Doodles, Squiggles and Scrawls

PONDERING

2011-08-05T04:05:00.000-07:00

I thought ...
I thought you'll understand..
I thought we'll be together...
I thought you're staying here with me till the end...

I thought...
I thought we'll be forever...
I could still hear you swearing...
Remember darling?
You swore..

"Promise we'll be forever!"
"Promise we'll be forever!"
But... Where are we now?
Where are we now?
--- WITCH

A FINAL GOODBYE

2011-08-05T01:02:00.000-07:00

"Watching you walk out of my life does not make me bitter or cynical about love. But rather makes me realize that if I wanted so much to be with the wrong person how beautiful it will be when the right one comes along." - Anonymous.

Dear Bogart,

Hi.

It's been 15 years... 15 years of wonderful and sad moments... But time never changed who you are... You're the same Bogart I knew and cried over when I was still 16... Nothing has changed...

You're still one big fat liar God has ever created in this world!

I had hoped and prayed that this time you might miraculously change for me... but it was a failure...

You just improved your craft. And, this time, I could not stomach it in...

It's over and done with!!!

Although, I still love you... And, even though I would love you continuously...

THE FOOLISHNESS MUST STOP NOW.

Goodbye... so long... and good luck!

LIFE....

2011-07-11T20:36:00.000-07:00

LIFE... AH LIFE!!!

SURPRISES

2011-07-11T19:18:00.000-07:00

I AM NOT KEEN WITH SURPRISES... BUT GOD GAVE ME SOMETHING I REALLY DIDN'T EXPECT... A LONG LOST SOMETHING THAT I GAINED BACK.... I AM THANKFUL AND MYSTIFIED AT THE SAME TIME... WHO WOULD EXPECT TO HAVE SUCH A WONDERFUL PRESENT??? I AM COMPLETE NOW :)

Doodles, Squiggles and Scrawls: I AM WHO I AM

2011-04-12T23:27:00.000-07:00

Doodles, Squiggles and Scrawls: I AM WHO I AM: "I am who I am. I don't conform to the usual stuffs 'normal' and good girls. I don't care what the other people say. I take risks... and I'm ..."

I AM WHO I AM

2011-04-12T23:19:00.000-07:00

I am who I am. I don't conform to the usual stuffs "normal" and good girls. I don't care what the other people say. I take risks... and I'm happy about all of them. Even if I fail a millionth time, it doesn't matter. What's important is that I tried it, I liked it, I loved it. That's the thrill of being me.

But, ONE THING'S FOR SURE: I don't encourage other people to be like me. I don't say, I am perfect. I've got flaws. too many flaws---if other people will comment about me. But, I am happy. That's what matters most. ME... My Kids...my friends... and My world.

BLEAK

2011-04-10T16:25:00.000-07:00

Thud and thud, my heart beats....
Once you were here...
Now you were out...
Back and forth I looked at you...
When you looked at me as you passed by...
Your eyes turned to me...
Silently you said goodbye.

We never talked
We never said goodbye
Yet we have danced for a while
You never let me think
I wanted you to speak
Yet you gave my life... all bleak.

Now as I left the pavements of our past...
I trust you not to follow.
Never track me down to know where I'll go
whether I'm at low or I am at peak
'Cause if you'll do...
You'll make my life more bleak.

We never talked
We never said goodbye
Yet we have danced for a while
You never let me think
I wanted you to speak
Yet you gave my life... all bleak.

--- WITCH

UNEXPECTED ANGELS

2011-04-10T16:13:00.000-07:00

It's funny that the ones you've been expecting to help you would turn out not helping you at all and the unexpected people will.

Last month, I've trodden a very bumpy, dark and cold world. I thought I couldn't make it this time. I wondered why this was happening to me all over again. How did I ever deserve these challenges in life again? I called thousands for help but nothing came. That's true.

I almost gave up... but suddenly god sent angels on my way. People whom I know not my closest. But people who turned out to be the true friends. They are not even endowed with money and fame like the people Ive cried for help... but, they tried their best... give their best... just to help me. Little things... big ways... and, I thank all of those bits and pieces you've taken time to shower on my path.

