Different bites of life

I wonder!!!!!

2019-04-11T02:00:00.002-07:00

I wonder how I stand where I stand. I named it sacrificed. You call a bitter pill to swallow. There’s so much to say and creates many confusions. Rest, I let you guys to decide. Unfolding, revealing confessing bad impact of system. I end up, black n white all experiences, societal norms, gender roles. Gender roles defined, by society, women are responsible of home chores, on other hand men are bread winner.

Islam present same picture. Since, women are weak physically, hence, Men should be responsible of earning. I REPAET HERE, WORD “Responsible”, means take as duty, and fulfil it by hook and crook. For women, it’s flexible law. It’s not her duty. Rather to create confusion, should go-ahead.

Systems are made to make you comfort. Girls are supposed to leave her own parents house, as to make her own family. Here is beginning, of new family system. She has to deal with new ventures, get experience. After having babies, and when her children get in university, she somehow, considered experienced women. But wait, story is not net yet finished.

Hit and trails, fighting and many others makes this simple life, even more complicated. Life is more smooth, if society realized, helping, caring, sharing and responsibilities are go side-by-side. Women supposed to do all chores, despite having babies, despite doing jobs. Because that’s what are taught by elders to children, and what family are trying to build. I am not denying the fact chores are responsibility of women.

TV commercials teaching children, Sharing is caring, and “Jaga do ge to jaga bane gi”.

Lessons are taught but not practice. Eventually, Unstable society are born. TV commercials are trying to give positive picture unlike dramas. How to become better person, If Son helps his mother in chores, if Son do laundry with mother, if wife do job with husband, husband wear iron scorch shirt with sweater in office.

Joint system is entirely opposite to what it supposed to be. On other hands, it mainly caused of un-happy family. Where you are bond to do all house-hold chores, without knowing the fact, it’s not responsibility of women. Joint- family system is inherited from Indian culture. Where women have to perform all house duties. Where husband has to give salary to his mom. Islam is not what we trying to confuse with joint family system. Islam is very humbled religion. Even no religion in world to taught, to hurt yourself, just to please everyone. It’s a society that, decided what to do, what not do. No religion gives the back of this system.

Many gets offend, after reading half of this. My point is not to prompt neutral system and to leave parents. Point is to realize, to embrace the facts, which shouldn’t be part of society. Before marriage, me and my husband, decided that we buy everything on our own, and don’t become a burden on our family. But we end up, mendhi less function, but got stuff for my room only as Jehaz. Later, I confess, I will for sure, gift my daughter, at least what serve her room best.

Islam is what has practice by Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). To make it clear how to run life smooth. To marry widow, to marry not a good looking girl and many more. What we read in Quran is practice by him. Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) used to help his wives in daily chores, wash own clothes.

"The best among you are those who behave best toward their wives. I am the best among you toward his wives. The best among you is the one who is the kindest to his wife and the worst among you is the one who treats his wife badly."

Nutshell, bearing old parents after marriage is responsibility of man. Same hand, single daughter can take her parents after marriage too. Should prompt things which are beneficial of healthy society. Healthy society, to give rights to wife, as it’s her designated right by Islam. No religion force women, she has to obey everyone except her own wish. No religion prompts to live life with husband’s brothers, as we many confused with women doing job with male and field. Society never said, men also do same. Job is duty. I am not saying, men left all his relationships. It’s an opinion, to give space, I am repeating a word, “Space”, prompt separate portions, on same house. It demolished, morally wrong-doing, and provoke healthy society. Healthy mind develops.

Note: Based on random thoughts. No offense. J

Sorrow and Relief

2017-10-12T03:23:00.000-07:00

Somewhere in the world, you lose hope entirely, none here to cheer you up. No person no advice can cope the pain. You didn’t catharsis your pain, anywhere, in any form. Only you seek Allah to guide you for a better way out. Alas! All efforts and all struggles went in to vain. No one can understand, and felt a single pain why are you behaving and why are you in grief.

Life is journey, full of ups and down. No doubt, but the behavior of people makes this journey even worse. Sorry for keeping inducing negative vibes to readers. But every time, since I started writing, I always ended up with some positive note. Because eventually, we have to die and “To Allah We Belong, And To Him We Shall Return”

Life is so unpredictable, you can’t even felt current moment, and then change occurs. But the best thing: “Nothing lasts forever and bad thing is again “Nothing lasts forever” give it time and space. Room to adapt new things, room to swallow bad connotation. But the worst and same hand best thing is, have patience and be patient and change yourself. To sake of forgiveness and to get in peace. As Hazrat Ali quoted “happiest person is one who first to let it go”

To show your smile and happiness is a sign; nothing is worse than live with those whom you don’t want. Nutshell! I ended up I will cope my fears and sorrows, grief. And changed myself into better human being just for sake of Allah. I left all my rights just for Allah. I live for Allah, which gives me strength to live in a better way. Hope many of you can relate this. Jazak Allah

2016-08-12T13:01:00.001-07:00

Azadi-line (leaders want respect)

2016-08-12T13:01:00.000-07:00

Like many girls, I strive of wearing new and luxurious clothes, and cherry on top, if you’re getting them on sale. Likewise, I was strolling renowned brands for buying them, whilst, I came through beautiful green dress, with beautifully written urdu language on it. I instantly click on the image and back of shirt. I got impressed, but when I zoomed in, I realized there were few pictorial images on it. Like below, on above it was none other than, Quaid e Azam, with music Queen, Madam Noor Jahan and right side it was Allama Iqbal. I got emotional, and left the idea of buying. I commented on Sana Safinaz Page, and few hours ago, I got reply. It could be worn on front side too. Anyway, I replied, and our conversation end, but my emotions won’t let me stop.

https://www.sanasafinaz.com/with-love-pakistan

Here I began to register my complaint. I post shirt picture (after cropping model) on famous Islamabad Salon & Fashion Forum.

Pictorial of leaders are used as symbol of affection and patriotism. Designer and people wear leader’s pictures on their shirts for showing solidarity. Few years back, Photo of Turkey leader got famous while taking out of his country flag from floor and placing on pocket. Once, we celebrated Independence Day, with a message to take a care of all flags, and placed all after Independence Day with care. And special message of don’t throw flags on floor because happiness is useless without respect.

The whole story, that I was trying to build here is, national days depict world how the nation is, unfortunately, only India staple us as nation. Current azadi-line of brand Sana Safinaz made many to think, how we present our leaders, specially our founder of country. Back of Shirt or slit of shirt, more specific, pasted the photo of Quaid e Azam, on right side, and Allama Iqbal on left side, with center full of famous ladies. This is highly disgraceful, how one illustrate leader of a nation. No doubt, brand post same shirt on front side too, but how come one could justified.

Is this a personal matter of one brand or company, why no rules, applied for blind industry, nudity has part of fashion industry, but committing, irresponsible attitude towards country.

Nutshell, this is too ungraceful and keep justify unethical ways. It’s become our national dilemma, who talked right, considered mad. Sadly, government succeed in making cyber-crime bill, but still we are living in the era of stone-age, where luxurious clothes are more valuable than words. How do we expect good nation, when we failed to respect our leaders and learn lesson from history.

Every Independence Day remains incomplete, when we fails to protect our children from kidnapping, when we fails to share history of Pakistan to our children without books, when pictorial image of leaders wont post on slits or back of shirts. It should be posted on the chest with pride of badges. Sorry we need to take a break and think, where we are heading to.

NON profit in Pakistan!

2015-06-13T11:16:00.000-07:00

Recently two incidents of rape were occurred in twin cities schools. Twin cities, are considered slightly more educated and aware in terms of social issues. Daily many cases of rape, violence have occurred, but due to un-accountability and lawlessness in institutions many have gone unnoticed. Unawareness of issues and how to cope with diseases and disasters have a form of poverty too. Having money or being financially strong doesn’t make anyone rich, when they don’t know to use money properly. Ratio of drop out children from schools belongs to those families, where fathers are doing nothing or doing labor in abroad. Mostly, are unaware of the importance of education and proper usage of money. Whilst, uneducated mass has vulnerable to infection and diseases. These all relate to development of person or society; also known as social development.

