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	<title>Diane Gottsman, Etiquette Expert, Business Etiquette Speaker, Founder Protocol School of Texas</title>
	
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		<title>Roommate Etiquette for the Young Professional</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 May 2012 15:04:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You’ve recently graduated from college and landed your first job, but you still find that your bills exceed your paycheck. Getting a roommate is a great way to help defray costs. But, before you sign on the dotted line, think carefully about the kind of roommate you would like to attract and then take steps [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><a href="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/Roommates1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-2401" title="Roommate Etiquette for the Young Professional" src="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/Roommates1-300x199.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="199" /></a>You’ve recently graduated from college and landed your first job, but you still find that your bills exceed your paycheck. Getting a roommate is a great way to help defray costs. But, before you sign on the dotted line, think carefully about the kind of roommate you would like to attract and then take steps to find the perfect fit.</p>
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<li><strong>Make a list</strong>. Take the time to write down the qualities that you can live with and those you can’t endure. This is a good first step to fine tuning your search for your perfect roommate.</li>
<li><strong>Choose your roommate with care</strong>. Just because you enjoy a person’s company doesn’t mean he or she is a fit for a roommate. It is a good idea NOT to share living space with a friend because you want to be able to separate business from pleasure. There will be times you will disagree, and being your best friend’s roommate may make it difficult to draw the line when you have to point out differences or grievances. If you are planning to room with a stranger, don’t hesitate to do your homework first. Google, check social media sites, ask direct and pointed questions and even ask for references. Best case scenario is to avoid strangers.</li>
<li><strong>Talk about the bills. </strong>Have a candid discussion about how the bills will be divided. Decide how you will divide groceries, toiletries and household items.  If there’s only one carport and no garage, who will park in the street or back alley?  Who will maintain the lawn if you live in a house or condo?  Will you expect pets? Who is responsible for the security deposit? Whose name will the water and electric bill be under?</li>
<li><strong>Establish “house rules” and stick to them.</strong>  Hot topics you’ll want to cover include cleaning duties (including the bathroom, refrigerator, kitchen, shared spaces, etc.), and visitors.  Are you are private person, not interested in people coming and going in your residence or do you like to have one long party, starting on Friday night and lasting until the wee hours of the morning on Monday? Will you be comfortable with your roommate’s girlfriend or boyfriend staying over while you walk around in your pj’s?</li>
<li><strong>Discuss schedules</strong>.  Who needs to be where, when? If you’ll be sharing a bathroom, talk about what time you both need to be out of the door and into the office each day and create a schedule that works for both of your busy schedules.</li>
<li><strong>Enjoy the benefits.</strong>  Choosing to have a roommate may provide you with a small but valuable entertainment budget.  Use those dollars wisely to travel, visit new restaurants, attend festivals or other outdoor events, and simply enjoy life on your weekends off.  Remember to arrive refreshed and recharged to the office on Monday morning!</li>
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<p>Best of luck in your new living arrangements and career,</p>
<p><em>Diane</em></p>
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		<title>Ways to Honor a Soldier This Memorial Day</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 12:41:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Diane</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Holiday Etiquette]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you are planning on hosting a Memorial Day celebration, cook-out or pool party, there are many creative ways to do something special for those who are serving our country. Refer to my tips below for a few Memorial Day activities that will make a lasting impact long after the day has come to an end. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><a href="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/memorial-day-party-etiquette.png"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-2396" title="Memorial Day Party Etiquette" src="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/memorial-day-party-etiquette.png" alt="" width="237" height="233" /></a>If you are planning on hosting a Memorial Day celebration, cook-out or pool party, there are many creative ways to do something special for those who are serving our country. Refer to my tips below for a few Memorial Day activities that will make a lasting impact long after the day has come to an end.</p>
<p>1. <strong>Decorate and assemble a care package together.</strong> Special handwritten cards or pictures from the children add a loving touch. Added bonus: the U.S. Postal service will supply you with packaging supplies free of charge for military-bound items. You may have to wait several days for your supplies to arrive, so order now through the website or service number and you’ll be able to send all your party souvenirs to the troops. (<a href="http://www.give2thetroops.org/" target="_blank">http://www.give2thetroops.org/</a>)</p>
<p>2. <strong>Pass the postcards.</strong> Have a variety of patriotic postcards and pens handy; you can even offer the themed pens as party favors. Ask guests to write a short note and the kids to draw a cute picture, but avoid confetti and glitter in the cards. Include a return address if you would like—most service members will write back! Let guests know you&#8217;ll add the stamp and mail them the next day. Organizations like <a href="http://AMillionThanks.org" target="_blank">AMillionThanks.org</a> allow you to drop off bundles of letters &#8211; they mail for you (<a href="http://www.amillionthanks.org/send-letter-guidelines-get-started" target="_blank">http://www.amillionthanks.org/send-letter-guidelines-get-started</a>).</p>