May God give me a chance someday to pay you back. Now I really believe that true friends are sometimes could not be found in the people you are very closed with. They are not even be found to your closest kins... True friends are not even measured to the people whom you've known for years. TRUE FRIENDS COULD BE SEEN TO PEOPLE WHO WILL HELP NO MATTER WHAT REGARDLESS OF WHO YOU ARE TO THEM.

To all the unexpected people in my life: thank you so much! May God bless you more. You all deserve the blessings that will come your way!

How to Childproof Your Homes

2011-03-30T01:27:00.000-07:00

How to Childproof Your Homes

HOW TO BECOME EXCELLENT CO-EMPLOYEE

2011-03-30T01:20:00.000-07:00

HOW TO BECOME EXCELLENT CO-EMPOLYEE

HOW TO BALANCE WORK AND DOMESTIC LIFE FOR SINGLE MOMS

2011-03-30T00:51:00.000-07:00

HOW TO BALANCE WORK AND DOMESTIC LIFE FOR SINGLE MOMS

ALPHA PHI OMEGA INTERNATIONAL FRATERNITY AND SORORITY

2011-03-27T06:21:00.000-07:00

"Alpha Phi Omega is destined to be one of the greatest college fraternities because it has as its foundations the highest ideals of the ages, the most perfect standard the generations have been able to produce, a standard accepted by all nations, all religions and all people, one whose motivating idea is looking for the good, and try to do good regardless of who or what belief and furthermore has the practical application in most commendable educational social services".

--- FRANK REED HORTON

Alpha Phi Omega (commonly known as APO, but also A-Phi-O and A-Phi-Q), is a not-for-profit organization.

The purpose of this fraternity/sorority is to assemble college students in a national service fraternity/sorority in the fellowship of principles derived from the Scout Oath and Law of the Boy Scouts; to develop leadership, to promote friendship and to provide service to humanity; and to further freedom that is our national, educational and intellectual heritage.

Alpha Phi Omega is the single most representative undergraduate intercollegiate organization in the world. They take pride in this and want to be even larger. They determine to be larger only because, if what they are and what they represent are important and useful to students, then they should share what they have in order to further their common goals more effectively.

They want to share with colleges and universities all across this great land the benefits that Alpha Phi Omega gives to students, their campuses and their communities.

ALPHA PHI OMEGA --- ITS REAL FOUNDATION

Alpha Phi Omega has a long tradition of Leadership, Friendship, and Service - the international service fraternity and sorority's three cardinal principles. Service is particularly emphasized. In its 83-year history APO founded on December 16, 1925, in Easton Pennsylvania, U.S.A. has rendered every imaginable kind of voluntary assistance under its four-fold program of service.

*Service to student Body and Faculty
*Service to Youth and Community
*Service to Fraternity Brothers and Sorority Sisters
*Service to the Nation as Fully Participating Citizens Scouting was the foundation of APO or Alpha Phi Omega.

To quote Frank Reed Horton, Founder of APO, "Through these experiences, I found that the Scout Oath and Law were what I had been seeking - a standard of manhood that would withstand the test of time and a code of ideals created and accepted by some of the greatest leaders the world has ever known. My purpose was to make Alpha Phi Omega an organization for college men who cooperated with all youth movements, especially Scouting."

AND, AN APO MEMBER ABIDE THIS BY HEART.

1. Trustworthy A Scout tells the truth. He keeps his promises. Honesty is part of his code of conduct. People can depend on him and he is punctual in terms of both regularity and timeliness.
2. Loyal A Scout is true to his family, Scout leaders, friends, school, and nation. He is faithful, steadfast, and honest.
3. Helpful A Scout is concerned about other people. He does things willingly for others without pay or reward.
4. Friendly A Scout is a friend to all. He is a brother to other Scouts. He seeks to understand others. He respects those with ideas and customs other than his own.
5. Courteous A Scout is polite to everyone regardless of age or position. He knows good manners make it easier for people to get along together.
6. Kind A Scout understands there is strength in being gentle. He treats others as he wants to be treated.
7. Obedient A Scout follows the rules of his family, school, and troop. He obeys the laws of his community and country. If he thinks these rules and laws are unfair, he tries to have them changed in an orderly manner rather than disobey them.
8. Cheerful A Scout looks for the bright side of things. He cheerfully does tasks that come his way. He tries to make others happy.
9. Thrifty A Scout works to pay his way and to help others. He saves for unforeseen needs. He protects and conserves natural resources. He carefully uses time and property.
10. Brave A Scout can face danger even if he is afraid. He has the courage to stand for what he thinks is right even if others laugh at or threaten him.
11. Clean A Scout keeps his body and mind fit and clean. He goes around with those who believe in living by these same ideals. He helps keep his home and community clean.
12. Reverent A Scout is reverent toward God. He is faithful in his religious duties. He respects the beliefs of others.