Being a developing country, unluckily political parties consider change would occur through instant development; roads, bridges or any other cosmetic projects. Meanwhile, education or any other issue have lost somewhere. If you see many hospitals or schools was built by charity organization or usually name after the political person. No or less development has seen in remote and slums areas. Rather to provide basic provision, government or local authorities declared them red zone areas or illegal. Therefore, many of these residents have gone backward. Like this, many urban areas, where people are not aware of their rights and duties, are highly prone to abuse of any type.

Likewise, many started the raising awareness on their own. These are those nonprofit organization, which have been working for the betterment of people of their own as CSOs and are collaborating with government in different projects too for perusing the efforts of social development. The point I was making here, there is always a need of third party who will work on their own for betterment of society and ensure social development.

Last night, largest child based organization; “Save the children” were ordered to close the business in Pakistan, due to alleged of anti- state activities. And over night, they have made thousands Pakistani civilians unemployed. All of a sudden, it changed the fate of many, non- profit sector immensely effected by this. People started updating various statuses showing their anger, many tweeting projects and videos of victim NGO. Many opposing nonprofit organization entirely.

No doubt, it was a great move by current government, who ordered to leave INGO working in Pakistan for over 30 years, on the involvement in anti -state activities. We are those hypocrites, who scream out for extremism and terrorism, if they need our sacrifice, then no welcome note. Moreover, government is lining up few more NGOs, in suspicions of back of US, Israel and India. My question is, if they had been working for anti-Pakistan forces, why no action took placed earlier? Why after 30 years? Why actions weren't shouldn’t take yearly?

We need to understand, this action was taken for the betterment of country. No personal involvement and interest wasn't witnessed. But taking care of 2000 unemployed civilians are surely country and government's responsibility. One cannot ignore this, as another case of downsizing. Let me explain, it’s not a downsizing of just employees like banks, it’s a loss of thousands children and families who were getting support from this alleged anti-state activities INGO. They made schools, educate children and empower their parents and also gave them livelihood training to those remote and slum areas, which government totally forgot about and never considered part of country. If you don’t help, these vulnerable children and families then one doesn’t have right to cancel the license or sealed their businesses.

In nutshell, provision of basic needs is a big responsibility of government rather to made luxurious roads and buses. Yearly audit of every organization should be made. Foreign funded agenda channels should also be banned. Government should take responsibility of all their schools and provide assistance to all children in remote areas. No nation could reach their full boom, when their coming generation was suffering for basic needs. Aftermaths of this decision, government is equally responsibility of all the consequences.

Credibility of News!

2015-05-21T03:25:00.000-07:00

Credibility of news are lost somewhere. Nobody bothers, what impact it leaves on the audience and not even the audience bother, to search it by themselves. Causal news, get hype and serious issues become scandal. This is, what is been going on with Axact: IT Company issue, which is suspicious of selling fake degrees in world through black-mailing. Ironically, world famous newspaper, named, “New York Times”, disclosed, Axact business. According to NYT, they properly investigated this news, after recruiting one of their employee in Axact. Hence, they got access to all important documents and made a detailed report. Based on this, Interior minister Nisar Ali Khan, has ordered to investigate this case.

News become gossip in no time. Rarely in Pakistan get the credibility of news ever questioned. If ever so, the reply would be, “I read it from a foreign news channel”. Life of media is also full of ambiguities; they make their own fantasy world. They illustrate what they want to depict.

Local actors, who step in Bollywood, are automatically declared nation pride, and who throw event internationally considered proud moment. Actors become a think tank, people started quoting their tweets. Political leaders, have started running universities, after their name. Historical leaders, became replaced with political leaders, in syllabus. People getting things without efforts. People are clearly losing their originality.

You hardly read and hear about cyber -crime, until and unless somebody hacks your account. We only heard about PEMRA, who take action when something seriously blows out. Credibility of institutions, are no longer available. Hereby, each and every one make their right to, publish and telecast, handy information. We do note the audit of nonprofit organization but we hardly witness the audit of channels. Surely, some audit is required for issuing license. But afterwards, no one bothers to audit. No yearly audit has taken place of channels and newspapers. All of sudden, how are you seeing hundreds of channels on your TV? What business they were doing in past.

The point to note here is how we could rely on any international report without proper authentication. Why there is no international law for publicly disclosing other country news, without permission. Journalism is profession, who owed to provide information and knowledge. I am shocked, how journalism has changed to FIR

No doubt, in globalization era, media has played greater role in shaping public opinion and making political decision. But in a nutshell, a lot of unpacking is required on the Axact story. Until then, we need to hold our horses, and need to break the chain of tweeting, posting unauthentic news for fun. May be, we are becoming a non-credible nation. We need to raise credibility of news and question ourselves that how we are declaring artists and political leaders as our historical heroes.

For Five reasons, why I like Khaadi :

2015-05-13T12:22:00.003-07:00

Khaadi is a Pakistani multinational luxury fashion brand , that was founded way back in 1998 by Shamoon Sultan. Khaadi has an honor of achieving “Lux Style Award” since 2002 till 2014 in different fashion categories. Khaadi has commonly known as famous hand woven cloth of Pakistan. But first time in history of Pakistan , someone has came up the idea of fusion. That successfully amazed customers. Now a days, it has become bestselling brand of Pakistan in loose fabric.

Many of you must be thinking that it was successful because of women. As per nature, women are highly vulnerable in case of shopping. Anyone can amaze women with little efforts of design colors. This is partially true.

Here I am going to share five reasons why every single woman prefers Khaadi’s fabric .

Economical or in your budget: yes it is. Initially, they came with a limited catalogue (women stitched & loose fabric), due to this, only limited number of customers afford them. After its popularity, it gone famous to everyone. Customers started approaching them. Certainly,“Khaadi “ introducing their expertise in different field. And introduced, men children stitched cloths too.

With the variety of catalogue, “Khaadi” designers gave more dresses in economical range. Now anyone, can buy embroidered cloths in very economical range. For customers , especially women , it was dream come true. Winters were supposed to be wear dull cloths but Khaadi entirely changed the trend. Now one can easily buy good designer loose fabric in less than 2,000. You can, even get loose shirt or dupatta of any embroidery suit easily. These can easily wear with white pajamas or chaffon Dupttas. Khaadi has also given the option of stitched clothes of same loose suits.

Colors or design:

Khaadi who came with contemporary designs with fusion of hand woven cloths. Even original hand woven embroidery has easily available on Khaadi stores. Some cloths are too fabulous, even me and my mother bought same designed suits in different colors. Their cambric collection, winter, summer all garbed our heart to their stores.

Fabric.

Khaadi has offered not only good design on economical range but also gives a comfortable fabric. Likewise, their colors are long-lasting and haven’t goes faded. Best thing, which I found in their cloths, they never spoils your iron. No matter how much you go washroom. I blindly wear khaadi because it always gives soothing effects that dress supposes to be.

Brand:

Yes ! We all have fever of brand. This is the only economical brand, where you can shop, with gusto, rather to rely on its’ replica’s.

Many shopkeepers, make you fool and sell Khaadi replica’s expensive than its original price. Mostly, whole family can easily shop from khaadi.

On-line shopping:

The best thing, I ever found in any clothing store, has its e shopping. Others are offered too, but sadly, they presented it so badly, projecting eastern cloths like western, and western like eastern style. If model wearing shirt, it would be hidden with jewelry. Customers have gone confused. Sometimes, they buy what they don’t actually want to.

khaadi who introduced system about how to present it loose fabric. You can get, deep post-partum of any dress before buying. Best thing is khaadi offers dresses with free shipment. Online chat guide is also available on website.

Khaadi ‘s new ventures are Khaadi Khas (formal wear) and Khaadi home are not as successful as other catalogue. Most probably, price range is a bit higher and not worth buying designs. Although there were numerous reasons to buy Khaadi but still some reasons one could reject this brand.

1: Quality of fabric is not equal: sometimes suits that are less than 2,000 are not same fabric of expensive ones.

2: Repetition in designs: sometimes, Khaadi designers are hell confused, make usually all dresses even with same designs even winter designs ae copied to summer or summer copied to winter. Numerous times, you get the feeling might be you’re wearing cut pieces of bed sheets.

3: Designs are no longer: it was blessing in disguise. When new vendors unable to meet desired needs of customers. And all suits, sold out within 3 months. No other, design or fabric will come before the date. Earlier, we never saw, shops were empty because of no suits.

