Domestic Bliss: Take Two

Domestic Bliss: Take Two http://blog.berkman.ca A kindler, gentler blog posterous.com http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/2.0/Subscribe with My Yahoo!Subscribe with NewsGatorSubscribe with My AOLSubscribe with BloglinesSubscribe with NetvibesSubscribe with GoogleSubscribe with PageflakesSubscribe with PlusmoSubscribe with The Free DictionarySubscribe with Bitty BrowserSubscribe with Live.comSubscribe with Excite MIXSubscribe with WebwagSubscribe with Podcast ReadySubscribe with WikioSubscribe with Daily Rotation Thu, 22 Dec 2011 20:20:52 -0800 Book review - Cat's Eye by Margaret Atwood. http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~3/QVMJm-92zV0/book-review-cats-eye-by-margaret-atwood http://blog.berkman.ca/book-review-cats-eye-by-margaret-atwood <p> <p><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/17651.Cat_s_Eye" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"><img src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41IPJUglaUL._SX106_.jpg" border="0" alt="Cat's Eye" /></a><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/17651.Cat_s_Eye">Cat's Eye</a> by <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/3472.Margaret_Atwood">Margaret Atwood</a><br /> My rating: <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/241364606">5 of 5 stars</a><p /> An absolutely brilliant novel that I wish I'd read years ago, although perhaps would not have been able to take it all in back then. Atwood's protagonist Elaine expresses so much about what it means to be a woman, and speaks words that resonate deeply with me. <p /> The story follows Elaine from her childhood in Toronto during WW2 through her life as an artist, and her eventual move to in Vancouver. Her return to Toronto for an opening of a retrospective of her work frames the narrative as she reflects on the difficult experiences of being bullied as a pre-teen. <p /> I can't recommend this book highly enough. <p /> <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/4057836-janet-berkman">View all my reviews</a></p> Related articles <ul class="zemanta-article-ul"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li"><a href="http://zaraalexis.wordpress.com/2011/12/11/cats-eye-more-than-just-a-marble/">Cat's Eye: More Than Just a Marble</a> (zaraalexis.wordpress.com)</li> </ul> <div class="zemanta-pixie" style="margin-top: 10px; height: 15px;"><a href="http://www.zemanta.com/" class="zemanta-pixie-a" title="Enhanced by Zemanta"><img class="zemanta-pixie-img" src="http://img.zemanta.com/zemified_e.png?x-id=5c069998-bb67-4b49-abef-4ca9ae2e1a53" alt="Enhanced by Zemanta" style="border: none; float: right;" /></a></div> </p> <p><a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/book-review-cats-eye-by-margaret-atwood">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/book-review-cats-eye-by-margaret-atwood#comment">Leave a comment  »</a> </p> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/ublFOtt1fqLIn4hCbweF4xGB5VA/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/ublFOtt1fqLIn4hCbweF4xGB5VA/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/ublFOtt1fqLIn4hCbweF4xGB5VA/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/ublFOtt1fqLIn4hCbweF4xGB5VA/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=QVMJm-92zV0:2hDeiQAsOBA:yIl2AUoC8zA"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=QVMJm-92zV0:2hDeiQAsOBA:V_sGLiPBpWU"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=QVMJm-92zV0:2hDeiQAsOBA:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=QVMJm-92zV0:2hDeiQAsOBA:qj6IDK7rITs"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=QVMJm-92zV0:2hDeiQAsOBA:gIN9vFwOqvQ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=QVMJm-92zV0:2hDeiQAsOBA:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~4/QVMJm-92zV0" height="1" width="1"/> http://files.posterous.com/user_profile_pics/683708/Headshot_-_Classroom.jpg http://posterous.com/users/3tk3PGtRRRhD Janet Berkman Janet Janet Berkman http://blog.berkman.ca/book-review-cats-eye-by-margaret-atwood Thu, 15 Dec 2011 09:19:00 -0800 The best of the tube http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~3/aiop50qRrFY/the-best-of-the-tube http://blog.berkman.ca/the-best-of-the-tube <p> <p><div class='p_embed p_image_embed'> <img alt="Television" height="225" src="http://getfile7.posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/temp-2011-12-15/wjrHqhHsIxelcoBeiudhybDAknglnpdjvyAnHcsssIjyDBidzrejeEdxkrBx/television.jpg.scaled500.jpg" width="225" /> </div> I wanna write about my reaction to Mary Poppins the Musical which I saw last night, but first, my thoughts on the best on TV these days.</p> <p>I am very lucky to have a tv setup with tons of channels and a PVR (Bell Fibe). I have also developed the ability to read a book while the dear-heart is watching something I'm not really interested in. So I restrict myself to the best of the TV world with clever juggling of the remote and whatever book I happen to be reading.</p> <p>My current faves (in no particular order):</p> <p><a href="http://www.lstudio.com/web-therapy/" target="_blank">Web Therapy</a> - Lisa Kudrow is absolutely brilliant in this half-hour comedy about a woman with a business degree who decides to set up an online therapy practice that replaces the usual 50-minute session with 3-minutes of right-to-brass-tacks talk. At this point, I'm watching it On Demand and am not sure that it's currently airing. [Just put up the link and realized that it's all available online, and there are 4 seasons already!]</p> <p><a href="http://www.hbocanada.com/enlightened/about.php" target="_blank">Enlightened</a> - Co-written, produced, and starring Laura Dern and Mike White. Dern plays a thirty-something (forty-something?) woman who, after a breakdown at her corporate job, goes on a yoga retreat.  The season started with her return to "real life", moving in with her cold mother (Diane Ladd), dealing with her ex-huband (Luke Wilson), and going back to work at her old company, but into a secret, basement-located job with a group of other misfits (including Mike White). It is perfect in so many ways. Including the music that is curated especially for each episode. </p> <p><a href="http://www.hbocanada.com/thewire/" target="_blank">The Wire</a> - I'm late to the party on this one. (I think Season One was originally in 2002, or somthing.)  If I start to use the f-word repeatedly, this show would be why. </p> <p><a href="http://www.hbocanada.com/boardwalkempire/" target="_blank">Boardwalk Empire</a> - Steve Buscemi rocks prohibition Atlantic City. Great cast, storyline getting a little freaky, but totally compelling viewing.</p> <p><a href="http://www.globaltv.com/TheGoodWife/index.html" target="_blank">The Good Wife</a> - A prime time drama in which the lead women don't have their breasts hanging out of their tops. Seriously, this is probably one of the best dramas on main-stream tv. Julia Marguiles and Archie Punjabi are both dreamy. </p> <p><a href="http://www.cbc.ca/michael/" target="_blank">Michael: Tuesdays and Thursdays</a> - I wish this Canadian half-hour was getting more viewership. It's quirky and stars the brilliant Bob Martin (of Drowsy Chaperone fame). I have fears that it will be cancelled.... </p> <p><a href="http://www.citytv.com/toronto/show/micro/52450--modern-family" target="_blank">Modern Family</a> - Can't get enough of this comedy. But enough's been written about it already.</p> <p><a href="http://beta.abc.go.com/shows/suburgatory" target="_blank">Suburgatory</a> - A new half-hour comedy about a father and teen daughter who move from NYC to the suburbs and go through culture shock. Reminds me of my time in a suburb of Atlanta. </p> <p><a href="http://www.hbocanada.com/livinginyourcar/index.php" target="_blank">Living in Your Car</a> - Read something about this in the paper and am catching it On Demand. A corporate exec gets fired (and jailed) for fraud. When he gets out, all he has is an extremely expensive car, in which he ends up living. I may start to hate it, but three eps in and it's still pretty entertaining.</p> </p> <p><a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/the-best-of-the-tube">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/the-best-of-the-tube#comment">Leave a comment  »</a> </p> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/nxbu9VCRMY_kQC_nxAOsU7EMGbU/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/nxbu9VCRMY_kQC_nxAOsU7EMGbU/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/nxbu9VCRMY_kQC_nxAOsU7EMGbU/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/nxbu9VCRMY_kQC_nxAOsU7EMGbU/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=aiop50qRrFY:jjI4XzcjSyE:yIl2AUoC8zA"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=aiop50qRrFY:jjI4XzcjSyE:V_sGLiPBpWU"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=aiop50qRrFY:jjI4XzcjSyE:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=aiop50qRrFY:jjI4XzcjSyE:qj6IDK7rITs"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=aiop50qRrFY:jjI4XzcjSyE:gIN9vFwOqvQ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=aiop50qRrFY:jjI4XzcjSyE:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~4/aiop50qRrFY" height="1" width="1"/> http://files.posterous.com/user_profile_pics/683708/Headshot_-_Classroom.jpg http://posterous.com/users/3tk3PGtRRRhD Janet Berkman Janet Janet Berkman http://blog.berkman.ca/the-best-of-the-tube Wed, 07 Dec 2011 14:57:00 -0800 Analog Kingston http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~3/_3xVL74wa4o/analog-kingston http://blog.berkman.ca/analog-kingston <p> <div> <object classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000"> <param name="movie" value="http://static.issuu.com/webembed/viewers/style1/v2/IssuuReader.swf?mode=mini&viewMode=singlePage&pageNumber=61&backgroundColor=%23222222&documentId=111128175728-832543d4f142443a8aab5b9680df4406" /> <param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /> <param name="menu" value="false" /> <param name="wmode" value="transparent" /><embed src="http://static.issuu.com/webembed/viewers/style1/v2/IssuuReader.