Direct Your Soulmate

Decide You are Ready To Meet Your Soulmate

2012-01-13T13:04:00.000-08:00

Make the commitment right now. Decide that you are ready, willing and available for BIG LOVE. Allow yourself to "feel" what it feels like to be deeply loved and connected. If you "feel" it you can do it. (no matter what your age, weight or income!)

Know with every part of your being that the one that you are longing for is on the way to you right now. Make a plan and share it with your best friend and ask them to support you in manifesting your soul mate. Be open to meeting and dating.

Take the first step and begin preparing using "The Direct Your Soulmate Meditation and Resources" , when you have cleared the clutter from your heart and mind, determine how you will meet meet people. If you are signing up for online personals it is best to watch a site for a month to monitor actiity before dating anyone. This way you can tell the "serial daters" from those who are serious about finding a relationship. It is best to connect on Facebook with someone and slowly get to know them before plunging in. Use every chance to view someone's charecter and reputation from a distance so you know in advance you are meeting a quality person.

Having Good Conversation on Your First Date

2012-01-13T12:58:00.001-08:00

Any day now it will be time for that first date and it's time to prepare. Think about three things about yourself that you are willing to share...it may be stuff you haven't thought about for a very long time.

Arielle Ford Comments :
"For instance, when I was in high school I was a baton twirler for the Miami Dolphins. I was known as a Dolphin Doll. While it isn't one of my favorite memories, most men find this small bit of information fascinating.".

Were you known for rescuing the stray dogs and cats in your neighborhood? Think about some funny, touching, interesting things about yourself that you can weave into the conversation. Now, more importantly, be prepared to ask good questions.

Here's one of my favorites: If you could re-live one day of your life, which one would it be and why?

Stay in the moment, have fun, and let your love light glow!

Find Your Soulmate - Do Not Let The Media Mess With Your Mind

2012-01-13T12:56:00.000-08:00

Men's Health magazine came up with the best cities in America to meet single men over 35. The results are based on six criteria: the ratio of unmarried men to unmarried women, divorce rates, fitness level, philanthropy, education level and attraction.

The top 20 cities are:

San Jose, California
Salt Lake City, Utah
Arlington, Texas
Raleigh, North Carolina
San Francisco, California
Fremont, California
Austin, Texas
Minneapolis, Minnesota
Washington, D.C.
San Diego, California
Charlotte, North Carolina
Dallas, Texas
Denver, Colorado
St. Paul, Minnesota
Seattle, Washington
Houston, Texas
New York, New York
Madison, Wisconsin
Fort Worth, Texas
Durham, North Carolina

Whether or not your city made the top 20 will have NO impact on your ability to manifest a soul mate.

If you have clear intentions, if you have cleaned up your past relationships (and related issues), and you have prepared yourself on every level... the Universe will find a way to bring you & your soul mate together. It is not your job to know how this will happen. It is only your job to prepare and KNOW that it will happen.

Find Your Soulmate- You Must Romance Yourself

2012-01-13T12:53:00.001-08:00

One of the biggest symbols of romance in our culture is a bouquet of beautiful, fragrant flowers. The flowers provide a multi-sensory experience that evoke pleasure in most people. When was the last time you bought yourself a really extravagant array of flowers? If it's romance you crave, begin today by creating it for yourself. Look for ways each day to show yourself how much you really care. Besides keeping fresh flowers at my bedside, here are some of my favorite things to do to keep an aura of romance in my home:

1) Each evening I fill the bathtub with aromatherapy oils and light a few candles.
2) Never eat standing up. Set a place at the table (even if it's the coffee table) and use a nice placemat. Add a little elegance to your daily life.
3) A bowl of fresh fruit. Ask yourself this. If your beloved were to arrive at your front door today, would you want at least some fresh fruit to serve him or her?

When manifesting big love, remember that first you must be YOUR biggest fan.

Color Your Love Mandala to Manifest Your Soulmate

2012-01-13T12:51:00.000-08:00

Many years ago a wise woman told Gayle Mandel that she could manifest her soulmate by coloring a love mandala. A mandala is an intricate design of shapes usually in a circular pattern. Gayle colored in the various pieces of the mandala. Each time she colored in a space she spoke out loud the quality she was seeking in her soul mate. With a purple crayon she announced "I would like a man that is kind to animals." With the blue crayon she said "I would like a man who appreciates my sense of humor." Using dozens of crayons and announcing dozens of traits, Gayle completed her task. Within a very short time she met Howard. He was exactly what she had asked for. Now, more than 20 years later, they are still happily married.

