What if you had a bank account that had $86,400 in it.
And every day you had to spend that money, all of it. You had to spend all of it because, if you did, the next day your bank account would have $86,400 in it again.
What you do with that money?
Now think of it like this...
You have a "life" bank account. Every day, you have 86,400seconds to live! Every day, you get a fresh 86,400 seconds.
Why not use those seconds wisely?
Don't take your life bank account for granted because it won't always be there.
The reality is that you've been given a finiteamount of time to live, and tomorrow is promised to no one. If you don't use the time that's been given to you properly or in a manner that is positive, life will be unhappy for you.
If you aren't deciding whether or not to get divorced,you are not using your time properly or positively.
"Deciding to decide" is the first step. This first step will change your life because it will mean that you have to act on that decision.