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" flashvars="mode=mini&viewMode=singlePage&pageNumber=61&backgroundColor=%23222222&documentId=111128175728-832543d4f142443a8aab5b9680df4406"></embed> </object> <div style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://issuu.com/musemagazine/docs/muse_retouched/61?mode=window&backgroundColor=%23222222" target="_blank">Open publication</a> - Free <a href="http://issuu.com" target="_blank">publishing</a> - <a href="http://issuu.com/search?q=art" target="_blank">More art</a></div> </div> <p /> <div style="text-align: left;">Alex got some analog photos published in Muse, an online Kingston arts mag. </div> </p> <p><a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/analog-kingston">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/analog-kingston#comment">Leave a comment  »</a> </p> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/IXzvBV-g1PSNY-E5hB5jEFEJeoM/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/IXzvBV-g1PSNY-E5hB5jEFEJeoM/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/IXzvBV-g1PSNY-E5hB5jEFEJeoM/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/IXzvBV-g1PSNY-E5hB5jEFEJeoM/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=_3xVL74wa4o:2II4_juahhU:yIl2AUoC8zA"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=_3xVL74wa4o:2II4_juahhU:V_sGLiPBpWU"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=_3xVL74wa4o:2II4_juahhU:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=_3xVL74wa4o:2II4_juahhU:qj6IDK7rITs"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=_3xVL74wa4o:2II4_juahhU:gIN9vFwOqvQ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=_3xVL74wa4o:2II4_juahhU:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~4/_3xVL74wa4o" height="1" width="1"/> http://files.posterous.com/user_profile_pics/683708/Headshot_-_Classroom.jpg http://posterous.com/users/3tk3PGtRRRhD Janet Berkman Janet Janet Berkman http://blog.berkman.ca/analog-kingston Tue, 06 Dec 2011 14:39:00 -0800 "$5000 worth of Scotch girls...." http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~3/FM2xuTGZ9u4/5000-worth-of-scotch-girls http://blog.berkman.ca/5000-worth-of-scotch-girls <p> <div class="posterous_bookmarklet_entry"> <div class='p_embed p_image_embed'> <a href="http://getfile6.posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/berkman/EfFDFmDcabjyBfJDvEfFsaAitstefmuvDikoDmIFvmIIEbHwGmFpEGsgvyEw/media_httppeellibrary_stIzn.png.scaled1000.png"><img alt="Media_httppeellibrary_stizn" height="342" src="http://getfile2.posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/berkman/EfFDFmDcabjyBfJDvEfFsaAitstefmuvDikoDmIFvmIIEbHwGmFpEGsgvyEw/media_httppeellibrary_stIzn.png.scaled500.png" width="500" /></a> </div> <div class="posterous_quote_citation">via <a href="http://peel.library.ualberta.ca/newspapers/CFC/1909/06/05/5/Ar00526.html">peel.library.ualberta.ca</a></div> <p>Have been researching immigration of young Scottish women as domestics around the turn of the 20th century. Found this little newspaper notice from the Crossfield Chronicle, 5 June 1909. Love the turn of phrase "Five Thousand dollars' worth of Scotch girls..."</p></div> </p> <p><a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/5000-worth-of-scotch-girls">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/5000-worth-of-scotch-girls#comment">Leave a comment  »</a> </p> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/H7gg5or9NgYhRKkKVCPZrkXqhS0/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/H7gg5or9NgYhRKkKVCPZrkXqhS0/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/H7gg5or9NgYhRKkKVCPZrkXqhS0/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/H7gg5or9NgYhRKkKVCPZrkXqhS0/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=FM2xuTGZ9u4:QoXaGSVj5UU:yIl2AUoC8zA"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=FM2xuTGZ9u4:QoXaGSVj5UU:V_sGLiPBpWU"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=FM2xuTGZ9u4:QoXaGSVj5UU:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=FM2xuTGZ9u4:QoXaGSVj5UU:qj6IDK7rITs"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=FM2xuTGZ9u4:QoXaGSVj5UU:gIN9vFwOqvQ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=FM2xuTGZ9u4:QoXaGSVj5UU:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~4/FM2xuTGZ9u4" height="1" width="1"/> http://files.posterous.com/user_profile_pics/683708/Headshot_-_Classroom.jpg http://posterous.com/users/3tk3PGtRRRhD Janet Berkman Janet Janet Berkman http://blog.berkman.ca/5000-worth-of-scotch-girls Sun, 30 Oct 2011 16:17:00 -0700 How to Really Listen - Peter Bregman - Harvard Business Review http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~3/nbjcuzioHcM/how-to-really-listen-peter-bregman-harvard-bu http://blog.berkman.ca/how-to-really-listen-peter-bregman-harvard-bu <p> <div class="posterous_bookmarklet_entry"> <blockquote><div> <p>One morning, my wife Eleanor woke up, turned over, and said, "I am not looking forward to this day." I asked her why. </p> <p>What came out is that we were at the start of the Jewish high holy day season, which means colder weather and three weeks of big social meals, long religious services, broken routines, and children out of school. Eleanor didn't grow up with these traditions, and they can be overwhelming. </p> <p>Now, I run a management consulting company; problem solving is what I do. So it didn't take me long to jump in.</p> <p>"Cold weather means ski season is about to start," I said. "You love skiing. And these holiday meals are fun and filled with people you love — they'll make you feel better. And I'll be with you; you won't be alone with the kids. Also, you know, Jesus was Jewish, so it's kind of your tradition too."</p> <p>Even as I said it, I knew that last one was a reach. It became clear that I was making her feel worse and now she wasn't just sad, she was angry.</p> <p>And when she got angry, I felt myself get angry too. And self-righteous. <em>Here I am trying to help her and this is what I get? </em></p> <p>But then I smartened up. Instead of giving in to my anger, which would have really blown things up, I shut up and listened. When I did, I began to hear the real stuff, the things that neither of us was actually saying.</p> <p>What I discovered was that she was upset because the focus on mothers during the Jewish holidays taps into her insecurities about motherhood, not being a Jewish mom, and not having time to spend on her own work. </p> <p>I also discovered that my own babbling wasn't so much to help her feel better as to help me feel better. I'm the reason she's in New York City, living through cold winters, and part of a Jewish family. </p> <p>In other words, by trying to make her feel better, I was doing the opposite of making her feel better. I was <em>arguing</em> with her. In fact, most of the time when we try to make people feel better, we end up arguing with them because we're contradicting what they're feeling. Which, inevitably, makes them feel worse....</p> </div></blockquote> <blockquote class="posterous_short_quote"> <p>It turns out that sometimes, just listening is problem-solving. </p> </blockquote><div class="posterous_quote_citation">via <a href="http://blogs.hbr.org/bregman/2011/10/how-to-really-listen.html">blogs.hbr.org</a></div> <p>This is an excellent piece on listening from Peter Bregman in the Harvard Business Review Blog Network. He goes on to describe the three sometimes difficult components of active listening: actually listen; repeat back; ask questions. Read the full article at the link. </p><p>Being listened to is incredibly validating. I commit to make my listening more active.</p></div> </p> <p><a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/how-to-really-listen-peter-bregman-harvard-bu">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/how-to-really-listen-peter-bregman-harvard-bu#comment">Leave a comment  »</a> </p> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/bA3QrKZ9Ffg5ueS4wpRNlCq_xdk/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/bA3QrKZ9Ffg5ueS4wpRNlCq_xdk/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/bA3QrKZ9Ffg5ueS4wpRNlCq_xdk/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/bA3QrKZ9Ffg5ueS4wpRNlCq_xdk/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=nbjcuzioHcM:qRchGh10RNk:yIl2AUoC8zA"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=nbjcuzioHcM:qRchGh10RNk:V_sGLiPBpWU"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=nbjcuzioHcM:qRchGh10RNk:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=nbjcuzioHcM:qRchGh10RNk:qj6IDK7rITs"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=nbjcuzioHcM:qRchGh10RNk:gIN9vFwOqvQ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=nbjcuzioHcM:qRchGh10RNk:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~4/nbjcuzioHcM" height="1" width="1"/> http://files.posterous.com/user_profile_pics/683708/Headshot_-_Classroom.jpg http://posterous.com/users/3tk3PGtRRRhD Janet Berkman Janet Janet Berkman http://blog.berkman.ca/how-to-really-listen-peter-bregman-harvard-bu Sun, 30 Oct 2011 14:00:42 -0700 It's been a good week... http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~3/-zXsy2oaqOU/its-been-a-good-week http://blog.berkman.ca/its-been-a-good-week <p> <p><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/037542315X/ref=as_li_ss_il?ie=UTF8&tag=domeblis0d-20&linkCode=as2&camp=15121&creative=390961&creativeASIN=037542315X"><img src="http://ws.assoc-amazon.ca/widgets/q?_encoding=UTF8&Format=_SL160_&ASIN=037542315X&MarketPlace=CA&ID=AsinImage&WS=1&tag=domeblis0d-20&ServiceVersion=20070822" border="0" alt="" /></a><img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.ca/e/ir?t=domeblis0d-20&l=as2&o=15&a=037542315X" border="0" height="1" alt="" style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" width="1" /></p> <p>Don't know whether it's the cooler weather or all the arts events I attended, but I feel more like writing.