4: Stitched dresses of loose fabric have mostly of same designs. Other stitched ones, are bit expensive you can’t afford them until it’s sale . If you’re buying any duptta or stole , ensure pieces are not damaged.

In short, Khaadi, no doubt presents valuable stuff with different colors. No one can afford ,brand in Pakistan, earlier, especially in high inflation rate. Khaadi has setting new example for all new or even settled brands; people only buy those, who come in their affordability. If they offer good designs, then people shall follow them. We should , appreciate, Khaadi’s efforts, despite repetition in designs, they still managed high profile in fashion industry. Khaadi is brand, for common woman, who want to wear different, and look beautiful. Thanks for making common woman special. Who actually save money to buy good dress. I suggested you to don’t buy replicas of Khaadi .

Molvism:

2014-12-26T04:11:00.002-08:00

Please miss cover your hair with duptta( that was unintentionally gone slipped from hair) I’m getting angry, I can do anything. My Qari shab told me it is Gunna. Abruptly many other following these words for me. These were the words of 12-14 year young boy, who was studying in non-formal community school established by one organization (where I was working). His gestures made me little terrified. Might be it wasn’t expected.

Thirty years back when we permanently shifted to Islamabad and my parents send my younger siblings in nearby mosque for completing the Quran Sharf. But sadly, both came back with crying faces. Because qari shab used to punish students with football . After my father restrictions, they stopped throwing football (for only my siblings) as condition to cook evening tea for all clerics. Hence, after two weeks my sibling stopped going Mosque. They resumed recitation of Quran Sharf by a well-known Qari shab of our sector. (Who luckily didn’t beat)

Few months back, I came across news of taking action against all clerics (both suni & sheia clerics) who preach prejudice statement. And right after 2 weeks I saw banner written: according to courts instruction, our sector cleric would be arrest. This action was taken as precautionary measures for Muhram Chleum .

In 2007, when Islamabad faced radical incident Lal Masjid . That left us with numerous questions . Extremism is commonly known as behavior who try to impose his/her extreme thoughts (that usually based on emotion rather rational /fundamentalism). A person who advocates or resorts to measures beyond the norm.

I’m sure you must gone through with this experienced as well. Recent carnage of Peshawar, refreshed all my experiences. And compelled to write some stuff.

Parents forced us to complete Quran sharf on our earliest. No matter who was teaching & what we perceived. Even some parents proud to share without beating how could a child learn better. The point I was trying to make here is, we modify our values or lost true teaching of Islam just for the revival of fake societal norms.

We totally forget basic philosophy of Quran & teaching of Prophet Sali Alhi Wahli Waslam (PB.U.H). Who still acknowledged in world for good behavior and justice. Based on this, many non-Muslims embraced Islam as religion. Sadly, today we embrace our prejudices & racism. Thus, world become place where respect attained on mutual thoughts.

Teacher who are first instructor of one’s life. Today, teachers of Islam, Molvi or Qari shab or clerics are hardly metric. They are proficient in Quran verses but failed to grab original idea of Islam, that’s why they failed to transfer in students. Hereafter, man started judging other’s based on segregation that leads to hatred. (Here seed of hate sowed in society) .This can be see in killing of many innocent

Hadith: "By Him in Whose Hand is my life, a time will come when the murderer will not know why he has committed the murder, and the victim will not know why he has been killed." [Sahih Muslim]

Fanatic started observing others on bases of own cultivated values. And restrict others to follow as it is. The matter of fact is, we totally forget the true meaning of Islam and started relaying on those who hardly know learning. Ironically, all those behavior comes from those who commonly known as Islamic institute or cleric.

It’s not restricted to less educated it may come from educated cream of professionals too. What’s your religion if Muslim then specify your sect? This experience I got from renewed International organization recruitment form. Many other forced female employee to cover head as name of Islam.

All are form of extremism or apologists of modern era. Who sadly, highly educated but less to embrace why segregation why prejudice when our Prophet Salallah o ilhali Waslim (P.B.U.H) stood in respect of Christian dead body and offered prayers in courtyard of Church. Who always put smile no matter how crucial situation were. Who had followers of Black guy who later embrace Islam because sadly suffered ill behavior of his own group.

Now situation is getting worst even Muslim starting facing more ill behavior from same religion fellow in name of Islam. Extremist is not only TTP also many others who forced others to judge on specific sects. Who teach Islam is only restricted to Haqol Abab. Allah always said, I forget my rights but not human rights.

This situation prevail air of hate & evil. Radical or extremist behavior need to be abolished. In nutshell, Islam is religion of peace where there is no place of any extremist act or whatsoever.

There is greater need to put focus on all Islamic clerics who should have master’s degree . Emergency ban on all madrass nationwide. There should be stick punishment for all who tries to impose his values on others in name of Islam. All mosques should be closed in day time. Clerics restrict to do part time job . Radical or infringed behavior is not easy to remove but not impossible. Lesson of Goodwill should be taught and appreciated during Quran’s Teaching. Extremist material or wall chalking should be banned.

And sum up of all, stabilize economy or job opportunity can lessen these. There should be punishment for everyone without discrimination. In end, you can demotivate all factors that lead to societal or sects division. Say no to all who forced to fill sect’s column. Because your little initiative may discourage future radical or TTP act. It all need collective action.

Condemnable Behavior .

2014-11-04T10:36:00.002-08:00

Since childhood I am listening, this statement ,” PM , President & other political powers has strongly condemn brutal incident of terrorism “. Nation is united against terrorism. They won’t be hurdle in our activities”. Meanwhile, TV channels has been broadcasting incident from every angle. After 1 month, if I am not exaggerating time period, all outcry buried in files. It can make sense when you have to show your auditors. Other you need some proof because you been busy in other plans i.e. going aboard for shopping or daily medical checkups. Terrorism has became Pakistan’s fate since Zia Ul Haq’s regime.

Contrarily, it attacks us with different forms, i.e. suicide attacks, Ra agent or Talibian & so on. It inherits anger & revenge. This is how; cycle of revenge goes on. But who is responsible of this? Who can put check & balance over this action?

Obviously who have a power & can implement laws. It’s been a ritual of blogger to write on every issue that going around you. But for Pakistan all problems becomes public issues. And all ends up, with one reason, negligent behavior or ownership issue of those having power.

We put efforts on casting vote & defending our political leaders on social media. But only few raise voice as a neutral & they alleged of secularism. Pakistan is a prosperous country by name, no doubt, we are having unlimited resources to make it flourish all around the world. Rules were made in the beginnings that are known as constitution. Many amendments were also formed for making them more effective.

Hereby, every political leader tried to run governance system according to their will. Suddenly martial law was imposed. They work as strict business. In the end, all paid off on some rebellion blood. But eventually, all system ran smoothly. If Army is only organized entity of Pakistan. Then why not martial law. ???

Nevertheless, we need to get some reality checks of Pakistan too. Recent bomb blast of “Wagah –Border “in holy month of Muhram. Immediately, news channels had started flashing the messages of sympathy from PM to all political parties. Yet again, we all faced irritating police check post after every 15 miles. If situation become more adverse, you don’t get signals on your cell. Because it’s all for your security, otherwise don’t criticize. Word “Power” is probably orientated from Latin. Commonly define as; Power is to influence or to rule others. Means “Power” is more of action. Millionaires & Politicians are commonly considered powerful in any country. They have power to take action. No doubt, power is gift of Allah, only few are blessed with this.

Unlike other countries, Political parties (most powerful) in Pakistan, treat power as taking orders & showing sympathy. Power is about taking action in real. Whether it is useful or dreadful . Power is all about making alive governance system or justify the rule of authority. Iran who took action against “A British-Iranian woman detained in Iran after trying to watch a men's volleyball match has been sentenced to a year in prison”. It’s an example of power. Where action has made.

All I am trying to make here, discourse “condemnation” in sense of Pakistani politics. Dismally, in our country, Politician assumes power is all showing pettiness or using disgraceful words for NATION.

They do nothing accept few action that truly in their favor. Like conflict of higher post will be solved in days but not the bloodshed. (Rather accusing or blame game started.) It is not fall under power of politics. That automatically, leads to failure of governance system. That we proudly achieve earlier.