A MEANINGFUL HISTORY

On December 16, 1925, at Lafayette College in Easton, Pennsylvania, the service fraternity Alpha Phi Omega was founded. Fourteen charter members were initiated on the second floor of Brainerd Hall to form the fraternity's Alpha Chapter. These members included:

1. Frank R. Horton '26
2. Everett W. Probst '26
3. Thane S. Cooley '27
4. Ephraim M. Detwiler '27
5. William T. Wood '27
6. Lewis B. Blair '28
7. Gordon M. Looney '27
8. William W. Highberger '27
9. Donald L. Terwilliger '28
10. Donald H. Fritts '26
11. George A. Olsen '28
12. Robert J. Green '29
13. Ellsworth S. Dobson '28, and
14. Herbert Heinrich '27

Six advisors were also inducted, including four members of the Lafayette College faculty:

1. President John H. MacCracken
2. Dean Donald B. Prentice
3. Professors D. Arthur Hatch and
4. Harry T. Spengler

one local Scouting official:

1. Herbert G. Horton

and one national Scouting official, national director of the Boy Scouts of America:

1. Ray 0. Wyland

The idea behind the founding of Alpha Phi Omega was that of Frank Reed Horton, Lafayette Class of 1926. During World War I, Horton served in the US Navy on the minesweeper USS Whippoorwill in the North Sea. Because Horton had attended Boston University Law School, he was appointed to try court martial cases in his division, a task which brought to his attention cases of young sailors getting into trouble at ports. The experience of war and trying these cases instilled in Horton a desire to do two things: first, aid young people in obtaining the right start in life as well as holding before them a "standard of manhood;" and second, to assist in helping nations settle disputes in a more constructive and peaceful manner than by war.

Alpha Chapter at Lafayette College, Horton enrolled at Lafayette after the war and during his sophomore year became acquainted with Boy Scout executive Herbert G. Horton (no relation), who helped him become deputy scout commissioner in charge of the Easton South Side district. This marked Horton's introduction to the Scouting creed, something in which he found the standard of manhood he sought. Horton's favorable impressions of Scouting were strengthened during the summer of his junior year when he served as an Associate Camp Director at the Easton Scout Reservation. Horton was impressed by the religious tolerance among the boys. Furthermore, as a senior, Horton noticed that members of his fraternity, Sigma Alpha Epsilon, who stood out for "clean living" were former Scouts.

Horton decided there was a need for an organization that would strengthen former Scouts in their early ideals, develop friendship with other students who were former Scouts, and provide an opportunity for leadership and the rendering of service. Horton believed that such an organization, with chapters in the colleges of the nations of the world, would motivate national and international leaders to aspire to the organization's ideals and the settling of international disputes peacefully.

During his senior year in 1925, Horton founded Alpha Phi Omega. He selected the Greek words and their meaning, the motto "Be a leader, Be a friend, Be of service," and created the initiation ritual, the constitution, and by-laws. From 1925-1931, Horton served as Alpha Phi Omega's first national president. During this period, eighteen chapters were established. Horton served as editor of the first national publication, The Light bearer, which he established in 1927 and which later became the Torch and Trefoil. The national organization was incorporated on January 11, 1927. By 1929 Horton secured a copyright from the United States Patent Office to protect the fraternity trademark and in 1930 he entered Alpha Phi Omega in the 12th edition of Baird's Manual, American College Fraternities.