</p> <p>First though, I've been reading Mary Gordon's <a href="http://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/037542315X/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=domeblis0d-20&linkCode=as2&camp=15121&creative=390961&creativeASIN=037542315X" target="_blank">Pearl</a>, a novel concerning a young American woman studying in Dublin who goes on a hunger strike in support of a casualty (at least in her view) of the troubles. What is particularly interesting to me is the voicing of the work. If I am not mistaken, it is written in the first person, the author's voice, which was at first difficult to read. For example, at the beginning of the second section, she writes:</p> <blockquote class="posterous_medium_quote"> <p><em>This is who and what Pearl Meyers believes she is, what and what she is to herself. But what is she to us? A twenty-year-old woman. A woman who is starving, a woman chained to a flagpole in front of the American embassy in Dublin, Ireland.  A woman who is lying on the ground.</em></p> <p><em>But who am I? you may be asking.</em></p> <p><em>Think of me this way: midwife, present at the birth.  Or perhaps this: godfather, present at the christening. Although of the three people with whom we are concerned, perhaps the most important, Pearl herself, was never christened. If not the christening, them, perhaps the naming. Present at the naming. A the speaking of the most important word.</em></p> </blockquote> <p>I am about two thirds of the way through this work and it's a little slow going, but (I think) an important read. </p> </p> <p><a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/its-been-a-good-week">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/its-been-a-good-week#comment">Leave a comment  »</a> </p> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/nwlOoJ7HuA4aEduyI04SIHyip54/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/nwlOoJ7HuA4aEduyI04SIHyip54/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/nwlOoJ7HuA4aEduyI04SIHyip54/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/nwlOoJ7HuA4aEduyI04SIHyip54/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=-zXsy2oaqOU:mPRHctVcm4s:yIl2AUoC8zA"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=-zXsy2oaqOU:mPRHctVcm4s:V_sGLiPBpWU"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=-zXsy2oaqOU:mPRHctVcm4s:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=-zXsy2oaqOU:mPRHctVcm4s:qj6IDK7rITs"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=-zXsy2oaqOU:mPRHctVcm4s:gIN9vFwOqvQ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=-zXsy2oaqOU:mPRHctVcm4s:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~4/-zXsy2oaqOU" height="1" width="1"/> http://files.posterous.com/user_profile_pics/683708/Headshot_-_Classroom.jpg http://posterous.com/users/3tk3PGtRRRhD Janet Berkman Janet Janet Berkman http://blog.berkman.ca/its-been-a-good-week Tue, 25 Oct 2011 11:15:00 -0700 Blogging hiatus http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~3/ZrBJFsHF2Ls/blogging-hiatus http://blog.berkman.ca/blogging-hiatus <p> <p><div class='p_embed p_image_embed'> <img alt="Smokeylady_vintage_image_graphicsfairy004b" height="400" src="http://getfile6.posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/temp-2011-10-25/xCJaBnwstgnvHCwEHregzwjfadzsdDhmjmFzhqeriAlpbmuJgHIdaArwJwoF/smokeylady_vintage_image_graphicsfairy004b.jpg.scaled500.jpg" width="252" /> </div> </p> <p>In an attempt to simplify my committments (both external and self-imposed), I'm resorting to microblogging for the foreseeable future. You can be my friend on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/janet.berkman">Facebook</a> or follow me on <a href="http://www.twitter.com/jannie_b">Twitter</a>. You don't need to have an account for the latter...you can still see my tweets and when you select one, see any conversation around them.</p> <p>Don't know how long I'll be hanging up my hat at Domestic Bliss. But for the meantime, I'd love to see you at either of the above!</p> <p>Peace</p> <p>Janet</p> </p> <p><a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/blogging-hiatus">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/blogging-hiatus#comment">Leave a comment  »</a> </p> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/JZSluNpE_I848JZs5Hh7l8pcUG4/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/JZSluNpE_I848JZs5Hh7l8pcUG4/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/JZSluNpE_I848JZs5Hh7l8pcUG4/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/JZSluNpE_I848JZs5Hh7l8pcUG4/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=ZrBJFsHF2Ls:gDhM6pGcl3Y:yIl2AUoC8zA"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=ZrBJFsHF2Ls:gDhM6pGcl3Y:V_sGLiPBpWU"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=ZrBJFsHF2Ls:gDhM6pGcl3Y:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=ZrBJFsHF2Ls:gDhM6pGcl3Y:qj6IDK7rITs"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=ZrBJFsHF2Ls:gDhM6pGcl3Y:gIN9vFwOqvQ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=ZrBJFsHF2Ls:gDhM6pGcl3Y:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~4/ZrBJFsHF2Ls" height="1" width="1"/> http://files.posterous.com/user_profile_pics/683708/Headshot_-_Classroom.jpg http://posterous.com/users/3tk3PGtRRRhD Janet Berkman Janet Janet Berkman http://blog.berkman.ca/blogging-hiatus Fri, 23 Sep 2011 09:55:00 -0700 Seven Quick Takes Friday http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~3/VpuznA0sKcs/seven-quick-takes-friday-34778 http://blog.berkman.ca/seven-quick-takes-friday-34778 <p> <p><div class='p_embed p_image_embed'> <img alt="7_quick_takes" height="222" src="http://posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/temp-2011-09-23/kaHmouxaFukzEEFgCqihuxfivxtdHJvCnBpwbjErsoHikqqaIjlfoHlqmmwb/7_quick_takes.jpg.scaled500.jpg" width="330" /> </div> </p> <ol> <li>It's been a tough week. I surrendered our dog, Wilson, to Toronto Animal Services yesterday after a biting incident earlier this summer. He's a terrier mix, with a lot of Jack Russell in him, and he charged and bit a letter carrier after he got off-leash. It was a horrible accident (although the bite was a minor injury), but I realized that his behaviour was too unpredictable for us to manage. Every visitor to our house was a stress. We have no yard at our current home, unlike when we adopted him in Georgia, and even with 3-4 walks a day, we were unable to provide him with sufficient opportunities to burn off energy. I've been weepy all week, and broke down at the shelter when I took him in. My greatest hope is that they can find a home for him where he will be able to be the dog that he is. I can't really say any more.</li> <li>I got my hair cut after my trip to Animal Services yesterday. It felt kind of like mourning, but at the same time a fresh start. It's shoulder length and layered a bit. And I feel so silly writing about it now.</li> <li>Last night, we attended the <a href="http://www.tso.ca/Concerts-And-Tickets/Events/2011-2012-Season/Opening-Night-Christopher-Plummer-the-TSO.aspx" target="_blank">Season Opener</a> for the <a href="http://tso.ca/Home.aspx" target="_blank">Toronto Symphony Orchestra</a>, a wonderful program including Tchaikovsky's Romeo and Juliet Fantasy Overture, and a commission from Toronto Composer Larysa Kezmenko called Behold the Night, based on a Midsummer's Night Dream. The second half was William Walton's Henry V: A Shakespeare Scenario featuring actor Christopher Plummer (who also arranged this work) reciting parts of the play from memory. Walton scored Larurence Olivier's film Henry V, from which this work is derived. It was spectacular, and great finish to what had been a very sad day. The evening was capped by the TSO's after party featuring the <a href="http://www.heavyweightsbrassband.com/" target="_blank">Heavyweights Brass Band</a> in the lobby of Roy Thomson Hall.</li> <li>Z and I head to Orlando on Sunday where he is attending a conference and I will take five days to relax in the sun. I was able to score a very cheap flight and there's no upcharge for me to stay at the (very nice) hotel hosting the conference.</li> <li>Michael auditioned for and was accepted into the <a href="http://www.hannafordyouth.ca/" target="_blank">Hannaford Youth Band</a> and <a href="http://www.jazz.fm/content/blogcategory/71/114/" target="_blank">Jazz.fm Youth Big Band</a>, both of which he played in last year. These ensembles are wonderful ways for him to get experience performing repertoire on both the tube (Hannaford) and bass trombone (Jazz.fm) and I'm pleased that he'll be playing with them again this year.</li> <li>While we were downtown yesterday, we picked up tickets for Noel Coward's <a href="http://www.mirvish.com/shows/privatelives" target="_blank">Private Lives</a>, now in previews at the Royal Alexandra. Starring Paul Gross and Kim Cattrall, it's been getting a lot of positive buzz. Mirvish is also bringing <a href="http://www.mirvish.com/shows/warhorse" target="_blank">War Horse</a> to Toronto in the new year and I'm looking forward to that as well. </li> <li>Friends from our parish were featured <a href="http://www.toronto.com/article/698910" target="_blank">on the front page of the Star</a> this week. <a href="http://tso.ca/About-The-TSO/Members-of-the-Orchestra/John-Rudolph.aspx" target="_blank">John</a> and <a href="http://www.kathleenrudolph.com/" target="_blank">Kathleen Rudolph</a> are both professional musicians.  John is Principal Percussionist with the Toronto Symphony Orchestra and Kathleen teaches flute at the Glenn Gould School and University of Western Ontario. Kathleen and I are altos in the parish choir, and Kathleen often fills in on the organ. Their daughter, Theresa, was just hired by the TSO, their first parent-child pair. The piece in The Star is lovely and worth a read.</li> </ol> <p>More Quick Takes over at <a href="http://www.conversiondiary.com/2011/09/7-quick-takes-friday-vol-144.html" target="_blank">Conversion Diary</a>.