LOVE MANDALA

To do this manifestation project, treat it as a sacred ceremony.
Do it at a time when you have an open heart and a clear mind.
Color each small area with crayons or colored pencils
while vocalizing and meditating on the qualities you want in a soul mate.
Use different colors for different qualities.

Feng Shui For Meeting Your Soulmate

2012-01-13T12:48:00.000-08:00

Just as we clear the clutter from our hearts we must also clear the clutter from our homes. Feng Shui is an excellent system for creating positive energy in our home and one of the first rules is to get rid of all the clutter. (this includes the stuff under your bed). According the art of Feng Shui, every home has a relationship corner...a section that can be "enlivened" by adding crystals, candles, and images of happy pairings. Give yourself every advantage and find your relationship corner today.

The Relationships corner is located on the furthest right side of your main entrance as well as every room in your home.
We will be writing more on this topic very soon.

Who Are Your Soulmate Role Model's ?

2012-01-13T12:45:00.001-08:00

Do you have a role model for romance? Who is your ideal couple? The old saying "if I can see it I can believe it," is valid because for most folks, "seeing is believing." If there isn't a couple in your life that demonstrates the type of soul mate relationship you plan to have, then identify a couple you don't know to focus on. One of my favorites is Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward. They have been married and in love since 1958. Just as you would learn a recipe before trying a complicated new dish in the kitchen, you also want to study successful partnerships. Start looking for couples to admire and learn from.

Believe That You Can Meet Your Soulmate

2012-01-13T12:44:00.001-08:00

Before we can be successful at anything in life we must first BELIEVE that we can do it.
Take a moment to think about the people, projects and events you have manifested in your life. Just prior to making those things happen you may recall that you also BELIEVED it would happen. This also applies to manifesting a soul mate. The Universe operates the same for everyone. Whether you have manifested a parking space or the job of a lifetime, you also have the power to manifest Big Love.

Having A Clear Vision About Your Soulmate

2012-01-13T12:43:00.000-08:00

Think about the last time you went shopping for a pair of shoes. Chances are you knew before you went to the store if you wanted the shoes for business, sports or dress-up, right? You also probably knew what size, color, style and heel height would appeal to you. And, you may even have had a budget in mind. And, I'll bet that once you spent some time searching for these shoes you eventually found the perfect pair.

You were able to manifest your perfect shoes because you had a clear vision of what you were looking for. Manifesting a soul mate can be nearly as effortless if you first have a clear vision of what he or she will be like.

First begin with the physical traits and make a specific list that includes age range, height/weight range and appearance. For reasons I will never understand, I always wanted a man with gray hair. ( Arielle Ford notes, "My soul mate, Brian, went gray in his thirties. When we met he was 39 and completely gray.")

Next, begin to list the qualities of the personality that most appeals to you. Finally, and most importantly, add to this list descriptions of how you will feel in this relationship. Take a moment to close your eyes and imagine how you feel as you are walking through life with your beloved. Do you feel love, cherished and adored? Do you feel connected, trusting, joyful and serene? Breathe into these feelings while visualizing your new life with your soul mate. Then make time each day to do this as you savor the waiting.

Pay Attention To The Signs - Bring Your Soulmate To You

2012-01-13T12:40:00.001-08:00

One morning five years ago, Englishman David Brown woke up with a cell phone number running through his mind. Brown had no idea where the number came from, and sent a text message to it, hoping to solve the mystery. He reached Michelle Kitson, who lived 60 miles away. She had no explanation, but after several messages back and forth, they struck up a friendship that blossomed into love. The two ended up getting married and have just returned from their honeymoon in India. "She really is the girl of my dreams," said Brown.

This true story was reported this week in the magazine THE WEEK. For me it's a clear reminder that we must remember to follow and trust our dreams and intuition AND that the Universe will often send us signs that will lead us to love.

Are you ready to manifest your soul mate? Is receiving this email a "sign" that it's now time for you to begin to "prepare and learn how to manifest?" What can you do today
to bring your soul mate to you?

Are You Ready For Your Soulmate ? Big Love ?

2012-01-13T12:38:00.000-08:00

Are you really ready for Big Love?

If you can answer YES to these statements, you are ready:

I love and nurture myself.
I have healed the baggage of my past relationships.
I am clear about the kind of person and relationship I now wish to manifest.
I have the time, energy and resources to nurture another.
I believe that I am deserving of Big Love and that the "one" is out there and he/she is also looking for me.

If you answered no to any of these, don't worry. Just know that this is the area of your life that needs attention. If you need assistance, order Direct Your Soulmate Into Your Life
today and begin the process

Are You Ready To Be a Soulmate ? Being Someone's place to land ?