In short, Word Condemnation is not made for those who have power. You can do this, whilst having bed time coffee or tea via twitter too. And you probably show up on annual dinners. Because nothing is decreasing except human.

Sadly, it becomes habit; behavior of all political powers is highly condemnable. Humiliating or disgraceful behavior atomically give birth to salve or inferior nation. It’s a great need to work on behavior of all political powers. They courageously declare nation is united for more blood.

Moreover, don’t feel ashamed, accusing nation, if they comes on road against their will. Probably you’re follower of extremist or somebody misguided you. But never take emergency actions except agitating nation. Sorry we strongly condemn your “coward behavior” . We no longer tolerate. Definitely, their behavior is only bone of contention in our country’s progress.

Don't forget Power is a gift from Allah. It will take no time to reverse this gift in curse.

Disney Khoobsurat

2014-10-17T07:50:00.002-07:00

Most anticipating movie is finally released with full boom. Fawad jo “nam he kafi hai “ is the biggest reason that drag you to watch this movie. So I did also. Like many, earlier, I was least interested in the movie. Especially after saw the changed look of Fawad khan. But fb statuses that compelled me to watch the movie. And I was hell depressed already. So what would be a great option?
Thankfully my brother had already downloaded it for me. I started watching the movie. Movie started with match of IPL & Sonam Kapoor was treating one cricketer. On other hand, her colleague was requesting to treat his patient in his homes. So she did. She arrived that house & yes patient was none other than hero’s father.
Sonam as Mili who was young beautiful , perky orthopedic doctor. That loved to capture every moment without the tension of bfs or marriage. She was born in middle class small Punjabi family. She had only one younger brother.
And our own heartthrob hero whose history begins from Dastaan . But who knows one day Anil Kapoor had chosen him as son n law. Obviously for Sonam kapoor Indian most stylish actor. And who knows she become a doctor in Fawad Khan’s love. Aur who bi “orthopedic”. In this case, who else will treat Fawad’s father better than Sonam I mean Mili. Confused it’s good if you still haven’t watch it “khoobusart”.

You lost your loved ones & couldn’t forgive yourself for those acts that you didn’t do. Somewhere or some extent your heart wished one day everything will gone perfect. Yes I was talking about story-line. Old & most probably copied of any Pakistani Drama. One perky, giggle, unapologetically silly girl want to beat everything with laugh. When creativity is not possible then renovation would be perfect idea. Thats what Kapoor production did. They act too intelligently & resembled this conventional story with Disney. Title goes like “Disney Khoobusrat”. He hired new face that truly fitted in this.

Third most curious thing is, Fawad has lost his weight just for this film man! Because here he has to represent “ Royal family” obedient son. Yuvraj Vikram Singh Rathore (Fawad) royal Prince cum Mandaq confidently performed every scene in typical Royal costume.

Mili funky dressed up doctor started living in Royal family as a Doctor. Who called everyone with nicknames especially MEKO . And yes, won the heart of everyone in house except going to be “mother n law “as usual.

Anyhow, Actors dragged the story till end. Beautiful combination of songs (“ Seti “ & “Nana” ) that truly add specie in it. And eventually, succeeded enough in grabbing viewer’s attention. As far as acting has concerned all are trying to give the best of they can. Ironically , both Indo-Pak writers gave the biased review. Rather to discuss movie they objected Sonam & Fawad. Though Sonam is good in fashion but we were bearing her poor Acting & Fawad who is not eye catching from any side. It is good try but could be more good if Sonam or Fawad wasn’t in the movie.

Nutshell, Indian trying to illustrate the culture, of “empowered women”. Mostly heroines seen in Doctor’s role like “Yeh Jawani hai Dewani “ Or ” Kick”. Nevertheless, movie was good effort from Kapoor production. There is always a room for betterment. Khoobsurat that truly depicted the picture of Disney royal love. How come it could be possible without shooting on new fresh faces. That won the hearts of many who loved to watch light movie. Both (Fawad & Sonam ) are fresh for big screen. It ‘s my advice to all , take it as another opportunity for laugh out louds on silly stupid actions. For rating I will rate it 6.5/10 & music 7/10. Now it’s your turn & make your own rating best of luck J

The new one stars Sonam Kapoor & Fawad Khan, it is directed by Shashanka Ghosh and produced by Rhea Kapoor, Anil Kapoor & Siddharth Roy Kapoor.

Khoobsurat Original soundtrack album has six songs from which four has music by Sneha Khanwalkar.

Making of Naya Pakistan

2014-09-20T07:02:00.001-07:00

Justice comes under the doors of good governance.

Fatima Jinnah sister of founder of Pakistan was defeated in 1960’s election by Gen. Ayub Khan due to rigging.

Since the birth of Pakistan, every politician wants to make their own Naya Pakistan. They faithfully build Naya Pakistan on sake of snubbing others. Pakistan has been facing many political upheavals that hollow her from inside. Musshraf regime’s was a paradigm shift in political upheavals. No doubt, it left its harsh foot prints. But as compare to other martial law, it came with total change. Right of choice has been prominent influential change to date.

Meanwhile, Imran khan was getting hype . But he didn’t got much popularity like today. After martial law, assassination of Banzir Bhutto, was proved to add fuel to this change of behavior. Time passes by; expectation for better Pakistan has escalated. Politicians were doing their work with kept ignoring the ground realties. On other hand, Imran khan came with the skills of tackling this changing behavior. So here he started cashing this change & expectations.

This change of behavior comes in early 20’s (2001-2008). Imran khan was the only one who play cards according to need. Like everyone, IK has never talked or worked for his own interest. After Mushraf ‘s regime, Mr.Zardari , representative of PPP, came in power to play his card. PPP certainly tried to fulfill their slogan of “Roti,Kapra, Makaan” on sake of their share.

So what if there was Hazra community incident arose. So what many Hindu started migrating from interior Sindh due to ill behavior of PPP officials. They came with brilliant projects that directly related to empowering individuals like Banzir income support program, National internship Program & many other’s. Above all, tried their best to provide electricity in holy month Ramadan. However, finally after much hue & cry, PPP has cunningly completed 05 big years of democracy. It was big achievement of so called democracy.

However, election 2013 was proved as delirious. Especially for those youngsters, who were going to inked first time in life. Mr Nowaz & Mr. Kaptan playing their cards and trying to catch voters. Kaptaan who was playing like fast blower, Shahid Afrdi if not.

Difference was clear , PMLN talking about projects & PTI talking about justice & oppressor. So far leader playing their cards intelligently. Finally, intelligence has again beaten by cleverness & cheating. “Rigging” a perfect tool was being played by PMLN. Again 5^th time, PMLN came to power for making his own Pakistan. PMLN has started doing their job as authoritarian . Like every time , cosmetic project has remained their priority .

Kaptaan has remained Kaptaan he started yelling on the win of rigging . But PMLN kept running project as ignorance is a bliss. After useless 14 months chanting for rights, Kaptaan decided to come on roads as peaceful march called Azadimarch .

Meanwhile, PMLN’s goon culture leads them to height of insaneness. They assassinated 14 innocent people of PAT (Pakistan Awai Tareek) . Keep in mind PAT is of Mr.Qadri who never feel shy to come on street with container & after this incident he also announced to come 14 August.

Lastly, Kaptaan & Qadri both came on D-Chowk . Different round of negotiation was being placed for solution but no use. Meanwhile, protestor entered parliament areal/red-zone most sensitive area because our politician told us. Another, horrible incident was being intervened . Many got injured & few gone dead as result of ceasefire. Being a naïve of Islamabad, it was horrible night for us. Sadly, government has again showed cold shoulder over the incident.

However, finally 01 month has passed. But no use. Rather government has sealed all roads via containers. Daily many youngsters are caught by police. Islamabad schools are being filed by Punjab police. On other side, civil society has started protesting & many goes on hunger strike . Many have started making fun of Dharna & people who attended this. On top of it, trying to call Kaptaan as rigid stubborn. And Mr.Nawaz has received similar comments. People had started blaming to both parties for D-chowk incident.

