until then.....I leave you with a picture I took. I call it "Sunset in Lake Murray". **SMOOCHES!!**

Enjoy the rest of the day and week!!

Blessings to you!!

Getting in Shape (I'm working on it!)

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Wed, 11 Apr 2012 20:09:00 +0000

I am challenging myself to get fit. Thats right...you heard me. I think it's time for me to get in shape. I have excercised plenty throughout the years. However, I never kept up with it; So, I did'nt lose any weight worth mentioning. I know this post is like preaching to the choir for some of you. That's because many of us are struggling with our weight. It can be anything from those extra 15, 30, 100 pounds. Bottomline is, we want to get rid of it. And, we should or at least try.

To kick off my journey to lose weight and tone my body, I started taking Zumba classes. Depending on your Zumba workout, you will burn between 500 - 1000 calories per hour. The more intense your workout is the more calories your burn. My class is medium to high. So on an average, I burn about 800 calories.

Now let me tell you something. I have never ever considered myself a bonafide dancer. However, I was able to get my dance on and stay on beat to whatever song was playing. In other words, I had rhythm. Having said that, Zumba makes me feel like I have no rhythm and that I am paralyzed in my hips. But, whats so crazy is that....I LOVE IT!!! Though it feels like every muscle is hurting in my body, I am proud of myself. I am setting short term goals for my weight loss. These are my baby steps. Besides, I do feel my hips loosening up. :)

We are supposed to be good stewards over our bodies. It is where Holy Spirit lives. When God decides to use me for a mission big or small, I have to make sure my body is in shape. I want to be ready to go wherever He sends. I don't my health or weight to be an hindrance.

"Or do you not know that your body is the temple

of the Holy Spirit [who is] in you, whom you have from God,

and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price;

therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's."

(1 Corinthians 6:19-20)

Hopefully, I can keep you updated on my progress. I pray for all of you who have struggle with the idea of losing weight, try it. You have nothing to lose but weight. Even though I tried many times, I refuse to give up. Because my pity party, is not a remedy for weight loss. Putting my faith into action is a great cure. Zumba is the action I am taking right now. Then, I will go from there.

I will be happy to hear what you are doing to get and keep in shape!! Please share!!

What An Awesome Week!!!

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Tue, 10 Apr 2012 20:34:00 +0000

I pray and hope everyone had a wonderful and glorious Easter.

Last week, my children were on spring break. It was pretty hard trying to post, when we had such an adventurous week planned. Now, that the kids are back in school maybe I can get back on schedule with posting. I enjoy sharing with y'all as well as you sharing your thoughts with me.

My children really, really enjoyed their spring break, which I am glad. The first couple of days were about relaxing and sleeping in late. It was definitely needed. Then, we went on nature walks just to get a little bit of exercise. On Thursday, my children spent time with their grandmother dying eggs and making an Easter Basket. I don't know who had more fun my children or my mom. Of course, we laughed and laughed until our bodies hurt. Laughter is great for the soul. ;)

On Friday and Saturday, we were Lake Murray bound. My children fished and fished until they couldn't fish anymore. They managed to catch 10 fishes. By the way, Ketirah my 9 year old daughter caught most of them. Girl Power!! Woo Whoo!!

For our grand finale and the cherry on top of what we called one of our best week ever, we got our praise on in the name of Jesus. We praised and worshiped as well as celebrated the resurrection of Jesus. It was awesome!!! Then we ate a scrumptuous dinner (cooked by yours truly) and relaxed the rest of the evening. I mean with all of that, who can ask for anything more. It's truly a blessing and I thank God for blessing me with such a great family!!

Here are a few pictures of our trip to Lake Murray in this mini slide show. I will upload more pics soon!! Blessings to you!!

Facing Your Demons!!

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Thu, 29 Mar 2012 21:15:00 +0000

Ignore.

Avoid.

Look the other way.

Sweep under the rug.

Bury it really deep in an unmark grave.

These are some things we do when we have an issue or two that need to be dealt with. Sometimes, it doesn't even matter if it's a small issue or a big one. Because, if it causes some sort of strife and/or hinder you from developing a close relationship with God and people in general, then you need to face it. Not facing your demons do more harm than good. Ignoring them do not make them go away or disappear in an instant. Though it would be nice, we cannot wave a magic wand and make it vanish into thin air.

I know that facing your demons is not easy at all. It's down right scary. Depending on the circumstances, you have to almost take baby steps in order to build up enough courage to do what needs to be done. However, at least you are making an effort and you are one step closer to conquering your fear. Another thing is that you are not exactly sure of what the outcome is going to be. In addition, you are not sure if you even want to find out. For that reason, it seems so much easier to tuck your issues away in their own little corner. Unfortunately, that's the worst thing you can do.