</p> </p> <p><a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/seven-quick-takes-friday-34778">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/seven-quick-takes-friday-34778#comment">Leave a comment  »</a> </p> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/2Br-5qUTuE3nY14nj_VvivQt8W0/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/2Br-5qUTuE3nY14nj_VvivQt8W0/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/2Br-5qUTuE3nY14nj_VvivQt8W0/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/2Br-5qUTuE3nY14nj_VvivQt8W0/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=VpuznA0sKcs:ORE-OLrPCzg:yIl2AUoC8zA"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=VpuznA0sKcs:ORE-OLrPCzg:V_sGLiPBpWU"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=VpuznA0sKcs:ORE-OLrPCzg:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=VpuznA0sKcs:ORE-OLrPCzg:qj6IDK7rITs"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=VpuznA0sKcs:ORE-OLrPCzg:gIN9vFwOqvQ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=VpuznA0sKcs:ORE-OLrPCzg:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~4/VpuznA0sKcs" height="1" width="1"/> http://files.posterous.com/user_profile_pics/683708/Headshot_-_Classroom.jpg http://posterous.com/users/3tk3PGtRRRhD Janet Berkman Janet Janet Berkman http://blog.berkman.ca/seven-quick-takes-friday-34778 Thu, 15 Sep 2011 18:01:00 -0700 TIFF roundup: Tuesday and Wednesday http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~3/lG-6HIEotaM/tiff-roundup-tuesday-and-wednesday http://blog.berkman.ca/tiff-roundup-tuesday-and-wednesday <p> <p><a href="http://tiff.net/filmsandschedules/tiff/2011/loneliestplanet" target="_blank">The Lonliest Planet</a> (Dir. Julia Loktev, USA/Germany)</p> <p>This quiet, emotional film follows an engaged 30-something couple as they trek through the Caucausus mountains of Georgia with a local guide. Very little dialogue or real action in many parts, the film hangs on the relationships within this triangle and an event that happens half-way through that disrupts them. There was a lot of negative buzz around me as I was leaving the theatre: "no dialogue", "nothing happened", "I don't get the point", but it completely worked for me. Not a date movie. (5/5)</p> <p>(Screening Saturday Sept 17)</p> <p><div class='p_embed p_image_embed'> <a href="http://posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/temp-2011-09-15/pHwcFtwewuyfrwIkoxvnHGCzlmDxqBzbgCaAhxovrxasjGGzhIpHuxmhlbCi/Loneliest-Planet-.jpg.scaled1000.jpg"><img alt="Loneliest-planet-" height="252" src="http://posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/temp-2011-09-15/pHwcFtwewuyfrwIkoxvnHGCzlmDxqBzbgCaAhxovrxasjGGzhIpHuxmhlbCi/Loneliest-Planet-.jpg.scaled500.jpg" width="500" /></a> </div> </p> <p><a href="http://tiff.net/filmsandschedules/tiff/2011/theoranges" target="_blank">The Oranges</a> (Dir. Julian Farino, USA)</p> <p>Fantastic ensemble is much of what makes this film terrific. Hugh Laurie, Catherine Keener, Allison Janney, Oliver Platt star as two couples who live across the street from each other. The daughter of one couple has an affair with the husband of the other, and everyone's life is changed. A sort of anti-morality play wherein the end justifies the means makes it less than satisfying. (4/5)</p> <p>(Screening Friday September 16)</p> <p><div class='p_embed p_image_embed'> <a href="http://posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/temp-2011-09-15/iCBnHqeDyvBncnApFlxCzfakkjvGAzvbuxxsqtfgJksojtcqDzuEuBCnaijC/the_oranges.jpg.scaled1000.jpg"><img alt="The_oranges" height="300" src="http://posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/temp-2011-09-15/iCBnHqeDyvBncnApFlxCzfakkjvGAzvbuxxsqtfgJksojtcqDzuEuBCnaijC/the_oranges.jpg.scaled500.jpg" width="500" /></a> </div> </p> <p><a href="http://tiff.net/filmsandschedules/tiff/2011/wefilm" target="_blank">W.E.</a> (Dir. Madonna, UK)</p> <p>A dsappointing look at the Wallis and Edward story, this is Madonna's attempt to tell the story from Simpson's point of view. Running parallel to this arc is a modern day tale of a Wally Winthrop who is trapped in an unhappy marriage and obsessed with the Wallis/Edward tale. The story lines alternate frequently, and the historical story is also split into glimpses into Wallis' first marriage as well as that with Edward. Great fashion and sets/props, but the music was leaden. Not recommended (2/5)</p> <p><a href="http://tiff.net/filmsandschedules/tiff/2011/damselsindistress" target="_blank">Damsels in Distress</a> (Dir. Whit Stillman, USA)</p> <p>Entertaining and smart, this movie looks at a posse of fashionable women at a just-gone-coed private college. It's quirky and wierd, with stellar performances particularly from Greta Gerwig as the alpha-female, Analeigh Tipton as the transfer student taken under her wing, and a bunch of frat boys who are just incredibly funny. (4/5)</p> <p><a href="http://tiff.net/filmsandschedules/tiff/2011/cafedeflore" target="_blank">Café de Flore</a> (Dir. Jean-Marc Vallée, Canada)</p> <p>A beautiful film from the director of <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0401085/" target="_blank">C.R.A.Z.Y.</a>, it tells two stories, one set in Paris in the 60s in which a mother (Vanessa Paradis) is raising her Down syndrome child on her own. The other story is set in modern day Montreal and involves a divorce and remarriage of a successful DJ/electronica musician (Kevin Parent). We don't find out how these stories are related until the very end of the movie. Moving with strong performances. As in C.R.A.Z.Y., music is a strong force that ties people together. See it if you get a chance. (5/5) (<a href="http://blog.cafedeflorelefilm.com/" target="_blank">official site</a>)</p> <p><a href="http://tiff.net/filmsandschedules/tiff/2011/americano" target="_blank">Americano</a> (Dir. Mathieu Demy, France)</p> <p>Son of filmakers Agnes Varda and Jacques Demy, this is Mathieu Demy's directorial debut. With a stellar cast including Geraldine Chaplin, Selma Hayak, Carlos Bardem, and Chiara Mastroianni, Demy plays a restless 30-something who travels from Paris to Los Angeles to settle the estate of his mother, who has lived in the US for most of his life. Demy integrates footage taken by his mother when they lived in LA in the 80s and incorporates it into this work as flashbacks. He discovers things about his mother, and himself, that affect him profoundly.  Well worth seeing. (5/5)</p> <p>(Screening Friday September 16)</p> </p> <p><a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/tiff-roundup-tuesday-and-wednesday">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/tiff-roundup-tuesday-and-wednesday#comment">Leave a comment  »</a> </p> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/zKI9rrvG0Ykhoi_ghEDxsf15-T0/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/zKI9rrvG0Ykhoi_ghEDxsf15-T0/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/zKI9rrvG0Ykhoi_ghEDxsf15-T0/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/zKI9rrvG0Ykhoi_ghEDxsf15-T0/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=lG-6HIEotaM:EHAQoIElElA:yIl2AUoC8zA"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=lG-6HIEotaM:EHAQoIElElA:V_sGLiPBpWU"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=lG-6HIEotaM:EHAQoIElElA:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=lG-6HIEotaM:EHAQoIElElA:qj6IDK7rITs"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=lG-6HIEotaM:EHAQoIElElA:gIN9vFwOqvQ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=lG-6HIEotaM:EHAQoIElElA:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~4/lG-6HIEotaM" height="1" width="1"/> http://files.posterous.com/user_profile_pics/683708/Headshot_-_Classroom.jpg http://posterous.com/users/3tk3PGtRRRhD Janet Berkman Janet Janet Berkman http://blog.berkman.ca/tiff-roundup-tuesday-and-wednesday Thu, 15 Sep 2011 17:14:00 -0700 TIFF roundup: Monday http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~3/4fCliAC-4aE/tiff-roundup-monday http://blog.berkman.ca/tiff-roundup-monday <p> <p>I'm (obviously) quite far behind on my mini-reviews, but a day of film-screening leaves me wiped by the end of the day. I've been tweeting some thoughts, but here are my capsule summaries.</p> <p><a href="http://tiff.net/filmsandschedules/tiff/2011/rampart" target="_blank">Rampart</a> (Dir. Oren Moverman, USA)</p> <p>Woody Harrelson stars in this rogue-cop drama set in LA. A masterful performance with strong support from the actors playing his ex-wives (who are sisters in the film and live together) and daughters. The twist (for me, who's not really a rogue-cop-film viewer) is that this guy is very articulate and wraps his crap in big words and charming delivery. (4/5)</p> <p>(One more screening Sunday the 18th)</p> <p><a href="http://tiff.net/filmsandschedules/tiff/2011/beholdthelamb" target="_blank">Behold the Lamb</a> (Dir. John McIlduff, UK)</p> <p>A small film (budget $200,000 and filmed in 20 days) it stars a young actress who had only done stage work and a lorry driver and amateur theatre actor. This is a gritty but somehow charming story of two people whose lives intersect over a 24 hour period. It involves a car theft, the transport of a lamb, a foster child, and a lot of beautiful, grey Irish scenery. And a lot of Catholic imagery that the director said was not originally part of the story, but was pointed out to him part way through the writing of the screenplay. (3/5)</p> <p>(One more screening on evening of Friday the 16th)</p> <p>Trailer:</p> <p> <object height="281" width="500"> <param name="movie" value="http://ictv-tf-ec.indieclicktv.com/player/embed/97b1fda2ca43d6c29eaf63ed1ec347c6/4e5d6dabcbba0/31/0/defaultPlayer^player.swf" /> <param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /> <param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always" /><embed src="http://ictv-tf-ec.indieclicktv.com/player/embed/97b1fda2ca43d6c29eaf63ed1ec347c6/4e5d6dabcbba0/31/0/defaultPlayer^player.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" height="281" width="500"></embed> </object> </p> <p><a href="http://tiff.net/filmsandschedules/tiff/2011/anonymous" target="_blank">Anonymous</a> (Dir Roland Emmerich, Germany)</p> <p>This is soon-to-be-released in theatres (Oct 28) and there's been lots of press about it. The premise is that there was no-one names William Shakespeare who actually wrote the plays and poetry attributed to him. Good performances and terrific cinematography. My ignorance of British history made it a bit difficult to follow the family/dynastic relationships. (4/5) ( The <a href="http://www.anonymous-movie.com/" target="_blank">Official site</a> has lots of good info that I wish I'd read before seeing the film.)