The point, I am trying to build here, no doubt, revolution doesn’t attain easily . When some are sitting in houses and only complaining on electric bills. And other watching Games of throne or Master chef Australia. Yes usually revolution never comes too, when elite class boy came to attend the Jalsa and sexually abused by Policemen. When adults are being tortured by police because they are coming from Dharna. When flood ruined many villages when Eid Ul Adha is on way. When young girls were being raped & victims proved innocent. When government officials killed many just for the sake of breaking the law of entering parliament. Yes it never happened when person earning 8k and got 5k electricity bills. Yes, what else we can expect from feudal minded PM. It isn’t a revolution by book definition but still “some are trying to bring change”.

Before going further it is good to know, every country have different past born with different circumstances . We couldn’t relate our present to another. We are going through the hard battle of history once again, despite deny the actual facts how could we expect better. Now it’s about the time to think out of box. Many have a personal interest. But here we as a nation need to think wisely before leaping our actions. This is not just a matter of rigging or FIR of 14 killing. Its matter of cheating, being a ancestor of Hazrat Umer , how could we tolerate wrong.

How could we expect quality education & better health facilities when the leaders are least interested to give. It wasn’t old story, when Sindh was being caught by man-made disaster as hunger drought . Many got died because of incapable corrupt government officials. Balochistan is one of the highly rich province of mineral resources but still couldn’t get Sui Gas. Every year , hundreds of villages are drifted due to flood.

Cheating is embedded in our system that leads to corruption. Corruption never ever leads to betterment from any side. In end, think God forbidden if your loved one suddenly die due to blind firing or died because of drone attack then who will be blamed for this. Government or your loved ones. Same the situation, rises here, stop blaming those who stand for justice atleast they trying to change something. Otherwise, be prepared for many hazra community incidents , drones & many manmade disasters like flood. May be for civil war .

It’s a need, to go, and build your own experiences. Because it’s not war of ego . Go to Jalsa & figure out yourself what is right or what is wrong. Stop seeing the world from other’s lens. Your destination to Jalsa automatically become a history for your life. If not possible, read & figure out how corruption leads to bad governance. Because today someone is standing for us, with us for getting our rights. If cheater becomes our president so why shouldn’t we allow students to pass exams through cheating.

In nutshell, system that comes from stolen the right of choice of other’s how could they capable of giving basic rights. This democracy wouldn’t be more than derail shape of it.

They think to beguile Allah and those who believe, and they beguile none save themselves; but they perceive not

Al-Baqara - 2:9

Hurrem in Pakistan

2013-11-30T11:16:00.002-08:00

Beauty is eternity gazing at itself in a mirror

Beauty is always appreciated; moreover, smile on lips in front of enemies enriches the charm. This is what we call in casual words “inner beauty or pure soul”

Hürrem sultan Roxelana came to Pakistan since the start of this year. Initially she failed to get the attention. But soon her eye-catching dance and Nagar Khatoon’s advices allured the King’s heart.

Turkey to Pakistan, all and sundry, started following her what next is going to happen to her? And how she successfully retained her attitude and beauty .But one day, after she became mother of two, she was deported.

But she didn’t let herself down she kept trying and finally she got the secret coming inn again. Now she came with new weapon; weapon of smile.

Her new look left others in jeopardy .No one is a competitor of her in Pakistan. She is the only “confident beauty pageant” not only in Turkey but in Pakistan .Her wardrobe, jewelry her freshly done manicure her 5.7” height justified public’s madness towards her.

Her fairness get more fairer with her fame .Now she became a mother of five but her beauty and attitude still remains .

Her million dollars smile her cute crying face her yelling naughtiness made her official wife of 10^th king of Ottoman Empire Sultan Sulemian .She was getting older but her beauty Pakistani people mad .She clearly knows how to win the heart but one day unfortunately , one maid became dear to king.

Still story goes on. We all know Hurem never stepped back .Actually she compelled many to stood back .However, this is real Queen’s story ,wife of Sultan Suleiman .

Many rumors surrounded that the downfall of 10^th king ottoman empire END’s with Ibhram pasha’s death .

Hurrem wanted the downfall of Ibhraim Pasha (because he killed her first lover).

Story revolves around the beauty Queen “Hurrem” how he came to palace and how she struggled for getting king’s heart.

This is Story of Hurem and pasha rivalry. Revenge of her first lover, anyhow, historical beauty pageant in reality becomes the queen of Pakistani heart. Because they clearly know Pakistani Turkish Friendship is obligatory for us. Thanks Hurrem we love u

Abya and Sleeveless new uniform:

2013-11-23T11:22:00.001-08:00

Last week I received interview call from my own sector school. But I rejected the job specifically the condition of abya and veil that was mandatory for teachers (especially in front of school director). After this, many things started popping in my mind.

This becomes the story of every school. So I decided to lets’ discourse the western vs eastern uniform for teachers.

Two years back, my elder sis wasn’t feeling well due to bad fever she covered her head before entering the class. And suddenly she received a comment, ma’m you are not looking good (because of duptta). One of friend has gone before for the demo of teacher, she received the advice to become stylish.

Hey wait a second what’s this. I am unable to grab this. Our opposition leader Mr. Imran khan’s famous slogan is: educational system should be equal.

One mode of language should be imposed. But here, uniform becomes a dilemma. Here language is same (English) but followers of different school of thought. Both are practicing extreme behavior. One is follower of extreme religious and other is follower of extreme western culture.

I recalled one statement of my mum’s colleague’s daughter; “new teacher is not good; her heels are cracked”. I know it’s a psyche of kinder-garden or1-3^rd grade student. They are attracted towards colorful things. Kids are the mirrors of their teachers. If teacher speaks loudly so as the children do. But this environment makes me confused what school should I choose for my future children. One is preaching extreme religious behavior and one is opposite. May be I am accused of sin if I don’t send my child to abya school or send to sleeveless teacher.

What should I supposed to do? These thoughts are boiling my mind am I disobeying my religion? On the other hand, I also feel hesitated to go outside without duptta. Whether it is private school or madrassa everyone is inducing their thoughts.

These perceptions shaping split personalities in one society. Not only this having the fear of hatred material teaching in classes. Unfortunately, private schools teachers are less educated even BA English failed also teaching there. So-called good standard schools terminate their teachers for modifying things. However, poor economy has compelled teachers to obey supervisors.

All of above, I am trying to depicting the picture of hallow society.

Now physical appearance becomes more than inner values. Government of Pakistan living in fool’s paradise where Taliban is a bigger issue. Actually unequal educational institute opening the room for talibanization. In short, moderation is best policy of everything like Islam said to us.

Ist day

2013-10-31T11:41:00.000-07:00

I hate “first days” without any reason. First days of schools, colleges ,university and I don’t even watch the first episode of any drama . I used to skip 1^stDay of everything. But sometimes you have to come across this too. First day of my most recent ex-office was strange and wired than others. I entered in office (sharp 9am that I was supposed to be) and then I sat in to reception area. It was a big room having photocopy machine, TV, four black sofa’s (one of them I was sitting) and decorated with some ethnic pieces. I was anxiously waiting , in this feeling, I asked blue and black pant wearing man (support staff) what should I do ? He replied just wait. Then after 15 mins, my wait got over and my boss said to me lets go and finally I got my cabin full of messy things. Then I got orientation, read books, got introduction with whole staff, little chit chat with people and that how 1^st day closed. My first lesson was not to come on time.

No one bothered whether other’s wore simple frock and abya . Because according to them, everyone must be accountable to their own actions. Every passing time the environment absorbing me and EM adopting their norms. And within 1 month nothing is strange to me. My messy desk changed into new desk and my front board is filled with sticky notes with hotel Transylvania wallpaper on desktop. After 3 months everything going into continuity, work and even my desk. Everyone became my friends

But when my arrival date came,(completion of contract ), everything went in reverse motion. Everything was going away from me. Now my full desk changed into empty. I wrapped the whole stuff and handled things to supervisors. I had associated some fears with first day or I consciously wanted to avoid introductory session of everything. I wanted to see things in flow every one cheering, not to struggling for making relationship or other’s making fun of their first appearance. Mostly in office, everyone is teasing the new comers without recalling their own 1^st day. Putting barriers and discouraging and back biting. This used to happen everywhere. I also became victim of this like others.