By the year 1950, it already had 227 chapters from coast to coast. And since then, Alpha Phi Omega scattered around the world like wildfire. Today, Alpha Phi Omega is one of the most popular fraternity/sorority in the world. It is also one of the most active service fraternity/sorority in the world. Thanks to one student of La Fayette University who dreamed and created this organization that is now known as the ALPHA PHI OMEGA INTERNATIONAL FRATERNITY AND SORORITY.

(source: http://www.aphio.net/organization)

VISIONS, MISSIONS, GOALS

Alpha Phi Omega's Vision and Mission

VISION

To be recognized as the premier service-based leadership development organization.

MISSION

Prepare campus and community leaders through service.

VALUES

Develop leadership, promote friendship, and provide service.

OBJECTIVES

Share Grow Improve Invest

APO'S GUIDING PRINCIPLES

Leadership.

Realistically, leadership is a matter of development. Alpha Phi Omega develops leaders, and they are very proud of that. As they grow, they seek qualities of leadership, and throughout their lives, they pursue the development of those qualities and the development of other 'well-rounding' qualities. Through their leadership development program in Alpha Phi Omega, they are able to develop ourselves. And, as they aspire to greater things in life, they become aware of limiting factors - which they can't control, the external forces that shape the destiny until they control and develop what they have inside of them. they discover their own talents and strive to better their skills. They study, They learn, They practice.

Friendship.

Brotherhood is the spirit of friendship. It implies respect, honesty and dependability. It means that they overlook differences and emphasize similarities as they join together in unselfish service. It means listening to Brothers whose views on issues might differ from their own. It means working closely with people whom under other circumstances they might not choose as their friends.

Service.

The Chapter service program provides many opportunities for the development of social awareness, friendships and leadership skills. Participation in their service program helps make Alpha Phi Omega the unique fraternal organization that it is.

"HERE'S TO ALPHA PHI OMEGA...

LOYAL BROTHERS/SISTERS WE...." (APO's Toast Song)

Here's to Alpha Phi Omega, Loyal Brothers we,
True to Self and to each other, firm in loyalty
Daily working, daily striving, ever more to be,
Men of Alpha Phi Omega, our Fraternity.

Brothers clasp the hands of Brothers, strong the circle we,
Ever mindful ever serving all humanity
Now we raise our grateful voices, in our song to thee
Men of Alpha Phi Omega, may we always be.

WATCH AND BE ENTHRALLED

WHY I LOVE ALPHA PHI OMEGA?

well, because...

1) I believe in their principles;

2) I admire their dedication to help in the community;

3) I salute to their solidarity;

4) I commend their camaraderie;

5) I AM ONE OF THEM.

To my brothers and Sisters: MAY WE ALWAYS BE!!!!

INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES ABOUT MOTHERHOOD

2011-03-27T05:51:00.000-07:00

" There are no such thing as a nonworking mother." ---Hester Mundis

"Now, as always, the most automated appliance in a household is the mother." --- Beverly Jones

"When you're a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts. A mother always has to think twice: once of herself and once for her child" ---Sophia Loren

"There's a lot being a woman than being a mother. But there's a lot more to being a mother than most people suspect." --- Raseanne Barr

" Life is only lived full-time by women with children" --- Marguerite Duras

" It's not easy being a mother. If it were, fathers would do it." --- Dorothy (from The Golden Girls)

"What one has to do, ussually can be done." --- Eleanor Roosevelt.

"Your children need your presence more than they need your presents." ---Jesse Jackson

"Every calling is great when greatly pursued." --- Oliver Wendall Holmes, Jr.

ESSENTIAL INGREDIENTS IN MULTI-VITAMINS WE SHOULD KNOW ABOUT

2011-03-27T05:43:00.000-07:00

As we all know, the human body requires a balance of vitamins and minerals in order to function. These mainly comes from your diet. Vitamins and minerals comprise major categories of nutrients along with proteins, sugars and the fatty acids that are essential for the body everyday.
There are things that we should be doing to enjoy long and healthy lives. We all know that we should be eating right, and getting lots of exercise. And while we do our best efforts , our busy schedules often take precedence and push our health to the back burner. This is where multivitamins come into the picture. These supplements help us to get the nutrients we may be needing, all in one convenient pill. But how can one be sure that he is choosing the absolute best multivitamin? We shall simplify the process by examining the key components that make up the very best multivitamins.