</p> <p>(One more screening on Saturday the 17th, but save your cash and see it in commercial run.)</p> <p><span><a href="http://tiff.net/filmsandschedules/tiff/2011/beloved" target="_blank">Beloved (Les Bien-Aimés)</a> (Dir Christophe Honor</span>é<span>, France)</span></p> <p>Starring Catherine Deneuve and her daughter Chiara Mastroianni, this musical(!) set in France, spanning decades from 1964 to the 90s, was extremely enjoyable. When asked "why a musica'l in the Q&A, Honoré claimed that he is not comfortable writing about love and it was easier for him to have his characters sing during the emotional moments of the film. Not a typical musical, there are no big theatrical moments, or much dancing. Just characters, walking down the street (or playing billiards) and singing about their feelings.</p> <p>(One more screening on Saturday the 17th)</p> <p>Trailer:</p> <p><iframe src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/i9Fe5ufBzfk" frameborder="0" height="315" width="560"></iframe></p> <p> </p> </p> <p><a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/tiff-roundup-monday">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/tiff-roundup-monday#comment">Leave a comment  »</a> </p> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/j5PoA0JByNV7uhpcJwQzEtLNkK8/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/j5PoA0JByNV7uhpcJwQzEtLNkK8/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/j5PoA0JByNV7uhpcJwQzEtLNkK8/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/j5PoA0JByNV7uhpcJwQzEtLNkK8/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=4fCliAC-4aE:9WcIGu12ZPs:yIl2AUoC8zA"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=4fCliAC-4aE:9WcIGu12ZPs:V_sGLiPBpWU"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=4fCliAC-4aE:9WcIGu12ZPs:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=4fCliAC-4aE:9WcIGu12ZPs:qj6IDK7rITs"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=4fCliAC-4aE:9WcIGu12ZPs:gIN9vFwOqvQ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=4fCliAC-4aE:9WcIGu12ZPs:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~4/4fCliAC-4aE" height="1" width="1"/> http://files.posterous.com/user_profile_pics/683708/Headshot_-_Classroom.jpg http://posterous.com/users/3tk3PGtRRRhD Janet Berkman Janet Janet Berkman http://blog.berkman.ca/tiff-roundup-monday Mon, 12 Sep 2011 05:26:45 -0700 Okay... I took a celeb photo after a screening. I'm weak. http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~3/l9MgpICO9pU/okay-i-took-a-celeb-photo-after-a-screening-i http://blog.berkman.ca/okay-i-took-a-celeb-photo-after-a-screening-i <p> <p><div class='p_embed p_image_embed'> <a href="http://posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/berkman/umldnnldGuJElnGjaDcvvbnqcDGzcFvAeoujiBeAsohaDHoAoijfhyJekwDt/IMG_0081.jpg.scaled1000.jpg"><img alt="Img_0081" height="373" src="http://posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/berkman/umldnnldGuJElnGjaDcvvbnqcDGzcFvAeoujiBeAsohaDHoAoijfhyJekwDt/IMG_0081.jpg.scaled500.jpg" width="500" /></a> </div> </p>Luke Kirby after Take this Waltz screening. </p> <p><a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/okay-i-took-a-celeb-photo-after-a-screening-i">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/okay-i-took-a-celeb-photo-after-a-screening-i#comment">Leave a comment  »</a> </p> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/GWxk6-6kqH0cn6xYtJnRaxoRFaA/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/GWxk6-6kqH0cn6xYtJnRaxoRFaA/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/GWxk6-6kqH0cn6xYtJnRaxoRFaA/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/GWxk6-6kqH0cn6xYtJnRaxoRFaA/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=l9MgpICO9pU:xXFao7w5qVc:yIl2AUoC8zA"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=l9MgpICO9pU:xXFao7w5qVc:V_sGLiPBpWU"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=l9MgpICO9pU:xXFao7w5qVc:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=l9MgpICO9pU:xXFao7w5qVc:qj6IDK7rITs"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=l9MgpICO9pU:xXFao7w5qVc:gIN9vFwOqvQ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=l9MgpICO9pU:xXFao7w5qVc:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~4/l9MgpICO9pU" height="1" width="1"/> http://files.posterous.com/user_profile_pics/683708/Headshot_-_Classroom.jpg http://posterous.com/users/3tk3PGtRRRhD Janet Berkman Janet Janet Berkman http://blog.berkman.ca/okay-i-took-a-celeb-photo-after-a-screening-i Sun, 11 Sep 2011 17:55:00 -0700 TIFF roundup: Weekend 1 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~3/TlWuonlH6fE/tiff-roundup-weekend-1 http://blog.berkman.ca/tiff-roundup-weekend-1 <p> <p>Well, things are off to a great start.  I saw four films this weekend and here are my thoughts.</p> <p><strong>Friday afternoon</strong>:  <a href="http://tiff.net/filmsandschedules/tiff/2011/urbanized" target="_blank">Urbanized</a> (Director: Gary Hustwit, USA/UK)</p> <p>This was the world premiere for this film and the Ryerson Theatre was filled with Jane Jacobites and other #TorontoElite (to use a hashtag favoured by <a href="http://spacingtoronto.ca/" target="_blank">Spacing </a>editor Shawn Micallef.) Inspiring and uplifting, this is a film that should be seen by anyone interested in the future of our cities, how to make them more liveable and sustainable, and how to improve the lives of even the poorest of slumdwellers by thoughtful, citizen-centric design. A survey of cities from around the world, this film calls us to action, even in the face of a city government that seems intent on turning the clock back. <a href="http://urbanizedfilm.com/" target="_blank">Official website</a>.  (5/5) </p> <p><strong>Saturday Morning</strong>: <a href="http://tiff.net/filmsandschedules/tiff/2011/idesofmarch" target="_blank">Ides of March</a> (Director: George Clooney, USA)</p> <p>We attended the second (and last) screening of this film at the festival.  Clooney plays a presidential candidate during the Ohio primary and Ryan Gosling is his media guy. The story is good, well-paced, and interesting, and the film was very enjoyable. Clooney was fine, but I thought Gosling was slightly miscast for the part. His character didn't come across as bright enough for the role, but I'm not sure whether it was the casting or the writing. The big buzz should go to Paul Giamatti, Philip Seymour Hoffman, and Marisa Tomei for their supporting roles as campaign managers for the opposing candidates and a NY Times reporter. It was their performances that really carried the film. <a href="http://www.idesofmarch-movie.com/" target="_blank">Official website.</a> (4/5)<span style=""> </span></p> <p> <object height="224" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" width="400"> <embed src="http://flash.sonypictures.com/video/universalplayer/sharedPlayer.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" height="224" flashvars="feed=http%3A//www.sonypictures.com/previews/movies/theidesofmarch.xml&clip=3674" width="400"></embed> </object> </p> <p><strong>Saturday afternoon:</strong> <a href="http://tiff.net/filmsandschedules/tiff/2011/houseoftolerance" target="_blank">House of Tolerance</a> (Director: Bertrand Bonello, France)</p> <p>A languid, sensual, two-hour film about a fin de siecle brothel in Paris, this film was carefully researched and brought to being with great care. It's a frank look at the lives of these women, at the same time enslaved and surrounded by opulence, at the risks they encountered and the friendships they formed. There was a good Q&A with the director after the film and I asked about the use of music behind some key scenes. The opening credits have a kind of 60s blues thing (see <a href="http://mubi.com/films/house-of-tolerance" target="_blank">trailer</a>), and a climactic scene close to the end is scored with The Moody Blues' Nights in White Satin. Bonello did not see this as any more anachronistic than using opera music not coming from a gramaphone. This was also a subject of great discussion after the premiere at Cannes. (4/5)</p> <p><div class='p_embed p_image_embed'> <a href="http://posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/temp-2011-09-11/bsxAwdaczBADnJwGCAolvfcyvwGCGyjGgemtvaubFtEmkyszrJtfvjiadbws/house_of_tolerance.jpg.scaled1000.jpg"><img alt="House_of_tolerance" height="333" src="http://posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/temp-2011-09-11/bsxAwdaczBADnJwGCAolvfcyvwGCGyjGgemtvaubFtEmkyszrJtfvjiadbws/house_of_tolerance.jpg.scaled500.jpg" width="500" /></a> </div> </p> <p><strong>Sunday noon: </strong> <a href="http://tiff.net/filmsandschedules/tiff/2011/takethiswaltz" target="_blank">Take this Waltz</a> (Director: Sarah Polley, Canada)</p> <p>This was a stunner of a film. What hits you right from the beginning is the warm, vivid, palette she has chosen for the film, representing female desire (as Polley remarked in the Q&A after the screening.) Very well cast with Michelle Williams as a twenty-something woman Margot, married for five years to Lou (Seth Rogen). When Daniel (Luke Kirby) enters her life in one of the many comedic scenes in the film), her previously domestic situation starts to unravel. This is a film with both intense drama and high humour, handled deftly by Polley and woven into a dreamy yet realistic portrayal of what happens when the gleam starts to go off a relationship. Sarah Silverman plays Lou's sister, a recovering alcoholic, and had vocal coaching for the film to "speak Canadian". See this movie! <a href="http://takethiswaltz.com/" target="_blank">Official site</a>. (5/5)</p> <p><iframe src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/OdYfCZAjeg4" frameborder="0" height="345" width="560"></iframe></p> <p>Here's a shot from the Q&A after the screening.  From L to R: Sarah Polley, Luke Kirby, Sarah Silverman, Seth Rogen.