Through my good listening skills without interpreting them and won’t broadcasted it. I concluded people used to backbite their seniors, when they mostly need their juniors as a guide. (It happened in offices when they hired new seniors or some doesn’t like anyone to be superior than them etc) .Most loveable moment is when backbiting is prohibited in offices and every single person proudly disobeying the law. :D

It is psychological that we hardly welcome others with full heart. This feeling called ragging in educational institutes. This ragging changed into discouraging or in official language calls “leg pulling”. In houses we used to call this phenomenon “grudges” towards latest edition of family calls “daughter n law”. It is a vicious cycle hurters ain’t feel this how much they unconformable others. No matter how bad was happening with us in past we should try to adopt new changes appearing in life. Life is about constant changes in structure otherwise I would be monotonous.

In nutshell, 1st day fear come along with all new comers of every stage. In more causal words we can say its “revenge “. To take from those who never hurts you. Like suicide bombers taking “revenge” of whom they don’t know. The points from above I’m trying to make here is no body won’t replace you and you can’t replace anyone. Rather than to jealous just embrace new change and forget new comer’s some mistakes. Be optimistic J

Pakistan is not a worst place

2013-09-07T01:48:00.001-07:00

Tell me the positive things about Pakistan. Since the birth of Pakistan you came across this sentence. Earlier it was very easy to answer this question. But now genocide killing, target killing and drone attacks lost its importance in a very true sense. This makes us insane towards this question? Figuring out positive and negative is in human nature. That statement makes this question justified. Everyone straightly reply nothing is good about Pakistan . But my mind doesn’t accept this answer.

On 14^th August I was talking to my friend he wants to take admission further and was telling there is only few universities that are good. Unfortunately, in his list name of his own university where is graduated was not included. Like this one person came to city first time but was disappointed because everything was same. Like this we don’t like our country. There are so many reasons why we don’t like our country like; extreme inflation, not access to basic necessities moreover steady killing of persons made icing of hating. So have we ever talked about positivity in Pakistan?

Everyone very easily declared Pakistan a failure state. But how come Pakistan always stands with destructed country or people. No matter they are Muslims or not. Like the case of Syria every Pakistani is standing against the act of America. Iraq time Pakistan stop using the products of America for showing the solidarity for Iraqi’s. It is true Pakistan is going through its hard time but doesn’t prove at all nothing is good in Pakistan. So let’s make a list what is really good about Pakistan that have to proud of it.

First of all Pakistan is friend of every country. Pakistan is not considering any country its enemy. Pakistan is one of those countries who always accept every country’s independence with true heart. Not only she has volunteering her soldiers for making peace in different countries.

Despite the Muslim country Pakistan doesn’t restrict anyone to wear certain clothes either you are foreigner or not. Pakistan is counted in world’s number one philanthropist country. Every country is facing bagger’s issue so that Pakistan does. Despite its tough condition Pakistan is having the privilege of having higher IQ people. We can saw this by the records of A and O’s level.

Abdul Satter Edhi (Edhi Foundation runs the world's largest ambulance service and operates free nursing homes, orphanages, clinics, women's shelters, and rehab centers for drug addicts and mentally ill individuals. It has run relief operations in Africa, Middle East, the Caucasus region, eastern Europe and US where it provided aid following the New Orleans hurricane of 2005.)Who works for the world without any cause don’t you consider it is better than UN or UNDP ; who never raise voice against US for her brutality for Iraq and Syria. I always heard this when I was in college and school we have to collect money for tsunami and other disasters. So Pakistan is not putting strength to building its nation but still have heart.

Positive thing is not only restricted to its philanthropist nature and high IQ level . Pakistan has having best forces in world . Pakistan is country combined with different weathers that other’s don’t have. Pakistan's gas distribution network is the second largest in the world after that of the United States. The media in Pakistan is among the most independent in the world as are the world-class journalists that comprise this institution. Moreover, Samina Baigh Giligit girl(Giligit reproach in people’s eye) who climbed the Everest at the age of 21.

We all not deny this fact that Pakistan is no doubt facing trouble time. But we can’t say this bad because never be a part of invade any country. Pakistan never ever impose false allegation to any other. Many who raise the slogan of worst country to Pakistan consider those counted in those who are remain rulers by snubbing other’s.

The point I am trying to make above it is very hard to love the country where thousands of people die daily ;effected by disaster and no help . But we hardly heard this words from effected people but we heard this words from those who hate Pakistan because it fashionista. Hard time had come to many countries and then they become super power. We can’t compare our country to India or any other. It’s about political upheavals and bad governance system that make people to hate any land.

12th Lux Style Awards

2013-07-06T10:10:00.000-07:00

12^th Lux style awards ceremony being held on July 4 2013 at Lahore Pearl Continental . This time without indulging in the global culture war discussion just take a quick over view what was happened in silver awards ceremony. Every year the nomination is going lesser and it is solely dedicated to fashion. Just filling the formality of awards ceremony. Purpose of entertainment and appreciation to talent is hiding in silver awards. Here are the winners of the LSA.

People thoughts about LSA .

‏@omar_quraishi5 Jul ‏@godfatheriv10h ‏@BasitSubhani44m

Ayesha Omar beat out Sajjad Ali, Sajid and Zeeshan and Usman Riaz, in the Best Album category at the Lux Style Awards - that is ABSURD

#OverHeard These "Lux Style Awards" should be for adolescent kids aged between 11-19. If you know what I mean. #Hahaha

@IflaZafar No sane person takes Lux Style Awards seriously anyway.

Anyways let’s take a look of who was wearing what who was disaster

of the event.

In nutshell, whatever the theme behind this I just want to say awards ceremony should be dedicated to hard workers true professionals . In the name of glamour we shouldn't ignore true talent. Best of luck to stars :)

Yeh jawani hai dewani

2013-06-25T08:00:00.001-07:00

I had never thought to write any blog especially for Indian movie. But yesterday one movie obligates me to write over it ‘’Yeh Jawani Hai dewani’’. Whatever the concept behind this name but we all are Dewane of this movie. Deepika and Ranbir is rock stars not because of looks but for acting too. And icing on top story and direction made the movie superb worth watching. I hadn’t found any critics for this. I only heard the praise and refreshing movie comments. This not just from the teen groups but from the adult groups too. Its antidepressant movie

Anyhow coming back to YEH JAWANI HAI DEWANI ; firstly the opening scene of the movie is average or you can say below average. Movie begins with dance of Mahdouri and Ranbir. Movie begins with as usual Indian conventional style. Ranbir sitting with his parents (father with step mother) and keep arguing about dreams on the other hand Deepika obedient girl want some change .Remember in movie, Deepika was studying medicine in reputed college and known as nerd student. Ranbir was doing nothing at that time. One day Deepika met one of her school mate Geeti in grocery store. Where she told about her adventure trip with other classmates. Finally Deepika after arguing with her mum about boring routine she came to rail way station for joining them. So from here story begins; story revolve around three friends Nana(Deepika),Bunny(Ranbir) Aditi (Kalki Koechlin) and Avi (Aditya Roy Kapur). They reached the hill station. And quarreled and fun with each other. Aditi was a tom girl hard to handle but her acting makes the movie more interesting and crispy. Movie goes on. Avi and Bunny portraying the old picture of flirty hero’s. Bunny (Ranbir) as usual depicting a cool and girls favorite guy as you can recall it from Shahrukh khan movie Dil wale dulyian lae jaye ge. But this time maturity can saw from Indian writers and directors. In this movie guy was much more passionate towards his goal. Anyways, during this trip they were divided in groups and guide told them the red flag myth that was hanging on the very high hill. Hero and heroine reached there and arrived back successfully. But in whole trip Nana(Deepika) changed a lot because of the bunny boosting conversation with her. And finally she started secretly loving him.

After their arrival, after 5 year Bunny having settled profession. But still roaming one to another place. Friend reunion came under the wedding of Aditi. Where all friends met quarreled with Bunny because of his non serious behavior towards relations and his absence. Especially with his father’s death and Avi . But things sorted out as the end comes.

During reunion, Bunny visited many places with Nana. And argued about the fun of visiting different places and live with relationships. Finally Bunny started falling in love with Nana too because of her innocence, beauty and braveness. But in the movie both were very passionate towards their goal. Here I am not disclosing the end of the movie. For this you have to take the time for this.