WHAT ARE THE VITAMINS AND MINERALS THAT WE REALLY NEED DAILY IN OUR BODY?

With hundreds of multivitamin brands currently on the market, it can often be kind of confusing to make the right choice. However, by observing for distinctive vitamins and minerals in a multi-vitamin supplement, you can guarantee that you are getting what your body actually needs. The following are crucial nutrients, and should definitely be part of your multivitamin.

VITAMIN B COMPLEX - This family of vitamins is vital to maintaining health and also helps to prevent against heart disease and certain types of cancer. Also helps maintain a healthy nervous system, especially as age increases.

VITAMIN C - Helps maintain immunity to illness, as well as preventing against heart disease and certain types of cancer.

CALCIUM - Helps to build strong bones and muscle, and prevents against osteoporosis.

FOLIC ACID - Helps prevent heart disease, cancer, Alzheimer's, and certain types of birth defects.

In addition to these nutrients, a great multi should also include Vitamins A, D, E, and K, as well as potassium, magnesium, iron, and selenium.

WHAT ARE THE VITAMINS THAT ARE LESS NEEDED?

While most vitamins and minerals can help benefit your well-being, many can be easily found in your diet. While the following examples may be present in some multivitamins, they are not really necessary; Phosphorus, Pantothenic Acid, Chloride, Boron, Iodine, and Nickel. In addition, some lesser quality multivitamins may include additives such as sugar, preservatives, and artificial coloring and/or flavoring. Make sure to avoid from multivitamins that include these fillers.

OUR HEALTH MUST BE A PRIORITY IN OUR LIVES!

Upholding great health is vital to living a long and satisfying life. If we are going to include a multivitamin into our routine, be sure to do so by making sure for the nutrients discussed in this article. One final piece of advice: many health publications will offer reviews regarding the best men's and women's supplements. By finding a reputable overview of the products, one will be well informed and more able to make a smart buying decision for the right multivitamin possible.

But, remember always that good health doesn't depend on supplements only. we must live life healthily by exercising a lot, avoiding fattening foods, eating a balanced diet and completing an 8 hour of sleep everyday. Supplements are just supplements. Remember that. If you haven't started doing these, then start today. Consult your doctor for a suited health and fitness regimen for you. Follow them religiously and you'll surely live a healthy and long life. Good luck and here's to a healthier you!!!

SURVIVING SINGLE-MOTHERHOOD

2011-03-27T05:14:00.000-07:00

" A mother is a mother. Married or not, our commitment to our children is still as deep and our gifts are still as sweet." ---UNKNOWN

Not so long ago, unwed mothers were viewed as outcasts. Luckily, attitudes and behaviors of the society have changed and we have more freedom now. We are now equal to the women who are married and have kids. This time, there's no distinction at all.

Motherhood is being given the respects it deserves and marriage is no longer a determining factor. At long last, we have come to recognize that "maternity is truly a cosmic thing". That's it's an obligation and not only as a social title.

But, being a single mother can seem like an insurmountable task. Often, we must be a "mother" and "father" to our kids all at the same time. We work to support our family while we single-handedly run a household.We pray a lot, asking more strength, more time, and more patience. And most of all, we do our best to keep it all together.

Nowadays, mothers are expected to excel at everything. The society expect it from us and we expect it of ourselves too. Yet being the successful career woman who's also perfect mother and hostess looks only attractive from a distance than it does up close and personal. Every single mom who's regarded this way makes a lot of effort to maintain that distinction. It's up to us how to follow suit.

To be more competent in everything that we do, read the articles from this page. It will greatly help you on facing the day-to-day battle with life, your kids and your career.

SURVIVING MOTHERHOOD---HOW TO BALANCE WORK AND DOMESTIC LIFE FOR SINGLE MOMS

Raising kids isn't a simple task for families that have both parents. When you hear, "it takes a village to raise a child," it is really true. When you're a village of one, you face even more challenges. No matter what your situation is, there is nothing easy about raising them, but just know that the hardships are definitely worth it. I am a single mom, and raising my kids is one hell of a journey. My village consists of very loving aunts, uncles and grandma and grandpa. At the end of the day however, it is still up to us, moms to take care for them while working to earn a living.