<p>3. <strong>Books for soldiers.</strong> Encourage guests to bring a book (new or used) to the gathering. Box them up and send along to a deserving troop. You can also visit websites like <a href="http://booksforsoldiers.com/" target="_blank">http://booksforsoldiers.com/</a> where some soldiers request specific titles. Paperback is recommended because it is easier to carry.</p>
<p>4. <strong>Decorate patriotic cookies together.</strong> Troops love opening up care packages with homemade sweets and notes, and it makes a great activity during any party. Since it may take weeks for your cookie package to arrive overseas, be sure to bake cookies that will travel well, not melt, and still be fresh when they arrive. Avoid chocolate (as it melts) and try to package your cookies by wrapping them individually. Check mailing regulations before sending any perishable goods to ensure that what you are shipping is allowed. No time to bake? Some bakeries even allow you to order cookie baskets online made especially for troops.<strong></p>
<p></strong>5.  <strong>Invite a military family to join the party.</strong> Does a military family attend your church or place of worship? Or, do you work alongside a military spouse or member of the Reserves? Invite a military family to your Memorial Day party.   You’ll cultivate new friendships <em>and</em> give the family a well-deserved break!</p>
<p>6. <strong>Ask guests to bring old cell phones to the party</strong>. Donate them to &#8220;Cell Phones for Soldiers.&#8221; All the donated phones are sold to a recycling partner. The money received from recycling cell phones goes towards purchasing calling cards and other communication tools for the U.S. military. The organization asks that you mail cell phones only, not batteries, chargers or accessories. The actual phones are not sent, but used to earn cash for calls. (<a href="http://www.cellphonesforsoldiers.com/index.php" target="_blank">http://www.cellphonesforsoldiers.com/index.php</a>)</p>
<p>Your thoughtfulness this Memorial Day will leave you and your party guests feeling patriotic and grateful!<strong></p>
<p><em>~ Diane</em></strong></p>
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		<title>Pulling Together a Polished Interview Look</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 17:21:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Diane</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Business Etiquette]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[While it’s true, “You can’t judge a book by its cover,” in business it’s even more accurate to say “Every detail counts.” Wearing an inappropriate outfit to a job interview will hinder your chances of making the impression you truly deserve.  The rules for what is appropriate when you are applying for a job at [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>While it’s true, “You can’t judge a book by its cover,” in business it’s even more accurate to say “Every detail counts.” Wearing an inappropriate outfit to a job interview will hinder your chances of making the impression you truly deserve.  The rules for what is appropriate when you are applying for a job at the law firm may not dazzle the hiring team at the ad agency. I asked some industry leaders to give me their view and I&#8217;m sharing their thoughts below:</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/1tory_twitter3.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2332" title="1tory_twitter3" src="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/1tory_twitter3.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="100" /></a>Tory Johnson</strong> (<a href="http://twitter.com/#%21/toryjohnson">@ToryJohnson</a>) of <a href="http://womenforhire.com/">Women for Hire</a>:<br />
“Something that shows their style while being reflective of the industry and professionalism&#8230;nothing boring, bland or basic.”</p>
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<p><strong><a href="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/8Thomas-Farley.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2334" title="8Thomas-Farley" src="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/8Thomas-Farley.jpg" alt="" width="93" height="100" /></a>Thomas P. Farley</strong> (<a href="https://twitter.com/#%21/mistermanners">@MisterManners</a>) of <a href="http://www.whatmannersmost.com" target="_blank">What Manners Most</a> and <a href="http://www.newyorkinsider.tv" target="_blank">New York Insider TV</a>:<br />
“I&#8217;m a big believer in dressing to impress. As a member of the media, first as an editor for <em>Town &amp; Country</em> magazine and now, as a <a href="http://www.whatmannersmost.com" target="_blank">manners expert </a>and<a href="http://www.newyorkinsider.tv" target="_blank"> red-carpet reporter</a>, I appreciate an ensemble that demonstrates confidence and flair. Even if the job-seeker is just starting out and doesn&#8217;t have a big wardrobe budget, it&#8217;s possible to send the right message with a great haircut, thoughtful accessories and an outfit that&#8217;s well-tailored. Equally important is good grooming. If a job-seeker shows up in a wrinkled shirt or with a mess of a manicure, my first thought is that the individual didn&#8217;t put much time into preparing for the interview. Sartorial finesse is no guarantee of a prospective hire&#8217;s job performance, but to me, it certainly communicates consideration and attention to detail&#8211;essential traits for anyone on my team.”</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/3Erica_Diamond.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-2336 alignleft" title="3Erica_Diamond" src="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/3Erica_Diamond.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="100" /></a>Erica Diamond</strong> <a href="http://www.twitter.com/womenonthefence">(@WomenOnTheFence</a>) of <a href="http://womenonthefence.com/">Women On The Fence</a>:<br />