In short, movie is a story of 3 besties. How the one sacrifice relations for achieving something. But one thing that I really want to mention; ‘’Zingadi mein bhut kosh bi kare tou kuch na kuch choot he jata hai tou hum cheezo ke pache kun bahagy’’. Zingadi mein her cheeze ka aik waqt hota hai . So I am giving 5 stars to this. Best of luck J

Election and our beliefs

2013-05-06T10:44:00.000-07:00

Development – Improvement in human welfare, quality of life, social well being.

There are lots of ways to judge the country’s progress through its economic growth like GDP or GNP. But being a citizen of that country we can judge our country’s progress on availability of basic necessities to us. What country has provided for its most vulnerable inhabitants? Like as we judged progress of last government. Our development and country’s development is interlinked. If country is progressing then we our automatically.

Development is any positive change. Everywhere country is judged on its progress how much she succeeds in giving basic necessities. Like food, shelter, employment, health, safe water etc. Pakistan where patriarchal system is highly practiced. Even opinions are mobilized here. Freedom of expression is rarely appreciated in Pakistan. If grandfather is casting their vote for lion then whole family must support him.

Physical development is only considers development in Pakistan. So what if we don’t have light. We scream a lot because of 18hr long load shedding in the peak of summer. But at least, damn we have good roadsJ. The point I am trying to make here, there is a great need to identify what is development actually. Development or progress is occurs when you get your basic necessities without any hurdle.

Election is on its peak. Election becomes a hot issue of gossiping. Under patriarchal , mobilizing other the opinions is very common. In election days; this is commonly observed .When I was in 4rth grade , election was on aired , my grandfather ordered everyone must vote your for Lion (PML-N) . And that time, I was a fan of Mr. khan because of his cricket achievement and looks . Obviously I hate nobody was going to vote for him. But as time passes by, I realized, the importance of lamp (Chrag) now Bat (election symbol). How useful he is for Pakistan.

What the thing that I really hate is Nawaz Sherf without any concern campaigning against Imran khan that he is Jew (when he married Jemima). Even at that time, Khan was not much recognized in politics. He keeps blaming him .But Imran khan only focused on his career and hospital. Anyhow, this is what I heard when Imran khan had just entered in politics.

Now come back to election. May is on the calendar and 11^th may is not so far. Now it’s time to judge and clearly see; who actually fulfill the position of Prime minister. Prime minister should be honest, with free of corruption, pious etc.

Election is not a fun time. To go and just stamp whom your grandfather or father said it’s a time to think who is better. Is the roads and good buildings really meets our progress. Why we appreciate Ahmed e Nejad (prime minister of Iran) because of his simplicity and keenness towards his government. Why shouldn’t we want these characteristics in our future prime minister? If government first priority is roads, buses and missile technology etc when he come to work for MDGs (food,shelter,safe water etc).

What should I do for this roads when I have to travel in Rickshaw, Tanga huh :@ . Moreover, have to pay, extra money for going home because of shortage of CNG. Flyovers are not my issue. My issue is when I finished my studies I got job to feed my family. And I got electricity without generator and got clean water without spending on Nestle bottles . That never ends. Before going to cast your vote just make sure your leader is honest free of naib cases .

Security will not his issue he come out of his house and stand with me in problems. Why would I get from this vote after winning the election my leader blocked roads for his feasibility. He feels ashamed while sitting with me. I come out my house for his jalsa and casting vote without bothering of security. It is a passion of every person towards his leader.

But my leader puts barrier and glass-proof stage for his security so why should I vote for this leader. Why we are waiting for Eid and references for meeting him. Even special days for call. Here is some pictures of true leader who exists in this 2013.

Palestinian Prime –minister Ismail Haneyeh’s palace and AhmedNijad's picture

In nutshell, this is crucial time that we are facing right now. Compromises are not appreciated here. Recharge your brain strings. And before going to vote see two sides of coins and pros and cons of every aspect. Because no one going to get you out in electricity, food ,unemployment. Moreover, no body going to defend your side abroad on behalf of you. What’s your leader and country is doing. Why your country is the victim of drone attacks? And when foreigner’s assaults you because of Pakistan. So think beyond the street, city and province.

“A politician thinks of the next election. A leader thinks of the next generation.” (Nelson Mandla )

Dear Life

2013-05-01T09:56:00.001-07:00

I don’t want tears in my life. I had so many in past. Now I want to live happy…… I know no one is here for me when I suddenly wake up in the mid of a night .Because of the darkness and fear inside me …….please tears just go away from me……I don’t want you to let me down ; in front of those who feel happy letting me down……I am alone but I know my Allah is always with me ……..Please Allah give me as much strength that I can handle the hard tough harsh faces and attitudes …….please tears don’t become barrier in my success ..

Don’t abundant my inner soul.

Please I want to live my life as a happy person…

Please Allah help me …….

Another Lux style Awards.

2013-04-14T08:18:00.001-07:00

Story that narrates common people eventually closer to heart. Hum TV is one of them. Hum TV began its transmission on January 17, 2005. Hum TV is renowned for its quality .Hum TV presents 24hr full entertainment that caters every unit of public. Every passing time Hum TV comes up with more maturity. And became a master after PTV. Here comes to the big channel award ceremony that was being held on 14th march 2013. Viewers voted online for their best artists. Awards are a best way to appreciate one’s skills. Cherry on top; performances made this huge event.

The best thing of web is now you can see the event via live streaming. Although it is hard to find but its bash at a same time. Many bloggers and journalists postmortem the event. Now it’s timeworn to wait a long for seeing the event. This is paradigm shift in recent times. We completed our journey to instant milk to instant info.

Anyways, talk about what is another Lux Style award ceremony. This is not the LSA in actual but it is depicting the picture of something like IFFA or OSCR awards ceremony. Why?

Before going to postmortem of HTA, let’s have look of Magnum ice cream launch party in which every guest wear Hollywood prom style dress or cocktail dress ‘cause it was mentioned in the card to wear desired dresses . Besides this Unilever event everyone sees in prom dresses whether you like it or not it becomes the fashion of web world.

Anyways Hum TV Awards ceremony is the best thing happen in private sector after music channel awards ceremonies. In other words we can say this was a star night. Here is the rough list of winners.

Hum TV Award winners list;

Best women’s wear designer; Nomi Ansari.

Best Menswear Designer; Deepak Perwani.

Best sitcom; The Mango people.

Best soap ;Mujey Roothney NA dena.

Best actors of soap; Imran Aslam and Sumbul Iqbal.

Lifetime achievement award; Mohin Akhtar .

Best new sensation; Shehryar Munawar and Sohai Aabro.

Best series; kitni Girhein Baaqi Hain

Best supporting actress; Samina Pirzada and Shagufta Ejaz.

Best supporting Actor;Mohib Mirza.

Best Drama: Shehr-e-Zaat

The whole scene is glamorous night was insisting people to recall LSTA to compare. Hum TV 1st awards ceremony is although the best way to entertain depressed public. And we must say Hum TV succeed in giving tough time to other’s. All were looking stunning whatever conservative party says. They damn care about everything. All are coming in their style. The most important thing that I like most is finally there is someone who is rewarding people. And their hard work is paid off. Uroosa Siddique, Fawad Khan & Mahira Khan, Shehryar Munawar and Sohai Aabro and many others. Many artists failed to step in PTV. After watching Hum TV awards we can conclude awards ceremony still happening in our country.

Critics said that awards ceremony should be moderate. Being a follower of common man prom dresses should be banned in award ceremonies. Besides this, public is confused this is not the first awards ceremony. This is may be 2nd awards ceremony. This is only women oriented show.

Sum up all above, awards is always a good boost to life of anyone. Give reward to entry or intermediated level. Gives tough competition to others. After Lux Style Awards ceremony and PTV awards it is good sign. Awards should be cater all public not only one strata. In the end, like always I insist to say there should be check and balance what is going on awards ceremony. Is they are truly represent us or they were those hypo –crates who showed resentment for Turkish drama’s .

My Lord!

2013-02-21T10:14:00.001-08:00

My Lord!