Challenges, anxiety and stress always accompany a single mother. Both work and home demands time, dedication and attention. Some women weren't able to balance these demands. Often they neglect their children while trying so hard to earn.

A concerned mom often encounters a dilemma like this. The urge to stay at home and care for the kids is always there. But, in order for her and the kids to live, she has to earn. And, that leaves her no choice
Since there is no choice but to work, the second question that pops into their minds is how to work competently in their jobs while being a great mom at the same time?

Yes. It is really a dilemma. And sometimes, we spent a lot of time racking our brains out for a solution for this. I know, because I was once like that before.

So, how will you survive the growing years of your children and still manage to stay sane? Let me share to you what I learned along the way. Read on.

Home management for me is a constant learning process. Dealing with heartbreak and having a new baby while tending a pre-teen son is no easy job. Having to work in an office at the same time is a bummer. I have to continuously update my "system" and I am always experimenting with new ways of doing things. But, here are a few tried and true tips that have helped our family survive the chaos:

Manage Your Time Well

Set aside one day to plan your daily routine. Schedule every bit of activity for the day. In this manner, you can finish the day without compromising or forgetting some schedules.

Make Sure the Routine You Really Make Works for You

There are all sorts of home management systems out there, but they will inevitably fail if they aren't tailored to your personality and career.

An organized household won't happen automatically, but it's not hard to pick a few areas to streamline. Our household is definitely a work in progress, but at least I know I can usually find my keys!

Always Stay Organized to Stay Ahead at All Times.

Don't allow yourself to let all chores and "mess" piles up for the day. Because most likely you'll get more "mess" the next day. Once these things piles up to its great length, it will be time-consuming and more tiring for you to arrange them again.

Let your kids help you in keeping the house clean. Train them at an early age on their small responsibilities in the house. They may grumble at first, but soon it will be routinely to them.
Toddlers could also participate in the "clean up" Just pretend to them that it is part of your games so that they won't feel it as "work". They would enjoy the activity as well.

Clean All Problem Areas Daily

There's always one place in a house where piles accumulate. For us, it's the kitchen island. It always has random toys, paperwork, mail, etc. If I let it fester, the pile gets out of control. So every day I clear it off. I hate doing it, but it's better to deal with problem areas before they become giant projects.

Always expect the unexpected.

Sometimes family life is just chaotic. We can't control when our little ones spill milk on their shirts on the way out the door, or when the baby needs a new diaper just as we need to dash to the bus stop. However, I have found by that controlling what I can, the other stuff becomes more manageable.

I just assume that something is going to slow me down when we are trying to get somewhere. The dog will need to go out. The toddler will lose a shoe. I usually give myself an extra 10 to 15 minutes to allow for these unexpected, but common, delays. Just take a deep breath always and remain calm. Relax! All moms experienced these things. You're not alone.

Keep a Stocked Diaper Bag/Snack Bin/Backpack/Water/Juice/First Aid Kit in Your Bag

I like to keep the supplies ready to go so that we are ready to run out the door. I always keep diapers and baby wipes a bin of portable snacks that I can grab on the way out (cereal bars, goldfish, crackers, etc).I also keep other bags ready as well. My son's backpack gets emptied and restocked immediately after school.

I also prepare his school things the night before so that there will be no delays in the schedule the next day.

Have Locations for Commonly-Used Items

Assign a place for keys, school supplies, shoes, backpacks, mail, and so forth. These are the types of things that both make messes and get lost. These are all things that get used daily, and it's helpful to keep track of them.

Balance Your Work Time and Family Time

Being a working mom is a very demanding role. Being a single working mom poses more demand. I admit that it is sometimes hard without the help of a partner. But, don't dwell on the past. There's always a solution to every problem. Just take time to think and act the plan. Hire a reliable baby sitter or ask someone to watch over the kids while you're at work. And, spend most of your time being with them. They already lost a father! Don't let them lose you too. Never forget to properly tuck them to bed. Help them in their home works and projects. Take time to visit them at school and in performances. They will be very glad about that. Aside from going to office, bring your toddler to all your other destinations like grocery shopping. Set aside 2-3 hours in the weekend with them. Watch a movie at home or dine out with them or just have snacks while watching TV series is already a big deal to them. Don't let them feel that you have no time for them. Remember: You're mainly working because of them. So don't neglect them or else, your time spent outside working and your career itself, has not worth at all.