2012-01-13T12:35:00.000-08:00

One of the best things about sharing your life with your soul mate is having a life filled with unconditional love. Soul mates are often each other's best friend and as such the relationship becomes a "soft place to land" when life becomes difficult or stressful or scary. This "soft place to land" is both a physical place in your home as well as an emotional space in the relationship.

While you are in the process of becoming a magnet for love, create a physical space in your home right now that is your "soft place to land." It can be as simple as a comfy over-sized chair in the corner of a room or a soft hammock for two under a tree in your backyard. Use this space on a daily basis to focus your attention on your intention for Big Love.

On the emotional side, look and see who is in your life right now - a friend, family member, or co-worker -- for whom you can become a "soft pace to land." Practice providing them with the love, compassion, and non-judgmental support you plan to share with your soul mate when he/she arrives in your life.

Relationship Trust Issues

2008-12-17T11:58:00.000-08:00

Question Asker:
Relationship/Trust issues?
I am seeing a guy. We aren't technically "dating", but we are sleeping together. I have known him for years and we were best friends. Then, he started dating this girl for about a year. They broke up a little over a month ago. That's when I came in. He says he doesn't want a serious relationship... but we are together a lot, and we have sex. I found out that he was receiving "favors" from another mutual friend of ours. I was so upset. Now he tells me that it was before we started hanging out. Other friends hint around like he is lying to me, but I can't get a straight answer out of anyone but him... I have always trusted him. He has never given me a reason not too. I'm not sure what to believe... I know you don't know the whole situation in great detail, but I need some advice on what to do. Do I sound like one of those girls who's guy is cheating right in front of their face, but they don't want to believe it?

Joanna's Answer:

You have to first decide what YOU want in a relationship.

You matter !

You have to then decide if what YOU want, if he also desires that kind of relationship as well

That is what a real relationship is about.

You are giving physical intimacy to someone in the wrong order.
Relationships work best when there is a MUTUAL understanding between the two people involved.

If he desires to sleep with other people aside from you and has stated he does not want a serious relationship, Then you need to decide if you want that too
.
There is a simple law :
you do not own anyone and no one owns you.

He can do what he wants
It is only your job to decide if whether or not you wish to put up with it.
other than that he has no obligation to account to you for his behavior unless you both mutually set the relationship up with those parameters in mind.

Asker's Rating:
5 out of 5
Asker's Comment:
Thanks! I told him that I couldn't keep going with the way things are. We still hang out but we are saving the physical stuff so I don't get attached. We realized we weren't on the same page... Great advice! thanks!

Are You Keeping Your Man?

2008-12-06T19:27:00.000-08:00

I have received a few inquiries from women who take on 100% of the relationship burden, they pay all bills and keep their man stress free.
Ladies, this is not a relationship, this is called being "kept".
Even with all of the effort, heart and expense, you cannot force a man to love you.
This cannot be bought. You cannot confuse the things he loves that YOU DO for him, for him just loving you for being YOU. I am often asked how long do these relationships last.
My answer is, they can last as long as you can afford them.
When the money runs out, they do as well.

He Had Sunglasses in his ad!

2008-11-29T11:35:00.000-08:00

I received an email today from a woman who had been corresponding with a man through a personal ad. His ad showed his face half covered with hat and shades.
my experience with clients have shown that men who have this kind of photo as their main ad picture is in an relationship with unfinished business.
Which in this case was correct.
These connections are a waste of time. you need to devote your time to someone who is ready and available for a new relationship. It is unfair to you to tie yourself up to wait on someone who may/may not become available.

It is OK to fall asleep during the Telepathic Exercise

2008-11-29T11:33:00.000-08:00

I have received several emails from people who say they feel so relaxed they fall asleep during the garden/brick wall exercise. That portion of the audio, I created to put your mind in a suspended state to send and receive telepathic communication.
So we have been getting good reports about those waking up and soon after receiving communication or information about the person they were thinking about

Women should not put up with....

2008-11-29T09:00:00.000-08:00

It shows very low self esteem when a woman continues to further a relationship when she knows the man is cheating. when you give him open permission to see other people in fear of losing him, you are perpetuating the other relationship to last.
He cannot possibly perceive your value until you are gone.
In order to know if he really does love you, you must end the relationship on your end so he can be fully immersed with the other female.
Only then can he start to really compare and determine his return.
In summation, he will not miss the water until the well runs dry.

New MP3

2008-11-17T06:40:00.001-08:00

I am coming out with new soulmate technology which involves LPB to increase attraction, combined with a new bracelet I have invented.
I will keep you posted on details.