We have surely sent apostles with clear signs and sent with them the book and the balance, so that man may stand by justice (Al-Hadid-25)

My lord! My throat goes dry but I wouldn’t stop raising my voice for truth. I will hold my voice against the brutality of enemies and insane behavior of our government. What’s wrong with me? Neither me or nor my clerics ever been involved in crime………how could you announce a death sentence without any offense. Where the head of government been living…I want nothing I just want security of me and my family. I belong to a Muslim country and have been usliving there after independence of Indo-Pak. I don’t want a separate state like Bengalis I just need my right of living there. My father and my brother all are giving their input in the development of our country. So why are we being killed because of my genocide. We are the citizens of Quaid e Azam Muhammad Ali Jinnah’s country. Followers of Allah and Prophet (P.B.U.H) (SALI ALA WAL E WASLAM). We always comes on road and sit behind the dead bodies of our relatives and think maybe this time we will become the center of attention of government.

But every time our whining and yelling failed. We came back and our relatives buried dead bodies. We are living the life of uncertainty and dismay. We can’t go outside freely like we use to. We think might be this day or coming day anyone can hear our cry. But it doesn’t happen. And our intensity of fright gets increased by every passing day.

Don’t become a Pharaoh. And don’t forget I’m pledging to My Allah for justice. He is the best chief justice. Now I’m waiting for his reply. He will definitely tell us how has the justice occurred. Every one clearly remembered the end of Pharaoh along how King Nimrod died.

Hotel Transylvania (2012)

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Hotel Transylvania (2012)

Director; Genndy Tartakovsky

Writers: Peter Baynham (screenplay), Robert Smigel(screenplay)

Starring: Adam Sandler, Kevin James, Andy Samberg

I came across this movie via web surfing for watching a good piece. I have always admired light comedy plus animated movie. From quenching this thirst .I just clicked this movie for download. Now what is the thing that grab our attention is Dracula’s picture with his family . This story is about the Dracula and his little daughter Mavis. Despite his status of Dracula he feels afraid of human being. And that’s why he was trying to safe this only daughter from human world. This mystery would later unveil after the arrival of strange teenage boy in Dracula’s place. Hotel Transylvania is a place for hang out for the Dracula’s friends and other ghost members. Lots of funny characters make this movie an incredible comedy. Especially Frankenstein and Murray are most interesting lovable characters. Life was stagnant over there. But after the arrival of Jonathan (Teenage boy) their life was filled of non-stop laughs. And like that movie goes on. If you want some light comedy and want to break of your tiring routine then must go this movie. I will give this movie 5 stars;collectible .

My love

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You are always with me in my dreams and in my conscious. I can feel your breath. You always wipe out my tears with your smiles and stupid jokes…..

You always boosted my confidence….you smiled with me….I always wants to touch you but I couldn’t find your hand ………..

I want to feel your heart beat …..But I couldn’t understand how thousand miles stand between us……

Valentine`s celebration is on its peak…..

But I don`t want to become a part of this temporary love…….

I Just want to be your part……

I just pray thousand miles defused in one shadow ….And we will never be apart…..

I just pray to be with you ………..

Nothing is more important than Pakistan;

2013-01-15T09:33:00.001-08:00

We got Pakistan after long tiring struggle of Quiad—e-Azam and our ancestors blood. We all read and heard this story on every Pakistan day. But we are unable to grab the main point. Islamic republic of Pakistan is basically made for getting basic needs, freedom of choice, practicing own religion. And there is no room for oppressing the rights, discrimination in any field. Initially the rules were smoothly run as decided. But as the years are passing the situation is becoming even worst. People make groups, ethnic parties, Madrass and other parties. They failed to build a nation. And lump sum their national interest is only to make bonding in groups or parties.
Democratic governance system and Marshal Law has became government system of Pakistan. Corrupt groups has became gang there. Everyone throwing garbage in front of other’s doors, cutting the cables, sucking water machine and others. In short every act that causes hatred among masses eventually a common habit. Moreover, no one raise voice against them. Who raise voice assumed a rebellion. People always care more about their allies rather than to stand for truth. This is because they harassing others right in a way that never be considered a crime. We can apply this factor at any situation. For instance, our present government who is doing nothing except yelling out we are the party of terrorist effected. So at the era of terrorism we have ultimate right to govern. So what if we are not giving you petrol, CNG, electricity, basic necessities. It is a time to sacrifice. Like we are doing sacrifice too. Moreover, followers of PPP deny this fact that our PPP is doing anything wrong. We all suffering because economic crisis caught the entire world.
The point I’m trying to make here, `people are gone too far with their groups. They left what actually our national interest is. I’m not only talking about our government or PPP. Deeds are not reflecting us as a nation. We stop thinking what is right or wrong. Let’s take a case of Mr.Imran khan youngster’s voice. Youngsters hardly heard anything against him even the point is right. It is good to have a leader but always keep in mind leader is just leader no one is more important than our country. So if any leader’s act is superior to national interest. . Stop them there and say Excuse me you our leader but always keep in mind you are not as important as our nation interest is.
Quaid-e- Azam said on August 11, 1947 that “if we want to make this great State of Pakistan happy and prosperous, we should wholly and solely concentrate on the well-being of the people, and especially of the masses and the poor.”

It is hard to define national interest in few lines. But in short, anything that is in our national benefits but same time not hurting anyone’s right at any where. Like the Baluchistan who always faced the brutality of government. Extreme of insane and sluggishness of government; thousand people with their loved one’s dead bodies waiting to justice. Government has no time to go effectees of Quetta. Still they are talking about so-called constitution and policies that they failed to work.
In nutshell, being a Muslim our utmost duty is to stand for justice raise voice against brutality. If our leaders doing wrong, so leave them alone. Governor system is not the solution of anything. If Bilawal Zardari(son of president) got killed in Quetta or son of Mr. Nawaz what would the government’s action be . If government is working for justice and peace their first step could be to punish Banzir Bhutto assassinator. We don’t need any party who just work for shouting and proving we are terrorists effected party. If they ever hurt then there will not be suicide attacks. So time is still in your hands, do critical analysis of what government and leaders are doing.

Sister’s mania

2013-01-13T05:41:00.000-08:00

Sister’s mania is on its peak. People caught in sister’s love. Sisters told the media we are the best. And on this way, guarantee is based on sister’s mania. Don’t go far. They are here belongs to our country. Alishba’s and sisters. And Urwa and sister. Young blood fresh faces yet beautiful girls who don’t want to cast them. Off course, media is all about fresh faces and beauties. And these two beautiful sisters became the hot favorite list of every one. Let’s take a brief look of these beauties.
Alishba yousuf and sisters;

Alishba yousaf have three sisters .And all step in to media world as a VJ or music channel host. And soon listed in the favorite VJ’s. All been seen in different commercials especially the younger one syra yousaf . Every one made their own fans because of their talents and looks.
Alishba yousaf ; the older one earlier seen in different music channels as a VJ also she did commercials . But she is more admired in drama’s. Her popular drama’s are ‘’Mein Abdual Qadir Hon’’ on hum tv, Aik Nazar meri tarf on Geo tv , Takkay ki Ayegi Baraat, Annie ki Ayegi Baraat Geo tv, Meray Dard Ko Jo Zuban Miley (Hum tv)Tanhayian Naye Silisilay .

Palwasha Yousuf ;is a Pakistani model and VJ on MTV Pakistan. She also took part in a reality show, "Desi Kuriyan", with her sister Alishba Yousuf on ARY Digital. She did hosting one of the cooking show of Masla TV.

Syra yousaf ; who recently married to son of the famous actor Behroze Sabzwari ‘s son Sheroz . Syra yousaf who is teen most favorite VJ and actress . She is Miley cyurs of Pakistan. She did lot of ads and dramas. Taniyana in which is performing with her elder sister Alishba .
Urwa & Marwa

Urwa Hussian is a brilliant sharp VJ ,model and actress. She is been working with The music for years. With every year her popularity graph increased. She had also worked with MTV and AGG TV. She did so many ads. Huge blockbuster dramas are also goes in to her credit like Meri ladgli. She is seen now a days in drama Kahi Un Kahi and damagh ki bati on the music.

Marwa Hussian; is younger sister of Marwa. She is also famous like elder one. Although she started her career with Atv music show Boom Online. And this show became the luck line for her like Noor ul Hassan. She did so many drama’s her famous one is Yah Pyar nahi hai on Hum TV. She is currently seen in serial Aik Tamana La Hasil Si and Mein Gunhagar Nahi on ARY.
Glamour, freshness ,innocence ,cuteness there is no end for them. All media knows no one can beat these two sis famous clan. Just best wishes for them . 