</p> <p><div class='p_embed p_image_embed'> <a href="http://posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/temp-2011-09-11/axHlGcecBwdfbxwmGCncgaBIosqcmzutjgClBDrAedHaHpGbpnCdcEatcBgq/take_this_waltz_qa.jpg.scaled1000.jpg"><img alt="Take_this_waltz_qa" height="373" src="http://posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/temp-2011-09-11/axHlGcecBwdfbxwmGCncgaBIosqcmzutjgClBDrAedHaHpGbpnCdcEatcBgq/take_this_waltz_qa.jpg.scaled500.jpg" width="500" /></a> </div> </p> </p> <p><a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/tiff-roundup-weekend-1">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/tiff-roundup-weekend-1#comment">Leave a comment  »</a> </p> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/mxfx42gEVAZWg1_pfcAhfPppdb0/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/mxfx42gEVAZWg1_pfcAhfPppdb0/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/mxfx42gEVAZWg1_pfcAhfPppdb0/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/mxfx42gEVAZWg1_pfcAhfPppdb0/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=TlWuonlH6fE:mdTwQEsMMZg:yIl2AUoC8zA"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=TlWuonlH6fE:mdTwQEsMMZg:V_sGLiPBpWU"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=TlWuonlH6fE:mdTwQEsMMZg:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=TlWuonlH6fE:mdTwQEsMMZg:qj6IDK7rITs"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=TlWuonlH6fE:mdTwQEsMMZg:gIN9vFwOqvQ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=TlWuonlH6fE:mdTwQEsMMZg:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~4/TlWuonlH6fE" height="1" width="1"/> http://files.posterous.com/user_profile_pics/683708/Headshot_-_Classroom.jpg http://posterous.com/users/3tk3PGtRRRhD Janet Berkman Janet Janet Berkman http://blog.berkman.ca/tiff-roundup-weekend-1 Mon, 05 Sep 2011 15:57:00 -0700 Listening to Shhhhh in the City. WSJ quotes me in recent article http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~3/0G7qED6lHwU/listening-to-shhhhh-in-the-city-wsj-quotes-me http://blog.berkman.ca/listening-to-shhhhh-in-the-city-wsj-quotes-me <p> <div class="posterous_bookmarklet_entry"> <blockquote> <p>White noise and other soothing sounds, once mainly played on machines to aid nighttime sleep, are increasingly helping make daytime hours more serene.</p> Sound is classified by its audible frequencies and associated with a color based on where it falls on the spectrum of high to low frequencies. White noise is unique in that it's random and includes all frequencies—akin to how white light has all the colors in the spectrum—and sounds like a hissing noise. <p>Janet Berkman, a 51-year-old retired project manager, in Toronto prefers the sounds of storms, wind, rain and running water when she is on the subway or trying to read in busy surroundings. Ms. Berkman started listening to the sounds late last year after she realized it helped her focus and concentrate. "Life is getting noisier," she says, and listening to these sounds "kind of empties out my brain."</p> <p>To make the soothing sounds, developers take computer-generated sounds or sounds recorded in nature and make an audio file that usually is "looped," or repeated. These digital files are then available at the iTunes store and on other websites.</p> </blockquote> </div> <div class="posterous_quote_citation">via <a href="http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424053111904199404576538274265089288.html">online.wsj.com</a></div> <p>I was interviewed by phone and then "fact-checked" a week later. I use the app by TM Soft called "White Noise".</p> <p>Click the link to read the whole piece.</p> </p> <p><a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/listening-to-shhhhh-in-the-city-wsj-quotes-me">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/listening-to-shhhhh-in-the-city-wsj-quotes-me#comment">Leave a comment  »</a> </p> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/XkNZfYfckaqa4epEYF3y0DXQErs/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/XkNZfYfckaqa4epEYF3y0DXQErs/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/XkNZfYfckaqa4epEYF3y0DXQErs/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/XkNZfYfckaqa4epEYF3y0DXQErs/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=0G7qED6lHwU:3_KuVW7FJaI:yIl2AUoC8zA"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=0G7qED6lHwU:3_KuVW7FJaI:V_sGLiPBpWU"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=0G7qED6lHwU:3_KuVW7FJaI:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=0G7qED6lHwU:3_KuVW7FJaI:qj6IDK7rITs"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=0G7qED6lHwU:3_KuVW7FJaI:gIN9vFwOqvQ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=0G7qED6lHwU:3_KuVW7FJaI:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~4/0G7qED6lHwU" height="1" width="1"/> http://files.posterous.com/user_profile_pics/683708/Headshot_-_Classroom.jpg http://posterous.com/users/3tk3PGtRRRhD Janet Berkman Janet Janet Berkman http://blog.berkman.ca/listening-to-shhhhh-in-the-city-wsj-quotes-me Mon, 05 Sep 2011 15:45:00 -0700 Times have changed, but the messages still apply. http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~3/kPXSkfSUbHY/times-have-changed-but-the-messages-still-app http://blog.berkman.ca/times-have-changed-but-the-messages-still-app <p> <div class="posterous_bookmarklet_entry"> <div class='p_embed p_image_embed'> <img alt="Media_httpdesigncrave_irabm" height="500" src="http://posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/berkman/rnsthljeElEHgdGJBqglebwFrdJcxGoptckAunqsfpkuacGFAaxreCBdtuJz/media_httpdesigncrave_IrAbm.jpg.scaled500.jpg" width="391" /> </div> <div class="posterous_quote_citation">via <a href="http://designcrave.com/2010-09-06/labor-of-love-posters-designed-for-productivity/">designcrave.com</a></div> <p>Check out these early 20th C productivity posters. Click on the link to see more. There are a few I'd like to post in my home!</p></div> </p> <p><a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/times-have-changed-but-the-messages-still-app">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/times-have-changed-but-the-messages-still-app#comment">Leave a comment  »</a> </p> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/mGQ_l4g5E6HcJWb1WmiXeqNpB4k/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/mGQ_l4g5E6HcJWb1WmiXeqNpB4k/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/mGQ_l4g5E6HcJWb1WmiXeqNpB4k/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/mGQ_l4g5E6HcJWb1WmiXeqNpB4k/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=kPXSkfSUbHY:i3pUL2DEu5I:yIl2AUoC8zA"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=kPXSkfSUbHY:i3pUL2DEu5I:V_sGLiPBpWU"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=kPXSkfSUbHY:i3pUL2DEu5I:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=kPXSkfSUbHY:i3pUL2DEu5I:qj6IDK7rITs"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=kPXSkfSUbHY:i3pUL2DEu5I:gIN9vFwOqvQ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=kPXSkfSUbHY:i3pUL2DEu5I:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~4/kPXSkfSUbHY" height="1" width="1"/> http://files.posterous.com/user_profile_pics/683708/Headshot_-_Classroom.jpg http://posterous.com/users/3tk3PGtRRRhD Janet Berkman Janet Janet Berkman http://blog.berkman.ca/times-have-changed-but-the-messages-still-app Mon, 05 Sep 2011 11:51:00 -0700 It's Monday....what am I reading? http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~3/NrQW5lpqB-E/its-mondaywhat-am-i-reading-80988 http://blog.berkman.ca/its-mondaywhat-am-i-reading-80988 <p> <p>I've got four books on the go right now which is a lot.  But so far it's working for me.</p> <ul> <li><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/0865477388/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=domeblis0d-20&linkCode=as2&camp=15121&creative=390961&creativeASIN=0865477388" target="_blank">What to Eat</a> by Marion Nestle. <a href="http://www.foodpolitics.com/" target="_blank">Nestle </a>is a big-wheel nutritionist and from what I've read so far, sensible, straightforward, and no-nonsense. The book is rougly organzed by food group, starting with fruits and vegetables, then dairy (and non-dairy substitutes) and now I'm on the chapters on meat. The only quibble I have so far is the dietary-cholesterol-raises-blood-cholesterol story, which I'm not sure is still considered a given, at least based on what I've read in Gary Taubes' <a href="http://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/1400033462/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=domeblis0d-20&linkCode=as2&camp=15121&creative=390961&creativeASIN=1400033462" target="_blank">Good Calories, Bad Calories</a> and the associated research. I would be in interested in Nestle's take on that book. While I'm only a third of the way through Nestle's 600 page book, I'd recommend it. I'm also planning to check out <a href="http://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/1439166420/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=domeblis0d-20&linkCode=as2&camp=15121&creative=390961&creativeASIN=1439166420" target="_blank">her newest book on feeding pets</a>.</li> <li><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/1603090967/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=domeblis0d-20&linkCode=as2&camp=15121&creative=390961&creativeASIN=1603090967" target="_blank">Blankets </a>by Craig Thompson.An at times heatbreaking graphic novel about a young man growing up in Wisconsin, his difficulties with his family, faith, and friends. I've been on the hold list at the library for ages for this novel and am reading it slowly, savouring it. Am about two-thirds of the way through this 600 page tome.