“It always depends on the job &#8211; in a corporate environment, a nice pencil skirt, heels and a blouse (with blazer) or dress with a blazer. If more of a relaxed environment, black pants and a blouse would work. At the end of the day, it&#8217;s more about YOU and less about your clothes.”</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/2Chanel-Dror.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-2333 alignleft" title="2Chanel-Dror" src="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/2Chanel-Dror.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="100" /></a>Chanel Dror</strong> (<a href="http://www.twitter.com/camillestyles">@CamilleStyles</a>) of <a href="http://www.camillestyles.com/">Camille Styles</a>:<br />
“Being that we&#8217;re a creative company based in the ultra-casual Austin, TX, we never expect potential employees to dress in business attire to an interview. And since the Camille Styles brand is so focused on inspiring readers to infuse style and personality into every aspect of their lives, we really look for interviewees&#8217; outfits to reflect their personal style and to display a certain level of effort and creativity. And of course, there&#8217;s nothing we love more than meeting an applicant who&#8217;s wearing a big smile and positive attitude!”</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/4heatherhuhman-casual-bw-twitter.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-2335 alignleft" title="4heatherhuhman-casual-bw-twitter" src="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/4heatherhuhman-casual-bw-twitter.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="100" /></a>Heather Huhman</strong> (<a href="http://twitter.com/#%21/heatherhuhman">@HeatherHuhman</a>) of <a href="http://www.comerecommended.com/" target="_blank">Come Recommended</a>:<br />
“The ideal job candidate would wear a stylish, yet classic, suit for their interview. It should be in a neutral color, such as navy, black, or grey. The key is getting the suit tailored to your body so that it fits perfectly and you aren&#8217;t fidgeting with it during the interview. Adding a pop of color with your suit, such as a yellow or blue top, sends a message of confidence and show some personality. Accessories, such as a scarf, nice bag, or jewelry, can also help give your outfit some flair.”</p>
<p><a href="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/7JohnD.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2338" title="7JohnD" src="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/7JohnD.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="107" /></a><strong>John J.Daly, Jr.</strong> (<a href="http://www.twitter.com/johnjdalyjr">@JohnJDalyJr</a>) of <a href="http://www.thekeyclassblog.com/">The Key Class</a>:<br />
“Neat, professional, simple but elegant.”</p>
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<p><strong><a href="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/6nan.jpg"><img class="alignleft" title="6nan" src="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/6nan.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="100" /></a>Nan S. Russell</strong> (<a href="http://www.twitter.com/nan_russell">@Nan_Russell</a>), <a href="http://www.nanrussell.com/">Author and Professional Speaker</a>:<br />
“I’d be impressed by a candidate who came to an interview in attire that was at least one level above the position they were applying for, who had studied the company culture enough to know what that ‘looked like,’ and who telegraphed through their attire both confidence and business savvy. In general, I find that a candidate can’t go wrong erring on the side of conservative, business attire no matter what position they’re seeking. When in I doubt I recommend dressing-up, not down. I’ve interviewed thousands of candidates, and what you choose to wear to an interview speaks volumes before you ever do.”</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/5Noelle-Cellini.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-2339 alignleft" title="5Noelle Cellini" src="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/5Noelle-Cellini.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="107" /></a></strong><strong>Noelle Cellini</strong> (<a href="http://www.twitter.com/noellecellini">@NoelleCellini</a>) of <a href="http://www.mybest-footforward.com/">My Best Foot Forward</a>:<br />
“I advise men not to wear the blue shirt! Everyone wears it &#8211; not memorable! Opt for brown shoes &#8211; much more sophisticated!“</p>
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<p>I hope the tips above have inspired you to step into your closet and pull together that winning interview look. <a href="http://www.twitter.com/dianegottsman">Tweet</a> or <a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/San-Antonio-TX/Protocol-School-Of-Texas-Diane-Gottsman/374798738690?v=wall">Facebook</a> us with a photo of yourself in your interview “best” outfit!</p>
<p>Professionally and Fashionably Yours,</p>
<p><strong><em>Diane</em></strong></p>
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		<title>Ten Etiquette Tips for Summer Internship Success</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 May 2012 11:52:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Congratulations on landing your dream summer internship. You are already well aware that a summer internship can help you garner valuable work experience and make an impression on those who may want to hire you full-time after graduation. Here are ten summer internship etiquette tips to assist you in making the most of your time: 1. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><a href="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/internship.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-2322" title="Summer Internship Etiquette" src="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/internship-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a>Congratulations on landing your dream summer internship. You are already well aware that a summer internship can help you garner valuable work experience <em>and </em>make an impression on those who may want to hire you full-time after graduation. Here are ten summer internship etiquette tips to assist you in making the most of your time:</p>