Don't Ever Bring Your Work At Home

There's always time for everything and that includes "work time". Once you get home, make sure that the time will be spent wisely on your little family. It's also a time for all of you to relax for a while and talk about everything that happened the whole day. "After work" time is a time for compensation of "lost time" with the kids. They will appreciate that.

Find Work Close to Home or a Work That You Can Do at Home

This is the best tip that I could recommend to you. Quit your full time job, invest in a small business at home that you're expert with, and do freelance jobs on the internet. You don't only get to have a living but also, you could spend a lot of time with your kids while they are still growing up.

I am actually doing that nowadays. I quit my job at the a certain Call Center here in my hometown, I managed to land a new job as an English lecturer that only requires me to teach a few hours - thrice a week away from home. I earn extra cash by tutoring kids in the afternoons and do freelance writing online when the kids are asleep. Not only that I got to do what I love to do (writing and teaching) but now, I got both worlds at the same time and manages to balance my time with both of them. I am more relaxed nowadays than before and, I am very happy with the result. And, the good news is: you can do this too. Just find a niche for your talents, invest for it, make money out of it without leaving home so much.

Don't Forget To Have an Exclusive Time For Yourself Every Evening.

I find that it is so important to have a bit of time for myself even if it is only fifteen minutes. Make sure you put the kids early to bed every night. If possible, let them to sleep by 8:00 pm. Then, the world is now yours after that. Do what you love to do at these hours. Attend to your hobbies or you might just want to sit down and read. Whatever you do after the kids are asleep is your choice. Just make sure that it is not so rigorous that will make you tire more. Meditate. Sing. Enjoy.

Manage Your Anxiety

Managing the pressure and stress can really take its toll over time. I've found the following to be helpful tactics in relieving the anxiety that builds up as a single mom:

- Never forget to take vitamin supplements specially vitamin E. Eat a balanced diet and drink lots of water, milk and green tea.

- Listen to inspiring music. They could uplift your mood.

- Have time to exercise. A daily aerobics during the early hours of the morning will boost your energy throughout the day.

- Talk with other moms about the ups and downs of being a parent. Knowing that you're not the only one facing challenges as a parent can help reassure you and build up your own confidence.

- I prefer long hot shower and a glass of milk before sleeping. These will induce sleep and calm your nerves. For sleep is beneficial to pour health, it is required for us to have a great sleep of seven to eight hours per night.

Life can be hard sometimes and being a single mom is not an exception. In fact, we get it doubled. But, cheer up! Just look at the loving faces of your kids and these challenges will melt away. When you think of your kids first, balancing life at work and at home will be just an easy one. And even if they're not, you'll try to work it out.

Come on! We can do this! I have faith in all of us. We, single moms, can do anything for the kids. So, no matter how hard it is along the way, think of your kids always.

Make them as an inspiration and their love and adoration your fuel. Just thinking about them and their well-being will surely put a smile on your face and will make you strive more to both a great mom and a breadwinner again.

High regards and good luck!!

CHILDPROOFING THE HOME

2011-03-27T04:58:00.000-07:00

IS YOUR CHILD SAFE IN YOUR HOME?

Few kids will reach adult stage without bruises and bumps. A kid's behavior, wobbled coordination, and non-stop curiosity for the world  around them will ensure markets for kiddy designed bandages and create a  constant "Remember when..." stories for family reunions. But not all  kid's accidents are a laugh-about-it-later variety. some got injuries  serious enough to require medical attention. Almost emergencies in the  hospitals are accident-related and they occur mostly at home.

Keeping your child from accidents calls for an ounce of prevention, a  few pounds of education and pounds of supervision. The parents should  know how to make their houses safe and know how to teach kids to be  aware of the dangers and to be careful on some things in the house. It  takes a cautious parent to make a safe home. Prevention often simply  involves careful planning of your living to reduce the risk of  accidents.