</li> <li><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/0739332937/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=domeblis0d-20&linkCode=as2&camp=15121&creative=390961&creativeASIN=0739332937" target="_blank">The Good Guy</a> by Dean Koontz. I picked this up specifically for a <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/group/show/21757.The_Seasonal_Reading_Challenge" target="_blank">Seasonal Reading Challenge</a> task and have never read anything by this author before. It's a crime/thriller novel and I am very much enjoying it. The premise is interesting, if somewhat implausible, but the characters are engaging. I'm listening to this on audio and the production is excellent. </li> <li><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/1439152799/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=domeblis0d-20&linkCode=as2&camp=15121&creative=390961&creativeASIN=1439152799" target="_blank">The Distant Hours</a> by <a href="http://www.katemorton.com/" target="_blank">Kate Morton</a>. I read Morton's <a href="http://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/1416550550/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=domeblis0d-20&linkCode=as2&camp=15121&creative=390961&creativeASIN=1416550550" target="_blank">The Forgotten Garden</a> last year and very much enjoyed it. I've had this novel on my Kindle for some time, but just started reading it when I finished the paperback I had in my purse while I was downtown and needed something else to read. Also set in England, Kent to be precise, I'm not very far in but loving it already. I suspect I'll keep my Kindle in my bag while I'm attending TIFF, for all the lineup-and-waits, so this will be a good novel to have on the go over the next couple of weeks.</li> </ul> <p> </p> </p> <p><a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/its-mondaywhat-am-i-reading-80988">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/its-mondaywhat-am-i-reading-80988#comment">Leave a comment  »</a> </p> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Ar885U5Kkn-98eTBiw3x5pQ3Xgo/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Ar885U5Kkn-98eTBiw3x5pQ3Xgo/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Ar885U5Kkn-98eTBiw3x5pQ3Xgo/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Ar885U5Kkn-98eTBiw3x5pQ3Xgo/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=NrQW5lpqB-E:9ncbmdUngSk:yIl2AUoC8zA"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=NrQW5lpqB-E:9ncbmdUngSk:V_sGLiPBpWU"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=NrQW5lpqB-E:9ncbmdUngSk:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=NrQW5lpqB-E:9ncbmdUngSk:qj6IDK7rITs"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=NrQW5lpqB-E:9ncbmdUngSk:gIN9vFwOqvQ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=NrQW5lpqB-E:9ncbmdUngSk:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~4/NrQW5lpqB-E" height="1" width="1"/> http://files.posterous.com/user_profile_pics/683708/Headshot_-_Classroom.jpg http://posterous.com/users/3tk3PGtRRRhD Janet Berkman Janet Janet Berkman http://blog.berkman.ca/its-mondaywhat-am-i-reading-80988 Fri, 02 Sep 2011 14:56:00 -0700 A road map for Focus. http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~3/vCjbh_B0jeg/a-road-map-for-focus http://blog.berkman.ca/a-road-map-for-focus <p> <div class="posterous_bookmarklet_entry"> <div class='p_embed p_image_embed'> <img alt="Media_httplearningfun_ealfa" height="376" src="http://posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/berkman/aoIwejfvhltoJvesJJkrFDfaveDAhmpeDEFJdBpqercDbtdJEsazDninsHBw/media_httplearningfun_EAlfa.jpg.scaled500.jpg" width="498" /> </div> <div class="posterous_quote_citation">via <a href="http://learningfundamentals.com.au/blog/developing-razor-sharp-focus-with-zen-habits-blogger-leo-babauta/">learningfundamentals.com.au</a></div> <p>Babauta blogs at Zen Habits and I find his work unfailingly helpful and thought-provoking. He wrote an eBook called Focus and this illustration summarizes some of his key points for managing distraction (and may print out a copy for my university-aged son.)</p></div> </p> <p><a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/a-road-map-for-focus">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/a-road-map-for-focus#comment">Leave a comment  »</a> </p> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/2LmZtK7FmDgj-LVhl032pNfFOd0/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/2LmZtK7FmDgj-LVhl032pNfFOd0/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/2LmZtK7FmDgj-LVhl032pNfFOd0/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/2LmZtK7FmDgj-LVhl032pNfFOd0/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=vCjbh_B0jeg:SxpfiHS-MHo:yIl2AUoC8zA"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=vCjbh_B0jeg:SxpfiHS-MHo:V_sGLiPBpWU"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=vCjbh_B0jeg:SxpfiHS-MHo:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=vCjbh_B0jeg:SxpfiHS-MHo:qj6IDK7rITs"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=vCjbh_B0jeg:SxpfiHS-MHo:gIN9vFwOqvQ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=vCjbh_B0jeg:SxpfiHS-MHo:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~4/vCjbh_B0jeg" height="1" width="1"/> http://files.posterous.com/user_profile_pics/683708/Headshot_-_Classroom.jpg http://posterous.com/users/3tk3PGtRRRhD Janet Berkman Janet Janet Berkman http://blog.berkman.ca/a-road-map-for-focus Wed, 31 Aug 2011 20:15:00 -0700 Take a deep breath.....and read! http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~3/I-uB6IdMr6U/take-a-deep-breathand-read http://blog.berkman.ca/take-a-deep-breathand-read <p> <p>The <a href="http://www.goodreads.com" target="_blank">Goodreads</a> <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/topic/group_folder/78045" target="_blank">Seasonal Reading Challenge Summer 2011</a> has come to a close.  I hit a personal best for these 3-month challenges, reading (or listening to) 61 books and almost 19,000 pages. My list is <a href="https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0AgdFY7ZaQS7pdER6VktOazdKWmxPVHRIQWpUS0o5RUE&hl=en_US" target="_blank">here</a> (I managed to read the books in <strong>bold type</strong>.)</p> <p>Most of the tasks have been posted for the <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/topic/show/636011-fall-challenge-2011-tasks" target="_blank">Fall Challenge</a>, and I've made up <a href="https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0AgdFY7ZaQS7pdE5PeTFZLUFrVVlIRzBIdlJ2ek91VUE&hl=en_US" target="_blank">my reading list</a>. This varies over the challenge as new books come my way or I move some around, but I'm trying to read from my shelves this quarter so that I can continue with my book purge.</p> <p>I'm starting off this challenge with a few items from the library:</p> <p><strong>Books</strong>:</p> <p><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/0865477388/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=domeblis0d-20&linkCode=as2&camp=15121&creative=390961&creativeASIN=0865477388" target="_blank">What to Eat</a> by Marion Nestle. I've been wanting to read this ever since it was published, but hadn't gotten around to it until it finally came up on my hold list at the library.  It's 600+ pages of clear, straightforward, no-nonsense writing and I'm enjoying it.</p> <p><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/024114373X/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=domeblis0d-20&linkCode=as2&camp=15121&creative=390961&creativeASIN=024114373X" target="_blank">The Idle Parent</a>: Subtitled "Why Less Means More When Raising Kids".  Recommended on the excellent blog <a href="http://mentalmultivitamin.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Mental Multivitamin</a>, I'm reading this mainly to feel better about our laid-back attitude to parenting, as it's too late to change much at this point.</p> <p><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/0525941142/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=domeblis0d-20&linkCode=as2&camp=15121&creative=390961&creativeASIN=0525941142" target="_blank">The Young Man From Atlanta</a> by Horton Foote. I borrowed this Pulitzer Prize winning play from the library for the summer challenge, but didn't get to that task. I'm hoping to find a place for it on my list when all the tasks have been posted.</p> <p><strong>Three graphic novels</strong> that I picked up after browsing at my local library branch. I like this genre because the story is told in fewer words but the artwork is typically engaging and tells a good part of the tale. The first two are by American writers and the third Japanese.</p> <p><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/1401211844/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=domeblis0d-20&linkCode=as2&camp=15121&creative=390961&creativeASIN=1401211844" target="_blank">Filthy Rich</a></p> <p><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/1932664742/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=domeblis0d-20&linkCode=as2&camp=15121&creative=390961&creativeASIN=1932664742" target="_blank">Narcoleptic Sunday</a></p> <p><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/1421532506/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=domeblis0d-20&linkCode=as2&camp=15121&creative=390961&creativeASIN=1421532506" target="_blank">Ristorante Paradiso</a></p> <p><strong>Audiobooks</strong> that I've downloaded from the public library onto my iPod:</p> <p><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/0312430000/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=domeblis0d-20&linkCode=as2&camp=15121&creative=390961&creativeASIN=0312430000" target="_blank">The Checklist Manifesto: How to Get Things Right</a> by Atul Gawande. I know about the essence of this book having read an article in the New Yorker (I think), but I'm looking forward to a longer description of this approach to reducing errors in different industries.</p> <p><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/0312364423/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=domeblis0d-20&linkCode=as2&camp=15121&creative=390961&creativeASIN=0312364423" target="_blank">The Night Road</a> by Kristin Hannah. I don't know this author and the book was published in March 2011, so I must have read a review of it somewhere and put it on my hold list.</p> <p><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/0553242695/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=domeblis0d-20&linkCode=as2&camp=15121&creative=390961&creativeASIN=0553242695" target="_blank">Prisoner's Base (Nero Wolfe mystery)</a> by Rex Stout. I like Nero Wolfe mysteries and they're good, quick listens.The narrator on all the ones I listened to in the past has been excellent.