<p>1. <strong>Be prepared to arrive on time and stay late</strong>. If there is a project that<br />
needs attention, you will make a more positive impression if you are more<br />
interested in the outcome of the project than you are making it home in time<br />
to watch the latest episode of <em>The Bachelorette</em>. Consistently showing up when you are<br />
supposed to and leaving when the job is complete is an indicator of someone who will be a good future employee.</p>
<p>2. <strong>Don&#8217;t hesitate to ask questions</strong>. You aren&#8217;t expected to know or<br />
understand the nuances of your new work environment right away. Listen<br />
carefully, take notes and ask thoughtful questions in order to understand<br />
the company&#8217;s procedures.</p>
<p>3. <strong>Dress the part</strong>. You are judged by your appearance. Take the extra time in<br />
the morning to dress your best, even if you only have  a few key pieces. Get<br />
creative and wear them in different ways throughout the work week. Showing<br />
up sloppy, wrinkled or too casual sends the message that you don&#8217;t take your<br />
internship seriously.</p>
<p>4. <strong>Be a self-starter</strong>.  As valuable as interns may be for a company, it can<br />
sometimes be challenging for busy executives to set aside the time to direct<br />
you with a list of daily or weekly tasks. Instead of acting bored or feeling<br />
discouraged, find something productive to do. Strategize about a new social<br />
media approach or advertising campaign that may benefit the company.  Do the<br />
research, create the presentation and schedule a time to share it with the<br />
appropriate staff member(s). They may just love it!</p>
<p>5. <strong>Put your cell phone away</strong>. Texting and taking personal calls during the work<br />
day will give the appearance that you are only biding your time until you can check<br />
&#8220;summer internship&#8221; off of your to do list. Take your job personally and<br />
limit your cell phone use to your lunch break or for emergencies only.</p>
<p>6. <strong>Network within the office</strong>. Make a positive impression on every staff<br />
member you encounter. Say good morning to people who work in other<br />
departments, mingle with your own coworkers and show a genuine interest in<br />
getting to know the people you are around during the work day. You<br />
never know &#8211; one of the team members may end up being your future supervisor. At the<br />
very least, they may be able to provide you with a good recommendation.</p>
<p>7. <strong>Stay above the fray</strong>. There will always be someone who is unhappy<br />
with his or her job or doesn&#8217;t like the boss or fellow colleagues. Make every<br />
effort to associate with those that have a positive attitude and are<br />
respected by their corporate team. An office gossip generally does not have<br />
the best reputation within the company &#8211; steer clear.</p>
<p>8. <strong>Take a close look at your vocabulary</strong>. The less you use the words &#8220;like&#8221;,<br />
&#8220;uhm&#8221; and &#8220;dude&#8221; at the office, the more seriously your colleagues will take<br />
you. Make an effort to eliminate any words that will send the message of<br />
young or immature.</p>
<p>9.  <strong>Mind your email Ps and Qs</strong>.  Speaking of your vocabulary, compose every email as if it will be read by the CEO of the company.  No slang, always professional and courteous.  Respond to emails in a timely manner (within a business day).</p>
<p>10. <strong>Stay in touch</strong>. After your internship has ended, continue to keep in<br />
contact. If you continue to build a relationship with your boss and<br />
coworkers, you will probably be the first person they think of when an<br />
opening comes up in the company.</p>
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		<title>To My Children This Mother’s Day</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2012 13:42:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Diane</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I often wonder what my children will remember most about their childhood when they are all grown-up (one already is), and on occasion have asked each of them to share a special memory. I would love to say that their responses are joyful and incredibly tear jerking &#8211; but in reality I am greeted with [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><a href="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/blogpic.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-2314" title="two of my children" src="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/blogpic-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>I often wonder what my children will remember most about their childhood when they are all grown-up (one already is), and on occasion have asked each of them to share a special memory. I would love to say that their responses are joyful and incredibly tear jerking &#8211; but in reality I am greeted with a shrug, a little eye roll and some random experience that I wasn&#8217;t even a part of.</p>
<p>When my oldest daughter (now married herself) was younger, I decided to implement some family traditions that she could look back upon with fond memories. I would make a special tea every fall and a special cookie every Christmas with the sole intention of instilling a strong &#8220;family tradition.&#8221; Not long ago, someone asked her to share one of her favorite family memories (she would definitely have two &#8211; the special tea and cookies). She responded without a blink of an eye, &#8220;Nope, I really can&#8217;t think of one off the top of my head.&#8221; Seriously Dana!?!</p>
<p>So, to that end, I will inject a little mother&#8217;s guilt to get the ball rolling this Mother&#8217;s Day:</p>
<p><strong>To my eldest daughter, Dana</strong>- When you told me you were going to quit teaching to find another job, I almost dropped my latte. I secretly thought you were crazy and worried that you were making the biggest mistake of your life, but my psychology classes did not go to waste. I bit my tongue and suffered in silence as I helped you update your resume and buy clothes that were &#8220;corporate&#8221; rather than &#8220;kid friendly.&#8221;  You now have a job that you LOVE and I have seen you grow by leaps and bounds.  You are strong and tough, but also sweet and caring.</p>