Issues are little demons that prey on your spiritual well being. They try to suck the very life from your spirit-man, while trying to pull you further and further from God. These little demons are known as strongholds. Strongholds are lies where you can be in a place of personal bondage and oppose God's will. Following each lie, is fear, which the devil uses to kill, steal, and destroy as well as distort your faith in God. But, no matter how much he tries the devil cannot win. We have victory and power in the name of Jesus.

It's that same power that we are going to use to face our demons and rebuke them in the name of Jesus. We should lay fear aside, step out in faith, and deal with our issues. My friend/sister, Tilease, said it best - "Deal with the issues that are holding you back from reaching your full potential."

I fully understand that it's probably easier said than done; And some issues are not going to resolve overnight. However it's a process. We all have issues that need to be dealt with. In other words, we are all a work in progress. It's part of growing in Godliness.

I encourage you this day to face your demons. Examine yourself and deal with any unresolve issues. Don't ignore them. Take authority over them by the power of the blood and in the name of Jesus. And remember that you are not defeated, but you are more than a conqueror and have the victory in Jesus' name. Amen.

Scripture References:
"For the weapons of our warfare [are] not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ," (1 Corinthians 10:4-5)

"Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us." (Romans 8:37)

"The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly." (John 10:10)

"For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them," (Ephesians 2:10)

"Therefore submit to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you. Draw near to God and He will draw near to you..." (James 4:7-8)

Job 22:28

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Wed, 28 Mar 2012 20:24:00 +0000

Jesus Is All We Need

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Tue, 27 Mar 2012 20:27:00 +0000

Have you ever found yourself in a middle of a situation where do you not know if you are coming or going? And the more you try to "fix the problem" yourself, the worst it gets. Many times you probably searched and searched for a solution, but was not quite sure what you need or want. You can't exactly put your finger on it. However, you will know the very minute you come across it. (So, you think.)

Does this sound familiar? It does for me. Needless to say, once every thing is basically said and done (especially after I do more harm than good) I end up realizing that Jesus was all I needed from the beginning. And He is all I need now.

"When we are in a
situation where Jesus is all we have, we soon discover He is all we really need."
~ Gigi Graham Tchividjian

It's a matter of letting go of the problem, giving it completely to Him, and letting God work it out for the good. No matter what you may go through in life, God will take care of you. Trust Him and cast every burden/care on Him.

Trust in the LORD with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths. (Proverb 3:5-6)

Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you. (1 Peter 5:6-7)

It's Time For A Prune Up!!

noreply@blogger.com (Toia) — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 19:38:00 +0000

Around this time, you see so many flower gardens planted throughout the tri-county area of South Carolina. They are full of color and life. Needless to say, flowers don't grow and look so beautiful without putting a lot of work into it. It's essential that you take the necessary steps to maintain the health and beauty of a garden. Some steps include watering the garden, making sure it's expose to the right amount of sunlight and even giving it a whole lot of love.

In addition to all of those steps, you must prune your garden. It's va ital step that must be taken in order to guarantee a healthy, beautiful, and quality garden.

How do you define pruning?

Pruning is a horticultural practice involving the selective removal of parts of a plant, such as branches, buds, or roots. Reasons to prune plants include deadwood removal, shaping (by controlling or directing growth), improving or maintaining health, reducing risk from falling branches, preparing nursery specimens for transplanting, and both harvesting and increasing the yield or quality of flowers and fruits. The practice entails targeted removal of diseased, damaged, dead, non-productive, structurally unsound, or otherwise unwanted tissue from crop and landscape plants. (Read more about pruning at Wikipedia.org)

In other words, in order to maintain and improve the health of your garden, you must remove the dead parts and shape it up by contolling or directing its growth. Otherwise, flowers in your garden will fall away, become damaged and/or unproductive, and even die. WOW!!

The same thing applies to us when it comes to growing up in Christ. A pruning process must take place. In order to bear spiritual fruit and be productive in the Kingdom of God, we must allow our hearts to be pruned. We must allow God by the power of the Holy Spirit and in the name of Jesus remove all diseased, damaged, and dead areas in our life. Otherwise, we will not grow in Christ and become stagnated. As a result, we will become uneffective Christians with no power, no purpose, and no spiritual life. Double WOW!!

"I am the true vine, and My Father is the vinedresser. Every branch in Me that does not bear fruit He takes away; and every branch that bears fruit He prunes, that it may bear more fruit. You are already clean because of the word which I have spoken to you. Abide in Me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in Me," (John 15:1-4).

"I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing. If anyone does not abide in Me, he is cast out as a branch and is withered; and they gather them and throw them into the fire, and they are burned. If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, you will ask what you desire, and it shall be done for you. By this My Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit; so you will be My disciples," (John 15:5-8)