</p> <p><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/0553242695/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=domeblis0d-20&linkCode=as2&camp=15121&creative=390961&creativeASIN=0553242695" target="_blank">The Good Guy</a> by Dean Koontz. I chose this for a task where you have to read a book by an author who has a <a href="http://www.nhc.noaa.gov/retirednames.shtml" target="_blank">retired hurricane name</a>. You "get out" of reading a second book if the book you read was written in the year the hurricane name was retired, in this case, 2007.</p> <p> </p> </p> <p><a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/take-a-deep-breathand-read">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/take-a-deep-breathand-read#comment">Leave a comment  »</a> </p> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/lKWbItm1E98e8WNXWd6gbZ5E33M/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/lKWbItm1E98e8WNXWd6gbZ5E33M/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/lKWbItm1E98e8WNXWd6gbZ5E33M/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/lKWbItm1E98e8WNXWd6gbZ5E33M/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=I-uB6IdMr6U:hmLVlZ8N1zo:yIl2AUoC8zA"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=I-uB6IdMr6U:hmLVlZ8N1zo:V_sGLiPBpWU"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=I-uB6IdMr6U:hmLVlZ8N1zo:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=I-uB6IdMr6U:hmLVlZ8N1zo:qj6IDK7rITs"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=I-uB6IdMr6U:hmLVlZ8N1zo:gIN9vFwOqvQ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=I-uB6IdMr6U:hmLVlZ8N1zo:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~4/I-uB6IdMr6U" height="1" width="1"/> http://files.posterous.com/user_profile_pics/683708/Headshot_-_Classroom.jpg http://posterous.com/users/3tk3PGtRRRhD Janet Berkman Janet Janet Berkman http://blog.berkman.ca/take-a-deep-breathand-read Wed, 31 Aug 2011 14:36:00 -0700 TIFF is coming: my first weekend lineup. http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~3/Mxg_uHFyRJw/tiff-is-coming-my-first-weekend-lineup http://blog.berkman.ca/tiff-is-coming-my-first-weekend-lineup <p> <p>The <a href="http://tiff.net/thefestival/about" target="_blank">Toronto International Film Festival</a>, that is.</p> <p>This year, I'm jumping in with both feet, seeing 5 films with my spouse when he's not at work, and ....ahem... 20 on my own during the day. Because we're "castmembers" at TIFF, we got our order processed early and got 23 out of 25 of our first picks, 1 second pick, and one voucher.  I'm hoping to get another ticket (with my voucher) to <a href="http://tiff.net/filmsandschedules/tiff/2011/habibi" target="_blank">Habibi </a>so that Z can come with me to that screening (it's a Saturday morning at 9 am.) It's a recasting of a classical 9th century Arabic tragic love epic, Mad for Layla (Majnoun Layla), set in modern day Gaza.</p> <p>On the first weekend (Sep 9-11), this is my lineup:</p> <p><strong>Friday afternoon</strong>:  <a href="http://tiff.net/filmsandschedules/tiff/2011/urbanized" target="_blank">Urbanized</a> - Documentary on Urban Design</p> <p><strong>Saturday morning:</strong> <a href="http://tiff.net/filmsandschedules/tiff/2011/idesofmarch" target="_blank">Ides of March</a> - George Clooney and Ryan Gosling star in this polical drama about a presidential primary.</p> <p><strong>Saturday afternoon:</strong> <a href="http://tiff.net/filmsandschedules/tiff/2011/houseoftolerance" target="_blank">House of Tolerance</a> - A look at a fin-de-siecle brothel in Paris. </p> <p><strong>Sunday noon:</strong> <a href="http://tiff.net/filmsandschedules/tiff/2011/takethiswaltz" target="_blank">Take This Waltz</a> - Sarah Polley directs (and wrote) this romantic drama.</p> <p>My fears about having to run from venue to venue have been allayed as I have at least 45 minutes between any two films, so with my TTC pass and comfy shoes, I'm good to go!</p> <p> </p> </p> <p><a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/tiff-is-coming-my-first-weekend-lineup">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/tiff-is-coming-my-first-weekend-lineup#comment">Leave a comment  »</a> </p> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/KgTVd-M1SD1vk07LwzoqzifezpY/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/KgTVd-M1SD1vk07LwzoqzifezpY/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/KgTVd-M1SD1vk07LwzoqzifezpY/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/KgTVd-M1SD1vk07LwzoqzifezpY/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=Mxg_uHFyRJw:OD3FHu-YtAA:yIl2AUoC8zA"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=Mxg_uHFyRJw:OD3FHu-YtAA:V_sGLiPBpWU"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=Mxg_uHFyRJw:OD3FHu-YtAA:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=Mxg_uHFyRJw:OD3FHu-YtAA:qj6IDK7rITs"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=Mxg_uHFyRJw:OD3FHu-YtAA:gIN9vFwOqvQ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=Mxg_uHFyRJw:OD3FHu-YtAA:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~4/Mxg_uHFyRJw" height="1" width="1"/> http://files.posterous.com/user_profile_pics/683708/Headshot_-_Classroom.jpg http://posterous.com/users/3tk3PGtRRRhD Janet Berkman Janet Janet Berkman http://blog.berkman.ca/tiff-is-coming-my-first-weekend-lineup Wed, 31 Aug 2011 10:41:05 -0700 Safety first! http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~3/4a2bdFEnbOQ/safety-first http://blog.berkman.ca/safety-first <p> <p><div class='p_embed p_image_embed'> <a href="http://posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/berkman/yJbocEEsdobfyunDhlxbcDyJtkeIFsrkGotvBjqkpsGckDjsfgbgmsCmivoc/p245.jpg.scaled1000.jpg"><img alt="P245" height="373" src="http://posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/berkman/yJbocEEsdobfyunDhlxbcDyJtkeIFsrkGotvBjqkpsGckDjsfgbgmsCmivoc/p245.jpg.scaled500.jpg" width="500" /></a> </div> </p>Saw this set of signs on a residential build in my neighborhood. Map on the left shows the directions to the nearest hospital (Sunnybrook). <p>Very impressed.</p> </p> <p><a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/safety-first">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/safety-first#comment">Leave a comment  »</a> </p> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/W-lj4yWTw3nsRsq0O_GOXYc5shw/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/W-lj4yWTw3nsRsq0O_GOXYc5shw/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/W-lj4yWTw3nsRsq0O_GOXYc5shw/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/W-lj4yWTw3nsRsq0O_GOXYc5shw/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=4a2bdFEnbOQ:bmKgEweUIn4:yIl2AUoC8zA"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=4a2bdFEnbOQ:bmKgEweUIn4:V_sGLiPBpWU"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=4a2bdFEnbOQ:bmKgEweUIn4:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=4a2bdFEnbOQ:bmKgEweUIn4:qj6IDK7rITs"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=4a2bdFEnbOQ:bmKgEweUIn4:gIN9vFwOqvQ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=4a2bdFEnbOQ:bmKgEweUIn4:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~4/4a2bdFEnbOQ" height="1" width="1"/> http://files.posterous.com/user_profile_pics/683708/Headshot_-_Classroom.jpg http://posterous.com/users/3tk3PGtRRRhD Janet Berkman Janet Janet Berkman http://blog.berkman.ca/safety-first Sat, 27 Aug 2011 16:03:27 -0700 Get Lost Wasp! A humane approach to wasp-free living. http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~3/aBtMl5mXqLc/get-lost-wasp-a-humane-approach-to-wasp-free http://blog.berkman.ca/get-lost-wasp-a-humane-approach-to-wasp-free <p> <p><div class='p_embed p_image_embed'> <a href="http://posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/berkman/wfkkwCGnaAImreIvHcfIbprBtvGfIjCDaHabExByywwsjhtIkADbuhaxhetc/IMG_0080.jpg.scaled1000.jpg"><img alt="Img_0080" height="669" src="http://posterous.com/getfile/files.posterous.com/berkman/wfkkwCGnaAImreIvHcfIbprBtvGfIjCDaHabExByywwsjhtIkADbuhaxhetc/IMG_0080.jpg.scaled500.jpg" width="500" /></a> </div> </p>We've been enjoying life on our deck this summer, but the wasps have been terrible. I was mentioning this to my Aunt Lillian and she told me that she'd seen a product in a nature store that was supposed to be a natural wasp repellant. <p>Well, my man and I were wandering through Canadian Tire today and spotted it. It's called "Get Lost Wasp" and is essentially a faux wasp nest in the form of a paper lantern sans light bulb. You hang it 6-8' high and apparently, being territorial creatures, wasps will clear out once they spot it. I hung one from a tree branch close to the deck.</p><p>So far, so good, but the real test will be having a meal out here. I'll keep you posted. </p><p>[No wasps were killed in the clearing of my deck.]</p> </p> <p><a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/get-lost-wasp-a-humane-approach-to-wasp-free">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://blog.berkman.ca/get-lost-wasp-a-humane-approach-to-wasp-free#comment">Leave a comment  »</a> </p> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/WfWN2ithL0A0qlNo1A8BvgncYmY/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/WfWN2ithL0A0qlNo1A8BvgncYmY/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/WfWN2ithL0A0qlNo1A8BvgncYmY/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/WfWN2ithL0A0qlNo1A8BvgncYmY/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=aBtMl5mXqLc:CZIdMnBerUc:yIl2AUoC8zA"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=aBtMl5mXqLc:CZIdMnBerUc:V_sGLiPBpWU"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=aBtMl5mXqLc:CZIdMnBerUc:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=aBtMl5mXqLc:CZIdMnBerUc:qj6IDK7rITs"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?a=aBtMl5mXqLc:CZIdMnBerUc:gIN9vFwOqvQ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/DomesticBlissTakeTwo?i=aBtMl5mXqLc:CZIdMnBerUc:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DomesticBlissTakeTwo/~4/aBtMl5mXqLc" height="1" width="1"/> http://files.posterous.com/user_profile_pics/683708/Headshot_-_Classroom.jpg http://posterous.com/users/3tk3PGtRRRhD Janet Berkman Janet Janet Berkman http://blog.berkman.ca/get-lost-wasp-a-humane-approach-to-wasp-free