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<p>I would appreciate it if this year, when I go around the table and ask about a special moment (that preferably includes me), you don&#8217;t mention the time I nicked your little ear while trying to save a few dollars on a haircut. You were 4 years old and barely cried, and after the bleeding stopped you didn&#8217;t seem to be in too much pain. In case you are carrying an emotional scar about that unfortunate accident, I&#8217;m sorry! (I&#8217;ve said it before but I&#8217;m sure you have forgotten that too!) Here&#8217;s a thought…let&#8217;s not mention that incident anymore, thanks. You are such a beautiful daughter and I can&#8217;t tell you how much I appreciate your efforts to come &#8220;home&#8221; even though you are married and have other obligations.  You are a truly wonderful daughter.</p>
<p><strong>Jon</strong> &#8211; My favorite thing you ever said when you were younger was, &#8220;What you been doing mom?&#8221; You were the cutest boy in my entire world and always will be. I could never imagine you not running up to hug me or hang on me until you almost made me fall down, but boys turn into teens and at age 15, I&#8217;m grateful for an occasional smile and a &#8220;How&#8217;s it going Mom?&#8221; You still are the cutest boy in my entire world and I am so proud of you for the young man you have become. You are nothing if not a fine young man who daily amazes me with your incredible smile, your commitment to your friends, your school work ethic and your ability to make the right decisions. I want you to excel, but I also hope you fail &#8211; at least a few times. I firmly believe that your failures will guide you towards your greatest successes.</p>
<p>When dad asks you to say something endearing about me at the dinner table this Mother&#8217;s Day, PLEASE don&#8217;t mention AGAIN that I occasionally misuse the words &#8220;good&#8221; and &#8220;well.&#8221; We have all heard you and I would appreciate it if you could work on something else original that bugs you about me. Thank you in advance for your consideration. You are my cutest son.</p>
<p><strong>Lulu</strong> &#8211; You are my little red bird and my miracle child. It was a struggle getting you here and a bigger struggle keeping you here those first few months, but you are a fighter with a heavenly spirit. I thank God every day for you. I know you would much prefer I don&#8217;t dance in front of your friends, do the wave when I get happy, play on your Wii or breath in your direction at the school dances, but you are stuck with me and you&#8217;ll get used to it. It&#8217;s unfortunate you grew out of my shoe size before you could borrow my shoes for the high school dances in a few years, because if I do say so myself, I have a great selection. Tough break!</p>
<p>Lu, when it&#8217;s your turn to say something nice or funny about me this Mother&#8217;s Day, I beg of you to please NOT pull out any ridiculous pictures of me giving birth to you. Oh my gosh, who took those horrible pictures? We know who&#8230; I have carefully preselected some pictures that are &#8220;mother approved&#8221; if you are interested in my assistance. No pajamas, bad hair days or body parts! You are as sweet as a sugar cube most of the time, but this almost-thirteen-year-old<em> </em>thing is making me a little weird. I guess you have to grow up sometime. <img src='http://dianegottsman.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>This Mother&#8217;s Day, I want to thank my kids for the opportunity to be a part of their lives.  We are all given opportunities and sometimes we take advantage of them, other times we botch them up disastrously &#8211; that&#8217;s where the real lessons come from.  Moms do the best they can, often under very difficult circumstances. I applaud the single moms who are raising their kids on their own, trying to work, make school functions, keep up with their friends and juggle life. Very few of us have had a perfect childhood, so if you are still harboring ill will about something your mom did or didn&#8217;t do when you were young…get over it.</p>
<p>So Dana, Ya and Lu, if anyone asks you what the most important thing your mother has ever taught you has been, please make sure to say something deep and meaningful, like &#8220;She taught me to never give up…&#8221; or, &#8220;She always encouraged me to listen to my intuition.&#8221; (BTW, you really should). But, what I <em>really</em> want you to remember is that you should always add cumin to your Mexican food dishes, and that Knorr chicken bouillon always makes everything taste better. Also, don&#8217;t wear shoes that make your feet look big, and turn off the &amp;%*# television set while you are eating breakfast.</p>
<p>I may not be a perfect mom, but I love you with a perfect love. If you remember nothing else, remember that I did the best I knew how to do. The greatest job I have ever had is being your mom. The second greatest is being a daughter to a great mom. Happy Mother&#8217;s Day.</p>
<p>P.S. Dana, you REALLY have got to let go of that whole ear nick story! xoxox</p>
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		<title>Stepmother Etiquette on Mother’s Day</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2012 14:28:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Diane</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[General Etiquette]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Mother&#8217;s Day is a day of love and recognition for the women who have shaped our lives. For many of us, that includes stepmothers. Some people have a relationship with their stepmother that is as warm as any biological bond. For others, the relationship is more complicated, with personality differences and conflicting loyalties.  It is [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><a href="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/mothers-day-etiquette.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-2310" title="Mother's Day Etiquette, Stepmother Etiquette for Mother's Day" src="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/mothers-day-etiquette-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a>Mother&#8217;s Day is a day of love and recognition for the women who have shaped our lives. For many of us, that includes stepmothers.</p>