First and foremost, one must be aware that there are different kinds of  hazards at home. From simple bumps and bruises to accidents like fire,  electrical, gas, and water related. Make today your starting point to go  around the house, check off the things pointed out in this article and  do something about them if necessary. That ten minutes or so could be  the most profitable you're likely to spend for some time.

Supervision is the key. Almost all accidents happen when the parents or  the babysitter are not paying attention to their charges. Almost all  types of accidents happen when the eyes are away from the kids. So watch  over them properly if you want to avoid mishaps. Although many learned  researchers talk about the psycho dynamics of accidents at home, there  is little doubt that most accidents are caused through carelessness and  thoughtlessness. Below are some important keys to remember in making  your house safe from accidents.

KITCHEN

Have cupboards that can easily be reached without having to stand on chairs or steps but are not low enough for toddlers could reach up.
Don't force open cans with fingers. Don't let children hold them too.
Never leave a flex overhanging from an electric kettle.
Teach children to respect kitchen machinery.
Use a brush and dustpan to sweep up broken glass or china and not with bear hands.
Put all sharp objects in drawers and hidden from children.
Don't overload sockets.
Never leave fat heating in a pan on the cooker unattended.
Never put water on a fat fire---put a lid on the pan or cover with a fire blanket.
Have a first aid kit handy.
Wipe all spills at once.
Turn handles of saucepans sideways.
Have a fire extinguisher or fire blanket handy and learn how to use it.
Check safety of plugs and wiring on domestic appliances.
Keep poisons, cleaning fluids and disinfectants high up and preferably locked.
Don't highly polish floors.

BATHROOM

Choose non-slip flooring
The heater should be high up on the wall or ceiling but not over bath.
Never leave children alone in the bath.
Flush all old medicines and those without labels down the lavatory.
Have a non-slip mat in the bath for the young and old.
Ban portable mains-operated electric appliances from the bathroom.
Have a proper razor socket only --- no other power outlets. Keep razors well out of children's reach.
Never block ventilator holes.
Run cold water before hot when filling bath.
Ask the Gas Board to service the water heater yearly.
Place medicine cupboard high on the wall so that children can't reach it.
Have a pull chord for light switch

SHED/GARAGE/WORKSHOP

Keep weed killer and other chemicals high up and out of reach.
Never use domestic containers (e.g. lemonade bottles) for weed killer.
Use ramps for cars and not piles of bricks.
Work in a good light, preferably without kids around.
Never run an engine in a closed garage.

GARDENS

Keep septic tank well-covered.
Don't leave garden tools lying around.
Supervise children all the time on swings.
Make sure that ladders have a firm footing.
Never throw inflammable liquids, aerosol cans, old and damaged batteries on to fires and put them out before going to bed.
Teach kids to recognize poisonous trees and shrubs.
Never leave mowers unattended when the engine is running or the electric mower is still plugged in and keep flex over your shoulders, out of anybody's way when using a power hedge clipper.
Keep ponds fenced or covered if you have young children and teach everybody to keep away from the swimming pool if they're alone. Keep it covered if you have young children.

LIVING ROOM

Don't leave small objects lying around with small children about.
Keep all plastic bags, pins, needles, and scissors away from kids.
Keep fires guarded.
Never leave big windows open without safety catch where young children play.
Replace flexes immediately if they era at all chafed or worn.
Unplug appliances when out or when going to bed.
Never take the back off the TV or obstruct the ventilation slots.
Put electric flexes where people won't trip over them but not under the carpets.

BEDROOMS/HALL/STAIRS/PASSAGES

Put safety catches to all windows above ground level.
Use safety gates on the stairs with very young kids about.
Good lighting is essential.
Never leave anything on the stairs, and make sure that the carpet is well placed and has no holes in it.
Keep a hand free to hold a banister or rail.
Don't leave sleeping pills by the bed.

Lastly, emergency numbers must be posted near the telephone. And, make sure you learn how to apply basic first aid procedures. Local governments and private sectors usually hold some trainings in your area. Don't forget to register the next time they conduct some trainings, OK? Thinking about safety can't start too young. If you have little kids, you have moral and certain legal responsibilities to protect them from danger. It's never too soon to start planning for safety. Start right now.