<p>Some people have a relationship with their stepmother that is as warm as any biological bond. For others, the relationship is more complicated, with personality differences and conflicting loyalties.  It is my hope that you are experiencing the former than the latter.</p>
<p>Whatever your relationship with your stepmother may be, here are some thoughts to guide your actions this Mother&#8217;s Day:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Stepmothers count.</strong> If you have any form of a decent relationship with your stepmother, do remember to acknowledge her on Mother&#8217;s Day. Being a stepmother is a challenging role under the best of circumstances. They often help raise and mold your most valued possessions – your own children.</li>
<li><strong>Make it a Girls Day!</strong> Consider scheduling a spa day or other fun adventure with your stepmom as an alternate to a standard greeting card.  This could be a great way to build your new relationship or enhance an already strong one.</li>
<li><strong>A positive letter or heartfelt card can be valuable beyond measure. </strong>It’s always nice to feel valued and appreciated, especially on a day that’s created especially for mom.</li>
<li><strong>Include the kids.</strong>  Even if you don’t share a strong bond with your stepmom, your children may, and will benefit from the example you set. Make an effort to get the kids involved in selecting a present or making a card that will bring a smile to their “Nana’s” (stepmom’s) face.</li>
<li><strong>Think about Dad.</strong>  Nurturing your relationship with your stepmom will make your dad proud.  After all, what little girl of any age doesn’t want her father to be proud of her?  There is very little downside to doing the right thing and making a point to brighten someone else’s special day.</li>
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<p><strong>Happy Mother’s Day! </strong></p>
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		<title>Graduation Etiquette: What and How Much to Gift?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 18:34:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Diane</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Whether you receive an announcement or invitation from a high school senior or a college grad, there are always questions as to what and how much to give.  First and foremost, every graduation invitation does not require a gift.  You will want to use your best judgment when making the call.  Your biggest client’s son? [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><a href="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/graduation1.jpg"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-2303" title="graduation gift etiquette" src="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/graduation1-300x265.jpg" alt="" width="240" height="212" /></a>Whether you receive an announcement or invitation from a high school senior or a college grad, there are always questions as to <em>what</em> and <em>how much</em> to give.  First and foremost, every graduation invitation does not require a gift.  You will want to use your best judgment when making the call.  Your biggest client’s son? The decision is an obvious “yes.” Your sister&#8217;s daughter…yes. Your neighbor’s sister’s cousin…you can skip if you would like to. The litmus test &#8211; if you don’t recognize the person’s photo or name on the invitation, move on to the next piece of junk mail.</p>
<p>The following are a few suggestions for proper gift-giving etiquette for both high school and college graduates:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Mail, deliver or drop off the gift in advance. </strong>If you plan to attend the ceremony, don&#8217;t show up with the gift in tow. There is too much of an opportunity to break or misplace the graduation gift.<strong></strong></li>
<li><strong>Money and gift cards are appropriate and welcome.</strong> A few gift card ideas: think gas, grocery, coffee, mega store and even iTunes gift cards. Always include a card and a handwritten note with the gift card, check or cash. When giving cash, take the time to go to the bank and get some new bills.</li>
<li><strong>Skip the urge to gift clothing.</strong>  Only give the gift of clothing if you are close to the graduate and positive you know his or her size and style preferences. Professional apparel can be a great asset to a new college graduate entering the career world, but only if you are sure he or she will wear it.  A gift card to a men&#8217;s or women&#8217;s store would be a good option.</li>
<li><strong>Electronics and accessories</strong> are a practical gift and greatly appreciated, but only if you can afford to give them. Among the items that are on a graduate’s &#8220;wish list&#8221; are iPad cases, a phone docking speaker station, a Nook or handy noise-cancelling headphones for late night study sessions or long airplane trips.</li>
<li><strong>Small appliances</strong> for dorm rooms are wonderful gifts of convenience. Appliances allowed in dorm rooms are usually small refrigerators and microwaves. A gift certificate to &#8220;stock up&#8221; would be an added bonus.</li>
<li><strong>Avoid graduation memorabilia</strong>. A 2012 keychain, pen with the name of the university, or a paperweight with the university mascot will lose momentum by the following year, or the following week.</li>
<li><strong>Personalized gifts</strong> are a classic: a Kindle cover, travel bag or toiletry kit, monogrammed fountain pen and stationary or a leather business card case are all good choices for the college graduate about to embark on his or her first job.</li>
<li><strong>For the college graduate moving into his or her first apartment</strong>, <strong>choose something useful</strong> such as a coffee maker, iron and ironing board, sheet set or other functional items that will be put to good use. When in doubt, ask his or her parents &#8211; or, better yet, ask the grad yourself for some ideas.</li>
</ul>
<p>Truly, for the college grad just starting out on his or her own, cash is always king! While it may seem cold and emotionless, it is a gift that is most appreciated and can be used specifically for something needed.</p>
<p>As for yourself, staying within your own budget is the smartest gift of all.</p>
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		<title>Sunglasses Etiquette: The Do’s and Don’ts</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2012 14:03:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Diane</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sunglasses are far more than just a practical accessory to protect your eyes from the sun. They&#8217;re also a fashion statement and a reflection of your personality that can enhance or detract from your professional image. Here are the do&#8217;s and don&#8217;ts of proper sunglasses etiquette. Follow these tips to wear sunglasses in a way [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><a href="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/sunglasses-etiquette.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-2298" title="Sunglasses etiquette tips" src="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/sunglasses-etiquette-300x199.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="199" /></a>Sunglasses are far more than just a practical accessory to protect your eyes from the sun. They&#8217;re also a fashion statement and a reflection of your personality that can enhance or detract from your professional image. Here are the do&#8217;s and don&#8217;ts of proper sunglasses etiquette. Follow these tips to wear sunglasses in a way that helps, not hurts, your image.</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Remove your sunglasses when conducting business.</strong> Being able to look someone in the eye is an important part of communicating. Talking with someone whose eyes are hiding behind a pair of dark lenses hinders one of the key ways we read others emotions. If you&#8217;re lunching with a client outdoors, find a shady spot to sit and remove your sunglasses so that he or she can look directly into your eyes.</li>
<li><strong>Make sure your shades reflect your professionalism.</strong> Blinged-out, hot purple frames may be great with summer shorts and flip flops, but not with your work attire. Same holds true for your polarized Oakley&#8217;s that you typically wear when riding your bike or racing your car around the track. Stick with a pair of classic black or tortoiseshell frames during the workday.</li>
<li><strong>Don&#8217;t use a pair of sunglasses as a mirror.</strong> Resist the urge to use the sunglasses of the person you&#8217;re talking with as a mirror to fix your hair or check your teeth. What you are doing is obvious and distracts the person watching you primp.</li>
<li><strong>Take off your sunglasses indoors.</strong> Unless you have a medical condition that requires that you avoid strong light, remove your sunglasses when you enter a public place. It makes you appear disrespectful and as though you have something to hide. If you do have a medical issue, put the other person at ease by explaining the situation: &#8220;Sorry, I have to leave these on; I just came from a doctor&#8217;s appointment.&#8221;</li>
<li><strong>Take care of your sunglasses as you would a pair of good shoes.</strong> If the plastic is chipping, the lenses have too many scratches or the frames are bent, it&#8217;s time to invest in a new pair.</li>
<li><strong>Don&#8217;t use sunglasses as a hair accessory. </strong>If you are running into the grocery store or taking care of a quick errand, a quick swoosh of your sunglasses up to the top of your head is fast and easy. Any other time, remove and store them in a safe place so they&#8217;re protected and out of sight.</li>
<li><strong>Remember the practical purpose of sunglasses.</strong> It&#8217;s not necessary to buy a $200 pair for business. A classic, elegant pair with UV protection doesn&#8217;t have to be expensive and probably shouldn&#8217;t be &#8211; given their delicate, easy-to-lose nature.</li>
<li><strong>When in doubt, take them off.</strong> The bottom line…Unless you are driving, working in the yard, lounging on the beach or doing something in the sun, professionally you&#8217;re creating a barrier between yourself and those around you. In conversation, people won&#8217;t be as easily able to listen to what you&#8217;re saying. Instead, they will wonder what your eyes are doing, what you&#8217;re really thinking about, what you are hiding &#8211; or perhaps what rock band you&#8217;re in.</li>
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<p><strong>Exception to the rule:<br />
When you are out with friends</strong> or on a cruise ship sipping a drink with an umbrella in it&#8230;preferably NOT with your boss!</p>
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		<title>Email Etiquette: Five Email Mistakes You May Be Making “On-the-Go”</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 May 2012 11:43:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Diane</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Business email isn’t always composed at your desk and sent out after a careful spell check.  Today, email can be sent via your smart phone, iPad or other device; messages are shorter, slang is more prevalent and emoticons have replaced proper punctuation. Needless to say, it may be time for a quick email etiquette refresher. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><a href="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/iPad-email-businesswoman.jpg"><img class="alignleft" title="iPad-email-businesswoman" src="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/iPad-email-businesswoman-300x220.jpg" alt="" width="270" height="198" /></a>Business email isn’t always composed at your desk and sent out after a careful spell check.  Today, email can be sent via your smart phone, iPad or other device; messages are shorter, slang is more prevalent and emoticons have replaced proper punctuation. Needless to say, it may be time for a quick email etiquette refresher.</p>
<p>Below are five common “on the go” email faux pas to avoid:</p>
<ol start="1">
<li><strong>Omitting the greeting.</strong>  It’s easy to overlook including a greeting when responding to an email via your mobile device.  Don’t make this mistake – instead, take the time and effort to start your email off with a personal greeting, using the person’s name.</li>
<li><strong>Using texting abbreviations or slang</strong>.  Using your phone to text a friend is different than corresponding with a client or your boss. Don’t assume your boss will know that “LOL” means Laugh Out Loud, versus Lots of Love!  Keep your email to the point and professional.</li>
<li><strong>Failing to set-up your full email signature.</strong>  Refer to the “settings” on your mobile device to customize your email signature.  First and last name, title, business phone and website should all be included (in addition to the “sent from my iPhone/iPad” default if applicable).</li>
<li><strong>Responding via mobile device when the matter is not urgent.</strong>  Avoid the temptation to read and respond to all emails within minutes.  Balancing your work life, family life and personal time without checking email at every “ding” can be a challenge.  Don’t become another iPhone addict.</li>
<li><strong>Grammar and spelling mistakes.</strong>  Be sure to take the extra few minutes to read over your email before you hit “send.”  If spell check is not turned on, refer to the email settings on your mobile device to activate this feature.  Auto spell check can also be dangerous, especially if you aren’t taking that extra minute to re-read your response.  Typing “to” when you meant to type “do” can completely change the meaning of your message.  And that’s a best case auto-correct scenario!</li>
</ol>
<p>Being tech-savvy with your mobile communication device is an important part of your personal brand.  Taking the extra few seconds (or even minutes) to show courtesy and professionalism when composing email “on-the-go” is a wise use of your time.</p>
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		<title>Fiesta Pooch Parade Etiquette</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2012 15:16:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Diane</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Fiesta Pooch Parade is an annual tradition each April in San Antonio as part of Fiesta, an 11-day, citywide celebration of the city&#8217;s heritage and culture. Dogs and their people dress up and strut through neighborhood streets ( right in front of my home) to the delight of spectators all along the route. To [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><a href="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/pooch-parade-pup.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-2284" title="pooch-parade-pup" src="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/pooch-parade-pup-300x213.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="213" /></a>The <a href="http://therapyanimalssa.org/Fiesta_Pooch_Parade/fiesta_pooch_parade_2012.htm" target="_blank">Fiesta Pooch Parade</a> is an annual tradition each April in San Antonio as part of Fiesta, an 11-day, citywide celebration of the city&#8217;s heritage and culture. Dogs and their people dress up and strut through neighborhood streets ( right in front of my home) to the delight of spectators all along the route.</p>
<p>To make sure that this or any other pooch-friendly event stays fun and enjoyable for canines and humans involved, here are a few doggie etiquette rules that I have learned fist hand by my own Pooch Parade experience:</p>
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<li><strong>Careful with the costumes.</strong> Consider the weather and your dog&#8217;s comfort.  I feel sad for the sweet little niblets that parade by my house with their puppy crowns hanging in their puppy eyes and their costumes twisted around their back paws.  Puppy&#8217;s costume should fit well and allow him or her to see and prance about comfortably while wearing a matching fiesta sombrero and doggie size serape.</li>
<li><strong>Don&#8217;t be a parade pooper.</strong> Carry a few plastic grocery bags tucked into a zip-top bag &#8212; use the grocery bags to clean up the mess and the zip-top bag to contain and carry your puppy poop away.</li>
<li><strong>Know your dog&#8217;s temperament.</strong> If you have a dog that&#8217;s nervous around crowds or doesn&#8217;t like kids, leave her <a href="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/pooch-parade2.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-2285 alignright" title="pooch-parade2" src="http://dianegottsman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/pooch-parade2-300x235.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="235" /></a>at home. There&#8217;s a good chance that someone will want to pet your parading pup so make sure she is ready for attention. Spectators, keep your kids from running up to pet dogs in the parade &#8211; this can spook even the best-behaved canines. If your dog lives along the parade route, the noise and excitement of a long parade of dogs marching by might be too much for her. Make a comfortable place for her in a quiet room away from the hubbub.</li>
<li><strong>Water with care.</strong> Some dog-loving spectators along the parade route (ME!) put water out for hot and tired dogs. If you are one of these kind souls, be warned that the bowl will get slimy and nasty very quickly. If you decide to put out water, keep it clean and fresh, especially after big drooly dogs stop by for a drink. If you&#8217;re in the parade, bring water and a little dish for your pooch and pull over to the side when she is ready for some refreshment.</li>
<li><strong>Avoid throwing treats.</strong> Cheerfully throwing dog cookies (ME!) onto the doggie parade route can create a variety of hazards, from dogs lunging for the same goodie (then fighting over it) to creating hazards for humans tripping over leashes or stumbling on dog treats.  If you want to provide goodies for the dogs on parade, keep a decorative bucket of treats handy and a little sign inviting pet owners to help themselves.</li>
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<p>The annual Pooch Parade is always fun and with a little consideration and attention to small details… the Pooch Parade can be paws-itively wonderful for everyone involved.</p>
<p>The 14th Annual Fiesta Pooch Parade supports the Therapy Animals of San Antonio, bringing people and animals together for healing. For more info, please visit <a href="http://www.therapyanimalssa.org" target="_blank">www.therapyanimalssa.org</a>.</p>
<p>Happy Fiesta!</p>
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